Rule# 3 never buy a house and lot, only rent, 99% of the Filipina ladies who are looking for a foreigner has kids, uneducated, poor, desperate, hungry, only a fool and his money will jump into the old worn out Tush. I'm an expat and I stay single, I have a lady friend whom I text when I need love, I pay her and she's goes home, I have saved a ton of money here, in July 2024 going back to the USA and buy a new truck cash money, rent a Nice apartment, I have no bills, but the Philippines is not a good place to retire, too much B.S. gossip, you take the lady you take her family.
yes you do, you want her to live a delusional world of ''entitlements'' that you say a word or sentence to keep alive while you live in ease still paying for evertying jsut not putting any effort into the seduction, let poverty and god take care of that, without those none of you guys would have any mates when you landed, the college educated middle class phil women are not going to date any of us unless your or i could get them back home, the only thing avail is poverty girls guys, it comes with what it always comes with a yyoung girl who thinks she has divine pretty priveledge in life, aka a copper digger gold digger under the guise of cult.
1. "I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up alone, it's not... the worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone". - Robin Williams. 2. "Sometimes it's not the people who change, it's the mask that falls off." - Haruki Murakami
I'm 63 and my wife from Cebu is 52. Married close to 12 years. Age appropriate is key as is spouse coming from a good family. My wife was working for the government when I met her. Healthcare screener for poor people. Has a degree and speaks 4 languages. I don't have a degree and speak Texan. I was an industrialist and retired (well) after selling my factory 2 years ago. It's the same all over the world: think with your big head;not the little one.
Brent you are right. I waited but dated for a year before I allowed my Pinay to come visit me for two months. I chatted with many Filipinas, wealthy, broke, educated, older, younger, abroad, or right down the road until I found what works for me. I accepted the one that would inspire me to workout life kinks with her as they will happen no one is gonna be perfect ✌🏾
Some people are more comfortable on their own im also one of those people. Living on your own and being lonely isn't the same thing. I have heard numerous stories over the years guy's meeting a girl then building a house within a few months then ending up with nothing loneliness can make people do crazy things. Good video thanks for sharing 👍
I completely agree with you. Good for you to have standards and not lower them just because any young Filipina comes along and smiles at you. My plan when I relocate from Japan to the Philippines is not to date for at least 6 months to a year plus. I sure am not going to date anyone just to be with someone. I am a bit concerned if what you say is true that about 50% of the single available women are in their early-mid 20s. I’m more interested in meeting a woman with more life experience I can relate to. I’m in my early 60s now and am healthy and fit.
Good Vid Brent! Keep firing strait......Some folks can't handle the Truth here because it interferes with their Daydreams but I think You are spot on with your commentary
Been visiting the pi since 08 Definitely the TY vloggers are either super positive or really negative With 7500 islands assuming you enjoy the Philippines, there is something for everyone, and things nobody wants. Best way is do what you want, middle ground. Look at both the pros and cons and how they relate to where you are in your life. The noise kinda bugs me, but a recent trip to the mountains in the province, 20 minutes from a decent coffee shop and beach was refreshing and very appealing, but hey, that's just me Love the pi
You guys move to the Phillipines thinking your gonna hook up with some hot young little Phillipino thats going to wait on you then you get mad when you get conned. Grow up!
You are. Dry right to take your time and get to know the woman you might want to spend your life with. If you don’t, you will still be lonely and miserable because you have made a fool of. I learned the golden rule while in the Military! You never think a girl from the bar, will ever be the one that will be a good wife or someone Momma would approve of. I would never Date any woman under 45, as they start to be more fully mature and that’s my opinion. I am not saying it works for others, but my opinion. Yes, a vast majority of those Women have had kids, and been married, but many have lost there husbands, and the kids are out on there own, or close to it.😊
Spot on the start of any relationship in the philippines with an age gap is transactional. I' understand that a lot of these wemon tell them self, I can learn to love this man ! I'm sure it works out sometimes ❤❤❤. . Take your time!! There is no advantage to a retired man over here to get married!!! Best of luck and there is a nouther Filipina out there if she is in a rush.
Brent, mike, I'm 68 retired carpenter. Thinking about moving to Philippines. I would like to talk with you brother. You have email address we can chat. You keep it real. Thanks Mike
Ground Zero is a place where expats go to and gossip, I don't go there I'm Hispanic male went inside to buy breakfast and saw a few white expats looking at me, starring more than usual, i didn't like that, my advise do not interatc with some foreigners, many Filipina ladies come to Dumaguete seeking a foreigner, many have kids, they're desperate, once you move her in thats when the headaches starts, her family will treat you like a walking ATM, I'm retired but I'm not gonna throw my money away.
The ones that go on and on about "western women" and how they're all effed up and they've been divorced and lost it all twice and blame western culture crack me up.
there are too many foreigners in the philippines now, its changing everything, the prices are going up beyond regular inflation and the atmosphere is changing. they dont give out 6 month extensions on toursit visas any longer only 2 because so many people come here and vlog and youtube and make income from it while its illegal to do on a tourist visa, they need a work visa. its ruining things for those who have been here with family for a long time. if i was to retire today i wouldnt do it here, i would try cambodia or laos.
thats so crazy but so rational of advice, well said esp the cctv camera, always film your trist not for perversion but to avoid modern vindictive women with no more girl power left to them in the modern world but... .... .... .... .. dont give up your birth rights, dont give up your advantages, dont play stupid.
There’s a line in a song that “you can’t make a wife out of a ho”. Rings true everywhere all the time, with maybe 1 in a million exception. No gambling man would play those odds no matter how reckless.
I think I heard you say domething like: you wouldnt do that at home, why would you do that in The Phils. Well, would you date a 30 year old woman in your own country? Thats still uoung if youre around 50 let alone 60+.
I lived in Dumaguete for 4 years and Im "badmouthing" the place like crazy. There hundreds of better places than Duma. BTW I agree with everything you said ..good vid.
Hey Brent, Can you share contact information of your apartment there in Valincia? I think I would like to stay there when I finaly come over there. Thanks, Rob
I got one for you .. why would you pay somebody who has only been here a few years a consultant fee for advise.. batcrap crazy in my estimation. I got 20 yrs here and still learning everyday.. only your experiences will smarten you up not somebody elses .. try to figure out your own path rather than subsidise someone elses retirement plan. imo there are enough vloggers free info to get you started .. after that it is trial and error with alot of patience.
I agree that taking your time is the best way to approach relationships. I spent two years corresponding with my intended (before iPhones) and because we knew what each of us wanted, we are still together today.
Great video. Just because the culture and legal system here in the Philippines aren't misandrist like the West, doesn't mean a man should throw out common sense and due diligence.
I visited a few times prior to living in the Philippines 2015 - 2022. I think there are few things to consider. I would say almost all the guys that hook up in the Philippines are hooking up with filipinas that have children. I really don't think anyone needs to get on a plane to meet single moms. Yes, beauty is objective. In the time I lived there, I didn't meet any attractive filipina without children that was interested in foreigners. Are they out there? Yes, although not interested in foreigners of any age. Rush in? Well, if you meet an attractive filipina (you are convinced with her looks) no children, not separated, not a midget (less than 5 feet tall), and things go well in the bedroom, get married right away. It seems you are dating the single moms or maybe midgets or you are not convinced with her looks.
young attractive pinays w/o children have hordes of pinoys courting them (especially the upper class ones). they have a wide selection and plenty of options...they dont need nor want a foreigner in their life. only the poor ones that have kids in tow start to look at foreigners for their beta si-mp provider plan, (incl extended family provider plan too for the real clueless suckers) and eventual retirement plan.
Everyone is different. If you have already figured a lot out then I would not wate time trying educate others and repeatedly apologize for your statements. I just try to roll with like minded people that I meet and let everyone else find their own way and make their own mistakes to learn from. Heck I agree with most of your messages. I just know most of my education came from trial and error. I strive to be kind and understanding. When I screw up I try to own it and make amends to anyone that i may have accidentally hurt peace. ✌️
Good words Brent, yes when you come with a plan stick to the plan. I am 67 been in the Philippines for over a month now, 2nd trip, and met a 50 year old beautiful lady who now says she loves me after two weeks being together, 2 weeks. The good thing is she has her own house and car and a good job as a professor. My plan is still in place to spend time checking out as many islands as i can. I have been to Dumaguete and Cebu. As you say take your time, good video sir as always.
I don’t think Asians get the ‘me time’ as they grow up with big families in small houses. If you are living in 🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭 full time what’s the rush with marriage. I got married so my Filipina could settle in uk we had been together over 6 years but I wasn’t fussed about marriage at all. So getting engaged after months is insane.
This is largely beta/simp thinking. Transactional can also mean fair exchange, or a mutually beneficial partnership. To settle for anything else is devaluing yourself.
Hi Brent I enjoy watching your videos and your opinions I am planning on making a three week trip there next year to see how it is I am almost certain I will be retiring there but want to take a couple vacations there first I still have a couple three years before I can actually retire 56 at the moment and plan on early retirement at 59 1/2 but the more I research the more I am interested anyways thank you for the videos and will be looking forward to seeing more.
There doesnt seem to be slow western style dating in the Philipines. Its either pay for play OR a girl is husband hunting and the relationship is hyperspeed. Western men can easily get swept up in the fast way women operate there.
Im with a 39 yr old Filipina who works at a call center, walking distance from my condo. Transactional? No. She is independent financially and insists on being so. I keep my fridge full, she keeps my tummy full and is insatiable. Her job makes us overlap less than half the day. She is gone from 8pm to 7am, and then sleeping till 3pm, 5 days a week. Live is very easy and peaceful with her. 😊
Hwy Brent how's it going buddy? hey man I'm trying to plan my move to the Philippines and I was wondering if there an email or number where I can reach you if you could give me the apartments where you live their phone or the ones you where just talking about yesterday at the restaurant, or Shangri la any phone numbers or help me with buddy, i swear I m subscribed and watch all your posts.. thanks man...
Latino apartments. The number is in the picture in the video. ( bottom) I found the apartment Im in now on air bnb. Al’s the Shangri La place too. Hope this helps. Nb_Peeler@yahoo.com
Don't worry about expat BS.. just do you brother! Ol Cal over at sunshine shoulders is one of the few vloggers on here that don't pander to the algorithm.. keep doing you man.
Calvin is full of it , he flip flops on opinions and calls anyone who disagrees with him is a hater . He is a short , bald , angry , toothless angry black man
This is how not to get scammed 1. Don’t be Desperate 2. NEVER start communication until you’re ass is in in the country, what’s the rush to be someone’s family bank 3. Respect your money, the money you worked your ass off all your life so that you can retire and enjoy life 4. Even $20, $30 $40 whatever bucks if you start sending money before meeting them, they know they have you. You are now what we call a sucker. 5. Learn from all the guys from the Philippines that got scammed they all show it on their videos smarten up men this is your brain talking you are the one in control. You’re the one with the money. 6. Don’t be an idiot and have them move in with you within three months or even a year. Would you do that back home? Hell no 7. Enjoy your retirement that’s what you worked your ass off your whole life for don’t make the women the focus of your retirement or else you’re gonna go miserable or insane. 8. Make sure when you call a Third World country your home for the rest of your life that you know what you’re doing. Enjoy Retirement Healthy and wisely
I don't like the videos you been doing bud go back to your videos everyone loves these videos make you seem moody and everything we want to see you in the pool and talking bout having a good forget all this bad romance crap we want the real version of you back we want to see you travel talking about traveling meeting people you have been in the same place way to long bud time to pick new destination this part of the philippines is destroying your energy we love seeing
Rule#1 Don't get married. Rule #2, see rule #1
It should read, rule #2 - first learn rule #1.
Dudes are hungry😂!
. And thirsty
Rule# 3 never buy a house and lot, only rent, 99% of the Filipina ladies who are looking for a foreigner has kids, uneducated, poor, desperate, hungry, only a fool and his money will jump into the old worn out Tush. I'm an expat and I stay single, I have a lady friend whom I text when I need love, I pay her and she's goes home, I have saved a ton of money here, in July 2024 going back to the USA and buy a new truck cash money, rent a Nice apartment, I have no bills, but the Philippines is not a good place to retire, too much B.S. gossip, you take the lady you take her family.
Trust in God not man. Biblical marriage is best.
I sure as hell don't want to meet a twenty something gal who wants kids. At 65 years old when I arrive?? Just not going to happen 😅
Get fixed. It's quick, easy, and PRICELESS!😂😂😂😂
Get fixed. It's quick, easy, and PRICELESS.😂😂😂😂
yes you do, you want her to live a delusional world of ''entitlements'' that you say a word or sentence to keep alive while you live in ease still paying for evertying jsut not putting any effort into the seduction, let poverty and god take care of that, without those none of you guys would have any mates when you landed, the college educated middle class phil women are not going to date any of us unless your or i could get them back home, the only thing avail is poverty girls guys, it comes with what it always comes with a yyoung girl who thinks she has divine pretty priveledge in life, aka a copper digger gold digger under the guise of cult.
I'm 67 and the Filippinas don't call me "woody" for nuthin".
@@MrTomherzog keep up the good work brother
Brother, you’re definitely spot on and speaking the truth…
1. "I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up alone, it's not... the worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone". - Robin Williams. 2. "Sometimes it's not the people who change, it's the mask that falls off." - Haruki Murakami
I'm 63 and my wife from Cebu is 52. Married close to 12 years. Age appropriate is key as is spouse coming from a good family. My wife was working for the government when I met her. Healthcare screener for poor people. Has a degree and speaks 4 languages. I don't have a degree and speak Texan. I was an industrialist and retired (well) after selling my factory 2 years ago. It's the same all over the world: think with your big head;not the little one.
Great advice, "JUST TAKE YOUR TIME!!!!"
Brent you are right. I waited but dated for a year before I allowed my Pinay to come visit me for two months. I chatted with many Filipinas, wealthy, broke, educated, older, younger, abroad, or right down the road until I found what works for me. I accepted the one that would inspire me to workout life kinks with her as they will happen no one is gonna be perfect ✌🏾
Two reasons to move them in early; More bang for the buck and you don't have to share. 😀
When the exxpat goes home for a month your expat friend will be banging the tush, just wait yoru turn.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes, but very difficult to move them out when you get tired of them.
nope, less bang for your buck, women ovulate one day a month.
@@DH-wr7rw yeah what is he supposed to do in 12 days from now when he's bored with her hillbilly life.
Some people are more comfortable on their own im also one of those people.
Living on your own and being lonely isn't the same thing.
I have heard numerous stories over the years guy's meeting a girl then building a house within a few months then ending up with nothing loneliness can make people do crazy things.
Good video thanks for sharing 👍
Every relationship is transactional this day and time, It is sometimes a cheaper transaction in Asia
But those intercontinental flights and hotel rooms aren't.
I completely agree with you. Good for you to have standards and not lower them just because any young Filipina comes along and smiles at you. My plan when I relocate from Japan to the Philippines is not to date for at least 6 months to a year plus. I sure am not going to date anyone just to be with someone. I am a bit concerned if what you say is true that about 50% of the single available women are in their early-mid 20s. I’m more interested in meeting a woman with more life experience I can relate to. I’m in my early 60s now and am healthy and fit.
The older women are here and available but it seems they’re harder to find because the younger ones take up most of the jobs.
@@brentstrippin8867 Have you discovered any ways to meet some older women 30s~50s?
Your right about that, do what you want and enjoy the time you have.
MY EX LEFT ME FOR A 20 YEAR OLD AT OUR 66 YEARS, , MARRIED AN PROSTITUTE HE MET THERE FOR REAL SICK
Definitely Important points. Your standards are your strengths.
Good Vid Brent! Keep firing strait......Some folks can't handle the Truth here because it interferes with their Daydreams but I think You are spot on with your commentary
Don’t forget their numerous TH-camrs who make money promoting that area and really just sugar coat everything
Been visiting the pi since 08
Definitely the TY vloggers are either super positive or really negative
With 7500 islands assuming you enjoy the Philippines, there is something for everyone, and things nobody wants. Best way is do what you want, middle ground. Look at both the pros and cons and how they relate to where you are in your life.
The noise kinda bugs me, but a recent trip to the mountains in the province, 20 minutes from a decent coffee shop and beach was refreshing and very appealing, but hey, that's just me
Love the pi
So refreshing to watch someone who gets it, i 100% agree finally someone intelligent
you are completely right brent.keep to your own standards and take your time.tc bud.from the uk👍
You guys move to the Phillipines thinking your gonna hook up with some hot young little Phillipino thats going to wait on you then you get mad when you get conned. Grow up!
Over the years. It's gotten worse
Thank you, I am in a similar position. Good to hear, other think as I do. 👍
You are. Dry right to take your time and get to know the woman you might want to spend your life with. If you don’t, you will still be lonely and miserable because you have made a fool of. I learned the golden rule while in the Military! You never think a girl from the bar, will ever be the one that will be a good wife or someone Momma would approve of. I would never Date any woman under 45, as they start to be more fully mature and that’s my opinion. I am not saying it works for others, but my opinion. Yes, a vast majority of those Women have had kids, and been married, but many have lost there husbands, and the kids are out on there own, or close to it.😊
Loneliness makes men do some strange things.
You lost your damn mind 😢😢😢😢😢😂😂
Brent, the complaining man.
Uknow I follow and comment on you channel simple because I'm following your journeys and insights as you see them ,thanks for another great video
Thank you
Spot on the start of any relationship in the philippines with an age gap is transactional. I' understand that a lot of these wemon tell them self, I can learn to love this man ! I'm sure it works out sometimes ❤❤❤. . Take your time!! There is no advantage to a retired man over here to get married!!! Best of luck and there is a nouther Filipina out there if she is in a rush.
I appreciate your insight, thank you.🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦
Nice hat btw. They finally did it!
Brent, mike, I'm 68 retired carpenter. Thinking about moving to Philippines. I would like to talk with you brother. You have email address we can chat. You keep it real. Thanks Mike
Brent, did you ever dream there'd come a day when you'd be turning down beautiful women under 30?
How come you dont go to Ground Zero coffee shop and see what they say there 😂😂😂.
Ground Zero is a place where expats go to and gossip, I don't go there I'm Hispanic male went inside to buy breakfast and saw a few white expats looking at me, starring more than usual, i didn't like that, my advise do not interatc with some foreigners, many Filipina ladies come to Dumaguete seeking a foreigner, many have kids, they're desperate, once you move her in thats when the headaches starts, her family will treat you like a walking ATM, I'm retired but I'm not gonna throw my money away.
😂😂😂yeah I go by there taking wife to mall its like there's restrictions on who's aloud in🤣 men under65not allowed and women over 22 not allowed 😂😂
Its best to go slow I married my wife after 3.5 years Now married over 30 years.
What do you think about the women's on Christian Filipino their Christian women so have you tried them before......
THERE ARE MANY SCAMMERS ON THAT SITE.
The ones that go on and on about "western women" and how they're all effed up and they've been divorced and lost it all twice and blame western culture crack me up.
Texas really is as great as they say
there are too many foreigners in the philippines now, its changing everything, the prices are going up beyond regular inflation and the atmosphere is changing.
they dont give out 6 month extensions on toursit visas any longer only 2 because so many people come here and vlog and youtube and make income from it while its illegal to do on a tourist visa, they need a work visa. its ruining things for those who have been here with family for a long time.
if i was to retire today i wouldnt do it here, i would try cambodia or laos.
Bro people get upset because your telling the truth. Simple as that
Who cares. Just mind your god damn business.
Complain complain Complain video😢
Good common sense advice. 👍
#1 get vasectomy #2 get a vault/ safe #3 get cctv good luck guys, yes stay single
thats so crazy but so rational of advice, well said esp the cctv camera, always film your trist not for perversion but to avoid modern vindictive women with no more girl power left to them in the modern world but... .... .... .... ..
dont give up your birth rights, dont give up your advantages, dont play stupid.
Excellent advice!!!
It's about time someone tells the TRUTH about Philippine's Reality on Desperation! Great job! Continue exposing the TRUTH!!!
I like the way you think. You're honest and to the point unlike the other channels regarding the Philipines..
You got your head screwed on, Brent. Well done
Peace of mind is so important. Wise words , thanks for sharing .
There’s a line in a song that “you can’t make a wife out of a ho”. Rings true everywhere all the time, with maybe 1 in a million exception. No gambling man would play those odds no matter how reckless.
I think I heard you say domething like: you wouldnt do that at home, why would you do that in The Phils. Well, would you date a 30 year old woman in your own country? Thats still uoung if youre around 50 let alone 60+.
I disagree. He's just passing on his observations..
Excellent advice. Peace of mind is priceless!!!!!
Do you live at the dragstrip?
Stay in your house mind your own business and let the proper authorities handle things
Spot on, Happy Father’s Day to you as well. Good to hear honest opinions,
I lived in Dumaguete for 4 years and Im "badmouthing" the place like crazy. There hundreds of better places than Duma. BTW I agree with everything you said ..good vid.
the number one haters in all the world are the philipino's. badmouthing and scamming are just what love sick rats trapped in envy end up becoming.
Duma and the expats there are pure CRAP
Great Video!!
Agree, it's a buzzkill to be beaten in pool every game, 'n then they expect you to barfine 'em 🤠
Hey Brent, Can you share contact information of your apartment there in Valincia? I think I would like to stay there when I finaly come over there. Thanks, Rob
Its more like individually owed condos. No office or phone I found it on air bnb
Sound advice, Brent.
I got one for you .. why would you pay somebody who has only been here a few years a consultant fee for advise.. batcrap crazy in my estimation. I got 20 yrs here and still learning everyday.. only your experiences will smarten you up not somebody elses .. try to figure out your own path rather than subsidise someone elses retirement plan. imo there are enough vloggers free info to get you started .. after that it is trial and error with alot of patience.
I agree that taking your time is the best way to approach relationships. I spent two years corresponding with my intended (before iPhones) and because we knew what each of us wanted, we are still together today.
Dude is using his head here. New age people are different. They typically dont use theirs and dont like people who do.
Great video. Just because the culture and legal system here in the Philippines aren't misandrist like the West, doesn't mean a man should throw out common sense and due diligence.
I visited a few times prior to living in the Philippines 2015 - 2022. I think there are few things to consider. I would say almost all the guys that hook up in the Philippines are hooking up with filipinas that have children. I really don't think anyone needs to get on a plane to meet single moms. Yes, beauty is
objective. In the time I lived there, I didn't meet any attractive filipina without children that was interested in foreigners. Are they out there? Yes, although not interested in foreigners of any age. Rush in?
Well, if you meet an attractive filipina (you are convinced with her looks) no children, not separated, not a midget (less than 5 feet tall), and things go well in the bedroom, get married right away. It seems you are dating the single moms or maybe midgets or you are not convinced with her looks.
young attractive pinays w/o children have hordes of pinoys courting them (especially the upper class ones). they have a wide selection and plenty of options...they dont need nor want a foreigner in their life.
only the poor ones that have kids in tow start to look at foreigners for their beta si-mp provider plan, (incl extended family provider plan too for the real clueless suckers) and eventual retirement plan.
Everyone is different. If you have already figured a lot out then I would not wate time trying educate others and repeatedly apologize for your statements. I just try to roll with like minded people that I meet and let everyone else find their own way and make their own mistakes to learn from. Heck I agree with most of your messages. I just know most of my education came from trial and error. I strive to be kind and understanding. When I screw up I try to own it and make amends to anyone that i may have accidentally hurt peace. ✌️
Dreams happen at night ( while you're sleeping) then you wake up/ go to the CR ( same old sh!!t) .never mind I'm just being silly!!🤔 good one Brent 👍
Good video, I like your style man
The Filipina Pea has said the same thing.
Good words Brent, yes when you come with a plan stick to the plan. I am 67 been in the Philippines for over a month now, 2nd trip, and met a 50 year old beautiful lady who now says she loves me after two weeks being together, 2 weeks. The good thing is she has her own house and car and a good job as a professor. My plan is still in place to spend time checking out as many islands as i can. I have been to Dumaguete and Cebu. As you say take your time, good video sir as always.
Granny Chaser. Lol. Date younger.
It's good to hear all opinions. It's healthy. Great way to learn. Great job !
I don’t think Asians get the ‘me time’ as they grow up with big families in small houses. If you are living in 🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭 full time what’s the rush with marriage.
I got married so my Filipina could settle in uk we had been together over 6 years but I wasn’t fussed about marriage at all. So getting engaged after months is insane.
Totally agree with you, its always going to be transactional. Even if you if you meet at "good "" one it's transactional.
Anyone who thinks it's different there is disillusioned.,,if you play you pay
This is largely beta/simp thinking. Transactional can also mean fair exchange, or a mutually beneficial partnership. To settle for anything else is devaluing yourself.
Don't bring a sandwich to the buffet😂
Great unscripted raw truth. Thanks. Keep it coming.
Hi Brent I enjoy watching your videos and your opinions I am planning on making a three week trip there next year to see how it is I am almost certain I will be retiring there but want to take a couple vacations there first I still have a couple three years before I can actually retire 56 at the moment and plan on early retirement at 59 1/2 but the more I research the more I am interested anyways thank you for the videos and will be looking forward to seeing more.
You sir, are doing everything correctly. Don't let the thirsty one's bother you. keep on keeping on.
people being people
There doesnt seem to be slow western style dating in the Philipines. Its either pay for play OR a girl is husband hunting and the relationship is hyperspeed. Western men can easily get swept up in the fast way women operate there.
Amen 👍👍👍
Youre a smart man Brent Peter! Great advice, as always
Lots of haters in this channel
lol
I HEAR YA
Im with a 39 yr old Filipina who works at a call center, walking distance from my condo. Transactional? No. She is independent financially and insists on being so. I keep my fridge full, she keeps my tummy full and is insatiable. Her job makes us overlap less than half the day. She is gone from 8pm to 7am, and then sleeping till 3pm, 5 days a week. Live is very easy and peaceful with her. 😊
she's 40 she should be working, me at 50 would date her daughter and still live alone.
@@kastelvetro1491 good for you. I want a partner, and girls at 20 - 30 are too immature. Nothing to talk about with them.
Just an observation. You are one of the most uncomfortable people in front of the camera I've ever seen.
Amen brother 🙏
Wise man
Hwy Brent how's it going buddy? hey man I'm trying to plan my move to the Philippines and I was wondering if there an email or number where I can reach you if you could give me the apartments where you live their phone or the ones you where just talking about yesterday at the restaurant, or Shangri la any phone numbers or help me with buddy, i swear I m subscribed and watch all your posts.. thanks man...
Latino apartments. The number is in the picture in the video. ( bottom) I found the apartment Im in now on air bnb. Al’s the Shangri La place too. Hope this helps. Nb_Peeler@yahoo.com
The big brother we all need..
Don't worry about expat BS.. just do you brother! Ol Cal over at sunshine shoulders is one of the few vloggers on here that don't pander to the algorithm.. keep doing you man.
Calvin is full of it , he flip flops on opinions and calls anyone who disagrees with him is a hater . He is a short , bald , angry , toothless angry black man
This is how not to get scammed
1. Don’t be Desperate
2. NEVER start communication until you’re ass is in in the country, what’s the rush to be someone’s family bank
3. Respect your money, the money you worked your ass off all your life so that you can retire and enjoy life
4. Even $20, $30 $40 whatever bucks if you start sending money before meeting them, they know they have you. You are now what we call a sucker.
5. Learn from all the guys from the Philippines that got scammed they all show it on their videos smarten up men this is your brain talking you are the one in control. You’re the one with the money.
6. Don’t be an idiot and have them move in with you within three months or even a year. Would you do that back home? Hell no
7. Enjoy your retirement that’s what you worked your ass off your whole life for don’t make the women the focus of your retirement or else you’re gonna go miserable or insane.
8. Make sure when you call a Third World country your home for the rest of your life that you know what you’re doing.
Enjoy Retirement Healthy and wisely
You seem to know it all. Relationships are all about you. How is that working out?
So true.
@@dumaguetedreaming hell yeah, So many stupid guys out there being a bank no thanks call me whatever you want i'm not ruled by the P
I don't like the videos you been doing bud go back to your videos everyone loves these videos make you seem moody and everything we want to see you in the pool and talking bout having a good forget all this bad romance crap we want the real version of you back we want to see you travel talking about traveling meeting people you have been in the same place way to long bud time to pick new destination this part of the philippines is destroying your energy we love seeing
You’re correct 100% in my opinion😂