Something that helped me be more unbothered in life was the idea that "the character others cast me as in their story says more about them than it does about me" if that helps anyone reading here
wait i literally love this, i always say that if someone is judging me especially without knowing me well they are weird because personally i never judge anyone especially if i don’t know them well!!
I am so delusional. I bought an iPhone with one terabyte and ignore my coworkers and think about being a millionaire from my digital products to get through the day. After work I record Asmr content
I've found that a healthy detachment from people who aren't important to me really helps, along with a solid foundation for confidence being knowing who I am as a person, regardless of other people's opinions and points of view. An example of this is me minding my business and seeing neigbbors as just neighbors, and coworkers as just coworkers. I know who my friends are, and who my good friends are, so I'm good! Happy Holidays, everyone!
yes agreed! having mental boundaries on how much you emotionally invest into different relationships is important and that doesn't mean you stop being kind just because you aren't 'close'. other people, including people you might consider close friends will always experience you from their own POV and i think its so interesting how many different versions of you (and each person) exist in other people's minds, but also not something to fixate on >_< happy holidays!! xx
Was hesitant to click at first because I don’t want to resonate with insane…. But stepping out of my comfort zone and so glad I did, you are so wise and funny!!! Thank you for being you beautiful SOUL ✨🌹✨🌹✨🌹❤️
hehehe its just me offering a different/language perspective to self-growth (satire and irony)! imo the pursuit of a better and more authentic self is one of the most sane things you can do in a world that wants to keep you small and easy to manipulate mwa xx
love love love this video! the way you talk about discipline is so healthy while also firm. finding that balance in self-improvement content is rare to find. i'm genuinely inspired so thank you 💋
Girl, thanks for the video! I felt like you were talking to me personally, like a friend... keep up with the videos, you’re amazing and so motivating! I’m oscillating between several ideas to create my own content some day and you’ve given me a sincere sense of hope 😌(P.S.: If you’re reading this, I believe in you. We’ll make it
I am going to be really honest with you here. This is the first video I have seen from you and I usually cannot sit through podcasts or such videos, but this is the first time that everything that you have said has made sense to me, and I have actually sat and watched the entire thing. safe to say I’m gonna be tuning in more now!
listened to this yesterday and today while working on my art hobby and it’s helped me so much already! thank you for sharing these honest thoughts and advice with us 💝 let’s continue staying hot and having fun~
amber you have no idea how much i adore your videos you give interesting tips i was offline these days and saved many of your videos to watch i'm always inspired after i listen to your podcast keep being inspiring and you deserve 100 k
omg tysm for supporting and leaving this lovely comment!! sending love and slay your way mimy!!!!! :') wishing you a happy holidays and slay new year!! xxx
i am a huge fan of your lives, your podcast and now of your TH-cam videos ahh🌹 you have helped me so much in feeling better and finding peace being myself.
are you from Queensland? Like Miami area? i ask bc i’m i’m the US and the only time i’ve heard an australian accent like yours (i don’t listen to many lol) was Amanda Ware for cycle 6 of australias next top model and that’s where she grew up
😂😂😂 I grew up in Perth and learnt English from an elderly Australian nanny. Now I live in Shanghai, China … I think bc ppl in China couldn’t understand my Australian accent I ended up modifying it to be more American😅😅
to me that means you're not working hard enough to stay entertained/engaged and/or the things you use to entertain yourself are too surface level and not enough of a challenge. you've underestimated yourself and you're smarter than you think/have more mental capacity than you give yourself credit for. xx
@@amberakilla i know some people in life they work really hard and they still dont get anything out of it due to favourism or just having better luck/good fate. Offcourse i guess it doesn't hurt to try or put effort into things especially if one is living through survival mode
"Suffering is inevitable but what are going to do instead of suffering" oh my god brain altering. I tend to go immediately to negativity and that I’m suffering but fuck I need to just enjoy my life more. Do more of what makes ME happy and fills my cup 🫶🏼
( 2:11 ) *1. you are bored*
( 3:30 ) 1.1 get a life
( 4:22 ) 1.2 find purpose
( 6:50 ) 1.3 80/20 rule
( 7:36 ) 1.4 exercise your free will
( 9:32 ) 1.5 get a hobby
( 12:56 ) 1.6 enjoy your life
( 16:05 ) *2. you are a hater*
( 16:32 ) 2.1 judging others and yourself
( 20:07 ) 2.2 growth mindset/work with what you got
( 23:40 ) 2.3 managing your emotions and insecurity
( 25:40 ) 2.3.1 positive affirmations and journaling
( 26:58 ) 2.3.2 personal jokes
( 28:34 ) 2.3.3 #bereal
( 29:27 ) 2.4 encourage others
( 30:47 ) 2.5 redefine success
( 35:04 ) 2.6 limit exposure to negativity
37:25 bonus: people pleasing
39:32 finale: we’re all gonna die
tysm for this bb!!! xxxx
“Consumption is not a hobby” ugh I needed that reminder.
Something that helped me be more unbothered in life was the idea that "the character others cast me as in their story says more about them than it does about me" if that helps anyone reading here
wait i literally love this, i always say that if someone is judging me especially without knowing me well they are weird because personally i never judge anyone especially if i don’t know them well!!
I am so delusional. I bought an iPhone with one terabyte and ignore my coworkers and think about being a millionaire from my digital products to get through the day. After work I record Asmr content
Go girl🙌🙌🙌
I love this so much for you 💞
the way i literally just recorded my first ASMR video last night pleaseeee i love this energy and I love you
@@almonddgames aww thank you! I can’t wait to start and I’ll check yours out too!
Okay, no lie, I am going to use this as my 2025 wallpaper as a constant reminder! Thank you!
i don’t think a title has ever spoken to me more
My life theme/motto is: make beautiful things, see beautiful things, and be a beautiful thing ✨ (inside and out)
Thats a lovely motto. Thanks for sharing!
love this!!! xx
I’m so glad you stated that confidence isn’t just self-serving, we should always bring others up with us.
I've found that a healthy detachment from people who aren't important to me really helps, along with a solid foundation for confidence being knowing who I am as a person, regardless of other people's opinions and points of view.
An example of this is me minding my business and seeing neigbbors as just neighbors, and coworkers as just coworkers. I know who my friends are, and who my good friends are, so I'm good!
Happy Holidays, everyone!
yes agreed! having mental boundaries on how much you emotionally invest into different relationships is important and that doesn't mean you stop being kind just because you aren't 'close'. other people, including people you might consider close friends will always experience you from their own POV and i think its so interesting how many different versions of you (and each person) exist in other people's minds, but also not something to fixate on >_<
happy holidays!! xx
Was hesitant to click at first because I don’t want to resonate with insane…. But stepping out of my comfort zone and so glad I did, you are so wise and funny!!! Thank you for being you beautiful SOUL ✨🌹✨🌹✨🌹❤️
hehehe its just me offering a different/language perspective to self-growth (satire and irony)! imo the pursuit of a better and more authentic self is one of the most sane things you can do in a world that wants to keep you small and easy to manipulate mwa xx
Dear Amber, please never stop this! Your work is important for so many of us! I genuinely thank you for your contribution🎉
:') thank u so much for this lovely commmennttt
this intro was such a vibe like yass gurl that's what we're all about
MWA !! xxx
This title really spoke to me 🤣
😂🫶💅🏼🩷
listening to this crocheting 🧶
we love a HOBBYY and SKILL !!! xx
omg same!!
you are literally changing my life with these videos
you’re like a breathe of fresh air. thank you for being here
thank you for joining babe!!! xx
love love love this video! the way you talk about discipline is so healthy while also firm. finding that balance in self-improvement content is rare to find. i'm genuinely inspired so thank you 💋
yayy sending love and slay your way xx
I love the internet because it introduces me to so many truly beautiful people who manage to consitently say exactly what I need to hear. :-)
Girl, thanks for the video! I felt like you were talking to me personally, like a friend... keep up with the videos, you’re amazing and so motivating! I’m oscillating between several ideas to create my own content some day and you’ve given me a sincere sense of hope 😌(P.S.: If you’re reading this, I believe in you. We’ll make it
thank you so much for tuning in!!! excited for you to create!! xxx
watching this at 2:30am. really needed to hear this ❤ watching your content inspires me so much to have the courage to do the best i can for me
bless u bb!!! u deserve the hottest and funnest life!!! don’t forget thatttt 💖💖💖💖
i’ve been searching youtube high and low for a video like this for months!!! thank you my queen
YOU'VE ARRIVEDDD!!! yay!! sending love and slay your way xxx
I am going to be really honest with you here. This is the first video I have seen from you and I usually cannot sit through podcasts or such videos, but this is the first time that everything that you have said has made sense to me, and I have actually sat and watched the entire thing. safe to say I’m gonna be tuning in more now!
listened to this yesterday and today while working on my art hobby and it’s helped me so much already! thank you for sharing these honest thoughts and advice with us 💝 let’s continue staying hot and having fun~
periodddd!!! i love this
20 minutes into the video and I’m already loving you girl
obsessed this is the video I needed today!! I am determined to grow as a person this year
Ohhhh the title got me. Spoke directly to me and told me I need to watch this.
hehe thank you for tuning in xx
wow. .. this is perfect. exactly what I needed. thank you Amber
you're very welcome!!! xx
The title drew me in, thank u
amber you have no idea how much i adore your videos you give interesting tips i was offline these days and saved many of your videos to watch i'm always inspired after i listen to your podcast keep being inspiring and you deserve 100 k
omg tysm for supporting and leaving this lovely comment!! sending love and slay your way mimy!!!!! :') wishing you a happy holidays and slay new year!! xxx
i needed to hear this and you are so real and intelligent and wise and funny i’m so glad this came up during my doom scrolling
bless u bb!! xx
Thank you soooo much for this video girl!!
I needed something like this to help me clear my mind 💕
bless u bb!! 💖💖💖
First video, subscribed immediately!! Needed to hear this today 🙏
thank you so much bb happy new year!! xx
i am glad this isn’t me, i love myself, feel confident in my skin, who i am, and dont feel the need to compare or measure up to anyone else but myself
good for u gurl xx
@@amberakilla tysm!!
amazing video ; haven’t resonated with the majority of what someone is saying in forever lol! subscribed! x
yayy thank you so much for supportinggg!!
You’re my new favorite TH-camr ❤ keep up the amazing uploads
thank you so muchhh
I loved this podcast so much. It was amazing. Thank you so much ! You have a new subscriber!
thank you so much for your support bbbb!! xxxx
What an honest video, thanks for this!
Thank you for sharing this!! Love your advices🤍
i love your voice so much it tickles my brain in the right way LMAO
heheh tysm - i get very mixed reviews hahahaha xxx
This is my first time seeing your videos and omg I love your energy ✨
tysm bb happy holidays!!! xx
I feel more confident when I'm with friends, I carry one with me always haha😂❤ I gotta change it
I saved this video so I could come back to it and IM SO GLAD that I did.
bless uuu xxx
I need a life motto/theme so bad!!
i am a huge fan of your lives, your podcast and now of your TH-cam videos ahh🌹 you have helped me so much in feeling better and finding peace being myself.
omgg tysm for supporting :') sending love and slay your wayy !!!! xxx
I needed this girl! You have a new follower 🎉
tysm for supporting bb!! xx
The title made me click on it, because gurll I'm fugging insaneeee😭🌸🎀💅✨️
puuurrrrr xxxx
Bruh 4 minutes in and my life has changed
love u thanks for always reminding me to be hot and have fun
of course!!!!!! xxx
This vid just earned you a subscriber
thank u for supporting!! xx
LOVVVEEE YOUUU
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unrelated but i love ur voice
you better GO OFF
purrrr xx
Cuz i swear you BLANKED right here yes miss gurl
You remind me so much of manifestelle. I could fully believe that you both are sisters ❤
love her work and i think she included one of my tiktoks in her videos!! xx
this is such an uplifting, real, careful, free and intelligent video; thank you for this 💖
thank youuu :') xxx
Love you
Luv it
mwa mwaaa xxx
❤️
I love this video so much🩷
tysm bbbb ٩(๑> ₃
are you from Queensland? Like Miami area? i ask bc i’m i’m the US and the only time i’ve heard an australian accent like yours (i don’t listen to many lol) was Amanda Ware for cycle 6 of australias next top model and that’s where she grew up
😂😂😂 I grew up in Perth and learnt English from an elderly Australian nanny. Now I live in Shanghai, China … I think bc ppl in China couldn’t understand my Australian accent I ended up modifying it to be more American😅😅
@ omg me guessing queensland and u being on the opposite coast 😭😭😭
the thing is i get bored easily
to me that means you're not working hard enough to stay entertained/engaged and/or the things you use to entertain yourself are too surface level and not enough of a challenge. you've underestimated yourself and you're smarter than you think/have more mental capacity than you give yourself credit for. xx
@@amberakilla i know some people in life they work really hard and they still dont get anything out of it due to favourism or just having better luck/good fate. Offcourse i guess it doesn't hurt to try or put effort into things especially if one is living through survival mode
FO REEAL!!!
❤❤❤
i luv this!!!! i wish u were my sister
K, I adore you.
but like what is this pink hair clip/crown!??!?!?
its supposed to lift your roots but idk if it did anything/if i even used it correctly hahahah
Ok so, I got the insane part down. Now onto the second part 💅
I always believe it’s important to be clear about the starting point so you can map the journey accordingly 😌😆💅🏼💖
you remind me of that boujee girl on hannah montana ❤️ xo
HHAHahaha xxx
ho is you reading my mind
I needed to hear this so bad 🫶🏾
sending love and slay your way !!! xx
"Suffering is inevitable but what are going to do instead of suffering" oh my god brain altering. I tend to go immediately to negativity and that I’m suffering but fuck I need to just enjoy my life more. Do more of what makes ME happy and fills my cup 🫶🏼