[Highlight] Day[9]'s Conversation Tips

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  • Day[9] replies to a viewer's apprehension about an upcoming date, advising that the best way to develop conversation is to ask a lot of questions, and to respond to the last part of the other person's answer. Additionally, he stresses the importance of providing a hook at the end of your own statements - such as a question - to give the other person something to respond to.
    From 5/27/16, Day[9] HearthStone Decktacular #226 - Blood Warriors Control Warrior P2
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  • @MrRussianComrad
    @MrRussianComrad 7 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    I love these new highlights. I don't often get to watch all of Sean's stream, and so miss what I love most about his stream.

    • @bitnance
      @bitnance 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      u r cancer/// noobest noob ever

    • @wobblysauce
      @wobblysauce 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      These are the best parts.. rest is just filler :P

    • @PonceTheArg
      @PonceTheArg 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yup... FUCKING STARCRAFT and story time

  • @Dreigune
    @Dreigune 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Watching this makes me wish that as a kid my elementary school had some sort of "Basic Human Communication" class. It would have been tremendously helpful.

  • @Naedox
    @Naedox 7 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    I thought day9 was a teacher for us to be a better gamer. I didn't know he was also a psychologist.
    damn I don't appreciate him enough

    • @KingOfBlades27
      @KingOfBlades27 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well life is a game ;)

    • @Naedox
      @Naedox 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Dude are you a fencer?
      Cuz DAMN, that was a touche

    • @richardpowell4281
      @richardpowell4281 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I have learned so many life lessons watching his show. I really can't describe how much of an impact its had on my life

    • @Andreopimentel
      @Andreopimentel 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Day9: Be a better human

  • @CitizenSniiiips
    @CitizenSniiiips 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    just repeating what other people have said but really like this style of TH-cam cintent. I too don't get to watch stream very often so getting highlights like this is just awesome!

  • @WhiteKnightAngel
    @WhiteKnightAngel 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Started a "life advice" playlist after watching this video in hope there would be more! 👌

  • @BriskAxe
    @BriskAxe 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Day9 for his morsels of wisdom such as the ones in this video.

  • @ragmondead
    @ragmondead 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I swear to god. I don't know if I would be a functioning adult without this mans advice.

  • @Wineblood
    @Wineblood 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So when I add some bullshit and am called out on it, can I claim that Day[9] made me do it?

    • @SerechII
      @SerechII 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wineblood bullshit in the other sense of the word lol

  • @sghost128
    @sghost128 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "WHAT KIND OF STORE?"

  • @Alphamafloo
    @Alphamafloo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for the video, this will surely help my daily conversational skills. Isn't that gross?

  • @e1miniatures584
    @e1miniatures584 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Seriously, Sean would be a terrific ted spokesperson, he should do a ted talk

  • @LasNoches86
    @LasNoches86 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This advise was genius! it took me 18 years to figure this out. so it came 12 years too late

  • @Whiterabbit124
    @Whiterabbit124 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    DayNyan's Dating Derby!

  • @imjesperbtw
    @imjesperbtw 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice, now I know how to converste.

  • @IamZiing
    @IamZiing 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Day 9 I LOVE YOU@@@

  • @vampgenx
    @vampgenx 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    am i the only one that noticed the screenshot for the video misspelled conversation?

  • @xMcRolled
    @xMcRolled 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2:44 Starcraft! Yay!

  • @jump312
    @jump312 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    WHAT KIND OF STORE?

  • @Denman17
    @Denman17 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Day9 and all his pro life tips, but seriously is he dating anyone? should we really get advise from a single guy? or is he like a party boy bachelor? lol

  • @UnEducatedEskimo
    @UnEducatedEskimo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Keep these highlights coming, love you but i usually just dont have the time to commit to your longer vids

  • @666justin9
    @666justin9 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I bookmarked this video. I am a very awkward person, and wish I could communicate better, without feeling so socially weird. Thank you for these. Best wishes man, keep up everything you're doing, it's great!

    • @SerechII
      @SerechII 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Justin Bradley isn't that gross?

  • @xsariax
    @xsariax 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    At the beginning there Day9's talking about active listening. Active listening is when you wait till the very end of the person's last sentence to think of something to respond, because if you start thinking of something to respond from the beginning you've missed the rest of conversation. People have taken workshops about this and he explains it so easily xD. +1

  • @OhTheRandomnessx
    @OhTheRandomnessx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The most fundamental thing imo is asking open questions. Don't frame your questions in a way that can be answered with just a yes or no. So not "So did you like the movie?" but rather "What about the movie did you like?"

    • @colly9888
      @colly9888 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      OhTheRandomnessx Thanks. I'm gonna have a billion friends in no time

  • @Facarwi
    @Facarwi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    How to win friends and influence people is the bible on being a good conversationalist. Everyone wants to feel important, its what drives us as human beings, be sincere and appreciative but remember flattery gets you nowhere, it must be sincere. The easiest way to become a good conversationalist is to become a good listener. The royal road to a person's heart is to talk about the things he or she treasures most. If we talk to people about what they are interested in, they will feel valued and value us in return. This book was published in October 1936, and is still considered one of the best books anyone can read... Day[9] basically hits it on the head and Id be surprised if he hadn't read the book himself.

  • @bakalive9483
    @bakalive9483 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    really well done shannon. keep it up!

    • @narwhals8mysister
      @narwhals8mysister 7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Thanks! ;D

    • @ricardoruz3500
      @ricardoruz3500 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      wait, you are doing this ones?! thats so awesome, how did this happen, when did it begin? (i watched your highlights, even suggested some)
      also, congrats!

  • @dYrOiUs
    @dYrOiUs 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Game volume so loud but story so good doesn't matter too much

  • @highroller242424
    @highroller242424 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Her: "work was great today. I had a lot to do. Now excuse me I have to take a shit". Me: "how big of a shit!?!"

  • @catburt8685
    @catburt8685 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I approve this message. have done it on a date and it went very well. the hooks are key.

    • @Malda123
      @Malda123 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      even if you try hard to give hooks, sometimes the date wont get it or more importantly(recent experience) they talk and dont give you hooks.. and its like,, ahh.. what the fuck im going to talk about

    • @Arkydos
      @Arkydos 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah, that happened a lot to me too. Really sucks. I guess a little portion of luck is also involved in having the right match between the people in the conversation.

  • @dudebrah7791
    @dudebrah7791 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thumbnail reads Converstion, spelling police are homing in on your location as I speak.

  • @easternwind4435
    @easternwind4435 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well you coud say, its probably because of a reflexive behavior of neves and muscle tension. and then the oter coud just say something about muscle tension and so on

  • @lucassmithvlogs716
    @lucassmithvlogs716 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have learned more then any conversation expert could have ever told me. Wow.

  • @matt.omahan
    @matt.omahan 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    HI DAY[9],
    YOU ARE MY FAVORITE STREAMER EVER. I HAVE WATCHED OVER 300 DAILIES AND STILL LOVE (BUT DON'T PLAY) STARCRAFT.
    UNRELATED:
    I WAS CURIOUS IF YOU STILL HAD HOODIES THAT HAD "1a2a3a" ON THEM. IN MY UNDERGRAD I ALWAYS WORE MY SWEATSHIRT, BUT ONE DAY I LEFT IT ON A PROJECTOR FOR ART.
    RIP.
    ALSO, THE OCTOPUS IS MY FAVOURITE ANIMAL.
    BEST,
    Matt

  • @matt.omahan
    @matt.omahan 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Really gotta chew this fucker up" -Tasteless

  • @zoroark567
    @zoroark567 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    The thumbnail says "converstion"

  • @xenoph9380
    @xenoph9380 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What's a converstion? :P (thumbnail)

  • @zaetayo
    @zaetayo 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Adopt me Sean, teach me your ways.

  • @Awedish
    @Awedish 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    oh wow may 2016, no wonder no patches

  • @xLuky
    @xLuky 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Narwhals8mysister.

  • @LuckySmurf
    @LuckySmurf 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    But at what point do we get to set something on fire?

  • @Carrandas
    @Carrandas 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    1 Mana execute, this must be ancient :)

  • @Scarl3TTears
    @Scarl3TTears 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    incredibly good insights

  • @mintythreetwentysix4629
    @mintythreetwentysix4629 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Speelling in thumbnail beep boop

  • @SpaceSauce
    @SpaceSauce 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Typo anyone? Just me that sees it?

  • @WallsWaller
    @WallsWaller 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Typo in the thumbnail

  • @ValTheMad
    @ValTheMad 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Typo in the thumbnail

  • @highc3
    @highc3 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been watching day9 for years, and somehow missed this video. However also for years I've been telling people my two favourite colors are purple and orange. His fidgety near sighted consciousness has leaked into mine

  • @Pioware
    @Pioware 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where did Day9 learn all this knowledge?

    • @antopolskiy
      @antopolskiy 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      secret school for becoming a perfect human being

  • @INF1NI73
    @INF1NI73 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I knew staying subbed and loyal to my boy 9 would help me someday. gonna start dating dudes soon 😌

  • @gamerzeven6227
    @gamerzeven6227 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:53 *Real Talk*

  • @Mr850man
    @Mr850man 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    pudge would love this advise

  • @DaZugZug
    @DaZugZug 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    But what if she's quite like a rock, you just call yourself and bail?

    • @TheAzertjuh
      @TheAzertjuh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't go on a second date if she's boring? :D

    • @broadwayat
      @broadwayat 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      its not your job to make her interesting, though i wonder why you were interested to begin with

    • @antopolskiy
      @antopolskiy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      probably boobs. or ass. (this is completely inappropriate and I am sorry)

    • @DaZugZug
      @DaZugZug 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sergey Antopolsky Not inappropriate, that's why.

  • @RafaelGonzalez88888
    @RafaelGonzalez88888 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    execute 1 mana?

    • @ToastHasHost
      @ToastHasHost 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      The VoD happened before the nerf.

    • @zebedeesummers4413
      @zebedeesummers4413 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ya, before they nerfed it that was its cost.

  • @miles4415
    @miles4415 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Notifications squad assemble!

    • @Sprinklepolice
      @Sprinklepolice 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Nah I just refresh my subscriptions page a lot.

  • @terakahn
    @terakahn 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're going to put narwhal out of business. Lol