I started off believing what i was going through was limerence, but then the "dark night of the soul" started to happen... I was pushed into a spiritual path that i have never experienced before. Synchronisities as well. My twin flame wont entertain the concept at all, we still keep in touch though and have a lot of respect and admiration for one another. We're both married and have no intention of jeopardizing that, but there's definitely similarities, runner/chaser and 11 year age difference.
Thank GOD you made this video. I couldn’t tell if I was in limerance or if I had a twin flame. when I first found out my twin flame was my twin flame , I doubted for a while. I even set boundaries with my twin and became distant, and yet I still felt like maybe there was a possibility that I was in limerence🤦🏽♀️. If I were truly in limerence, I don’t think I would’ve had that much doubt & set those strong boundaries for my twin. Doubt on this journey is sooo painful. I don’t understand it. I’m at a point where I don’t care what my twin is thinking, I don’t care what he’s doing, I don’t care if we come into union, ect. I really just wanted to know if it was TRULY my twin, or was it just limerence. This confirmed a lot though because I still feel the same about my twin. My feelings are the same even when I try to resist and deny them.
THANK YOU! for making this video. A few months ago I came across a TH-cam suggested video about Limerence and honestly, was quite offended by it. It felt like sheer INSULT of the twin flame connection. I’ve often doubted and always wished and hoped that I was NOT on a TF journey, but finally I’ve come to terms with my destiny. Ego degradation is tough but I love the ascension that followed. I love this new version of myself. I have achieved quite a balance and have been in communication with my DM for more than 6 months without triggers. I still hope some day I’ll completely stop having these ‘feelings’ toward her and we will be able to hang out together as friends, like before … at least be able to see her once again, after this 2 decades of separation.
If we were never introduced to psychology what would we think? We would just go with the flow. Psychology’s problem is that it tries to put a label on everything when everyone’s experience is different. Plus their criteria for disorder is anything that distracts from the societal routine. In other words if you ain’t fitting into the Matrix you have something wrong with you. Twin flames etc all existed long before psychology and “new age” stuff, which I call colonizer “spirituality”
I definitely think I was limerant. We have a connection but I’m over trying so hard for it now. It just doesn’t feel right anymore. I’m so done with the whole TF now. If I have one il know , but I highly doubt I do. Thanks for the great explanation ❤
Im triggered. I don’t know anymore. I heard about limerence in the psychology sphere before the twin flame community. I have no idea if I’m on a twin flame journey at this point. There is requited interest… Im so lost. 😞 I want to label it so bad so that I can know how to move forward? Im just struggling right now.
I think it's great that you're aware when you're triggered and can speak outwardly and honestly on it. If you are "so lost" and it's affecting your mental equilibrium to a vast effect, please take a step back and try to stop worrying about the "proper titles" of Soul Family. It doesn't matter what this person is called or titled. I know you say you want the label so you "know how to move forward," but a label isn't going to do that for you; you shifting your mental state and Ego beliefs are what's going to do that. The situation stays the same whether you have a title or not, but it's what you decide to do with the title that differs. You can do that on your own. 🙏
Your not alone, I still wonder myself but I try not to let it destroy my mind. I would loose the term TF and in place see them as a catalyst and focus your time on getting your energy right!
(it's so damn hard not to overvalue someone when you've been lonely and alone for so damn long!) to my dear former so-called best friend, I miss you. SO MUCH!! it's almost unbearable, to watch you, discreetly, from the sidelines, as you are ALWAYS with her * my replacement * out making all of your wildest dreams come true, together, and I've been left to suffer the loss of you, and the trauma of what you both did to me... *it is truly a most bizarre characteristic of humans, that we smile when we are in pain.*
Great video. 🙏. Much needed explanation as I was one of those combing YT earlier this year for TF /Limerance content. Now I know there’s no connection. Helpful.💯🌌
I'd like to hear your opinions on divine timing and how it plays into our lives! I see that you've mentioned it a couple of times throughout some of your videos and I believe in your book, but I kinda want to hear a more in depth explanation behind how divine timing works if it's possible :)
Hi Alex, I’ve read your book and seen almost all your YT videos. I really resonate with everything you are saying about Twin Flames - and it really seems I am truly on the TF journey - and that I am not dealing with a karmic, a soulmate or an obsession. But the thing is, we met when I was 26 and I have recently turned 30. In our now 3,5 years of separation, I haven’t been able to date anyone else (I just have zero interest in other people). On a deeper level, I am really grateful for the experience and all the lessons. But on an egoic level, I cannot help but struggle with the fact that I do feel this connection on a 5D level all the time, but cannot (yet) seem to have it on the 3D level. I really want to start a relationship/family on my own, but I can’t because of this connection (I only want it with my TF). How can I best deal with this? Because just throwing this ‘dream’ or ‘desire’ away would feel like throwing myself away. 😔
I feel this comment deeply, which tells me you are very much putting your energy into it, and I want to give you an answer that will hopefully help. Unfortunately, this is something I would have told you to book a consultation with me for, but I have stopped doing them. So for now, I can say that in the next couple of months, I will have videos out on children in the Soul Family, children regarding TFs, and more on Ego Degradation. However, non-attachment is really what I would gear you towards, because until non-attachment is found, your Ego will keep itself stuck. If you haven't watched my series on my website entitled "Non-Attachment and Union," I would suggest starting there, or reading any books you already have on the subject matter
@@wearethesamenergy thank you for taking the time to write this reply. 🙏🏻 It’s true, this subject is on my mind a lot.. I will definitely have a look on your website & look more into the subject of non-attachment. Also curious about your upcoming videos about children. Thanks again! 🤞🏻✨
I researched this thoroughly - over the past 12 months 😂 - limerence does not result in a profound transformation and an alignment with your soul! TF journey - if you know you know ❤
I wonder if there is a place for limerence + TF at the same time. Since limerence is ego based, when you get on the TF train, is it not possible to start with limerence since you are going through ego degradation in the beginning? Eventually, if it doesn't lose its hold on you, then for sure it is not TF. But there are too many synchronicities for me and the growth I have experienced on this journey to not call it TF. I have had my bouts of limerence as well though. The mind can be so complicated! As someone else said, it is mind blowing how you create content, and it pops up in front of me when needed! 🙏🙏
Someone needs to create a twin flame chat room or something where we can all share our experiences and help each other! The amount of coincidences and synchronicities I experience without even looking for them are insurmountable and mathematically impossible occurrences. So I feel you and I STILL even doubt we are twin flames despite all that. 😂
@TennisLover1967 You will of course have obsession and rumination on a Twin Flame journey. But I'm trying to point out that how limerence is defined, is not present on a TF journey, but rather that obsession and rumination. I'm glad it popped up when you needed!
@@wearethesamenergy I am still confused about the dividing line between limerence and obsession. To me, there seems to be a whole litany of terms - limerence, obsession, romantic love, infatuation, rumination that have nuanced differences. For me the dividing line is if it is an experience that is aiding in your growth and wisdom, then it is not any of those terms. If it keeps you preoccupied, then it is limerence.
My TF is a katholic priest. He is obsessed with me as a musician ( from Romania), but I did'nt express my feelings. Only through music. The story goes on....
Hey Alexx, what do you think about confirming twin flame connections via numerology? people say if you share the same life path number or have the same numbers in each others birthdays but just in a different order etc. it can confirm you're twins.
To be completely honest, I do not follow numerology because it's never resonated with me. Therefore, I haven't done any personal research or questioning of Twin Flames about whether numerology is accurate for them.
@@rains5I can answer for birth charting. They aren’t linked. Birth charting is lower vibrational than twin flame so astrology has no relevance to determining a twin flame connection.
What is the difference between a twin flame runner running vs a soulmate + karmic not reciprocating? Wouldn’t both trigger a person to heal either their core lessons in self worth or self love?
I was wondering if you have a video on Twin Fls vs Trauma Bonds, or if not, could you address it at some point? I'm very curious to know your pov on that.
A CONTENT IDEA FOR YOU: Could you please make a video for us where you articulate precisely when it's the right time to mediate the runner with an invitation for the union in the 3D? Should we do this in the stage of surrender in the 5D?
I wanna give u a summary of my relationship and i hope u can tell me if u think its a twin flame. 8 years(off and on), air sign (me) earth sign(her) complete opposites(yin and yang) but we both had alot of trauma/childhood issues that pushed us apart but there was always this magnetic pull. When i look back i felt as those i was very narcissistic and she was more bpd. I had anxious-avoidant attachment style and she was more avoidant. Right before the break up it seemed as if the roles reversed. I became the calm one and vice versa for her. After the break i noticed she left a necklace on the floor that had the numbers 555 on it. Since then, a year and a half ago, i been seeing triple numbers everyday several times a day. Also 1111. I lost interest in alot of things, even the ppl i use to hang around. The breakup activated my spiritual awakening. I began meditating and i began to see visions/colors in my meditation. I researched it and it was said that it was my third eye activating. I dont find interest in sex as i did before and i know im on a healing journey as well. I focus on me and i became highly aware of my own trauma. In my heart i feel she's my twin flame but i also have my doubts too. We been in no contact for a while but i know she rides by my house from time to time and i do the same. I use to have so much anxiety from the thought of her or even when she's in my presence but it has went away and i no longer blame her for leaving. Ive forgiven her and myself for the things i did. Its still this magnetic pull but i fight it when i feel the urge to reach out. Ive had vivid dreams of her and it's like we're always on good terms as if we figured out all our problems. I once had a dream and i remember this specific date and i wrote it down. It was shocking because she stopped by on that date 🤯 i feel like im goin thru so many of the TF phases but because our relationship felt so toxic and i was so self centered, i have so many doubts but my heart still tells me she's the one(my twin flame). Can u give me your thoughts? Thank you
I talk about this in a few of my videos, and in depth in my book. You may want to watch "Signs of Twin Flame Connection (During Separation)," and some of my clair sense videos on my Empath playlist.
Content video request : why do we feel sexual attraction to other people also after meeting the twin . The sexual attraction is not strong but it comes from a place of needyness and how to over come it
You're asking a few different questions, so I will guide you to some videos: "Sexual Attraction and the Twin Flame," "Attraction to Others After Meeting the Twin," "The 3 Core Karmic Lessons"
I have read your book.. So easy to resonate with all the phrases of life.. "tried hard not to jump into twin flame chapter🤭"... One thing I still want to know.... About "maditation" "inner work" "quitting non veg" "chanting mantras" .. If I can raise my vibration only by painting... And finally after separation able to be happy without his presence.... Knowing that we are the same and trusting fully upon "Devine timing"... Still is there any "do or don't" for completion of this journey
Hi❤ get into feminine - being. Stop with The masculinity - get out The mind/searching for more knowledge. SURRENDER to NOt knowing when/ how. Stop multitasking and prioritize peace and presence. You got this🩷🙏🏻 let go to let in. It will happend. Its safe to let go. You WILL get everything dear to you by letting it go and letting it come to you freely.
There is something very dark around all this TF stuff. After 'the meeting' the falling in 'unconditional love', the synchronicities, the feeling of home etc etc, she not only rejected me but got a bit nasty, underhand and covertly mocking. Looking at the situation as a narcissist user taking advantage of a loved-up sap started to look much more believable and credible than the spurious nature of 'TF' dynamic. And still, the synchronicities and the magnetic pull into a building where I met her and time stood still and all that jazz... I start to believe that not all 'supernatural' happenings are on the side of right and light.
I have a question regarding "unity consciousness" and emotions. So I've been practicing 'being' or however you want to call it for a bit and I have been noticing a lot of heavy emotions stuck inside my chest and stomach area. From many teachings, they say you are not your mind nor your emotions, you just are. But because of that, it seems like I automatically suppress my emotions. I haven't fully released by crying or screaming in a very, very long time. Some teachers say you can't show emotions or have feelings towards your other self, but... now I barely feel anything anymore because my mind goes on autopilot and shuts it down quickly. Why do I feel stagnation inside my body? What is happening? Can you make a video explaining this and how to deal with is? If we are all that is, then emotions are part of it, right? Or do I have the wrong approach to this topic. How can I just let emotions be, release through the body and still be aware of who I really am because I haven't felt light in this body for a while now.
I will make a video at some point on emotional suppression. Yes, you should be able to experience emotions. There is a difference between detachment and non-attachment to emotions, which it sounds like you're having a hard time delineating (I've been there). You may want to read on the differences between non-attachment and detachment, or read about non-attachment in general. I have a series on my site called "Non-Attachment and Union" that talks about it. Have you done chakra cleansing? That will start to move the energy through the solar plexus and heart.
@@wearethesamenergy Thank you so much. I will get on and read the series. Regarding the chakras, I tried it a few time but I don't do it regularly anymore. I also don't know if I'm doing it 'right'. Therefore, I really really look forward to your video. I've heard that this is very different for TF and wonder what you take on it.
Hi Alex, i have just come across your channel and have been watching these videos trying to figure out what i am feeling or going through but i have been a little confused would be really helpful if you could give some advice.. i am new to this…I just dont want this person to be a limerick object to me and where its more like i was scared to tell him that i cared and wanted it because i was scared yes that he wouldnt reciprocate and yes also had intamacy issues which is maybe also why when he wanted it i wasnt moving towards him even when he was available and yes i also did plan the worst case scenario in my head with this person as i was scared he would abandon me but if this is all just another limerick obsession with a soulmate or soulmate + karmic because i was feeling these fears in the so called bubble phase and thought of it as a twin flame and if all of this means all he is is a soulmate + karmic or a karmic how do i differentiate anything now? I mean sometimes i think it is a tf and then i see this and i am like oh now what? And like all with apparent tf i do have the longing and hope that you mentioned in some stages and now idk i am just confused and lost…Its more like wanting to believe so badly that you are on a tf journey that you end up manipulating your self and i mean i am doing that while you seem so mature and others as well about this thing and they are growing while I feel absolutely stuck and too stuck to the label and if i can’t accept it as karmic cause i am scared he will never come back means its more likely that…
As I always say to people, it doesn't really matter what you label the other person as, as long as you're growing, learning, expanding. However, your Ego is definitely in a very attached state to the physical representation of this other person, and when you add on the apparent self-criticism, you can end up getting stuck in a self-deprecating loop of attachment. My suggestion would be to pay attention to the other members of the Soul Family (you can watch videos on them on my playlists or read in depth in my book), see what you're meant to learn, and then begin to work on your own triggers and traumas. What you resist, persists 🙏💜
I’ve had limerence before over women that have lasted years, the last one was 7 years, I also broke my knee from dancing, she is a dance teacher and I wanted to stop dancing so I broke my knee cap. So when I started feeling the same way about my TF, I tried to stop it from happening but then then, I saw her suffering for some reason I wasn’t sure of? And that’s when I entered the night of the dark soul and I’m back at being obsessed. I work with the TF, so it feeds my limerence. I’m also in a long term relationship, which makes me wonder if I’m doing this out of boredom? The limerence seems to be a pattern that I go through but I’m tired of it and want to escape.
If you think you've met ur twin flame in 3D but is younger than u by 25 years or more what happens next, n if there is a reunion between them will they end up leaving each other after healing or will they continue to be together, etc.....
ANOTHER CONTENT IDEA FOR YOU: What are the signs that my runner twin has gone through enough ego degradation that perhaps it's time for her to surrender to our eternal union in the 5D and 3D?
These are all Egoic concepts: "enough ego degradation;" "perhaps it's time for her to surrender;" "eternal union in the 3D." No one can judge when another Ego has had "enough" of something, or what's best for them.
Hi guys. Can anyone explain to me this twin flame thing please. What I'm understanding in a nut shell twin flames it's 2 bodies one soul with their own perspective... But then that's basically the case with everyone cause we are all a different perspective of source, God, central sun, the higher self or whatever the perspective believe
I do not speak about TFs like that. You can watch my videos "Twin Flames," "The Purpose of Twin Flames," and even better, "The Soul Family (Part I) and (Part II)"
I want it to be limerance so, so much. Honestly, im at the point in ego degradation where it's hitting my core wound and its really messing with me. Like, right... im supposed to just love MYSELF when ... ugh, it's just the WORST. And on top of everything you've got to trust yourself when youve been gaslit your whole life. Its the most soul crushing miserable thing ever. And i just want to gaslight myself out of it because it is SO much easier to just listen to other people's egos. But, and maybe you'd be willing to answer this... you dont just have a spontaneous kundalini awakening and like 6 months later have a spontaneous non-substance aided ego death experience like, just because, right? (The ego death experience was during a meditation on a trauma that I still don't know if its real, but a thought occurred to me and all of a sudden i "saw" reality invert, and the world of metaphor was the real world and this world was the metaphor and I KNEW that I did not exist. And I was just witnessing a tree in a desert that had light within it, but it wasn't emitting light? And my therapist asked if it was an out of body experience and I was like, "you don't understand, "I" didnt exist in order to have a body to be out of." I think if you look at the norse tree of life, I think the tree I saw was the one on the underside of that)
Gaslighting is awful and I'm sorry you've experienced so much of it. My suggestion would be working on learning to trust yourself and your own intuition. 🙏
Imagine your real twinflame is not incarnate as a human and then meeting someone who think they are your twinflame and going in limerence and have a delusion of him as your twinflame.. But you understand it just one sided and never have a real chemistry in reality. Not like a home, not like a romantic, not like a bestfriend, also not have a sexual tension between limerence object and you..
Why does the higherself manifest lessons youve already learned even after union within? Why did this lesson mirror an event with my twin? Nothing to do with the video i just find it trippy.
Please watch my video "Twin Flame Separation (an Important Message)." I will also have a video out later in the year about justification that talks about this.
I started off believing what i was going through was limerence, but then the "dark night of the soul" started to happen... I was pushed into a spiritual path that i have never experienced before. Synchronisities as well. My twin flame wont entertain the concept at all, we still keep in touch though and have a lot of respect and admiration for one another. We're both married and have no intention of jeopardizing that, but there's definitely similarities, runner/chaser and 11 year age difference.
I experienced the same thing, combine I am a Capricorn and he is a scorpio....
Thank GOD you made this video. I couldn’t tell if I was in limerance or if I had a twin flame. when I first found out my twin flame was my twin flame , I doubted for a while. I even set boundaries with my twin and became distant, and yet I still felt like maybe there was a possibility that I was in limerence🤦🏽♀️. If I were truly in limerence, I don’t think I would’ve had that much doubt & set those strong boundaries for my twin. Doubt on this journey is sooo painful. I don’t understand it. I’m at a point where I don’t care what my twin is thinking, I don’t care what he’s doing, I don’t care if we come into union, ect. I really just wanted to know if it was TRULY my twin, or was it just limerence. This confirmed a lot though because I still feel the same about my twin. My feelings are the same even when I try to resist and deny them.
THANK YOU! for making this video. A few months ago I came across a TH-cam suggested video about Limerence and honestly, was quite offended by it. It felt like sheer INSULT of the twin flame connection.
I’ve often doubted and always wished and hoped that I was NOT on a TF journey, but finally I’ve come to terms with my destiny. Ego degradation is tough but I love the ascension that followed. I love this new version of myself.
I have achieved quite a balance and have been in communication with my DM for more than 6 months without triggers. I still hope some day I’ll completely stop having these ‘feelings’ toward her and we will be able to hang out together as friends, like before … at least be able to see her once again, after this 2 decades of separation.
If we were never introduced to psychology what would we think? We would just go with the flow. Psychology’s problem is that it tries to put a label on everything when everyone’s experience is different. Plus their criteria for disorder is anything that distracts from the societal routine. In other words if you ain’t fitting into the Matrix you have something wrong with you. Twin flames etc all existed long before psychology and “new age” stuff, which I call colonizer “spirituality”
Thank you. Huge body of work you’ve done. It seems evident in your clarity, transparency & honesty 😊
How do you do that? Knowing exactly when to post what is needed. You are truly amazing.
And everyone else: buy her book! It’s mindblowing.
Well you're manifesting everything you need! 💜💜
@@wearethesamenergy
We are everything ❤️
Exactly. I thought the same thing only a few days ago! I was hoping this subject would be discussed. Low and behold here it is!!! ❤
For a few weeks i was so confused with the limerence thing. I needed this vid
I love your grounded explanations. Thank you so much Alexx
I'm glad the videos resonate!
I definitely think I was limerant. We have a connection but I’m over trying so hard for it now. It just doesn’t feel right anymore. I’m so done with the whole TF now. If I have one il know , but I highly doubt I do. Thanks for the great explanation ❤
Im triggered. I don’t know anymore. I heard about limerence in the psychology sphere before the twin flame community. I have no idea if I’m on a twin flame journey at this point. There is requited interest… Im so lost. 😞 I want to label it so bad so that I can know how to move forward? Im just struggling right now.
I think it's great that you're aware when you're triggered and can speak outwardly and honestly on it. If you are "so lost" and it's affecting your mental equilibrium to a vast effect, please take a step back and try to stop worrying about the "proper titles" of Soul Family. It doesn't matter what this person is called or titled. I know you say you want the label so you "know how to move forward," but a label isn't going to do that for you; you shifting your mental state and Ego beliefs are what's going to do that. The situation stays the same whether you have a title or not, but it's what you decide to do with the title that differs. You can do that on your own. 🙏
Needed this, thanks both of you ❤
Your not alone, I still wonder myself but I try not to let it destroy my mind. I would loose the term TF and in place see them as a catalyst and focus your time on getting your energy right!
@reallybrandy thanks for sharing this❣️I couldn’t put it in words myself (I felt really triggered too). Sending you my best💛
@@wearethesamenergy❤
(it's so damn hard
not to overvalue someone
when you've been lonely and alone
for so damn long!)
to my dear former
so-called best friend,
I miss you.
SO MUCH!!
it's almost unbearable,
to watch you, discreetly,
from the sidelines,
as you are ALWAYS with her
* my replacement *
out making all of your wildest dreams come true,
together,
and I've been left to suffer
the loss of you,
and the trauma
of what you both did to me...
*it is truly a most bizarre characteristic of humans,
that we smile when we are in pain.*
Great video. 🙏. Much needed explanation as I was one of those combing YT earlier this year for TF /Limerance content. Now I know there’s no connection. Helpful.💯🌌
I was recently debating this topic on my own. Very helpful and well-timed to gain your perspective. Thanks Alexx!
Love your essence, your content is so valuable Alexx! Thank you! 🙏🏽
I’ve just purchased your book so looking forward to the read!🫶🏽
Thank you so much for your support!
I'd like to hear your opinions on divine timing and how it plays into our lives! I see that you've mentioned it a couple of times throughout some of your videos and I believe in your book, but I kinda want to hear a more in depth explanation behind how divine timing works if it's possible :)
Yes, I will have a video out about Divine Timing later in the year!
Hi Alex, I’ve read your book and seen almost all your YT videos. I really resonate with everything you are saying about Twin Flames - and it really seems I am truly on the TF journey - and that I am not dealing with a karmic, a soulmate or an obsession. But the thing is, we met when I was 26 and I have recently turned 30. In our now 3,5 years of separation, I haven’t been able to date anyone else (I just have zero interest in other people). On a deeper level, I am really grateful for the experience and all the lessons. But on an egoic level, I cannot help but struggle with the fact that I do feel this connection on a 5D level all the time, but cannot (yet) seem to have it on the 3D level. I really want to start a relationship/family on my own, but I can’t because of this connection (I only want it with my TF). How can I best deal with this? Because just throwing this ‘dream’ or ‘desire’ away would feel like throwing myself away. 😔
I feel this comment deeply, which tells me you are very much putting your energy into it, and I want to give you an answer that will hopefully help. Unfortunately, this is something I would have told you to book a consultation with me for, but I have stopped doing them. So for now, I can say that in the next couple of months, I will have videos out on children in the Soul Family, children regarding TFs, and more on Ego Degradation. However, non-attachment is really what I would gear you towards, because until non-attachment is found, your Ego will keep itself stuck. If you haven't watched my series on my website entitled "Non-Attachment and Union," I would suggest starting there, or reading any books you already have on the subject matter
@@wearethesamenergy thank you for taking the time to write this reply. 🙏🏻 It’s true, this subject is on my mind a lot.. I will definitely have a look on your website & look more into the subject of non-attachment. Also curious about your upcoming videos about children. Thanks again! 🤞🏻✨
I researched this thoroughly - over the past 12 months 😂 - limerence does not result in a profound transformation and an alignment with your soul! TF journey - if you know you know ❤
I wonder if there is a place for limerence + TF at the same time. Since limerence is ego based, when you get on the TF train, is it not possible to start with limerence since you are going through ego degradation in the beginning? Eventually, if it doesn't lose its hold on you, then for sure it is not TF. But there are too many synchronicities for me and the growth I have experienced on this journey to not call it TF. I have had my bouts of limerence as well though. The mind can be so complicated!
As someone else said, it is mind blowing how you create content, and it pops up in front of me when needed! 🙏🙏
Someone needs to create a twin flame chat room or something where we can all share our experiences and help each other! The amount of coincidences and synchronicities I experience without even looking for them are insurmountable and mathematically impossible occurrences. So I feel you and I STILL even doubt we are twin flames despite all that. 😂
@TennisLover1967 You will of course have obsession and rumination on a Twin Flame journey. But I'm trying to point out that how limerence is defined, is not present on a TF journey, but rather that obsession and rumination. I'm glad it popped up when you needed!
@@wearethesamenergy I am still confused about the dividing line between limerence and obsession. To me, there seems to be a whole litany of terms - limerence, obsession, romantic love, infatuation, rumination that have nuanced differences. For me the dividing line is if it is an experience that is aiding in your growth and wisdom, then it is not any of those terms. If it keeps you preoccupied, then it is limerence.
Thank you and much love
My TF is a katholic priest. He is obsessed with me as a musician ( from Romania), but I did'nt express my feelings. Only through music. The story goes on....
Hey Alexx, what do you think about confirming twin flame connections via numerology? people say if you share the same life path number or have the same numbers in each others birthdays but just in a different order etc. it can confirm you're twins.
To be completely honest, I do not follow numerology because it's never resonated with me. Therefore, I haven't done any personal research or questioning of Twin Flames about whether numerology is accurate for them.
And what about birth charts and synnastry @@wearethesamenergy
@@rains5I can answer for birth charting. They aren’t linked. Birth charting is lower vibrational than twin flame so astrology has no relevance to determining a twin flame connection.
Alexx, what if you struggle with the thoughts of being with an avoidant person vs twinflame.
Is someone avoidant or are they a TF? ❤
I have this on my list to do
What is the difference between a twin flame runner running vs a soulmate + karmic not reciprocating? Wouldn’t both trigger a person to heal either their core lessons in self worth or self love?
Symptom Karmic Lessons vs Core Karmic Lesson. I talk about it more in my video "Ego Degradation and the Soul Family."
I was wondering if you have a video on Twin Fls vs Trauma Bonds, or if not, could you address it at some point? I'm very curious to know your pov on that.
It's on my list!
A CONTENT IDEA FOR YOU: Could you please make a video for us where you articulate precisely when it's the right time to mediate the runner with an invitation for the union in the 3D? Should we do this in the stage of surrender in the 5D?
I wanna give u a summary of my relationship and i hope u can tell me if u think its a twin flame. 8 years(off and on), air sign (me) earth sign(her) complete opposites(yin and yang) but we both had alot of trauma/childhood issues that pushed us apart but there was always this magnetic pull. When i look back i felt as those i was very narcissistic and she was more bpd. I had anxious-avoidant attachment style and she was more avoidant. Right before the break up it seemed as if the roles reversed. I became the calm one and vice versa for her. After the break i noticed she left a necklace on the floor that had the numbers 555 on it. Since then, a year and a half ago, i been seeing triple numbers everyday several times a day. Also 1111. I lost interest in alot of things, even the ppl i use to hang around. The breakup activated my spiritual awakening. I began meditating and i began to see visions/colors in my meditation. I researched it and it was said that it was my third eye activating. I dont find interest in sex as i did before and i know im on a healing journey as well. I focus on me and i became highly aware of my own trauma. In my heart i feel she's my twin flame but i also have my doubts too. We been in no contact for a while but i know she rides by my house from time to time and i do the same. I use to have so much anxiety from the thought of her or even when she's in my presence but it has went away and i no longer blame her for leaving. Ive forgiven her and myself for the things i did. Its still this magnetic pull but i fight it when i feel the urge to reach out. Ive had vivid dreams of her and it's like we're always on good terms as if we figured out all our problems. I once had a dream and i remember this specific date and i wrote it down. It was shocking because she stopped by on that date 🤯 i feel like im goin thru so many of the TF phases but because our relationship felt so toxic and i was so self centered, i have so many doubts but my heart still tells me she's the one(my twin flame). Can u give me your thoughts? Thank you
what do you think about telepathy in a twin flame relationship?
I talk about this in a few of my videos, and in depth in my book. You may want to watch "Signs of Twin Flame Connection (During Separation)," and some of my clair sense videos on my Empath playlist.
Content video request : why do we feel sexual attraction to other people also after meeting the twin . The sexual attraction is not strong but it comes from a place of needyness and how to over come it
You're asking a few different questions, so I will guide you to some videos: "Sexual Attraction and the Twin Flame," "Attraction to Others After Meeting the Twin," "The 3 Core Karmic Lessons"
I was in limerence with a person so i proposed him but he rejected me so that's why i gave up on limerence 😌
I have read your book.. So easy to resonate with all the phrases of life.. "tried hard not to jump into twin flame chapter🤭"... One thing I still want to know.... About "maditation" "inner work" "quitting non veg" "chanting mantras" .. If I can raise my vibration only by painting... And finally after separation able to be happy without his presence.... Knowing that we are the same and trusting fully upon "Devine timing"... Still is there any "do or don't" for completion of this journey
Hi❤ get into feminine - being. Stop with The masculinity - get out The mind/searching for more knowledge. SURRENDER to NOt knowing when/ how. Stop multitasking and prioritize peace and presence.
You got this🩷🙏🏻 let go to let in. It will happend. Its safe to let go. You WILL get everything dear to you by letting it go and letting it come to you freely.
Of course it can, if painting is your creative outlet and you love doing it!
@@wearethesamenergy thank you so much 🙏❤️
There is something very dark around all this TF stuff. After 'the meeting' the falling in 'unconditional love', the synchronicities, the feeling of home etc etc, she not only rejected me but got a bit nasty, underhand and covertly mocking. Looking at the situation as a narcissist user taking advantage of a loved-up sap started to look much more believable and credible than the spurious nature of 'TF' dynamic. And still, the synchronicities and the magnetic pull into a building where I met her and time stood still and all that jazz... I start to believe that not all 'supernatural' happenings are on the side of right and light.
There is nothing supernatural about what I talk about. Maybe your dealing with a Karmic and not a TF
I have a question regarding "unity consciousness" and emotions. So I've been practicing 'being' or however you want to call it for a bit and I have been noticing a lot of heavy emotions stuck inside my chest and stomach area. From many teachings, they say you are not your mind nor your emotions, you just are. But because of that, it seems like I automatically suppress my emotions. I haven't fully released by crying or screaming in a very, very long time. Some teachers say you can't show emotions or have feelings towards your other self, but... now I barely feel anything anymore because my mind goes on autopilot and shuts it down quickly. Why do I feel stagnation inside my body? What is happening? Can you make a video explaining this and how to deal with is? If we are all that is, then emotions are part of it, right? Or do I have the wrong approach to this topic. How can I just let emotions be, release through the body and still be aware of who I really am because I haven't felt light in this body for a while now.
I will make a video at some point on emotional suppression. Yes, you should be able to experience emotions. There is a difference between detachment and non-attachment to emotions, which it sounds like you're having a hard time delineating (I've been there). You may want to read on the differences between non-attachment and detachment, or read about non-attachment in general. I have a series on my site called "Non-Attachment and Union" that talks about it. Have you done chakra cleansing? That will start to move the energy through the solar plexus and heart.
@@wearethesamenergy Thank you so much. I will get on and read the series. Regarding the chakras, I tried it a few time but I don't do it regularly anymore. I also don't know if I'm doing it 'right'. Therefore, I really really look forward to your video. I've heard that this is very different for TF and wonder what you take on it.
@@MsAmuay20 It doesn't matter what your Twin is experiencing in their body. Take care of yourself 🙏
@@wearethesamenergy Thank you
Hi Alex, i have just come across your channel and have been watching these videos trying to figure out what i am feeling or going through but i have been a little confused would be really helpful if you could give some advice.. i am new to this…I just dont want this person to be a limerick object to me and where its more like i was scared to tell him that i cared and wanted it because i was scared yes that he wouldnt reciprocate and yes also had intamacy issues which is maybe also why when he wanted it i wasnt moving towards him even when he was available and yes i also did plan the worst case scenario in my head with this person as i was scared he would abandon me but if this is all just another limerick obsession with a soulmate or soulmate + karmic because i was feeling these fears in the so called bubble phase and thought of it as a twin flame and if all of this means all he is is a soulmate + karmic or a karmic how do i differentiate anything now? I mean sometimes i think it is a tf and then i see this and i am like oh now what? And like all with apparent tf i do have the longing and hope that you mentioned in some stages and now idk i am just confused and lost…Its more like wanting to believe so badly that you are on a tf journey that you end up manipulating your self and i mean i am doing that while you seem so mature and others as well about this thing and they are growing while I feel absolutely stuck and too stuck to the label and if i can’t accept it as karmic cause i am scared he will never come back means its more likely that…
As I always say to people, it doesn't really matter what you label the other person as, as long as you're growing, learning, expanding. However, your Ego is definitely in a very attached state to the physical representation of this other person, and when you add on the apparent self-criticism, you can end up getting stuck in a self-deprecating loop of attachment. My suggestion would be to pay attention to the other members of the Soul Family (you can watch videos on them on my playlists or read in depth in my book), see what you're meant to learn, and then begin to work on your own triggers and traumas. What you resist, persists 🙏💜
I’ve had limerence before over women that have lasted years, the last one was 7 years, I also broke my knee from dancing, she is a dance teacher and I wanted to stop dancing so I broke my knee cap. So when I started feeling the same way about my TF, I tried to stop it from happening but then then, I saw her suffering for some reason I wasn’t sure of? And that’s when I entered the night of the dark soul and I’m back at being obsessed. I work with the TF, so it feeds my limerence. I’m also in a long term relationship, which makes me wonder if I’m doing this out of boredom? The limerence seems to be a pattern that I go through but I’m tired of it and want to escape.
If you think you've met ur twin flame in 3D but is younger than u by 25 years or more what happens next, n if there is a reunion between them will they end up leaving each other after healing or will they continue to be together, etc.....
You might want to watch my videos "Twin Flame 3D Differences," "The 3 Core Karmic Lessons," and "The Purpose of Twin Flames"
When one twin heals does the spiritual connection heal the other through onknown means
I would suggest reading my book. It will answer all of your questions
ANOTHER CONTENT IDEA FOR YOU: What are the signs that my runner twin has gone through enough ego degradation that perhaps it's time for her to surrender to our eternal union in the 5D and 3D?
These are all Egoic concepts: "enough ego degradation;" "perhaps it's time for her to surrender;" "eternal union in the 3D." No one can judge when another Ego has had "enough" of something, or what's best for them.
Hi guys. Can anyone explain to me this twin flame thing please. What I'm understanding in a nut shell twin flames it's 2 bodies one soul with their own perspective... But then that's basically the case with everyone cause we are all a different perspective of source, God, central sun, the higher self or whatever the perspective believe
I do not speak about TFs like that. You can watch my videos "Twin Flames," "The Purpose of Twin Flames," and even better, "The Soul Family (Part I) and (Part II)"
@@wearethesamenergy okay thank you this TF business is confusing
I want it to be limerance so, so much. Honestly, im at the point in ego degradation where it's hitting my core wound and its really messing with me. Like, right... im supposed to just love MYSELF when ... ugh, it's just the WORST. And on top of everything you've got to trust yourself when youve been gaslit your whole life. Its the most soul crushing miserable thing ever.
And i just want to gaslight myself out of it because it is SO much easier to just listen to other people's egos.
But, and maybe you'd be willing to answer this... you dont just have a spontaneous kundalini awakening and like 6 months later have a spontaneous non-substance aided ego death experience like, just because, right?
(The ego death experience was during a meditation on a trauma that I still don't know if its real, but a thought occurred to me and all of a sudden i "saw" reality invert, and the world of metaphor was the real world and this world was the metaphor and I KNEW that I did not exist. And I was just witnessing a tree in a desert that had light within it, but it wasn't emitting light? And my therapist asked if it was an out of body experience and I was like, "you don't understand, "I" didnt exist in order to have a body to be out of." I think if you look at the norse tree of life, I think the tree I saw was the one on the underside of that)
Gaslighting is awful and I'm sorry you've experienced so much of it. My suggestion would be working on learning to trust yourself and your own intuition. 🙏
@wearethesamenergy Thank you 😊
lol so at least I can definitely know that it’s not limerence
Imagine your real twinflame is not incarnate as a human and then meeting someone who think they are your twinflame and going in limerence and have a delusion of him as your twinflame.. But you understand it just one sided and never have a real chemistry in reality. Not like a home, not like a romantic, not like a bestfriend, also not have a sexual tension between limerence object and you..
Why does the higherself manifest lessons youve already learned even after union within? Why did this lesson mirror an event with my twin? Nothing to do with the video i just find it trippy.
I think of them as reminders or refreshers on the lessons learned
Yes to what @edwardhorace1093 said
When your tf makes you feel he no longer cares, can you be in a tf journey alone?
Please watch my video "Twin Flame Separation (an Important Message)." I will also have a video out later in the year about justification that talks about this.
@@wearethesamenergy thank you.
Well at least i know hes not This one.
Nope. Not me.
Tf is it male and female or can it be 2 females
Will have a video on same sex TFs first week of January