That’s not her man. He’s her husband. If she’s fighting it means that she has messed up, and there is nothing wrong with fighting for a relationship you messed up.
These may seem like small things to divorce over, but if you are constantly bringing up the same issue to your partner and they are not willing to fix it it leads to people feeling ignored and disrespected. If Jeannie is fighting for her marriage now its possible she wasn't taking his complaints seriously. Sometimes we take our partners for granted
@@lostintranslation57 we don't know if he didn't communicate it to her or if she was just not listening to his plea. neither of them seem like marriage material.
This is absolutely true! It's unfair for the mom to move in with them. She's single, right? Let married people be married ...unless she has health issues and needs to live with them. But from the looks of it, she's healthy. Married people don't cohabit well with single people. Plus, the cultural differences...and then she's always in Jeannie's business anyway 🙄🙄. Too much!
@@NapturallyPecanBrownNo the gag is she’s married. She should be home with her husband and the brother moving in. Plus she said she didn’t realize she had a anger management issue until she got with him and he had to check her. I don’t think he blindsided her. I think whatever happened he’s been warning her and she won’t adjust. I’ve been with my husband for 21 years and the 3rd year was our hardest. It’s hard to get through issues in your marriage when it’s constantly family and friends in the mix. Not to mention Jeanie has always seemed pretentious to me.
@NapturallyPecanBrown Yes, her mom is single, and for clear reasons. She's more than a handful. And if the brother really did move in too, 🏃🏾💨 No shade on the culture, it's just not for everyone.
Absolutely 💯 !!! He's been over it an over her most likely. I don't believe she was blind sided either. Hearing her talk about how she acted with Jeezy and her actions during her last marriage makes me understand how this marriage wouldn't work. Maybe she was also more into him than he was into her.
Going from a private person and having your own space to having a wife that moves in her mom and brother can most definitely be hard on a relationship, no matter how much people get along and respect one another. You marry into a family and sometimes that can get tiring IF there is no space and distance between you and the their family.
@@fah232 well, I know in a marriage we make compromises for our partner that we may regret later. I’m not sure if ‘that’s on him’ if he was trying to make his wife happy. Both sides give an enormous amount to make the other happy in good marriages.
@@Natalia-hf3et So true, it's give and take on both sides. And both have to be willing. Family members outside of the marriage need to respect their space and marriage, especially if they know it's causing a problem.
I'm going to say it like this marriage or not do not live with family especially if you married. Nothing good comes from it. It's too much always end bad. Jenjen you need to compromise too not just him. Get mama a house next door or something but honey if we having sex I don't want nobody hearing what goes down. If we argue that's between us. But can it be worked out yes. I hope they call it off but have a serious talk cause Grammy gots to go 😂
Jeezy is just giving excuses. These are small things that can be easily worked out. He just wants to be single again. He might even have his eye on someone else.
Of course he does! Men don’t break up or divorce to be single, they have the next woman lined up. Women break up to be single and find themselves, men find new pussssaaay
When a man suddenly walks away over a minor disagreement or situation he has already been involved with someone else. Jeanine Mai needs to save her dignity and let this man go. Maybe she thinks she ain't going to get another man like him that's why she is holding onto him
He likely already has someone in the background lowkey somewhere. It's beyond obvious he's the type that lovebombs a person in the beginning then goes easily hot and cold on the person to then ditch them for the new one.
What you call excuses are his reasons for not wanting to stay in a marriage but he’s unhappy. You can dictate was a breaking point for someone else ur not living in their house. Marriage is not a prison sentence you can get out at any time .
This man wanted out plain and simple. He’s left 3 families.. come on y’all 🤦🏾♀️. EVERYTHING mentioned as a reason to divorce CAN EASILY be fixed. He just wants out. Jeannie 🏃🏾♀️
I don’t know why women think there’s something special about them that will make a commitment phobic man change. A person doesn’t change until they want to change. No one else can make them do it. Jeezy is treating Jeannie like a baby mama who happens to have a marriage license. This man has made a habit of creating single parent households and he just made one more.
@@ParisArnold-un5vv🎯💯 They say that the " best way to get over one is to get under one". But I don't believe in jumping back into relationships so quick like that. I intentionally took a few years off in between for me, and was so glad that I did. 👍
Agree. Leave immediately! I had an ex-boyfriend tell me he was not in love with me anymore. By that next week, I had a new lease signed at a new apartment and he came home to an empty place. That was the best decision I made and it felt soo good!
@@twinashlie3398 but see you heard what you heard. Not what you wanted to hear and trying to live in a fantasy world like most women. You got out and didn’t waste your time. Smart move.
She's dumb for that... But if he's as private as they say.. it's not easy having no man around to lift things for you.. and I have no doubt she asked the brother to move in because that man is never home to help
Marriages between different cultures can be beautiful but one of the biggest problems I noticed in these type of marriages is ignorance of one’s culture. Jeannie is Asian and having the family live with you when you have kids isn’t unusual. All that other stuff seems so damn petty and minuscule to divorce over. That man just doesn’t love or even like Jeannie anymore.
I think he was fed up of the family taking over their living situation. He couldn't tell her to cast aside her culture either. The fact that she was only speaking to her daughter in Vietnamese as she confessed is disrespectful. Very telling how she then was showing this vid with her daughter speaking English while singing his praises. Manipulative AF!
I told my Asian friends that I LOVE that part of their culture. I honestly love it and admire them.....BUT I couldn't live with my mom for over a month. I am thinking of sponsoring her and I told my husband that I am renting her a place before she comes. I have so much respect for 20 Asians living under one roof. That's why they can save so much money. I would need therapy to do that.
Everything funky dineva said are big reasons and deal breakers for me. I feel Jeezy (not saying he is perfect),but as an introvert and extremely private person, what dineva mentioned, it's not little things, it's little things to other ppl but to ppl like me it's a big deal and Jeanie's actions are grounds for divorce...sorry not sorry and it's Jeezy s fault for not getting Jeannie or her family of origin. To live in that situation as a private person it would be suffocating, and smothering. Jeezy wanted out! 😂
As a 40+ yr old man these are ridiculous reasons to get divorced! If this is true. I don’t know how Jeannie could look at him the same after blindsiding her in this was, so inconsiderate
I have to disagree..the brother and mother living with them is a complete RED FLAG. I can totally understand his wanting to exit for cultural differences, within the black community we dont play the "all the inlaws under one roof" game, thats something far more prevalent in Asian communities. I can imagine he felt like a guest or outsider in his own home and as a man thats the one place where your suppose to have the most peace.
That's what covert narcissist do. Loveboming, devaluation then discard. She never seen it coming. I'm 100% sure her gut had to tell her something in the beginning and she probably ignored it. She probably spilled her whole life story and he pretended to be something he's not and that's a good guy.
I feel like there where a mixture of things that went wrong. A lack of respect, communication, and to much family involvement. I remember seeing an interview where Jeanie said that her mom had pretty much taken over their daughter. It made me wonder how much say Jeezy had in their marriage and in parenting of their daughter.
Will that problem be corrected by them divorcing though? Now the baby will probably be with the Mom nearly 100% of the time. The Mom will take even more control
It can get frustrating when you have to keep repeating that your boundaries are being violated. It's exhausting. I shouldn't keep having to ask anyone to see me. Respect me. Yes, these issues seem small, but oftentimes, those things stem from both having very different values and morals.
I agree. She has said in Asian culture, you take care of your family. Her mother was living with her after the first marriage. She wasn't budging on that and he probably did not want to have them in his home indefinitely. They also said she and her mother spoke only Vietnamese unless Jeezy was in the room.
Jeezy filed out of nowhere. This was brewing since June and he is done. Jeannie was just posting a heart felt message about him only to get divorce papers the next week. It doesn’t add up and Jeannie is better off just ending it. When a man is done he is done
@@hennesseyme9112 when I meant by nowhere is there were no signs. No social media signs there were issues in their marriage. Why do you think this is a shocker
I agree! He probably didn’t want to work it out or give it more time. Aren’t those “alleged” issues things you discuss before marriage? Make it make sense. Jeannie Mai, good luck with that! Smh
If a man tells U more than once that hhe is done. Don.t fight jack. I say let go. Trust me you.ll feel the better for it later. You.ll may not b evenly yoked. Jeezy probably just done.
@@hennesseyme9112 I think it’s obvious that’s not the case here because he file behind her back. If the marriage was foul, why was he pretending to be happily married up until literally days ago
This is why it's important to have these discussions before marriage to make sure you're both in alignment otherwise you're wasting each others time and money
He shady, and when they got married I said he's an opportunist. He's disgusting and I'm honestly shocked at how many ppl are in his defense. He spilled Keisha Cole tea when they was together and I knew then something wasn't right with that boy.
These are nothing more than growing pains. My wife threatened to divorce me plenty of times during our first year of marriage because both parties have to comprise. It's part of the process of growing together any way me and my wife just celebrated our 27th wedding anniversary so this can be worked out
You are a better person than I am because after a few threats of divorce I would have called her bluff but I'm glad you got passed it. Congratulations on 27 years. It's truly inspiring 🙏
If he wants to walk away for those reasons, then marriage is not for him! He’s not the one! Let it go! Both have to be in it better or worse… those issues can be solved!! Why hold on to someone who clearly doesn’t feel they way you do or even love you enough to work towards a resolution 🤦🏽♀️
Exactly he didn’t want marriage. He trapped her with a baby and don’t see the point of marriage. That was he’s plan all along. Just straight dusty behavior 💯
@@JM-ip1es he didn’t have to marry her to give her a baby. He has 3 to 4 baby moms and she was pregnant before they got married. They were doing IVF before they got married.
She needs to learn that you can't make these guys do anything they don't want to do. She can fight for her marriage. Sadly, if he's not feeling it, there's nothing she can do. He’s ready for something new-life of a rapper!!!
We don't know that, they have a chance of fixing their marriage, it's a 50/50 chance, they have a daughter and I do believe that they love each other still
@@tsholofelohuma7496 You need to read and comprehend. Nevertheless, some things are just common sense, but I guess. Now, I do know for a fact that you CAN NOT make a guy do anything he doesn't want to do, nor anyone else for that matter. Since we are not robots, we all have free will I. E “body autonomy.” go figure. Again, she can absolutely fight for her marriage, as is her right to do so. However, if 👉HE DOES NOT want to salvage his marriage, there's not a damn thing she can do except heal, care for her daughter, and learn and grow from the experience. When will women like you understand that men control marriage? Whether you get a ring or get to keep one. He's a player and wants to be free. And they have a daughter? Are you serious right now? What does that mean exactly? Didn't he make single mothers of the women before his wife? Didn't he leave his older kids in broken homes??? Moreover, he's been playing with her head before the nuptials. He turned every no into a yes and then proceeded to publicly humiliate her. And you can believe what you like, but I personally don't think that this partnership was a good one. She wanted “dark meat on the side,” and he wanted to prove a point and feed his ego. Now, hers is hurt because she ignored the red flags and thought she was the exception to his rule. How is it that she nor anyone else in her personal and professional life noticed that she had “anger issues” before this marriage to Sleazy Jeezy? It's interesting how women like you are so marriage-crazy that it doesn't matter if it's a healthy union or not. Stop chasing males and encouraging other women to run behind someone who's already told you once he doesn't want you. Consequently, it never ends well, regardless of what you think you want. Carry on!!!
Her mum was living with them, her brother just moved in. That’s a lot of strain on a marriage and i would get so frustrated with keeping up the pretending. Oh well.. sad to say
@@MsCruzan I do wonder what they spoke about during dating and engagement because surely he must’ve known that his idea of a marriage didn’t include the in laws in the marital home. I can imagine both her and her mama being annoying
And apparently her brother is her personal assistant, so that is not a wild ask for a personal assistant but that is a cultural difference. Lots of cultures do multi generation living
@@MsCruzan Exactly, a lot of cultures do this. African Americans aren’t as close knit. Why marry into a culture that does stick tightly together and then complain. This is the issue with interracial/ intercultural relationships. Americans like the “ exotic “ concept of marrying out, but can careless about the cultural differences and understanding the cultural practices.
@JM-ip1es Yep. It's not that hard to learn about a person's cultural background, especially if you are committing your life to them. Hell, I do this with families I work with, and I do not even have to. It's just better to be able to relate.
I can see how moving her family in can be an issue. You no longer have privacy, cant move around your own home the way you want, too many opinions in the home especially if you are trying to grow your own family and value, you like your home a certain way.
Exactly! Jeezy, didn’t marry the family or did he?! Her mama ain’t goin nowhere and I bet she has a a lot of say-so and influence in that household. Too much! SMH🤷🏽♀️
@@lindayoung6488 oh he married that FAMILY! If these things are true, he should’ve done research on her culture. But then that would entail how much he really even cares. I’m in a relationship now where my man doesn’t even care about my past or the things that traumatized me, he tells me fuck the past. Which leads me to believe I’m getting out of the relationship soon and no marriage for me. Sometimes things mean more to one person than the other and love languages may be different. Jennie fell in love very fast because she never had a man like him but the whole time she’s being selfish by only teaching their kid HER culture and saying Jeezy speaks Ebonics to her like his language isn’t good enough. It’s a lot of wild things Just my opinion
@@lindayoung6488that’s why folks need to do more research on the cultures of their potential spouses. Family living within the home, especially once children are born, is quite common and the norm in Asian cultures. When you marry into a new culture, there’s a responsibility in knowing what you are marrying into. Positive or Negatives.
Who wants to hold on to a person who dies not want to be held? Let them go and move on with your life. Could you ever trust a person who went this far with you- Not me Gurlll.
It so crazy SMH. 🤡 She must be trying to hold on to that "perfect marriage" (in her mind) idea of them that she wants the public to believe. Trust, there are a lot of women and men out here like that. Who feel like they can't be divorced from because that will make them a failure. No lie. I know, very stupid, but I'm just saying. 🥴
The first couple years of marriage is the most difficult. They are still figuring out what to let go of so they can coexist in harmony. They got this ❤
It sounds like he has voiced his objections and she’s ignored them thinking “compromise” is him accepting how she is. But now she realizes he’s being forced to deal with things that compromise his privacy- including her family in his home. He can’t deal with it anymore. If she wants to take care of them, she can buy them a home a few blocks away and visit them often. If she wants a big party, throw it outside the house. Respect his need for intimacy/privacy and still be herself. And stop putting everything on social media (it’s not a requirement of life)- especially if it’s about him, unless he specifically says he’s cool with it. They can work through it. But she now knows he’s serious about his complaints. There’s women out there that are not going to violate him that way and then call it love…
Best comment I read so far... Exactly 💯 how you said it... I had similar issues with my husband about social media, and he slowed down on posting stuff... I'm more of a private person too, and I told my husband I'm not into having friends over our place... My husband listened, and we're fine now... Jeannie should have respected Jeezy decisions cause he is the man of the house. She probably acts like the man instead of him...
@@cherissevocage2928 wow… so you fully relate from Jeezy’s perspective. I’m happy for you that your husband respected your feelings, listened, and made adjustments. You’re probably right about Jeannie wanting to wear the pants in the relationship. And from what she’s publicly shared, her mother is a major issue too. She disrespects Jeezy in arguments, and treats their daughter as if she’s her daughter rather than her granddaughter. It’s too much for anyone to handle for the rest of their lives. Good luck to them both on the possibility of turning it all around. Like it was said, they may need counseling, but she will need to make some major adjustments.
I completely agree with you on respecting your spouses boundaries. And when you're dating these are all reasons to leave if you want but I feel like when you marry you gotta try to at least get counseling before you go through the difficult process of divorce. Hopefully he's willing to try counseling and figuring it out. But this also goes back to the point of dating someone for a while before you marry them. All of these issues, with the exception of the child, he would've realized were problems for him if he dated her longer.
@petrinegordon Yes, but maybe everything changed when the baby came into the picture... The mother telling them how to parent and when Jeezy speak his mind Jeannie disagrees, and communication and respect goes out the door.
Okay where are the marriage counselors? These are the petty things of marriage that can destroy a marriage! I remember when I was getting married 28 years ago my cousin who was married about 5 years before me pulled me to the side at my wedding and told me, "it's not the big things that destroys the marriage but it the little ones...like leaving socks on the floor, not flushing the toilet, or not putting the toilet seat down....etc." I really appreciated her saying that...why don't these Hollywood folks invest in married friends who deal with real life situations to teach them how to solve minor difficulties / differences? This is so minor I am starting to think it's got to be a publicity stunt😢😢
You just said it was little things that destroy marriage and now you're saying you think it's a stunt 🤔 Nah, I think the first part is true. Small things become big things when they aren't addressed. I do wish they got marriage counseling but I read one comment that said they did so idk 🤷🏽♀️
Correct. We know that Jeannie believes in counseling. She did it in her first marriage and after her divorce....Her new husband know this. He better not be listening to his so-called boys. He no longer in suits🧐. Someone got bullied by their guys friends.
Just because the divorce is contested doesn't mean Jennie wants to get back with the husband. A "contested" divorce can mean one is contesting the TERMS of a divorce..ie...custody.. visitation...child support...alimony...etc.
This sounds petty to get a divorce. IMO, they should be able to work things out. I believe somebody is in Jeezy's ear, I hope they can work things out.
Trust me they're not petty, family and friends do come between marriages, I've been married 10yrs and we almost got divorced bcoz of friends few years ago, but now it's all sorted
What it sounds like to me, is that Jeezy has been expressing these issues for a while to Jennie. Being a headstrong Capricorn she is, Jennie was calling Jeezy’s bluff. Jeezy is an I’m a show you better than I can tell you, kind of guy. So, he showed her by filing the divorce. And now, she wants to recant all the things that happen during their marriage. This exactly what happens when you try to emasculate a man. Especially, a Black man!
I agree he isn’t putting up with her nonsense no man should put up with it. However a lot of women expect a man to put up with the anger issues, and what not. Men are tired of women’s b.s
All of these things about her he knew from the get-go. And these are all things that can be worked out. They have the resources to make the necessary compromises. At the same time; I’m a private person who does not like a loud home with lots of ppl in and out all the time. That would make me want to run for cover.
The issue is… you can’t kick out somebody’s Mom, not even your spouse’s. The spouse has to usher her out. And here, instead of getting her Mom a new place of her own, Jeannie went and stamped it in by moving her brother in. I wouldn’t be surprised if we found out that her brother moved in in June. 🤨 So now Jeannie has to take his feelings on the matters seriously. We’ll see what happens.
I think it's super petty for him to seek divorce for these minor issues and I feel like he just doesn't want to be married. If he does want to be married, I can imagine this situation is going to create more issues because now he's embarrassed her publicly. Everyone knows she said she didn't want kids in her first marriage, so to allow people to comment on the possibility of her now being a single mom for some small things they could have worked through? That's a problem...UNLESS they'd already gone to counseling and it just wasn't working...
BOTH have to want it, otherwise it will never work out. I wish them well and hope they can find happiness for themselves and their child, even if its not together.
As a happily married black woman to a black King there’s far too many black women left as single mothers or just single in general without the covering of a black man for me to give two damns about this Asian woman. 🤷🏽♀️ Ima always ride for my sisters and I have no room for empathy for these others to say it nicely. Next‼️
I'll never forget when Jeannie said on The Real that she wanted to be more "submissive" for her man, pertaining to Jeezy. All the ladies looked shocked when she said it. Jeannie is a strong, smart woman and I think she is really trying to make her marriage work. I think Jeezy wants to be more dominant and assertive, but Jeannie isn't conforming to the submissive partner he wants her to be. I know she's trying, but you can only change so much of yourself before you lose yourself. Wishing them the best.
Or he's just a guy who likes to be free of commitment. I don't care how submissive she is. Plus, if he understood her culture before marrying her, he would've understood that they most often have multi-generations under one roof. If he wasn't willing to accept those social structures, then he should've stayed away from her. Many people in Western society don't get that some cultures don't put their parents in nursing homes or kick family to the curb. They're from two different worlds. Plus, he was engaged when they got together, so there's that!!!
I been in her situation before it’s funny because I’m from cali like her and my bd was from ga like Jeezy them southern men want that old school marriage. I learned to be with someone you don’t have to change for something’s are peoples personalities. Her doing the most on social media I think Jeannie likes the coin she makes sharing her relationship, she puts everyone out there
She's fighting to not go back to these treacherous single streets😂. I feel her on that. He sounds like he's sick of her because these reasons are trivial.
These might be the reasons he cites but the fact of it is, men who want to be kept will put up with much more if they want to be in their marriage. This man doesn’t want it, let him go
I wonder when Jeannie will realize that no matter how much ONE person wants to stay in a marriage, it takes TWO people to actually have one. When one spouse files for divorce, it changes EVERYTHING about that relationship. Anyone who goes back into a marriage after that is usually setting themselves up for further heartache down the line.
Her mom and brother staying in the house is not the reason he filed for divorce. This could have been resolved by moving these people out of the house. She needs to accept the fact he has an expiration date in his relationships and her time is up. I guess Vietnamese va-Yang yang was not enough to keep him in the relationship.
Hope they can work it out. Marriages have there ups and downs - hopefully they love each other enough to get through this. Sending positive vibes to them💜
Sounds like Jeezy just wants to be rid of the little frustrations… which at times can pile up. I can understand a person who was living alone and moving freely to not want to have that peace interrupted.
Wait… Sooo Jezzy loved how her family was in the beginning and now it’s an issue??? If anyone knows about Asian families this is the way it is!!!! That’s a blessing!
@@snsn7251 Jeannie said they both sat down with her mom and set clear boundaries. So His wife was on his side as far as agreeing that boundaries should be there.
The reasons are not ridiculous, they're very much valid, respect and listen to understand ur partner, family and friends have come in between marriages for a long time, people just don't wanna learn
@@ralphangel561 Nope, you’re wrong. If she filed, I’d say she’s selfish for breaking her family up because she wants to walk her kid to school. Statistically, kids thrive the most in a two-parent household. I don’t think throwing it away for what sounds like minor inconveniences is a good idea. If there were allegations of abuse or whatever, then fine. But the examples given are petty and not worth the trauma.
I figured Jeannie wanted the marriage to work. Her brother and mother help with the baby while she works (based on the way it seems from Hello Hunnay) Would he rather a stranger? I find it hard to believe he didn't realize she was so social
In one of hullo videos she spoke about earlier in the did have a old lady stranger as a nanny and that lady would wear no bra walking around the house and one time left a chicken bone in the floor and when Jeezy asked who left the bone in floor they went back in CCTV camera and saw it was the nanny that dropped it. And also spoke about some stuff the nanny would do that Jeannie and her mother won't happy about at all got rid of that nanny. But why the heck would you want a stranger nanny or babysitter to look after your child bith been celebraties!😱 anyone can harm the baby......or poison anything in the house.......why have a mother and brother move in the house and not have them babysit than a stranger. Look at Arnold Schwarzenegger..cheated on his wife with that old nanny and had a whole baby in the side which led to their divorce and the wife was the govners daughter ! Men are men and once they not getting their needs met sexually or not submissive to them.....they'll be Soo quick to find someone else that will please them. Stay single ladies. Men now days are even more ruthless. And it's not worth the headache.
I agree. Little things will build up. People commenting that his reasons are petty, selfish, or stupid. People quick to judge someone's life and decision. Jeannie basically stated in an interview that she can be aggressive and had to work on that part of herself...something along those lines. Who knows how much stress that marriage, though short-lived, has gone through. We're all just spectators- on the outside trying to look in. Jeezy had his reasons, whether we agree with them or not.
I hope then can work it out.But time to start fresh have mom and brother stay in thier own place we know its in the asian culture,but if homie stands his ground,then let him go hopefully they can wrk it out ,hes a soldier there is just going to be compromise
So basically they both were fetishizing, and didn’t know anything about each other. It comes off that someone was “faking it to make it” and when they got married. That’s when they really saw who they actually married.
I feel bad for Jennie because clearly he no longer wants the marriage and was able to walk away so easily without making her aware, so they could seek counseling or make some changes to see if they could improve things. The reasons Funky listed are not the same as cheating or some other major deal breaker. I think he has just lost interest in being married and it is sad that he wants to walk away from his family over what appears to be nonsense.🙏
Jezzy had multiple baby mamas, but never married despite being in his 40’s. That was a red flag and showed that marriage was not something he valued or took seriously. So it doesn’t surprise me that instead of trying to work things out he jumped to divorce. The reasons for the divorce are things that he already knew about her (social media relationship, ect) or that could have been worked out in marriage counseling. He didn’t try to save the marriage because he doesn’t want to be married. Jeanie needs to let him go. Edit: Kempire is never going to let Jeanie live that “dark meat” comment down. He says something shady every video 😂
@@thatgirlkells5505 I don’t think her past comments or fetishizing him are the reasons for the divorce. He’s publicly defended her comments in the past. If he really had an issue with it he would have never married her in the first place.
This is sounding like a case of wanting to be heard by filling. Some people don’t know how to confront others so if they feel unheard they go to the extreme end
I wish I would get blindsided by a divorce publicly then fight for that same man . Husband or not, you are not honoring me as a wife by filing on me before we even sit down as a couple and come to an agreement that we can’t salvage the marriage . These actions speak so much louder than his words.
But she wasn't blindsided. They've been separated for a while now which means they had to have had plenty conversations regarding the state of the marriage long before separating. I mean They've been married less than two years and already "separated for a while." She probably thought he'd come back around but that's naive of her. If they were living separately, and he wasn't coming around but to see the baby, that man is gone. Whatever she did, she messed up bad.
It takes two. They are not minor problems. If your spouse expresses concern about the safety of your family that is serious. If you're asking your spouse to protect your privacy. That is not minor. People are breaking in homes and getting crazy down there in the ATL. Stop minimizing his feelings. It's only minor to you because it's not you. And if he is telling you he wants out, let him go!
It’s crazy that he filed for divorce over these reasons knowing that they can be fixed. It just seems like he no longer wanted to be tied down and found any little thing to call it quits.
It's hard for a lot of people to deal with others in their home, I have a feeling it's the mother-in-law and the brother moving in that broke the camels back.
I followed her channel n the couple of times I saw him on it, he didn't appear to really like how hands on her mom is with their daughter. I also got the feeling that the mom meddles in their relationship. Now moving the brother in, I think he said enough is enough n proceeded with the divorce. I also believe that he had the paperwork filled out n ready to go early bc he was giving her a chance to fix what it was that he was complaining about in their marriage, but Jeannie being Jeannie, she didn't do it. Now he's teaching her a lesson.
It makes sense that he moved forward with the divorce on the same day she posted on her IG story about the success of his book. He is sick of her and social media; he is sick of her ways; he is not willing to compromise because these things seem to be non-negotiables for him. These things are not little things; they are huge when they matter. If things work out between them it will be because she yields, period.
I recently read an article where Jeannie said she had a bad temper just like her family and her ex- husband never called her out on it but Jeezy had. He seems so chilled so if her temper was an issue I can see how that would be a major problem for him.
She didn't speak to her mother for eight yrs because she told her mother she was being abused and her mother did not believe her, why now is her mother the ONLY one she can trust
@@comedianpottymouth That is their culture. Should she forget about that? Didn't they discuss that before marriage? I agree with you 100% but did he say it to her and she was like whatever? In a case like that, I can see how he was fed up. Also she said he spoke to their daughter in English, and she only spoke to her in Vietnamese, this while she has an American father and she has American family members. That is disrespectful.
My husband and I went through similar issues in our first year of marriage. We both communicated and compromised. If my husband filed over these issues I would definitely think something else is going on.
I'm rooting so strongly for these two come to a decision of compromised agreements towards reconciliation. They are a powerhouse unity and are also so cute together. Jeanie & Jeezy can take turns driving Monocco to school if it makes the father more safe & comfortable. Father Jay is a protector and is right about their safety issues. It's true that these newlyweds are a household of three. They need their own privacy now. If Jeanie's other family members really care about her marriage, they would buy one big house to all live in together in the same neighborhood as of The Jenkins. I'll be sad to hear that Jeezy quitted so extremely quickly and doesn't except Jeanie's pleas to work their marriage out together. Jeanie is worth to start over with and to give it another round.
You should always seek professional marriage counseling before u file for a divorce UNLESS there is physical abuse involved. Sometimes it’s just a matter of having a mediator involved with no vested interest, someone who can listen to both sides and come up with different methods and solutions to solve problems. If you love someone enough to want to share ur life with them for the rest of your life, it’s definitely worth doing all that you can to work thru problems with a professional marriage counselor. Often times marital issues can be resolved by two ppl meeting in the middle and many times couples need help finding out what that middle is. Divorce is the easy way to solve problems, a good healthy marriage takes two ppl willing to work thru the obstacles and hurdles when they come, because they will come.
Being marry and staying married is sometimes is hard, there are always ups and downs but it's very important to learn how to handle the downs. Some people don't have marriages that work well around them and also have very poor communication skills and that's why it's important to get help before discarding a relationship, growing together will make the relationship stronger.
Jeannie mom has been an issue for a while. She talked about it I think I’m Shan boodram interviewZ she wanted jeezy to say something to her mom and he told her no, it’s her responsibility to tell her mom what the boundaries are and she had to move out.
It’s even a more red flag 🚩 that Jezzy was so quick to publicly divorce her blind sided her. They definitely could have went to counseling. I’m sure if Jeanie knew he wanted out these reason she would have worked harder and compromised. Looks like Jezzy is a runner and if she takes him back she gonna be a on egg shells and become a people pleaser! You do not blast a divorce on your spouse humiliating her! He simply doesn’t want to be married … let him go
That's why ppl make asses of themselves making assumptions about these people in these relationships! Always projecting the worse...and wanting someone to be a monster!
this makes me think he's probably stressed these things to her before and gave his reasonings. he IS a rapper that used to sell drugs etc so I definitely understand wanting to be low-key. 4-5 small things can quickly add up, especially with her family in her ear. hopefully they can get through it
My first thought was exactly this, when it was reported that she contested the marriage. I was actually surprised to hear the alleged allegations. Of course I had no idea what the reason for the filing was, but I thought that she simply was making the statement, ‘No, I love you and 2 years into a marriage is just the warm up. I am not ready to toss in the towel and willing to fight. This can be worked out.’ Perhaps, he like me, is just not designed to be married. It requires too much commitment and responsibility . I have never met anyone that I wants that close to me.
The brother and mother living with them is a complete RED FLAG. I can totally understand his wanting to exit for cultural differences, within the black community we dont play the "all the inlaws under one roof" game, thats something far more prevalent in Asian communities. I can imagine he felt like a guest or outsider in his own home and as a man thats the one place where you're supposed to have the most peace.
You've got to know when to hold 'em Know when to fold 'em Know when to walk away And know when to run You never count your money When you're sittin' at the table There'll be time enough for countin' When the dealin's done -Kenny Rogers
If it really is just these things, then they can compromise on these issues. Each person chooses which one is more important to them and find what works. The mother and brother could just get a place close by. I hope they can work through it if they really love each other.
It ain’t much of a fight if you the only one in it. He already made his declaration on IG about moving toward the future without whomever (i.e. her). So let him go. Let him miss you and ask for reconciliation if it’s to happen.
I really like what Kempire said, it would be nice if they could work through it, but you can't force what someone doesn't want. In my opinion Jezzy has tried to speak with her. She just thought she would get her way. Because she's use to getting it from others. Example her Ex husband
On the day my Narc left after 10 years that morning I remember him raging about me saying he didn’t wash dishes Lord knows when…….I just want to put that right there 😂😂😂😂😂
Jeanne Mai said, "And I am telling you" lol Seriously, though, if there is love there, I wholeheartedly hope they can work it out especially with baby girl involved.
Never let a man tell you more than once he doesn't want you.
I did that dumb shit once!😂😂
That’s not her man. He’s her husband. If she’s fighting it means that she has messed up, and there is nothing wrong with fighting for a relationship you messed up.
@@samanthalake5011I think we all did so don't feel bad. You live and you learn 😂❤
Shiiiiit I'm Steve urkel 😂 I'm wearing down baby 😅
I wouldn't take him back bcas he can wake up again n not love me anymore n do it again.
These may seem like small things to divorce over, but if you are constantly bringing up the same issue to your partner and they are not willing to fix it it leads to people feeling ignored and disrespected. If Jeannie is fighting for her marriage now its possible she wasn't taking his complaints seriously. Sometimes we take our partners for granted
100% agreed
Right 💯
Makes sense
@@lostintranslation57 How do you know that??? You don't know him personally
@@lostintranslation57 we don't know if he didn't communicate it to her or if she was just not listening to his plea. neither of them seem like marriage material.
Based off of these allegations to me it sounds like a situation where they both could have benefitted from marriage counseling before calling it quits
or before they even got married
@@faithsteele4006some dont even do that. I'm so glad my husband and I made a decision and we're still going strong
They did get counseling if I am not mistaken. I could have sworn that Jeannie disclosed that on the real. If I am wrong then I stand corrected.
Finally, someone makes sense. People give up too easily.
@@aerialreynolds1777 that's wonderful!
Cultural/ family value differences and invasive in-laws can absolutely ruin a marriage. Especially a new marriage! Best wishes to them both. ❤
Speak on it! From experience!
@@sd8150I second that, also from experience.
This is absolutely true! It's unfair for the mom to move in with them. She's single, right? Let married people be married ...unless she has health issues and needs to live with them. But from the looks of it, she's healthy. Married people don't cohabit well with single people. Plus, the cultural differences...and then she's always in Jeannie's business anyway 🙄🙄. Too much!
@@NapturallyPecanBrownNo the gag is she’s married. She should be home with her husband and the brother moving in. Plus she said she didn’t realize she had a anger management issue until she got with him and he had to check her. I don’t think he blindsided her. I think whatever happened he’s been warning her and she won’t adjust. I’ve been with my husband for 21 years and the 3rd year was our hardest. It’s hard to get through issues in your marriage when it’s constantly family and friends in the mix. Not to mention Jeanie has always seemed pretentious to me.
@NapturallyPecanBrown Yes, her mom is single, and for clear reasons. She's more than a handful. And if the brother really did move in too, 🏃🏾💨 No shade on the culture, it's just not for everyone.
I understand fighting for your marriage but when a man says he done, he's done.
if marriage depend on the man, I wonder why women still participate its clearly for men
But I thought this was the woman's prerogative.... when we are done we're done
Exactly, if it’s small things, you don’t want the marriage
Yea he done . Jeezy not likable tho
Absolutely 💯 !!! He's been over it an over her most likely. I don't believe she was blind sided either. Hearing her talk about how she acted with Jeezy and her actions during her last marriage makes me understand how this marriage wouldn't work. Maybe she was also more into him than he was into her.
Going from a private person and having your own space to having a wife that moves in her mom and brother can most definitely be hard on a relationship, no matter how much people get along and respect one another. You marry into a family and sometimes that can get tiring IF there is no space and distance between you and the their family.
Well, he should have spoke up and told her "no". That's on him.
@@fah232 well, I know in a marriage we make compromises for our partner that we may regret later. I’m not sure if ‘that’s on him’ if he was trying to make his wife happy. Both sides give an enormous amount to make the other happy in good marriages.
@@Natalia-hf3et So true, it's give and take on both sides. And both have to be willing. Family members outside of the marriage need to respect their space and marriage, especially if they know it's causing a problem.
I'm going to say it like this marriage or not do not live with family especially if you married. Nothing good comes from it. It's too much always end bad. Jenjen you need to compromise too not just him. Get mama a house next door or something but honey if we having sex I don't want nobody hearing what goes down. If we argue that's between us. But can it be worked out yes. I hope they call it off but have a serious talk cause Grammy gots to go 😂
@@fah232 He might've said no and she did it anyway. Or never asked him to begin with and the man came home to these people living in his house.
Jeezy is just giving excuses. These are small things that can be easily worked out. He just wants to be single again. He might even have his eye on someone else.
Of course he does! Men don’t break up or divorce to be single, they have the next woman lined up. Women break up to be single and find themselves, men find new pussssaaay
When a man suddenly walks away over a minor disagreement or situation he has already been involved with someone else. Jeanine Mai needs to save her dignity and let this man go. Maybe she thinks she ain't going to get another man like him that's why she is holding onto him
He likely already has someone in the background lowkey somewhere. It's beyond obvious he's the type that lovebombs a person in the beginning then goes easily hot and cold on the person to then ditch them for the new one.
What you call excuses are his reasons for not wanting to stay in a marriage but he’s unhappy.
You can dictate was a breaking point for someone else ur not living in their house.
Marriage is not a prison sentence you can get out at any time .
@@cindyben3089 perfect reply❤❤
This man wanted out plain and simple. He’s left 3 families.. come on y’all 🤦🏾♀️. EVERYTHING mentioned as a reason to divorce CAN EASILY be fixed. He just wants out. Jeannie 🏃🏾♀️
I don’t know why women think there’s something special about them that will make a commitment phobic man change. A person doesn’t change until they want to change. No one else can make them do it. Jeezy is treating Jeannie like a baby mama who happens to have a marriage license. This man has made a habit of creating single parent households and he just made one more.
Finally!! Someone said it like it is!!! 🎉
Absolutely!
When a man says he don't want you believe him. It's going to take prayer to move on.
Yes ma'am! Don't beg him and keep him, cause it would feel like straight pity to me... NO WAY
@@ParisArnold-un5vv🎯💯 They say that the " best way to get over one is to get under one". But I don't believe in jumping back into relationships so quick like that. I intentionally took a few years off in between for me, and was so glad that I did. 👍
Agree. Leave immediately! I had an ex-boyfriend tell me he was not in love with me anymore. By that next week, I had a new lease signed at a new apartment and he came home to an empty place. That was the best decision I made and it felt soo good!
@@twinashlie3398 but see you heard what you heard. Not what you wanted to hear and trying to live in a fantasy world like most women. You got out and didn’t waste your time. Smart move.
I wouldn't want my mom & brother in law living with us in the household either. Heck no!
Amen 😢
She's dumb for that... But if he's as private as they say.. it's not easy having no man around to lift things for you.. and I have no doubt she asked the brother to move in because that man is never home to help
Marriages between different cultures can be beautiful but one of the biggest problems I noticed in these type of marriages is ignorance of one’s culture. Jeannie is Asian and having the family live with you when you have kids isn’t unusual. All that other stuff seems so damn petty and minuscule to divorce over. That man just doesn’t love or even like Jeannie anymore.
Right?? I live in europe and a black male collègue of mine, who is married to a japanese woman, told me that his wifes parents lives with them
I think he was fed up of the family taking over their living situation. He couldn't tell her to cast aside her culture either. The fact that she was only speaking to her daughter in Vietnamese as she confessed is disrespectful. Very telling how she then was showing this vid with her daughter speaking English while singing his praises. Manipulative AF!
I told my Asian friends that I LOVE that part of their culture. I honestly love it and admire them.....BUT I couldn't live with my mom for over a month. I am thinking of sponsoring her and I told my husband that I am renting her a place before she comes. I have so much respect for 20 Asians living under one roof. That's why they can save so much money. I would need therapy to do that.
Everything funky dineva said are big reasons and deal breakers for me. I feel Jeezy (not saying he is perfect),but as an introvert and extremely private person, what dineva mentioned, it's not little things, it's little things to other ppl but to ppl like me it's a big deal and Jeanie's actions are grounds for divorce...sorry not sorry and it's Jeezy s fault for not getting Jeannie or her family of origin. To live in that situation as a private person it would be suffocating, and smothering. Jeezy wanted out! 😂
Her what meat?!! 😬😂😂😂 That was the cherry on top, great video.
As a 40+ yr old man these are ridiculous reasons to get divorced! If this is true. I don’t know how Jeannie could look at him the same after blindsiding her in this was, so inconsiderate
THANK YOU 🎯. I would lose all respect for him. If she can look past this and the way he did it, to his wife, then I’ll be side-eyeing Jeannie.
How did he blindside her and they were seperated when he filed. Come on now
Just tell us your a beta male 😆 now ain't no1 telling no1 more than once to get right we're not children this isn't high school
I have to disagree..the brother and mother living with them is a complete RED FLAG. I can totally understand his wanting to exit for cultural differences, within the black community we dont play the "all the inlaws under one roof" game, thats something far more prevalent in Asian communities. I can imagine he felt like a guest or outsider in his own home and as a man thats the one place where your suppose to have the most peace.
That's what covert narcissist do. Loveboming, devaluation then discard. She never seen it coming. I'm 100% sure her gut had to tell her something in the beginning and she probably ignored it. She probably spilled her whole life story and he pretended to be something he's not and that's a good guy.
I feel like there where a mixture of things that went wrong. A lack of respect, communication, and to much family involvement. I remember seeing an interview where Jeanie said that her mom had pretty much taken over their daughter. It made me wonder how much say Jeezy had in their marriage and in parenting of their daughter.
Will that problem be corrected by them divorcing though? Now the baby will probably be with the Mom nearly 100% of the time. The Mom will take even more control
Especially since he was never there and she was only teaching her daughter to speak in Vietnamese. That is so disrespectful.
It can get frustrating when you have to keep repeating that your boundaries are being violated. It's exhausting. I shouldn't keep having to ask anyone to see me. Respect me. Yes, these issues seem small, but oftentimes, those things stem from both having very different values and morals.
He is cold as ice now! He is not a high quality man!!
Absolutely 💯
It’s the Mom and Brother issue. He doesn’t want them living in their home.
That’s the only major issue I see so far.
Nope. It's an excuse
It is, no person can stand that, I myself wouldn't, you're right
I agree. She has said in Asian culture, you take care of your family. Her mother was living with her after the first marriage. She wasn't budging on that and he probably did not want to have them in his home indefinitely. They also said she and her mother spoke only Vietnamese unless Jeezy was in the room.
Jeezy filed out of nowhere. This was brewing since June and he is done. Jeannie was just posting a heart felt message about him only to get divorce papers the next week. It doesn’t add up and Jeannie is better off just ending it. When a man is done he is done
No one files a divorce out of no where. She wasn't paying attention to her marriage.
@@hennesseyme9112 when I meant by nowhere is there were no signs. No social media signs there were issues in their marriage. Why do you think this is a shocker
I agree! He probably didn’t want to work it out or give it more time. Aren’t those “alleged” issues things you discuss before marriage? Make it make sense. Jeannie Mai, good luck with that! Smh
If a man tells U more than once that hhe is done. Don.t fight jack. I say let go. Trust me you.ll feel the better for it later. You.ll may not b evenly yoked. Jeezy probably just done.
@@hennesseyme9112 I think it’s obvious that’s not the case here because he file behind her back. If the marriage was foul, why was he pretending to be happily married up until literally days ago
This is why it's important to have these discussions before marriage to make sure you're both in alignment otherwise you're wasting each others time and money
I don't see how they could work it out. He blindsided her. It shows a lack of repect and communication.
Yep! He filed and it immediately went public. I'd be done. I get wanting to save your marriage but save your self-respect, Jeannie.
@@TACo-281 I think she is also embarrassed as this is her second divorce
Hopefully, these are the issues & they can work on them with a marriage counselor.
He shady, and when they got married I said he's an opportunist. He's disgusting and I'm honestly shocked at how many ppl are in his defense. He spilled Keisha Cole tea when they was together and I knew then something wasn't right with that boy.
@@tricemcc4458 how is jeezy an opportunist when he has more clout and more money than her ? Just answer that question?
These are nothing more than growing pains. My wife threatened to divorce me plenty of times during our first year of marriage because both parties have to comprise. It's part of the process of growing together any way me and my wife just celebrated our 27th wedding anniversary so this can be worked out
You are a better person than I am because after a few threats of divorce I would have called her bluff but I'm glad you got passed it. Congratulations on 27 years. It's truly inspiring 🙏
@@omphilemoerane2569 that's because I knew she was all bark but no bite
@@jameshoward6064 you're definitely a mature man! 🥂
@jameshoward6064 you're mature. God bless your marriage.
@@keonawelch9782I just said this..omg.
If he wants to walk away for those reasons, then marriage is not for him! He’s not the one! Let it go! Both have to be in it better or worse… those issues can be solved!! Why hold on to someone who clearly doesn’t feel they way you do or even love you enough to work towards a resolution 🤦🏽♀️
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Exactly he didn’t want marriage. He trapped her with a baby and don’t see the point of marriage. That was he’s plan all along. Just straight dusty behavior 💯
He’s used to being a baby daddy. He wasn’t ready
He filed silently and I’m sure Jeannie had to be blinded sided. If it’s done without a fuss then yes the person is done! Don’t hold on
@@JM-ip1es he didn’t have to marry her to give her a baby. He has 3 to 4 baby moms and she was pregnant before they got married. They were doing IVF before they got married.
She needs to learn that you can't make these guys do anything they don't want to do. She can fight for her marriage. Sadly, if he's not feeling it, there's nothing she can do. He’s ready for something new-life of a rapper!!!
We don't know that, they have a chance of fixing their marriage, it's a 50/50 chance, they have a daughter and I do believe that they love each other still
@@tsholofelohuma7496 You need to read and comprehend. Nevertheless, some things are just common sense, but I guess.
Now, I do know for a fact that you CAN NOT make a guy do anything he doesn't want to do, nor anyone else for that matter. Since we are not robots, we all have free will I. E “body autonomy.” go figure.
Again, she can absolutely fight for her marriage, as is her right to do so. However, if 👉HE DOES NOT want to salvage his marriage, there's not a damn thing she can do except heal, care for her daughter, and learn and grow from the experience.
When will women like you understand that men control marriage? Whether you get a ring or get to keep one. He's a player and wants to be free. And they have a daughter? Are you serious right now? What does that mean exactly? Didn't he make single mothers of the women before his wife? Didn't he leave his older kids in broken homes???
Moreover, he's been playing with her head before the nuptials. He turned every no into a yes and then proceeded to publicly humiliate her. And you can believe what you like, but I personally don't think that this partnership was a good one. She wanted “dark meat on the side,” and he wanted to prove a point and feed his ego. Now, hers is hurt because she ignored the red flags and thought she was the exception to his rule.
How is it that she nor anyone else in her personal and professional life noticed that she had “anger issues” before this marriage to Sleazy Jeezy?
It's interesting how women like you are so marriage-crazy that it doesn't matter if it's a healthy union or not. Stop chasing males and encouraging other women to run behind someone who's already told you once he doesn't want you. Consequently, it never ends well, regardless of what you think you want. Carry on!!!
Her mum was living with them, her brother just moved in. That’s a lot of strain on a marriage and i would get so frustrated with keeping up the pretending. Oh well.. sad to say
Different cultural values on what makes a family. The should’ve discussed all of this before walking down the aisle.
@@MsCruzan I do wonder what they spoke about during dating and engagement because surely he must’ve known that his idea of a marriage didn’t include the in laws in the marital home. I can imagine both her and her mama being annoying
And apparently her brother is her personal assistant, so that is not a wild ask for a personal assistant but that is a cultural difference. Lots of cultures do multi generation living
@@MsCruzan Exactly, a lot of cultures do this. African Americans aren’t as close knit. Why marry into a culture that does stick tightly together and then complain. This is the issue with interracial/ intercultural relationships. Americans like the “ exotic “ concept of marrying out, but can careless about the cultural differences and understanding the cultural practices.
@JM-ip1es
Yep. It's not that hard to learn about a person's cultural background, especially if you are committing your life to them. Hell, I do this with families I work with, and I do not even have to. It's just better to be able to relate.
I can see how moving her family in can be an issue. You no longer have privacy, cant move around your own home the way you want, too many opinions in the home especially if you are trying to grow your own family and value, you like your home a certain way.
Exactly! Jeezy, didn’t marry the family or did he?! Her mama ain’t goin nowhere and I bet she has a a lot of say-so and influence in that household. Too much! SMH🤷🏽♀️
@@lindayoung6488 oh he married that FAMILY! If these things are true, he should’ve done research on her culture. But then that would entail how much he really even cares. I’m in a relationship now where my man doesn’t even care about my past or the things that traumatized me, he tells me fuck the past. Which leads me to believe I’m getting out of the relationship soon and no marriage for me. Sometimes things mean more to one person than the other and love languages may be different. Jennie fell in love very fast because she never had a man like him but the whole time she’s being selfish by only teaching their kid HER culture and saying Jeezy speaks Ebonics to her like his language isn’t good enough. It’s a lot of wild things Just my opinion
My mom living with my husband and I at the beginning of our marriage was SUUUUPER problematic. Things improved significantly when she moved out
@@lindayoung6488that’s why folks need to do more research on the cultures of their potential spouses. Family living within the home, especially once children are born, is quite common and the norm in Asian cultures. When you marry into a new culture, there’s a responsibility in knowing what you are marrying into. Positive or Negatives.
@@Rissa11ful ....Facts! Things like this most definitely need to be discussed before marriage.
Who wants to hold on to a person who dies not want to be held? Let them go and move on with your life. Could you ever trust a person who went this far with you- Not me Gurlll.
Because her being divorced is embarrassing for her socially.
Facts 💯👏💐👍
@@Belleofhairespecially since he filed.
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It so crazy SMH. 🤡 She must be trying to hold on to that "perfect marriage" (in her mind) idea of them that she wants the public to believe. Trust, there are a lot of women and men out here like that. Who feel like they can't be divorced from because that will make them a failure. No lie. I know, very stupid, but I'm just saying. 🥴
The first couple years of marriage is the most difficult. They are still figuring out what to let go of so they can coexist in harmony. They got this ❤
It sounds like he has voiced his objections and she’s ignored them thinking “compromise” is him accepting how she is. But now she realizes he’s being forced to deal with things that compromise his privacy- including her family in his home. He can’t deal with it anymore.
If she wants to take care of them, she can buy them a home a few blocks away and visit them often. If she wants a big party, throw it outside the house. Respect his need for intimacy/privacy and still be herself. And stop putting everything on social media (it’s not a requirement of life)- especially if it’s about him, unless he specifically says he’s cool with it. They can work through it. But she now knows he’s serious about his complaints. There’s women out there that are not going to violate him that way and then call it love…
Best comment I read so far... Exactly 💯 how you said it... I had similar issues with my husband about social media, and he slowed down on posting stuff... I'm more of a private person too, and I told my husband I'm not into having friends over our place... My husband listened, and we're fine now... Jeannie should have respected Jeezy decisions cause he is the man of the house. She probably acts like the man instead of him...
Absolutely 💯, I hope they can still work it out thou, counseling is needed
@@cherissevocage2928 wow… so you fully relate from Jeezy’s perspective. I’m happy for you that your husband respected your feelings, listened, and made adjustments. You’re probably right about Jeannie wanting to wear the pants in the relationship. And from what she’s publicly shared, her mother is a major issue too. She disrespects Jeezy in arguments, and treats their daughter as if she’s her daughter rather than her granddaughter. It’s too much for anyone to handle for the rest of their lives.
Good luck to them both on the possibility of turning it all around. Like it was said, they may need counseling, but she will need to make some major adjustments.
I completely agree with you on respecting your spouses boundaries. And when you're dating these are all reasons to leave if you want but I feel like when you marry you gotta try to at least get counseling before you go through the difficult process of divorce. Hopefully he's willing to try counseling and figuring it out. But this also goes back to the point of dating someone for a while before you marry them. All of these issues, with the exception of the child, he would've realized were problems for him if he dated her longer.
@petrinegordon Yes, but maybe everything changed when the baby came into the picture... The mother telling them how to parent and when Jeezy speak his mind Jeannie disagrees, and communication and respect goes out the door.
Okay where are the marriage counselors? These are the petty things of marriage that can destroy a marriage! I remember when I was getting married 28 years ago my cousin who was married about 5 years before me pulled me to the side at my wedding and told me, "it's not the big things that destroys the marriage but it the little ones...like leaving socks on the floor, not flushing the toilet, or not putting the toilet seat down....etc." I really appreciated her saying that...why don't these Hollywood folks invest in married friends who deal with real life situations to teach them how to solve minor difficulties / differences?
This is so minor I am starting to think it's got to be a publicity stunt😢😢
You just said it was little things that destroy marriage and now you're saying you think it's a stunt 🤔
Nah, I think the first part is true. Small things become big things when they aren't addressed. I do wish they got marriage counseling but I read one comment that said they did so idk 🤷🏽♀️
@@kokolatte825 literally i can't believe it...
I don't believe that they can't work such small things out.
Correct. We know that Jeannie believes in counseling. She did it in her first marriage and after her divorce....Her new husband know this. He better not be listening to his so-called boys. He no longer in suits🧐. Someone got bullied by their guys friends.
She was absolutely blindsided. I truly believe that she found out when the internet did.
Just because the divorce is contested doesn't mean Jennie wants to get back with the husband. A "contested" divorce can mean one is contesting the TERMS of a divorce..ie...custody.. visitation...child support...alimony...etc.
This sounds petty to get a divorce. IMO, they should be able to work things out. I believe somebody is in Jeezy's ear, I hope they can work things out.
Right, Jeezy is still not ready.
He is a libra ♎️ lol they can be very wishy washy
Tell that to 70% of women who files for divorce for any reason
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Trust me they're not petty, family and friends do come between marriages, I've been married 10yrs and we almost got divorced bcoz of friends few years ago, but now it's all sorted
What it sounds like to me, is that Jeezy has been expressing these issues for a while to Jennie. Being a headstrong Capricorn she is, Jennie was calling Jeezy’s bluff. Jeezy is an I’m a show you better than I can tell you, kind of guy. So, he showed her by filing the divorce. And now, she wants to recant all the things that happen during their marriage. This exactly what happens when you try to emasculate a man. Especially, a Black man!
I agree he isn’t putting up with her nonsense no man should put up with it. However a lot of women expect a man to put up with the anger issues, and what not. Men are tired of women’s b.s
All of these things about her he knew from the get-go. And these are all things that can be worked out. They have the resources to make the necessary compromises.
At the same time; I’m a private person who does not like a loud home with lots of ppl in and out all the time. That would make me want to run for cover.
The issue is… you can’t kick out somebody’s Mom, not even your spouse’s. The spouse has to usher her out. And here, instead of getting her Mom a new place of her own, Jeannie went and stamped it in by moving her brother in. I wouldn’t be surprised if we found out that her brother moved in in June. 🤨
So now Jeannie has to take his feelings on the matters seriously. We’ll see what happens.
I think it's super petty for him to seek divorce for these minor issues and I feel like he just doesn't want to be married. If he does want to be married, I can imagine this situation is going to create more issues because now he's embarrassed her publicly. Everyone knows she said she didn't want kids in her first marriage, so to allow people to comment on the possibility of her now being a single mom for some small things they could have worked through? That's a problem...UNLESS they'd already gone to counseling and it just wasn't working...
Can’t force someone to stay in a marriage she’s so desperate if she’s even considering talking to him he’s sneaky
Can't walk infant to school LOLLOL
He's not into her anymore
@nadiajordan3447 THIS...The ether has worn off..
BOTH have to want it, otherwise it will never work out. I wish them well and hope they can find happiness for themselves and their child, even if its not together.
FACTS!!
Right..
As a happily married black woman to a black King there’s far too many black women left as single mothers or just single in general without the covering of a black man for me to give two damns about this Asian woman. 🤷🏽♀️ Ima always ride for my sisters and I have no room for empathy for these others to say it nicely. Next‼️
Powerful words written Queen
I'll never forget when Jeannie said on The Real that she wanted to be more "submissive" for her man, pertaining to Jeezy. All the ladies looked shocked when she said it. Jeannie is a strong, smart woman and I think she is really trying to make her marriage work. I think Jeezy wants to be more dominant and assertive, but Jeannie isn't conforming to the submissive partner he wants her to be. I know she's trying, but you can only change so much of yourself before you lose yourself. Wishing them the best.
You know she is trying? 🤔
@@Thankgot😂😂
Maybe she wasn't listening to Jeezy but Jeezy doesn't seem like a reasonable person either. I think they're done, unfortunately.
Or he's just a guy who likes to be free of commitment. I don't care how submissive she is. Plus, if he understood her culture before marrying her, he would've understood that they most often have multi-generations under one roof. If he wasn't willing to accept those social structures, then he should've stayed away from her. Many people in Western society don't get that some cultures don't put their parents in nursing homes or kick family to the curb. They're from two different worlds. Plus, he was engaged when they got together, so there's that!!!
I been in her situation before it’s funny because I’m from cali like her and my bd was from ga like Jeezy them southern men want that old school marriage. I learned to be with someone you don’t have to change for something’s are peoples personalities. Her doing the most on social media I think Jeannie likes the coin she makes sharing her relationship, she puts everyone out there
She's fighting to not go back to these treacherous single streets😂. I feel her on that. He sounds like he's sick of her because these reasons are trivial.
These might be the reasons he cites but the fact of it is, men who want to be kept will put up with much more if they want to be in their marriage. This man doesn’t want it, let him go
Absolutely 👏👏👏💯
Amen. I just made a similar comment. The brother wanted out. Let him go!! There is always a light at the end of the tunnel
I agree with everyone! Jeannie Mai, SIGN the papers.
I wonder when Jeannie will realize that no matter how much ONE person wants to stay in a marriage, it takes TWO people to actually have one. When one spouse files for divorce, it changes EVERYTHING about that relationship. Anyone who goes back into a marriage after that is usually setting themselves up for further heartache down the line.
Absolute truth.
Her mom and brother staying in the house is not the reason he filed for divorce. This could have been resolved by moving these people out of the house. She needs to accept the fact he has an expiration date in his relationships and her time is up. I guess Vietnamese va-Yang yang was not enough to keep him in the relationship.
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Lol😂
That part!! This is the most logical reasoning I've seen
So, if she against them moving out is he just supposed to go with it?
Va Yang Yang😭😭😭🤣🤣
Love your balanced commentary with the touch of sarcasm 😊👌
Hope they can work it out. Marriages have there ups and downs - hopefully they love each other enough to get through this. Sending positive vibes to them💜
I too hope all works out for the both of them.
Sounds like Jeezy just wants to be rid of the little frustrations… which at times can pile up. I can understand a person who was living alone and moving freely to not want to have that peace interrupted.
Relationships has always been a give and take situation, I hope they can work this out 🙏🙏💯
Wait… Sooo Jezzy loved how her family was in the beginning and now it’s an issue??? If anyone knows about Asian families this is the way it is!!!! That’s a blessing!
Not when they dont know boundaries. Her mom has no limits. No marriage needs that all the time
She’s not with a Asian man so she needs to comprise if he’s not comfortable with them being there.
@@snsn7251 Jeannie said they both sat down with her mom and set clear boundaries. So His wife was on his side as far as agreeing that boundaries should be there.
@@justsaying2300 but from what she shared, her Mom is a habitual line crosser. Nobody should have to live with that.
@@nyeemanicole5616Wait… what type of man is she with??? I’ll wait.. and it’s compromise my love…. 😬
I sincerely hope she's trying to salvage this marriage. These 'reasons' sound ridiculous and things that can be easily worked through.
Nope. "Don't let a man tell you twice that he doesn't want you" -Judge Lynn Toler 👩⚖️
Yet if it was her divorcing him y'all say he needs to move on 🤷🤷
The reasons are not ridiculous, they're very much valid, respect and listen to understand ur partner, family and friends have come in between marriages for a long time, people just don't wanna learn
@@ralphangel561 Nope, you’re wrong. If she filed, I’d say she’s selfish for breaking her family up because she wants to walk her kid to school. Statistically, kids thrive the most in a two-parent household. I don’t think throwing it away for what sounds like minor inconveniences is a good idea. If there were allegations of abuse or whatever, then fine. But the examples given are petty and not worth the trauma.
No, she needs to let that man go. She can't fight for a man who doesn't want to be with her.
I figured Jeannie wanted the marriage to work. Her brother and mother help with the baby while she works (based on the way it seems from Hello Hunnay) Would he rather a stranger? I find it hard to believe he didn't realize she was so social
In one of hullo videos she spoke about earlier in the did have a old lady stranger as a nanny and that lady would wear no bra walking around the house and one time left a chicken bone in the floor and when Jeezy asked who left the bone in floor they went back in CCTV camera and saw it was the nanny that dropped it.
And also spoke about some stuff the nanny would do that Jeannie and her mother won't happy about at all got rid of that nanny.
But why the heck would you want a stranger nanny or babysitter to look after your child bith been celebraties!😱 anyone can harm the baby......or poison anything in the house.......why have a mother and brother move in the house and not have them babysit than a stranger.
Look at Arnold Schwarzenegger..cheated on his wife with that old nanny and had a whole baby in the side which led to their divorce and the wife was the govners daughter ! Men are men and once they not getting their needs met sexually or not submissive to them.....they'll be Soo quick to find someone else that will please them.
Stay single ladies. Men now days are even more ruthless. And it's not worth the headache.
She's always been a TV personality and a socialite for yeeaars. Did he not follow her for real?? That's crazy smh
Totally agree!! her family is probably there because both Jeanine and Jezzy have very busy careers.
I agree. Little things will build up. People commenting that his reasons are petty, selfish, or stupid. People quick to judge someone's life and decision. Jeannie basically stated in an interview that she can be aggressive and had to work on that part of herself...something along those lines. Who knows how much stress that marriage, though short-lived, has gone through. We're all just spectators- on the outside trying to look in. Jeezy had his reasons, whether we agree with them or not.
This is the best comment I have seen so far, 💯.
This! Imagine having little issues, bringing them up and being met with a brick wall. At some point you’re so exhausted u just want peace.
I hope then can work it out.But time to start fresh have mom and brother stay in thier own place we know its in the asian culture,but if homie stands his ground,then let him go hopefully they can wrk it out ,hes a soldier there is just going to be compromise
So basically they both were fetishizing, and didn’t know anything about each other. It comes off that someone was “faking it to make it” and when they got married. That’s when they really saw who they actually married.
I believe they can fix things. Rooting for y’all!!! ❤❤❤
I feel bad for Jennie because clearly he no longer wants the marriage and was able to walk away so easily without making her aware, so they could seek counseling or make some changes to see if they could improve things. The reasons Funky listed are not the same as cheating or some other major deal breaker. I think he has just lost interest in being married and it is sad that he wants to walk away from his family over what appears to be nonsense.🙏
Right! I get fighting for your marriage but it takes two. That man went ahead and filed for a divorce so he been done. Jmo🤷🏽♀️
This right here is my biggest fear of being married.
Jezzy had multiple baby mamas, but never married despite being in his 40’s. That was a red flag and showed that marriage was not something he valued or took seriously. So it doesn’t surprise me that instead of trying to work things out he jumped to divorce. The reasons for the divorce are things that he already knew about her (social media relationship, ect) or that could have been worked out in marriage counseling. He didn’t try to save the marriage because he doesn’t want to be married. Jeanie needs to let him go.
Edit: Kempire is never going to let Jeanie live that “dark meat” comment down. He says something shady every video 😂
I think he's reacting the right way when someone demeans and fetiishes you. Take note other Black Males!!!!
@@thatgirlkells5505 I don’t think her past comments or fetishizing him are the reasons for the divorce. He’s publicly defended her comments in the past. If he really had an issue with it he would have never married her in the first place.
@@kunglaoshat1250 My response was not regarding Jeezy. It was about Kempire always bringing up her dark meat on the side comment.
@@thatgirlkells5505 oh gotcha. Sorry I misunderstood
This is sounding like a case of wanting to be heard by filling. Some people don’t know how to confront others so if they feel unheard they go to the extreme end
I wish I would get blindsided by a divorce publicly then fight for that same man . Husband or not, you are not honoring me as a wife by filing on me before we even sit down as a couple and come to an agreement that we can’t salvage the marriage . These actions speak so much louder than his words.
But she wasn't blindsided. They've been separated for a while now which means they had to have had plenty conversations regarding the state of the marriage long before separating. I mean They've been married less than two years and already "separated for a while." She probably thought he'd come back around but that's naive of her. If they were living separately, and he wasn't coming around but to see the baby, that man is gone. Whatever she did, she messed up bad.
It takes two. They are not minor problems. If your spouse expresses concern about the safety of your family that is serious.
If you're asking your spouse to protect your privacy. That is not minor.
People are breaking in homes and getting crazy down there in the ATL.
Stop minimizing his feelings.
It's only minor to you because it's not you.
And if he is telling you he wants out, let him go!
Jeezy is not used to commitment, so any bit of a stressful situation will make him call it quits. I believe these are things that could be worked out
What if they concocted this divorce drama so Jeezy could sell more books? 🤔
Was looking for this comment...... It's all very suspish😂😂
Then she's crazy cause I would never bring that negative energy over my marriage for the sake of book sales.
I'm sooooo glad to hear that she wants to have a sit down and work things out!! ALL I can say is GOOD LUCK!!!
I'll just say that I rather he leave her respectfully, than for us to be hearing a story like what Ne-Yo's last wife (and 1st 👀) went thru.
Love you Kempire 🎉🧡
It’s crazy that he filed for divorce over these reasons knowing that they can be fixed. It just seems like he no longer wanted to be tied down and found any little thing to call it quits.
It's hard for a lot of people to deal with others in their home, I have a feeling it's the mother-in-law and the brother moving in that broke the camels back.
I cannot even imagine not having My Own space with my husband and child. She is Ridiculous !
Sounds like Jezzy is fed up with everything. It also sounds like a piece of the puzzle is still missing
You can't force a private person to become social. It will never work.... I've been there done that....
I followed her channel n the couple of times I saw him on it, he didn't appear to really like how hands on her mom is with their daughter. I also got the feeling that the mom meddles in their relationship. Now moving the brother in, I think he said enough is enough n proceeded with the divorce. I also believe that he had the paperwork filled out n ready to go early bc he was giving her a chance to fix what it was that he was complaining about in their marriage, but Jeannie being Jeannie, she didn't do it. Now he's teaching her a lesson.
Nice commentary!!!
It makes sense that he moved forward with the divorce on the same day she posted on her IG story about the success of his book. He is sick of her and social media; he is sick of her ways; he is not willing to compromise because these things seem to be non-negotiables for him. These things are not little things; they are huge when they matter. If things work out between them it will be because she yields, period.
I recently read an article where Jeannie said she had a bad temper just like her family and her ex- husband never called her out on it but Jeezy had. He seems so chilled so if her temper was an issue I can see how that would be a major problem for him.
Her brother is her personal assistant. Mom is ONLY person she trusts with the baby bcz she was abused as a kid!!!!!
She didn't speak to her mother for eight yrs because she told her mother she was being abused and her mother did not believe her, why now is her mother the ONLY one she can trust
I think she means trust with the baby.
So they got to live together? I mean the 1st 2 years are the honeymoon time to be ALONE
Oh please! She told her mother she was molested and he mother didn't believe her.
@@comedianpottymouth That is their culture. Should she forget about that? Didn't they discuss that before marriage? I agree with you 100% but did he say it to her and she was like whatever? In a case like that, I can see how he was fed up. Also she said he spoke to their daughter in English, and she only spoke to her in Vietnamese, this while she has an American father and she has American family members. That is disrespectful.
My husband and I went through similar issues in our first year of marriage. We both communicated and compromised. If my husband filed over these issues I would definitely think something else is going on.
I'm rooting so strongly for these two come to a decision of compromised agreements towards reconciliation. They are a powerhouse unity and are also so cute together.
Jeanie & Jeezy can take turns driving Monocco to school if it makes the father more safe & comfortable. Father Jay is a protector and is right about their safety issues.
It's true that these newlyweds are a household of three. They need their own privacy now. If Jeanie's other family members really care about her marriage, they would buy one big house to all live in together in the same neighborhood as of The Jenkins.
I'll be sad to hear that Jeezy quitted so extremely quickly and doesn't except Jeanie's pleas to work their marriage out together. Jeanie is worth to start over with and to give it another round.
“And it’s nothing salacious…”
“Aw” He was so disappointed 😂
You should always seek professional marriage counseling before u file for a divorce UNLESS there is physical abuse involved. Sometimes it’s just a matter of having a mediator involved with no vested interest, someone who can listen to both sides and come up with different methods and solutions to solve problems. If you love someone enough to want to share ur life with them for the rest of your life, it’s definitely worth doing all that you can to work thru problems with a professional marriage counselor. Often times marital issues can be resolved by two ppl meeting in the middle and many times couples need help finding out what that middle is. Divorce is the easy way to solve problems, a good healthy marriage takes two ppl willing to work thru the obstacles and hurdles when they come, because they will come.
Being marry and staying married is sometimes is hard, there are always ups and downs but it's very important to learn how to handle the downs. Some people don't have marriages that work well around them and also have very poor communication skills and that's why it's important to get help before discarding a relationship, growing together will make the relationship stronger.
Jeannie mom has been an issue for a while. She talked about it I think I’m Shan boodram interviewZ she wanted jeezy to say something to her mom and he told her no, it’s her responsibility to tell her mom what the boundaries are and she had to move out.
Her mom is too much!
my point exactly! so true!
Fingers crossed for that prediction at the end. 🤞❤
It’s even a more red flag 🚩 that Jezzy was so quick to publicly divorce her blind sided her. They definitely could have went to counseling. I’m sure if Jeanie knew he wanted out these reason she would have worked harder and compromised. Looks like Jezzy is a runner and if she takes him back she gonna be a on egg shells and become a people pleaser! You do not blast a divorce on your spouse humiliating her! He simply doesn’t want to be married … let him go
Why did you gulp like that at 9:40😂😂😂
That's why ppl make asses of themselves making assumptions about these people in these relationships! Always projecting the worse...and wanting someone to be a monster!
Regardless of the reason - the outcome is still the same.
Imagine chilling w your girl and her mum barges in the room at their grown age 🤣🤣🤣
this makes me think he's probably stressed these things to her before and gave his reasonings. he IS a rapper that used to sell drugs etc so I definitely understand wanting to be low-key. 4-5 small things can quickly add up, especially with her family in her ear. hopefully they can get through it
My first thought was exactly this, when it was reported that she contested the marriage. I was actually surprised to hear the alleged allegations. Of course I had no idea what the reason for the filing was, but I thought that she simply was making the statement, ‘No, I love you and 2 years into a marriage is just the warm up. I am not ready to toss in the towel and willing to fight. This can be worked out.’ Perhaps, he like me, is just not designed to be married. It requires too much commitment and responsibility . I have never met anyone that I wants that close to me.
She can fight all she want Jeezy already said he don’t want the marriage no more💯
The brother and mother living with them is a complete RED FLAG. I can totally understand his wanting to exit for cultural differences, within the black community we dont play the "all the inlaws under one roof" game, thats something far more prevalent in Asian communities. I can imagine he felt like a guest or outsider in his own home and as a man thats the one place where you're supposed to have the most peace.
He was supposed to know all of this stuff about her culture BEFORE he started getting serious with her.
You've got to know when to hold 'em
Know when to fold 'em
Know when to walk away
And know when to run
You never count your money
When you're sittin' at the table
There'll be time enough for countin'
When the dealin's done
-Kenny Rogers
Why did i sing this??! 😂
When Kempire said, “her black man” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
If it really is just these things, then they can compromise on these issues. Each person chooses which one is more important to them and find what works. The mother and brother could just get a place close by. I hope they can work through it if they really love each other.
I just love you because you speak with sense ❤❤❤
No new information 🤷🏽♀️ How many times can the same information be reported in different ways? 🤔
I see you Kempire giving us Frankie Beverly vibes with the all white 😂😂😂
It ain’t much of a fight if you the only one in it. He already made his declaration on IG about moving toward the future without whomever (i.e. her). So let him go. Let him miss you and ask for reconciliation if it’s to happen.
It’s the swallow at the end😂😂😂
Unless there’s a financial or medical reason for extended family moving in, she should pay rent or buy her mom and brother a house/condo.
🎯💯 That's a mess! Now the brother has supposedly moved in sheesh! Sounds like taking advantage to me whew! 😖
9:39 🤣🤣🤣🤣 not the black meat 🤣🤣
Go get your man Jeannie! I’m rooting for y’all. Hope they can work it out. I knew she was going to fight for her family ❤
Me too!
She need to let him
Go hes childish
Or she can find another white man that’s what she prefers oops 😬
He being a man of the household. He put him foot down🖤
I really like what Kempire said, it would be nice if they could work through it, but you can't force what someone doesn't want. In my opinion Jezzy has tried to speak with her. She just thought she would get her way. Because she's use to getting it from others. Example her Ex husband
On the day my Narc left after 10 years that morning I remember him raging about me saying he didn’t wash dishes Lord knows when…….I just want to put that right there 😂😂😂😂😂
Always keep in mind when you have other family members in your household dictating your marriage it can always lead to divorce
Jeanne Mai said, "And I am telling you" lol Seriously, though, if there is love there, I wholeheartedly hope they can work it out especially with baby girl involved.