TOUGH LESSONS ABOUT LOVE, MONEY AND MARRIAGE || Soila and Curtis with Friends
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Unrelated, but it's kinda interesting that it's majorly women who are usually on your comment sections. It's disappointing that we don't have more single men (like myself) on here. I will definitely try and share your vids with some of my homies because your content is super educational and I love it.
Thanks a lot Patrobas. Yes, do share. That would be great to get more dudes engaged in the conversations. Though I have met a number of people who say they watch on TV, which doesn't give provision to comment. Some say they watch with their wives or girlfriend who will comment on their behalf. 😂
Good point
Sometimes l dont feel like building a home is an investment. Using a real Example, we bought a land somewhere in the outskirt of Nrb, Our budget for the house we wanted was around 13m which means we had to take a loan. We sat and thought so much about it. Investing 13m in a house that will not give me a coin. I did calculations of the rent l pay and saw if l lived in rental, That 13m would pay my rent for 260 months which is close to 22yrs. According to my maths l better use the money to buy more lands and keep on selling after every few years and put up some business that will keep on generating money. l will build a home when having a very good cash flow. My peace of mind
There's this way Makena just effortlessly completes Ithan's sentences! And he taps her to finish what he says 😁 What a connection. It's been a great and enlightening conversation, thanks to you, Soila, and Curtis.
It's a really good sign that the couples clothes are almost of the same colour scheme. Both couples are in sync.
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Great Content!
I pray that God elevates youuu....you don't know how many souls and marriages you are saving out here 😍
These episodes are literally classes!
Creativity|Wisdom|Rich content. I enjoyed the conversation. Good job guys!
Watching this I am just feeling grateful to God for marriages that are working😊Also I love how Karimi is very expressive and open minded.
I love this segment. Real solutions that are practical, especially at young Christian family level. Money does have an effect. How can two walk together unless they agree.
Karebe has great wisdom. I like that he breaks the pressures of Having Money... Cheers to better family financial decisions.
That parachute landing clip after Curtis said what he wanted for the wedding has me out 😂😂🤣🤣😆😆
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Mmenimalisaa😂😂😂😂
hey guys l love the conversation you guys should bring ben and Wanjiru Njiru
Hi Mercy. Yes, we have plans. 🙂
Fantastic conversations but seems you now need mics to improve sound quality
Hi Winnie. Thanks for pointing that out. We actually have a mic but had some technical issues that occurred during the recording. Sorry for the inconvenience on the listening experinece.
21 and learning so much from you guys to make wise decisions thank youuuuu ❤️❤️
Off Topic Curtis uko na macho ya Rhemani😁😁, Ahh I need more of this money talk coz Wueeeh !!🤦♂🤦♂
Hahahaha. Like father like son. More money conversations coming up. Stay Tuned.
A very eye opening conversation. I love it.
Thanks for watching Esther.
Jimmy my uni classmate… glad to see u. Good insights there
I'm eagerly waiting 💯
Wanjiku Karugo based at Village Market is a very well renowned lawyer for diaspora folks.
I LOVE the question Soila asked about being obedient with the money that God gave you for something you asked. Wow, that really left me thinking. This episode is amazing 💯❤
Exactly! Obedience is key.
This couple is so underated
33:08 😂😂😂😂😂let me tell you something LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING
I'm with Ithan on tungsten ring. You can never go wrong!!!
If I would go back in time, I would invest more in our honeymoon.
Following Soila's thought on investment ideas as a family, is owning a home considered as an investment, or is it an asset?
This is great material. Keep it up.
A question for you, isn't it better to have these questions during the pre-marital period as you sign pre-nuptial agreements for both parties? I believe signing pre-nuptial agreements will shed more light on the money habits of the couple before entering the marriage.
I am a born-again Christian, and I also think that prenups are necessary in marriage. People are willing to enter into a marriage contract as defined by the government under the general Marriage Act, but most people especially Christians, would have a problem with writing their own Marriage Act/own marriage terms and conditions.
This is a very critical observation. Pre-nuptials sometimes are tricky and can be misapplied wrongly if people have agendas. The lack of it can also bring issues if a spouse has wrong intentions. This is definitely a conversation worth having. We can structure it for the next one.
I don't even know why i watch such videos while i have zero plans of getting married 😂 it's the ( FOMO) in me i guess 😂
Hahaha. It's always good to have this kind of information. You never know when and where it will come in handy, either for you or for other people. 🙂
Money and God. I once asked God to give money to pay off my debts. God being faithful, gave me a dream about the kind of job he would give even right down to my position.{I know the details because I journalled it} So the time came and I had the position and the money and to be quiet honest the debts were the last thing on my mind because there just seemed to be greater needs at that point in my life even giving to others and more. When I realized this, the job was gone, but I now understand that clearly my debts only bother me when I don't have money but when I do they don't. Maybe Karembe can give me perspective where this is concerned.
I would first save for a BANGING GETAWAY HONEYMOON then plan the wedding.....this is where the marriage begins.....i think. i am likely to remember and frown over a crappy honeymoon than a wedding.
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I love this channel it's a class of lessons and joy 😂❤🎉🎉
Thank you Yvonne. Really glad you are enjoying the content.
For me what i compromised is the gown because i want it to be shipped from Dubai and imgn that week my mother was coming for USA she brought for me to cut the cost it was really expensive man ghai❤❤❤❤
Yep, shipping costs often drive the prices of things over the roof. It's really a compromise for most thing that people want for weddings.
Amazing conversation 👌
Hey thanks for the show.
Very important topics to discuss.
Am a viewer from Uganda. When you speak in swahili am off. Could you atleast put subtitles.
Hey Marvin. Sorry for the language barrier. We'll be keen to put subs on the next one.
The guy in the middle aletwe tena. He‘s got useful insights on finances & property. Thanks!
He will definitely return.
Thank you so much for sharing great insights. Hongera to the Wamalwa’s for providing this wonderful platform of continuous learning. Baraka
Thank you Chrisdtine for tuning in. Remember to share with your friends.
Am stuck at the rings😂😂😂🎉 because am almost newly getting married and I have considered all the contributions 😅😅
Hahahaha. 😂 Imagine, some things are not necessary. We are the ones who like to make them a big deal. But I would say, as long as you have agreed with your spouse, that's what matters.
I have learnt alot ,thank you.Agnes i would like this Land conversation......let Him come again.
Definitely, he will come again.
Guys this is a very important topic especially with all the lay offs and business closures going on that are rendering mens jobs insecure, inadequste or non existent. This is creating a lot of stress amongst couples and suicide rates are increasing especially amongst men.
Having no money is horrible..
You could love each other and be willing to work things out and all but poverty 😢poverty guys??sad story.
From experience...i have seen what drastic financial changes(-ve) can do to partnership.can be costly if not handled right.
From one land seller to another, I am all for young Kenyans investing in land, own land before marriage, own land together after your wedding, own land in different areas.
Soila I got my dream rings 8 year later am glad I waited I got twin rings 2 sets .
I have 4wonderful huuuge rings
That's the way to go! Sometimes good things take time to come.
Huyo wa kuinvest kwa watu anilipie fees.....heheheeeeeeee!!!! jus kidding.
Your wedding was amazing Soila
I've watched it severally on MME
Really enjoyed this episode. God redirected me here especially on the Land matter. Soila talk to Karebe nicely iyo discount ya ladies /women icome through!
I joined recently...and I love it😊😊😍😍ya'll just fun...especially with the friends edition wuuuhh🎉
Hi Patience. Thanks for coming through. Glads you are enjoying it here. Rmemeber to share and invite others too. 🙂
Karebe is wise. Great content as usual, may God keep using you Soila and Curtis
Am watching Your wedding now on maisha magic East,it was lit🎉🎉🎉🎉❤
I love money convos ,this was particularly insightful,thank you!
Wonderful episode, I've learnt alot on finances.Thanks Soila & Curtis for sharing this.
Thank you for coming on board Alice. Glad you enjoyed the content.
“Kwani uliingia business bila nguo…?”Curtis amenimaliza 😂😂
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This is just vibes. I think for me the best investment is that which matches my goals. So there is no one fit it all investment.
😂😂😂😂😂 soila I am with you at suzuki alto sio gari 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you guys for this! Very very important information being given here. Wonderful questions and answers
This was so enlightening.. Now for a proper round 2 with the Mr
Makenas laughter &soila ❤❤❤❤ l love them so much
Keep these open discussions coming, I love how open in your relationship you are to let us in , Asante.
Me at 2 am listening to the oozing words of wisdom 😂😂😂
Hahahaha. Wisdom hits different at that time of the night.
I have been here since kitambo....and I am here to stay❤❤
You need to pay hour self but also invest into the business
Yes, getting that balance is the tricky bit. But very important.
I've learnt alot from this video❤❤❤
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I have learned today we need to also invest in people, thank you.
Am a keen follower since, thanks alot
Haya sawa I have commented endelea na video
Nimesubscribe basiii anzeni cheii
Such an amazing conversation. Soila has given a real example. I have been in such a situation where I asked God for sth, He provided then I used that cash for sth different. I lost the "investment". Wow May God keep us hearing Him.
That thing is real. When you ask God for money to do a specific thing, when the money comes, do exactly what you asked for.
Wow have realized the same thing.
Parachute jameeeni 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Since you're talking about money and God, next time you might want to talk about whether tithe should be paid from net or gross salary..for a very long time I used to pay from my net salary
We'll talk about it. But it should be from Gross.
As I pay Ceaser so should I pay God, so I tithe from gross
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Great conversation
Eye opening conversation!
Thank you for watching Mukami.
Good content pace setters
Thank you Grace.
You guys mwah
Mwah to you too. 😂
I probably would be the spendthrift
yes, Mutindi
Damn. This is eye-opening ❤. Love it
Soila u looking good u very content with the way u look at least u didn't come for a fashion show🎉🎉
Ala hizi ndo gani yawa, ungeachia tu kwa looking good ingekua sawa. The rest was uncalled for
@@monicawanjikumwaura6689I know right😅
Soila hio nywele hapana, you had so much hair
The faster you realize that's her natural hair twists , the better you will know her hair is really long
I think her hair is beautiful. Doing twists with her own hair and she can hold it up in a bun that's impressive. Her hair is just fine. I love it❤❤
What’s your email?
Am earger to learn its always a learning experience with you ❤🤍
Thank you Charity. We are glad to have you here.