@@SlaySoulsister-ti5vo Speaking from my perspective (I'm kind of stupid btw), I would start awkwardly blushing and going: "you're adorable too..?" But with more stuttering. OH! And hiccuping, because I start to hiccup whenever I'm flustered or something.
@@Ha-neulie I have horrible social anxiety so I would probably feel threatened 😅 and I also suck at responding to compliments so I’d probably ignore them
@@SlaySoulsister-ti5vo Lol, because I grew up with very.....pushy family members, I always feel obligated to respond to someone when they talk to me. I'd probably stutter some stupid rambling if it really happened and get hiccups for the rest of the day. 😭💀
I literally work with a girl like that. She lied and tricked a boy she liked into eating our spiciest cheese (we work in a deli. It was carolina reaper cheese), and started laughing at him when he was in pain. I scolded her and then she started insulting me like crazy and blocked me on everything. I've overheard conversations she's had since then and learned that she's a pathological liar and "flirts" with boys in the most cruel unattractive way.
Tip to girls who do this: Literally no one on the planet (except you) recognises that as 'flirting', just be nice it comes across much better. Edit: You don't have to agree, I'm just saying it's confusing and to avoid confusion just be kind.
orr you can just say that’s not your type. but some people do recognize bantering as flirting and they like it. don’t police what people do because it’s not your type.
@@lilbopeep0 look around, literally any video on this with a male agrees they don't understand it, even this video is supposed to portray it as confusing.
@@dillonpercy1058is that why any time I m nice to a guy they say I'm flirting with other guys when all I ask is how are they when I see them cause I care about peoples health?
Dont let people treat you that way. cut them off immediately. them continuing to "flirt" that way seeing you upset by it shows that they are more attracted to you being hurt than actually being a good friend or partner to you.
Yeah I’m a golden retriever girl myself and I’ve been through enough abuse and emotional damage to last me in this lifetime so this type of “flirting” at least makes it clear who I shouldn’t date. I just wanna be a happy lil weirdo surrounded by other lil happy weirdos to be silly with🥲 Might just end up getting a bunch of cats in the end 😅
It’s called being a jerk 🤷♀️ it’s not a cool thing. Try bettering yourself and holding back negative remarks, you’re life gets a lot better for it. Trust me!
If this is on "a good day" and shes calling you names like that, imagine what she'll do to you on " a bad day" dont let these "flirting" idiots piss all over you and then have the audacity to call it rain. YOU DESERVE BETTER
It’s like friendly teasing, and then they tease back most times too. It’s not actually something that hurts the others feelings, and if it does we know we did wrong and stand up for our actions.
Honestly everything is fine but calling your friend a disappointment crosses a line. If anyone does that just ditch them. There is no excuse for calling someone a disappointment, flirting or not Y’all I’m talking abt the video. He seems sad that he’s being called names and all she says is “I’m flirting with you”. I doubt insulting someone will get you a bf
Realistically, you just have to find the right people. I could tell my best friend I despise them, I'd never want to be seen with them, that their a waste of a space, and a walking disappointment and we'd be laughing our asses off.
Instead of asking "why are you so mean to me" I would've just gotten more sad and just said "ok 😭" then waddle away with sadness thank you for more shorts of your tiktok 🙏 I appreciate it
Okay for everyone saying they’re like this, it is not endearing or anything, it’s called being a jerk. It’s not who you are it’s just you having no self control. Being positive and nice to everyone makes you and everyone around you way happier.
for real. thank you for saying this. I had a friend that used to say horrible things to me, like I was ugly, and nobody liked me, or how embarrassing I was. when I stopped talking to them they tried to say sorry and it was all jokes, it’s just how they are. it’s not cute, it’s not funny, saying rude things as a ‘joke’ isn’t funny no matter what anyone says.
@@adriannaheine3933 that wasn't a friend. My friends and I fuck around being mean to eachother but never about stuff like looks and family stuff or anything. Plus them only backpaddling after you stopped talking to them makes it very clear they didn't mean it as a joke. A good friend would have seen that you were upset earlier and stopped
That's actually something done by abusive partner/friends/parents, so you think less of yourself and don't leave them. People who do that and don't want to hurt others should work on themselves
Same, depending on the friend (bc I know which friends can and can't handle what kind of rudeness) I'm hella rude and they are hella rude back and we all just know we love eachother (platontically)
😂 I think this video exaggerates it way more than it is. Definitely a black cat girl and I wouldn’t say this stuff. Most of the time it’s more like aggressive insulting with people who you know will insult you back and you both find it hilarious. In the case of my boyfriend though I’m very different with him and more open with him about my insecurities so he just compliments me and I consistently compliment him back. Basically I wouldn’t be a black cat girl with a Goldie cause that hurts it’s funnier to do aggressive jokes with someone whose also a black cat.
Exactly. I dont care if this is a joke or exaggeration, because its based on real things that many people do, and its perpetuating unhealthy behaviour in relationships.
I hated confrontation about feelings the most. I don't do crushes very well. I would feel depressed and anxiety when people were interested with me in romantically. I don't want to deal with that. I had a huge blocks resting stubbornly in my chest as I had things to do before I had the emotional capacity to care for any romance of sort.
Hey I relate to this too I feel shameful idk why. I haven't had any childhood trauma either idk why I'm like this. Fear of intimacy and letting someone love u is realll
Me and my friend but she's litterly just fucking fake and I don't know how to defend myself and when I do she degrades me and says that's just her love language
love language? friend? you figure that one out. as for the other shit, respect yourself. put that respect in her face and make her respect you or mercilessly drop her.
I wrote this on another comment, but i feel it fits here too. Dont let people treat you that way. cut them off immediately. them continuing to "flirt" or "joke" that way knowing you're upset by it shows that they are more attracted to you being hurt than actually being a good friend or partner to you.
I went through the same thing, trust me it's not worth it. Talk to her about it first though she most likely will not change since most people who are like that don't, its still worth a try and if that doesn't work just leave her.. youll feel so much better
Most of the time, when I’m being like this to my crush, I always make sure to go back, tell them I was just messing around, and then compliment them instead. Like, I got so used to making fun of my brothers that I will do it to anyone now, including my crush
THE CONFUSED “what..?” IS SO CUTE
IKR😭😭
As a golden retriever girl I feel this 💀💀💀
Same also do you like golden retrievers
@@ITZ_N0ELZbro wants to e date🗣️‼️
My bsf for like 3 yrs is a boy I like him and we’re always rude to echother I’ma black cat he’s a golden retriever
@@ITZ_N0ELZ for sure :) I'm pretty much both depending on the day
@@JadeRodriguez-kz6km sameeee
My love language is: “Take care of yourself, don’t do stupid sh!t, if you dont listen, either I’ll lecture you on why you shouldn’t and then mom you.”
Same honestly
You said either so where is the or... No I am actually confused waht is the counter part to it?
that’s my love language tooo
Exactly
*Lee Know’s love language ifykyk*
i love golden retriever boys they’re so cute istg😭😭
Fr😂❤❤
me too 😭
OMG I MET THIS GUY AND I LOVE INSULTING HIM AND HE AWAYS DOES IT BACK BUT IS STILL A GOLDEN RETRIEVER SOME HOW AND ITS SO CUTE FR😭
IK 😭😭🫶🏼
Ik
"I'm flirting with you"
"What? "
I aggressively grab my crushes face and compliment them “you’re so adorable.” “TAKE THE COMPLIMENT.”
lol do they not feel threatened?
@@SlaySoulsister-ti5vo Speaking from my perspective (I'm kind of stupid btw), I would start awkwardly blushing and going: "you're adorable too..?" But with more stuttering.
OH!
And hiccuping, because I start to hiccup whenever I'm flustered or something.
@@Ha-neulie I have horrible social anxiety so I would probably feel threatened 😅 and I also suck at responding to compliments so I’d probably ignore them
@@SlaySoulsister-ti5vo Lol, because I grew up with very.....pushy family members, I always feel obligated to respond to someone when they talk to me. I'd probably stutter some stupid rambling if it really happened and get hiccups for the rest of the day. 😭💀
@@SlaySoulsister-ti5vo no, he just blushes and scrunches up his face & then says “Thank you…you’re adorable too”
Golden retriever here, can confirm that we do not pick up on this flirting
What if I was just trying to be friends? Or would you just hate me? 😰
And it's adorable.
we black cat girls know, and its so cute.
@@JazzLynnJohnsonfr I'm a black cat girl make fun of all my crushes aka my brothers BFFs.. 💀
Bro shut up
As someone who’s a mix of both, I flirt both aggressively and with care 🌚
Ex.
“Did u eat?”
“No”
“I TOLD YOU TO EAT WHY DIDNT YOU??? DONT DIE ON ME!”
Ohhh me too !
ME
LITERALLY ME
STOP UR ACTUALLY ME
Fr
As a black cat and golden retriever, I flirt by staring at you with a cold blooded death stare😊
the “okay” sounded so sad but so cute😭
“What?!” 😂😅💀
Yah like I thought you hated me wtf!!
It’s not funny it was sad….truly…..sad at least in my opinion
@@lizzythelizard2947 how?
@@DontExpectAReplyFromMe idk I was just being dramatic
@@lizzythelizard2947 okay…
Bro.. don’t let people treat you like that loool.
I'd start crying if someone flirts with me like that 😔
I literally work with a girl like that. She lied and tricked a boy she liked into eating our spiciest cheese (we work in a deli. It was carolina reaper cheese), and started laughing at him when he was in pain. I scolded her and then she started insulting me like crazy and blocked me on everything. I've overheard conversations she's had since then and learned that she's a pathological liar and "flirts" with boys in the most cruel unattractive way.
I don’t say it like that but I tease them instead, but if someone’s rude to them I always stand up for them🤭😅
And that's how you get avoided by your "crush"
The “ what? ” was so cute- 😭💘
Ikr
Why is this so true😭😭 Now my crush thinks I hate him
Same 😭😭😭😭😭❤
Same!!😑😑😑❤️❤️❤️🥲😭
Sameeee 😭😭😭
Pro tip don’t be an asshole if you want them to like you 😀
Maybe learn to communicate then.
The golden retriver looked like he was about to cry in the first scene
the "what.." sounded so cute and innocent i can't 😭
Tip to girls who do this:
Literally no one on the planet (except you) recognises that as 'flirting', just be nice it comes across much better.
Edit: You don't have to agree, I'm just saying it's confusing and to avoid confusion just be kind.
Facts. Or just be straight forward. That makes things easier.
@@doodlefox.0.5 k, little personal but I guess it's straight forward.
orr you can just say that’s not your type. but some people do recognize bantering as flirting and they like it. don’t police what people do because it’s not your type.
@@lilbopeep0 look around, literally any video on this with a male agrees they don't understand it, even this video is supposed to portray it as confusing.
@@dillonpercy1058is that why any time I m nice to a guy they say I'm flirting with other guys when all I ask is how are they when I see them cause I care about peoples health?
I’ve been treated like that but when they said that they were flirting, I WAS ON THE VERGE OF TEARS
Why
Dont let people treat you that way. cut them off immediately. them continuing to "flirt" that way seeing you upset by it shows that they are more attracted to you being hurt than actually being a good friend or partner to you.
I’m a black cat but the regret I would feel after saying something like that is *IMMENSE*
The black cat flirt is how I flirt honestly 😂
The “What-? 🙂” is so precious
if a girl ever talked to me like that, she’s getting promoted to ghosted.
W honestly, it's not quirky nor cool to be toxic and just saying "oh it's just my way of flirting"
@Schenzy101 Exactly
massive w
Yeah I’m a golden retriever girl myself and I’ve been through enough abuse and emotional damage to last me in this lifetime so this type of “flirting” at least makes it clear who I shouldn’t date. I just wanna be a happy lil weirdo surrounded by other lil happy weirdos to be silly with🥲 Might just end up getting a bunch of cats in the end 😅
@@mymblemeep9383Same!
Don’t let this dude cook
We gonna get poisoned 🤢
Why tho?
Why would he poison us???
Nah if someone spoke to me like that, I would bounce.
as a golden retriever girl who takes everything to heart i feel this on a spiritual level
Those type of people make flirting way easier for nice people💀💀💀
I’m a black cat girl and that’s exactly how I act lol
Lol samr
Same man
It’s called being a jerk 🤷♀️ it’s not a cool thing. Try bettering yourself and holding back negative remarks, you’re life gets a lot better for it. Trust me!
@@deztheray8935 ok j trust you
Lol same
If this is on "a good day" and shes calling you names like that, imagine what she'll do to you on " a bad day" dont let these "flirting" idiots piss all over you and then have the audacity to call it rain. YOU DESERVE BETTER
YESSS
Being rude isn't cool or cute or quirky IT IS JUST RUDE
That analogy-
@@ly7018 ikr! Chef's kiss, perfecto
No they're actually flirting- one time I actually dated one
@@PeterorPetra damn. I'm so sorry you were abused like that. I hope you've found better
Im the golden retriever one ✨ except im a girl -
same same💪
SAME!!
SAMEEE😊
Same
Gosh cute little dumb thing
Im crying by how cute this is 😢❤
The golden retriever boy when he said “why are you being so mean to me” was so cute
Anyone “flirts” like that and they have serious issues.
EXACTLY.
I take offense to that
Yeeaaah
It’s like friendly teasing, and then they tease back most times too. It’s not actually something that hurts the others feelings, and if it does we know we did wrong and stand up for our actions.
Exactly
Honestly everything is fine but calling your friend a disappointment crosses a line. If anyone does that just ditch them. There is no excuse for calling someone a disappointment, flirting or not
Y’all I’m talking abt the video. He seems sad that he’s being called names and all she says is “I’m flirting with you”. I doubt insulting someone will get you a bf
saying you dont wanna be seen with someone in public too. Shows that theyre fake and dont actually like you at all.
@@lkblondie8061 frrrr
Realistically, you just have to find the right people. I could tell my best friend I despise them, I'd never want to be seen with them, that their a waste of a space, and a walking disappointment and we'd be laughing our asses off.
Failure
@@MoiNomeLoinely fr like me and my friends do it all the time
my friend has black cat energy & theyre always doing this to me lmfao😭
All my friends in the goldie in the group lol
I always be doing this to my friend with golden retriever energy but I'm secretly flirting with them
The one " why are you so mean to me😕" im flirting with you "what😢" 😂😂😂😂😂
That “Whaat?😵💫” at the end got me😂
Instead of asking "why are you so mean to me" I would've just gotten more sad and just said "ok 😭" then waddle away with sadness thank you for more shorts of your tiktok 🙏 I appreciate it
Okay for everyone saying they’re like this, it is not endearing or anything, it’s called being a jerk. It’s not who you are it’s just you having no self control. Being positive and nice to everyone makes you and everyone around you way happier.
Bro its i talk to my friends like that and they do too as a JOKE(but we never go into our family or their insecurities)
for real. thank you for saying this. I had a friend that used to say horrible things to me, like I was ugly, and nobody liked me, or how embarrassing I was. when I stopped talking to them they tried to say sorry and it was all jokes, it’s just how they are. it’s not cute, it’s not funny, saying rude things as a ‘joke’ isn’t funny no matter what anyone says.
@@adriannaheine3933 that wasn't a friend. My friends and I fuck around being mean to eachother but never about stuff like looks and family stuff or anything. Plus them only backpaddling after you stopped talking to them makes it very clear they didn't mean it as a joke. A good friend would have seen that you were upset earlier and stopped
Yeah. I know some friends do it as jokes, but theres a thin line between that and just being a total dickwad.
That's actually something done by abusive partner/friends/parents, so you think less of yourself and don't leave them. People who do that and don't want to hurt others should work on themselves
literally same. my boyfriend thinks i hate him sometimes but i have to remind him that i don’t know how to flirt properly
The “what?” Was so idiotic I love it 😂
This is not flirting. This is blatant verbal abuse.
If someone flirts with me like this, they could Ryan Reynolds and I’d punch them in the face 😂
how I treat my friends (it ain't flirting)
that's how I show affection
how i treat my friends (it is flirting)
if you treat your friends like that and it isnt a joke i think thats a huge 🚩
@@GASPINGFORAIRRN they didnt say it wasnt a joke, just that they arent flirting
Same, depending on the friend (bc I know which friends can and can't handle what kind of rudeness) I'm hella rude and they are hella rude back and we all just know we love eachother (platontically)
Ima golden retriever and if ever flirted with me like that…. I would cry before they got the chance to ask me out or smth
I don’t know how to flirt and now I’m even more confused than I was before
I would have already cried when someone said that to me😭
Nah you gotta flirt like me “hey so like umm you look like a fabulous hot pocket.. k bye”
*caugh* me and my guy friend in a nutshell, but we’re both the aggressive flirters *caugh*
@ayeshiix oh I know I spelled it wrong
That was intentional
That’s just abusive that’s not flirting. If that’s how someone “flirts” they have huge attachment and intimacy issues and need to get help
😂 I think this video exaggerates it way more than it is. Definitely a black cat girl and I wouldn’t say this stuff. Most of the time it’s more like aggressive insulting with people who you know will insult you back and you both find it hilarious. In the case of my boyfriend though I’m very different with him and more open with him about my insecurities so he just compliments me and I consistently compliment him back. Basically I wouldn’t be a black cat girl with a Goldie cause that hurts it’s funnier to do aggressive jokes with someone whose also a black cat.
Exactly. I dont care if this is a joke or exaggeration, because its based on real things that many people do, and its perpetuating unhealthy behaviour in relationships.
Honestly this video is just a joke it’s not abusive it really shouldn’t be this big of a deal
@@ygs497 well I agree with what you’re saying, some people genuinely do act like this. Not all black cat girls are the same.
@@MarinetteDUPE-_-ainchengyesh
"He's kinda mean to me sometimes."
"I'm not mean to you, you're just dumb!"
- Mark and Ethan.
“Im flirting with you.”
“Whatttt?”
THATS SO CUTE
"Black cat girl" is a longwinded form of saying "c*nt".
Bro you just called probably half the world a cnt💀
I hated confrontation about feelings the most. I don't do crushes very well. I would feel depressed and anxiety when people were interested with me in romantically. I don't want to deal with that. I had a huge blocks resting stubbornly in my chest as I had things to do before I had the emotional capacity to care for any romance of sort.
Hey I relate to this too I feel shameful idk why. I haven't had any childhood trauma either idk why I'm like this. Fear of intimacy and letting someone love u is realll
Wait....this is literally how I’ve been my whole life..is something wrong with me-
Yeah, the feeling of expectation when you can barely hold yourself up really sucks, you feel like you're the last person they should be asking.
Its not even being a "black cat girl" its just being straight up toxic.💀
“What?! ☹️” PLEASE 😭🙏
His "what" at the end 😂 😭
As a golden retriever girl, here is a message to all the black cats:
STOP
Edit: Stop replying, I don't care
SERIOUSLY STOP NOBODY WOULD WANNA DATE WITH YA IF U HAVE SERIOUS ISSUES LIKE THAT
@@Tomuchlagtohandle me or black cats
black cats sorry for not clarifying lol@@Robloxian_247
@@Tomuchlagtohandle haha it's ok
Here is answer from black cat
HOW ABOUT NO
Im a golden retriever with the black cat flirting sytle 😞
No joke that's how I flirt with my crush-
Itll forever be your crush then
@@lonelyandstonely what-?
@@JellyJazz_x3hes saying your crush is not gonna want to be with you at all if thats how you treat him
@@walter1543 bro I completely forgot I commented on this video
@@JellyJazz_x3 lol, did you figure out what he meant by then?
I relate so much with the black cat energy😭😭
That "WHAAT" was soo cute❤❤😆
The “I’m flirting with you” was targeted
Me and my friend but she's litterly just fucking fake and I don't know how to defend myself and when I do she degrades me and says that's just her love language
Maybe shes into kinky stuff degrading is one
love language? friend? you figure that one out.
as for the other shit, respect yourself. put that respect in her face and make her respect you or mercilessly drop her.
I wrote this on another comment, but i feel it fits here too.
Dont let people treat you that way. cut them off immediately. them continuing to "flirt" or "joke" that way knowing you're upset by it shows that they are more attracted to you being hurt than actually being a good friend or partner to you.
What helped me was thinking of it as you allowing yourself to be treated like that, instead of her doing that to you.
I went through the same thing, trust me it's not worth it. Talk to her about it first though she most likely will not change since most people who are like that don't, its still worth a try and if that doesn't work just leave her.. youll feel so much better
As a black cat girl this is too freaking accurate
Remember y’all, this isn’t cute it’s toxic.
i feel like theres a difference between banter and flirty verbal attacking😭😭
So true lol
How to flirt in virgin
Yeahh
Just the "WhAt?” 😂
Black cat is trying to make him emotionally dependent using emotional swings
Personally if anyone flirted with me this way I would go home and cry 😭😭
that “why are you so mean to me” sounded a bit too much like deku..
‘what? 😢’ killed me
When you roast people as a love language
I’m sorry the way he said “whaaat 😥” at the end got me
As a black cat girl,I can confirm that's the way I flirted with my crush and him being a golden retriever be like-"Owkay".
That “what 🥺” was personal
He’s so innocent I can’t 😂❤❤❤
The cat one is my friends just without the flirting part😭😭😭
That's literally the definition of me😂
He looked like he was about to cry after that first one 🥹
I am what I call a golden cat or a black retriever. I can either be affectionate or absolutely menacing-
I feel so personally attacked
Ima be honest ur voice when u do golden retriever sounding like deku😭🤚
I can’t stop watching this 😭😭
"im flirting with you." "Whhaat!?"
Bro that's how Katsuki Bakugou would Flirt 😂
That "what" was personal 😦✋
Lmao, it’s giving off tsundere vibes Ngl😭😭
This is so sad but funny at the same time
As a mix of both I felt this on both sides😭
as a golden retriever girl, i flirt by awkwardly staring at someone for too long before they notice me and look at me funny
Most of the time, when I’m being like this to my crush, I always make sure to go back, tell them I was just messing around, and then compliment them instead. Like, I got so used to making fun of my brothers that I will do it to anyone now, including my crush
The amount of your black cat and golden retriever shorts ive seen, i love them all sm lol
Idk about the black cat girl acting but the golden retriever half is real asf