Alexis. My ex called me on new years eve. I was in an ER, cause my mother had a stroke. Later in February, my father died of covid. He is DA, and I understand him very well. But the lack of any emotional support during such a perilous time push me away. Now I may not want him anymore. (we lived together in harmony and good love for 6 months in Narbonne, and we are now in different countries). Sometimes, it is NOT a test, It is a cry for help. I'm melting down in sadness here, all alone (my brother is with cancer), seeing my family dying before my eyes. And the guy I liver more closed (and I was the ONLY long term relationship he had till now) don't share a word. I understand he's inexperienced, he doesn't know how to use words. But see. It may be too late now.
Can this apply even to LDR's? Me and my ex gf have been split for 9 months now. We've also been doing on and off no contact/radio silence. But as of recently, I decided to get out of radio silence after doing it for 5 months straight and redownload my social media apps and I ended up seeing my ex post on her story on fb and insta saying that she was on a lunch date with someone. But what makes me feel weird about my situation is that she never really posted much about relationships even when I was with her. She kept things private. So idk if she's posting these things due to try to make me jealous to get a reaction out of me or if she's genuinely happy. Plus she still has pictures up on her profile that relate to our past relationship (pictures that I took of her and the captions on them mention me.) She even shared a bunch of songs that were about regretting breaking up with someone and wishing they could come back and other types of love songs which to me indicates she's having a mixed signal rollercoaster in her mind during my radio silence period with her. But I feel like all my chances of getting back with her are starting to die out as time passes by... I've made so much progress to myself during the time we've been split. But no one on my social media's know about it because I haven't posted in 5 months. I feel like even if I decided to post again to show my changes, it wouldn't make her feel attracted to me that much. Especially if there really is a new person in her life. Do you think I should just give up on her or to hold on to hope for this to turn this around some day? I can't sleep properly due to constantly overthinking about everything in my situation. There's even a thought in my head that keeps saying "idk what hurts the most, holding on or letting go." I apologize if my comment is so long. I could really use some guidance on what to do.
I can see you've done amazing job. Well done! Do you have friends in common? Don't underestimate the word of mouth. Gossips are a way more powerful medium than social media!
@@AlexisFriedlander We don't have friends in common because our relationship was long distance. But do you think I should give up on my situation if there possibly is another person in the picture or do you think I should hold out hope for this to turn around some day?
My avoidant Ex has reached out today after almost 60 days of nc which I started directly after he broke up with me. He sent a screenshot of a newspaper article showing the result of the European elections in France. His comment was "we both predicted that this would happen one day"...My response after 5 hours was, ..."c'est désastreux'. That's all..😢 I'll see if there'll be a follow-up from his side. By the way the result of your test is 23.3
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Alexis. My ex called me on new years eve. I was in an ER, cause my mother had a stroke. Later in February, my father died of covid. He is DA, and I understand him very well. But the lack of any emotional support during such a perilous time push me away. Now I may not want him anymore. (we lived together in harmony and good love for 6 months in Narbonne, and we are now in different countries). Sometimes, it is NOT a test, It is a cry for help. I'm melting down in sadness here, all alone (my brother is with cancer), seeing my family dying before my eyes. And the guy I liver more closed (and I was the ONLY long term relationship he had till now) don't share a word. I understand he's inexperienced, he doesn't know how to use words. But see. It may be too late now.
Can this apply even to LDR's? Me and my ex gf have been split for 9 months now. We've also been doing on and off no contact/radio silence. But as of recently, I decided to get out of radio silence after doing it for 5 months straight and redownload my social media apps and I ended up seeing my ex post on her story on fb and insta saying that she was on a lunch date with someone. But what makes me feel weird about my situation is that she never really posted much about relationships even when I was with her. She kept things private. So idk if she's posting these things due to try to make me jealous to get a reaction out of me or if she's genuinely happy. Plus she still has pictures up on her profile that relate to our past relationship (pictures that I took of her and the captions on them mention me.) She even shared a bunch of songs that were about regretting breaking up with someone and wishing they could come back and other types of love songs which to me indicates she's having a mixed signal rollercoaster in her mind during my radio silence period with her. But I feel like all my chances of getting back with her are starting to die out as time passes by... I've made so much progress to myself during the time we've been split. But no one on my social media's know about it because I haven't posted in 5 months. I feel like even if I decided to post again to show my changes, it wouldn't make her feel attracted to me that much. Especially if there really is a new person in her life. Do you think I should just give up on her or to hold on to hope for this to turn this around some day? I can't sleep properly due to constantly overthinking about everything in my situation. There's even a thought in my head that keeps saying "idk what hurts the most, holding on or letting go." I apologize if my comment is so long. I could really use some guidance on what to do.
I can see you've done amazing job. Well done!
Do you have friends in common?
Don't underestimate the word of mouth. Gossips are a way more powerful medium than social media!
@@AlexisFriedlander We don't have friends in common because our relationship was long distance. But do you think I should give up on my situation if there possibly is another person in the picture or do you think I should hold out hope for this to turn around some day?
My avoidant Ex has reached out today after almost 60 days of nc which I started directly after he broke up with me. He sent a screenshot of a newspaper article showing the result of the European elections in France. His comment was "we both predicted that this would happen one day"...My response after 5 hours was, ..."c'est désastreux'. That's all..😢
I'll see if there'll be a follow-up from his side.
By the way the result of your test is 23.3
My ex tells me his life is lonely and unfulfilled what does that mean
How could he feel less lonely and how could he feel his life is more fulfilled?
I think you re part of the answer
I failed...