Life update: Co-Parenting w/ a Narcissist. Saving Myself.Toxic Positivity
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.พ. 2025
- Tired doesn't begin to describe me right now. Parenting has been damn near impossible. In this video I'm sharing my anxiety around co-parenting with a narcissist. During our lunch date, im also talking about toxic positivity and why I dont really buy into affirmations.
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“No mother is hoarding responsibility on purpose.” Whew! A whole word. I may have to write about that. Love the content.
Thank you so much for watching and thank you for picking up what I’m putting down🤍 when you do write, I hope you come back and please let me delight in it. Email me if anything ☝🏾
The key is always allow yourself to feel those feelings!!!
The camera is giving radiance! When you talked about not being fully filled for not only your daughter but yourself, I felt that. I have been a stay at home mom for almost 4 years. I have reached a point where I am just so drained with doing so much for everyone else. I’m tired of it real deal tired. So I’m doing something about it this summer. The kids are gonna go to their grandparents for the summer and my oldest will spend time with his biological father. Girl when I tell you I feel so much relief already. I’m excited about it and I’m excited for you getting some rest that you need while your daughter is with her dad. As black mothers, we have to be okay with doing something for ourselves so we can be at our best. Loved the vlog and felt so inspired from it!
Omg i want to clip this and send to all my friends and family so they can understand what I go through!!! Her dad also lives in another state and may be returning soon and it gives me such anxiety. And the responsibility of doing it ALL is sooooo much
send it to them! or now you have other words to express that you're not exaggerating. I hope things have felt better lately.
@@Stehfuhnee i sent it to one friend and he was like no I don't think thats accurate. I'm like HTF you gonna tell ME about ME😩🤦🏾♀️
@@FlyWon Feels like this person is not a friend you need. Or at least is a friend that needs to be compartmentalized.
STEPH!!!!!!!! That message in the last 5 min about affirmation culture. Whew. I can never really articulate how frustrated I feel by that and you did it for me. Can I get like a 30 second clip of that message to play over and over?
right?!?! like just please let me feelings BE.
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whew girl! I’m glad you put it in those words when discussing affirmation. it’s something that I’ve felt, but I couldn’t put it into words the way you did
no problem! It's so easy to get caught up in what we're "supposed to do"- but it's okay to not feel okay.
Great video 😊
Girlll I felt EVERY SINGLE thing you said, I can relate 100% especially on the being a single mom. My son is now 12 and I’m finally starting to feel like I can take a breather 😮💨 The situation with his dad was toxic and unhealthy for the both of us; so at a point in his life I had to make the decision to cut all communication. Now that my son is older (can communicate for himself ) they are growing their own bond. I love all of the conversations you bring up, you inspire me to open up more on my channel. 💕
twelve years. Lord, its giving a bid !! Im joking but I am happy to hear you're finally feeling that relief. Im also noticing that you were able to still do things for yourself including building a channel while dealing with that other stuff- I think that shows strength and that things are possible and *that* inspires me.
@@Stehfuhnee 😂😂 it’s definitely a bid, we’re lifers. Getting ahead in life doing it alone was extremely hard but it’s doable. Us moms definitely need to care for ourselves as we care for our children 💕💕
girl this quality!!!!! I’m here for it 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
thank youuuu babyyyyy
Omg I really feel you on the mom vibes lol
whew!!
I love what you said about affirmations I definitely agree
Thanks boo! Go forth and let yourself feel like sh*t 😂
@@Stehfuhnee lol girl you a mess
Excited for this!!!
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Trade off tm because I am indeed tired. All I can do is pray on it.
I feel seen. My kids have been a huge trigger for me lately.
Sending you love. Lots of it. Hopefully you get some relief sooner then later. Think of a way to get a mom break so you can regulate. I think it’s impossible to truly that while we’re parenting or while they’re in our space.
Hey girl hey! 🤎
hey gworllll :)
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LOL we are tryingggg to be positive but the negative winning for me frienddd.
I sent you something fuuuuuun (email)