nana is so calm, obviously because she've been through lots of baggage thru out the journey bab membesarkan anak. comes to show she's a very attentive parent. mom goals :)
Yesss. I am a gomen teacher. Majority teacher marah2. I come to school, I smile to all kids. Not to be the most penyayang teacher, but i want the kids to feel loved, all of them get my attention. If i can be more than one, i want to reach each and everyone of them. P/s: not english teacher😂
Suka sangat podcast Nana & Dahlia since ep 1 till today..all current discussion yg sgt matang..as parents benar keep support & encourage anak2 to progress positively..kita mmg cant sesekali ubah mindset masyarakat kita tetapi dengan ilmu Allah beri pada kita, we could continue explain to our children yg mana correct dan mana salah..sekarang zaman majority normalise perkara yang salah, kesian anak2 kita yg keliru..setuju Nana & Dahlia everything starts from home..one thing to share, parents invest education untuk anak2..knowledge..afterall anak2 amanah kita pada Allah, education will always be the best life investment back to Allah 😍
I belum jadi ibu. Tapi listening to this podcast made me appreciate my mom far more better. It made me understand and finally know yg susahnya jadi mak nak membesarkan anak2 and how much moms wanted the best-est for their kids.
Ye btl. It's complicated sekolah skrg ni.. Sy mcm Dahlia juga, tp skrg da bljr utk let go. Haha. Dlm kita x kisah (sbb we know there's bigger world out there); kita terjerat juga. Partly bcz kita x nmpk the other way tu. Kita hny dihidangkn sistem yg sedia ada ; and we thought xpe, I can protect my child wpun dia dlm sistem ni. But somehow, it will make us parent yg cm eh ye tak ni. Apa aku patut buat? Sentiasa dlm dilema Setuju dgn part: since kita xde cara lain, tpksa ltk anak dlm sistem; we have to make sure he/she is strong to face it. They should know, sekolah ni bukan the only world they can turn to (the friends and all). Have to make sure they have another world they're in charged of, and can freely be themselves. And that's is our (parents) job. Kita x boleh serahkn the power to the school and tgok je apa akan jd. We are the other world
Dkt sekolah utk anak2 belajar akademik. So kita support dia. Kalau tak straight A ok je. Tp utk dia survive result akademik tu perlu bagus juga. And utk EQ, parents yg perlu educate di rumah. Ajar cr berfikir, bersosial, behave, tapi kalau parents pun dkt rumah asyik tgk HP and serah semua pada cikgu disekolah and sistem pendidikan, ssh juga laa.
Betul apa yang Nana and Dahlia cakap, bila parent bg ruang utk anak2 belajar buat keputusan, senang dorang survive in future. Mcm my sisters and I, kami perlu buat decision sndr sbb parent tak sekolah tinggi, tapi parent tak pernah paksa utk kami score, just go to school, belajar bkn utk score, tapi utk socialise.
Teringat zaman sekolah. Dulu masa sekolah rendah sampai Form 3 i masuk ke kelas pertama & kelas RK (Rancangan Khas). Siapa yg masuk kelas RK ni mmg akan dpt layanan istimewa sbb kononnya budak2 semua pandai. I jgk seorang pengawas sekolah dari Darjah 2 sampai Form 5. Tp masa habis PMR, i mmg taknak masuk sekolah asrama & pilih utk continue sekolah harian yg dkt dgn rumah. Masa tu ada 2 aliran kelas sahaja utk masuk ke Form 4 : kelas Science & kelas Sastera. I taknak masuk kelas Sains sbb i tak suka Sains, Bio, Fizik and so on. I sampai jumpa Pengetua Sekolah utk mtk tukar kelas. Tp pengetua tak bagi tukar dgn alasan i dari kelas pertama, pengawas sekolah, and takkan i nak downgrade ke kelas sastera. Mentality cikgu2 mesti ckp siapa masuk kelas Sastera budak tak pandai, siapa masuk kelas Sains dia budak pandai. Hampir bergaduh tau dgn pengetua masa tu. Pengetua ckp kalau taknak jgk, i kena masuk sekolah lain. So i mengalah continue je masuk kelas Sains. Belajar pon sbb terpaksa utk score dlm SPM. Hakikatnya i lebih cenderung utk minat subjek Maths & Add Maths. So sepanjang Form 4 & 5 tu i belajar je subjek2 Sains ni sbb “terpaksa”. Habis je SPM, i tukar bidang utk sambung belajar bidang perakaunan. Alhamdulillah sampai sekarang i bekerja dlm bidang yg i minat sangat. Being as an Accountant is always my passion ❤
Ye..sebab kan system la saya as mom rse pressure 🥲 sbb nye anak ikt tahun bru umo 6 tahun next year tp da kne msuk darjah 1…then as mom trs rse blh ke anak aku nie kdng termarah dye sbb buat homework xfokus pdhal he still a kids 🥲…semoga saya jumpa la jalan yg terbaik utk anak2 saya..
Setuju.. what ever we do. The system is there. Setuju dgan dahlia.. formal education perlu sebab mmg the kids one day akan juga lalu and feel the system. The skill and what not.. depend to the parent how nak feed the kids.
No worries dahlia, still think youre on the right track. Somehow youre not alone. Sbb tu i send my kid integrasi just one session and school ada placement test so that atleast cikgu2 ne x label anak2 ni pandai x pandai. Considering placement dah buat so semua anak2 inshaAllah almost at same level. Not every school cikgu mcmtu and at the same time bukan semua kid sama penerimaan mereka. At the end of the day, you know whats best for you and your kid. Thats why we send them interesting camps, tusyen 1-2 subject perlu sahaja, extra classes swimming, golf, ngaji etc so that dia ada join non academic enjoyable activities. Betul kita yang ambil anta ne pun sangat penatttt huhu In shaa Allah will be worth it.
I very agree if u not send your kid to gomen school. Seriously.huhu.. So many activities, (competition, camping daerah negeri, AJK program, training etc) many teacher cant commit to teach in class, substitute teacher will enter, kids were neglected etc.
i saw a video (lupa kat mana & siapa), where this guest said. Children didn't know what they want, thats why we as a parent must decide for them during those primary & secondary school so that they themselves can later finally know how to make a decision what they want to do next. Yang ni saya setuju, sebab saya adalah dalam golongan anak2 yang membesar dengan tak tahu apa yang saya nak jadi/buat/kerja bila besar nanti. Im kind of follow the flow type of person. Those exercises, homeworks, scoldings are to train the children that that's life yang mereka akan face when they enter adulthood. Adulthood is hard, jadi tak boleh dimanjakan sangat ketika mereka budak2. As for those subjects yang tak penting untuk exams, my POV adalah, tanpa exams, mana mungkin anak2 akan fokus untuk belajar. Sedangkan each subjects ada reasoning behind it why we study it. Memorising for the exams melatih otak kita skill untuk menghafal.
Other POV, anak2 kena reti membaca sebelum masuk sekolah. As much as we dont find it important tapi kanak2 yang rasa ketinggalan compared to other kids, akan mempunyai low self confident & eventually tak suka nak belajar
Sekolah kebangsaan sama je mana2..mcm biasala 1st time struggle sket nk register etc..masuk sbp/mrsm is different thing, nothing to do with location sekolah (kebangsaan gomen)..klu pandai n score masuk jugak..
In overall i like nana punya debate. Make sense. Tp satu la, ank aku pun sekolah kebangsaan jugak, tp xde la trauma takut mcm ank nana ms sekolah kebangsaan. Mgkn depends on cikgu or sekolah kot. Aku pulak sk dgn sekolah keb, sbb competition lebih tinggi, tp xbermaksud aku pressure ank aku utk follow and highly compete in school, apa2 pun akan berbalik pd parents. Kita yg akan bg support, yg encourage dorg. If they lose, or down sbb x dpt achieve anything, kita as parents yg kene bg moral support utk dorg. Sbnrnya xkira pegi skolah mana pun, tp role parents tu adalah lebih penting. Sorry just my two cents 😉 Lg satu nk tnya, kalo nk masuk uni local x perlu ada spm ke? Setau aku perlu atleast subject wajib
Betul.. sekolah pertama anak anak adalah di rumah.. at the end kita parents yg corak n guide our kids kan.. ❤ moga kita dpt jadi the best parents to our kids ❤ Aamin..
Anak anak di sekolah memang perlu “bertanding” untuk menonjol di mata cikgu. Kalau setakat anak murid si biasa ni cikgu jarang nak pandang (tak semua cikgu), acara sukaneka di sekolah darjah 1 pon cikgu pilih siapa nak bagi masuk. Padahal sukaneka je, kesian anak murid nak berlari sama sama dengan kawan kawan yang lain hanya dapat tengok di tepi padang. Pressure untuk makpak dan masa yang sama ter-pressure si anak sekali. Darjah 1 sekarang dah tak fun macam darjah 1 yang dulu.
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nana is so calm, obviously because she've been through lots of baggage thru out the journey bab membesarkan anak. comes to show she's a very attentive parent. mom goals :)
Yesss. I am a gomen teacher.
Majority teacher marah2.
I come to school,
I smile to all kids.
Not to be the most penyayang teacher, but i want the kids to feel loved, all of them get my attention. If i can be more than one, i want to reach each and everyone of them.
P/s: not english teacher😂
thankyou !
Suka sangat podcast Nana & Dahlia since ep 1 till today..all current discussion yg sgt matang..as parents benar keep support & encourage anak2 to progress positively..kita mmg cant sesekali ubah mindset masyarakat kita tetapi dengan ilmu Allah beri pada kita, we could continue explain to our children yg mana correct dan mana salah..sekarang zaman majority normalise perkara yang salah, kesian anak2 kita yg keliru..setuju Nana & Dahlia everything starts from home..one thing to share, parents invest education untuk anak2..knowledge..afterall anak2 amanah kita pada Allah, education will always be the best life investment back to Allah 😍
I belum jadi ibu. Tapi listening to this podcast made me appreciate my mom far more better. It made me understand and finally know yg susahnya jadi mak nak membesarkan anak2 and how much moms wanted the best-est for their kids.
Ye btl. It's complicated sekolah skrg ni.. Sy mcm Dahlia juga, tp skrg da bljr utk let go. Haha. Dlm kita x kisah (sbb we know there's bigger world out there); kita terjerat juga. Partly bcz kita x nmpk the other way tu. Kita hny dihidangkn sistem yg sedia ada ; and we thought xpe, I can protect my child wpun dia dlm sistem ni. But somehow, it will make us parent yg cm eh ye tak ni. Apa aku patut buat? Sentiasa dlm dilema
Setuju dgn part: since kita xde cara lain, tpksa ltk anak dlm sistem; we have to make sure he/she is strong to face it. They should know, sekolah ni bukan the only world they can turn to (the friends and all). Have to make sure they have another world they're in charged of, and can freely be themselves. And that's is our (parents) job.
Kita x boleh serahkn the power to the school and tgok je apa akan jd. We are the other world
Dkt sekolah utk anak2 belajar akademik. So kita support dia. Kalau tak straight A ok je. Tp utk dia survive result akademik tu perlu bagus juga. And utk EQ, parents yg perlu educate di rumah. Ajar cr berfikir, bersosial, behave, tapi kalau parents pun dkt rumah asyik tgk HP and serah semua pada cikgu disekolah and sistem pendidikan, ssh juga laa.
Betul apa yang Nana and Dahlia cakap, bila parent bg ruang utk anak2 belajar buat keputusan, senang dorang survive in future.
Mcm my sisters and I, kami perlu buat decision sndr sbb parent tak sekolah tinggi, tapi parent tak pernah paksa utk kami score, just go to school, belajar bkn utk score, tapi utk socialise.
Teringat zaman sekolah. Dulu masa sekolah rendah sampai Form 3 i masuk ke kelas pertama & kelas RK (Rancangan Khas). Siapa yg masuk kelas RK ni mmg akan dpt layanan istimewa sbb kononnya budak2 semua pandai. I jgk seorang pengawas sekolah dari Darjah 2 sampai Form 5. Tp masa habis PMR, i mmg taknak masuk sekolah asrama & pilih utk continue sekolah harian yg dkt dgn rumah. Masa tu ada 2 aliran kelas sahaja utk masuk ke Form 4 : kelas Science & kelas Sastera. I taknak masuk kelas Sains sbb i tak suka Sains, Bio, Fizik and so on. I sampai jumpa Pengetua Sekolah utk mtk tukar kelas. Tp pengetua tak bagi tukar dgn alasan i dari kelas pertama, pengawas sekolah, and takkan i nak downgrade ke kelas sastera. Mentality cikgu2 mesti ckp siapa masuk kelas Sastera budak tak pandai, siapa masuk kelas Sains dia budak pandai. Hampir bergaduh tau dgn pengetua masa tu. Pengetua ckp kalau taknak jgk, i kena masuk sekolah lain. So i mengalah continue je masuk kelas Sains. Belajar pon sbb terpaksa utk score dlm SPM. Hakikatnya i lebih cenderung utk minat subjek Maths & Add Maths. So sepanjang Form 4 & 5 tu i belajar je subjek2 Sains ni sbb “terpaksa”. Habis je SPM, i tukar bidang utk sambung belajar bidang perakaunan. Alhamdulillah sampai sekarang i bekerja dlm bidang yg i minat sangat. Being as an Accountant is always my passion ❤
Ye..sebab kan system la saya as mom rse pressure 🥲 sbb nye anak ikt tahun bru umo 6 tahun next year tp da kne msuk darjah 1…then as mom trs rse blh ke anak aku nie kdng termarah dye sbb buat homework xfokus pdhal he still a kids 🥲…semoga saya jumpa la jalan yg terbaik utk anak2 saya..
Setuju.. what ever we do. The system is there. Setuju dgan dahlia.. formal education perlu sebab mmg the kids one day akan juga lalu and feel the system. The skill and what not.. depend to the parent how nak feed the kids.
No worries dahlia, still think youre on the right track. Somehow youre not alone. Sbb tu i send my kid integrasi just one session and school ada placement test so that atleast cikgu2 ne x label anak2 ni pandai x pandai. Considering placement dah buat so semua anak2 inshaAllah almost at same level. Not every school cikgu mcmtu and at the same time bukan semua kid sama penerimaan mereka. At the end of the day, you know whats best for you and your kid. Thats why we send them interesting camps, tusyen 1-2 subject perlu sahaja, extra classes swimming, golf, ngaji etc so that dia ada join non academic enjoyable activities. Betul kita yang ambil anta ne pun sangat penatttt huhu In shaa Allah will be worth it.
I very agree if u not send your kid to gomen school. Seriously.huhu..
So many activities, (competition, camping daerah negeri, AJK program, training etc)
many teacher cant commit to teach in class, substitute teacher will enter, kids were neglected etc.
Suke gile Nana been a fan since AF love her thought process and personality
Anak saya 5 tahun, dilema sama dengan Dahlia. tapi setuju ngan Nana.thank you for this discussion. saya sama sebijik pemikiran mcm Dahlia.
Agree with Nana.
i saw a video (lupa kat mana & siapa), where this guest said. Children didn't know what they want, thats why we as a parent must decide for them during those primary & secondary school so that they themselves can later finally know how to make a decision what they want to do next. Yang ni saya setuju, sebab saya adalah dalam golongan anak2 yang membesar dengan tak tahu apa yang saya nak jadi/buat/kerja bila besar nanti. Im kind of follow the flow type of person. Those exercises, homeworks, scoldings are to train the children that that's life yang mereka akan face when they enter adulthood. Adulthood is hard, jadi tak boleh dimanjakan sangat ketika mereka budak2.
As for those subjects yang tak penting untuk exams, my POV adalah, tanpa exams, mana mungkin anak2 akan fokus untuk belajar. Sedangkan each subjects ada reasoning behind it why we study it. Memorising for the exams melatih otak kita skill untuk menghafal.
Other POV, anak2 kena reti membaca sebelum masuk sekolah. As much as we dont find it important tapi kanak2 yang rasa ketinggalan compared to other kids, akan mempunyai low self confident & eventually tak suka nak belajar
Sekolah kebangsaan sama je mana2..mcm biasala 1st time struggle sket nk register etc..masuk sbp/mrsm is different thing, nothing to do with location sekolah (kebangsaan gomen)..klu pandai n score masuk jugak..
Ceritanya bkn semua org nk hntr mrsm semua tu. Asrama. Itu another hurdle plk utk sekolah menengah
setuju, plus kita tak tahu entah2 eventually kita atau anak taknak pon masuk asrama.
In overall i like nana punya debate. Make sense. Tp satu la, ank aku pun sekolah kebangsaan jugak, tp xde la trauma takut mcm ank nana ms sekolah kebangsaan. Mgkn depends on cikgu or sekolah kot. Aku pulak sk dgn sekolah keb, sbb competition lebih tinggi, tp xbermaksud aku pressure ank aku utk follow and highly compete in school, apa2 pun akan berbalik pd parents. Kita yg akan bg support, yg encourage dorg. If they lose, or down sbb x dpt achieve anything, kita as parents yg kene bg moral support utk dorg. Sbnrnya xkira pegi skolah mana pun, tp role parents tu adalah lebih penting. Sorry just my two cents 😉
Lg satu nk tnya, kalo nk masuk uni local x perlu ada spm ke? Setau aku perlu atleast subject wajib
utk uni local kna spm, ada je budak sekolah tahfiz, masa 17, prepare utk ambik spm, boleh je further study.
Betul.. sekolah pertama anak anak adalah di rumah.. at the end kita parents yg corak n guide our kids kan.. ❤ moga kita dpt jadi the best parents to our kids ❤ Aamin..
agree...darjah 4 pun dah sejarah...rase mcm stress plak aku as parent
My son baru 2 y/o pun dah fikir jgk tau... istress😂 me exactly like dahlia, and nana knock some sense in me😆
doakan saya kak nana dpt masukkan anak ke sri aria
Anak anak di sekolah memang perlu “bertanding” untuk menonjol di mata cikgu. Kalau setakat anak murid si biasa ni cikgu jarang nak pandang (tak semua cikgu), acara sukaneka di sekolah darjah 1 pon cikgu pilih siapa nak bagi masuk. Padahal sukaneka je, kesian anak murid nak berlari sama sama dengan kawan kawan yang lain hanya dapat tengok di tepi padang. Pressure untuk makpak dan masa yang sama ter-pressure si anak sekali. Darjah 1 sekarang dah tak fun macam darjah 1 yang dulu.
I feel u dahlia
Love you Dahlia, but maybe you need to chill a bit on cutting Nana when she's still talking 😅 train of thought boleh terganggu bila interrupted.
xde exam x belajor ler nnt
Nana, anak i baru 4 thn tau. Takut by the time dia 7 yo, sri aria limitkan budak nk masuk sekolah tu pulak 😂
Dorang ada kinder kaizen.. insyaAllah ada tempat nnt.. hehehe.. Dr putri trying hard to expend..
Macam macam perangai anak org kaya ni