The makes the mistake in another video I think, but I don't know which one was posted first, so maybe she posted the other one first and then changed her vocab habits. Or maybe she uses both interchangeably I don't know
that last one actively made me (a teen) stop chewing my breakfast and look down at the blanket that i have worn every day i've been at home without fail for years. full marks.
Kids your fine, as a 27 who still uses the blanket they did when a toddler. You're fine. Don't let anyone try to tell you otherwise. It's not hurting anyone or yourself, so keep the blanket if it brings you comfort. There's no shame.
@@evercuriousmichelleI'm a 32 year old woman who still has her beanie baby collection and freaks out about any tag being taken off any stuffed animal. You're good.
@@evercuriousmichelleLmao I sometimes fall asleep hugging my daughter’s Squishmallow. She’s 5, so we’re still co-sleeping (we’ve moved recently & it helps her sleep knowing I’m there, for stability 🥰), and sometimes we have minor arguments about who gets to sleep next to what plushie. I’ve had a collection of plushies on my bed since before she was born. 😂 Now, said plush collection has grown and none of them have tags anymore. Not even my pokemon with their Japanese tag labels. 🥲 (I’m sorry, totodile & ampharos.)
The importance of tags flies right over my head. Is it a collector thing (authenticity and stuff)? Tbh never even thought about it so that's just a first guess. Could someone explain please?
@@TurningTesting Honestly I don't legitimately "collect" them, I just have a ton of each. Typically though I do remove tags just because I sleep with each and every one of my stuffed animals (especially squishmallows) and I cannot sleep if any are too hard, too soft, too itchy, have weird sewing... yeah its just "oo that looks cool" then I buy it and add to the mass 🤷
As someone in their late 20's, I will also work for stickers, or even just a smiley face (my Japanese teacher did this last semester whenever we did perfect on an assignment, and it made me far happier than it probably should have to have gotten one).
I’m a sticker lover at 51 years old! I even just purchased ‘Adult language’ stickers from Amazon! 😂 They are hilarious when I’m journaling or filling in my planner! 😂
My adhd couldn’t help but join the chat. I couldn’t stop staring at the two perfect circles and how you did it without one smudging or messing up the lines.
I'm glad Abby knows the difference between impulsive and intrusive thoughts, it's genuinely super nice to see as someone that deals with intrusive thoughts.
What is the difference? When walking down the road and I see a stone and "I wanna kick it!" Goes through my head I feel like both words would be accurate so I'm guessing it's a more technical difference? Maybe I just no do word good
@@staceyb1873 I think the difference comes down to when you realise the thought is a bad idea. At least, that's how I've always understood the difference. YMMV
I make sure to correct people (not everyone and not every time) when they say intrusive thought and mean impulsive because I also deal with intrusive thoughts
@@staceyb1873someone may have said this already but here we go. An impulsive thought is something that pops into your head that you want to do. You may regret it but you still want to do it. An intrusive thought is a thought that you want nothing to do with, ei self harm, harming others, sexual thoughts, etc. These are the kind of thoughts that make you want to hit yourself in the head to try and get them out. I'm not sure where "swerve into a ditch" lands, because that's usually one that people can ignore better. Stuff like that are the only ones that I can't fully classify as intrusive or impulsive. I hope this helped
@@staceyb1873impulsive is like a normalish action like “oh i wanna squeeze a juicebox” and intrusive is an unwanted thought like “oh i should stab my family” but they’re usually very disturbing and unwanted by the person having them. impulsive is usually something that you can/will do in that moment on impulse. intrusive is intrusion and unwanted.
As a mom of four (10,11,15, and 22) this is sincerely THE most accurate thing I’ve ever seen, and possibly also the most scientifically accurate Venn Diagram ever created. Wildly brilliant.
EMOTIONAL SUPPORT TEDDIES TOO!! even as an adult i have an emotional support teddy its a british bulldog, and although its one of my least touched it the one i cuddle when i need to cry
that silence look after she said: "you didnt say to put it away". said so much more then you can think. ive gotten that same look so much from my mom and dad
The fact that it probably took more effort to stack all those plates, dishes, and mugs such that they wouldn't fall over than it would have taken to just put everything away properly is such teen energy.
I think it’s really cool that your oldest chose to be in your videos. Most kids on TH-cam aren’t given that choice, and I think it says a lot about you that your daughter wants to participate in the type of content you make. It’s very cool to get a perspective on adolescence from an actually adolescent, especially on the subject of child development and family dynamics. It’s pretty meta, actually. 😊
I don't think I've ever seen her other kids which tells me that she's protecting her younger kids since they're too young to make an informed choice about being in videos, but Abby is old enough to make that choice and understand the potential consequences, and chooses to participate anyway. Just further proof in my opinion that Gwenna is an excellent parent 😁
@@KansasNotTheBandShe is protecting them, she explains that in another Short, how they’re too young to give informed consent about being publicly online so she doesn’t include them in videos
I've never seen something more relatedable. God bless the Mama's out there with Littles and teens at the same time. I see you. I relate. We will preserver! 🤣🙌💗
Malicious compliance has been around for thousands of years. It's basically just doing what you're told to the very letter of the instructions given and nothing more. But yes, Malicious compliance is quiet quitting.
As a teacher who has worked in elementary and middle school, this is 100% true. Especially with the teenage boys! Gotta love them though. They make everyday interesting 😅
Omg yes yes yes. As a mum of a 20 year old (still a chuffing toddler) a 13 year old who I swear is In the terrible twos and a 2 year old who is yet to cause my mental brake down (I’m sure she’s scheduled it!) Their all the god damn same level of driving me around the bend 😂😂😂
I bet she could win a speed talking contest! I just recently found this channel and when I stop binge watching her content to check on my other subscribed-to-creators, I have to check the speed settings because they sound like they are talking sooo slooowww! 😂😂
No joke. My mom decided to use my baby blanket as a couch cover after i got a new throw blanket. It lasted 30 minutes on there because of the absolute fit i threw over it.
My mom spent a couple years trying to talk me into _throwing mine away._ She even made me a new one. End result? I now have two small blankets on my pillow every night, instead of one.
@@caileyrookids I’ll never understand parents that try to throw away or get rid of their child’s comfort object because they think the kid is “to old” for it. It’s actually more damaging to the child then helping. Everyone needs a comfort object, even adults.
@@lpsjewel I agree, though in my Mum's defense it was more that my blanket's very small even for a baby blanket, and it had been full of holes. She understood the sentimentality and that's why she tried to replace it rather than just tossing it, but she also saw it as a rag that was falling apart. I've patched up the rips now, and it's a non issue now :)
@@caileyrookids That's awesome your mom saw she made a mistake. and I get patching it up. I happen to have mine with me right and it definity needs repairs lol.
@@lpsjewel same. One of my friends only has one stuffed animal from her childhood because it was the only one she was able to hide from her parents who decided that 10 was way too old for stuffed animals and they threw out the rest.
Rizz: your ability to get a girl via flirtation and/or charm. Believe me it's totally okay to not have any, but it's the new way for children to assert their dominance over other children
My understanding of the use is much like the old term "game". Being charming to get a date. All the new terms seem to just be replacements for the ones the last generation had.
The last one felt personal. I have like four baby blankets I make into a pile that I have to hold when I go to bed. I have to hold something in my sleep, either a pillow or my baby blankets. Preferably the baby blankets lol
Great channel! Truly interesting family content without exposing your children to strangers before they’re ready. Never been this early before it’s a ghost town in the comments
“it looked squeezey and the impulsive thoughts won” is such a relatable statement
that sentence is my constant mood
Exactly
Is that what she said? I couldn't really tell
Yes.
I never grew out of this
As a teen, Abby got you good with "assuring" you that you've got no rizz
😂
😂😂😂😂
i felt so powerful knowing i could change that 999 into 1k but someone else took that power away from me
And as a teen can confirm the dishwasher thing i do and it is a metropolis
I feel old lol
I have no idea what this means. I’m 25 apparently going on 50
im glad she knows the difference between intrusive thoughts and impulsive thoughts
The makes the mistake in another video I think, but I don't know which one was posted first, so maybe she posted the other one first and then changed her vocab habits. Or maybe she uses both interchangeably I don't know
i am a teenager and all of this is true. especially the “will work for stickers”.
we absolutely love stickers.
True! I SOMETIMES pup them on my water bottle, but not always. I still work for stickers, though!
I hate putting them on things, (so hard to get off) but I like the idea of collecting them lol
@@thisexists6588 ikr?? like i wanna be able to reuse them without the fear of them getting ripped or bent 😭
I put so many stickers on my laptop
@@ForrestDestroy-nv1su i have my notebook covered with reward stickers 😋
"it looked squeezy and my impulsive thought won." 🤣
I need my inhaler after that one
@tebella5186 I don’t even have asma but same 😂
i have said that line many times and my parents just laugh at me
SAME
Rizz is actually short for Charisma
that last one actively made me (a teen) stop chewing my breakfast and look down at the blanket that i have worn every day i've been at home without fail for years. full marks.
Made me look at the blanket I’m lying on which I’ve had literally since the day I was born
I (22) have had many blankets for a long time, I hoard them. It is a growing collection you see
Kids your fine, as a 27 who still uses the blanket they did when a toddler. You're fine. Don't let anyone try to tell you otherwise. It's not hurting anyone or yourself, so keep the blanket if it brings you comfort. There's no shame.
I have one that my mom made me as a kid... I'm 30 and still use it
35 (soon 36) and still got my.blanket from when was born..
Accurate, I'm blessed with one of each...they fight with eachother on the same level too...
thank you for using impulsive instead of intrusive thoughts! the difference is more important than anyone realizes ❤
Just to help you: rizz means charisma, and is usually used in the context of being able to get partners easily
I was going to it’s something like flirting ability. Or like when someone’s “got game.” But charisma is probably a more clear explanation lol
I mean “chaRIZZma” is where the word comes from so yeah
WHY WOUDL YOU SPILL OUR SECRETS
@@bearlyclairely1592BECAUSE SOME PPL EVEN OTHER TEENS DON'T UNDERSTAND IT UNFORTUNATELY
Shhhhhh don't tell them
"Squishmallows" and "will work for stickers" are painfully accurate, im building a collection of both 💀
I'm a 32 year old woman who sleeps with a squishmallow! Don't judge me!
@@evercuriousmichelleI'm a 32 year old woman who still has her beanie baby collection and freaks out about any tag being taken off any stuffed animal. You're good.
@@evercuriousmichelleLmao I sometimes fall asleep hugging my daughter’s Squishmallow. She’s 5, so we’re still co-sleeping (we’ve moved recently & it helps her sleep knowing I’m there, for stability 🥰), and sometimes we have minor arguments about who gets to sleep next to what plushie. I’ve had a collection of plushies on my bed since before she was born. 😂 Now, said plush collection has grown and none of them have tags anymore. Not even my pokemon with their Japanese tag labels. 🥲 (I’m sorry, totodile & ampharos.)
The importance of tags flies right over my head. Is it a collector thing (authenticity and stuff)? Tbh never even thought about it so that's just a first guess. Could someone explain please?
@@TurningTesting Honestly I don't legitimately "collect" them, I just have a ton of each. Typically though I do remove tags just because I sleep with each and every one of my stuffed animals (especially squishmallows) and I cannot sleep if any are too hard, too soft, too itchy, have weird sewing... yeah its just "oo that looks cool" then I buy it and add to the mass 🤷
Did anyone else notice the random things she was using to point? Took me several rewatches! 😂 Great video!
I did NOT notice that, that’s hilarious! 😂
"It looks squeezy, and the impulsive thought one😞" killed me, she is so funny😂
“will work for stickers“ the most accurate statement
As someone in their late 20's, I will also work for stickers, or even just a smiley face (my Japanese teacher did this last semester whenever we did perfect on an assignment, and it made me far happier than it probably should have to have gotten one).
I'm 34, and I will absolutely still work for stickers, if they will look good with all the other ones on my car.
I’m a sticker lover at 51 years old! I even just purchased ‘Adult language’ stickers from Amazon! 😂 They are hilarious when I’m journaling or filling in my planner! 😂
“I do not know what rizz is, but I have been assured I do not have it” 🤣
Dude, someone else commented this. It has like 1.6 K like do they despise you?
That was a really good part though, thank you for your time
My adhd couldn’t help but join the chat. I couldn’t stop staring at the two perfect circles and how you did it without one smudging or messing up the lines.
An extra like for the circular transition. Smooth af
as a teenager, i agree with everything you have stated😭
I'm glad Abby knows the difference between impulsive and intrusive thoughts, it's genuinely super nice to see as someone that deals with intrusive thoughts.
What is the difference? When walking down the road and I see a stone and "I wanna kick it!" Goes through my head I feel like both words would be accurate so I'm guessing it's a more technical difference?
Maybe I just no do word good
@@staceyb1873 I think the difference comes down to when you realise the thought is a bad idea. At least, that's how I've always understood the difference. YMMV
I make sure to correct people (not everyone and not every time) when they say intrusive thought and mean impulsive because I also deal with intrusive thoughts
@@staceyb1873someone may have said this already but here we go. An impulsive thought is something that pops into your head that you want to do. You may regret it but you still want to do it. An intrusive thought is a thought that you want nothing to do with, ei self harm, harming others, sexual thoughts, etc. These are the kind of thoughts that make you want to hit yourself in the head to try and get them out. I'm not sure where "swerve into a ditch" lands, because that's usually one that people can ignore better. Stuff like that are the only ones that I can't fully classify as intrusive or impulsive. I hope this helped
@@staceyb1873impulsive is like a normalish action like “oh i wanna squeeze a juicebox” and intrusive is an unwanted thought like “oh i should stab my family” but they’re usually very disturbing and unwanted by the person having them. impulsive is usually something that you can/will do in that moment on impulse. intrusive is intrusion and unwanted.
As a mom of four (10,11,15, and 22) this is sincerely THE most accurate thing I’ve ever seen, and possibly also the most scientifically accurate Venn Diagram ever created. Wildly brilliant.
Hooray for her saying impulsive rather than intrusive!
With regret in her voice. "It looked squeezy and the impulsive thought won." Dead! I'm dead and feel that in my soul!! 🤣🤣🤣
I feel like this is the same thought my twins have but they can't express it yet.
How so many likes but so little replies
sooo true
You should remind Abby that since you have three kids, you have plenty of rizz lol
Omg yesss😭😭
Rizz is a decaying quality, especially when no longer useful
" It looks squeezy and the impossible thought won." Thats a whole ass mood right there, lmfao.
I appreciate that you taught Abby the difference between impulsive and intrusive thoughts
"malicious compliance" is a beautiful explaination
Its also a fantastic reddit (for example).
“But I have been assured I do not have it”
Had me dying😂
Edit: 1.2k likes mom I’m famous
😂😂😂😂😂
2.7k now! 🎉
I don't think you know how much joy you actually bring to my life 😂. You speak truth 🤣
EMOTIONAL SUPPORT TEDDIES TOO!!
even as an adult i have an emotional support teddy its a british bulldog, and although its one of my least touched it the one i cuddle when i need to cry
Oh absolutely! I’m 30 years old and I’ve slept every night with the same stuffed dog since I was 8.
I love that Abby plays along in your skits, perfectly hilarious
Props on the discerning of impulsive vs intrusive! A huge relief as someone with chronic intrusive thoughts 😭
That yell for abby is indeed the call of a parent
No rizz!!!😭😭😭😂😂😂 I love how real you are!🩷😊
that silence look after she said: "you didnt say to put it away". said so much more then you can think. ive gotten that same look so much from my mom and dad
The fact that it probably took more effort to stack all those plates, dishes, and mugs such that they wouldn't fall over than it would have taken to just put everything away properly is such teen energy.
I think it’s really cool that your oldest chose to be in your videos. Most kids on TH-cam aren’t given that choice, and I think it says a lot about you that your daughter wants to participate in the type of content you make. It’s very cool to get a perspective on adolescence from an actually adolescent, especially on the subject of child development and family dynamics. It’s pretty meta, actually. 😊
I don't think I've ever seen her other kids which tells me that she's protecting her younger kids since they're too young to make an informed choice about being in videos, but Abby is old enough to make that choice and understand the potential consequences, and chooses to participate anyway. Just further proof in my opinion that Gwenna is an excellent parent 😁
@@KansasNotTheBandShe is protecting them, she explains that in another Short, how they’re too young to give informed consent about being publicly online so she doesn’t include them in videos
I've never seen something more relatedable. God bless the Mama's out there with Littles and teens at the same time. I see you. I relate. We will preserver! 🤣🙌💗
This video is both accurate and absolutely hilarious. I love it. Thank you so much for providing this laughter-catalyst.
I'm a teen and I live with a toddler and it's scary how true this is! 😅
“Ohweohweoh and menemena”
😂😂I cant😂😂
You forgot they both refuse to wash that damned blanket. We fight about it CONSTANTLY 😅
It's the pointing tool changing every frame, for me 😂
Man, I wish I had had a mom like you growing up, you don't get overly upset and screaming about little things
Abby popping up from behind the counter *I'm dying*
The tears of my enemies cup *I'm dead*
🤣
As a teen i can say this is painfully accurate 😂❤
“i don’t know what it means but my children have assured me i don’t have it” SENT ME 😂
“malicious compliance” 😂 could be the new quiet quitting.
Malicious compliance has been around for thousands of years. It's basically just doing what you're told to the very letter of the instructions given and nothing more. But yes, Malicious compliance is quiet quitting.
As a teacher who has worked in elementary and middle school, this is 100% true. Especially with the teenage boys! Gotta love them though. They make everyday interesting 😅
YES!!! Why are 6/7th grade boys like this??
I love her ❤😂 she's the coolest mom, but dang, these kids are so mean to her though
Almost 27. Squeezy impulse never goes away
As a teenager, the blanket one is so accurate. Sleep does not feel complete if I don't have my baby blanket 😭
i love that your kid said impulsive thought instead of intrusive thought!! such a small thing yet so meaningful
And accurately! People mix these up way too much
“They create their own language like for teens it’s rizz… I do not know what rizz is.” Got me DIEINGGG
Lots of love and prayers for Kenny ❤❤️🩹❤️
Omg yes yes yes. As a mum of a 20 year old (still a chuffing toddler) a 13 year old who I swear is In the terrible twos and a 2 year old who is yet to cause my mental brake down (I’m sure she’s scheduled it!)
Their all the god damn same level of driving me around the bend
😂😂😂
you poor woman ... how do you survive?
@@ilenastarbreeze4978 coffee and cake are my besties 😂😂
... in your case would be a very short trip 😆
@@ilenastarbreeze4978probably by being fake and playing the victim
"It looked squeezy and the impulsive thought won." 😂
Gold star stickers and a reward chart work for both. With the same level of enthusiasm 😵💫
no one’s talking about how smooth the loop was
To be the teen translator, rizz is an abbreviated form of charisma
Why is no one talking about the really smooth loop? But the presentation was absolutely perfectly accurate, especially with the pointer sticks.
“And the impulsive thoughts won” thanks for teaching your children the right term!! it’s not intrusive thoughts!
I taught 9 years of middle school and law teach high school. This is a helpful diagram every time I explain this concept
Good to know I’ll be dealing with the same problems in 10-12 years time. 😂
“i don’t know what rizz is but i’ve been assured i don’t have it”😂
Came here to say 💀💀
It looked squeezy and the impulsive thought won is such a mood
The impulsive thought won. Best line ever.
"It looks squeezy, and the impulsive thought won" lol same
The favorite blanket is so cute honesty 🥺
Mine is a cute mushroom blanket that my mom got me for Christmas after I got into foraging
I love you so much. Keeping it real for all us moms :)
I bet she could win a speed talking contest! I just recently found this channel and when I stop binge watching her content to check on my other subscribed-to-creators, I have to check the speed settings because they sound like they are talking sooo slooowww! 😂😂
No joke. My mom decided to use my baby blanket as a couch cover after i got a new throw blanket. It lasted 30 minutes on there because of the absolute fit i threw over it.
My mom spent a couple years trying to talk me into _throwing mine away._ She even made me a new one. End result? I now have two small blankets on my pillow every night, instead of one.
@@caileyrookids I’ll never understand parents that try to throw away or get rid of their child’s comfort object because they think the kid is “to old” for it. It’s actually more damaging to the child then helping. Everyone needs a comfort object, even adults.
@@lpsjewel I agree, though in my Mum's defense it was more that my blanket's very small even for a baby blanket, and it had been full of holes. She understood the sentimentality and that's why she tried to replace it rather than just tossing it, but she also saw it as a rag that was falling apart. I've patched up the rips now, and it's a non issue now :)
@@caileyrookids That's awesome your mom saw she made a mistake. and I get patching it up. I happen to have mine with me right and it definity needs repairs lol.
@@lpsjewel same. One of my friends only has one stuffed animal from her childhood because it was the only one she was able to hide from her parents who decided that 10 was way too old for stuffed animals and they threw out the rest.
"It looked squeezy and the impulsive thought won."
I can't stand that you are a libral but I absolutely love the awesome parent that you are!
Maria Montessori talks about this! There are so many similarities in toddlerhood and teen years for sure.
And the great thing is, as a New Orleans tour guide, I can tell you even full grown adults return to that toddler mindset when drunk
As a teen I agree with all of the points especially the blanket point
I had a toddler with 3 teens - you are absolutely correct!
As a just-done-being-teen (20) my favourite blanket is the one my future mother in law bought. Best blanket ever. So soft.
Rizz: your ability to get a girl via flirtation and/or charm. Believe me it's totally okay to not have any, but it's the new way for children to assert their dominance over other children
*or a not-a-girl
Rizz = charisma. Ka-rizz-ma. (:
My understanding of the use is much like the old term "game". Being charming to get a date. All the new terms seem to just be replacements for the ones the last generation had.
as a teen the favorite blanket from when you were a toddler hits on a different level
The falling over one is so true, i sometimes just descide that my legs dont actually work and topple like a jenga tower
As a mother with both.... this hurts how true it is 🤣🤣🤣
This channel is better than therapy ❤❤❤
So freaking true. And malicious compliance yes. Truth
"It looked squeeze and the impulsive thought won" Damn can I relate.
As a teenager, that is _very_ accurate!! 😂
Rizz is just charisma shortened from what ive heard XD
Favorite so far... manipulative compliance😂
U r sooo spot on. Good luck with ur channel
How is this so accurate😭
as a teen, i can confirm this is all true
The blanket thing made me laugh cause it made me realize my blankets from being a toddler are still my favourite, and im in my twenties 😂
THAT LOOOOP WAS ON point 🤌
The last one felt personal. I have like four baby blankets I make into a pile that I have to hold when I go to bed. I have to hold something in my sleep, either a pillow or my baby blankets. Preferably the baby blankets lol
Abby is the best 😂❤❤
I’m on my bed rn with my comfort squishmallows that heal my soul. So yes. You got me good.
As a teen i feel like this is the first yime discussing our generation differences and not felt talked down to ty :)
Love your channel!
Great channel! Truly interesting family content without exposing your children to strangers before they’re ready.
Never been this early before it’s a ghost town in the comments
Me an introverted teen being so quiet I jumpscare my mother
I love the overalls and the neon hair ❤