Let me know if you think I missed something. I tried to keep it short and its still 20 minutes. But I'd love to tackle this subject again if you think it's worthwhile.
Hey John..Many of us guys are doing ok financially nut not well off necessarily..I have modest savings investments etc but try to balance it by being extra fit working on game etc..I'm thinking be realistic in the quality of dating prospects or just go for what I want and see what happens?? I think I just answered my own question...lol
Older men are finally starting to realize that pretty words aside, women want an early retirement plan based on the man's assets. Legally in marriage, women can leave for any reason or no reason at all. Men assume way too much risk in the contract.
Never get married . You never have to get divorced . We all know that is one of the most costly mistakes a man can make . You will be made to pay regardless . It's a business, really . Lawyers $$$
Marriage is the leading cause of divorce. I would also suggest never cohabitating with a woman. Depending on the State, you may wake up one day - married.
@@okfrostman Yeah a friend of mine taught me that in Young life. The reason i am 33 years Old i have an 16.000$ Rolex a 150.000$ Porsche and a view appartments for rent. I compromised my love live to hookups and high class escorts. No head ache and no heart ache. Modern women and modern society isn‘t worth it. It is like giving a rolls royce to an alcoholic bum as a present. Not worth it at all.
Gentlemen! Silicone love dolls may cure all. I spent nearly 2 years trying to convince a friend to get a silicone girlfriend. He thought it was silly and kept dismissing the idea but one day to my surprise, he actually bought one. He is totally in love with her and now he never shuts up about how great she is. I've never seen him so happy in the time I've known him which is half a century. It's time I take my own advice and I invite you guys to do the same. All the good with non of the risks.
I've observed that friends and acquaintences who lead with their money, will attract gold diggers. Lead with you, yourself. Not your crap. Not your car. Your house. Your bling.
That’s hilarious! Most people use food in much the same way that alcoholics use alcohol or drug addicts use drugs. They’re trying to kill Pain. Plain and simple. Women are not the only fat people.
@@truthboomertruthbomber5125 Nope, we hardworking independent women can afford ozempic now, which eliminates foods cravings that used to fill the void in our souls. Now there's no more void to fill, other than this damn biological drive that makes us crave love & sex.
It's well understood that women love to date for this very reason. Free meals and then give nothing to the suckers. They'll TikTok later how stupid men are or how outrageous some of us are to not play that game. It's hilarious watching them hit their head against "the wall" so keep laughing boys. We are the guardians of the relationship. All they bring to the table is shared sex and they'll think it's a prize. Nah. Unless she is crawling under the dinner table to service you then you know the game she's playing is unkind. They'll surely be confused and even have a term for it now called "flipping" where men who seemed into them suddenly ghost. That's called reality of the wall and it's not up to us to teach them. Be kind, be centered, and maybe, just maybe, one of them will get lucky and you two can share some good times.
I’m in the top 5% of wage earners for my age group where I live and I can ensure you beyond being able to provide a stable life women don’t really care about your money. Women care about feeling safe and loved with their partner which largely plays from the mans personality.
@@JB-kx9bx True, but this money thing is not binary. Money is the first bar. If you don't have at least some basic level you're not going to get a chance to show the other things. Women are not going around picking up homeless dudes. The more money you have the more other "requirements" are reduced. Bill Gates never had a problem getting women after Microsoft took off. But yeah, a guy still needs game. In the West if she doesn't feel safe and loved she's unlikely to stay. If a US guy moves to a poorer country money reduces other requirements to the point of almost disappearing.
That is a great question that I brought up a few years back. It was on a forum where 90% were men. I asked it and 75% of guys said they would not get into relationships with women if it wasn’t for sex.. I was curious about the 25% that acted like they would. Little did they seem to realize the main motivator that propelled them to approach their future wife was their sex drive. Oh and that same sex drive makes them do all the daily things to keep her happy. Most guys have never thought about this too deeply and that’s a bit concerning
Coming from someone who get tons of matches from dating apps, work on your physical attractiveness and you’ll be surprised how many women are out there who are equally willing to just look for sex.
Yes they are, and they seem to be doing quite well. If they formed the corporation and traded publicly, I think they would be the biggest corporation in the world.
And yet, as an older guy you now understand that the limerance of youth is a lie that nature throws over your intelligence. The imagination and hope that you adopted when you were young and hungry are the things older women will still try to use on you. Just don't. We know the house always wins and so keep your investment very low as you weed out those looking to take while giving as little as possible.
Really glad I found this channel, so far it seems much more grounded and informative than most MGTOW / Red Pill channels if you are even labeling it as that , thank you Sir I appreciate the content !
They really are like doing drugs that instead of getting you high, get you low. Dating apps = depression. Hard to avoid, this I understand. But if you must use them, open them once to get some great pictures and state your clear goals. Then, never open the app again. Never doom scroll left and right. Hypergamy has you doomed from the start in this game.
Great video. While I’m 67, 6’02”, 220…I’m pretty fit, one thing I have found is that while many women say that it doesn’t matter, they prefer a guy with hair. I shave my head rather than have the horseshoe look. So far women that I have found attractive don’t reciprocate. And I don’t want to get involved with someone that I am not attracted to just to get laid. So I’m resigned to living my life with my dogs and enjoying the peace. Maybe someday I’ll meet someone but if not no worries.
Hair doesn’t matter, grow a good beard, keep it neat and shaped, have good overall hygiene, dress good, carry yourself in a confident matter and your good to go.
What's just crazy, I Googled the average weight for women in the US, BaHaHa I almost had a heart attack 170.8 lbs it also showed average weight of men in the US 199.8 my god our country has a bunch of fatties for women, I thought the average would've been like 140 lbs😅
I surfed onto your channel and I find it interesting as a women I do agree with you in regards to men needing to be fit. I work hard to stay fit at almost 60 so it’s great you mentioned it as I find most men my age to be doughy and out of shape ! It’s a turn off. Thanks again.
I’m 49 and in above average shape , yoga , calisthenics, weight lifting etc. I told myself at a very young age I wouldn’t allow myself to just fall out of shape like so many people seem to do. Everything in life is better when we are in good health and able to enjoy ourselves
My wife is 2 years older than me and we have 3 children together. The best relationship that I ever had. I used to avoid dating older women in the past thinking they carry a lot of baggage and the traditional thought that man should always be older than the girl. But when I dated these toxic chilidish immature chicks, I couldn't handle their annoyance..... Younger Gen-Z women who are mature, kind and understandable is nigh impossible to find in these contemporary times. They only want money, security and offer nothing but anxiety, stress and depression.... But some men are so egotistic that they will never even look at older women thinking it will hurt their manliness and that they want fertility and someone to control, because older women are not slimes who can be molded in any form that men want them to like younger women who don't know anything about the world except their own body.... I was in the same spot a few years ago and now I have realized my mistake....
The man leads, dominates her or she will dominate and disrespect him, and rightfully so. Women want a leader. They want to be dominated, especially in the bedroom. Keep researching and learn.what woman really want
You guys put way more into this than it deserves. Women may be complex in their wiring, but they certainly are not complicated in their goals. First of all, its important to examine the reasons, the female psyche requires what it requires. In addressing the notion that they want money, blame this phenomenon on the disparity of income for women vs men. Often they are rendered the sole provider for their children. Despite legislation, child support is not guaranteed. She innately appreciates a fit male because her primal instincts tells her that it will protect her and her offsprings. Even without children, her love is always maternal. Her sing-song way of speaking attest to it. Maternal. It lulls young children to sleep. If she values commitment, subconsciously it best serves her babies. Maternal. Truth be told, if a guy, in her secluded presence, were to behave as though he were oblivious to sex, she'd be first to initiate it. Therefore, I suggest no man go on a quest to find a woman. Rather go about your life as one would while jogging. If along the way, I encountered a bear, I would reverse course. If I found a wrench I'd pocket it for future use. If I encountered someone whose company I enjoyed, I would attempt to nurture that relationship to our mutual satisfaction. If I saw a bag of money, I'd pick it up and put it in my wallet. But I would NOT run through the forest, head down, eyes focused on the ground in the hope of finding money. The odds are against it as the consequence of a one- track mind would be disastrous. After all I entered the forest to run. Towards what end, I cannot say. But I do know that there is a richer purpose to our lives than the pursuit of momentary pleasure.
"blame this phenomenon on the disparity of income for women vs men." Christina Hoff Summers, Economist and Feminist has long tried to get fellow Feminists and other ill-informed individuals from spewing this fallacy. "Despite legislation, child support is not guaranteed." You're right. If he loses his job and can't pay child support or alimony, he goes to jail. It's almost comical how coddled and spoiled Western women are, and we, as a society, good intentions aside, have done this to the detriment of EVERYONE. They're materialistic beyond the pale, entitled, demanding and avoid accountability like plague. Studies have repeatedly shown if you increase a man's income on his profile, his attractiveness to women goes up 30% +. Thanks to Social Media an average Western guy with an average income is an under-achieving unattractive chump to 80% of Western women, who erroneously believe they deserve a top 20% guy. This is why men in droves are saving their money and migrating to Countries where women make far superior mates, want a masculine man to take the lead and appreciate him for what he brings to the relationship. As an added bonus, these Countries still have a modicum of respect for men, instead of viewing them violent, oppresive patriarchal sh*tlords. What an insult. Caveat Emptor, Gentlemen.
You attract what you are, ive been alive for a long time and the only horrible women ive had to deal with are ones I'm related 2. Personal responsibility/accountability is so rare these days
Not true ! Prey attract predators. The same is in human relationshits. Anyone good attract predators. Enough with that lie that "you attract what you are"
I love your channel! I'm 60 y/o, divorced for 6 years, I'm looking to find some FWB casual relationships. Your channel is giving me hope. Much appreciated!
When I was young, I thought women, and sex, were the have-all/end-all of human experience. Boy, was I wrong! Both women and sex are no longer on my menu.
How many times do women pull the old "bait and switch" routine? How many men have married a woman only to wake up to a perfect stranger the next morning?
Please elaborate on "a woman without friends is dangerous!" I think I know what you mean, but I've only ever experienced the flip side of the coin. Women with entirely too many friends - friends popping out of the woodwork, new friends, "this cool person I just met." Women who can't endure more than a couple minutes alone with themself. They'd happily trade sex for a guy that drowns out the gnawing sense of loneliness they experience.
A lot of women in the U.S. cost to much and start gaining a lot of weight after high school. I've noticed that the best relationships I've had where with women that were born outside of the U.S. even though I met them in the U.S. I would like to retire in other country. Dating and cost of living would be lower.
I’m willing to pay but the hour. I can’t stand the horse and pony show fakery of dating. I don’t care about “showing her a good time”, making her “happy” excited etc. At 41, i could care less. My ideal relationship is a situationship or friend with benefits at best.
@@john-griffin lol what an epic analogy. I live in Canada, in 2019 or 2020 the Ontario Superior Court here ruled in favour of a $33,000,000 “palimony” to a gf who never lived with the guy, and declined his marriage proposal because it contained a prenup. The feminist judge ruled, she will get $300,000 a month alimony because “she deserves it” and he “should pay” (he’s a wealthy man)… First of it’s ruling but, lot of gfs now have cause to extort $ after a break up. So we’re just friends full stop is the furthest I go.
Don’t even have to be married or cohabitating anymore. The courts will find a way to transfer your wealth to her. At my age, I would love to have a long-term companion, but it’s not worth the financial risk.
@@derekfrost6949 It is a fantasy that is very expensive for the man who have to work very hard in order that the woman can experience that soulmate experience.
By age 59, I have learned that a man should be focused on what brings him joy and peace. If youre in your 60s and still feel its important to understand "what women want" youve lost the Game of Life.
I think attractiveness is more than looks. People say I look good shirtless and all that but I don’t get much attention. I am 67 and have flat abs. Maybe I am still too skinny though. I think the most important thing is personality and this is where I fail. Mine is rather bad.
Developing personality can be a lot easier than you think. The trick is to look at situations from the perspective of the other person. Once you understand, what’s important to them it’s easy to seem very engaging and interesting. I’m sure there are tons of books written on this topic. But if it’s just your ability to have charisma or to have an interesting conversation with someone, I think you can fix that. Good luck, man.
Great video, you gained one more follower! However, about 2 points I think differently: First, women in general only get interested in a man's emotional needs until page two... (seems that she loses a beat of repect and admiration due to man's weakness) Second, when it comes to meet a woman, I think it is safer and cheaper an on line envairoment. Im in my early forties, divorced and had no children.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I agree with you on women's interests. The online thing is also true in terms of being cheaper. It just consumes so much time. Thanks!
Met one woman at the grocery store and one at the mall. The one at the mall approached me asking me if I knew where Lululemon was. I said "Do I look like I know where Lululemon is?" I was going the same direction and we were chatting and joking around. Before I went on my way I gave her my number. Easy as that.
You know, I really think that meeting people in real life is so much better than using an application. They’re just something to that human connection that is so critical.
Forget dating apps, it's not good for men and for our self estim. It's good if you have alot of money and that you are basicaly very attractive and have alot of time to wast for swiping around 2000 profiles per week and that you are willing to get rejected by 99.999% of the women on those apps and that you are also willing to wast a month of time swiping on those apps instead of going out. So yea, except that, if you are a man, you should definitively stay out of dating apps.
Thanks John for your video iam single for a 53 years somtimes happy sometimes sad, what i don't understand is this some people are in a bad relation, and guess when they get divorse afther a time they have a new relation. Why they can keep single i don't understand this. ( sorry for my bad english).
I think that there are a couple of reasons they do that. First, people are afraid of being alone, more now than ever. This fear is existential. The second reason is that people often forget the worst parts of the past and only remember the good things. Thanks for your question.
What is love? Jacque Fresco when before he died, he said : Love is bullshit. He meaned love what we think what looks. Its something, what makes people frustrating. True love had no conditions, and its carry together like a humans body. And words I love is empty words, what means nothing. So, love doesnt exists.
Well thought out points/discussion. Liked your ideas about how women are wired for seeking security/commitment, also money, status, and power. Versus just being a gold digger. A short story. Dated a woman in my early 20s. Was blindsided, and dumped. I moved on. She had two sisters. Both college grads. She was skilled blue collar. Both sisters married educated professional men. She married a divorced business man who came from money. Not college educated. But successful. She knew him for 5 mos. Her family/friends couldn't understand why she married so quickly. Wasn't pregnant. I think she wanted money/status/security vis a vis her sisters. Her husband didn't want more children. So she gave up that option. Then followed an apparently unhappy marriage for years. She's now widowed and largely alone. But, she did get the 'bag'. She contacted me recently, out of the blue, years later. So we meet occasionally for companionship and seggs. Its suits me, for now. She seems pleased. Her life choices seem to have worked for her. Think she regrets no kids. But, she got the 'bag' and a 'higher' life style. People are complicated. 🤔🤔
Stellar video. Yes, this is very much the problem with young women. They either want kids or want you to take care of their existing kids. Better to be with one whose kids have already left.
For me, if there is not scent or hint of intmacy on any kind by the second date, it’s over…. If a woman is into you, she will break rules for you, if she’s not, she’ll make rules for you.. simple as that
I agree that if a woman is really into you that she'll break rules to be with you. On a personal note, I prefer to take things slow and avoid women who give it up quickly.
@@razadaza9651 true. if you deny them theyll move on. plus such women that take things slow, once took things fast until they learned not to any longer. there is no innocent woman.
They're wild in their 20s and more serious in their thirties. In my 20s I was way too emotional. Attention from a range of guys is more important than your chivalry. Have a bag full of coin when you go out don't get in your feelings.
@@john-griffin Don't be to inspirational. What make it funny is how pessimistic you are about relationships. Would you ever interview me about relationships on modern times and all my dreadful experiences? I do interviews on TH-cam usually for movies, but I would love to tell you all my relationship horror stories.
@@nowhereman7413 I love him. I got really into his videos. I just wish he made more about romance. I don't care much for the fitness videos or whatnot.
At 2:31, a crucial aspect of commitment that may not be explicitly communicated is the prerequisite for women seeking commitment. They seek assurance of your capability to provide for them, but this assurance is contingent on you being a good provider. The key aspect to focus on is the ability to provide for her well-being, as this is the basis for her desire for your commitment.
I just sleep with escorts now. I don’t have the emotional energy to invest in another woman.. They are all time sinks and drain after all. My ex wife was really an emotional drain and all for what? The relationship wasn’t that much of a fun.. I meet and date plenty of women post divorce and while it’s nice to chill and chat with them, the majority are looking for something (marriage) that I’m no longer wanting to offer. So we move on from each other eventually.
Thanks for this video. I grew up believing that my life would unfold in a traditional way like previous generations. I never could have predicated how complicated women are. Too hard.
For a 25 year old man, 40 year old woman is "older women", for a 60 year old the same 40 year old is young. To call them older woman they should be at least 5 to 10 years older than you. If age difference is less than 5 years - they are same age women as you. Of course for most men younger women are more physically attractive on average. But as you told they com with a higher price tag, risks and need more maintenance. Maybe you can make a video about single moms. I think that they cost the most and provide the least. Always after material resources for themselves and children. Children come first and providers come last (baby daddy and new partner - provider).
I don’t like the idea of retirement. I don’t think life is about sitting around on your ass watching TV. I prefer to be an active participant all the way up until the very last minute. So I do run my health coaching and training business for my home plus this channel. I also do some online coaching. I think I’ll do that for as long as I can. Because I really enjoy it.
@@john-griffin Retirement means different things to different people for sure, but I don't see the point in protracted indentured servitude to an employer either if you've achieved your financial destination.
Still trying to figure it out I see. Can't blame you, I guess. Take all of that out of the conversation, and simply reduce it to a basic risk assessment, probability vs severity. For men, thinking about getting married, the risk is.....probability HIGH vs severity HIGH. That equals an unacceptable risk. If people want to risk everything knowing that, well thats on them, and I do wish them luck. Keep a suitcase of clothes, and at least $10,000 off site, you can thank me later.
@@john-griffin I believe the chances of two people who are willing to put in the work, maintain their respect for each other, and who will take their wedding vowels literally, have diminished to something on the order of 10% to 15%.....sad, but thats the current reality.
John, great channel, very balanced and respectful of the differences between men and women. No need to be another man bashing women. I hear all your saying, all great advice but sadly, the world has changed the state of the union between men and women especially when considering the advent of hard-line feminism and social media. This has profoundly changed women of all ages, not just young ones. It is sad because it brings out their worse instincts. Today, it is all about women. We live in a gynocentric world where women have winds in their sails while men and boys are increasingly trailing behind. We often hear that the " future is female". Money, power, status, attention, validation attracts and corrupts many women. So sadly, I prefer to fly solo at this late stage of my fifties because the risk is not worth it. Sex is overrated and I have no desire to contract an STD. Sex devoid of love is not enjoyable so I find many other effective ways to enjoy life away from drama and costly activities to avoid my female companion to get bored... Peace of mind is absolute bliss. Freedom is absolute bliss and no amount of potential sex would deviate me from enjoying what time I have left on planet earth. I don't hate women but for me, they are simply out of reach and incompatible with what I find essential to my life now. To each his own. Happiness can be found in many forms. I found mine and women are not part of it. I respect those who deserve it but I will tell you, that mindset is liberating and unnerving to women... They have no power over me... Women seem oblivious to the fact that for a society to thrive and be happy, both genders need to flourish. The future simply cannot be " female"...
Thanks, I’m afraid you have a lot of really good points. I think that there are enough common sense people in the world that we can hold back the pink wave.
@@john-griffin the pink wave as you call 😊 it is powerful, underestimating it would be a mistake. As we speak the ravage done is immense starting with the explosion of the family unit over the last few decades. I am not blaming women for all of it but the family unit is the very core of a society. We cannot have a resilient society with single moms raising boys and girls. Our society is weaker than ever. Most kids today are ravaged by depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues. Women ( many ) are covered in tattoo's and have become just as agressive as men can be. In many instances, roles have been reversed as boys have grown up without a father figure and role model to emulate. So today, many boys are weak and anxious. They lack confidence and chose to game in mom's basement and withdraw from society. This will yield records numbers of single women and men. Already happening. Regards.
I didn't bash anyone. I just mentioned that some overweight guys do quite well with women. Go back and watch. You might be a little over sensitive . But I did not bash him. 😀
@WhiteGhost21 You are making a broad and incorrect generalization/assumption - Not ALL women, like myself, need or want to be married - My partner and I, who are in our 60's, have been living together for 6+ years - We fulfill each other's needs and stay together because we WANT to - Assuming that all women want to "trap" a man and then attempt to take everything he owns is patently wrong - Stay single
@@BarbaraAndres-et9lv I realize that. However, younger, much younger women than you, do and it is quite possible you felt that way as well when you were younger.
@@BarbaraAndres-et9lv : Do you have a life insurance policy on him? Have you asked him to place you in his will? All sexual activity is transactional with women.
@jacksquat4140 You are 100% incorrect - We have each other's backs and are the beneficiaries of each other's estates - No life insurance policy - Not necessary - Only love, respect and commitment to each other - It's a wonderful life! Wishing the same for you!!
The vast majority of women of today wil love you as long as you keep the cash and prizes coming. Even then, they still have men in their orbit. They can easily just get bored with you and want some new tingles from some other guy.
Getting married for todays women is not wired in. They are looking for a mans resources and you are not her 1st choice. You are a retirement plan and know this, she has an exit plan before you sign the marriage contract. Better men then you and I have tried and failed. Statistically you will lose big time.
Kind of obvious Chad… don’t hyper fixate on Trump and miss the point. John is offering great advice which i appreciate… don’t turn into something it’s not.
Trump‘s wife is one of the most beautiful women in the world. Even at her age. Meanwhile, Dems like Bill Clinton and Joe Biden have to force themselves on average women (Tara Reade, Juanita Broderick, and MANY others)…and smell little girls’ hair… 😂
As a MAGA fan he stated facts! Trump is overweight and has a beautiful younger wife. So Trump has game. He praised Trump with his comment. Stop being so sensitive!!😂
@matchhunter7012 I am fine if you are a MAGA fan. I am not. I have a high level of disdain for either party. But, you are right that Trump's results are proof enough.
Let me know if you think I missed something. I tried to keep it short and its still 20 minutes. But I'd love to tackle this subject again if you think it's worthwhile.
dating apps are like casinos...full of broken people.....casinos are not full of beautiful women.
You covered it quite well!!
Can you make a video on dinners, and dating. What do they think I am a buffet or a cafeteria or a food bank.😂I'm 40
Hey John..Many of us guys are doing ok financially nut not well off necessarily..I have modest savings investments etc but try to balance it by being extra fit working on game etc..I'm thinking be realistic in the quality of dating prospects or just go for what I want and see what happens?? I think I just answered my own question...lol
Well, you're right about the money part.
Older men are finally starting to realize that pretty words aside, women want an early retirement plan based on the man's assets. Legally in marriage, women can leave for any reason or no reason at all. Men assume way too much risk in the contract.
Never get married . You never have to get divorced . We all know that is one of the most costly mistakes a man can make . You will be made to pay regardless . It's a business, really . Lawyers $$$
Marriage is the leading cause of divorce. I would also suggest never cohabitating with a woman. Depending on the State, you may wake up one day - married.
@@okfrostman never have sex
@@okfrostman Yeah a friend of mine taught me that in Young life. The reason i am 33 years Old i have an 16.000$ Rolex a 150.000$ Porsche and a view appartments for rent. I compromised my love live to hookups and high class escorts. No head ache and no heart ache. Modern women and modern society isn‘t worth it. It is like giving a rolls royce to an alcoholic bum as a present. Not worth it at all.
@@okfrostman you lose all leverage
Women need two things from a man:
1. More.
2. Something else.
Very true!
I thought "more" too lol
No truer words have ever been spoken.
Oh yeah?!
Well... you're only saying that because it's true.
Gentlemen! Silicone love dolls may cure all. I spent nearly 2 years trying to convince a friend to get a silicone girlfriend. He thought it was silly and kept dismissing the idea but one day to my surprise, he actually bought one. He is totally in love with her and now he never shuts up about how great she is. I've never seen him so happy in the time I've known him which is half a century. It's time I take my own advice and I invite you guys to do the same. All the good with non of the risks.
I've observed that friends and acquaintences who lead with their money, will attract gold diggers. Lead with you, yourself. Not your crap. Not your car. Your house. Your bling.
technically a woman that is an 8+ will be a golddiger and she will use you unless you are an 8+ yourself.
@@WhiteGhost21 You could be surprised that even women that aren't very attractive want to follow suit and grift.
Women only want one thing its called everything
😂👍
@@john-griffin "she got the whole god dam planet in the divorce"
two things actually - more and something else
Good morning from Australia. Love your conversation.
Keep it rolling....
Thank you! Will do!
Not one mention of the #1 thing women can’t get enough of !! Something to eat!! Food and lots of it.
That’s hilarious!
Most people use food in much the same way that alcoholics use alcohol or drug addicts use drugs. They’re trying to kill Pain. Plain and simple. Women are not the only fat people.
It’s like feeding a damn horse.
I’ve kept good horses that cost me less to feed than a woman.
@@truthboomertruthbomber5125 Nope, we hardworking independent women can afford ozempic now, which eliminates foods cravings that used to fill the void in our souls. Now there's no more void to fill, other than this damn biological drive that makes us crave love & sex.
It's well understood that women love to date for this very reason. Free meals and then give nothing to the suckers. They'll TikTok later how stupid men are or how outrageous some of us are to not play that game. It's hilarious watching them hit their head against "the wall" so keep laughing boys. We are the guardians of the relationship. All they bring to the table is shared sex and they'll think it's a prize. Nah. Unless she is crawling under the dinner table to service you then you know the game she's playing is unkind. They'll surely be confused and even have a term for it now called "flipping" where men who seemed into them suddenly ghost. That's called reality of the wall and it's not up to us to teach them. Be kind, be centered, and maybe, just maybe, one of them will get lucky and you two can share some good times.
Thanks man, great video. Nice to see someone my age sharing some wisdom.
Thanks for the feedback. I genuinely appreciate it.
What women really want: Money, Money and Money. Everything else is "extra".
Women will not like me then, I have no Money😂
Not true. That's such a fallacy. And you'll never have a healthy, meaningful love relationship with that foul attitude.
I’m in the top 5% of wage earners for my age group where I live and I can ensure you beyond being able to provide a stable life women don’t really care about your money. Women care about feeling safe and loved with their partner which largely plays from the mans personality.
@@JB-kx9bx True, but this money thing is not binary. Money is the first bar. If you don't have at least some basic level you're not going to get a chance to show the other things. Women are not going around picking up homeless dudes. The more money you have the more other "requirements" are reduced. Bill Gates never had a problem getting women after Microsoft took off.
But yeah, a guy still needs game. In the West if she doesn't feel safe and loved she's unlikely to stay. If a US guy moves to a poorer country money reduces other requirements to the point of almost disappearing.
@@JB-kx9bx That is not true when they get to divorce court. Then only the money matters.
If men didn’t have a strong sex drive, would they have anything to do with women?
Probably not
@@mafp22w no
That is a great question that I brought up a few years back. It was on a forum where 90% were men. I asked it and 75% of guys said they would not get into relationships with women if it wasn’t for sex.. I was curious about the 25% that acted like they would. Little did they seem to realize the main motivator that propelled them to approach their future wife was their sex drive. Oh and that same sex drive makes them do all the daily things to keep her happy. Most guys have never thought about this too deeply and that’s a bit concerning
Coming from someone who get tons of matches from dating apps, work on your physical attractiveness and you’ll be surprised how many women are out there who are equally willing to just look for sex.
The old joke is if they didn’t have vaginas, we’d hunt them for sport….
Men are in love. Women are in business.
Yes they are, and they seem to be doing quite well. If they formed the corporation and traded publicly, I think they would be the biggest corporation in the world.
And yet, as an older guy you now understand that the limerance of youth is a lie that nature throws over your intelligence. The imagination and hope that you adopted when you were young and hungry are the things older women will still try to use on you. Just don't. We know the house always wins and so keep your investment very low as you weed out those looking to take while giving as little as possible.
Men pay all the time
At mid-fifties and beyond, be careful of the young beauties unless you have a money printing machine.
I rent😂
Really glad I found this channel, so far it seems much more grounded and informative than most MGTOW / Red Pill channels if you are even labeling it as that , thank you Sir I appreciate the content !
Thanks
I´m SO GLAD I never got married. I´m 54 and single, it´s so peaceful!!
@@Tebanovich Same here.
I'm 57, retired early, almost 10 yrs now. So glad I never got married. I wondered if I'd regret it, so far no.
I'm 59 and glad I never got married. Peaceful indeed!
Step one..avoid dating apps.
Its best to meet in real life.
They really are like doing drugs that instead of getting you high, get you low. Dating apps = depression.
Hard to avoid, this I understand. But if you must use them, open them once to get some great pictures and state your clear goals. Then, never open the app again. Never doom scroll left and right. Hypergamy has you doomed from the start in this game.
Great video. While I’m 67, 6’02”, 220…I’m pretty fit, one thing I have found is that while many women say that it doesn’t matter, they prefer a guy with hair. I shave my head rather than have the horseshoe look. So far women that I have found attractive don’t reciprocate. And I don’t want to get involved with someone that I am not attracted to just to get laid. So I’m resigned to living my life with my dogs and enjoying the peace. Maybe someday I’ll meet someone but if not no worries.
You’re more likely to find someone when you’re not looking.
3-4k USD for hair transplant in Turkey.
If you have money, they will want you. If not, you're invisible.
Hair doesn’t matter, grow a good beard, keep it neat and shaped, have good overall hygiene, dress good, carry yourself in a confident matter and your good to go.
7:43 omg as you went through this list of things to do on a date I just felt the life force slip away. Why bother? 😅
I was exhausted halfway into the list. 😅😅😅.
The word "no" is an aphrodisiac
never ever bust inside when the girl tells you‼️
its a trap happened to me true story 😂😂 stay single no wife no kids happy life 😂😂
What's just crazy, I Googled the average weight for women in the US, BaHaHa I almost had a heart attack 170.8 lbs it also showed average weight of men in the US 199.8 my god our country has a bunch of fatties for women, I thought the average would've been like 140 lbs😅
That’s insane. They out weigh me!
two words - seed oils
@@WhiteGhost21 How about this: "They eat too darn much food!" 😂
@@jfnuyen: They'll eat your soul too!
You meet these women in the grocery store.😆
I surfed onto your channel and I find it interesting as a women I do agree with you in regards to men needing to be fit. I work hard to stay fit at almost 60 so it’s great you mentioned it as I find most men my age to be doughy and out of shape ! It’s a turn off. Thanks again.
Thanks for sharing!
I’m 49 and in above average shape , yoga , calisthenics, weight lifting etc. I told myself at a very young age I wouldn’t allow myself to just fall out of shape like so many people seem to do. Everything in life is better when we are in good health and able to enjoy ourselves
Look at women hour age and younger.....
Makeup freaks
Smartphone addicts
Man / boy haircuts
Your in shape? Not like me !!!!
Or ever will be!
My wife is 2 years older than me and we have 3 children together. The best relationship that I ever had. I used to avoid dating older women in the past thinking they carry a lot of baggage and the traditional thought that man should always be older than the girl. But when I dated these toxic chilidish immature chicks, I couldn't handle their annoyance.....
Younger Gen-Z women who are mature, kind and understandable is nigh impossible to find in these contemporary times. They only want money, security and offer nothing but anxiety, stress and depression....
But some men are so egotistic that they will never even look at older women thinking it will hurt their manliness and that they want fertility and someone to control, because older women are not slimes who can be molded in any form that men want them to like younger women who don't know anything about the world except their own body....
I was in the same spot a few years ago and now I have realized my mistake....
Money is big..especially with older women...sex n love fade out
Just money and a dummy to dominate and control
The trick is to make her the dummy.
Yes, good-looking dummy.
The man leads, dominates her or she will dominate and disrespect him, and rightfully so.
Women want a leader. They want to be dominated, especially in the bedroom.
Keep researching and learn.what woman really want
And have the simp who's an ATM machine think he's alpha.
You guys put way more into this than it deserves. Women may be complex in their wiring, but they certainly are not complicated in their goals. First of all, its important to examine the reasons, the female psyche requires what it requires. In addressing the notion that they want money, blame this phenomenon on the disparity of income for women vs men. Often they are rendered the sole provider for their children. Despite legislation, child support is not guaranteed. She innately appreciates a fit male because her primal instincts tells her that it will protect her and her offsprings. Even without children, her love is always maternal. Her sing-song way of speaking attest to it. Maternal. It lulls young children to sleep. If she values commitment, subconsciously it best serves her babies. Maternal. Truth be told, if a guy, in her secluded presence, were to behave as though he were oblivious to sex, she'd be first to initiate it. Therefore, I suggest no man go on a quest to find a woman. Rather go about your life as one would while jogging. If along the way, I encountered a bear, I would reverse course. If I found a wrench I'd pocket it for future use. If I encountered someone whose company I enjoyed, I would attempt to nurture that relationship to our mutual satisfaction. If I saw a bag of money, I'd pick it up and put it in my wallet. But I would NOT run through the forest, head down, eyes focused on the ground in the hope of finding money. The odds are against it as the consequence of a one- track mind would be disastrous. After all I entered the forest to run. Towards what end, I cannot say. But I do know that there is a richer purpose to our lives than the pursuit of momentary pleasure.
Great points thanks for sharing
@@john-griffin Thank you. Grateful for the platform.
Thanks
"blame this phenomenon on the disparity of income for women vs men." Christina Hoff Summers, Economist and Feminist has long tried to get fellow Feminists and other ill-informed individuals from spewing this fallacy. "Despite legislation, child support is not guaranteed." You're right. If he loses his job and can't pay child support or alimony, he goes to jail. It's almost comical how coddled and spoiled Western women are, and we, as a society, good intentions aside, have done this to the detriment of EVERYONE. They're materialistic beyond the pale, entitled, demanding and avoid accountability like plague. Studies have repeatedly shown if you increase a man's income on his profile, his attractiveness to women goes up 30% +. Thanks to Social Media an average Western guy with an average income is an under-achieving unattractive chump to 80% of Western women, who erroneously believe they deserve a top 20% guy. This is why men in droves are saving their money and migrating to Countries where women make far superior mates, want a masculine man to take the lead and appreciate him for what he brings to the relationship. As an added bonus, these Countries still have a modicum of respect for men, instead of viewing them violent, oppresive patriarchal sh*tlords. What an insult. Caveat Emptor, Gentlemen.
You attract what you are, ive been alive for a long time and the only horrible women ive had to deal with are ones I'm related 2. Personal responsibility/accountability is so rare these days
Not true !
Prey attract predators.
The same is in human relationshits. Anyone good attract predators.
Enough with that lie that "you attract what you are"
@@Zox604: I mean, I get what DN is saying, but there are many women out there, and men too, who misrepresent who they truly are. You just never know.
I love your channel! I'm 60 y/o, divorced for 6 years, I'm looking to find some FWB casual relationships. Your channel is giving me hope. Much appreciated!
I’m sure you will find what you’re looking for. You may have to go to places where you can find it though. Good luck!
@AtheistAllen_escorts are your way forwards
Sex, the most overrated thing... ever 👹
When I was young, I thought women, and sex, were the have-all/end-all of human experience. Boy, was I wrong! Both women and sex are no longer on my menu.
LOL !! 😂 A when he said, " And you think this is heading in a good direction"
Buyer's remorse 😆
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How many times do women pull the old "bait and switch" routine? How many men have married a woman only to wake up to a perfect stranger the next morning?
Please elaborate on "a woman without friends is dangerous!"
I think I know what you mean, but I've only ever experienced the flip side of the coin. Women with entirely too many friends - friends popping out of the woodwork, new friends, "this cool person I just met." Women who can't endure more than a couple minutes alone with themself. They'd happily trade sex for a guy that drowns out the gnawing sense of loneliness they experience.
A lot of women in the U.S. cost to much and start gaining a lot of weight after high school. I've noticed that the best relationships I've had where with women that were born outside of the U.S. even though I met them in the U.S. I would like to retire in other country. Dating and cost of living would be lower.
I’m willing to pay but the hour. I can’t stand the horse and pony show fakery of dating. I don’t care about “showing her a good time”, making her “happy” excited etc. At 41, i could care less. My ideal relationship is a situationship or friend with benefits at best.
Be careful about the friends with benefits relationship. It’s like the camel who put his nose in the tent. Before you know it, you own a camel.
@@john-griffin lol what an epic analogy. I live in Canada, in 2019 or 2020 the Ontario Superior Court here ruled in favour of a $33,000,000 “palimony” to a gf who never lived with the guy, and declined his marriage proposal because it contained a prenup. The feminist judge ruled, she will get $300,000 a month alimony because “she deserves it” and he “should pay” (he’s a wealthy man)… First of it’s ruling but, lot of gfs now have cause to extort $ after a break up. So we’re just friends full stop is the furthest I go.
Don’t even have to be married or cohabitating anymore. The courts will find a way to transfer your wealth to her. At my age, I would love to have a long-term companion, but it’s not worth the financial risk.
i paid 1000 a month for 32 years , in a lump sum !!!
Holy moly that is unreal!
@@john-griffinI thought he goof lightly! I have mates that lost millions!
You would start a family with a woman in her 40’s? No no no….. way way too old sorry… I guess this channel may be for much older men…
I really resonated with you / your content. Straight forward and laid back at the same time. Thanks very much. Bless you.
Thanks I’m really glad you liked it
Excellent Information!
So sad I have lost everything 3 times almost homeless each time for love/sex and everything is so confused
Yup I’m sorry to hear that but I bet they did not even feel one second of remorse or empathy because they are women
Im an older woman but im Not looking for a friendship with benefits and im looking for a soulmate
I’m working on a video for you!
That’s a fantasy that does not exist.
@@derekfrost6949 : According to Briffault's Law, women only engage with males who they find attractive, provide a service or satisfies a need.
@@derekfrost6949 It is a fantasy that is very expensive for the man who have to work very hard in order that the woman can experience that soulmate experience.
@@derekfrost6949 Yeah it does not exist in the world of pervert old man who want young immature chicks....
Prov 14:16 a wise man fearith, and depart from evil, but the fool rageth, and is confident!
Too much work
Lol true
More…mostly more
Hey brother I really enjoy ur content. Please keep up the good work man. Thank you bro
Thanks!!
By age 59, I have learned that a man should be focused on what brings him joy and peace. If youre in your 60s and still feel its important to understand "what women want" youve lost the Game of Life.
As long as you don't want sex, life is simple 😂
I think attractiveness is more than looks. People say I look good shirtless and all that but I don’t get much attention. I am 67 and have flat abs. Maybe I am still too skinny though. I think the most important thing is personality and this is where I fail. Mine is rather bad.
Developing personality can be a lot easier than you think. The trick is to look at situations from the perspective of the other person. Once you understand, what’s important to them it’s easy to seem very engaging and interesting. I’m sure there are tons of books written on this topic. But if it’s just your ability to have charisma or to have an interesting conversation with someone, I think you can fix that. Good luck, man.
Will, put yourself out there. You ever take up dancing?
Great video, you gained one more follower!
However, about 2 points I think differently:
First, women in general only get interested in a man's emotional needs until page two... (seems that she loses a beat of repect and admiration due to man's weakness)
Second, when it comes to meet a woman, I think it is safer and cheaper an on line envairoment.
Im in my early forties, divorced and had no children.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I agree with you on women's interests. The online thing is also true in terms of being cheaper. It just consumes so much time. Thanks!
Met one woman at the grocery store and one at the mall. The one at the mall approached me asking me if I knew where Lululemon was. I said "Do I look like I know where Lululemon is?" I was going the same direction and we were chatting and joking around. Before I went on my way I gave her my number. Easy as that.
You know, I really think that meeting people in real life is so much better than using an application. They’re just something to that human connection that is so critical.
I suppose you just have to be clear about what you want and what you don't want.
It seems so simple, but it can be so much more complicated when you're in the middle of it. Thanks for your input!
That's what being a man used to mean. Males in the West have been so feminized the concept of what we want has almost disappeared.
You can not be clear, the mating game is all about not being clear.
Forget dating apps, it's not good for men and for our self estim. It's good if you have alot of money and that you are basicaly very attractive and have alot of time to wast for swiping around 2000 profiles per week and that you are willing to get rejected by 99.999% of the women on those apps and that you are also willing to wast a month of time swiping on those apps instead of going out. So yea, except that, if you are a man, you should definitively stay out of dating apps.
Thanks John for your video iam single for a 53 years somtimes happy sometimes sad, what i don't understand is this some people are in a bad relation, and guess when they get divorse afther a time they have a new relation. Why they can keep single i don't understand this.
( sorry for my bad english).
I think that there are a couple of reasons they do that. First, people are afraid of being alone, more now than ever. This fear is existential. The second reason is that people often forget the worst parts of the past and only remember the good things. Thanks for your question.
@@john-griffin Thanks John i also think the same not sex but loliness is the reason.
Well said thank you
Thanks I’m glad you enjoyed the video
What is love? Jacque Fresco when before he died, he said : Love is bullshit. He meaned love what we think what looks. Its something, what makes people frustrating. True love had no conditions, and its carry together like a humans body. And words I love is empty words, what means nothing. So, love doesnt exists.
🎉this guy is great ❤
Good perspective in our modern times
I like him
Thanks!!!
Well thought out points/discussion. Liked your ideas about how women are wired for seeking security/commitment, also money, status, and power. Versus just being a gold digger.
A short story. Dated a woman in my early 20s. Was blindsided, and dumped. I moved on. She had two sisters. Both college grads. She was skilled blue collar. Both sisters married educated professional men. She married a divorced business man who came from money. Not college educated. But successful. She knew him for 5 mos. Her family/friends couldn't understand why she married so quickly. Wasn't pregnant. I think she wanted money/status/security vis a vis her sisters. Her husband didn't want more children. So she gave up that option. Then followed an apparently unhappy marriage for years. She's now widowed and largely alone. But, she did get the 'bag'. She contacted me recently, out of the blue, years later.
So we meet occasionally for companionship and seggs. Its suits me, for now. She seems pleased.
Her life choices seem to have worked for her. Think she regrets no kids. But, she got the 'bag' and a 'higher' life style. People are complicated. 🤔🤔
Stellar video. Yes, this is very much the problem with young women. They either want kids or want you to take care of their existing kids. Better to be with one whose kids have already left.
The cruel reality to a man is that, men feel love through intimacy with a woman, but it's an illusion.
Much appreciate the content and beautiful wooded area you're walking.
I agree with all your observations, suggestions and advice.
Thanks for your feedback. The forest is beautiful!
Just be an ass n keep em feeling something, works for me at 41. Lead there emotions n seek respect only, love is for her.
man thanks for the clarification.
For me, if there is not scent or hint of intmacy on any kind by the second date, it’s over…. If a woman is into you, she will break rules for you, if she’s not, she’ll make rules for you.. simple as that
this. i slept with my ex wife within 1-2hrs of meeting
Good bye ✌️
I agree that if a woman is really into you that she'll break rules to be with you. On a personal note, I prefer to take things slow and avoid women who give it up quickly.
@@jacksquat4140 this is not a very realistic scenario…
@@razadaza9651 true. if you deny them theyll move on. plus such women that take things slow, once took things fast until they learned not to any longer. there is no innocent woman.
They're wild in their 20s and more serious in their thirties. In my 20s I was way too emotional. Attention from a range of guys is more important than your chivalry. Have a bag full of coin when you go out don't get in your feelings.
Great to see you laugh😄🫡🙌
Oh, I crack myself up all the time. Thanks.
Everything you said was 💯 True
Thanks! This video has been more controversial than the others.
@@john-griffin men need to hear the truth. They need more videos like this.
💰Extra money. We want your dough.
Your cookie dough. Your bread dough. We do a lot of shaking and baking♥️💕
Sounds great!
You come across as a bit of a downer sometimes, but your message at the end was nice.
I’ll try to be a little more inspirational. Thanks.
@@john-griffin Don't be to inspirational. What make it funny is how pessimistic you are about relationships. Would you ever interview me about relationships on modern times and all my dreadful experiences? I do interviews on TH-cam usually for movies, but I would love to tell you all my relationship horror stories.
@@DominickSpano He is not pessimistic, the reality is much worse.
@@nowhereman7413 I love him. I got really into his videos. I just wish he made more about romance. I don't care much for the fitness videos or whatnot.
John, you are dead on it all the time you make me laugh, but you’re so right carry on my friend
Thanks
I really appreciate your wisdom which confirms much of what I have experienced, luckily I have never married, enjoy existence
Thanks!
At 2:31, a crucial aspect of commitment that may not be explicitly communicated is the prerequisite for women seeking commitment. They seek assurance of your capability to provide for them, but this assurance is contingent on you being a good provider. The key aspect to focus on is the ability to provide for her well-being, as this is the basis for her desire for your commitment.
Excellent info and viewpoints.
Glad you liked it!
I just sleep with escorts now. I don’t have the emotional energy to invest in another woman..
They are all time sinks and drain after all. My ex wife was really an emotional drain and all for what? The relationship wasn’t that much of a fun..
I meet and date plenty of women post divorce and while it’s nice to chill and chat with them, the majority are looking for something (marriage) that I’m no longer wanting to offer. So we move on from each other eventually.
Very good points/info!!
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Thanks! 👍
Thanks for this video. I grew up believing that my life would unfold in a traditional way like previous generations. I never could have predicated how complicated women are. Too hard.
I’m right there with you man. Everything seemed really simple when I was a teenager. What the hell happened?
Feminism, the sexual revolution, and no fault divorce.
they are complicated only if you trying to please them, never do that, they love jerks and problems
Simplified? No no no, just basic common sense..
For a 25 year old man, 40 year old woman is "older women", for a 60 year old the same 40 year old is young.
To call them older woman they should be at least 5 to 10 years older than you. If age difference is less than 5 years - they are same age women as you.
Of course for most men younger women are more physically attractive on average. But as you told they com with a higher price tag, risks and need more maintenance.
Maybe you can make a video about single moms. I think that they cost the most and provide the least. Always after material resources for themselves and children. Children come first and providers come last (baby daddy and new partner - provider).
Don’t waste your time with apps
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Game is everything, it changes the rules
Naaa first date, only a kop of Coffee.
They only oppose being objectified if they can't generate an income from it.
😂😂😂
Hi John, appreciate the video. Question, are you retired?
I don’t like the idea of retirement. I don’t think life is about sitting around on your ass watching TV. I prefer to be an active participant all the way up until the very last minute. So I do run my health coaching and training business for my home plus this channel. I also do some online coaching. I think I’ll do that for as long as I can. Because I really enjoy it.
@@john-griffin Retirement means different things to different people for sure, but I don't see the point in protracted indentured servitude to an employer either if you've achieved your financial destination.
Sir! You are my hero! 👍👍
Glad to help. Thanks!
Until the false accusations come in, then you're f'ed.
Still trying to figure it out I see. Can't blame you, I guess. Take all of that out of the conversation, and simply reduce it to a basic risk assessment, probability vs severity. For men, thinking about getting married, the risk is.....probability HIGH vs severity HIGH. That equals an unacceptable risk. If people want to risk everything knowing that, well thats on them, and I do wish them luck. Keep a suitcase of clothes, and at least $10,000 off site, you can thank me later.
I hate to agree, but I think in many and perhaps most cases, you’re right. Thanks for the input
@@john-griffin I believe the chances of two people who are willing to put in the work, maintain their respect for each other, and who will take their wedding vowels literally, have diminished to something on the order of 10% to 15%.....sad, but thats the current reality.
@@nickf2170the question is whether it’s worth the work to find someone who can fit that mold.
@@john-griffin Agree, so many ways to get it wrong and too few ways to get it right.
its safer to use the back door.
John, great channel, very balanced and respectful of the differences between men and women. No need to be another man bashing women. I hear all your saying, all great advice but sadly, the world has changed the state of the union between men and women especially when considering the advent of hard-line feminism and social media. This has profoundly changed women of all ages, not just young ones. It is sad because it brings out their worse instincts. Today, it is all about women. We live in a gynocentric world where women have winds in their sails while men and boys are increasingly trailing behind. We often hear that the " future is female". Money, power, status, attention, validation attracts and corrupts many women. So sadly, I prefer to fly solo at this late stage of my fifties because the risk is not worth it. Sex is overrated and I have no desire to contract an STD. Sex devoid of love is not enjoyable so I find many other effective ways to enjoy life away from drama and costly activities to avoid my female companion to get bored... Peace of mind is absolute bliss. Freedom is absolute bliss and no amount of potential sex would deviate me from enjoying what time I have left on planet earth. I don't hate women but for me, they are simply out of reach and incompatible with what I find essential to my life now. To each his own. Happiness can be found in many forms. I found mine and women are not part of it. I respect those who deserve it but I will tell you, that mindset is liberating and unnerving to women... They have no power over me... Women seem oblivious to the fact that for a society to thrive and be happy, both genders need to flourish. The future simply cannot be " female"...
Thanks, I’m afraid you have a lot of really good points. I think that there are enough common sense people in the world that we can hold back the pink wave.
@@john-griffin the pink wave as you call 😊 it is powerful, underestimating it would be a mistake. As we speak the ravage done is immense starting with the explosion of the family unit over the last few decades. I am not blaming women for all of it but the family unit is the very core of a society. We cannot have a resilient society with single moms raising boys and girls. Our society is weaker than ever. Most kids today are ravaged by depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues. Women ( many ) are covered in tattoo's and have become just as agressive as men can be. In many instances, roles have been reversed as boys have grown up without a father figure and role model to emulate. So today, many boys are weak and anxious. They lack confidence and chose to game in mom's basement and withdraw from society. This will yield records numbers of single women and men. Already happening. Regards.
Good video until you unnecessarily bashed president 45
I didn't bash anyone. I just mentioned that some overweight guys do quite well with women. Go back and watch. You might be a little over sensitive . But I did not bash him. 😀
there are no good presidents. they are puppets to a ruling elite behind the scenes.
@@john-griffin maga supporter here and yes you didn't bash him. He is overweight and has a younger and good looking wife. You mentioned facts!
Rule #1 shes not your its just your turn
What women want: “always something better,”……HYPERGAMY
Actually we want love and to feel safe
somehow you only tend to feel safe with a legal document that you can then use against a man
@WhiteGhost21 You are making a broad and incorrect generalization/assumption - Not ALL women, like myself, need or want to be married - My partner and I, who are in our 60's, have been living together for 6+ years - We fulfill each other's needs and stay together because we WANT to - Assuming that all women want to "trap" a man and then attempt to take everything he owns is patently wrong - Stay single
@@BarbaraAndres-et9lv I realize that. However, younger, much younger women than you, do and it is quite possible you felt that way as well when you were younger.
@@BarbaraAndres-et9lv : Do you have a life insurance policy on him? Have you asked him to place you in his will? All sexual activity is transactional with women.
@jacksquat4140 You are 100% incorrect - We have each other's backs and are the beneficiaries of each other's estates - No life insurance policy - Not necessary - Only love, respect and commitment to each other - It's a wonderful life! Wishing the same for you!!
You seem pretty jaded. Obviously for good reason. Hope you find someone of good character to share with. I know how hard it must be.
Thanks!
Just go to Asia or Latin America. All problems solved.
Please move on amigo. Sex needs to be way in your rear view mirror at this stage in your life.
I appreciate what you’re saying.
dont ever get married
No1, money, No2 money No3 your love No12 sex
If #12 is that low, it'll be with someone else.
The vast majority of women of today wil love you as long as you keep the cash and prizes coming. Even then, they still have men in their orbit. They can easily just get bored with you and want some new tingles from some other guy.
That’s true
None of the above
Getting married for todays women is not wired in. They are looking for a mans resources and you are not her 1st choice. You are a retirement plan and know this, she has an exit plan before you sign the marriage contract. Better men then you and I have tried and failed. Statistically you will lose big time.
Can you elaborate on the comment you made about that someone running for president? Since you brought it up.
Sure, Donald Trump is quite overweight and not necessarily the best looking guy in the world yet he seems to attract some very beautiful women.
@@john-griffin Had to get your politics involved .... sad..... Trump derangement syndrome....angry little man , your jealousy is shinning through.
Kind of obvious Chad… don’t hyper fixate on Trump and miss the point. John is offering great advice which i appreciate… don’t turn into something it’s not.
@@iampicasso1811agreed. Billionaires attract women.
Trump‘s wife is one of the most beautiful women in the world. Even at her age. Meanwhile, Dems like Bill Clinton and Joe Biden have to force themselves on average women (Tara Reade, Juanita Broderick, and MANY others)…and smell little girls’ hair… 😂
Keep politics out of your talk. Trump is far more attractive of a person than you are. Wake up
Sad, 😁😎
As a MAGA fan he stated facts! Trump is overweight and has a beautiful younger wife. So Trump has game. He praised Trump with his comment. Stop being so sensitive!!😂
@matchhunter7012 I am fine if you are a MAGA fan. I am not. I have a high level of disdain for either party. But, you are right that Trump's results are proof enough.
@@hokiedevil understood.