The last thing you want is some type of artificial dependency to gauge your pleasure. Keep the marriage wholesome and fantasize about one another while not together. Stay looking good for one another. Don’t compare your relationship to others, you don’t know what goes on behind closed doors. Make your marriage the best you can in Gods eyes.
Maybe the devil is working overtime in my marriage but I can't listen to any more of this. My wife just doesn't care anymore she tried to sneak an abortion without even telling me she was pregnant we haven't had sex in over a month and I feel like a broken shell of a man that I once was. No matter how much I do for her It's never enough and I'm at that point that I'm ready to give up because I feel like there's nothing left that I can do to make this woman love me. And I've been with her for 20 years and she is the most beautiful sexy woman I have ever seen but everything I say and do it's just the most horrible thing anybody could ever do. I know I'm talking like a broken man right now and that's because I am and I could really use your prayer 4 my marriage
Sometimes because of medical reasons or physical problems, people can use help. And it’s not condemned in the Bible. Sex was created by God to fulfill the needs of spouses and if you need help with this , there is nothing wrong with it and it is not. ‘worldly’. I agree with Pastor Evans and I’m sure he’s sought God about the matter
Alicia I agree. If a woman all of a sudden wants to find a much larger toy that her husband can’t compete with or the unnatural pleasure of hi levels of vibration something a human can’t produce naturally, he’ll become old news and she will begin to self pleasure without him. It does open a door. It like if a woman has 2 kids and her husband is noticing things are a bit more roomy in there, he gets himself a female toy that fits him a bit more snugly and enjoys it more than his wife.
Interesting perspective! As a practicing Catholic Christian, we understand that sex is for both procreation and bonding and we aren’t to separate the two. This means that not just anything goes in the marital bed. Specifically, the only acceptable place for a man to ejaculate is inside his wife’s vagina, because to do otherwise is to be closed to the possibility of life. Catholics are permitted to enjoy one another, but not in a manner that precludes the possibility of conception.
That doesn't sound good to me. It is a open door that the enemy can use for the idea of selfpleasure and not needing your partner for that. In my idea, if God created your spouse perfectly to satisfy you with his/her body. Why whould you need toys? Just think about it, is this something of the world or God?
@@AspiringInterpreter you say: " it helps strengthen our relationship" if you need toys to strenthen your relationship we can already that it is not from God. The Lord is your strength not a sextoy. Being intimate is the glue and God designed your body perfectly to do that. If you can't fully enjoy without the toys something is wrong.
@@AspiringInterpreter the enemy can give/create a idea of lust. Wanting to enjoy without being in the company of your spouse. Before you know this can turn out in a big sin. "Using the toy in secret without letting your partner know"
Please go back and understand the context of this topic. It is a session at a marriage conference, not from the pulpit in a Sunday morning church service. The absolute silence on topics such as this from the church is one of the reasons there is so much confusion and ignorance from a Biblical perspective. I would much rather people learn it from a "preacher" at any venue than from Hollywood and the media, which is where most of this has been learned.
So if we don’t learn it from a preacher or at church then we are to learn from it in the world? Because that’s what’s happening! Not many Christian’s are virgins and the church stays silent in the topic of sex. Leaving us to learn from it elsewhere because in the world. Sex seems to be EVERYWHERE and discussed everywhere except in the church.
The last thing you want is some type of artificial dependency to gauge your pleasure. Keep the marriage wholesome and fantasize about one another while not together. Stay looking good for one another. Don’t compare your relationship to others, you don’t know what goes on behind closed doors. Make your marriage the best you can in Gods eyes.
Jimmy, I appreciate your candidness here. Married believers need this information. Sex should be creative!
Thank you for talking about this topic. So good!
This is such Good Stuff!
Maybe the devil is working overtime in my marriage but I can't listen to any more of this. My wife just doesn't care anymore she tried to sneak an abortion without even telling me she was pregnant we haven't had sex in over a month and I feel like a broken shell of a man that I once was. No matter how much I do for her It's never enough and I'm at that point that I'm ready to give up because I feel like there's nothing left that I can do to make this woman love me. And I've been with her for 20 years and she is the most beautiful sexy woman I have ever seen but everything I say and do it's just the most horrible thing anybody could ever do. I know I'm talking like a broken man right now and that's because I am and I could really use your prayer 4 my marriage
Sometimes because of medical reasons or physical problems, people can use help. And it’s not condemned in the Bible. Sex was created by God to fulfill the needs of spouses and if you need help with this , there is nothing wrong with it and it is not. ‘worldly’. I agree with Pastor Evans and I’m sure he’s sought God about the matter
Thank you for your kind words!
What about leaving the natural use 🤔 I was so curious was oral sex wrong between man and wife we both are Christians
Amen
Try one and a half times per month on a good month
Awesomeness
Alicia I agree. If a woman all of a sudden wants to find a much larger toy that her husband can’t compete with or the unnatural pleasure of hi levels of vibration something a human can’t produce naturally, he’ll become old news and she will begin to self pleasure without him. It does open a door. It like if a woman has 2 kids and her husband is noticing things are a bit more roomy in there, he gets himself a female toy that fits him a bit more snugly and enjoys it more than his wife.
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I think that Jimmy meant Sex Begins in the Kitchen by Kevin Leman. Great book.
Interesting perspective! As a practicing Catholic Christian, we understand that sex is for both procreation and bonding and we aren’t to separate the two. This means that not just anything goes in the marital bed. Specifically, the only acceptable place for a man to ejaculate is inside his wife’s vagina, because to do otherwise is to be closed to the possibility of life. Catholics are permitted to enjoy one another, but not in a manner that precludes the possibility of conception.
That doesn't sound good to me. It is a open door that the enemy can use for the idea of selfpleasure and not needing your partner for that. In my idea, if God created your spouse perfectly to satisfy you with his/her body. Why whould you need toys? Just think about it, is this something of the world or God?
@@AspiringInterpreter you say: " it helps strengthen our relationship" if you need toys to strenthen your relationship we can already that it is not from God. The Lord is your strength not a sextoy. Being intimate is the glue and God designed your body perfectly to do that. If you can't fully enjoy without the toys something is wrong.
@@AspiringInterpreter the enemy can give/create a idea of lust. Wanting to enjoy without being in the company of your spouse. Before you know this can turn out in a big sin. "Using the toy in secret without letting your partner know"
@@AspiringInterpreter im not judging sis, im not God. Just sharing my opinion on the use of sextoys. Have a wonderful day too😊
@@AspiringInterpreter please read the message again
I agree
I don’t think this is a topic that should be from a preacher in the pulpit. This is for private consultation if actually needed
Please go back and understand the context of this topic. It is a session at a marriage conference, not from the pulpit in a Sunday morning church service. The absolute silence on topics such as this from the church is one of the reasons there is so much confusion and ignorance from a Biblical perspective. I would much rather people learn it from a "preacher" at any venue than from Hollywood and the media, which is where most of this has been learned.
So if we don’t learn it from a preacher or at church then we are to learn from it in the world? Because that’s what’s happening! Not many Christian’s are virgins and the church stays silent in the topic of sex. Leaving us to learn from it elsewhere because in the world. Sex seems to be EVERYWHERE and discussed everywhere except in the church.