Considering the trauma you went through during that appointment I would hope they will allow Larry to accompany you next time for much needed support !
I tell my husband all the time that I’m so invested in your baby journey because of how sweet and deserving you are to be a mom. So sorry this week didn’t go as planned and the next transfer goes smoothly ❤️
Also, I have endometriosis and it was only found by an exploratory laparoscopic surgery, never seen on ultrasound. But with your trial run and iui going fine I wouldn’t think that would be the problem... I’m guessing it was the doctor BUT that’s just my opinion. I’m glad your regular doctor is taking over next time and I think it will go great 😊
This! It bothers me so much that it seems like they are brushing off their mistakes and trying to blame her body. Endo is definitely not diagnosed with an ultrasound. I feel so bad for her right now.
My endo was also not seen with ultra sound. When I had my procedure the dr was shocked with how much I had for (at the time) a 22 year old. I had YEARS of pain and tests since I was 12 and it wasn’t found till I was 22. If I would have gone a couple more months I would have lost my uterus and my left ovary.
Mindy, love you guys as always. As a nurse ONGYN here in NY I think the sedation suggestion was overkill to be honest. I think your doctor is correct in saying let’s do it again “the test run” and see what’s going on. My suggestion…….don’t let the same doctor do the embryo transfer the second time that had a problem the first time. If the nurse called you and said that…..there is a reason she was trying to say to you without saying it…if you know what I mean. Why can’t your doctor who’s doing the test run do the transfer ? Ask that question . Please . Request it. It’s your right. If he is successful at the test run he will be successful at the real thing, also can they use another embryo they didn’t thaw for the first transfer in case it didn’t re- freeze properly ?? You have been through so much why take a chance. Just my opinion with what I know. Love you both. As always Stephanie from New York ♥️
Are they able to make medical exceptions so Larry can go in with you? I feel like that is something they should try to accommodate. I’m so happy you’re so open with this. I feel like people don’t give women (and the people supporting them) enough credit on how much creating life takes a toll. Best of luck to Larry and you.
@@user-tp8ys8ed6z That is incredibly rude to comment on someone’s post who is going through a fertility journey. It’s incredibly insensitive. Why are you watching if you don’t like them and their choices.
@@user-tp8ys8ed6z while I don't agree with how they said that.. I cannot help but see Larry is not as interested in this.. I believe he wants it because Mindy wants it.. as someone who has a child with someone 30 years older.. it's not exactly a cake walk. 😕 I just hope they survive all parts of this.
@@SRPaulsen well having a child and taking care of a child is a challenge no matter what age or age difference for couples. Its hard. It take a village. I think Larry seems very laid back..go with the flow and I think he will be a great support. I don't view him as a push over in anyway..he doesn't seem like the type of man who would do something he didn't want to do. Having a little one is not a cake walk 24/7 for anyone
@@user-tp8ys8ed6z its really so ridiculous that people like you can hide behind a computer or a phone i hope you don't have ever have to feel the stress and feel what struggles couples have to go through i pray that God has mercy on your soul you're very rude shame on you
Plus Larry has much more time than a person working a full time job. He has expressed multiple times how hard it is to not be there in the room with her.
I've never ever seen Larry really upset, sad, and disappointed until this video. This video has shown the most emotion that we've seen of him. He's usually smiling or explaining something.
I watched your video about your transfer on the day before my own transfer. I was nervous! But mine went okay. There was no pain at all and now I'm just hoping it works! I'll keep you in my prayers Mindy 💕
"I think I'm like a kid waiting for Christmas." That is the sweetest and purest comment from Larry. The desire he has to be a dad again was evident in that sweet comment. God will bless you...He knows the exact right time!
When Larry was talking I started tearing up… I have never heard him so sincere and sweet. I am praying for your next procedure. I hope you get your little one soon ♥️
I'm sure it was just the rides. I had the same issue, you're not alone your docs just never met me ;) But really clear your mind and don't do any rides this time! Gravity can effect you for a couple of days not every doctor comes across that. My doctor was military and delt with gravity all the time. He was right we tried again without rides and it was fine.
EXACTLY!! Your doctor should be doing the embryo transfer. I also don’t understand how you only saw your doctor once during the entire process. Your doctor should also be the only one doing any and all ultrasounds not just the mock embryo transfer either.
Your doctor did the mock embryo transfer.. But when it came for the actual procedure . Another doctor does it . That doesn’t make sense ? Even the doctor said he knows your body. I would totally tell the doctor this time around you are doing both the mock and actual procedure.
My heart breaks for you. You have gone through an absolutely traumatic event. In a sense, you are grieving. Even though you didn’t lose the baby, you essentially did emotionally and lost the chance of being pregnant. Take time to grieve this loss and be angry, sad, high and low ❤️ better times are ahead!
My daughter and I follow your channel so closely. When we saw your post before last we were devastated and my daughter immediately called me and said MOM WHAT HAPPENED TO MINDY. Girl you have so many prayers, love and support. You will be just fine this next time. I know this has left a mental scare but I promise one day you will have a sweet baby in your arms and look back at this and think “man I would do it all over again”. You got this Mindy…much love sweet lady!!
I'm sorry you had that happen. I'm sorry you are going through this.You need to feel this so you can heal spiritually and emotionally. You will have success. Keep pushing. You will be looking back on this nightmare soon.
Two times this year, the medical staff blew it. Or maybe they're not being honest early on? So when you are already lured in the expensive process, that's when the truth comes out.
I'm surprised the nurse said that endo would normally be seen on an ultrasound. It's definitely not. The only way to diagnose it is laparoscopic surgery, like you said your mom was all bound up in there and they didn't know. But it's wild that you've had iui's AND a mock transfer and had no issues, only to have this happen. That just sucks so bad. Although I was able to get pregnant on my own, I had bumps in the road. My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage, and I 100% understand your feeling of being so excited, you're finally there, it's finally happening and then to just have this humongous letdown. My third pregnancy was an unexplained ectopic, so from that point on I was terrified of future pregnancies because I'm at increased risk of another one. Thankfully when I did get pregnant again a year later, all was ok. I'm glad for your that at least your embryos weren't lost in this process. Hopefully next time everything will be better and it will bring your baby ❤️
Thank you for being so REAL and soo HONEST with us, your followers ❤ even tho you don't have to, we are all behind you and Larry with so much love and support ❤ take care 🥰💐
Mindy is such a beautiful person inside/out. I know deep down you are really pissed off at your doctors but won't rant about them. Same type of screw up or scam from 7-8 months ago.
You guys have been through so much and my god…I am just going to say it…it’s so sad that some people who don’t even want a baby get pregnant so easily and a family like you guys have to go through hell. I know that doesn’t help to say but I am frustrated for you! I thought my fertility journey was rough but I can’t imagine what you are going through. I had the same experience as your mom…all tests and ultrasounds were normal until they did laparoscopic surgery then found endometriosis. End of November seems far away but I will say think how quick this year has gone by…it will be here soon…and it will be the best Christmas present ever!!!!
I agree it's heartbreaking how easily people who don't want or will be a loving mother can so easily get pregnant when so many of us women who dream of the day of seeing a positive test just can't catch a break. My brother in laws sister who already has two children that my sister and brother in law has custody of is once again pregnant now....she's getting an abortion but it upsets me that I would do anything to have that blessing and it never happens all while she just pops them out
@@andreachristine2419 when I was on my fertility journey I knew this girl who had three children already, wasn’t working, did not have a stable home and then got pregnant again while I was going through hell trying to get pregnant.
She does not get pregnant because she choose a man who clearly told her from start that he had a vasectomy . So no, she is not unlucky she knew it from start . If she is that eager for a kid maybe should consider adoption instead ? Let’s no play victim
@@andreachristine2419 compassion ? You are all pointing finger to “ people that can have children and don’t deserve it “ while “ poor women can’t have kids and want them desperately “ She can have kids it is her partner that can’t and she knew that from start . No victim here .
You are a very strong women and we all will stand with you and we will stand with you …. Hope you have a great week and we love you mindy for to keep fighting
Hieee!! So sorry things didn’t go as planned, but what’s meant to be will happen. Your baby will be so worth it & loved! Sending so much love & hugs yours & Larry’s way! 🤍🤟🏼
I’ve been following you for awhile on Instagram. I am so sorry you and Larry are going through this. You guys are gonna be such great parents and your lil embryo is gonna be such a loved baby!!!!
I’m halfway through the video and just have to say how strong you are. You have been through so much with this. You remind me of myself, as far as your personality. You are an optimist, and it’s so sad to see you so optimistic and hopeful and then for things to keep going wrong. It just isn’t fair. I am going through IVF as well, I had my embryo transfer on 9/22. I had two extra embryos and found out that they didn’t survive and had to be discarded. So the one inside me now is our only shot. I won’t be doing this again, this process is just too difficult emotionally and physically. But I have two kids (teenage girls). My current husband does not have any of his own. And we tried to get pregnant naturally, and did! But both pregnancies ended up being tubal, one ruptured and nearly killed me, and the other one was caught in time, but my remaining tube had to be removed. I am now 37, and told my husband that I can’t go through this again. But I feel for you because you don’t have children, and I know that drive within to want to be a mother and to have a family is soooooo strong. Probably stronger than any other pull in life. I just wish the best for you and Larry, you are both so deserving of having the family of your dreams and I know you will make amazing parents! Thinking of you both during this difficult time. Hang in there! 💜 your friend from OH! Xoxo
My heart just breaks for you guys.. it's so sad to see not only you, but Larry too, in a state of grief, and let down. I can feel it through the video. I wish so badly I had the power to help in some way. I have been cheering you on so loudly from Indiana! I think of and pray for your family daily! And please don't forget that all those feelings you talked about feeling, is totally 100% not only normal, but it's okay! You have been through so much Mindy, and to still see you with a smile and still so humble is freaking so inspiring! I have grown to really feel a connection to your channel and actually find myself looking to your channel to lift my spirits up when I'm feeling down. You never disappoint, and are always such a nice reminder that even when life doesn't go as planned, there is still happiness to be shared, and brighter days ahead! There is no doubt you two will be the most amazing parents ever! ❤ live in the moment, enjoy the journey, and just remember, your time IS coming! Love you girl!
You and Larry will have a baby soon. Your very young and healthy, and Larry is also young, maybe not very young, but young. ( in my humble opinion) You both have time to get this done.
Mindy you are handling all this just fine…no one is judging you….We are all praying for a successful transfer for you & Larry. So sorry to hear of all that pain you went through.
Please allow yourself to feel all the emotions someone goes through that has been thru something so traumatic. Never downplay your experience. How ever long it takes to heal emotionally you have family that will support you no matter what. I’m so sorry you went through this.
Keeping on the trend of looking on the bright side and staying positive, I feel like you’re already doing this but once you’re out of this you’re going to be a great support for other women going through this.
So many people in the infertility space have fallen victim to the “by (insert holiday or important date here) I’ll be pregnant!” And it sucks when that date rolls around and you’re not pregnant. It can definitely dampen the excitement and joy of birthdays and holidays.
Thank you for your updates sweet Mindy. We love you! And wish you all the best on your journey to having a child. They way you and Larry look at each other... brings tears of joy, the love you two share, omg. Loads of love and blessings to you both.
I can understand the disappointment specifically regarding your expectation to be pregnant on your birthday, but think of it this way - maybe it’ll happen during the holiday season and make the holidays merrier than they are! You love Christmas, and from that point on that time of year will have an even deeper, brighter meaning. Hoping for the best with your next procedure ❤️
Watching your journey from day one, all I have to say is I'm so sorry. The strength that you have during all these hiccups are incredible! Documenting your experience and how you pull through it is helping so many people out there. I'm currently going through the process of being diagnosed for Endometriosis. It took so long to be able to see a specialist to be told I will not have a surgery to confirm this. The sadness and anger and disappointment is something I can relate with you on. It is not easy dealing with all of that. I'm glad you have an amazing support team and good doctors that aren't going to give up. I send you both much love and prayers on this journey ahead💗 You have helped me through mine in more ways than I can explain.
I’m still heartbroken for you guys that this journey is so difficult. I received my Pumpkin Spice sweatshirt yesterday and I washed it right away! I’m going to think of you guys every time I wear it
I understand how you feel. During my pregnancy journeys I've had times where I felt excited and happy followed closely by devastation and sadness. I'm glad you have Larry and family for support. ♥
Prayers for you both. Just take one day at a time. Process your emotions and don't be afraid to cry or express your frustration. Sending prayers of healing to you ❤ Never give up!
Gosh, I was just skipping through the comments and there is such a rollercoaster of opinions... I don't know how you can manage that. Hope you are able to stay grounded and breath. All the best to you and Larry 💓
I’m so sorry! I totally agree with you. Find out why and what happened now. With all the time, money and medications it’s best to know now and get some answers! Hugs to you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My story is identical to your moms. I was 25 when I had my hysterectomy due to both endometriosis and adenomyosis. It was never found on ultrasound, only laparoscopically. I was always told it was impossible to find with ultrasound. BUT. There’s a silver lining, I was blessed with two healthy, perfect children before my diagnosis. Your day will come ❤️You are Larry and so deserving.
God has a plan! That baby's birthday has a remarkable purpose! Something is amazing about this baby! They're going to move mountains! I cannot wait to meet your miracle! Continued prayers!
I can totally see where you are coming from as far as getting ahead of any potential issues prior to the mock date. Be your own advocate and don’t be hesitant!! Good luck ♥️
Larry’s positivity is so encouraging. I hope you realize just how special his positive attitude is. I imagine this is equally as frustrating to him but he is absolutely the crutch you need. These unfortunate events will take down even the most positive person. I’m so glad you have Larry to keep your spirits up. I love that he is already planning trips to the zoo! 🥰 You guys are going to be the most loving parents. This little baby is going to know just how wanted they are once they are here and old enough to watch all these vlogs. ♥️
You two have been thru so much & remain still so strong, brave, authentic & as positive as you can! Thank you for showing this & sharing your journey with so many. Wishing you both only good health & a successful embryo transplant next; this will be it I’m sure. And seeing the end goal or dreaming out far as Larry did with taking the kid to the zoo or library is a perfect way of manifesting your desires of pregnancy & a little one❣️🙏🏻👍🏻
Everything happens for a reason! Perhaps not meant to be?? Too many obstacles…. I’m Sooo sorry to see you go through all the negative experiences…You are some STRONG woman! May you be blessed abundantly when you go through it all again.
You all have been through so much and are handling it beautifully in my opinion, shows how strong and loving you both are. Thanks for sharing the ups and downs! Really praying next time it THE time 💕
I choose to believe everything happens for a reason. Try to keep the faith that everything works in perfect timing. It'll be worth it when you are holding your sweet little babe next year. ❤️ But you have every right to be sad, angry, upset, frustrated... Sit with that and then try to move on. Sending so much love.
Im praying 🙏 everything goes well next time. I pray that you both find peace and comfort in your hearts. Much love and positive thoughts and energy to both. ❤
Can’t even imagine all the emotions you and Larry are going through!!! Reading some of the other follower comments I have to agree that it seems like the Doctor doesn’t have very much experience doing this type of procedure; I would not see him again for anything. Why can’t you see your own Doctor ??? I would state you’re only going to see a certain Doctor for your journey…. You should not have had to go through what you did!!! I’m so so sorry!!! I hope the next try is with your a doctor you have confidence in and you will have no pain and only success!!!!! Prayers for you and Larry!!! 🤗🤗
Mindy I am so sorry you had to go through this, please continue to be positive. God willing everything will work next time. I send you love and many blessing. Can't wait for you to give us the good news about the baby.
Mindy, trust your gut 100%! If you think a laparoscopy is needed to confirm or deny your worries I don‘t think you‘re wrong to push for that. I agree that it is so essential for people to be their own advocates. Doctors are great but they are also just human
Your attitude of real ness but optimism is incredibly relatable but also inspiring. You are 💯 right about being your own advocate. It’s your body and your life and you have every right to ask questions and have as much information as possible. I’m praying for y’all as you move forward. I know all of this is not easy at all. Also 👏 hopefully the Valium can take the edge off.. cause even under the best circumstances your going to be understandably anxious now.
I've had endometriosis for over 20yrs . Trust me I could write a book on this horrible disease! There is absolutely no way no how to know if you have it thru an ultra sound endometriosis can and will hide anywhere .. that is why endometriosis specialists can only diagnose thru surgery which is explanatory surgery and once they're in there they can excise it .. God bless you on your journey... you will be blessed with a baby 👶sooner than you think.. lots of love !
I have endometriosis and there’s an extensive amount of information out there that advises that ENDO CANNOT be detected via an ultrasound and ONLY through a Laparoscopy. Im sorry you went through that. I hope that you do not have Endo & that it all goes smoothly in the second try 🙏🏼
Thank you, Mindy, for sharing yours and Larry journey with us! I know it's probably hard especially while you're going through this right now. I'm so sorry this happened to you! I hope the next one works out better! Thinking of you both and praying for you!!
You two are a strong and amazing couple. I’m sorry you have to go through this. Let yourself feel those emotions and don’t hold them in. Big hugs to you both!
Stay positive Mindy!! It will go your way. I have endometriosis also since i was 17 and i a became a mom at 22 yrs old. 4 years later i had one of my fallopian tubes removed due to severe endometriosis. My chances of having another baby were very low. But I did. Now im a momma of 2 girls. I never thought i would be a mom. Also if it doesn’t work out. Have you and Larry considered adopting? I totally see you as a mom. Ill pray that it all works out for you. Peace and Love from my family 🥰
To give you a little hope, my grandmother (25) and mother(mid 30’s) both had hysterectomies, I am 35 and no issues like they had so far. I also was on birth control from 18-24 then had 2 kids and got back on the pill last year I was on the IUD for 4 years prior to the pill but I don’t think that helps with endometriosis like the pill can. So Could be why I’ve had better luck… but I think you would have had pretty intense symptoms if you did have it so just think positive and it was just a crazy happening. I hear “I’ve never had this happen before” often which is very frustrating! Good vibes coming your way! 💕
Mindy and Larry, I am so sorry this happened to you. I pray for a healthy and simple procedure next round. I hope this next round is the bingo round. This baby will be so loved!
I understand you my journey at 20 years became I was 34 years old and at 27 I had struggled myself to get pregnant so I was finished, they then went in with a camera and ultrasound, and it turned out that I had only one egg , and told me that I will probably never get pregnant, but then I found a man who was 25 years older than me and at 34 I got pregnant, but you have to calm down, your husband looks so calm and nice all ways take after him
I’ve followed you since you had about 10k subs, an I’ve been rooting SO hard for you guys! But I have complete faith that it’s gonna work & y’all are going to make the sweetest baby! An in the end, it’ll make all these struggles worth it! That baby will always know how wanted they are & how much they was loved before they even arrived! Sending you so much love 🥰❤️
Mindy so much love and prayers sent to you and larry. Your feelings are so valid. The trauma you endured can be rollercoaster. It's almost as if you're grieving the loss of the experience and process you were promised. So much thoughts and love! ❤❤
Considering the trauma you went through during that appointment I would hope they will allow Larry to accompany you next time for much needed support !
I agree. Larry should be there
Absolutely agree
I'm glad that there's constant conversations between you, your doctor and your nurse. Stay positive!!!!
I tell my husband all the time that I’m so invested in your baby journey because of how sweet and deserving you are to be a mom. So sorry this week didn’t go as planned and the next transfer goes smoothly ❤️
I second this! These 2 deserve the world! That baby is gonna be so loved when he/she gets here.
Same here. My husband actually watches it with me often
Also, I have endometriosis and it was only found by an exploratory laparoscopic surgery, never seen on ultrasound. But with your trial run and iui going fine I wouldn’t think that would be the problem... I’m guessing it was the doctor BUT that’s just my opinion. I’m glad your regular doctor is taking over next time and I think it will go great 😊
ME TOO!!!!! THEY NEVER WANT TO ADMIT THEIR MISTAKES. I QUESTION THIS DOCTOR!!
This! It bothers me so much that it seems like they are brushing off their mistakes and trying to blame her body. Endo is definitely not diagnosed with an ultrasound. I feel so bad for her right now.
I agree. Hopefully the other doctor can get things taken care of. Praying for you Mindy.
My endo was also not seen with ultra sound. When I had my procedure the dr was shocked with how much I had for (at the time) a 22 year old. I had YEARS of pain and tests since I was 12 and it wasn’t found till I was 22. If I would have gone a couple more months I would have lost my uterus and my left ovary.
Sadly same.. sad how many women go untreated :(
Mindy, love you guys as always. As a nurse ONGYN here in NY I think the sedation suggestion was overkill to be honest. I think your doctor is correct in saying let’s do it again “the test run” and see what’s going on. My suggestion…….don’t let the same doctor do the embryo transfer the second time that had a problem the first time. If the nurse called you and said that…..there is a reason she was trying to say to you without saying it…if you know what I mean. Why can’t your doctor who’s doing the test run do the transfer ? Ask that question . Please . Request it. It’s your right. If he is successful at the test run he will be successful at the real thing, also can they use another embryo they didn’t thaw for the first transfer in case it didn’t re- freeze properly ?? You have been through so much why take a chance. Just my opinion with what I know. Love you both. As always Stephanie from New York ♥️
Are they able to make medical exceptions so Larry can go in with you? I feel like that is something they should try to accommodate. I’m so happy you’re so open with this. I feel like people don’t give women (and the people supporting them) enough credit on how much creating life takes a toll. Best of luck to Larry and you.
@@user-tp8ys8ed6z That is incredibly rude to comment on someone’s post who is going through a fertility journey. It’s incredibly insensitive. Why are you watching if you don’t like them and their choices.
@@user-tp8ys8ed6z while I don't agree with how they said that.. I cannot help but see Larry is not as interested in this.. I believe he wants it because Mindy wants it.. as someone who has a child with someone 30 years older.. it's not exactly a cake walk. 😕 I just hope they survive all parts of this.
@@SRPaulsen well having a child and taking care of a child is a challenge no matter what age or age difference for couples. Its hard. It take a village. I think Larry seems very laid back..go with the flow and I think he will be a great support. I don't view him as a push over in anyway..he doesn't seem like the type of man who would do something he didn't want to do. Having a little one is not a cake walk 24/7 for anyone
@@user-tp8ys8ed6z its really so ridiculous that people like you can hide behind a computer or a phone i hope you don't have ever have to feel the stress and feel what struggles couples have to go through i pray that God has mercy on your soul you're very rude shame on you
Plus Larry has much more time than a person working a full time job. He has expressed multiple times how hard it is to not be there in the room with her.
I've never ever seen Larry really upset, sad, and disappointed until this video. This video has shown the most emotion that we've seen of him. He's usually smiling or explaining something.
I watched your video about your transfer on the day before my own transfer. I was nervous! But mine went okay. There was no pain at all and now I'm just hoping it works! I'll keep you in my prayers Mindy 💕
I’m so happy your transfer went okay❤️ Sending you lots of love and hoping you have a positive pregnancy test soon❤️
Saying prayers Danielle for a positive pregnancy test.
NEVER GIVE UP! I pray for the both of you daily.
"I think I'm like a kid waiting for Christmas." That is the sweetest and purest comment from Larry. The desire he has to be a dad again was evident in that sweet comment. God will bless you...He knows the exact right time!
When Larry was talking I started tearing up… I have never heard him so sincere and sweet. I am praying for your next procedure. I hope you get your little one soon ♥️
I'm sure it was just the rides. I had the same issue, you're not alone your docs just never met me ;) But really clear your mind and don't do any rides this time! Gravity can effect you for a couple of days not every doctor comes across that. My doctor was military and delt with gravity all the time. He was right we tried again without rides and it was fine.
Wow that is something to think about.
What does rides mean?
@@Tx_Hogwarts_Disney thanks, I didn’t understand what they were talking about. Lol....
Your DOCTOR should be doing your embryo transfer. Not a different doctor. I would question this clinic. I don't trust something here.
Definitely should have been prescribed valium too. And yes I'd question why a different doctor took over who wasn't familiar with her uterus.
EXACTLY!! Your doctor should be doing the embryo transfer. I also don’t understand how you only saw your doctor once during the entire process. Your doctor should also be the only one doing any and all ultrasounds not just the mock embryo transfer either.
Your doctor did the mock embryo transfer.. But when it came for the actual procedure . Another doctor does it . That doesn’t make sense ? Even the doctor said he knows your body. I would totally tell the doctor this time around you are doing both the mock and actual procedure.
My heart breaks for you. You have gone through an absolutely traumatic event. In a sense, you are grieving. Even though you didn’t lose the baby, you essentially did emotionally and lost the chance of being pregnant. Take time to grieve this loss and be angry, sad, high and low ❤️ better times are ahead!
My daughter and I follow your channel so closely. When we saw your post before last we were devastated and my daughter immediately called me and said MOM WHAT HAPPENED TO MINDY. Girl you have so many prayers, love and support. You will be just fine this next time. I know this has left a mental scare but I promise one day you will have a sweet baby in your arms and look back at this and think “man I would do it all over again”. You got this Mindy…much love sweet lady!!
I'm sorry you had that happen. I'm sorry you are going through this.You need to feel this so you can heal spiritually and emotionally. You will have success. Keep pushing. You will be looking back on this nightmare soon.
Two times this year, the medical staff blew it. Or maybe they're not being honest early on? So when you are already lured in the expensive process, that's when the truth comes out.
Larry is a total gem. Bless him. He is a great partner.
Hope you are doing ok, I’m praying for you and Larry! This whole nightmare will be so worth it when you get to hold your gorgeous little baby ❤️
I'm surprised the nurse said that endo would normally be seen on an ultrasound. It's definitely not. The only way to diagnose it is laparoscopic surgery, like you said your mom was all bound up in there and they didn't know. But it's wild that you've had iui's AND a mock transfer and had no issues, only to have this happen. That just sucks so bad. Although I was able to get pregnant on my own, I had bumps in the road. My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage, and I 100% understand your feeling of being so excited, you're finally there, it's finally happening and then to just have this humongous letdown. My third pregnancy was an unexplained ectopic, so from that point on I was terrified of future pregnancies because I'm at increased risk of another one. Thankfully when I did get pregnant again a year later, all was ok. I'm glad for your that at least your embryos weren't lost in this process. Hopefully next time everything will be better and it will bring your baby ❤️
Larry needs to be in there with you. I’m sure they will make an exception for you! At least they SHOULD. ❤️
Thank you for being so REAL and soo HONEST with us, your followers ❤ even tho you don't have to, we are all behind you and Larry with so much love and support ❤ take care 🥰💐
I'm beginning to think it was a doctor issue rather than an issue with your body. The other doctor probably realizes it but doesn't want to say it.
Exactly. Sounds that way. How has this not gone so well this time round
Mindy is such a beautiful person inside/out. I know deep down you are really pissed off at your doctors but won't rant about them. Same type of screw up or scam from 7-8 months ago.
You guys have been through so much and my god…I am just going to say it…it’s so sad that some people who don’t even want a baby get pregnant so easily and a family like you guys have to go through hell. I know that doesn’t help to say but I am frustrated for you! I thought my fertility journey was rough but I can’t imagine what you are going through. I had the same experience as your mom…all tests and ultrasounds were normal until they did laparoscopic surgery then found endometriosis. End of November seems far away but I will say think how quick this year has gone by…it will be here soon…and it will be the best Christmas present ever!!!!
I agree it's heartbreaking how easily people who don't want or will be a loving mother can so easily get pregnant when so many of us women who dream of the day of seeing a positive test just can't catch a break. My brother in laws sister who already has two children that my sister and brother in law has custody of is once again pregnant now....she's getting an abortion but it upsets me that I would do anything to have that blessing and it never happens all while she just pops them out
@@andreachristine2419 when I was on my fertility journey I knew this girl who had three children already, wasn’t working, did not have a stable home and then got pregnant again while I was going through hell trying to get pregnant.
She does not get pregnant because she choose a man who clearly told her from start that he had a vasectomy .
So no, she is not unlucky she knew it from start .
If she is that eager for a kid maybe should consider adoption instead ?
Let’s no play victim
@@cristinaxx6440 have some compassion
@@andreachristine2419 compassion ?
You are all pointing finger to “ people that can have children and don’t deserve it “ while “ poor women can’t have kids and want them desperately “
She can have kids it is her partner that can’t and she knew that from start .
No victim here .
Love you guys and am praying for a safe and pain free transfer.
*18:52* "I'm upset if you're upset."
That's true love right there coming from Larry's beautiful blue eyes.
You are a very strong women and we all will stand with you and we will stand with you …. Hope you have a great week and we love you mindy for to keep fighting
Hieee!! So sorry things didn’t go as planned, but what’s meant to be will happen. Your baby will be so worth it & loved! Sending so much love & hugs yours & Larry’s way! 🤍🤟🏼
@Brenna Husnik you have the same name as me 😂 funny!
@@brennakali1996 haha that’s awesome! 😁
I’ve been following you for awhile on Instagram. I am so sorry you and Larry are going through this. You guys are gonna be such great parents and your lil embryo is gonna be such a loved baby!!!!
Never give up! You are so strong and it will happen. Love you, Larry, Lexie and Luna!
I’m halfway through the video and just have to say how strong you are. You have been through so much with this. You remind me of myself, as far as your personality. You are an optimist, and it’s so sad to see you so optimistic and hopeful and then for things to keep going wrong. It just isn’t fair. I am going through IVF as well, I had my embryo transfer on 9/22. I had two extra embryos and found out that they didn’t survive and had to be discarded. So the one inside me now is our only shot. I won’t be doing this again, this process is just too difficult emotionally and physically. But I have two kids (teenage girls). My current husband does not have any of his own. And we tried to get pregnant naturally, and did! But both pregnancies ended up being tubal, one ruptured and nearly killed me, and the other one was caught in time, but my remaining tube had to be removed. I am now 37, and told my husband that I can’t go through this again. But I feel for you because you don’t have children, and I know that drive within to want to be a mother and to have a family is soooooo strong. Probably stronger than any other pull in life. I just wish the best for you and Larry, you are both so deserving of having the family of your dreams and I know you will make amazing parents! Thinking of you both during this difficult time. Hang in there! 💜 your friend from OH! Xoxo
just focus and think possitive always, be enjoy and i hope u always healthy and be happy...
My heart just breaks for you guys.. it's so sad to see not only you, but Larry too, in a state of grief, and let down. I can feel it through the video. I wish so badly I had the power to help in some way. I have been cheering you on so loudly from Indiana! I think of and pray for your family daily! And please don't forget that all those feelings you talked about feeling, is totally 100% not only normal, but it's okay! You have been through so much Mindy, and to still see you with a smile and still so humble is freaking so inspiring! I have grown to really feel a connection to your channel and actually find myself looking to your channel to lift my spirits up when I'm feeling down. You never disappoint, and are always such a nice reminder that even when life doesn't go as planned, there is still happiness to be shared, and brighter days ahead! There is no doubt you two will be the most amazing parents ever! ❤ live in the moment, enjoy the journey, and just remember, your time IS coming! Love you girl!
I agree you need to find out what was blocking uterus NOW! Waiting until next transfer doesn’t make sense to me?
You and Larry will have a baby soon. Your very young and healthy, and Larry is also young, maybe not very young, but young. ( in my humble opinion)
You both have time to get this done.
The aggressive driving part was so stinkin cute between you too.
Love to you both.
A big hug for both of you .
Mindy you are handling all this just fine…no one is judging you….We are all praying for a successful transfer for you & Larry. So sorry to hear of all that pain you went through.
Please allow yourself to feel all the emotions someone goes through that has been thru something so traumatic. Never downplay your experience. How ever long it takes to heal emotionally you have family that will support you no matter what. I’m so sorry you went through this.
Keeping on the trend of looking on the bright side and staying positive, I feel like you’re already doing this but once you’re out of this you’re going to be a great support for other women going through this.
PRAYING THAT FROM NOW FORWARD YOUR JOURNEY GETS BETTER AND THAT YOU GET BLESSED WITH BEING A MOMMY
Mindy you are a strong girl and I know that every thing is going to be find.and Larry is a wonderful companion. Have faith things will be fine
So many people in the infertility space have fallen victim to the “by (insert holiday or important date here) I’ll be pregnant!” And it sucks when that date rolls around and you’re not pregnant. It can definitely dampen the excitement and joy of birthdays and holidays.
Thank you for your updates sweet Mindy. We love you! And wish you all the best on your journey to having a child. They way you and Larry look at each other... brings tears of joy, the love you two share, omg. Loads of love and blessings to you both.
‘Hope for the best, prepare for the worst’ Sending lots of LOVE to all of you!! (Including the embryos) ❤️🙏🏼
I can understand the disappointment specifically regarding your expectation to be pregnant on your birthday, but think of it this way - maybe it’ll happen during the holiday season and make the holidays merrier than they are! You love Christmas, and from that point on that time of year will have an even deeper, brighter meaning. Hoping for the best with your next procedure ❤️
Watching your journey from day one, all I have to say is I'm so sorry. The strength that you have during all these hiccups are incredible! Documenting your experience and how you pull through it is helping so many people out there. I'm currently going through the process of being diagnosed for Endometriosis. It took so long to be able to see a specialist to be told I will not have a surgery to confirm this. The sadness and anger and disappointment is something I can relate with you on. It is not easy dealing with all of that. I'm glad you have an amazing support team and good doctors that aren't going to give up. I send you both much love and prayers on this journey ahead💗 You have helped me through mine in more ways than I can explain.
I can’t imagine! We did ivf as well and I am praying for strength for you and Larry!!
I’m still heartbroken for you guys that this journey is so difficult. I received my Pumpkin Spice sweatshirt yesterday and I washed it right away! I’m going to think of you guys every time I wear it
I understand how you feel. During my pregnancy journeys I've had times where I felt excited and happy followed closely by devastation and sadness.
I'm glad you have Larry and family for support.
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Prayers for you both. Just take one day at a time. Process your emotions and don't be afraid to cry or express your frustration. Sending prayers of healing to you ❤ Never give up!
I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I am praying for both you and Larry.
Gosh, I was just skipping through the comments and there is such a rollercoaster of opinions... I don't know how you can manage that. Hope you are able to stay grounded and breath. All the best to you and Larry 💓
I’m so sorry! I totally agree with you. Find out why and what happened now. With all the time, money and medications it’s best to know now and get some answers! Hugs to you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My story is identical to your moms. I was 25 when I had my hysterectomy due to both endometriosis and adenomyosis. It was never found on ultrasound, only laparoscopically. I was always told it was impossible to find with ultrasound. BUT. There’s a silver lining, I was blessed with two healthy, perfect children before my diagnosis. Your day will come ❤️You are Larry and so deserving.
❤️ you girl, stay strong!
So sorry to hear what you went through sometimes we have to go through highs and lows before we actually receive our blessings this too shall pass
Y’all are so strong through all of this! I can see and feel your pain. Hugs to both of you! Guided meditation works like a champ.
I’m so sorry you went through that. I pray that you have an easy breezy next one ☺️🤞
God has a plan! That baby's birthday has a remarkable purpose! Something is amazing about this baby! They're going to move mountains! I cannot wait to meet your miracle! Continued prayers!
I can totally see where you are coming from as far as getting ahead of any potential issues prior to the mock date. Be your own advocate and don’t be hesitant!! Good luck ♥️
Larry’s positivity is so encouraging. I hope you realize just how special his positive attitude is. I imagine this is equally as frustrating to him but he is absolutely the crutch you need. These unfortunate events will take down even the most positive person. I’m so glad you have Larry to keep your spirits up. I love that he is already planning trips to the zoo! 🥰 You guys are going to be the most loving parents. This little baby is going to know just how wanted they are once they are here and old enough to watch all these vlogs. ♥️
You guys are friggin adorable! Match made in heaven
Sending your prayers !!!
Prayers for you both on this continued journey. God is in control and that baby will come at the perfect and right time 🙏🏻❤️
Stay strong! Thinking of you both! ❤️
You two have been thru so much & remain still so strong, brave, authentic & as positive as you can! Thank you for showing this & sharing your journey with so many. Wishing you both only good health & a successful embryo transplant next; this will be it I’m sure. And seeing the end goal or dreaming out far as Larry did with taking the kid to the zoo or library is a perfect way of manifesting your desires of pregnancy & a little one❣️🙏🏻👍🏻
Everything happens for a reason! Perhaps not meant to be?? Too many obstacles…. I’m Sooo sorry to see you go through all the negative experiences…You are some STRONG woman! May you be blessed abundantly when you go
through it all again.
You all have been through so much and are handling it beautifully in my opinion, shows how strong and loving you both are. Thanks for sharing the ups and downs! Really praying next time it THE time 💕
The way you talk about your embryo is just so fricken sweet. I love it.
I choose to believe everything happens for a reason. Try to keep the faith that everything works in perfect timing. It'll be worth it when you are holding your sweet little babe next year. ❤️ But you have every right to be sad, angry, upset, frustrated... Sit with that and then try to move on. Sending so much love.
I am so very happy that you took the time to "glam up". You are very inspiring to me. ✨❤️
Mindy...You went thru TRAUMA!!!!! It is going to take time to get past and heal from this. HUGS
Im praying 🙏 everything goes well next time. I pray that you both find peace and comfort in your hearts. Much love and positive thoughts and energy to both. ❤
Sending love and prayers to you and Larry, you’ve got this! Keep your head up❤️
Can’t even imagine all the emotions you and Larry are going through!!! Reading some of the other follower comments I have to agree that it seems like the Doctor doesn’t have very much experience doing this type of procedure; I would not see him again for anything. Why can’t you see your own Doctor ??? I would state you’re only going to see a certain Doctor for your journey…. You should not have had to go through what you did!!! I’m so so sorry!!! I hope the next try is with your a doctor you have confidence in and you will have no pain and only success!!!!! Prayers for you and Larry!!! 🤗🤗
Mindy I am so sorry you had to go through this, please continue to be positive. God willing everything will work next time. I send you love and many blessing. Can't wait for you to give us the good news about the baby.
Praying for you guys! I truly admire yours and Larry's positivity. God bless you both! 🙏🏻
Mindy, trust your gut 100%! If you think a laparoscopy is needed to confirm or deny your worries I don‘t think you‘re wrong to push for that. I agree that it is so essential for people to be their own advocates. Doctors are great but they are also just human
Your attitude of real ness but optimism is incredibly relatable but also inspiring. You are 💯 right about being your own advocate. It’s your body and your life and you have every right to ask questions and have as much information as possible. I’m praying for y’all as you move forward. I know all of this is not easy at all.
Also 👏 hopefully the Valium can take the edge off.. cause even under the best circumstances your going to be understandably anxious now.
I've had endometriosis for over 20yrs . Trust me I could write a book on this horrible disease! There is absolutely no way no how to know if you have it thru an ultra sound endometriosis can and will hide anywhere .. that is why endometriosis specialists can only diagnose thru surgery which is explanatory surgery and once they're in there they can excise it ..
God bless you on your journey... you will be blessed with a baby 👶sooner than you think.. lots of love !
I have endometriosis and there’s an extensive amount of information out there that advises that ENDO CANNOT be detected via an ultrasound and ONLY through a Laparoscopy.
Im sorry you went through that. I hope that you do not have Endo & that it all goes smoothly in the second try 🙏🏼
Thank you, Mindy, for sharing yours and Larry journey with us! I know it's probably hard especially while you're going through this right now. I'm so sorry this happened to you! I hope the next one works out better! Thinking of you both and praying for you!!
You two are a strong and amazing couple. I’m sorry you have to go through this. Let yourself feel those emotions and don’t hold them in. Big hugs to you both!
Sending love to you both!
You are so strong Mindy!!♥️♥️
Stay positive Mindy!! It will go your way. I have endometriosis also since i was 17 and i a became a mom at 22 yrs old. 4 years later i had one of my fallopian tubes removed due to severe endometriosis. My chances of having another baby were very low. But I did. Now im a momma of 2 girls. I never thought i would be a mom.
Also if it doesn’t work out. Have you and Larry considered adopting? I totally see you as a mom. Ill pray that it all works out for you. Peace and Love from my family 🥰
Mindy you are a very positive person. Keep that going with lots prayers....hugs....
To give you a little hope, my grandmother (25) and mother(mid 30’s) both had hysterectomies, I am 35 and no issues like they had so far. I also was on birth control from 18-24 then had 2 kids and got back on the pill last year I was on the IUD for 4 years prior to the pill but I don’t think that helps with endometriosis like the pill can. So Could be why I’ve had better luck… but I think you would have had pretty intense symptoms if you did have it so just think positive and it was just a crazy happening. I hear “I’ve never had this happen before” often which is very frustrating! Good vibes coming your way! 💕
Mindy and Larry, I am so sorry this happened to you. I pray for a healthy and simple procedure next round. I hope this next round is the bingo round. This baby will be so loved!
Oh my goodness, I can feel you so much! Crossing my fingers for a bright light at the end of the tunnel!🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻Love and light to you!❤️🌞
Larry made me cry… you guys WILL be amazing parents
I wish you the best of luck mindy I hope you will get your chance to be a mom I know you and Larry will be wonderful parents🥰😘
Thank God almighty he keeps you strong. God is the answer..🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I understand you my journey at 20 years became I was 34 years old and at 27 I had struggled myself to get pregnant so I was finished, they then went in with a camera and ultrasound, and it turned out that I had only one egg , and told me that I will probably never get pregnant, but then I found a man who was 25 years older than me and at 34 I got pregnant, but you have to calm down, your husband looks so calm and nice all ways take after him
Don't give up!!!
Sending hugs and prayers🙏🤗🙏
Your feelings are valid. You'll get through this 💪 🧡
I’ve followed you since you had about 10k subs, an I’ve been rooting SO hard for you guys! But I have complete faith that it’s gonna work & y’all are going to make the sweetest baby! An in the end, it’ll make all these struggles worth it! That baby will always know how wanted they are & how much they was loved before they even arrived! Sending you so much love 🥰❤️
Everything will be just fine - and so worth it - you will see! Lots of positive energy and love from England! 😘
Mindy so much love and prayers sent to you and larry. Your feelings are so valid. The trauma you endured can be rollercoaster. It's almost as if you're grieving the loss of the experience and process you were promised. So much thoughts and love! ❤❤