'I had a baby with my first cousin! If only mom had told me about my dad's identity' - *Ann
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- Anna* (Not her real name) got pregnant while she was in form three. It was after a relationship with a man who she came to learn later that he was her first cousin!
Her child was born with down syndrome, a condition she suspects was as a result of conceiving with a close relative.
In all this, She wishes that if only her mother had told her about her dad's identity.
Kagoni, the way you represent yourself haki 🤔... so professional and humble. May God fulfill the desires of your heart
Yes she is very humble
Sure
That's why I love her
Wow mtoi anashare birthday na mtoto wangu and pia mm nlijipata nmepata mtoto na cousin yangu of which mm sikua najua ju aunty yangu(cousin ya dad) ameoleka kwa huyo kijana na nlikuja kujua tuko related after nshajifungua😭😭😭 well it was tough but we had to part ways 😢😢💔💔💔but cousin love ni very addictive ju we could meet ata akiwa ameoa ju alioa after kuachana thn mm nlidate tena na nkapata mtoto mwingine bt sikufeel satisfied kwa huo uhusiano bt we could meet over and over na hdi my cousin akakosana na bibi na akaenda😢😢😢😢 well hasaidiangi mtoto wetu first born but i left it to God but what i can request all parents out there to introduce us to our relatives ju hatuwajui ata to avoid future issues 😢😢😢😢🤦♀️🤦♀️
I don't know why but this story does not add up.
Monica, this story is abit confusing but I think if possible to bring her mum kwa platform tuskie her side of the story also, may b sh has her reason, but ata msichana was not wise mbona when she had ppl in the village telling her huyo ni cousin so yake? partly she can b blamed
I agreed. Coz even after knowing the guy is her cousin she still continued with the relationship.
Anna why entertain a man with no interest with your Kid . ata wewe umeanguka zote
Hutaki mtoi wangu na nilale na wewe?????????????????😲😲😲😲
She wasn't wise or lacked maturity. She belongs to that class which Nzulu is always critical of coz of kiddishness.
Hi monicah. can we here her mother's side of story. Because from her story she one time rebelled against her mother. As a single mother she paid her school fees even after loosing money in the previous school she was before giving birth. Ann too needs a lot of counseling and prayers.
Children rebel at one point or the other in life and majority of the time even worse than this, this is a determined girl, she went back to school, please, let us not just pin this little girl , I think she is just worried about the future of the baby and the condition the baby is in.
I wish the mom told her the guy was her cousin rather than just telling her to stop the relationship without giving reasons.
Sad! Parents should tell kids about their family. When I was growing up, all our relationships were aimed at marriage. So you took the boy home before sleeping with them. Things have really changed.
Am monicah I think it's good when the boy is grown the mother should tell him the truth so it will not repeat it self again
Kagoni I love all your shows and am your biggest fan but this girl for her yo heal n move on she must admit her mistake, she can't shift blame to the mum yet she took her self to the man ,, she was warned about the relationship but she couldn't here,, after delivery the mom took her back to school even after loosing her money before,, she is blaming the man for not taking care of the baby yet from her own words I can tell she is also not giving it all to her son , she said hajui kama mtoto anapelekwa therapy , how now, she can't even do the follow up for the sake of her son yet she is blaming her mom n grandmom who are now raising the baby , he took himself back to the man after being neglected with the baby ,, nini husumbua watu surely
I think wanafaa kuongea kifamilia for the seek of baby wafanye zile magongona zinafaa
This girl is trying to make the mother look like she is responsible of her child's health. She is fully responsible to that child. Making excuses that her mum is not taking the child to hospital is not fair. Her mum took her to school, returned her to school after she gave birth, supported her with her child. Why is she trying to make her mother look like a devil?
Very true
Huyu.dame.nikama.anadanganya Cox mamake haezi kuwa alinjua
Kagoni, niku kuu muiritu athaithagwo auge mwana niwau 😉 iyo ni miaka ya gatene hihi, nowadays mundu nieringie nirwa nyariri .
Onanii ningurigitwo
Sorry gal for what happened to you your story has taught me alot I will tell my sweet babies about their dad wen there old enough no secrets
I see people judging this girl...however this is a girl realizing years of abuse and being naive. If she was 16 when she gave birth the kid is turning 5. Kumaanisha she is only 21yrs only. Saa hii ndio anafunguka macho. Very sad indeed. I would also blame all people around her.
She shouldn’t wear that kitenge again otherwise paparazzi wa shoshio media ni wakali
True
Sure
Itamuuza aki
True
May be ata anajulikana may be Kuna wenye wanajua story yake.. Maneno huenda kama upepo na sauti pia inasikika
She was a minor for sure Arume Arume let's have manners
This is the worst story Monica brought us. This Annah is blaming everyone for her situation. Sasa Annah ukienda Naivasha na Nyeri your mother was not there. Take your kid and hustle with your baby. Your cucu na your parents were not there when you made your baby. Help getting a lawyer is ok, but even after the baby came she was still sleeping with the cuzo. You went sleeping with him many yrs after the baby came na he was not supporting neither you nor the baby. I guess the lady is bitter coz chali has maybe decided to concentrate on his new family. Sorry I don’t support you Annah nor your bullshit. Monica this story was not worth the airtime.
True...i also question the notion she did not knew he was his cousin, how on earth can you live in same locality with your cousin and know not- at least the villagers will alert you- i cant get over that. Also she claim her mother knew of her friendship with the boy but never told her who he was, am like 😚😚😚 for i know any mother out there would do anything possible to warn her daughter of dangers lurking. I can poke her story alot but as you said this is total bs. I happen to know someone who married his first cousin daughter, both knew very well their situation and were warned, never headed the warning went ahead,lives together and have children, of course they cut themselves off the larger family- if that relationship went sour we might see the girl blaming all like this one....
Kagoni and your team hongera sana..pili kagoni na mgeni wako mwapendeza..Wazazi najua ndio ifike kwambia watoto ati baba au mama alikufa au alikanyangwa na lori najua nikwasababa ya situation..ila naomba tuwe na moyo wa kuwaambia ata'alienda ngambo kufanya kazi"till the right tyme for them to knw the truth..juu the moment you remarries again kumskiza mtoto aitane mama au baba itakuwa ngumu sana..."Ann"kindly usimlaumu mama yako kwa chochote naam alikosea lakini kwa wakati wazazi hujipata kwa hali ambayo ni ngumu kwambia watoto kuhusu ukoo zao..ila naomba tujaribu kuwa uwazi ...nikitamatisha kindly ukipata na mtu mtoto na hamsaidii mtoto kwa njia yeyote ile emotional,physicaly.financial..kindly give your self a space huyo mtu ako na haja na mwili wako..Absentiz parent surelly lets try being there for our kids even if you got married somewhere else remember your kids.Ann MAY YOU FIND PEACE AND YOUR FAMILY inshallah.
Mmmh ! Some fathers don't even want to be associated with their children that's why mothers don't put him in the child's life .... some children go to look for their fathers and the so called fathers reject them so no chances to know their paternal relation .
If and am using if coz this story is soooo complicated, IF the whole thing is true, she don’t have to punish her self this much just because she have a kid with a cousin, angalia Kabi wa Jesu they are still breathing in and out despite ile war Edgar amewapatia na netizens, again condition ya mtoi awache kusema ni ju walizaa na cuzo it happens hata kwa wenye hawaja relate, gal am pretty sure kuna siku utaangalia nyuma uone this current situation was nothing, hai deserve your energy hata kidogo but again i can say its because at your age inakua ngumu ku handle.
Anyway it’s well gal never blame anyone for whatever you go through for nothing is a surprise in God’s eyes ✌🏽
I cannot judge her, when you have low self esteem a stone will tell you how much they love you and you will believe it. Many years ago I fell for this guy who I thought was perfect this was until his wife called me. I had asked if he was single and he had said he was, he even asked me to go and meet his mom and I said I was not ready. He invited me to his church and it was amazing. However, looking back I can see all the signs I ignored that he was lying. Anyway, after I found out he was married I was heartbroken, but when he called we meet in his church I went running. I was really lucky, that Sunday if he had apologised and said something as stupid as I lied because I did not want to loose you, I would have forgiven him. He did not! and ignored the whole issue. I resolved never to see him again. Looking back but I can see how desperate I was, I wasn’t in love but I guess I felt so lowly about myself.
I think this is what troubles most single mothers. Lack of self worth. I am 1 and when I look back I agree with you. Those men know easy prey they are. I think the society starting with parents should start teaching their children their self worth. We pay too much for education but we don't spend time educating our kids. Either we are too shy or don't know. We leave that responsibility to either teachers or church but never 1 on 1.
We need to address this issues
This story makes no sense
1.You dated/ seen together for 3 years and you claim nobody alitoa fununu you are related?
2.You said his place and your mum's house was 3 minutes away and for 3 years nobody busted you together?
3. You continued to sleep with him after having the baby and he has never seen the baby for 4 years?
4. No one has ever revealed the baby resembles that man who lives 3 minutes away in the estate.
5.You continued to sleep with him after he got married until his marriage fell apart.
Please, you have not made some smart decisions my lady. Your mum warned you to leave the man alone but you ignored her.She did not know what you were doing behind her back.Instead of going to church& keshas you were spending wonderful time with him.This is the product.But we all make mistakes no one is perfect but don't ignore red flags.🔥🔥🔥
Samuel Mwangi u were reading my mind n writing 😆 anyway I don't know wat else to say.......
Pre 25 🙆 not yet matured... Thank God for uncle Beja Zulu who is rebuking them without mercy but very helpful
Huyu ata ako na ujinga bona alijua n cuzo still akaedelea to make the matter was hiyo miaka 3years alikua akieda kulala na cuzo anacha mtoi bona asibebe mtoi
Yeah pia kalikuwa kajinga, ata hiyo time they were still pushing ata angepata ball ingine. All the sama ilichafanyika na gutire mundu oragite.
but why usipeleke mtoto wako hospitali...unaachia mamako mzigo you are not doing right
Sad story indeed. May she find peace with her mom n forgive a careless cousin who took advantage of her. With God everything is possible. More Blessings in your Future endeavours, "Annah".
Kindly change the voice completly and attire cover cz personally i can identify the person well. For purpose of protection
Though it is not allowed in our culture to have love affair with relatives in gulf countries they marry cousins and they live happily...
But many kids N viwete na walemavu wengine N wanjinga na more of them are foolish
@@nancieprincess7363 . 😂, and they are full of ufala.
It's really sad that she was deprived of her youth, I feel like she's still young in mind according to how she's speaking.
In my opinion her mother introducing the dad to her wouldn't have changed anything if she was in love. I'm saying this cause even with the warning from her mom, the villagers talking and the man himself telling her they're related she didn't stop seeing him.
I pray and home she forgives herself and everyone involved so that she can heal. And more so get professional counseling.
Am asking myselofu...how can you continue dating a guy umejua ni your COUSIN na githukia muno you spend alot of MONEY kwenda DATE yet he is not SUPPORTING his child?
This guy married when you were still in a relationship,and you continued kama mpango🤔.
The relationship ilijulikana kwa Kijiji and at some point unasema uliguziwa of how you are related 😲.
Anyway may God intervene and see you through Ann.
Atuambie ukweli
She was young and naive.first love hard to let go.unaambiwa sweet nothings n forget everything
Am not judging...but gicagi MTU anajuanga story nyingi about the roots ...hawezi kuwa alionekana na huyo kijana na akose kuabiwa ni cousin yake na watu... though it was her mom's responsibility 🚶🚶
All that time nawalikua wana meet how come huyo jamaa hajawai ona huyo mtoto up to date hii story n tricky sana
Oh this oh this mchanganyiko wa maneno
I think she can take the child to a normal school.
It's a complicated story though this thing of having relationship with cuz is very common,wish her all the best
It's not worthy it coz of heath conditions pls it against the law in Kenya
This girl is not serious....mbona usikae na mtoto wako umpeleke hosi
I wonder
Things happen my cousin married where her sister was married for the last 6 years untill this evil engagement happens
Sorry but somehow this story doesn't make sense...haina ile flow..am trying to follow but aki haieleweki
The moment you allowed this man to be using without even showing interest for his kid is the day waguire tuothe.. Dust off recorrect yourself and move on with your life
Sometimes Parents goes thru alot in the hands of their kids,shes arrogantly saying, #Ampeleke hospitali kama atampeleka#Like How🤔Yur kid is yur responsibility,yur mother brought yu up,eeish...No matter the Circumstances yur putting too Much Blame on her!its not right
First love hukuwa ivo iremember mm pia nilikuwa nimechizi na shenzi Ingine hapo... Mm alikuwa ananishow ataniwacha nalia Jesu Girl mm nakuelewa just move on mammie
😅😅😅, ati shenzi...mine was worse. He used to ask me for money and l would give him my pocket money.
Wee kaschana ulikkua na tabia mbaya,,,. Yani ulianza relationship ukiwa primary....
You are being unfair to your mother by claiming she never told you who your dad is and so did not know that your boyfriend was your cousin, yet rumours were all over the place that wewe ni cousin yake. It's true children should be told who their fathers are but you should not blame her for your actions.
Waa ucio mwanake niwe wakublame tondu nioi okuma kiabiriria wi cousin yake.hii ni normal huku Gulf they even marry like 3 cousins in two families
But it is incest in our land
Curse from fore fathers I guess
That's why there is a lot of children with disabilities in Gulf if you can take a survey
Kuna story ingine ya macuzo bt hao ni ma promi wanajifanya hawajali a
I can't see big deal here (though am not advocating for marriages between relatives, even God has forbidden it) nowadays it has become normal I think the society has normalized it!! Cousins marrys, hata waarabu na waislamu wanaoga cousins wao or same clan their must be related!! Christians has also taken the same course, mtu wakwanza kunikatia alikuwa cousin yangu though hakuwa cousin wakaribu eti mum or dad side.... Ni wale relatives huwezi elezea 😁, I Thank God sikuingia box I was able to stepback before it goes further....!! Hata kabi WAjesus alizaa na cousin yake immediate cousin mtoto WA anty yake,.. All in all as a Christian this thing should be rebuked!! It's all over the world (western countries and Asians
Monica Monica, pls don't just tell single women about telling their children their fathers. Do you have an idea that there are some married women who have children who are not their husbands' but they can never tell their children the truth cos they never married with a child. Don't you think these children could also mess with their blood cousins from their biological father's side.? So don't address only single women. Address all women because only them who know the father of their children.
Next time funika mtu na Leso kwa kichwa cz mtu wa camera anaonyeshana infront..
Infact, cameraman has gone out of his/her way to prove their skills. Showing her whole body, necklace, hands etc ....please
I don’t need to listen much !!!, the gal feels sharp , the mother feels ok , grandpa Rest In Peace , shushu ni gute
Im glad that a counsellor will be engaged to help her. Sad thing that 13-year-olds can start a relationship. Parents lets keep an eye on our kids. "Anna" its time for you to grow up now. a mistake happened but you can rise again, be responsible and move on with your life. I dont believe your child's disability is as a result of your familial ties with your cousin. Expose your child starting today. Let him go to school. you can make arrangements with duthi or whatever to ensure he gets to school and back safely. The sooner he starts school the better it will be for him. Unfortunately statistics show that kids born to a single family home end up being single mothers themselves. Now is the time for you to break the cycle. If it means going back home and mending your relationship with your mother so both of you can assist your son do it!
She knew the man was his cousin before getting pregnant na fununu,and she continued with him.watoto wengi siku hizi vichwa ngumu hawaabiwi,anyway pole
If the dress she is wearing is hers,then those who know her can easily recognise her.
True
Coz ya body
And the hairstyle too plus the chain
My thought too..
I thought so too coz it's very unique
I feel sorry for her, its important for parents to let their children knows about their relatives, whether marries or not. But i also blame her, she is still seeing the guy even after knowing of their blood relation. Don't say you are bewitched. End that relation asap, you dont want to have another child with the same cousin.
I don't think The child having down syndrome is as a result of her having a child with the cousin..
Muslim n other communities do that n their children are normal.
But there exist another breed who don't want to know their father at all. I am one of them and honestly I will NEVER want to know/smell him. I thank God mum have me a decent life.
Am confused with the story Monica I didn't get her well neither did I understand her but message umefika thank you
Same here
Utapeli ndo umekua mob huku walai
What a touching story, this is the reality nowadays, I wish we can go back to having family get togethers, family meetings so that family can know their relations, please our elders in the family help us young ones to know our family
Immorality is rife in our teenage n young adults. Many are in this engagements, regardless
Were it not that I have confidence in Monica and the stories she brings, ningesema this is scripted...
Pole sana Ann .. She can visit any children's welfare they wl gv her a lawyer from government...
Many things are not adding up. Most single mothers are very protective. Wish we could hear the mum's story.
Waongee kama family njuu mtoto anaweza pona
I think you have a wonderful and supportive Mum.
Kagoni I'm lost.
Hii story sielewi hata
You did a mistake but why you kept going back, he didn't support you and the baby why you went bach, he married and still you continued, he told you he is a cousin, why you continued. Don't blame your mom, love her and move on, will you tell your child/ if he can understand that uncle is his dad!!! Its hard😥 . seek for help and you doing good speaking up.
It is wrong to judge this girl... this her journey of healing...i wish her well thanks Monica for this interview...no need to throw stones at this girl....
Young people should have some sense. Imorality and infidelity ndio inawamaliza.
We were in love with my cousin ..but after high school we parted ways
The cousin knew and still took advantage, he continued taking advantage of her innocence. God will make a way be strong for the baby boy all will be well
He knew. That’s why he married someone else, even while he continued seeing Ann. He is also older and took advantage of her when she was young and in school.
Very True dear 👍
Lets pray 4 her
@@quinnchee3309 True
She was 16 when she got pregnant. By some jurisdictions, she was an adult. Her contemplating abortion by herself is strong evidence she could make decisions by herself. Alidanganya mama yake when she became sexually active etc. She knew withdrawal as a means of contraception.
So, talking abt advantage etc assumes she was innocent which isn't the case. A foolish narrative women give na hao ndo wataumia. Teach your girls to take responsibility abt their sexuality
@@phillipsidhojapap1461I meant he knew they were related and continued doing it. Besides what she knows 16 year old is a minor and one can be jailed for that
Why hide the face en its an encouragement forum
Her voice is known to her friends and family. Clothes as well
Her voice has been altered
Likes za Monica my friends..
I have my two cousins who met in university and started dating but atleast one of the parents noted early enough and called them and told them they should not go any far with what they had coz they are cousins.
This is so teaching same as my story my second last brother his father an my father are brothers 😭😭😭 sometimes I try to understand but all the same
Woi
This is okey juu kitambo watu walikuwa wanaoa sister if amekufa na watoto ni wadogo her sis anaolewa analea watoto wa sis yake but this is first cousin.
@@ichaihellen2033 hujanielewa my dad is alive an his brother who is dad to my brother wote wako ,so wht really confused me my brother ni mdogo na he always say whn he grow up lazima atamtafuta babake wht if those brothers doesn't know wamepata mtoto na same mother
Wah🤔
WaAah things do happens ata my daughter was saved by one lady mwenye ako neighbour sikua najua watajuana ni place nlikua nmeolewa so thy meet na watoto wa coz za baba Yao now thy know I thank God hizi vitu ziko.
Sitetei single mums but you are too harsh to them. The Mum is also pained by her former relationship so there must be a reason why she had not revealed. Talk also to her too
Relationship ya 2 yrs in sec na she jst mentioned she started friendship while in std 6,7 with the same guy?...how now?...randomly all the villagers knew Annas relationship with the guy but the mum never knew her dota was dating?....The mother couldnt even get to hear village gossips about her dota?...anyways bora uhai
Mushene haifikiangi mwenyewe mostly.The mum seems like a cool hardworking lady and she trusted this girl who in return misused the freedom.
Thank God hukupata mwingine na yeye coz uliendelea kulala na yeye even after kuzaa na kuabadorn mtoi.mimi mtu Hana haja na mtoto wangu huyo naachana naye tu mapema ata kabla tuanze.
I feel for her when she says she has never found anyone to talk to 💖🙏
Tell her not to cry.many communities marry cousins. It's not a sin neither is it against the law. Abraham was Sarah's half brother. Yaani closer than a cousin. In anycase you didn't know. Kwani iko Nini. It's no big deal
Ati # waiting
It's big deal to some communities like hers and mine , our conscious doesn't allow us to marry same blood .
That was in the old testament. We live in the new testament
"Utakanyuireire Ndoi Ke Rita"......I start my comment with a saying today.....Looking at teenage motherhood from another perspective; having been one; its always a time that one needs love, care and mental support from your loved ones. But being in a situation where no one asks you how are you, how are you fairing it becomes tough even in the future to handle the issue of *Anna. One develops bitterness, self-denial comes in and with this one's self esteem goes down. On the other hand; from my point of view, this lady first needs counseling as Monica has stated so as to first boost her mental health and be able to love herself as she is. Let's love young mothers and a challenge to young mothers; Raise your kid, be a responsible mother because at the end of the day what matters most to children is what their parents do, not what age their parents are. Big up Monica Kagoni for this inspiring & enlightening content. May the Lord keep expanding Metha ya Kagoni.
Woiye l feel her pain ,hadi monicah kagoni unakaa kulia woiye😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Monica you are so Mature in yóur interviews and how you try to make us understand a story
Khai ici cia umuthi kagoni niciarega mitheko, I really feel for that gal, khai kwanza mtoi akiwa na a certain condition, its painful
Hii story niya wajesus. Incest in the family?????
Ndoi mwana wake???😳
It is so painful,kogoni thanks for for that wisdom that God has give you am proud of you Anne be strong blsngd
Ûratûmire njûrie mother who was/is my dad🤭🤭. A question I have never got courage to ask. At least Now I got a clue. Based on my analysis, I DNT think nishapatana na cousin.
😂😂😂reke tu tutheke
She needs help. She has too many excuses when it comes to her responsibility to the child. She asked the mother to bring the child, why didn’t she go get the child herself, Mara the school sijui iko mahali mtoto haezi enda, my thinking is she is just spoiled na ako na umangaa yenye ilimfikisha mahali ako and that’s not the end of the world, we all make stupid mistakes especially at that age but she needs to remove every one from the equation and ask herself how she contributed to this situation,seek forgiveness from her mom and grandparents and together as a family they take care of the child. She has to be made to understand she doesn’t have the luxury of being a child anymore unfortunately. Also stop blaming a mother who raised you mpaka unaeza kaa chini umuongelelee na wewe uneshindwa na mtoto wako wa miaka tano? What story will that child mwenye ata hujapeleka shule tell the world 🤔
No need of blaming her mother, that woman brought her up,she must accept accountability and correct her mistakes this is where it starts.excuses can not help anyone to move on but anyway this girl can rise up above the storms and make right decisions
This girl is acting like she is the victim. Does she knows the struggle her mother went through bringing her up as a Single mother and now has to take care of her grandchild?? Trying to Paint her mother with blood??? She should own up to her mistakes and work out her life without this blame game she is playing. She has a wonderful mother Who takes care of her child. She should at least respect her mum
@@lovelovely4575 yes preach on ooh this girl is trying to blame her mom for her own immoral behaviour,she was not supposed to sleep around while in high school,I expect her to own up to her mistakes and stop blame games.her mother is a good woman she's raising the grandchild for her,this is not the end of life she's still young and can change her future for better she's not a victim here she chose to sleep around without reasoning it's time to correct the past and work towards making her life better including that for her child
@@doreenkathure1799 ..Exactly. She needs to go and apologize to her mum for talking rubbish about her when she is at home taking care of her child. She was home 3 months ago, hallo!!! Is she a better mother? 3 months ago? Does she live in Mandela or Turkana? She got me upset. This generation is so unappreciative!!!! Sijui tutaenda wapi
@@lovelovely4575 yes am thinking the same,we have raised a generation of youngsters who lack discipline,no accountability whatsoever someone has to be blamed for bad decisions these youngsters make..she has guts to bad mouth her mom who is raising her son at home, atleast I need to see remorse and change of heart.i do not believe this girl at all.i need to hear the other side of the story..I keep wondering why someone would talk about their mom this way of social.
she's such a brave woman to have opened up about it.......hope the baby is fine
Ako na downsydrome
Lets remain hopeful 🙏
Sure she's
Thenks Monica for this story i have learned a lesson pole annah
Thenx Monica..... this is important.....as boundaries in families become porous, lots of psychoeducation is needed to avoid incest....parents need to be more open with their children....especially on paternity matters....
I'm of the view that more needs to be done in ethics of interviewing vulnerable/sensitive clients.....its only her face u blurred but was still visible when she bended.....her hands, hair &.her mouth r recognizable.......her voice needed to be twerked......her dress was a sell out to those known to her.....
This gal is hurting badly.... lots of issues coming up in her sharing.....being an only child...broken/strained relationships....encountering family secrets......raising a child abled differently.....financial instability.......professional therapy needed here....
I feel her pain indeed😭😭😭 l can relate
😭😭🙏🙏
Very painful God have mercy on us in this journey of life
I don't know, but my concern here is the baby, that baby should be taken to school, our guest Anna, maybe there is someone in the neighborhood, who would not mind just taking the child to school quickly in the morning, and picking up maybe for a fee of 2000, trying talking to mum maybe you say you contribute 1500 and mum maybe 1000 and the school problem can be solved for now, ama mtu wa duthi in the area, before you sort out the problem the legal way.
2nd Anna, even parents do make mistakes, and something was not done the right way but your mum is a good mother in her own way , but I'm sorry that things went down that way...I would encourage you even if the man come forward or not...know that you are enough, work closely with mum, try your best to befriend her and your life and the life of your baby will improve, she is at least there, looking after the baby, sacrifice your salary, and I pray for baby to get better, even you to get better
Why did she continue with him after knowing the Truth Ngai
Huyu ni rebel
Blood is thick than water
@@joiceanne8195 . Agreed.
The Mother of this Lady is to be appreciated for her commitment to her daughter. This Lady should never ever blame her mother cause she sacrificed so much to make her have the best.
She is a spoilt brat!
Kagoni pls sometimes consider kuficha nguo na sauti coz some of us we can recognise her voice and clothes...my two cents opinion
Ata nywele and the colour of her skin. People that know her can know whom it is.
Mimi sioni kitu wameficha. Wangemfunika na leso and use a voice over
Monica we are living in the society that blames each other for our own failures and if I am not wrong Anna was very much aware the guy was her cousin but ignored.
How !!! Ucio ni uremi, how come hakujua ni first cousin!!!! Wacha And you live in same place
Huyo kijana ni shindwe alitaka tu kujaribu huyu msichana
Pole dada,
Kagoni you look awesome in this Kadress 😘😘😘😘
Na bado wanapush na huyo cousin si waachane aah
Ur cousin has a spirit of Solomon a spirit that has no boundary