Absolutely! Its not just the outside appearance. The outside can only get a man's attention but it wont make him stay. Blending both energies is key for every day dude!!
Well said and much needed, Alfred! Although I present as masculine and assertive, I embody more traditionally feminine traits, such as being agreeable, emotionally in tune, emotionally intelligent, sincere, and open-minded. We live in a society that values 'hyper-masculinity,' especially within the Black community, and unfortunately, this has contributed to our downfall in many areas of life, particularly in relationships. As a community of queer people of color, we need to embrace our authentic selves and become comfortable with who we are. Only then can we truly be comfortable with others in relationships."
As a someone who is coming into themselves being both gay and non-binary I try to embody both masculinity and femininity to where I just end up trying to be androgynous in the end and I really like this channel.
Another great video! Back in the day I used to walk balls and in ballroom, we had a label we’d say “In between” and I resonate with what you were saying about, displaying both masculine and feminine energy, I myself am very “in between” and all of my partners I encouraged them to be as well! It just makes for the perfect blend! 🫶🏾
Great video and 1000% true. I absolutely love your channel. It’s great to hear from another gay man who is married in a long-term committed relationship.
btu i feel like if someone is equally masculine with feminine energy that neutralizes attraction with partners .....i feel like one should be greater than the other to create polarity ......
I didn't get the 'looking' example, went right over my head. They were both smiley and 'cutsie' the 'more masculine' guy was more intune with his emotions, more flexable, more agreeable throughout the series...so...I'm not sure I get it.
in my opinion as long as one is not forcing a idea, agenda or themselves on another than the energy is all good. Feminine or Masculine as you are comfortable with yourself who cares what others think.There is plenty of d.... to go around.
@@TheAlfredPlatform gotcha i feel no one should be afraid of their feminine side we both come from a man and women and have both qualities it is a good thing to combine those qualities i always show love to anyone who is true to themselves.be who you are .thanks for clearing that up for me on the video.
Lots of people view femininity as the antithesis to masculinity but is is complimentary
I like how you focused on internal feminie characteristics in men vs the outward appearance of the man.
Absolutely! Its not just the outside appearance. The outside can only get a man's attention but it wont make him stay. Blending both energies is key for every day dude!!
Well said and much needed, Alfred! Although I present as masculine and assertive, I embody more traditionally feminine traits, such as being agreeable, emotionally in tune, emotionally intelligent, sincere, and open-minded. We live in a society that values 'hyper-masculinity,' especially within the Black community, and unfortunately, this has contributed to our downfall in many areas of life, particularly in relationships. As a community of queer people of color, we need to embrace our authentic selves and become comfortable with who we are. Only then can we truly be comfortable with others in relationships."
@WrestlingSuperstar83 yes, dudes like us are the real VIPs in the queer community ❤️🐺🐺
@@TheAlfredPlatform Agreed 💯
Easy. DGAF about other people’s opinions.
CONGRATULATION'S on your 5k+🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
Love this content, very well said💙💙💙
As a someone who is coming into themselves being both gay and non-binary I try to embody both masculinity and femininity to where I just end up trying to be androgynous in the end and I really like this channel.
This is such a great topic!
Another great video! Back in the day I used to walk balls and in ballroom, we had a label we’d say “In between” and I resonate with what you were saying about, displaying both masculine and feminine energy, I myself am very “in between” and all of my partners I encouraged them to be as well! It just makes for the perfect blend! 🫶🏾
This was very well said.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Great video and 1000% true. I absolutely love your channel. It’s great to hear from another gay man who is married in a long-term committed relationship.
TALK ABOUT IT MAN
Well said! I’m a country masculine gay guy! I have cerebral palsy I use a walker and wheelchair, I look like a str8 but I’m gay
aww thank you for the time and effort to say this
Patrick is on a set handling that train bar with bare hands.
Finally I feel seen ...I'm masculine presenting but my energy is very feminine by nature
11:20 I perfectly remember this scene 😂. Probably the best scene of the show. And I was in love with the Latino actor. 😂
Me too. Raul Castillo is mine lol.
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Thank you 🌹🐞🧝🏾♀️
btu i feel like if someone is equally masculine with feminine energy that neutralizes attraction with partners .....i feel like one should be greater than the other to create polarity ......
I didn't get the 'looking' example, went right over my head. They were both smiley and 'cutsie' the 'more masculine' guy was more intune with his emotions, more flexable, more agreeable throughout the series...so...I'm not sure I get it.
in my opinion as long as one is not forcing a idea, agenda or themselves on another than the energy is all good. Feminine or Masculine as you are comfortable with yourself who cares what others think.There is plenty of d.... to go around.
@williamdenton-qd3sn 😂🤣 right but this video was about showing love to the men who aren't afraid of their feminine side.
@@TheAlfredPlatform gotcha i feel no one should be afraid of their feminine side we both come from a man and women and have both qualities it is a good thing to combine those qualities i always show love to anyone who is true to themselves.be who you are .thanks for clearing that up for me on the video.
Who was the guy in the thumbnail 🧐