bad boys are what they desire bro. you gotta make her feel a wide range of emotions. roller coaster. ups and downs. happiness, sadness, good vibes, anger, uncertainty. etc. when you are the simp you ONLY make her feel the same one emotion which is a constant uphill like a roller coaster . and there’s a quote that says you can make a woman feel anything except BOREDOM. she gets bored of the simp
Am 50,and can concur with this guy.I have got more women in my life,when I had absolutely nothing going for me,and struggled when I had a good job,decent flat,etc. That's when the penny dropped
I went on a boy's trip to Florida this past summer. However, one of the homies decided to bring his girlfriend. They're complete opposites. My buddy love Harleys, wheelies, burnouts, drinking, smoking. She likes art, books, and makeup. We all decided to go to the strip club, and she tagged along. She got drunk like everyone else and was spending money on strippers getting dances. We didn't see her much in there though because we were all having a good time. (30+ group of people). I go outside to get some fresh air and I see her as soon as I turn the corner. She's bawling her eyes out and shaking. I asked her what's wrong and she said that my buddy didn't care about her, he's not even looking for her, and she regretted coming to the strip club. She wanted to order an Uber back to the hotel. I was straight up and asked her, "how does a girl like you end up with a guy like him? You're complete opposites." She said she loves the thrill factor. She told me she doesn't even know if he likes her. lol She probably has a lot of options but continues to stay with the guy who doesn't even stay by her side at a strip club that he brought her to. He gives her no validation. She begged me not to tell him that I found her out there like that. I just can't believe a girl would rather be outside of a strip club, crying, than be with a guy that would never put her in that situation. That was an eye opener for me about female nature.
your vids seem like theyre helping so far with this new girl at my work lol. I'm usually the definition of the nice guy but ive been playing it cool. She's giving me compliments, and trying to tease me whenever i go into the office from the shop.. I've never given a compliment back yet because were just colleagues. I think it's killing her that i wont make a move but ill participate in banter. normally i wouldve lost her interest in our first few conversations lol its been 7 months and she still is all smiles and giggles.
4:34- What do women label most men as? The Spanish word is "mandelon". It's not even women's fault. Men have earned it. In my experience women have told me it's "refreshing" to meet a man who is direct and honest in his intentions.
I have been married for 30yrs. I have the same profession as my wife have a business together and have everything we have together. We are great friends and have gone through many different hardships. We persevere . We respect one another being individuals. My love and her love shows in different ways . Zander says he has 10 years of experience but doesn’t have 40 yrs of experience that I have with women. I have to say he’s got a lot more to learn once he understands that he won’t be in his 20s and 30s forever and he can’t play bad boy for too long . Mature relationships both require giving, respect, patience, discipline and friendship. These tactics that Zander puts out are for serial fucking around so he’s gonna see how it feels when he lives in his big house with his big muscles his 458 all alone when he’s 40 . Zander you don’t know it all my friend
Good for you dude. But you're forgetting that you got married in the 90s, which was a completely different period of civilization. Forgetting about social media and dating apps, it was pre INTERNET, for crying out loud. You have no clue what women and dating are like in 2024. It's a mad Max futuristic dystopia. You come from a different era of human history in your little time machine to criticize a guy who's living and breathing the experience of today. If you became single again today and had to start dating and find a new wife you'd get absolutely rocked with your ancient view of women and relationships. Scurry off now, old man.
You both are right, he just said that she always will be more atract to the bad boy, but she needs a man like you to stick arround. And it makes sense, like us men we May have more raw desire for a dancer in the club, but will always love our wife.
agreed. A lot of youtube influencers are black pilled because many women in the 20s don't want to settle down because they have security from jobs/parents and many are immature. They want excitement. It doesn't stay like that forever so I think guys this age should just take it on the chin and focus on making their own lives good.
You're right man. Zander is 100% optimizing his game for women with the highest SMV, those in their 20s. I too, am trying to figure out the balance. My current conclusion is that you need to keep gaming them like their 20 until after they go thru menopause. Then you can probably finally love them like you've always wanted. Idk tho, cuz I'm only 29 yet 😂
I've witnessed this first hand in an extreme form... She made up her own stories about me cheating on her or having a booty call or anything just when i was unavailable for some time... When i apoligized for not letting her know i was unavailable i just thought i gave her what she wanted but that killed interest and more and more tests kept coming. After i told her to get together that same weekend she imagined some weird stupid reasons why we couldnt be together and the pullback was hard but i stayed strong and cut contact.. after two weeks i get texts she is crying of how much she misses and loves me 😂😂😂😂😅 but i say no to that shit thats just playing with my ❤️❤️ ❤
Ok so 7:10 is probably the strongest Truth I've heard about them and the basis for why everything in relationship is the way it is... Wow.. epic info .. thank you for what you do Zander . I know the meaning of your last name my friend. Epic Info
you know whats funny so I got this new tattoo on my chest couple days ago and it says “patience” I sent her a picture of it and she said “i’m gonna test your patience… jk” i then said “test me” the very next day. I didn’t hear from her at all. Until about midnight she texted me. now I am mirroring her energy and haven’t texted her for over 15 hours. 2 can play that game hun. lol it’s funny cuz i know what she’s doing.😂 she wants to see if i’ll get emotional from her little pull back game
I wish this wasn't true but it is. I've been seeing it daily with the girl in my life. The other day I upset her and the next day she told me that I made her cry and that she thinks I don't care about her and I only talk to her cause I'm bored and I wouldn't care if she went away. I didn't say anything and just changed the subject and you know what nothing changed. She thinks that way but still likes me and still wants me. I don't treat her horribly Im just indifferent and it drives her crazy.
I’ve known this a while…but I didn’t realize I’m the bad guy😢. Like damn, no wonder all my “relationships” were just that. “””relationships””” somehow ima “bad boy” Who wants a relationship, shit
I went on a boy's trip to Florida this past summer. However, one of the homies decided to bring his girlfriend. They're complete opposites. My buddy love Harleys, wheelies, burnouts, drinking, smoking. She likes art, books, and makeup. We all decided to go to the strip club, and she tagged along. She got drunk like everyone else and was spending money on strippers getting dances. We didn't see her much in there though because we were all having a good time. (30+ group of people). I go outside to get some fresh air and I see her as soon as I turn the corner. She's bawling her eyes out and shaking. I asked her what's wrong and she said that my buddy didn't care about her, he's not even looking for her, and she regretted coming to the strip club. She wanted to order an Uber back to the hotel. I was straight up and asked her, "how does a girl like you end up with a guy like him? You're complete opposites." She said she loves the thrill factor. She told me she doesn't even know if he likes her. lol She probably has a lot of options but continues to stay with the guy who doesn't even stay by her side at a strip club that he brought her to. He gives her no validation. She begged me not to tell him that I found her out there like that. I just can't believe a girl would rather be outside of a strip club, crying, than be with a guy that would never put her in that situation. That was an eye opener for me about female nature.
Pls brothers I need an advice. There’s this girl I’m really interested in. In the beginning she was sweet and really into me. All of a sudden when I started showing her affection and her helping her out financially she became so cold and distant. What do i do I called her last night she rushed me off the phone very rudely almost like she was out with someone (I’m not sure a 100 percent ) pls what should i do and is there a way to attract her
Bro I know it hurts a lot but I think it’s best to walk away. She most likely just used you to get what she wanted. If she was truly interested in you she would chase you. Know your value, and you should never tolerate disrespect.
@@Ace-gu6wjthat’s because men continue to portray women as winners for existing. Do they not see how they create the very problem they have the nerve to complain about later?
At 55 I'm at the point now who gives a shit...what do I spend money on? And for what? Be happier watching TH-cam videos on how to make TH-cam videos...fuck
The same applies with one of my friends. He comes back apologizing all the time. So I started treating him whatever way I deemed suitable. He comes back every 3 months, only to eventually lose emotional control and let me play him and embarrass him again when he does so. I love these cycles
You just sound like a bad friend and person more generally. I hope your "friend" realizes who you are soon and finds a better friend. Only the insecure prey on the weak.
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Ladies understand bad boys because they're witless hedonists. Tell us about men oh pause.
Remember: You choose to let things bother you
I'm choosing to get less and less bothered
True
If she knows she can’t love you unconditionally, she’ll lose respect when you do. Powerfull
It is from the moment she realizes that she cannot hurt you that she gains the ability to love you.
or she will leave since manipulation not working
@@godsbruh Yes
@@godsbruh 😆🤣😂
That's if she wasn't attracted to you to begin with
Women dont love. They use
@@godsbruhShe failed with me. She took take the L…
Had to learn in life that almost all my problems come from my own mind.
bad boys are what they desire bro. you gotta make her feel a wide range of emotions. roller coaster. ups and downs. happiness, sadness, good vibes, anger, uncertainty. etc. when you are the simp you ONLY make her feel the same one emotion which is a constant uphill like a roller coaster . and there’s a quote that says you can make a woman feel anything except BOREDOM. she gets bored of the simp
This is SO true. It’s a breath of fresh air hearing it.
Am 50,and can concur with this guy.I have got more women in my life,when I had absolutely nothing going for me,and struggled when I had a good job,decent flat,etc. That's when the penny dropped
I went on a boy's trip to Florida this past summer. However, one of the homies decided to bring his girlfriend. They're complete opposites. My buddy love Harleys, wheelies, burnouts, drinking, smoking. She likes art, books, and makeup.
We all decided to go to the strip club, and she tagged along. She got drunk like everyone else and was spending money on strippers getting dances. We didn't see her much in there though because we were all having a good time. (30+ group of people).
I go outside to get some fresh air and I see her as soon as I turn the corner. She's bawling her eyes out and shaking. I asked her what's wrong and she said that my buddy didn't care about her, he's not even looking for her, and she regretted coming to the strip club. She wanted to order an Uber back to the hotel.
I was straight up and asked her, "how does a girl like you end up with a guy like him? You're complete opposites." She said she loves the thrill factor. She told me she doesn't even know if he likes her. lol
She probably has a lot of options but continues to stay with the guy who doesn't even stay by her side at a strip club that he brought her to. He gives her no validation.
She begged me not to tell him that I found her out there like that.
I just can't believe a girl would rather be outside of a strip club, crying, than be with a guy that would never put her in that situation. That was an eye opener for me about female nature.
Best explanation ever in this channel.
Couldn't agree more cause that's what I constantly see women seeking for.
This video is PLATINUM with GOLD trim...
This is so deep it’s scary Case. Thanks for your wisdom. Starting to have second thoughts about women nowadays.
This is 100 percent. Pure FLAME.
your vids seem like theyre helping so far with this new girl at my work lol. I'm usually the definition of the nice guy but ive been playing it cool. She's giving me compliments, and trying to tease me whenever i go into the office from the shop.. I've never given a compliment back yet because were just colleagues. I think it's killing her that i wont make a move but ill participate in banter. normally i wouldve lost her interest in our first few conversations lol its been 7 months and she still is all smiles and giggles.
4:34- What do women label most men as? The Spanish word is "mandelon". It's not even women's fault. Men have earned it. In my experience women have told me it's "refreshing" to meet a man who is direct and honest in his intentions.
what does that term mean, translated ?
I have been married for 30yrs. I have the same profession as my wife have a business together and have everything we have together. We are great friends and have gone through many different hardships. We persevere . We respect one another being individuals. My love and her love shows in different ways . Zander says he has 10 years of experience but doesn’t have 40 yrs of experience that I have with women. I have to say he’s got a lot more to learn once he understands that he won’t be in his 20s and 30s forever and he can’t play bad boy for too long . Mature relationships both require giving, respect, patience, discipline and friendship. These tactics that Zander puts out are for serial fucking around so he’s gonna see how it feels when he lives in his big house with his big muscles his 458 all alone when he’s 40 . Zander you don’t know it all my friend
Good for you dude. But you're forgetting that you got married in the 90s, which was a completely different period of civilization. Forgetting about social media and dating apps, it was pre INTERNET, for crying out loud. You have no clue what women and dating are like in 2024. It's a mad Max futuristic dystopia. You come from a different era of human history in your little time machine to criticize a guy who's living and breathing the experience of today. If you became single again today and had to start dating and find a new wife you'd get absolutely rocked with your ancient view of women and relationships. Scurry off now, old man.
You both are right, he just said that she always will be more atract to the bad boy, but she needs a man like you to stick arround.
And it makes sense, like us men we May have more raw desire for a dancer in the club, but will always love our wife.
agreed. A lot of youtube influencers are black pilled because many women in the 20s don't want to settle down because they have security from jobs/parents and many are immature. They want excitement. It doesn't stay like that forever so I think guys this age should just take it on the chin and focus on making their own lives good.
You're right man. Zander is 100% optimizing his game for women with the highest SMV, those in their 20s. I too, am trying to figure out the balance. My current conclusion is that you need to keep gaming them like their 20 until after they go thru menopause. Then you can probably finally love them like you've always wanted. Idk tho, cuz I'm only 29 yet 😂
Ok boomer.
Age is a number, date, young, live Young and sleep long
Basically don't be a simp
TOTALLY CORRECT!!!!
This timing was perfect.
One Casey video=keeping me on track
I'm solid. You can't hurt a rock.
SCARY, BUT THIS TOO IS 100%. BEEN THERE, AND HAD THIS DONE TOO ME TOO! TO THE LETTER!!
the recipe is to have your heart broken and experience it fully yourself , then you will just do what he says automatically
PERFECT TIMING
Casey....WOW...no words brother...keep cooking...
Best video on TH-cam
True. Happened to me. Almost went to jail.
What happened man?
@rbr8931 Tried to set me up.
ye talk to us
I've witnessed this first hand in an extreme form... She made up her own stories about me cheating on her or having a booty call or anything just when i was unavailable for some time... When i apoligized for not letting her know i was unavailable i just thought i gave her what she wanted but that killed interest and more and more tests kept coming. After i told her to get together that same weekend she imagined some weird stupid reasons why we couldnt be together and the pullback was hard but i stayed strong and cut contact.. after two weeks i get texts she is crying of how much she misses and loves me 😂😂😂😂😅 but i say no to that shit thats just playing with my ❤️❤️ ❤
You are so correct
Thank you Casey,hard to internalize this fr but its what its
Ok so 7:10 is probably the strongest Truth I've heard about them and the basis for why everything in relationship is the way it is... Wow.. epic info .. thank you for what you do Zander . I know the meaning of your last name my friend. Epic Info
5:05 I've seen this so many times by now. It's crazy, but it's true.
ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki shows how to break free, but most people don’t even try
Call the Military 😂 on this
Shit hits hard but it makes a lot of sense.
you know whats funny so I got this new tattoo on my chest couple days ago and it says “patience” I sent her a picture of it and she said “i’m gonna test your patience… jk” i then said “test me” the very next day. I didn’t hear from her at all. Until about midnight she texted me. now I am mirroring her energy and haven’t texted her for over 15 hours. 2 can play that game hun. lol it’s funny cuz i know what she’s doing.😂 she wants to see if i’ll get emotional from her little pull back game
you’re missing out if you ain’t read the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, it breaks it all down
What does she want? 100 men in 24hrs.
I wish this wasn't true but it is. I've been seeing it daily with the girl in my life. The other day I upset her and the next day she told me that I made her cry and that she thinks I don't care about her and I only talk to her cause I'm bored and I wouldn't care if she went away. I didn't say anything and just changed the subject and you know what nothing changed. She thinks that way but still likes me and still wants me. I don't treat her horribly Im just indifferent and it drives her crazy.
"Don't be moral.". How do you respect yourself?
I’ve known this a while…but I didn’t realize I’m the bad guy😢. Like damn, no wonder all my “relationships” were just that. “””relationships”””
somehow ima “bad boy”
Who wants a relationship, shit
trusting this over the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki? no wonder the same cycles keep happening
WTF, the trolling about a silly ebook?
Bro, your video broke my heart. 😔
_THANKS!_ 😅
Why did I have to learn this the hard way..
lotta bots in the comments
how did u catch
You didn't finish your sentence. If women believe they can hurt you, they will.....TRY. Only you can hurt you. It's what you allow
Sir one video make for camnucation skill like interview
Be her lover before her bf
Idk. I don’t relate to this one at all. Maybe if they are a narcissist. All women are not narcissists.
I went on a boy's trip to Florida this past summer. However, one of the homies decided to bring his girlfriend. They're complete opposites. My buddy love Harleys, wheelies, burnouts, drinking, smoking. She likes art, books, and makeup.
We all decided to go to the strip club, and she tagged along. She got drunk like everyone else and was spending money on strippers getting dances. We didn't see her much in there though because we were all having a good time. (30+ group of people).
I go outside to get some fresh air and I see her as soon as I turn the corner. She's bawling her eyes out and shaking. I asked her what's wrong and she said that my buddy didn't care about her, he's not even looking for her, and she regretted coming to the strip club. She wanted to order an Uber back to the hotel.
I was straight up and asked her, "how does a girl like you end up with a guy like him? You're complete opposites." She said she loves the thrill factor. She told me she doesn't even know if he likes her. lol
She probably has a lot of options but continues to stay with the guy who doesn't even stay by her side at a strip club that he brought her to. He gives her no validation.
She begged me not to tell him that I found her out there like that.
I just can't believe a girl would rather be outside of a strip club, crying, than be with a guy that would never put her in that situation. That was an eye opener for me about female nature.
Most are bruh!
🤯
Pls brothers I need an advice. There’s this girl I’m really interested in. In the beginning she was sweet and really into me. All of a sudden when I started showing her affection and her helping her out financially she became so cold and distant. What do i do I called her last night she rushed me off the phone very rudely almost like she was out with someone (I’m not sure a 100 percent ) pls what should i do and is there a way to attract her
Bro I know it hurts a lot but I think it’s best to walk away. She most likely just used you to get what she wanted. If she was truly interested in you she would chase you. Know your value, and you should never tolerate disrespect.
Can someone tell me how tf are we supposed to win at the game?
Never attach to an outcome
There is no winning my friend 😂
Invest in a better tennis 🎾 racket to get better at playing the game. It is just a game.
@yellowquantum4240 at tennis you can win but with women it seems like whatever you do it gets you fucked over
@@Ace-gu6wjthat’s because men continue to portray women as winners for existing. Do they not see how they create the very problem they have the nerve to complain about later?
Is this guy talking from personal experiences?
Damn, he's had it rough.
Money dont matter looks status what 😂?
stuck on repeat? ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki actually changes the game
this is cool and all, but ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki shows the whole picture
No 😂
not saying this is bad, but ebook Magnetic Aura makes it look basic
why stick to surface-level stuff when the ebook Magnetic Aura hits you with the real truth
Casey. With a light shining in your face, why are your pupils so full-out dilated?
I noticed that too.
nobody talks about the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, but it’ll flip how you see everything
M o b
At 55 I'm at the point now who gives a shit...what do I spend money on? And for what?
Be happier watching TH-cam videos on how to make TH-cam videos...fuck
With ya. 52 here.
I'm 57. trust me, go hire young women. it'll keep you happy. usually about $150
The same applies with one of my friends. He comes back apologizing all the time. So I started treating him whatever way I deemed suitable. He comes back every 3 months, only to eventually lose emotional control and let me play him and embarrass him again when he does so. I love these cycles
You just sound like a bad friend and person more generally. I hope your "friend" realizes who you are soon and finds a better friend. Only the insecure prey on the weak.
9:00 ... this guy has a very low opinion of his mother.
Integrity, nah they dont want that.
No wrong, integrity is everything she Will test the limits of yours, but consistency is the killer of exitement.
Is this that fake news my tv has been warning me about?