Relationship Meditation: Third Party Destroyer

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  • @IAm_DylanJames
    @IAm_DylanJames  2 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    Hello everybody, welcome to this daily meditation for you to relax, drop any sort of jealously, worry, doubt or fear. It is recommended that you do this meditation either sitting or lying down, however doing it while completing other activities is 100% fine too. We’re going to begin by taking a few deep breaths, and will end this meditation by going over statements that remind you how amazing, desired, desirable and fearless you are.
    Lets begin
    Breath 1
    I am never f*cking intimidated
    Breath 2
    I am fearless
    Breath 3
    I am the f*cking prize
    Breath 4
    I am f*cking secure with myself
    Breath 5
    Okay, now I am going to run you through some statements that I suggest you repeat with me. For the best results, try to visualize these statements with your eyes closed. I will leave enough time after each statement for you to repeat them.
    I am the f*cking best
    I am the competition
    They can never threaten my relationship
    Nobody can take what is mine
    I am never f*cking messy
    I never react or doubt my worth
    My person wants me and only me
    My person can’t get enough of me
    My person finds me addictive
    My person loves how confident I am
    My person is only turned on by me
    My person thinks about me more than anyone else
    I am the f*cking priority
    I am never f*cking insecure
    I am never f*cking doubting my worth
    I am never f*cking doubting my value
    What I want, wants me
    I am f*cking chosen
    I always get what I want
    I am on the f*cking pedestal
    I am the hottest
    I am the prettiest
    I am the sexiest
    I am the smartest
    I never get messy or immature
    They’re out of their mind if they think they can intimidate me
    They’re out of their mind if they think they can steal from me
    They’re nothing compared to me
    They’re not a threat
    They’re a joke
    I am the realest
    I don’t give a f*ck about any third party
    I am loved, adored, chosen and respected
    I claim what I am and it is what it is
    I don’t care if people don’t like it
    What I want is mine
    Alright loves, we’re going to end the meditation here. Just as a reminder: never argue your worth or value. If there are third party problems going on in your life, go deeper into your self worth, value and self-concept. Do not chase, do not see them as a threat, make them absolutely nothing by focusing on you. You are the prize, and you need stop reacting to this clown behavior by remembering who the f*ck you are.
    Have a beautiful day babe

    • @goddessvibes2345
      @goddessvibes2345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Much appreciated Dylan! ❤️
      I be like.. third party? What’s one of those? Sorry can’t relate 😜

    • @minnievaughn3359
      @minnievaughn3359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you Dylan 😘

    • @teneciah
      @teneciah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @deborahg427
      @deborahg427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This was absolutely badass!!! No third party here but I will still be using your meditation 🧘‍♀️ daily! Thank you Dylan! ✌️

    • @u311165
      @u311165 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤗 omg we Love you Dylan 😁

  • @AlMoSiCe210
    @AlMoSiCe210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +670

    I created a 3P situation due to compounding issues in my life. So I look at 3P like this: "I brought you into this world and I can for damn sure take you out."

    • @ooopsitwasntme3531
      @ooopsitwasntme3531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @Christina Smeltzer same im gonna start saying “bye Felicia”

    • @sumera10
      @sumera10 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​​@Christina Smeltzer hey! I am really confused . should I stay in contact with my sp if he has reunited with his Ex. we have some serious arguments and fights and now he is with his ex again. I blocked him but after 15 days of no contact, I am missing him and crave to talk to him. I feel emotionally stable. but I want to stay in touch with him should I do that or not please suggest to me

    • @Dianavee
      @Dianavee 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for this!! I feel the same

    • @jamarisilva222
      @jamarisilva222 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yassss 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I keep telling myself that too !

    • @jamarisilva222
      @jamarisilva222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@sumera10 I definitely wouldn’t contact him. It doesn’t sound like your stabilized in your emotions and staying in contact will only trigger you right now: so like Dylan says work on your self concept focus on you for a little while. Trust me your SP isn’t going to go anywhere while you work on loving yourself and showing yourself all the attention and love you deserve he will have no choice but to reflect that back to you.

  • @the_hype_sub
    @the_hype_sub ปีที่แล้ว +141

    A little success story to encourage you guys!!! My SP developed a crush on a girl he met online - they spent 4 months talking online and eventually she left her husband to come and be with him. All this time it looked like this is the love of his life. He made me pick up everything from his place and leave a day after my birthday because he was waiting for this girl to come. I started listening to this meditation along with "Limitless Love". Each time I would listen to this - my favorite part was "they are not a threat - they are a joke". We went almost no contact with my SP (he was texting me but I wasnt in the mood to talk). Guess what - she was literally a joke. This girl arrived and she looked or behaved nothing like a girl he thought she is. Till the point that its actually ridiculous. I couldnt believe it when I heard it and when I realised the scale of this joke. Cant stop laughing still!!! He also realised his feelings for me and started missing me a lot and regretting everything he did. He wants to work on himself for me now. Anyway guys. It took less than a month (around 21-24 days) to get rid of third party and improve the situation! Dont give up!

    • @MissBluebirddays
      @MissBluebirddays 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I love this for you! 😄🥰

    • @nikitalondon4148
      @nikitalondon4148 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I love your success story, this is encouraging for my situation. I am not giving up. 3P has to go!!

    • @Irreplaceable7778
      @Irreplaceable7778 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You give me so much hope 🙏🏽

    • @matthewisthebest8152
      @matthewisthebest8152 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nikitalondon4148what 3p your irreplaceable

    • @TheNairsh
      @TheNairsh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Im so happy for you. ❤Sending love

  • @RachelSullivan73
    @RachelSullivan73 2 ปีที่แล้ว +617

    A third party is simply your worries and fears manifesting. Thanks for all your hard work, Dylan.

    • @mswhunter118
      @mswhunter118 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That is so true!

    • @heyitssaba
      @heyitssaba ปีที่แล้ว +10

      omg i just came to the same conclusion. Fear & Doubt are THE third party

  • @garyely6081
    @garyely6081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +538

    Went from a so so relationship to none existant. Then started the limitless meditation and got contact and hanging out. Then found out a third party was involved. Started this meditation and limitless again and 3rd party is gone and we are going camping this weekend. All this was within 2 weeks

    • @PinkPeach888
      @PinkPeach888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wow good job!

    • @blanca6419
      @blanca6419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @GaryEly how did you do this??? Please advise? Should i listen to this at night ?

    • @garyely6081
      @garyely6081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@blanca6419 I don't. I listen to this one during the day. Then limitless 8 hour at night. At first with limitless I kept waking up and etc. Last night was the first time I slept all of the way through.

    • @blanca6419
      @blanca6419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@garyely6081 well I listen to this at night as well as the limitless meditation for Dylan James and I kept on having dreams of my person. What do you advice? And how many times a day do you listen to this?

    • @garyely6081
      @garyely6081 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@blanca6419 honestly several. But I also do affirmations during the day as well. Just remember no matter what you are seeing stay the course.

  • @livbeyond
    @livbeyond 2 ปีที่แล้ว +650

    Don't even have a third party per se - but still find this really necessary! Sometimes we can be in our own way - our negativity or lack of self-worth can be our own 3rd party. Thank you, Dylan, for your light! Sending you only love and good vibes! 🙌✨💖

    • @NJay2000
      @NJay2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      💯

    • @AD-xf9wf
      @AD-xf9wf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Exactly my thoughts and my plan to go for this

    • @volcano8108
      @volcano8108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🔥

    • @oanaduta2569
      @oanaduta2569 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯👍

    • @christie2031
      @christie2031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here!

  • @sherontia5069
    @sherontia5069 2 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    The biggest.3rd party is our doubts and fears!! Love this!

  • @Tresjoliecouronne
    @Tresjoliecouronne ปีที่แล้ว +96

    This meditation bought him back better than he ever was. That man is obsessed. Thank you Dylan ❤

    • @Irreplaceable7778
      @Irreplaceable7778 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Any advice?

    • @matthewisthebest8152
      @matthewisthebest8152 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@Irreplaceable7778literally take all focus off anything outside of you. Really knuckle down on doing the inner work! Once you start to shed the layers and the love and light starts to become your dominant state wow get ready ❤️

    • @STheRoyal
      @STheRoyal 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@matthewisthebest8152I know I am commenting now but how did you shift all your focus on you?

    • @STheRoyal
      @STheRoyal 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Can you please tell how you handled the feelings and how you did the inner work .? Did you react ? I mean is it better to mention or just ignore.Thankou ❤

  • @peachyqueen4963
    @peachyqueen4963 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Looking at the 3rd party as your negative beliefs, doubts and fears is actually a game changer! Amazing 🙌🏼💗

    • @5dsunflower
      @5dsunflower 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love this! Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @doll729
    @doll729 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    This meditation definitely worked with my ex-boyfriend. He broke up with the third party and continued to win me back like crazy!!! Too bad I didn't want him anymore.

  • @mschkzmn
    @mschkzmn ปีที่แล้ว +88

    it took me 2 weeks to manifest the 3P away, be consistent guys!!

    • @maliaimaniix333
      @maliaimaniix333 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      how you did that?

    • @mschkzmn
      @mschkzmn ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@maliaimaniix333 I just listened to this one everyday several times for about two weeks and also when I got triggered + I robotically affirmed that I am my SP's only girl

    • @ahmedkheri9430
      @ahmedkheri9430 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you this gives me so much hope ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

    • @mschkzmn
      @mschkzmn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ahmedkheri9430 I still listen to it (also at night) because I am a really anxious person and it works like magic! let me know if you need more advices

    • @greenpath26
      @greenpath26 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@maliaimaniix333it’s quite obvious right, by listening to this for two weeks?

  • @prettyinblack4557
    @prettyinblack4557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    third party is officially gone 6 hours later!

  • @Fufu487
    @Fufu487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    He texted me while listening to this, though we are in daily communication. I was repeating with RAMPAGE level conviction because that's mood today. This pesky 3P needs to leave now. Thank you, Dylan.

    • @MeLissa-qz5nr
      @MeLissa-qz5nr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Same thing happened, we are also in daily communication and he messaged me during this video which mine usually don't message at this time of day.

    • @boldy_beautiful0119
      @boldy_beautiful0119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      What third party?! 😚😚

    • @brandiecarter9130
      @brandiecarter9130 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@boldy_beautiful0119yessss!! 😂

    • @matthewisthebest8152
      @matthewisthebest8152 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MeLissa-qz5nrblock lol what I did need time and space to move away from old story 😅

  • @kendalwaddell3748
    @kendalwaddell3748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    I would love an 8 hour version of affirmations like this. There is no third-party however I need to strengthen my self-concept around knowing my worth.

    • @mahekchavan7148
      @mahekchavan7148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Just loop it, press the 3 dots

    • @kryscarson5560
      @kryscarson5560 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mahekchavan7148. What 3 dots?

  • @danitoscano100
    @danitoscano100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    I’ve been listening this daily affirmations for about 5 days & literally I can feel myself behaving differently, the way that I speak, act and think is completely different, however there’s moments where some intrusive thoughts comes around but I immediately switch it off for good ones like Dylan says: I am prioritize, I am the prettiest, the hottest, the sexiest, and the smartest, everything is about mindset, also I can see small changes in my SP. I’ll keep listening this meditation everyday cause it really works. 💕😩

  • @MandyJRoss
    @MandyJRoss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    If you're reading this I'm praying something amazing happens for you today.❤🙏🏼

    • @wintermonroe2894
      @wintermonroe2894 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alhumdulillah Thank you sweets!! I receive that!!
      And same to you! 🙏💕 @Mandy J Ross

    • @MandyJRoss
      @MandyJRoss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@wintermonroe2894 Aw thanks darling.💖You got this and we are the Ultimate.👑🙌🏼💕

    • @ScorpioGlow
      @ScorpioGlow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you and same to you❤️

    • @lorikeeley8611
      @lorikeeley8611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes and ditto God, ty

    • @smartsavvyandloved2095
      @smartsavvyandloved2095 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same to you 💖

  • @MissBluebirddays
    @MissBluebirddays 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    This swearing rampage absolutely RESONATES with my baddie energy to a tee, I love this sooo much 😂❤

  • @hollyjames1349
    @hollyjames1349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    As an Italian New Yorker I LOVEEEE that you’re cursing in these videos 😂😂 this is literally how I say everything so it feels way more natural

  • @JoseEduardo1594-
    @JoseEduardo1594- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I’ve done this a few times and third parties are already being exterminateddd, this works!

    • @aratag.9380
      @aratag.9380 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤟🏾🤟🏾 of course they are.

  • @morganshepherd4757
    @morganshepherd4757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    This is the single most powerful meditation I've ever heard. Even the use of the strong language is powerful! I can't thank you enough for creating what is now going to be a part of my daily practice - not just for 3P situations but to raise my self concept in all aspects of my life. ✨✨✨

  • @ultrqvoidasmr
    @ultrqvoidasmr ปีที่แล้ว +19

    i have been using this daily during the day 1-3 times depending on how much time i have on my hands with the limitless 8 hour affirmations at night when i sleep and boy have i noticed a lot of changes in myself. i noticed i feel more positive, in a idgaf mood, feel like im above everyone else and that im literally so perfect i can pull anyone. i don’t worry about 3p and im not anxious about her. i won’t say the old story but basically my sp who is my ex talked to someone but got rejected but still likes her and the party i went to a couple weeks ago he was there with her saying she’s hot blah blah which made me spiral. but the next day i stood my ground and listened to dylans limitless affirmations and this one and i honestly felt like a new person.

  • @truelj8560
    @truelj8560 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This is amazing. Since listening to this I have no reaction to my 3D circumstances. Thank you

  • @sangeethaaa3105
    @sangeethaaa3105 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Tell me why I literally laughed midway through the meditation when Dylan said "They are a joke" Damn lol they really are a joke🤣😂

  • @markusmuller7070
    @markusmuller7070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    That clown behavior really got me 🤡. I appreciate this raw attitude in the meditation. Exactly how I talk to myself when I wanna hype myself up. This is just perfekt 🙏🏻

    • @nidaj5797
      @nidaj5797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same 3d got to me a couple of minutes ago after getting triggered about what my person said even though it wasnt bad I just expected them to say they were gonna be with a 3p because of old cycles like that but then I persisted in knowing my worth and listening to this I feel so much better and been getting major movement in the 3d😭

    • @markusmuller7070
      @markusmuller7070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@nidaj5797 awesome happy to hear that 💪🏻 we‘re all gonna make it

  • @americanpatriot1717
    @americanpatriot1717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    So beautiful and perfect for self confidence whether there is a 3rd party or not, I just assume there isn’t and I am the only goddess queen he’s ever desired and needed because I remember he told me so! I know I’m a one in a lifetime woman! This is perfect! Thank you with all my heart Dylan! YOU are precious! 💞💐🌹

    • @abddullahiharuna2915
      @abddullahiharuna2915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back....

    • @abddullahiharuna2915
      @abddullahiharuna2915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      十2349020112341🪴🪴❄❄🔮適港, 港决很高興***..

    • @abddullahiharuna2915
      @abddullahiharuna2915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      十2349020112341🪴🪴❄❄🔮適港, 港决很高興***..

  • @MyTouchOfMagic
    @MyTouchOfMagic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I am in LOVE with this meditation. OHMYGOD it’s so perfect. Though hearing Dylan cursing has me giggling and kind of distracted. It’s honestly the best mediation I’ve heard in ages and I feel SOOO freaking good. I’ve only listened it once and on the way to work. But I feel like a freaking GODDESS ain’t NO ONE gonna fuck up my day!! THANK YOU DYLAN!!!

  • @rose.loves.1
    @rose.loves.1 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    As you start to know what you create, you grow disinterested in anxiety because you realize paying attention to it, is not how you create things. You forgive yourself for paying attention to bad, and you shift what you need to shift in your mindset to pay attention to good.

  • @jillkx
    @jillkx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Personally I also think the strong language really helps to add emotion which is important as we want to do it with conviction 😍👍🏼

  • @Valo1.x.1
    @Valo1.x.1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Aff: 3rd parties are inexistent. Absolutely cero 3rd parties. Thank you 💫🖤

  • @memoona853
    @memoona853 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I've been listening to many meditations about self worth including this one. And now the third party is like stalking me!?? Trying to compete with me or figure out what I'm up to😭 I'm like girl stop! Have that man of yours. You can keep him. I'm in love with myself now. Not fighting for any man. Ever. I'm the prize. Not him.

  • @morbidmorgan4049
    @morbidmorgan4049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    slowly working everyday! have completely gotten rid of two of the smaller third parties. now just time for the main third party! they have already been talking less and less ❣️ thank you dylan for helping me remember the bad ass bitch i always was. it’s still a work in process but seeing these little victories makes me feel so fierce! will continue to listen everyday and work on myself! much love !

    • @morbidmorgan4049
      @morbidmorgan4049 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      update! got rid of all 3 separate third parties and we got back together yesterday! did all of this in 3 weeks !!! :) thanks dylan!

    • @dedikurniawan5058
      @dedikurniawan5058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow so happy to hear that. I can wait of my success story as well. I know he’s mine and my husband. I believe that !

    • @fbmbassist
      @fbmbassist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did you mainly just listen to this recording daily?

    • @dreamkitty
      @dreamkitty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      3 3rd parties? sure you don’t just want someone that actually wants you ?

    • @matthewisthebest8152
      @matthewisthebest8152 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@morbidmorgan4049congrats

  • @Erika-ml2zw
    @Erika-ml2zw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Dear Dylan, you changed my life! Amazing!
    I would never thought that I would feel free from relationship anxiety. Confidence and self believe is the key!
    My SP came back.
    Please tell me, is it normal that I don’t feel the same for him anymore? It’s like, my feelings for him it’s not that intense.
    Thank you so much everything you do for us!❤️

    • @priyacutinha5011
      @priyacutinha5011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yes it is normal, You might have been holding onto him because you lacked confidence and didn't know your worth, Now that you know that u are worthy and confident, You realize that you worth more than what you are asking. Take care

    • @Erika-ml2zw
      @Erika-ml2zw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@priyacutinha5011 thank you so much for your answer!!!
      yes! So true. I wasn’t confident at all. He is avoidant. There was always a reason of circumstances to pushing me away or out. 2 months ago we broke up as he pushed me away again, because of the circumstances. That day Dylan’s limitless meditation popped up.! I started it immediately. Wow, my mind set changed since then. I don’t care about him anymore. He came back 4 days ago, but I just don’t feel the same for him anymore. I don’t take less anymore.
      I wish for you and everyone happiness!

    • @priyacutinha5011
      @priyacutinha5011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Erika-ml2zw Yes you deserve better, If you don't feel the same anymore, it isn't your fault.. accept it and move on and continue being confident... someone who is way better than him will come into your life and rock your world making you feel like everything happens for a reason. U r worth having everything you desire and never doubt it. Have an amazing life ahead.

    • @Erika-ml2zw
      @Erika-ml2zw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@priyacutinha5011 thank you!
      I kept doing the night meditations and I did this meditation at the day time every day. Everything is changed. I changed. I’m confident and my SP really comes different. I’m his priority now. He is trying to win me all over.
      Dylan’s meditations are amazing. I will never stop listening them.

    • @priyacutinha5011
      @priyacutinha5011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Erika-ml2zw That's amazing. I'm glad I could help you. Don't settle for anything but what u actually desire for. Take care

  • @i_am_sree
    @i_am_sree 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    My my..❤️ Dylan is ON THE FIRE this weekend!!! Lotsss of love to U.. For helping so many struggling ppl by ur immense knowledge and understanding... We can't ever thank U enough Daddy.. U r really the Godfather!! 😇❤️❤️💞💞🙏🙏🙏

  • @channhy75t
    @channhy75t 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Third party? Never heard of it 😳💀 love these meditations

  • @manifesttranquility
    @manifesttranquility 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Yesssssssssssssa
    My online daddy giving me all the resources I need..... Don't have have an sp yet but listening for gaining confidence... I am manifesting my soulmate, wish me luck 🥰🥰🥰

  • @JasonScott1991
    @JasonScott1991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Loved this one even though there’s no 3p in my life it was reinforcing. Ty Dylan I appreciate the effort you put in.

  • @tee8885
    @tee8885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This meditation makes me feel so lifted and positive - I AM THE BEST!!! - Thanks Dylan xx

    • @abddullahiharuna2915
      @abddullahiharuna2915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back..

  • @cheberur
    @cheberur 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Don't have a third party but listening as a way of housekeeping🙏💙

  • @jessjohnson7551
    @jessjohnson7551 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks!

  • @virgo15goddess
    @virgo15goddess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Yes, yes and yes Zaddy. I love this and I haven't listened to it yet! The title alone got me and I know that it is all about self-concept to the fullest!

  • @jess_v7556
    @jess_v7556 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Been listening to this when a third party ended my relationship.
    It's ok. I walked away with head up and his mouth open.

  • @vc6393
    @vc6393 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    It’s almost 7 am here in California and I woke up to a dream about my ex and it reminded me how much I miss him. I decided to do one of your meditations to help realign myself and saw you posted this. Perfect timing! I’m focusing back on myself and sending any 3rd parties away so that we could be together again. Thanks Dylan ♥️

    • @vivid5203
      @vivid5203 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Update?

    • @Sunshine_str
      @Sunshine_str 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      updates :)

    • @VARSHASAKETI
      @VARSHASAKETI ปีที่แล้ว

      Update

    • @vc6393
      @vc6393 ปีที่แล้ว

      Update: Nearly 2.5 years since my ex and I broke up. I fell in love with someone else afterwards but fell into the same pattern of being afraid of mistrust/ 3rd parties. I had to take an honest look at myself and realize that my insecurities were at the root of the issue. I lacked trust within myself and it manifested in a mistrust of others. It’s been a long journey of self-love and building up my self-worth since but I’ve come to truly believe I deserve the best and I’m not settling for anything less anymore.

  • @yemin5564
    @yemin5564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Honestly love that name ‘ third party destroyer’ 😂😂sounds so powerful whenever I read it amazing❤️

  • @PhoenixSecret
    @PhoenixSecret 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Hello all! So I listened to this for the first time last night and I looped it. I didn't feel like I technically have a 3rd party issue, but my ex husband (who I manifested back) (apparently) had a child with someone he had a very short lived relationship with. The child is still young and he's very protective of her. He's trying to be respectful of the baby mama and the drama has just been escalating. I've been really working through my emotions on this one as theres a lot to unpack here. Meanwhile the baby mama has been getting more ridiculous. I realized about a week ago that not only do I have a 3rd party issue, I have it 2 fold. He wanted to get remarried when we got back together and then (because I was scared of it) it's been put on the back burner and manifested more than I wanted. Anywhoo, sorting out what is me manifesting behavior and old story and new story, I've been talking with him the last few weeks about the current set up and how backwards it is. My place in it, the crazy baby mama and I'm being very careful to not manifest anything that could be a serious issue. But good news!! After listening to this last night, he called me today to talk about all the things I've been talking with him about the last few weeks. He said he realized I'm right and we need to make some changes, the ones I've been talking about.

    • @achatwithgoitse
      @achatwithgoitse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for your story, gave me a new great perspective ❤

    • @PhoenixSecret
      @PhoenixSecret 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm so happy to hear that! These kinds of situations can be tricky to navigate and keep the right perspective on. I have had to really work on my self concept and keep it on point, and frankly not care about what is going on. Everything Dylan teaches.

  • @missaakarshi3392
    @missaakarshi3392 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    other girls and third parties serve as a reminder that i am who he belongs with and he will come back to me i set my intentions to this subliminal that it will work instantly and immediately

  • @jazzmoon77
    @jazzmoon77 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It’s not my first time watching one of your videos so I know your style, but I still laughed at taking a deep breath all serious and chill then hearing “I am never fucking intimidated”

    • @IAm_DylanJames
      @IAm_DylanJames  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      👨‍🍳❤️‍🔥😜🤷🏻‍♂️💁🏻‍♂️🔟🔟🔟🔟

    • @jazzmoon77
      @jazzmoon77 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@IAm_DylanJames oh btw, I don’t remember what day I listened to this, but it worked a few days later. He’s with me now ❤️ They had been having troubles for ages and I had no idea. They broke up and now he’s with me.

  • @markusmuller7070
    @markusmuller7070 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    OH MY GOD
    I‘m making huge progress thanks to you with manifesting my ex back. Getting signs everywhere :D
    But what has held me back the most is the third party situation. And now BOOM
    you’re freaking amazing, very soon I‘ll have my ex back thanks to you
    Thank you from the bottom of my heart man

    • @blanca6419
      @blanca6419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can you please how many times did you listen to this? @MarkusMuller???

  • @avantikaphuyal6793
    @avantikaphuyal6793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Omgggg Dylan showering us with meditation after meditation . Soooooo sooo thankful . Love these new meditations . The affirmations are sooo damn good and relatable . Even better than the limitless ones . Dylan returned to making videos but even more qualitative contents ❤️❤️💕😭❤️

  • @AriesMoon1010
    @AriesMoon1010 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    All toxic parties now removed for good and so it is! Never come back never again! I am the fucking priority periodt and it’s my way ❤

  • @yurrr974
    @yurrr974 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When Dylan James taught abt third parties, he taught me how to re-evaluate how I am trusting my person. It was never abt the third party but me!

  • @mahekchavan7148
    @mahekchavan7148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Just received the news : third party has gone😈✨

    • @sarahfara1539
      @sarahfara1539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Mahek Chavan Congratulations!! Happy for you. I'm feeling angry today. I want her to eff off!!! I was there first. But I also want it to never have happened because it has tainted the way I feel about him. It's not like he cheated because we were always just FWB and he's also just this with her now but still... I feel he betrayed our intimacy, something sacred... I know I made it happen with insecurity but how can I see it as before? What we shared feels like a trampled flower now, he didn't cherish it enough... he's trying to become "friends" with me now because he knows I have feelings and doesn't want to hurt me. That's why he ran away some months ago. He said he feels more secure with her that she is actually fine with just being FWB. I need to change the whole story fast.

    • @mahekchavan7148
      @mahekchavan7148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sarahfara1539 hi babe, ignore the circumstances and just persist with the new story, don't give a fuck seriously

    • @mrs_is_the_name3377
      @mrs_is_the_name3377 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations

    • @VARSHASAKETI
      @VARSHASAKETI ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations 🎉

  • @meowmeowmaddie
    @meowmeowmaddie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I had such a wild experience doing this. My body felt like it was floating/spinning and then I started visualising the 3P and she was agreeing with me to leave them alone. I’m going to do this meditation multiple times a day cos it’s absolutely working after just one go!!!

  • @amandafrank1064
    @amandafrank1064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dylan I am sure you hear this all the time, but thank you for all that you do for us. All the effort you put into us being the baddest :) Your a sweet heart and will be abundantly blessed three fold.

  • @rianarashid8144
    @rianarashid8144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Last one minute just killed it even more!
    After that it makes me feel like Dylan is my bff
    💕

  • @erikacolon1870
    @erikacolon1870 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Why does this 3rd party think they can invade my space with sending me a friend request…you don’t exist bih

  • @FreeVoni
    @FreeVoni 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I was not expecting all that cursing 😂😂😂😂

  • @michelleray3406
    @michelleray3406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dylannnnnnnnn!!!!!!
    Lord you on fire ...got my head spinning with all these uploads ..I love it!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @cooblue7063
    @cooblue7063 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    So back story . Years and years of third party on and off. From manifesting sp…To giving up…….to him moving out twice to him coming back for good. Now no third party…. And he’s treating me like I’m a fxcking princess. The thing was that the back and forth kept going was because I kept watching episodes with people breaking up etc. especially the show (meet the Parker’s.)So in my subconscious mind unknowingly my life was replaying like that except I was given more attention than Nikki… and that my sp didn’t care to go back and forth with some other. So I stopped watching those and focused on self as well it was hard asf to stop thinking on the 3d. I finally stopped thinking on 3d and stopped watching bs and bam thank you ma’am. Those mfs are gone. 3d is none existing. It’s like vanishing into thin air without a trace. For those of you who know I do like to comment on what works and this shxt here works. Thank you so much Dylan❤

    • @Lovly_hearts_3
      @Lovly_hearts_3 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I need help, my ex bf keeps following and talking to other girls, behind my back through instagram, what should i do
      To stop this and get him back? Because he's ignoring me for days,
      But talking to others, how can i get rid of third parties permanently???

    • @matthewisthebest8152
      @matthewisthebest8152 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Lovly_hearts_3start loving yourself

    • @Lovly_hearts_3
      @Lovly_hearts_3 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@matthewisthebest8152 just, love myself? What will happen if i love myself?

    • @cooblue7063
      @cooblue7063 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don’t think on them. When you think of them they stay . When you bring them up to any and everyone they stay. They don’t exist you only do. Think of your sp as the one you want. Loving only you committed to only you etc. I’ve did this and got results. Like what you think of him is what you will get!!. And I promise you been in every situation and it sucks.

    • @cooblue7063
      @cooblue7063 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And he is right. Love self . You do that your putting self first and in return your sp will love you back. Like for me I wasn’t getting my hair done etc nails done or just looking any type of way. Once I started dressing up getting stuff done to me …. My sp notice and was like mk she not paying attention to me. No… I’m paying attention to you in secret… but I’m more focused on my glow up etc

  • @cecel4983
    @cecel4983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    So there’s not another person but I’m low on their priority list rn-this will help me reframe thoughts thank you

    • @abddullahiharuna2915
      @abddullahiharuna2915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back...

  • @Nash_Aurora
    @Nash_Aurora 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is the first time you made affirmations on specific person ❤️✨

  • @destinyloo6713
    @destinyloo6713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Dylan I listened to this once and so many beautiful things happened

    • @abddullahiharuna2915
      @abddullahiharuna2915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back...

    • @abddullahiharuna2915
      @abddullahiharuna2915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      十2349020112341🪴🪴❄❄🔮適港, 港决很高興***..

    • @abddullahiharuna2915
      @abddullahiharuna2915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      十2349020112341🪴🪴❄❄🔮適港, 港决很高興***..

    • @matthewisthebest8152
      @matthewisthebest8152 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abddullahiharuna2915yeh sounds like just the answer 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @bethpaulino1436
    @bethpaulino1436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love this!!! Really reminded me that I run this show and circumstances don't mean shit

  • @WamsyAmsy
    @WamsyAmsy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I didn’t think I’d like this at first, but I listened and I freaking LOVE it!!! ❤❤

  • @manifesting5000
    @manifesting5000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    loved this, but the little reminder and message at the end did it for me, thank you🥺❤ I needed to hear that after these past couple of days

  • @julialee690
    @julialee690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I don’t have 3P but I really love these affirmations thank youuuu

  • @bhumikaitkan
    @bhumikaitkan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    perfect affirmations, perfect timing. 🥺💕💕💕thank you so much dylan ur doing god's work

  • @bbyangel333
    @bbyangel333 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don’t even have 3rd party but don’t need any doubts and know that I am chosen and the priority ❤❤❤

  • @nature7297
    @nature7297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s showed I am aligned got a little worried on third party immediately open your channel and this video came up thank you thank you so much

  • @annabixby8530
    @annabixby8530 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg I needed this. Thank you for being an awesome human!!!

  • @lisanneeeee95
    @lisanneeeee95 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yesterday my sp was texting with third party normally I would be very annoyed and then we get in an argument. Yesterday was the first time I keep calm because of this meditation. I really love this one. Because I could keep saying to myself: she is nothing compared to me. Hopefully she will be gone soon as I go on with your meditations 🎉❤.

  • @ANZULAWSON
    @ANZULAWSON 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I LOVE THESE NEW MEDITATIONS 🙏🙏❤️❤️🙏🙏 thank you D!!!

  • @moonchild6273
    @moonchild6273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Love it! Chuckling through the “fucks” 😂 I second a comment below that id love to see you do a money mindset one of these... or just overall “LACK MENTALITY DESTROYER!” 😁🙏🏻 you’re the best Dylan! Thank you! 🥰💕

  • @magneticgoddess1116
    @magneticgoddess1116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Look at you on 🔥 Fire with the meditation’s 🥳 wooo! Thank you very much 😊

  • @tseeee
    @tseeee ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It is definitely changing my game. Thank you for good meditation! Grateful ! 😊

  • @user-zy8fe7jk8m
    @user-zy8fe7jk8m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Im laughing my butt off here!!! This is the best meditation in history!!! Dylan you are my God, oh gee this is so genius😂😂❤😂❤😂❤😂❤😂❤😂

  • @anilav2
    @anilav2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Love it. Also, "he finds them so fucking irritating." 😂

    • @abddullahiharuna2915
      @abddullahiharuna2915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back..

  • @sophiazenonos7053
    @sophiazenonos7053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    YOU ARE SPOILING US! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lzara1680
    @lzara1680 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This is savage but I love it 🔥❤️ really got me feeling myself, that 3p ain’t shit on me 💁🏼‍♀️ she’s a burger and I’m a steak 👸🏼

  • @somdatta2
    @somdatta2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you. Now I definitely know 3p is gone. Divorce happened. Will update with the result.

    • @bloxylush3643
      @bloxylush3643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oou, more details please 😁 similar situation here.

    • @bloxylush3643
      @bloxylush3643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How long have you been involved? Long separations? Any chasing on your end etc

    • @somdatta2
      @somdatta2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@bloxylush3643 no chasing from my end..he got married in Feb 2022 but contacts me on his own m we meet. With this medition of Dylan I believe 3p will go away nd gone.

    • @annageorgakopoulou2664
      @annageorgakopoulou2664 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same situation here! I ll do the meditation every day!

    • @VARSHASAKETI
      @VARSHASAKETI ปีที่แล้ว

      What is 3p

  • @alcie8133
    @alcie8133 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you just improved my day 100%

  • @henrydog5747
    @henrydog5747 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Holy Cow 🐮 I just found this it makes me so strong 💪🏻 for all areas of my Life 🙏🏼♥️ Thank you Dylan

  • @thatay_m6758
    @thatay_m6758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am the fucking best
    I am the competition
    They can never threaten my R
    Nobody can take what's mine
    I'm never fuckin messy
    I never react react or doubt my worth
    My person wants me and only me
    My person can't get enough of me
    My person finds me addictive
    My person loves how confident I'm
    My person is only turned on by me
    My person thinks about me more than anyone else
    I'm the fucking priority
    I'm never fucking insecure
    I'm never fucking doubting my worth
    I'm never fucking doubting my value
    What I want wants me
    I'm fucking chosen
    I always get what I want
    I'm on the fucking pedestal
    I'm the hottest
    I'm the prettiest
    I'm the sexiest
    I'm the smartest
    I'm never getting messy or immature
    They are our of their mind if they think they can intimidate me
    They are our of thier mind if they think they can steal from me
    They are nothing compared to me
    They are not a threat
    They are a joke

  • @Valo1.x.1
    @Valo1.x.1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    My Sp wants me and only me. 🖤🙌🏻thank you

    • @MarukoChan08
      @MarukoChan08 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Congratulations❤

  • @deepaliderbere8521
    @deepaliderbere8521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hahaha this man is on fire 🔥🤣 damn Dylan, we all are fucking fearless and what's ours is ours!! Period!!

  • @mademoiselle2277
    @mademoiselle2277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ohhhh you SNAPPED on this one!!!! 💯

  • @Skysingh9872
    @Skysingh9872 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whoa brother!, your swearing and fierce voice boiling up my confidence man!

  • @averdenav
    @averdenav 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    This is bloody brilliant. 🙂👍 Any chance we can have an 8 hour version of this, for sleeping with? 🙂💕👍

    • @audrina670
      @audrina670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      If you click the 3 dots there's a loop button (:

    • @ninthserpent
      @ninthserpent 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@audrina670 omg life changing thank you, there are so many videos I want to loop!

    • @audrina670
      @audrina670 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ninthserpent glad I could help ❤️

  • @Pearlie2Fly
    @Pearlie2Fly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That was SOOOOO EFFING BOMB!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @jillkx
    @jillkx ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can you do another similar confidence boost affirmation video but as a ”you are“ version? ❤With affirmations such as ”you’re the prize, you deserve the best, you are being chased by anyone you feel attracted to,…“

  • @TrinaMoitra
    @TrinaMoitra 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Listening to break the pattern of 3rd parties. Nothing specific in my life right now. Hopefully this also works to correct an ongoing theme.

  • @nunnallyai
    @nunnallyai 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lmaoooo I can’t even concentrate without laughing… I love this

  • @CarlaS0808
    @CarlaS0808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just love it… that’s pure confidence, thank you Dylan

  • @feelswithmeesh
    @feelswithmeesh ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The swearing just makes more sense, more relatable 😂❤

  • @staciesykes2908
    @staciesykes2908 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you so much Dylan where’s your videos!!! Missing them! Love this affirmation video makes me
    Smile and giggle x

  • @thegeneralrock86547
    @thegeneralrock86547 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dylan! You are on fire 🔥 You spoil us. 💜

  • @sarahfara1539
    @sarahfara1539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Laughed so hard at "They are a joke" :D

  • @RosalindJulen
    @RosalindJulen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Damn...it has been christmas lately. Thank you!!:)

  • @teresawagner6210
    @teresawagner6210 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dylan, thanks ...you have a great voice, it's good just listening to ...

  • @melbooth3164
    @melbooth3164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, you always come through for me just when I need it Dylan ❤💙❤

  • @louisebarnett4310
    @louisebarnett4310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg....just love this meditation. Thank you 💖