THE REVERSE COWGIRL LMAO YOU OUTTA POCKET FOR THAT ONE SIS I gotta say though, it’s so nice to come across a SAHM who seems well adjusted and exists in a relationship that is healthy, well balanced and based on mutual respect. With the tradwife movement being what it is (based on super oppressive religiosity/gender norms) it’s nice knowing that a healthy dynamic CAN exist when people want to model their relationships in this way.
I love the tradwife movement ❤️❤️. There's just so much negativity surrounding being a housewife and SAHM that you're giving your spouse leverage to mistreat and abuse you. My gosh it's so toxic. I love being a SAHM (yes I had a career before 🙄, no I'm not uneducated and I have a lovely husband who never complains about being the only one working). ❤️❤️❤️.
@@scholasticbookfair. uh, yeah the tradwife movement is toxic af and you love it? You may not like it but the truth is that being a stay at home parent does give the earning partner more leverage to abuse and control you. I’m not saying that always happens by any stretch but there’s a reason the past generations of women just grinned and bore all kinds of horrific things *because they had no choice.* You can be a stay at home parent without subscribing to all the religious, misogynistic bs that the tradwife movement brings to the table. We’re more than just baby makers and homemakers.
Haha same! I relate with you on a spiritual level about the steak part like I cannot have it be cooked any lesser than well done. Idk I just can’t pull myself together to enjoy the steak that I can still basically hear mooing like my friends and family do hah! The meal looks delicious as always and happy belated birthday to the hubs!!
thank you for admitting that this is a job for you. i’m tired of seeing all these trad wives going on and on about ‘traditional values’ meanwhile running 6 figure businesses
Love your story much love to you for saving up and buying him a gift I bet when he gets old enough and watches this it’s gonna bring a tear to his eye !
Thinking of buying a gift for your husband with your own money is crazy kind of attitude of a great wife you are, also bet Andy is a great husband, hope you live well, luv your contents❤
As a SAHM of a 3 and 1 year old, don’t know how I came across your content but I’m glad I did! So refreshing! 😊 And not naming all the positions while cooking 😅😂🤣. As soon as you said “Face down a$* up”, I thought about that Ludacris song! 😂
That feeling of wanting to buy him a gift that ISNT from his wallet! 😅 it’s so real. Im sahm too but I do find little ways to make money here and there and I want to spend it on my man!! Bc he buys me everything lol
I used to dream of being a stay at home mom with my husband paying all the bills but it seems terrifying to me now, not having your own money. Just so scary.
@@pbear7814 You're absolutely right. There are many great men out there that make wonderful husbands. It's just hard to find them...I've dated several men before of all backgrounds and life experiences and it's tough. Not impossible of course.
I have a friend who’s been in the restaurant business his Whole life. He says leave steak outside fridge 45 minutes. Brown 2 minutes on each side and leave it in the oven at 350 for 5 minutes for medium rare. Rest for at Least 5 minutes, I think tent with foil for 10.
I’ve always been genuinely curious about the finance situation for SAHMs who are *only* homemakers. Do they get an allowance? I imagine there are budgets for food, entertainment, etc. I’ve always wondered how gifts worked. Like the way Alissa saved her money makes sense, but how do other SAHMs manage it without a job?
I would say most SAHMs have some sort of budget, if they don't then the relationship is not a good one and it would result in the mom working anyways to help support the children's needs. You cannot fully support a family on government assistance and that's not even easily available to a mom who is married to someone with income because the gov takes into consideration how much the husband makes then. depends on the couple whether the breadwinner just has the one shared account. My parents have the shared account that automatically has a portion of my dad's paycheck deposited into it, as well as my dad having his own separate account and using that for savings from there too. I guess it just depends on the couple's trust for one another, in terms of how financially responsible the other typically is.
FOR ME WHEN I WAS A SAHM, I had a credit card that was paid off every 2 weeks or every month. I spent as I pleased but have always set a budget for myself on groceries and household necessities. Dining was always done as a family so we never budgeted BUT we agreed to only dine out 1-3 times a week . Entertainment was the same.. never budgeted but again, we only did it 1-3/ week as a family. If either of us wanted to buy something over $100 FOR OUR SELVES that was a WANT (not a need), we ran it by the other person to make sure we don’t have any other big bills we need to prioritize first.
I am a stay at home mom at the moment. I don't get an "allowance". The bank account we have is mutual, and we take the money we need from that account.
I have my own accounts, plus our joint account. My husband added me to his job’s payroll, so whenever he gets paid I automatically get a deposit as well. I have access to our joint account for whatever I want to use it for, whenever. He also hands me cash randomly sometimes. We have health insurance, life insurance etc and I am not being financially abused like so many people assume of SAHMs. It’s a blessed situation ❤️
That is so nice! I be like, "do you like the present I got you with your own money?" 😅 I do look forward to working part time once all three of my boys are in school in a few years.
Next time get a nice big cornbread skillet. Cover it with foil. Season the meat really well of course. Then cover the meat with foil. Check on it evey 15 to 20 minutes. Keep adding a combination of beef broth and water. It will be extremely juicy after 1 hour.
Thats actually the sweetest thing ever. Im a sahm, not paid in money but I used to use my tax refund to buy my mans present cause his birthday was right after. Last yr I didnt get the refund so was guttered I couldnt get him something with my own money too😢 I would have used my bday money whch is two days before Xmas bt I was actually given alot of things this yr not money which Im still grateful for, will have to think of something else this yr😊
Lmao the final comment. Me too though I can't eat bloody meat it all needs to be fully cooked so I don't bother with steak. I remember I once ordered a beef bourges and it was so red inside, the smell of raw meat, I don't know how anybody does it, the smell of undercooked umseaoned meat is 🤢 I never even asked for that burger to come that way, obviously. Immediate refund for a fucked up burger.
I live in struggle and I need a job as an unmarried woman .. y’all thought what y’all was doing was cute .. confrontation with the authentic me has to happen eventually, and the facts will be exposed ❗️❗️😘😘
You can rest easy. That's not blood coming from the steak. It's a combination of H2O & a protein called myoglobin. It looks good to me. Though, I prefer rare.
It’s not blood though it’s myoglobin which is a protein. All blood is removed from meat when it’s butchered. Y’all are eating steak with like over half of the nutritional value and flavor gone.
@@suan333 I think people who continue to deny facts after being told otherwise sound far more snobby and condescending. Like you’re choosing to live in ignorance, if you don’t want to eat the steak that way that’s okay, but it’s undeniably not blood.
@@Coran_06 I never go to someone else to tell them the are eating their steak wrong because i don't like it like that way and try to make them look like they are stupid and ignorant because they are not getting their nutrients and whatever. And that's what you did and what you just confirm yourself. It's *PERSONAL* preference, not only i don't find it appetizing, but it barely tastes like nothing to me. Let people eat their food however they want to. Edit: and i call it blood just because it's red. I know how it works in a butchery. I live in a country where every year there's a thing called "matanza" with pigs, so i know animals get their blood drawn before. But again, you were assuming everyone is stupid because they want their steaks well done.
To me, it is so crazy how you're such a foodie and you cannot eat steak/rare meat or sushi! Maybe it is some type of common sense (parasites?) But, raw beef... it is delicious and easy to digest. I wonder if you would eat fish cooked in lemon juice with coconut milk rather than with heat.
Just by what I'm hearing you say for the sound of it sound like you are a good woman. Other than your face and body I will tell you what I do like. 1)You said you was a stay-at-home mother but the money your parents gave you you wanted to buy your husband something so that means you are not selfish. 2) you like your food well done😂 3) you did not just lay in the house you came up with a way to make money. 4) even though you make good money you still cater to your man💣. 5) you are fit, friendly an feminine woman💣😎😍. 12-30-23
@janiahfladger8048 That was a compliment. Especially after she had kids. My post wasn't for you anyways. You're the one who needs to stop trying throw 💩 on someone.
Jesus is coming back and you might be left behined give him your life and he will help you with all your troubles it wont be esay but He will be with you all the way. I love you all but Jesus loves you more.
Why did I cry when you said you saved your birthday money for your husband 😫🥹 maybe because I'm a stay at home and I don't earn and I completely understand the feeling but I was literally crying 🤣
If you and your husband had to pay someone to come into your home daily to do the things you do, how much do you think it would cost? It would cost a lot. The money your husband earns is for both of you, and you should consider it as such, if it’s a problem, check fees for someone, or actually several people to come to your home on a daily basis that will do what you did and you take a job outside the home if that’s what it takes for your husband to understand your worth and for you to understand your worth. Then you won’t need to feel that you are spending his money on him, but rather y’alls money. I didn’t work outside our home for several years, only went to work part time because all of my friends went to work, but I always considered my husband’s paychecks to be for us, and I bought him many gifts with it, we put all of the money earned by him and me when I went to work in a joint checking account or joint savings account. We didn’t have to explain purchases to each other, but as far as big ticket items went, we discussed those purchases, neither of us would just willy nilly go out and spend thousands. Please consider changing your thinking about your importance and contribution to your household. You are worthy.
Save your birthday and Christmas money to buy your husband gifts that's sweet and thoughtful, selfless is the right word I think correct me if I'm wrong, but your amazing and hearing this melted my heart on this cold snowy Canadian day up here in Toronto, where did Andy find you and is there anymore like you 😂. God bless you and your family love this channel
Such a good representation of a healthy marriage. That saving “your own money” to treat your husband with, respect!
Thank you! I’m glad someone else is able to see it this way!
The reverse cowgirl sass lol.
I'm so happy you are doing well as a content creator. You deserve success
The biggest gift he got was you! Fabulous mum and wife ❤
What a sweet thing to say Lynn. 😊
Thank you 💓
THE REVERSE COWGIRL LMAO YOU OUTTA POCKET FOR THAT ONE SIS
I gotta say though, it’s so nice to come across a SAHM who seems well adjusted and exists in a relationship that is healthy, well balanced and based on mutual respect. With the tradwife movement being what it is (based on super oppressive religiosity/gender norms) it’s nice knowing that a healthy dynamic CAN exist when people want to model their relationships in this way.
i forgot what SAHM was for a sec and i was like southeast asian…homemaker?? and then i was like ohhh stay at home mom 😂
@@pepperspikes1849hahahahah!!!
I love the tradwife movement ❤️❤️. There's just so much negativity surrounding being a housewife and SAHM that you're giving your spouse leverage to mistreat and abuse you. My gosh it's so toxic. I love being a SAHM (yes I had a career before 🙄, no I'm not uneducated and I have a lovely husband who never complains about being the only one working). ❤️❤️❤️.
@@scholasticbookfair. uh, yeah the tradwife movement is toxic af and you love it? You may not like it but the truth is that being a stay at home parent does give the earning partner more leverage to abuse and control you. I’m not saying that always happens by any stretch but there’s a reason the past generations of women just grinned and bore all kinds of horrific things *because they had no choice.* You can be a stay at home parent without subscribing to all the religious, misogynistic bs that the tradwife movement brings to the table. We’re more than just baby makers and homemakers.
The fact she hit reverse cowgirl line and that wild laugh twice is exactly why I am subscribed 😌
You're one of my fave content creators. Glad this platform is so empowering for mothers like you. 🎉😮 Andy is so lucky to have you as wifey ❤️
"That looks bloody as hell"💀🤣
You are the funniest easy to watch cook on TH-cam. You always make me smile, thank
Haha same! I relate with you on a spiritual level about the steak part like I cannot have it be cooked any lesser than well done. Idk I just can’t pull myself together to enjoy the steak that I can still basically hear mooing like my friends and family do hah! The meal looks delicious as always and happy belated birthday to the hubs!!
thank you for admitting that this is a job for you. i’m tired of seeing all these trad wives going on and on about ‘traditional values’ meanwhile running 6 figure businesses
I don’t even get money from neither my parents during any occasions 😭
When I was a kid I use to get money from my mom an allowance 120 bucks a week.
A food that describe your marriage to Andy is: Surf and Turf 🦐🥩😂 Great love chemistry, good flavors all in one dish
Love your story much love to you for saving up and buying him a gift I bet when he gets old enough and watches this it’s gonna bring a tear to his eye !
Lol he turned 40, I think old enough to appreciate the ways she shows her love for him.
I love watching you. Your boys are so sweet. I have 4 children 8 grandkids and 13 great grandchildren. Been around for awhile. Lol❤
You are such a sweetheart in how you treat your husband and kids.
Oml “reverse cowgirl him later” 😂😂😂💀
Thinking of buying a gift for your husband with your own money is crazy kind of attitude of a great wife you are, also bet Andy is a great husband, hope you live well, luv your contents❤
Most relatable TH-camr- yassss maam! Love her ❤
Thank you, love you❤
As a SAHM of a 3 and 1 year old, don’t know how I came across your content but I’m glad I did! So refreshing! 😊
And not naming all the positions while cooking 😅😂🤣. As soon as you said “Face down a$* up”, I thought about that Ludacris song! 😂
not the reverse cowgirl 😭😭😭
i love her i can watch her for ever,,,
Her reaction to medium rare is exactly my thoughts as well 😂
I do love a good steak though. Or maybe I just like crispy butter
That feeling of wanting to buy him a gift that ISNT from his wallet! 😅 it’s so real. Im sahm too but I do find little ways to make money here and there and I want to spend it on my man!! Bc he buys me everything lol
This is the best channel you’ll find period
Been watching your vids for a while now bestie. You’re a real person. Never lose that. ❤️
Thank you, love you❤
I used to dream of being a stay at home mom with my husband paying all the bills but it seems terrifying to me now, not having your own money. Just so scary.
Not at all if you have a good husband.
@@pbear7814 You're absolutely right. There are many great men out there that make wonderful husbands. It's just hard to find them...I've dated several men before of all backgrounds and life experiences and it's tough. Not impossible of course.
Wolf oven? That's a premium oven!
I am already committed can't turn back now!!!🤣🤣🥰
Love you girl.
I need a woman like you in my life.
You’re so wholesome .. reverse cowgirl and all 😂😂😂
I feel like she is probably making more than Andy cause she’s awesome and so is her content (if she isn’t currently, eventually will haha)
Happy Birthday!
Thick .. thic like me ....haha😂love ur humor
I used to hate steak but my second pregnancy with my son I craved steak and ever since I love steak and if I could I would eat everyday
I love your shirt
Nine months later baby girl 😂😂😂❤❤
Sweet story with a great steak on the side😊
Looks good 😊
That butter has been recalled! I was so sad!
That steak looked DEVINE!!
I have a friend who’s been in the restaurant business his Whole life. He says leave steak outside fridge 45 minutes. Brown 2 minutes on each side and leave it in the oven at 350 for 5 minutes for medium rare. Rest for at Least 5 minutes, I think tent with foil for 10.
Omg I a made the lemon & fish sauce dip for wagu was chef kissss
My husband would love this steak!!! He likes it on the hoof 😂
I’ve always been genuinely curious about the finance situation for SAHMs who are *only* homemakers. Do they get an allowance? I imagine there are budgets for food, entertainment, etc. I’ve always wondered how gifts worked. Like the way Alissa saved her money makes sense, but how do other SAHMs manage it without a job?
I would say most SAHMs have some sort of budget, if they don't then the relationship is not a good one and it would result in the mom working anyways to help support the children's needs. You cannot fully support a family on government assistance and that's not even easily available to a mom who is married to someone with income because the gov takes into consideration how much the husband makes then. depends on the couple whether the breadwinner just has the one shared account. My parents have the shared account that automatically has a portion of my dad's paycheck deposited into it, as well as my dad having his own separate account and using that for savings from there too. I guess it just depends on the couple's trust for one another, in terms of how financially responsible the other typically is.
FOR ME WHEN I WAS A SAHM, I had a credit card that was paid off every 2 weeks or every month. I spent as I pleased but have always set a budget for myself on groceries and household necessities. Dining was always done as a family so we never budgeted BUT we agreed to only dine out 1-3 times a week . Entertainment was the same.. never budgeted but again, we only did it 1-3/ week as a family. If either of us wanted to buy something over $100 FOR OUR SELVES that was a WANT (not a need), we ran it by the other person to make sure we don’t have any other big bills we need to prioritize first.
I am a stay at home mom at the moment. I don't get an "allowance". The bank account we have is mutual, and we take the money we need from that account.
I have my own accounts, plus our joint account. My husband added me to his job’s payroll, so whenever he gets paid I automatically get a deposit as well. I have access to our joint account for whatever I want to use it for, whenever. He also hands me cash randomly sometimes. We have health insurance, life insurance etc and I am not being financially abused like so many people assume of SAHMs. It’s a blessed situation ❤️
Not the spatula😂😂
That is so nice! I be like, "do you like the present I got you with your own money?" 😅 I do look forward to working part time once all three of my boys are in school in a few years.
Next time get a nice big cornbread skillet. Cover it with foil. Season the meat really well of course. Then cover the meat with foil. Check on it evey 15 to 20 minutes. Keep adding a combination of beef broth and water. It will be extremely juicy after 1 hour.
oh that steak 🥩😋 yes
Ohhhh the steak looked good ☺️. Would have liked to see him eating it to see if he liked it 😊
i love your recipe :))
Sushi and steak are my favorite food too
Thats actually the sweetest thing ever. Im a sahm, not paid in money but I used to use my tax refund to buy my mans present cause his birthday was right after. Last yr I didnt get the refund so was guttered I couldnt get him something with my own money too😢 I would have used my bday money whch is two days before Xmas bt I was actually given alot of things this yr not money which Im still grateful for, will have to think of something else this yr😊
I have the same shirt as you! 😋
I am lost at reverse cowgirl 😂
Reverse sear is the only way I feel comfortable cooking a steak 🤣
You’re fucking hilarious!
Lmao the final comment. Me too though I can't eat bloody meat it all needs to be fully cooked so I don't bother with steak. I remember I once ordered a beef bourges and it was so red inside, the smell of raw meat, I don't know how anybody does it, the smell of undercooked umseaoned meat is 🤢 I never even asked for that burger to come that way, obviously. Immediate refund for a fucked up burger.
Steak and sushi is all my 3 year old will eat 😂
Wolf oven?! Say no more. You ARE successful lol
Oooohhh. Boujee by association!!!
I’m not a fan of steak but my husband loves steak too. I like sushi and can eat some raw sushi (meaning I can 1-2 pieces) and that’s about it.
I live in struggle and I need a job as an unmarried woman .. y’all thought what y’all was doing was cute .. confrontation with the authentic me has to happen eventually, and the facts will be exposed ❗️❗️😘😘
Keroppi ❤
"...and reverse cow girl.him later..."😅 you won 30.12 hun
You can rest easy. That's not blood coming from the steak. It's a combination of H2O & a protein called myoglobin.
It looks good to me. Though, I prefer rare.
Rare?!? Well dang, here you go: 👑
@@alissanguyen_
Thanks. 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
So fine
Meat thermometers are LEGIT.
Hahha reverse cowgirl steak raw dogged lol yes girl!!! You’ve become my favorite TH-camr in one video
Same, I'm a well done steak girly.
Like if i see the blood coming out I'm on the verge of puking the f out off myself
It's not blood it's a protein & h2o
It’s not blood though it’s myoglobin which is a protein. All blood is removed from meat when it’s butchered. Y’all are eating steak with like over half of the nutritional value and flavor gone.
@@Coran_06 i don't care and people who preaches about "the right way to eat steak" sound like stupid condescending snobs to me so 🤷🏻♀️
@@suan333 I think people who continue to deny facts after being told otherwise sound far more snobby and condescending. Like you’re choosing to live in ignorance, if you don’t want to eat the steak that way that’s okay, but it’s undeniably not blood.
@@Coran_06 I never go to someone else to tell them the are eating their steak wrong because i don't like it like that way and try to make them look like they are stupid and ignorant because they are not getting their nutrients and whatever. And that's what you did and what you just confirm yourself.
It's *PERSONAL* preference, not only i don't find it appetizing, but it barely tastes like nothing to me. Let people eat their food however they want to.
Edit: and i call it blood just because it's red. I know how it works in a butchery. I live in a country where every year there's a thing called "matanza" with pigs, so i know animals get their blood drawn before. But again, you were assuming everyone is stupid because they want their steaks well done.
40?!
To me, it is so crazy how you're such a foodie and you cannot eat steak/rare meat or sushi! Maybe it is some type of common sense (parasites?) But, raw beef... it is delicious and easy to digest. I wonder if you would eat fish cooked in lemon juice with coconut milk rather than with heat.
You were Aaaallllllllwwaayyyyysssss a work at home mom. You get those duckets now and you deserve it! Have you tried sous vide?
CAAppp. 😏😌🤣
thank you for not pretending bloody meat is actually just juicy
That's not blood.
All the blood was drained when they processed the cow.
@@anakelly76512 its blood with extra steps to make it not blood
@@user-fc2xk3uv8y
It is not blood. The protein called myoglobin is what gives the juice a red hue. That's all.
@@user-fc2xk3uv8y Myoglobin and blood aren't the same thing, blood is drained at the butcher
@@user-fc2xk3uv8yAka it’s not blood and you just want to believe it is
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No no no no no no that thing was still mooing! Lol. I don't like my steaks well done but that was too bloody and underdone looking to me. Ick!
Omg no it’s good you didn’t scoop the oil out, it helps the butter not to burn as you baste it! 🤌 Beautifully done
That is some steak sin....
Must be nice to be a SAHM.
if you want to be saved say this" dear Lord come into my heart I believe that you died on the cross for me and rose again come into my life" Amen
Lmaoo
I think it's not good too press the meat with the spatula. You'll push the juices out. I think. Idk.
This chick acting like they're scrounging for money while cooking on a Wolf stove in that house.
She married an older man for money I don't think she should be giving out financial advice ..🤣
Jesus loves you and cares about you. Have faith.
Just by what I'm hearing you say for the sound of it sound like you are a good woman. Other than your face and body I will tell you what I do like. 1)You said you was a stay-at-home mother but the money your parents gave you you wanted to buy your husband something so that means you are not selfish. 2) you like your food well done😂 3) you did not just lay in the house you came up with a way to make money. 4) even though you make good money you still cater to your man💣. 5) you are fit, friendly an feminine woman💣😎😍. 12-30-23
My the Lord soften your hearts. Jesus loves you , and died on the cross for the whole of humanity.
Jesus still loves and still saves come him as you are. Repent and change your ways and you will be saved.
Oh please, you def don’t have a job still hahahaha
Stay at home mom? She looks like she just started high school. 😂
@janiahfladger8048 That was a compliment. Especially after she had kids. My post wasn't for you anyways. You're the one who needs to stop trying throw 💩 on someone.
Jesus is coming back and you might be left behined give him your life and he will help you with all your troubles it wont be esay but He will be with you all the way. I love you all but Jesus loves you more.
Jesus is coming back repent before it's to late, no one knows the day or the hour.
JESUS is the WAY the TRUTH and THE LIFE.
Why did I cry when you said you saved your birthday money for your husband 😫🥹 maybe because I'm a stay at home and I don't earn and I completely understand the feeling but I was literally crying 🤣
If you and your husband had to pay someone to come into your home daily to do the things you do, how much do you think it would cost? It would cost a lot. The money your husband earns is for both of you, and you should consider it as such, if it’s a problem, check fees for someone, or actually several people to come to your home on a daily basis that will do what you did and you take a job outside the home if that’s what it takes for your husband to understand your worth and for you to understand your worth. Then
you won’t need to feel that you are spending his money on him, but rather y’alls money. I didn’t work outside our home for several years, only went to work part time because all of my friends went to work, but I always considered my husband’s paychecks to be for us, and I bought him many gifts with it, we put all of the money earned by him and me when I went to work in a joint checking account or joint savings account. We didn’t have to explain purchases to each other, but as far as big ticket items went, we discussed those purchases, neither of us would just willy nilly go out and spend thousands. Please consider changing your thinking about your importance and contribution to your household. You are worthy.
The steak looks amazing!
Steak looks damn good, could see it was going to be great just by the way the knife slid through it. I'd smash that whole dinner
Love your shirt!!
Save your birthday and Christmas money to buy your husband gifts that's sweet and thoughtful, selfless is the right word I think correct me if I'm wrong, but your amazing and hearing this melted my heart on this cold snowy Canadian day up here in Toronto, where did Andy find you and is there anymore like you 😂. God bless you and your family love this channel
Jesus is the way the truth and the life no one can get through the Father exept through me.