Right? Those eyes are giving the-ecstasy-of-universal-love harder than any wine-bearing priest I've ever seen. I've been lining up for the wrong sacrament.
I'm really trying not to live for others, but I just don't find myself important enough. What's the use of building my self and life up if not to share and experience it with another? If it's all just for me what's the point? I'm a bit more comfortable? So what, why does that even matter? Living for myself and myself alone just feels empty. I don't get true satisfaction out of achievements or accomplishments, I care more about knowing that someone else also cares for me as much as I for them. That I made a difference in someone's day by just being me, because they do that for me. sorry for the rant, thanks for coming to my Ted Talk 🙏
th-cam.com/video/bIh1UkkxAQM/w-d-xo.htmlsi=ouTKMWEy6Dd0Ddmp i dunno your full circumstances... but i really feel for you. i found the philosophy of alan watts very helpful... I still struggle with this and recently had a relapse. i hope you can help yourself and learn to love yourself and your life and your experiences without needing them to be validated by an 'dominate other' (assuming this is whats going on with you) best of luck.
i think my original comment got deleted because it contained a youtube link... i dont know your full circumstances but you might want to look into Dysthymia... i found the philosophy of alan watts helped me. even though i recently had a relapse. i really feel for you... and hope you can learn to love yourself your experiences and feelings without needing them validated by a other... best of luck
love the art and the melodie! I came here because of the art and the title...! thank you so much! it a delicate balance of doing things for you and remembering you matter (I am a people pleaser learning to balance not begin one) but also not Begin to selfish, but stating true to myself. Sometimes the pressure of masking or the sensitive disforia es too high, or de feeling of not letting down someone you care deeply..... wile is right to not letting other down, it doesn't have to be all the time. we already put so much pressure in ourselves, and extra pressure in certain situación, people or environments of our life's does more hurt than good.
"even when people pressure you, and when they want to live your life for you, remember, no matter what you do, do it for you." I don't wanna do everything just for myself, that's too selfish. And things I _should_ be doing for myself... I don't believe I have the capability to do them consistently. Two decades of trying have passed and my brain still refuses to pick up _brushing my teeth daily_ as a habit.. When I can't even do that, how the hell am I supposed to exercise regularly? :,D (not that I need to, but I wanna) Thanks for trying to be uplifting ig.
It's definitely harder than I say it is in words, but what helped me a lot was over time, bit by bit, I refocused my actions into doing things for myself because I deserve it. I deserve to be able to use the bathroom and clean my teeth, I deserve to have a clean shower and clean hair, a clean room, I deserve to eat not only when I'm viciously starving, I deserve to see the outside on a walk instead of laying in my room. It's taken me years, but as long as there's a new day, it's not too late to start. And it won't happen everyday! But it will help in taking care of yourself more consistently, first over occasion, then it becomes more routine, then you feel better once it's done. I hope that can be of some help. Keep on.~
Routines can be hard, but self appreciation is more than just routines. Its being kind to yourself as much as you can, or as much as you are able to in that moment. And self appreciation isnt selfish at all, mindfulness only helps you build your own self worth and strengthens your friendships. Practicing kindness towards yourself is also made easier by surrounding yourself with it, even w ytube channels that talk about it! Like Maddie Dragsbaek for example, she has alot of varied content but most of it is underlayed by self appreciation, as well as her love in her friends and her care for her real life community! So self appreciation includes community, it does not have to be isolating
@@salf.7484 Routine isn't just hard, it's impossible. Forget brushing your teeth daily, even my bad habits are inconsistent and come and go randomly xdd I don't think I have a problem with not being kind to myself. Quite the opposite in fact. I think I'm too kind to myself. Self-asborbed. Drowing out depression with self-indulgence. I've been trying to fix my bad character traits since 4~5 years old and over the years and decades, I became so preoccupied with trying to change myself for the better that I dissociated from who I am. Being surrounded by kind people had/has the opposite effect on me.. I feel like I'm drowning in all the kindness. I want someone to push me forward and out of this bog of misery. And since there's noone, I am that person.
so we have a discord channel, me and 9 other friends where we talk about music and make beats, and since lo-fi is pretty easy to make together we can make a lot of songs, so we decided to start a channel as far as the literal music making, u can either use fl studio or any other daw that you might like. you would usualy start with a melody, place some chords to get a vibe, for me the baseline is very important so that comes second, after that, you go in with the drums, which are pretty basic for lo-fi songs, what i would finally add is some melodies that come in and out through out the track to break the song a bit and not make it boring. I hope this helps a little.
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And if you like the artwork and want to see more, the artist is credited in the description. Much love!
I want whatever the frog is having. He's got the right vibe.
probably some tea, but then again, you can never a know what a frog might be drinking... hmm
@@bunnyhopuphigh pondering the REAL questions lol
Right? Those eyes are giving the-ecstasy-of-universal-love harder than any wine-bearing priest I've ever seen. I've been lining up for the wrong sacrament.
We have the same name, Kavs!!!! :D
herbal tea 😆
Came for the thumbnail and title, so here for the tunes. 🥰
these have been showing up at the top of my feed :) the positive lil messages n cute art n music brings comfort
i love everything of this channel from the vibes to the art, helping me get through my days fr
thank you so much for the kind words, really appreciate the love,
I'm really trying not to live for others, but I just don't find myself important enough. What's the use of building my self and life up if not to share and experience it with another? If it's all just for me what's the point? I'm a bit more comfortable? So what, why does that even matter? Living for myself and myself alone just feels empty. I don't get true satisfaction out of achievements or accomplishments, I care more about knowing that someone else also cares for me as much as I for them. That I made a difference in someone's day by just being me, because they do that for me.
sorry for the rant, thanks for coming to my Ted Talk
🙏
Good ted talk hehe. I'm feel like the same so I get it too
th-cam.com/video/bIh1UkkxAQM/w-d-xo.htmlsi=ouTKMWEy6Dd0Ddmp i dunno your full circumstances... but i really feel for you. i found the philosophy of alan watts very helpful... I still struggle with this and recently had a relapse. i hope you can help yourself and learn to love yourself and your life and your experiences without needing them to be validated by an 'dominate other' (assuming this is whats going on with you) best of luck.
i think my original comment got deleted because it contained a youtube link... i dont know your full circumstances but you might want to look into Dysthymia... i found the philosophy of alan watts helped me. even though i recently had a relapse. i really feel for you... and hope you can learn to love yourself your experiences and feelings without needing them validated by a other... best of luck
@@zebulon220 thank you for your concern and input, I will look into this 🙏
@@TrimMagician the link was from healthygamerGG on the topic.
love the art and the melodie! I came here because of the art and the title...! thank you so much!
it a delicate balance of doing things for you and remembering you matter (I am a people pleaser learning to balance not begin one) but also not Begin to selfish, but stating true to myself.
Sometimes the pressure of masking or the sensitive disforia es too high, or de feeling of not letting down someone you care deeply..... wile is right to not letting other down, it doesn't have to be all the time. we already put so much pressure in ourselves, and extra pressure in certain situación, people or environments of our life's does more hurt than good.
thank you so much for the kind words, I'm glad i could give you something to enjoy for today, much love, and all the best
These videos are, to me, perfect music for getting ready for school in the morning.
I needed that. Thank you!❤
This is such a cute playlist!
Thanks I needed that today
glad you enjoyed it, much love
Cute toad. Nice music. 👍
Nice work
thank you
"even when people pressure you, and when they want to live your life for you, remember, no matter what you do, do it for you."
I don't wanna do everything just for myself, that's too selfish. And things I _should_ be doing for myself... I don't believe I have the capability to do them consistently. Two decades of trying have passed and my brain still refuses to pick up _brushing my teeth daily_ as a habit.. When I can't even do that, how the hell am I supposed to exercise regularly? :,D (not that I need to, but I wanna)
Thanks for trying to be uplifting ig.
It's definitely harder than I say it is in words, but what helped me a lot was over time, bit by bit, I refocused my actions into doing things for myself because I deserve it. I deserve to be able to use the bathroom and clean my teeth, I deserve to have a clean shower and clean hair, a clean room, I deserve to eat not only when I'm viciously starving, I deserve to see the outside on a walk instead of laying in my room. It's taken me years, but as long as there's a new day, it's not too late to start. And it won't happen everyday! But it will help in taking care of yourself more consistently, first over occasion, then it becomes more routine, then you feel better once it's done. I hope that can be of some help. Keep on.~
@@ULTIMATEINUYASHAFANIt's good to hear at least someone's doing better. Have a yellow rose kind internet stranger
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Routines can be hard, but self appreciation is more than just routines. Its being kind to yourself as much as you can, or as much as you are able to in that moment. And self appreciation isnt selfish at all, mindfulness only helps you build your own self worth and strengthens your friendships. Practicing kindness towards yourself is also made easier by surrounding yourself with it, even w ytube channels that talk about it! Like Maddie Dragsbaek for example, she has alot of varied content but most of it is underlayed by self appreciation, as well as her love in her friends and her care for her real life community! So self appreciation includes community, it does not have to be isolating
@@salf.7484 Routine isn't just hard, it's impossible. Forget brushing your teeth daily, even my bad habits are inconsistent and come and go randomly xdd
I don't think I have a problem with not being kind to myself. Quite the opposite in fact. I think I'm too kind to myself. Self-asborbed. Drowing out depression with self-indulgence. I've been trying to fix my bad character traits since 4~5 years old and over the years and decades, I became so preoccupied with trying to change myself for the better that I dissociated from who I am. Being surrounded by kind people had/has the opposite effect on me.. I feel like I'm drowning in all the kindness. I want someone to push me forward and out of this bog of misery. And since there's noone, I am that person.
How do you guys make this music? I always listen to this but i wonder if i could make it myself too
so we have a discord channel, me and 9 other friends where we talk about music and make beats, and since lo-fi is pretty easy to make together we can make a lot of songs, so we decided to start a channel
as far as the literal music making, u can either use fl studio or any other daw that you might like.
you would usualy start with a melody, place some chords to get a vibe, for me the baseline is very important so that comes second, after that, you go in with the drums, which are pretty basic for lo-fi songs, what i would finally add is some melodies that come in and out through out the track to break the song a bit and not make it boring. I hope this helps a little.
@bunnyhopuphigh thanks. You guys are doing a great job. I would love longer videos too, even if the songs loop. I listen to these for hours at a time.
@@Average_VR_Fan appreciate the kind words, we will try making a 5 hour video soon, we just need to work a little bit harder during the weekends haha
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i like it because my gf loves frogs
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