I Never Asked to be your Mountain

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  • @ginawhoever9734
    @ginawhoever9734 9 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    man, i cant stop from crying... just understanding that he understood that he was singing a song his own father wrote, about *him* still unborn... how he held it together i do not know... i did read that he burst into tears as soon as he left the stage... i can only imagine. *Seraph* not to mention that from the beginning here, the foreshadowing of water taking him, drowning, etc... that went on his whole career... tears and chills.

    • @lillabognar1320
      @lillabognar1320 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      n/a n/a I think he wrote it after Jeff was born. This was released on Goodbye and Hello from 1967

    • @ginawhoever9734
      @ginawhoever9734 9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lilla Bognár ah. okay, thank you for the corrected timeline. though, it isn't stopping the tears... he was still singing/covering a song that his own father wrote about his feelings towards *him* and his mother, i think in the only way that Tim knew how to express those feelings... and i just cant even grasp what it must have been like to play that song and sing his father's feelings about himself...

    • @pepitomicolazon9649
      @pepitomicolazon9649 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      n/a n/a Actually, could you please explain to me a bit more about those feelings expressed through the song? I'm French, and although I can understand the words, I can't quite get to the meaning behind it all... I feel very drawn to the "spooky" connection between Tim and Jeff, and would love to understand it more...(the song that most talks to me about it is Dream Letter, which is straightforward enough that I can understand...but this one is too complex for me to grasp, so a little help - if possible - would be oh so appreciated :) )

    • @ginawhoever9734
      @ginawhoever9734 9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Pepito Micolazon well, i am no expert... but what i understand is, that Tim and Jeff's mother dated a while, and she became pregnant, unexpectedly... Tim was trying at a music career... and made a choice to leave Jeff's mother and try and pursue it... in this song i think he is trying to say, "i never asked to be a father, or your husband and shoulder all of this responsibility..." and he didn't... then he starts to talk about Jeff after he had been born and was now a bit older, and how his mother would speak to him of how much of a scoundrel his father was, and how he felt Jeff was then, even at a young age forced to help support and comfort her, when he never asked for that kind of responsibility either....he was the product of it! kind of like, Tim was saying to the mother, neither of us ever asked to be your 'mountain' of support and comfort... and seems to put a sort of unfair spin on it. though, Tim DID get her pregnant... and that DOES take TWO. but he denies that he ever intended it to become so serious. and then when Jeff was still young, he felt it was unfair that he imagined the mother leaning on Jeff for support and comfort, especially when he REALLY had no voice or choice in the matter... i could be missing something here, or left something out... anyone else who can describe it better, please do...

    • @lanabanana68
      @lanabanana68 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +n/a n/a i hear ya man,so profound....knowing how poignant the lyrics were...Tim dying at 28,Jeff at 30....tangled and sad parent/child relationships..it is making me think of my own struggles in this area,and i feel a bit teary too.

  • @111610310925
    @111610310925 14 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Just found Jeff Buckley, fabulous.

    • @williamvonschenk2273
      @williamvonschenk2273 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ironically, this is where the music powerbrokers of the world found him.

    • @sarahssentongo2587
      @sarahssentongo2587 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish I could discover him for the first time again

  • @garylucas5558
    @garylucas5558 8 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Jeff Buckley--voice, acoustic guitar
    Gary Lucas--slide space guitar
    Cheryl Hardwick--piano
    Hank Roberts--cello
    Greg Cohen--acoustic bass
    GE Smith--guitar
    Live at St Ann's Church Brooklyn, "Greetings from Tim Buckley" tribute concert 4/26/91
    Produced by Hal Willner

    • @amabille16
      @amabille16  8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you!!! :)

    • @garylucas5558
      @garylucas5558 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      you are welcome :-)

    • @nurseaylla
      @nurseaylla 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gary!! 🤘 Thank you 💜

    • @robinsmith1091
      @robinsmith1091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You guys did an amazing rendition I have chills Gary Lucas! Beautiful performance!

  • @Blade-Thing
    @Blade-Thing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    He elevated that song past his own father's conception.

    • @scottdavison1420
      @scottdavison1420 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No cover will ever transcend the original.

    • @ArchingScarab
      @ArchingScarab 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I disagree, Tim had his own genius in performing this song that Jeff's rendition doesn't compare to. Although Jeff's performance is remarkable in its own way because of the tragic, heartbreaking backstory and the fact that he's taking his father's place in singing it.

  • @patriciagennarivieira8716
    @patriciagennarivieira8716 10 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    love you Jeff,you belong to the stars,you r a contellation of love,devotion,surrender!!!
    God bless you!!!!!

  • @katherinaJee55
    @katherinaJee55 8 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    "tears are falling down my face and your the reason why"

  • @kapesongs6733
    @kapesongs6733 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is really touching. Jeff was the only depositary of what I think is the most beautiful voice ever

  • @janetclaireSays
    @janetclaireSays 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    More than his father deserved but that doesn't matter, what matters is that he did it for closure. I hope he got it. He sure did the song justice!

    • @wildviolet3973
      @wildviolet3973 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      But Tim sang it better. And he wrote this song.

    • @skylerheumann5506
      @skylerheumann5506 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@wildviolet3973but he was a shitty dad who abandoned his wife and child

  • @robinsmith1091
    @robinsmith1091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It was actually on Tim Buckley Goodbye & Hello which is his 2nd Album after the Self Titled. Very beautiful performance I am glad to hear it!

  • @marcusteblano6376
    @marcusteblano6376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    One of Jeff's best performances ever and even better than Tim's performance of this song on Goodbye and Hello.

    • @wildviolet3973
      @wildviolet3973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I respect Jeff, but Tim's original version is way better.

    • @ArchingScarab
      @ArchingScarab 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      omg no way. Tim has WAY more power in his voice. Agree with the above comment.

  • @vxv89
    @vxv89 12 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Gary Lucas and his book "Touched by Grace" sent me here.

    • @marcusteblano6376
      @marcusteblano6376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      See also: Dream Brother - The Lives and Music of Jeff and Tim Buckley by David Browne. He chronicles the parallels between their two lives; great book.

  • @Laura......
    @Laura...... 7 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Singing a song about yourself as a child being abandoned (as he was) from your father is pretty brave. Jeff you are/we're worth more than that. I'm not in judgement of Tim. But to perform the way he did must have been difficult.

    • @deanvo503
      @deanvo503 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tim was such an asshole.

    • @josephmarshall6599
      @josephmarshall6599 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@deanvo503 Oh you knew him personally?

    • @adonaiyah2196
      @adonaiyah2196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@josephmarshall6599 yeah i Don't like it when people bash tim he did what he thought was right in the moment

    • @npatt6362
      @npatt6362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tim didn’t write this song about Jeff, and Jeff knew that.
      Stop virtue searching.

    • @Laura......
      @Laura...... 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@npatt6362 "it was about him having to take the gypsy life over a regular one. I’m mentioned in the song, as is his girlfriend at the time - my mom. It’s a beautiful song. I both admired it and hated it, so that’s what I sang. There are all of these expectations that come with this “‘60s offspring” bullshit, but I can’t tell you how little he had to do with my music."
      Quote from jeff buckley

  • @jay_boct-r
    @jay_boct-r 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The song appeared in Tim's second album; Goodbye And Hello - 1967 (Jeff was born in 1966).

  • @Lieu3C4
    @Lieu3C4 13 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1:04 To be told what a song, or any other work of art, is about, beyond inspiration is.

  • @fireflyqueen6
    @fireflyqueen6 15 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you also. i had a copy of this, and lost it. really appreciate the chance to listen to it again.

  • @Blade-Thing
    @Blade-Thing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This song should be in a the next crow movie.

  • @ladyfuschia
    @ladyfuschia 13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pretty trippy!!

  • @markfogarty1954
    @markfogarty1954 10 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It is not from "Tim Buckley," Buckley's first album. It is from his second album, "Goodbye and Hello."

    • @lanabanana68
      @lanabanana68 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +markfogarty1954 correct.

  • @Blade-Thing
    @Blade-Thing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As a bastard myself i can really relate to this song.

    • @VegaVelecka
      @VegaVelecka 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      excuse me?

    • @MissJensk1
      @MissJensk1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's a horrible term & no child should be referred to that way. But if you mean it in the sense it is used generally, ie, unmarried parents, TB & Jeff's mother WERE married.

    • @singtweetypie
      @singtweetypie 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jeff's parents were married. Tim falsely believed his girlfriend was pregnant and they were married on October 25, 1965, when he was just 18. Jeff Buckley was not born until Nov 17, 1966 - but Tim was gone by then.

    • @ArchingScarab
      @ArchingScarab 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jeff "technically" wasn't a bastard child, his parents were married when he was conceived and born. But he was abandoned 100 percent by his father even before his birth. So for all intents and purposes he was treated like a bastard child, yes.

  • @marcusteblano6376
    @marcusteblano6376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The titles at the beginning seem to suggest that Tim didn't want Jeff at his funeral, which is unlikely. The second wife wouldn't have thought of including Jeff as he had not really been in Tim's life, and it may be that her son didn't even know about Jeff. Jeff was not even mentioned in the obituaries. Sounds like the second wife wanted it that way. Tim and Jeff's mother were divorced about a month before Jeff was born.

  • @lunarmystic9896
    @lunarmystic9896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sounds like Geddy Lee ...Rush

    • @Kaagrant
      @Kaagrant 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good observation. He does sound like Geddy Lee. Completely different styles, but similar vocal qualities.

    • @lunarmystic9896
      @lunarmystic9896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Kaagrant cool !

    • @Kaagrant
      @Kaagrant 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lunarmystic9896 Yeah, I thought so too : )

    • @lunarmystic9896
      @lunarmystic9896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He was the boss

  • @titonosfe
    @titonosfe 13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This song is from the second album of Tim, Godbye and Hello, not from the self-titled debut.

  • @ArchingScarab
    @ArchingScarab 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just a quick correction to your intro - he was only 24 when he performed at this concert. He was born in November of '66 and this concert occurred in April of '91.

  • @xxwantedxx
    @xxwantedxx 14 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @lassixjune its sort of sounds like a representation of his death :(

  • @corimacnaughton6164
    @corimacnaughton6164 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks so much - I've been wanting to hear this ever since I found out about the tribute concert for his dad. Nice that both this and "Once I Was," covered by Jeff, have been posted here.
    There was a third song of his father's that he performed at the tribute - any idea where I might find that? I'd like to hear that as well.
    Thanks again!

    • @johnarundell7951
      @johnarundell7951 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I just read that there were actually two others or maybe he just played guitar on one and sang on one? They were Sefronia and Phantasmagoria, which coincidentally must be two of the greatest and most beautiful song titles ever :) try flowersintime.org for info on where you might be able to download them or get mp3 files somehow.

    • @johnwright2911
      @johnwright2911 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@johnarundell7951 4 in total.

  • @scottdavison1420
    @scottdavison1420 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Like him, but Jeff couldn't match Tim's voice.... and then, there are Tim's songs......

    • @ArchingScarab
      @ArchingScarab 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yeah, Jeff had a great voice but it wasn't as effortless as Tim's. And Jeff really struggled to write songs. A LOT of the songs on Grace were covers. And when he was working on his second album, he got really tormented because he wasn't happy with those songs and they weren't coming along. That's part of why (some people theorize anyways), he was emotionally distraught during his time in Memphis, and his mind went around the bend a bit and caused him to jump in a river at 9pm fully clothed.