How To Win Your Wife Back
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 พ.ค. 2022
- Yes, it IS possible to WIN back your wife for good.
There's also a way to win her back without using control or manipulation tactics.
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I’m literally going through this. While it’s not 100% my fault. I’m literally falling apart rn. I love this girl so much but I was in the military (yes I know.) and was dealing with a lot of outside factors and lost myself. In that time she became checked out. I’m gonna give this a try. I’m in therapy rn for my anger and hopefully this works. I have until June to really figure this out. Wish me luck boys
You got this bro!
Do NOT be emotional what so ever.
Be daring and exciting.
Make decisions.
Thats it .
lord give me strength
I lost her. I have PTSD severe depression and I'm an alcoholic. Couldn't be better happy Veterans Day. God bless.
I want my best friend back. I can’t believe she’s leaving and it’s all my fault. I neglected my best friend in this life and I feel like I lost myself in the process. I want my soulmate back.
Dude same situation here. It feels terrible.
Same here, even though I understand why she's leaving it still hurts
Same here…..
Same here
I’m almost to this point. She hasn’t left yet but I fear she will. It’s tearing me apart
I need to stop lying and change my whole life
If you truly mean that make the changes I am having to change so many things about myself..it's hard work but she is worth it.
I Agree with both of you same here...
Good.
Me too
At least y'all are honest with yourselves
My Wife has been telling me for years what She wants and needs. I have failed Her so much. This video was helpful and informative. 💔
You shouldn't have to 'win' her back. If you have to earn that then you were always going to lose. It's not a game. It's supposed to be two people who work together on an equal playing field. Once one person decides they need to be 'won,' then it's over. Divorce is a selfish choice. There's no way around that. If you are unhappy then work on it. You don't throw the baby out with the bathwater.
I agree with you. Women are told to leave their lovers when things get tough instead of working on it. Men are vilified amd it's considered ok to just abandon them.
I agree why get her back if they leave thats where you leave them behind there loss
Not fault divorce destroyed marriages
Not relly the whole story. Your partner is not leaving you from day today. This process takes long time. And it's not like they didn't try to work on it, didn't give you the signs etc.
If you are with someone but you feel słońca and lonely, how much you can take?
THANKS FOR OPENING OUR EYES
You hit all of the points. I am grateful of your video.
Hi Nathan, thank you! I’m so sorry to hear about your loss, any one going through this, I too know the immense pain, I hope all the best to you each and every one of you !
Great video, thank you!
Very helpful. Thank you.
Excelente info brother!!
Great advice! I actually came to the PIES conclusion on my own. I thought how can I make myself more attractive to my wife and physically I thought to build my upper body as I'm lacking significantly, clean up my language and stop doing things like beating a dead horse, work on my emotions by acting more like an independent man, and get closer to God.
You just voiced my thoughts and validated what I believe I should be doing.
My wife hasn't left me but did tell me that if I am not happy with a series and emotionless marriage then we can divorce if that would make me happier.
I'm hurting bad! But your advice is the only choice I see that has any chance of working.
Thank you for your amazing advice. You’ve changed my perspective 👌
Your 100 percent right I’m working already on two of my pies and saw a sign let’s keep working on the well
Thank you, Nathan, much appreciated!
Thank you for this ❤
I am thankful for videos like this. It is spot on. Thank you for everything. It is inspiring. 👍👍
Thanks this helps
Thank you!
I’ve messed up our relationship and she has told me to stop with doing the bad things that I’m doing and for some reason it’s just hard for me to do that! Today she told me that she wants to move on and I did beg her and she said she would think about it that it’s not a yes ! But I’m just going to work on myself for myself and hopefully she’ll notice that and be willing to start all over with me
Just found this video while currently going through a trial separation that is likely heading for divorce. I can guarantee, from my personal experience, that pleading and begging doesn't work. To be honest though, even if I had seen this video I probably would have made the same mistakes. With hindsight I can see these actions were wrong and I can also see the correct way forward is exactly what this video says. Thank you for the honesty.
Thanks
Thanks man
Thank u 🙏🏻
Bro called me out on all the “Don’t Dos”
I messed up my relationship yrs ago. I tried to use finances, victim, snooping everything he named to control the situation. And she seen it coming and only made matters worse. We still love together but are almost living desperate lives. I’ve been so caught up on trying to make it right, I’ve lost touch with myself. PIES IT IS. If she don’t want me after this at least I’ll be bk in touch with me
Thanks.
I wish I want to watch this video a couple weeks ago. We still currently live together by separate in the house. And when she gets off work she doesn't want to come home. Probably because she's already moved on emotionally and I haven't and it's painful.
Thx.
Jordan on your team was helping me… then he sent something for me to read. Which I read and I didn’t see how it was anything like my wife and I.. I told him such, he then said he had nothing else for me.
Love it. Thank You
Awesome! I love the line: "People don't leave what they have unless they think what they're going to is better." PIES will make me the better choice...for my WS...or someone else.
Thanks for the comment! We always advise you work on your PIES for yourself first and foremost. A secondary bonus is that your spouse will find you more attractive because you are the best version of yourself. But work on yourself for YOU! 😊
@@MarriageHelper For sure...the PIES are for me!!! Thank you.
My wife left me is hard I can't cope. I love her so much I can't stop thinking about her I need her in my life. I need help I'm always carrying
Please take a moment and pray for Jeff and Shay to be reconciled in marriage. Thank you.
Nice ❤
Perfect
I need all the support i can get my world is falling apart and i don't know what to do I wanna be the man she deserves lord please give me strength.
Become the man YOU deserve. She'll notice THAT.
@@theredgem thank you 🙏
Prayers for your marriage David. How long ?
My wife, out of the blue, said she's 'not in love anymore.' After watching this I realized that when she first told me that a few months ago, I exhibited all of these signs - pleading, begging, trying to understand ... makes me wonder what it would have been like if I simply said "oh? sorry to hear that" and just moved on with life. I'm working on myself now to see if she will suddenly snap out of it. But it's so ridiculously difficult to go through something like this when you have a partner who swore they'd never be the one to hurt you and that they'd always be there for you. Her current statement: "I will still be there for you - i will always love you I'm just not in love with you, we've grown apart." Makes no sense. And it was completely out of the blue which is even more a snap/slap into reality. Outside of this video, are there any other suggestions?
When I discovered my wife’s affair I started following marriage helper - I think it’s what helped explained to me what to do and helped two years of hope… then I stopped the principles and succumbed to anger and imploded all the positive progress I made..I have to say she was abisive and terrible the entire time but I do regret getting angry at the end and acting tough like she oawed me apologies as she didn’t ever apologize
So sorry to hear you have been going through this friend! We are glad the things we have teach helped, but we can't control other people. Sometimes you can do everything right and your spouse will still choose to do whatever they want, even if it hurts you.
And sometimes and explosion of anger can make things worse. We still recommend to just start where you left off and keep doing the next right thing! That's all you can do! Also, consider meeting with one of our coaches who can give you 1 on 1 guidance! marriagehelper.com/coaching/
You didn’t do anything wrong. She chose her life trajectory. Not you.
Where is link to free workshop? I’m interested.
How can I get into contact with your team? I would like to explain my situation so you can have a full view and hopefully help me better on this tough journey
Ah man I was trying to listen but got distracted by the music in background, lol, kept freestyling over it had to go back and actually listen
Every mistake I’ve already made.
This video may apply to orher couples who just recently separated, that can go back together again bit my situation is far more different. This video is not for me, not resonates with me..
If we are divorced can I still win her back?
The Free PIES Assessment link is broken
I need help
How do she know that i change, i dont know where she is right now how can i show her that i am a different person when she left
My feouncey leave me... we both love each other but because of third party he left me... even block me on wts app😐
What should I do???
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Wife wants a divorce due to gaeatric bypass surgery and a very traumatic 2nd c-section emotional detachment I'm just lost right now
I’m going through same thing right now. My wife had the surgery, lost 175lbs, looks amazing then began a midlife crisis and began drinking and partying every night at 45 and she now has left me and said she’s no longer in love with me. We get along great at moment but I’m really struggling with the future of our marriage. Oh and she did admit to cheating on me in the last year multiple times. We been married 25 years, we’re high school sweet hearts. The entire thing sucks and is emotionally exhausting
@@Junior-zf5ed I had to give up for my own mental sanity I'll pray for you brother
@@Junior-zf5ed my wife went through the same surgery. That surgery messes up the brain and increases the odds of divorce by 80 percent.
I was doing it wrong will tart using pies
Can we just say that most wives were likely telling their husbands for years what they needed? Now they want to listen?
Lol husbands can have the same problem by Jilly
@@GabrielGonzalez-hr6vk yes they can
I’m just saying that to be nice.🤣 I think men often leave for different reasons than women.
Wives that leave usually have attachment issues and don’t clearly state their needs and usually depend on mind reading and that never works.
As hard as that sounds I definitely believe your comment is right on the money.
Ehhhh.... she wants to go. She can go. Way I see it, I get up day in day out to do whatever I need to take care of her. That's not good enough, I'm not holding her there. I'll find someone else who appreciates it.
If its affair related, I'm making it public. Period. It has nothing to do with wanting her back, keeping her there, nor guilt. Id want her gone. I'm not letting her control the narrative of why we split would be it, to our families, kids, and court. Especially necessary in the court system that is going to rake me over the coals as a man. While it may be no fault in most cases at least I can get a sliver of sympathy from the court and maybe they will use a more gentle rake to drag me into the coals.
Thank you for sharing this video. I rather dig a well then attempt to cage my beautiful wife. Need help improving Intellectually. Any advise??
Hey Mike! We actually have a course that teaches you how to increase intellectual attraction in yourself and for your marriage! You can find more info here:
marriagehelper.com/art-of-attraction-toolkit/
Thanks for sharing the link. I watched the three mini videos. Very informative and hopeful. Thank you.
how to work on these PIES?
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Your wife left cus she’s not happy with you and another guy made her feel butterfly’s. Your energy is better spent on a new woman.
Maybe she kicked me out the house. Maybe being 100% honest isnt always the best option. I confessed to sleeping with her sister with not because I thought i was going to get caught but because i wanted to be honest. Now she told me to leave and filed for divorce. 🤦♂️ never tell the truth
First. Think hard and long about what kind of relationship you are in. A marriage where you aren't valued or respected is not one you should try to win back.
I dont like the physical part. I am not in bad shape. But your wife married you for who and what you were at the time. Unless you gained 100lbs it should not matter
Naaaah
Was the first half of this video really necessary?
IF SHE LEAVES YOU !!! LET HER GO !! YOU WILL SAVE YOURSELF ALOT OF PAIN !! TAKING HER BACK WILL LOWER YOUR SELF WORTH AND YOU WILL REGRET IT FOR THE REMAINDER OF YOUR LIFE !!
Does it depend on if you did some things or said some things wrong too?
@@tyroncline5978 go to a penecostal church of your specific kindrend of race and let the holy spirit teach u
From the first day wend she comback from Romania
WhatApps Dr Agboise for help
She is moved out and emotionally distancing herself.
just pray bro
Find a good lawyer. File first.
She's sleeping in ather room yeah
why the hell would you want her back?
would you eat a half-eaten burger out of the trash can? get a new one. it's fresher and taste better.
That’s what I did replace her a week later. I didn’t skip a beat.
Karma is coming for you boys - “pride comes before the fall”. It’s one thing to move on but with such vile associations towards a ex partner that YOU chose and LOVED at one point, is to disregard your hand in that relationship’s demise. I’m sorry your wives hurt you then but your attitudes are hurting you now. Release with love ❤️
Maybe because you built a life with that person?
If you become a better version of yourself won't you attract a better woman than your ex-wife??? So why bother even trying to get her back???
Because it’s harder to build a relationship the second time around and that really what some plp don’t want to do and it makes sense
If your wife is distancing from you and doesnt treat you with respect, most likely she had disconnected herself from you and cheated on you.
Just dump her. Even there is a reconcialation, she wouldnt treat you with all her heart and soul.
So its just not worth it.
so wrong