Yeah the identity thing affects Professional athletes a lot because they feel like they exist on this Earth to play sports(be an athlete). In your case be a soldier.
Good to see a fellow expat vet on YT. I was in the Army for 4 years and left straight for China as soon as I got my DD214. I've been in China for 10 months now. Having been stationed OCONUS for so long, and other experiences abroad, I just couldn't see myself going back home to the same American life. Even when I came back home from time to time during my time in active duty I always felt a certain tension in the air as soon as I entered the airport (normally LAX). I was especially aware of the white folks staring at me out the corner of my eyes a lot, as if I wasn't supposed to be there. It was only when Is struck up a random convo at some airport bar and mentioned being in the service and serving in Afghanistan that the White guys would drop their guard. What the heck? Even here in China. I get lots of stares from the Chinese but it's not like back at home. One thing I notice too is that White guys from the states living here in China have huge egos and feel the need to let everyone know ow great they are and how much China sucks but that Asians and Asian women especially, should worship them in some fashion or another. White guys overseas have hella problems. At least the Russians and Ukrainians act cool and down to Earth. I don't see myself staying in China form more than 5 years as the culture doesn't vibe with me well, but there's alot of money here, so I'll stick it out.
brooooooo. I've gotten into so much shit for saying this but fuck it. I'll say it again, Asian's (many not all of course) treat white men like gods out here. It's fucking annoying. Especially given how many are such arrogant douchebags. Usually Americans and Brits. Have a couple I would call friends but generally, nahhhh. I'm good. The way they talk down to people and talk shit on countries where their reaping massive benefits. Insane to me. I felt the exact same way. When I go home it feels like entering a war torn country. Feels like the Balkans region. This air of desperation and frustration. Breaks my heart but I've built a life that affords me freedom. All we can do is live our lives and support those who havent/cant make it out.
What you say is true! I live it everyday in New York City, you step over people begging everyday. I'm a Black man and it is hard here. I've been able to travel, been to Bangkok, Chai mai, South Africa, France and England and I agree with all that you say. I tell my friends don't be afraid to travel this is not the best place in the world. The system here is built for those at the top, if you are in the middle or bottom it's not so great here. I think life in Thailand would be great, I love it there. Unlike you many Americans never travel outside the US, they are afraid of those other people lol. My first trip to Africa, my family and friends were afraid for me, and tried to talk me out of it. When I got there it was so beautiful that I cried!! Don't let other people's fear stop you from traveling
100%. NYC broke my heart man. So much wealth and potential. NYC can be a beacon of hope and understanding. Unfortunately, those in positions of power don't necessarily see it that way. Life in Thailand is great. Of course it has it's drawbacks but overall, excellent.
I went to Chang Mai, I went with the intention of seeing if I would be comfortable living there. It was nice, but I prefer Bangkok. Being from NYC, I feel more at home in Bangkok, the hustle of the city made me feel right at home. I love it!! Putting together my exit plan, maybe 1 more year in NYC and I'm out. It is depressing here.
I think there is some truth to this but it's like anything else you want. Priorities. Everyone wants abs but most aren't willing to put in the work to get them. Everyone's situation is different of course. But for many professionals, living abroad actually saves them money. ESPECIALLY those who are receiving a western salary. Of course, not everyone has the means to be an expat. But that's not a reason not to work towards acquiring the means/skills which will open that door.
@Minority Nomad....I left the US years ago and will NEVER live in the US again. I didn't want my child growing up in that culture either. Fortunately, I acquired a second-passport years ago. I live in one of the Top 5 best countries in the world to live...and I LOVE IT. The quality of life is amazing...! Having the passport allows me all the rights and privileges as a bona-fide citizen of the country I live in. Being an "expat" is different. I never had to bother with visas, permits, and the like. I do know quite a few expats though and they do have to be concerned about work permits. For example, most countries will require a person who wants to live in the country "prove" that they have the means to support themselves. This may mean having a job already lined up. If an expat is relocating because of their job, in most cases the company will take care of all legal paper matters including visas, permits, etc. Some companies even offer expats a relocation allowance paying for airfare, freight for furnishings etc, apartment, etc. Without the proper funds and being in-line with the legal requirements that the country demands, being an expat is no fun. It's much like being a migrant (nomad) in many instances. Healthcare, unemployment, housing, and more can be difficult if you are not "legally situated" in the country you want to live. I would recommend anyone considering becoming an expat is to check-out various companies in your desired location to see if they have openings. This will greatly help get your foot in the door. In fact, you will find many American companies around the world. Checking on the Internet is very, very helpful. That's probably the easiest way, unless you have a LARGE amount of money. Being self-employed might work but the individual still needs the correct papers in order to establish their business and must prove that they are self-sufficient. Depending on the country, there are a number of visas available. Keep in mind, visas are limited. America has turned into a hellhole, so I definitely can see why someone would want to leave the country. In fact, I highly recommend it. However, you have to do it properly or you will end up no better in status than a migrant...being a nomad implies non-legal status, which most 1st world countries will not permit. It's not much different to being a refugee/migrant...One cannot not simply pack up and move to another country without preparation and checking what is legally permissible as far as being an expat is concerned. Good Luck!
The Philando Castille verdict was the last straw for me. I have a wife and four sons so I have to think about their safety and what's best for them. We are moving to Mexico in November for about six months and then we are heading to Medellin. From there we will travel around South America and just enjoy life. I'm pretty sure I'm not coming back anytime in the foreseeable future.
Safe travels man. I'm not the most militant brother around. But when it's clear and blatant, there's nothing to do but leave if you have the means. We've been given all the information we'll ever need to know the US isn't for us. Let me know if yall need any help. I'll actually be down there on assignments from December to February. 15 countries
I thank you for your honesty. No one really wants to throw themselves in harm's way. I live in Baltimore. I'm a Black man who has never been arrested, I don't sell drugs, I work and take care of my family. America doesn't care. They see my Black skin and they see a treat. I FEAR dying by the hands of the police. I've been pulled over, roughed up by the police. I feel like anytime I see their lights I could die. Am I being paranoid? You tell me? It happens to good Black men far too often. Police in the city where I'm from plant drugs on people and write false police reports and STILL nothing changes. They don't care that I am a college graduate, work for the government, or that I just want to make it home to my wife and kids. Just because I am Black I can die any day by the hands of the police and I KNOW not a damn thing would change.
Paranoia is defined as follows: mental condition characterized by delusions of persecution, unwarranted jealousy, or exaggerated self-importance, typically elaborated into an organized system. It may be an aspect of chronic personality disorder, of drug abuse, or of a serious condition such as schizophrenia in which the person loses touch with reality. You aren't paranoid because a fear of police and violence isn't a delusion. It's an easily verifiable FACT that black men are disproportionately killed and harassed by police officers in the US. It's ridiculous that people even argue with us at this point. It's fact. Stay safe over there man. As I said, I'm not going back if I have the choice.
This video sums up EXACTLY how I feel. Just two months ago, my (14 yr old) and I took a month to travel around Europe and I have to say, even though we were only over there for a month, I noticed the differences between being in the US vs Europe. We both felt so comfortable over there. I noticed the minute we came back, all those frustrations of living in the US came back and I knew that my goal would be to figure out how my daughter and I could travel for life. Thanks for the video. A lot of people I speak to try to make me feel like I don't know what I am talking about, but like you said, leaving the States and seeing it, is the only way you will know.
THANK YOU so much for exposing your daughter to that. I actually make these videos for them. To inspire young people to just GO. Get out and explore. And it's so rare that parents take their children outside of the US to experience the world. Where are you thinking of going?
I am not sure where we are going next. I am thinking Italy, Spain and Greece. The last trip we visited 7 different countries. It was fun but a lot of train rides. I bought her a scratch off map and my goal is to have her scratch off as many countries tries as she can before leaving for college.
+Bella1dona2 yooooo. My friend just bought me one of those maps as a joke because I'm always gone. Lol. Italy and Spain can easily be done together. Excellent low cost flights between the two. Let me know if you need help planning.
As a man of color living in nyc, i completely agree with everything you said about NYC. Its not a healthy place to live long term. Everyday i see memtally ill ppl on the trains on the streets. Every morning i go to work in the morning, everyone looks complete drained and miserable. Im definitely looking to find a new city or country to live.
Sukhmeet Dhingra Hell yeah! It’s packed as fuck! They taxed the shit outta you. It’s Hella expensive. They have the best of everything, but you gotta deal with all the bullshit of a major city.
I hear you. I was born and raised Brooklyn for 30 years. Been living in London last 25 years and will probably die here. I don't miss USA that much, besides the food and baseball. Last visit to New York 5 years ago, and couldn't wait to leave. I love America and being American with my time in Navy. But it's a good part of my history. Travel and see this world while it's still here.
I know exactly what you mean...I retired from the Army in 2005, however, I spent 21 years living in Germany and two year living in korea as a soldier or DA Civilian. Over the 26 years of my service, I traveled extensively throughout Europe and Asia. As you said, it opened my eyes to a much different perspective of the world. In addition to as you stated providing me a new self-awareness. I didn't miss the US as all. In fact, I dread returning. I've decided to retire in another five years to Panama City Panama or back to Florida (Miami) which is my home state. There are a few more places that I would love to visit that remain on my bucket list. For me, I felt a deep connection to Korea and Spain, tow polar opposites, but I could easily assimilate to either. Unfortunately, I'm back in the US in a state that I hate, due to my Government job. So, I'm looking forward to retirement again, and traveling again to far off locations, that I loved or always wanted to visit. I suppose that wondering spirite in apart of who I am. There's so many beautiful places to see and experience in this world, its too bad that many Black Americans never get the change to experience in their life. Like you, the military gave me that. I like Thialand too, along with Singapore and Jakarta. But Seoul Korea and Spain (the southern coast, tenerife, Madrid etc.) have my heart. So enjoy your youth, and pride a good example for our black race whereever you go. Because the white man has done a great job or stero-typing who we are as a people. I like to dispell those prejudices around the globe or wherever i travel. Peace, RGEE
Korea was the first place I truly loved. Maybe Turkey. But my time stationed in Korea was life changing. I believe in the saying, "When you know better, you do better." Soooooo many of us just don't know better. And once you've seen what the world has to offer, there's no way in hell you'll feel ok with the crap happening back home. Just no way to go backwards. I think many AAs are waking up. As long as people want to keep seeing my stuff, i'll keep producing it.
I had a stroke last month...and I'm only 43. A large part of that has to do with EVERYTHING you mentioned in this video. I've grown to HATE being in America--for all the reasons you gave. I'm ALWAYS on edge; I'm ALWAYS divulged with negativity and hatred; I'm ALWAYS stoked in racism and apathy. And then Trump. It all culminated into a poltergeist of stress and misery that haunts me constantly. The only time I remember truly being happy is when I traveled. Because of this I've been everywhere from Milan to Minsk. When I try to tell my friends and family that a black person CAN BE and DESERVES to be happy--we just have to leave--I get scoffed at! We've been so brainwashed. I think I'm ready to take my own advice. I've been considering Thailand forever. I think 2018 will be it for me. Thank you for this video.
Living abroad as a black man gives of the freedom to exist. I tell brothers all the time, the level of stress and fear we deal with in the US is not healthy and contributes not only to health issues but the destruction of self esteem within our community. I can't tell you how many brothers have met me in Thailand and you can see the stress fade away and the fear in their eyes when it's time to go back. I hope you do come out here man. More of us need to.
I believe this is one of the most relevant and accurate videos I've seen in a very long while. It Was ✨James Baldwin who said: “To be black and conscious in America is to be in a constant state of rage.” That quote Really sums it up. I'm from New York City ,I've lived in London for a couple of months every few yrs with my family.. I spent a very short time traveling around Asia ,Im Home now and I can see the dysfunction around me ; like it's moving at the speed of light and I'm moving in slow motion.. don't get me wrong I love New York, I love the Bronx I love Harlem but.. do I want to live here for the rest of my days? absolutely not, my eyes have been opened and there's a better way to live. As I've gotten older I realize the most important thing's. to me Are *Health and *Quality of life.
One person at a time. I'm glad you enjoyed this. I didn't want it to come off as America-hating. I love our country. But like you, I see the flaws. And traveling magnifies it. At this point, I'm about quality of life and showing as many people as possible they can live a great life if they want.
Definitely valid. I grew up in Brooklyn, NY and the reality is you don't go outside on a hot summer day without a purpose (i.e. work, school etc) You have a certain type of awareness living in New York City that makes you look over protective anywhere else.
Great video that speaks the truth. People who have never left USA are the most negative and afraid ones. Traveling abroad is one of the best things an African America can to gain a new perspective on life.
Thanks for this video. I live in Newark, NJ, but I have had the opportunity to travel to 10 countries so far. The first thing I noticed was how safe places were and how I was unnecessarily on edge in places like Milan and Naples. Even a place like Naples where people told me to be careful because it can be dangerous, but compared to Newark it was so nice to be able to walk around at night, get food and not worry about violence. I have created a plan to become an expat and look forward to it.
I've laughed at the places people call "rough" in other countries. I'm like ya'll would be eaten alive where I'm from. hahahaahah. Let me know if you need any help on an exit strategy.
Erik man listen we know each other from BKK--I've been back home in NYC after 3 years and you are absolutely correct! I've been highly aggravated since I've been here it's horrible and the mental illness is RAMPANT
white girl here! Thank you for your astute observations. I wish we had as part of our high school curriculum, not only mandatory travel abroad, but into each others communities, schools, synagogues in the US as well. We fear each other because it is being fueled by those in control, magnifying our own natural fight or flight responses to things we don't understand. I am absolutely amazed at not only the negativity here but how much we tolerate absolute dysfunction. But I know many must feel like I do-where to begin. And although I haven't made the move, I have done a lot of research on ex-pats and have several friends proudly claiming that status. Keep on saying what you say-maybe a few will hear, and it will have a domino effect.
I think you start with yourself. And looking at expat options is a great place to begin. I was just commenting on the Justin Timberlake super bowl show and the hate he's getting for it. I said to my friend, imagine how fucked up your life has to be where you spend hours online complaining about a pop singer........singing. lol. Life is too short for that stuff.
I just want you to know how much I am enjoying your presentation. You are straight forward, succinct, articulate and engaging. And you speak the truth. Well done and worth the observers time.
I needed to hear this. "So many people are professional complainers." That is so real. The little bit of travel that I have done has definitely revealed a different feeling of appreciation. I have to fight not to be sucked back in.
Awesome vid and I totally agree with you...especially about the negativity back at home...just calling my family who are still in the states, just constantly hearing the strain in their voices and anytime I ask a friend or fam how are things, it's always bad news, all the time and that could be just because pll tend to easily focus on the negative but from a mental health and spiritual health standpoint, living abroad has been much healthier for me...Traveling didn't necessarily introduce me to all these new ideas and perspectives that I never knew of but it did confirm to me what I already felt and was never fully able to express and nurture...
ohhhhhh you would have gone crazy around the stuff I was around back home knowing about you what I do. My words just don't do it justice. It's painful to feel and even more so to know is happening when we leave.
Yeah I bet and I get what you mean...talking to my fam friends back at home, again it's always just bad news or just constant complaining and I feel kind of helpless...I can give words of encouragement, beg them to just leave but they refuse and keep just doing the same old things...I do want to go back now and again but glad to be an expat for sure.
unfortunately I've had to stop talking to some family members. I can't take it. I've "trained" others over the years. They know not to come at me with that foolishness because the response might not be so kind. lol. There comes a point when the excuses have to stop and the action needs to begin.
Totally agree.. you can only show people the way.. but they have to let their actions speak louder than their words, otherwise you're just wasting my time.
LiveLoveLifeandTravel Unfortunately, that is the very definition of insanity, if they are expecting different results. It's sad, as my family is largely the same way. I'm in the US, now, but I feel so disconnected from it all.
Wow I agree with EVERTHING you said. I have been living abroad for 3 years now, I am currently in Lisbon Portugal. Being outside of the U.S. allowed me a chance to do true self inspection and help me to realized all of the trauma I was exposed to in America. The mental health situation is something that has become very clear after spending so much time abroad. I watch American news now and get frightened of even the thought of visiting there. I no longer have to walk around as an "angry black man". I feel more open to life, and generally just more positive. Generally people are very friendly towards me and my American passport seems to come with a few perks. I hope we cross paths on our journey, seems we would have one hell of a conversation.
I was showing another brother around Bangkok. And he said the exact same thing. We have "permission" to be whomever we chose because we are now free to make these choices. Devoid of antiquated thinking and judgement. It's an amazing feeling. I think most brothers that move abroad wouldnt go home if given the choice.
Exactly, At one point I said I would consider going back for the right amount of money, but now that is not an option at all. America will always be home and hold a special place in my heart but the grass is so much greener on the other side. I dont wanna trade in my peace for chaos. Sad thing is I never knew I was living in Chaos.
People like you are so important for people like myself who are putting in work to move out of the country and start a new chapter. I know I will be an ex-pat for the rest of my life, and I am fully okay with that. I can always visit my family but I feel I have plateau in all facets while living in the U.S. Thank you for this channel.
expat life is the way - the truth - the light. u on point as usual. my pops was military, so I grew up moving every 5 years or so, til my senior year in high school. travel is in my blood now. after a few years of college, I lived in canada & jamaica for 10 years, just because I wanted to. did well enough in those two completely different environments to realize that I can duplicate my success anywhere, based on my intelligence, will power & confidence. you definitely know wussup & are an inspiration bruh. hopefully, your important journey of self actualization, liberation, positivity & your keen insights, will encourage as many ppl as possible to break out of the box, especially black americans. the daily impact of all the negativity & stress in the US, definitely takes its toll on our physical & mental health. we have alternatives & opportunities around the world that we are sadly overlooking & missing out on. thnx & keep up the great WORK. guidance - protection - more blessings.
Minority Nomad, I used to be a frequent visitor to Thailand (2 or 3 times a year for almost 10 years, as an independent fashion buyer). I hadn't been there in several years and just returned to London two days ago (21/7/17) after a month out that way - Vietnam and Laos - but most of my time was spent in Khon Kaen where my daughter lives with her mother, and Bangkok where I reestablished a few old business links. I found that Bangkok, in fact Thailand has changed somewhat, but for the better - though I can't say I dig the fact that the present government has a clear agenda to prevent a lot of poor people from plying their street food trade. I love Thailand and through your videos you convey a great deal of the passion I feel each and every time I land in that country. I'm sure many people feel that vibe, too. Without going into too much of where I'm coming from I can tell you that I positively concur with your perspectives regarding home experiences in relation to those around the world. Carry on the enlightenment, my friend 😉😎
I can relate to your feelings of being back in the US. I have so much trouble being able to express it to tother people who don not have the same feeling livnign in other parts of the world. I appreciate your video so much! I can relate to NYC and feeling depressing. I feel like since I have been back in the USA, I have been yearning to live abroad where I feel i can be 'myself' like you said. I loved this video! I'm subscribed! Keep traveling
it's a VERY hard thing to explain to people that haven't experienced life abroad. Glad the video helped/ Appreciate you taking the time to watch and comment.
Thanks man! love this video! I just moved to Asia few months ago and loving every minute of it. This video hit the spot for many Americans who choose to live abroad now.
Bro, thank you so much for sharing and being positive and articulate. I'm about to venture into the expat world and globe trot different countries. I just visited the Philippines for my 50th BD and I agree with you completely! That 1 trip changed my whole view of the world and I'm just beginning! Keep up the great work!
Just Found Your Channel. I left the military in 1980 and in 1983 - 1987 I lived in Germany & w/o having the Internet, I did not see myself as a EX PAT... Your Experience & Views Are Spot-On Point. This coming from a 61 year old Black Man, Ex Navy traveling to Far East & Europe. Keep doing what you are doing!
One word ... freedom. You sound like a free man brother🙋♂️! It really feels like you took best decision and glad it works for you👍! Made me cry ... blessings from Romania!
This is the first time I have watched your videos (the title got my attention)! I too am a military vet and the opportunity to travel outside the US. Has really helped to open my eyes and being from the west side of Chicago. I am always depressed when I hear about my city. Which I always loved growing up but will never live in again. I do plan to retire in a country outside of the US (have not decided which yet). But you are speaking the truth about America. Thank you for sharing!
my pleasure and thanks for commenting. I love me some Chicago. Supposed to go back and speak in November. It feels like another home next to Cleveland. Breaks my heart.
You're speaking the real stuff...I've only spent about six months of the past six years in the U.S., and I have no plan whatever to live there again...mostly in the Caribbean and Central America, I've found a who new way of appreciating myself and the world....I live in peace and am soon taking permanent residence in Panama...I'm a long-time veteran also, and I don't bash the U.S., it's just that life is short, we only get one, and as long as I can have it my way, I'll remain happy doing so.
Thank you for sharing this video! I've been in South Korea for 3 months, and this is the first time I've lived outside of the US...outside of the South actually lol. I want to explore more after Korea and not go back to the US right away. So to hear your advice & your experience about living a year or more in multiple places really speaks to me. Just as you mentioned, I really feel like I have a clean slate & can accomplish things, & develop in ways I couldn't back home. I know everyone's experience is unique, but I look forward to learning more from your stories. Thanks!
+Jasmine T TV heyyyyyyy. It feels like South Korea is the first stop of international living for a lot of sisters lately. That's what's up. Korea was one of the first places I was stationed outside the US. When I fell in love with Asia. Bulgogi is my dish. Not to mention Soju. Woooooo. Let me know what your next stop is going to be if you need any advice.
Minority Nomad Okay great, thanks! Yeah I heard a lot of positive things about living here (safety, etc) and Korea is one of the highest paying countries for little to no teaching experience sooo that's why I chose it really. Maybe some choose Korea because of Kpop & Kdramas. 😂🤷🏽♀️
Minority Nomad I have 9 months left in my contract, which I've been told can fly by. So I feel like it's never too early to start making a list of countries and seeing what their visa requirements & employment options are. I don't want to teach forever lol, I would prefer to work on my own stuff and/or do work from my computer. Teaching seemed like the only option for me to obtain a visa in Korea.
Your right, when you say that we are blessed as a country when it comes to personal freedoms. When I come home to the US, I feel like I go into survival mode, versus when I'm abroad I feel like I'm living. The relationships that I build with people outside of my country is on a different level. I'm building more lasting relationships abroad. But when your in survival mode in the US, it's like every man for himself. Thank you for sharing!!!
I am in Austin, Tx watching your video and it sounds like I’m listening to myself. Im just starting my transition into becoming a Digital Nomad. Thank for this video!
Excellent perspective that you gave. I have begun traveling abroad this year I am going to travel to Lima, Peru for about a week. I am actively trying to engineer a way to become an expat and earn a good living. I am content with what I have established here in the US, however I am finding it difficult to duplicate that abroad. I am confident that I will figure it out though.
Thank you for sharing your perspective and experience. You said a LOT of what I've experienced, thought, considered, etc.. I've subscribed and I'm looking forward to watching more of your videos. Fran
Need to start doing more videos like this. Seems a LOT of brothers need this information. Seems many of the new cats are just focusing on women. To each their own. I'll always focus on the overall experience.
You're videos are an inspiration you really do not know how motivating they are for me, I remember when you barely had a 1000 subs now you halfway to 10K, you on your way brother, we need more life night footage though lol
This is everything in my heart right now. Just quit my job today because there has to be more to life than this. Buckling down to figure out how to fund my desire for change.
hey, I can relate to everything your saying. We do live in a negative bubble. I had the same experiences after returning home from abroad. And my skin color has NEVER been an issue for me while traveling, and I have been doing some extensive travelling since I was 25 years old.
Yes preach brother you are doing a wonderful job May the most high continue to keep blessing you to do these videos educate the people let them know that there is truly life outside of America we are on our way
I'm a new ex pat (currently living in Bali since January 2017). Your videos have been quite interesting to watch. Thank you for your thoughts and the different interviews/conversations you share on your channel. Bali has been great, but I know this isn't where I want to live next year. I believe Thailand will be more my speed (I'm a New York Transplant from the SF Bay). I've always been a traveler and honestly never seriously considered living outside of the states until my sister invited me. Now, I have no desire to go back. I'm just trying to find my perfect fit. I'm going to take a look at more of your videos, but I might have some questions about living in Bangkok in the future. Thanks again for what you do!
Emotional stability and self-awareness are like finding rare diamonds to me. So few people even realize they are emotionally unstable or traumatized. Post-traumatic stress disorder isn't only seen in soldiers. From parents passing away to gang violence. It all can be tracked and yes, treated in some way. We just have to be self-aware enough to realize we need help or to change.
100% true! And we all bump into things in life where we need to reach out and get help whether it is therapy, friends, nature, prayer, meditation... So many people don't even know they are suffering....
Well, I haven't seen all your videos, but I have seen a few and this is the best and right on point, IMAO. I've been an expat for many years now and will probably never live in the U.S. again. I too love my country of birth and the ideals and promise upon which it was founded. The energetic field of negativity when visiting the States is so very apparent; and like you said, Erick, it drains your spiritual and physical energy. I could go over many of the points you make, perhaps we can discuss them some time in BKK. In closing, I will mention just one more point--education. I was lucky to go to public schools that had some excellent teachers. Two things we were taught that do not seem to be taught anymore were critical thinking and critical reading. I also devoured history (which is almost nonexistent in U.S. public education anymore). Your proposed update of educational policy and curricula would be fabulous; however, I don't think that there is any political will or desire to implement that. Just look at our current Secretary of Education. CU around!
Yeah man, i left a few years ago and now live in a sunny mediterranean nation. I could NEVER move back. The US is a soulless, racist, overpriced, impoverished, dog eat dog place. My only regret is that i didn't leave sooner. Thankfully I am still young. My dating and love life soared the day i left.
Thanks for sharing this Eric. You've given me a new found motivation for becoming a digital nomad/expat as there are too many countries around the world that are more suited for us as black american men. Wishing you much success throughout your journey bro!
Minority Nomad In fact, I have a very specific question to ask you concerning my situation, but it's very personal. Is there an email I can reach you at or send you a message on facebook to ask my question? Thanks bro!!!
9:33 It makes total sense that you didn't feel comfortable in the US anymore. I have felt like that since my first time to DR back in 2004. After coming back I felt out of place. I knew I didn't belong in this country. I felt more comfortable outside of the US. So I went back two more times in 2005. May for two weeks and then I studied abroad there for 4 months (August-Dec.) I felt more at home there. Then after that I started hopping around the globe; Mexico, Colombia, Turkey, Spain, Morocco. All of these trips reinforced the feeling that I didn't feel completely at home in the US. I found people to be more authentic and wherever I went they welcomed me with opened arms as if I were a native. I've had a lot of beautiful experiences in my travels. I've met a lot of intelligent and like minded people. I met a guy from England, who I became very good friends with, in Spain and he said the same thing about England. He felt better outside of England.
Another great video, witch make me glad that I found your Chanel ! I like the way you thinking. I'm also what you call "Ex Pat" , but in and from Europe. Definitely was a good experience and make me see life, from another perspective. Still bring me new lessons , every day. Be well, safe and have fun out there !
just saw your video on being a proud american expat. Your Right on! I'm a 63 year old single white male and have travel overseas for the last ten years. It is a wonderful eye opener. I only wish I had started at your young age. Safe travels. Bless you
I am so blessed to have found your channel and you are so right. As a black female I agree with everything you have said about programming etc. Wow! So true. I am definitely subscribing to your channel. Great video!
Absolutely spot on....education and travel can change the world for all of us....for the better. What struck me about this video, and this gives me hope for the future, is this....I’m white and grew up in rural Canada, which is to say I grew up in a white world ( over 97% white in my province, but let me stress, NOT a racist society...we aren’t perfect but I hope that Canada is viewed overall as an open, accepting, and diverse society). You, however, grew up a person of colour in an urban setting, disadvantaged due to race in a country with serious social disfunction, and on top of all that, you spent years being indoctrinated by the US military. Yet, here we are, diametrically opposite upbringings, with very similar world views and very similar perspectives on a wide range of social issues. Why?......travel and education
Erick, your blog is spot on correct. My first Army duty station was Bad Kissingen GE when I discovered as I walked back to the Barracks at 2-3 am without worrying about any form of danger. My situational awareness was thrown for a loop, because of growing up in the city of St. Louis were shootings and death was a daily occurrence. On my return two years later, my mind and body were shocked with so much city background noise my mind and body had to become re-accustomed to again. Sadly as an opinionated writer for several sites, I have decided not to complain but give solutions, that no one is concern about, but at least the answers have been given. I have two or three more years in the US before I take my travels to the rest of the world and I feel I will not return unless it is for the death of a family member. I'm considering expat communities in Costa-Rica, Southeast Aisa, and Mexico. You travel safe, and our paths will cross soon. Take care. :-)
EXACTLY!!!! The noise is shocking. We have similar backgrounds as STL isn't too different than Cleveland in that respect. My first overseas station was Rhein Main Germany. And coming back was insane. I don't think I actually went back to Cleveland the last few years of service. Those are all great ex-pat choices. I'm partial to SEA because of the bigger cities though. I got bored in Costa Rica. Love Mexico City.
He is telling the truth about holiday weekends and death especially if you are Black or a Person of Color in the U.S.A. It really is that bad in a lot of places here
Yes it's true about the holiday weekends for black people in cities in America. But it's not white people killing black people it's black people killing black people. Just saying that if you are going to lump people into races then it can't be "black people are victims" if it's also not "black people are perpetrators", you can't pick and choose. Crime in the black community is bad which leads to stereo types which leads to racism which leads to things like cops being more jumpy with the gun when dealing with black suspects or white ladies holding their purses tight if a black man walks by. Not saying it's right just saying that's the way it is.
Thanks for your video. I'm a minority expat myself (but not a nomad) in Hamburg. Here for 5 years. Grew up very close to EWR and I totally second the fact about fear when being home. I have this anxiety/ fear of police violence when I get back. I'll be staying in Germany as long as they keep giving me visas. :) Keep up the great work!
You hit the nail on the head with this! Being in the USA has been soooooooo exhausting listening and watching everyone complain about the most trivial things and feeding into all of the baity negativity portrayed day after day. After participating in a travel study program abroad, it made me addicted to traveling and obtaining new perspectives and cultures around the world. People think I'm leaving bc I hate America. While I have strong opinions about it, I think going abroad allows you use your American privileges to the fullest, and it allows you to come up with ways that could make the country better when you adopt new perspectives and values from other cultures. This video was pretty much validated many of my many reasons for taking this job opportunity in Taiwan. I leave next week. I'm so hype lol! Side note: what's Turkmenistan like? I never really hear much about the 'stans other than Afghanistan and Pakistan.
Exhausting is an excellent way to describe that reverse culture shock feeling for people of color returning "home". Congrats on the job. So damn proud to hear that. Although I'm a bit jealous you'll be so close to the amazing Shilin Market. FOOOOOOOOODDDDDD. I need to get back to Turkmenistan. I went while in the military so my experience was colored by that. People were kind and the food was mehhhh. Lots more Soviet influence than I ever knew existed.
Hey Eric, I just returned from a month at home in Chicago. I was nervous the whole time. I could not help but to think about what I would do if I were pulled over by the police. It made me sad to constantly see black men pulled over and detained by the police. It made me even sadder that two of my close girlfriends reported being arrested for resisting arrest just for questioning the police. I was sad to leave, because I miss my family. But I could not wait to be in a place where fear and anxiety was not so present in my everyday existence. Back to one of my happy places, Vietnam.
Military service isn't a requirement to a better life. Nothing more than a stepping stone to where I am now. Quite a few of us have used the military to propel ourselves to something else but, it's not even close to being the only avenue to self-improvement. Find something you love and you're passionate about and do that.
Omg that part about America not being safe is so true!! I try to explain this to my friends and family in the US all the time. I feel so much safer when im outside the states.
I love America too, but I've experienced that exact same feeling you mentioned as soon as I get back to the states. Everybody is walking around depressed, argumentative or afraid 24/7 and political views aside, it reminds you that you're back in the US when you're surrounded by people who take their own country & standards of living for granted. Safe travels Bro & Thanks for sharing! 💯💪🏾
Minority Nomad I know what you mean. I've only been away for 9 days & I feel it, so I can only imagine how you could feel after experiencing all of the other countries you've experienced for an even longer amount of time.
But I'll never complain man. I have ultimate freedom while people are stuck at home. Jetlag and last minute cancellations are something I'm cool with having to deal with. Long game. Lol
You are so right about European education. I am a college professor in the USA. I am appalled by how the educational system has cheated our students, and by the time they get to college they are lost.
Its discouraging. And so many people look at me crazy when I bring this up. These kids aren't ready. And their going to get SMASHED by these kids from overseas. Its terrifying thinking 20 years down the road.
I grew up Miami, FL. Getting shot on 4th of July and New Years is a painful reality. My mother didn't allow us to attend events because it was a well known risk that we could get shot. New Years, we spent at church and 4th of July, we stayed in the house. My white husband had a very different experience growing up. His family celebrated both holidays every year. He grew up in the country (far cry from my city life).
It's something we seriously need to acknowledge. I've had so many people calling me out for that comment. If it wasn't happening then it wouldn't be a concern for so many and a running joke. Crazy.
Not an ex-pat but I hope to be in the near future. Thanks for offering your perspective. I often have to make a concerted effort to avoid the news. It's good to be informed but too much negativity is not good for one's well-being. On another note: I'm heading to Thailand in January (first time in any Asian country). Your videos have been extremely helpful in planning my trip.
I've been blessed to find news sources I like and trust that offer a balance. Check out Monocle 24. Online and print magazine with a wonderful radio station. Glad my Thailand content is helping. Let me know if you need any more advice. I'll be working in South America then or I would show you around.
Thank you for the reference. I did want to get a couple of suits made (I work in an office). Do you recommend anyone in Bangkok or Chiang Mai? Also: Although the comments on the video describing your experience with nationalism turned into somewhat of a sh*tshow, I wanted to let you know that you actually convinced me to give Poland a try! NO. Not Warsaw...lol. But I'd written off the country as a whole until I heard you describe the cities in Poland that you did enjoy visiting and why. It may not be next on my list, but it's back on the list.
glad to hear you'll give Poland a shot. It's frustrating people thought I was attacking Poland as a whole when I was doing the opposite. Pointing out a flaw that would keep travelers of color and progressives away. I love Poland and always have. But that experience sucked. Shoot me an email about the suit recommendations. theminoritynomad@gmail.com
The Negativity in the US is unreal. I appreciate you shedding light on that issue. Thank you for sharing your experiences on traveling and how living in other places outside the US is always an option and possible.
It is very interesting to hear an american speak about something I've noticed since I moved to the USA from Panama 12 years ago. People always complaining about something, and really things here a pretty good compared to other parts of the world. I live in Austin, BTW. All the best on your travels.
+La Negra Bella I actually stayed in casco viejo in Panama City for about a month. Travel really helps you to see the best of what you have. Especially when you've lived or traveled in Central America, Eastern Europe, or Southeast Asia.
Minority Nomad I Agree. I have been blessed with parents who always encouraged me to travel as well as friends who also enjoy traveling. Traveling opens your eyes to a vast world, helps you learn about and understand other cultures. It humbles us and helps us appreciate what one has. I love to go to Casco Viejo. Hope you enjoyed your stay.
I'm black from Chicago. I just got back from Colombia. coming back has been miserable. I got back july 3rd the next day over 100 ppl shot. Ex Pat here i come. I've always heard the two really good places to live is Thailand or Colombia. thoughts?
Both are great options. I'm a big fan of both countries but I chose Thailand because it has far more to offer. Since I'm a travel journalist I need to get around Asia and Europe quickly and cheaply. I can get to Europe direct for around $250 and 11 hours if needed. Anywhere in Asia is a few hours max and around $100. Sometimes $20. Bangkok is an amazing international city. Colombia just doesn't compare. For me, Colombia is where I go to vacation and party. Cost of living are pretty close in the big cities. Bangkok vs Medellin is a good comparison to look into if thats your speed.
I don't know about Thailand but what I do know about Colombia from having Colombian friends, people that traveled to Colombia and speaking with Colombian Women. Medellin is probably the safest bet but the crime rates are still higher than avg compared to other countries. Spanish is a must and you should speak Spanish at a conversational level to integrate with the people in the country. I heard Bogota has higher crime rates than Medellin, and Cartegena has a cancun vibe. I heard Bucaramanga is a pretty safe city in Colombia. But from people that traveled to Colombia they really loved Medellin's nightlife.
I totally agree with everything you said in this video. I'm 23 years old studying to be a physical therapist and the main thing I want to do with my degree is become a travel pt. So many black people are scared to travel or live outside the US but when you really think about, what do you have to lose considering that the US has showed many times that it doesn't care about us? I feel that I might as well see what else is out there. Like you said, no where in the world will ever be perfect, but I'm not looking for perfection, just something better than what the US is dishing out.
My Brotha i hear ya. I've traveled to 26 countries to date. I'm from the hood of Baltimore city and I've never understood why some people can't see beyond their surroundings. I'd die if I couldn't travel somewhere, and it blows my mind that others can't even see past their state's. I currently live in Vancouver, Canada because my ex-wife is Canadian and I wanted to be here for my children. I've been to Thailand and around southeast Asia many times and can see why you love it there like you do. One day I hope to either live there or Vietnam. I'll be back to both in august.
trying to get more of us out here man. I think it's a simple matter of representation. people just don't see enough of us. And those they do see are "balling". So it seems unattainable. Small steps my brother. We'll get there
@@Minoritynomad Man I feel ya. Life is short and it's a shame some people don't want to live life to the fullest. They don't even realize that the food from the county of origin is far more superior than It's counterparts in the west, and that's a damn shame.
Hey bro. Would be interested in seeing your story about what you did to set yourself up financially to become an expat. Could you link me to your video if you've already covered this topic?
it's a bit more than this. I personally invested my money in people, companies, and places I felt it would grow. So that gave me a good jumping off point. I've never been a "baller" kind of cat. Prefer to invest.
The DSLR Chronicles I would like to know also how you set yourself up to be a Expat. I'm very interested in leaving the STATES, and would like to start preparing myself right now, I would like more information on how to go about it and good places to live that's free of Chemtrails.
Yes: I went to Germany in April of 2001, married a German national and didn't return to the USA until Feb. of 2005. Reverse culture shock? You bet! I couldn't speak German in 2001 which was terrible because it made me totally dependent on my spouse (who, incidentally, refused to speak German WITH me). An intensive course in the language helped tremendously and made me feel more a part of the society there. Coming back here was/is tough because no one around me could fully appreciate how much my ex-pat experience had changed me. Was able to make a good, long trip back to Europe in 2016, and as much as I felt "back home" there, I had to come back; family responsibilities with aging parents; I look forward to going back to Europe, possibly, to live, someday. Really enjoy all of your posts and updates as I vicariously travel with you!
I totally understand that. Same happened to me when I was stationed in Germany and then went back to the states. It wasnt as bad then but still noticeable. Appreciate you commenting and sharing your experience.
I used to live in a city with a population of around 1 and a half million people and more than 1100 homicides per year. Everybody was robbed and threatened by gun or knives more than once there...let's add to it economic crisis (where the average wage is around USD500, with the same living costs average of the rest of the world, except for the cars, far away expensives)... So, a great struggle to survive in a place that don`t taught me to love it besides the problems, unfortunatelly. So in may 2016 me and my wife decided to sell all the few things we had and start over abroad. I`m 39, she is 28, I`m still learning to speak English, working as cleaner and getting housekeeping jobs while I improving my language... and lovin` it! That is because i`m not afraid to walk on streets anymore, and I can do so many things with the money I earn with these jobs compared to my past routine... Maybe I can`t live here forever but certainly I`ll stay away from the country I was born in (I don`t think home country is an accurate term). I'm a Brazilian living currently in Ireland.
Yes I was an expat in China for two years. Now back in Canada but I’m ready to go back on the road again. But I want to go live in South America. May I ask why you said you can’t live in the US?
I grew up in Cleveland too, as well as in Illinois. I've been in 4th of July situations where you had to suss out fireworks from the gunshots used as fireworks to the gunshots used to shoot at people. Nerve-wracking.
Australian Expat currently living back in australia for the short term while i fix up my finances. Back from 1 year in thailand and 2 years in vietnam. " Living in _________ is pretty damn good but it doesn't fit me right now or maybe ever again." That quote is exactly how i feel now. Not travelling but actually living a minimalist lifestyle amongst people from a different culture with different beliefs really opened my eyes to what life can and is about. Just like in your video you were talking about growing up and being programmed to have specific type of beliefs and needs, I feel i was too, but i think that comes with growing up in a western country. Theres nothing wrong with that but my experiences living abroad have shown me the total opposite. For example, whatever i thought i needed was just stuff to make me feel accepted in society. It's true being an expat allows you to be who you want to be and through this i have not only learnt a lot about myself but about what i want in life by being allowed to stay true to myself in a non judgmental environment. Now that i've returned home? i can't wait to leave again. Finding that life back in australia seems to easily complicate itself for no reason compared to the 2 countries i lived in, and that's probably the reason i can't see myself ever living here again. The other main reason is the quality of life, not only by living in a cheaper country and being able to afford life's little comforts but by the type of people you meet. I always seem to meet people from all walks of life from all different ages from every part of the world and its always great learning about how people view the world. Theres a huge difference in opinion between someone on holidays and expats. Great video and will definitely subscribe and check out your channel.!
Great video! But what you failed to mention is that senseless shootings are not only in the hood. There was a road rage shooting in PA an 18 yr old black girl who was due to be in college this month was shot by a 28 yr old white guy. This was in the suburbs. The highways can be just as dangerous as the hood because of the stress.
oh I know. gun violence overall is a problem. I'm just focusing on the hood because that's where I'm from. Where my family is. Where my thoughts consistently turn. And unfortunately, where most of those 100 people shot are from.
Man, this video was great for me to watch! I grew up in a small town in Kentucky, before moving to California and then going abroad. My view of Kentucky is like Minority Nomad's perspective on the USA at-large; now that I've been away, I see the state's incredible beauty, but I also see what is so wrong, so backward, so messed up about that state. Kentuckians are INCREDIBLY defensive about their state (I think more so than even Texans!), even when you're not really criticizing it. That realization, combined with a terrible job market and a social dynamic in which I never entirely fit in, helped me realize it was time to leave. As for California, I loved living in the state (well, loved LA and SF, hated San Diego); I met some great people, ate some of the best cuisine in the world, and landed some high-paying jobs relative to my profession. However, the work environment in my profession is incredibly toxic in California, and my colleagues, friends and I were switching jobs an average of once a year (and my workplaces had as low as 30% and as high as 80% turnover annually). I watched the most dedicated, competent employees imaginable get fired or pushed out, left and right, for reasons shady, subjective and arbitrary--and sometimes illegal. Thankfully, I jumped ships before I ever suffered such fates. Rampant workplace toxicity, as well as my disgust with California's grossly incompetent governance, helped me realize it was time to leave. I'm bouncing back and forth between Australia and New Zealand right now on visas that allow me to work temporarily in either country, while being open to securing a longer-term job in my field in either country. I haven't cared much for Sydney and Auckland, but I could easily live in Christchurch, Hobart, Brisbane, etc. I'm also open to Singapore, UAE, Hong Kong, maybe even Oman or Japan... Or, maybe back to the USA, in a lower-cost, lower-stress, low-humidity state like Utah or New Mexico (both of which I love)... Who knows?! I'm treating this phase of my life right now as an adventure with no serious agenda, and using it as an opportunity to better gain intellectual and psychological perspective on my beloved, wonderful USA by being away from it!
I'm so damn proud and excited to read this. See this is what I'm talking about. Seeing a shit situation and adjusting. Making moves to better your life. And heading abroad. Taking advantage of the opportunities there. I'm telling you this my friend, no way I voluntarily go back to the U.S. It's just toxic and I can't have that poison in my heart. Safe travels.
Minority Nomad Thanks. Yeah, I'll always love the South, but the South is hopelessly backward. Many Southerners are also obviously fake-friendly, and even dumb. (I like Texas a lot, though, even if it really isn't "Southern." Florida is just...weird.) I'll always love California, but the whole holier-than-thou attitude of some people living in west LA, central SD, Santa Barbara, SF, and Berkeley, toward the rest of their state and nation, is just disgusting. I plan to keep my voting registration there long enough to vote in favor of Calexit, then bounce for good. (If they want to leave the union so bad, I say let 'em leave!) The Midwest is too depressing and "weird" for my taste (except Chicago, that's actually a cool city). For example, Iowans, Hoosiers, and Minnesotans are nice enough, but kind of standoffish and distrusting. The Northeast is intriguing, but, for me, it's too fast-paced in the cities and too "rust-beltish" in the rural areas. Hawaii is gorgeous and great to visit, but it somewhat reminds me of a tropical San Diego, and, again, I didn't like living in SD. I feel like the inland West is the part of America that I'd live in when/if I come back for good. Even so, New Zealand and Australia are generally less toxic culturally than the States generally are. I'm apologize if I, myself, seem too negative. I guess being an American is like being a Brit, Frenchie, South African, etc., etc. in that you'll always love your country, but can't ignore its flaws.
I am a born, raised and practicing Buddhist from California. Growing up I always said I was a Global Citizen. Last year I embarked on my childhood dream of living abroad six months out of the year! I knew that embarking on this journey, one of two things would happen. I would run back to America with my pants on fire, with this renewed appreciation for being born “American” OR I would find that I was told, sold and bought a bill of goods that a woman like me, with my built-in-tan could live somewhere else and have a safe, loving and healthy existence. I found out and experienced the latter!! Upon returning I immediately was ready to leave for my next country! Going forward I am visiting each country with a profound understanding and intention to find my place on the planet. Right now out of the countries I have visited, NZ is at the top of my list!! On my list to visit and research is Sweden, Uruguay and Ireland. I am grateful to have found your channel! To your continued HEALTH, LOVE, Laughter, Joy, PEACE and Prosperity, NOW and always! To think is to create!!! WE are born with everything we need to live extraordinary lives, that we are not is merely a CHOICE! Decide to live a life of abundance and gratefulness! It’s Key!
Wow. Thanks so much for the beautiful message and insight into your life. New Zealand is on track to being my 100th country visited. I'm extremely excited. I definitely understand where you're coming from. It's a heavy thing. Coming home after so much time abroad and finding the veil being lifted from your eyes. I'm so glad the pull of living as a global citizen is tugging at you. Hope to hear more of your travels and exploration. All the best.
I went to Montreal and I loved it. It was very cheap compared to many places in the US. The french people there were very nice. Im going to travel to find the right place for me to live. Either Latin America or Eastern Europe
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www.vice.com/en_us/article/ev4aww/american-ex-pats-explain-why-they-quit-america link to the article I mentioned at the beginning.
Yeah the identity thing affects Professional athletes a lot because they feel like they exist on this Earth to play sports(be an athlete). In your case be a soldier.
Good to see a fellow expat vet on YT. I was in the Army for 4 years and left straight for China as soon as I got my DD214. I've been in China for 10 months now. Having been stationed OCONUS for so long, and other experiences abroad, I just couldn't see myself going back home to the same American life. Even when I came back home from time to time during my time in active duty I always felt a certain tension in the air as soon as I entered the airport (normally LAX).
I was especially aware of the white folks staring at me out the corner of my eyes a lot, as if I wasn't supposed to be there. It was only when Is struck up a random convo at some airport bar and mentioned being in the service and serving in Afghanistan that the White guys would drop their guard. What the heck?
Even here in China. I get lots of stares from the Chinese but it's not like back at home. One thing I notice too is that White guys from the states living here in China have huge egos and feel the need to let everyone know ow great they are and how much China sucks but that Asians and Asian women especially, should worship them in some fashion or another. White guys overseas have hella problems. At least the Russians and Ukrainians act cool and down to Earth.
I don't see myself staying in China form more than 5 years as the culture doesn't vibe with me well, but there's alot of money here, so I'll stick it out.
brooooooo. I've gotten into so much shit for saying this but fuck it. I'll say it again, Asian's (many not all of course) treat white men like gods out here. It's fucking annoying. Especially given how many are such arrogant douchebags. Usually Americans and Brits. Have a couple I would call friends but generally, nahhhh. I'm good. The way they talk down to people and talk shit on countries where their reaping massive benefits. Insane to me.
I felt the exact same way. When I go home it feels like entering a war torn country. Feels like the Balkans region. This air of desperation and frustration. Breaks my heart but I've built a life that affords me freedom. All we can do is live our lives and support those who havent/cant make it out.
T'is an insane world, with pockets of sanity here and there.
Amen to that brother. You got a subscriber out've me!
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What you say is true! I live it everyday in New York City, you step over people begging everyday. I'm a Black man and it is hard here. I've been able to travel, been to Bangkok, Chai mai, South Africa, France and England and I agree with all that you say. I tell my friends don't be afraid to travel this is not the best place in the world. The system here is built for those at the top, if you are in the middle or bottom it's not so great here. I think life in Thailand would be great, I love it there. Unlike you many Americans never travel outside the US, they are afraid of those other people lol. My first trip to Africa, my family and friends were afraid for me, and tried to talk me out of it. When I got there it was so beautiful that I cried!! Don't let other people's fear stop you from traveling
100%. NYC broke my heart man. So much wealth and potential. NYC can be a beacon of hope and understanding. Unfortunately, those in positions of power don't necessarily see it that way. Life in Thailand is great. Of course it has it's drawbacks but overall, excellent.
I went to Chang Mai, I went with the intention of seeing if I would be comfortable living there. It was nice, but I prefer Bangkok. Being from NYC, I feel more at home in Bangkok, the hustle of the city made me feel right at home. I love it!! Putting together my exit plan, maybe 1 more year in NYC and I'm out. It is depressing here.
yup. the comparison isn't even close. I can stay in CM for two days tops. lol.
I think there is some truth to this but it's like anything else you want. Priorities. Everyone wants abs but most aren't willing to put in the work to get them. Everyone's situation is different of course. But for many professionals, living abroad actually saves them money. ESPECIALLY those who are receiving a western salary. Of course, not everyone has the means to be an expat. But that's not a reason not to work towards acquiring the means/skills which will open that door.
@Minority Nomad....I left the US years ago and will NEVER live in the US again. I didn't want my child growing up in that culture either. Fortunately, I acquired a second-passport years ago. I live in one of the Top 5 best countries in the world to live...and I LOVE IT. The quality of life is amazing...! Having the passport allows me all the rights and privileges as a bona-fide citizen of the country I live in. Being an "expat" is different. I never had to bother with visas, permits, and the like.
I do know quite a few expats though and they do have to be concerned about work permits. For example, most countries will require a person who wants to live in the country "prove" that they have the means to support themselves. This may mean having a job already lined up. If an expat is relocating because of their job, in most cases the company will take care of all legal paper matters including visas, permits, etc. Some companies even offer expats a relocation allowance paying for airfare, freight for furnishings etc, apartment, etc. Without the proper funds and being in-line with the legal requirements that the country demands, being an expat is no fun. It's much like being a migrant (nomad) in many instances. Healthcare, unemployment, housing, and more can be difficult if you are not "legally situated" in the country you want to live.
I would recommend anyone considering becoming an expat is to check-out various companies in your desired location to see if they have openings. This will greatly help get your foot in the door. In fact, you will find many American companies around the world. Checking on the Internet is very, very helpful. That's probably the easiest way, unless you have a LARGE amount of money. Being self-employed might work but the individual still needs the correct papers in order to establish their business and must prove that they are self-sufficient. Depending on the country, there are a number of visas available. Keep in mind, visas are limited.
America has turned into a hellhole, so I definitely can see why someone would want to leave the country. In fact, I highly recommend it. However, you have to do it properly or you will end up no better in status than a migrant...being a nomad implies non-legal status, which most 1st world countries will not permit. It's not much different to being a refugee/migrant...One cannot not simply pack up and move to another country without preparation and checking what is legally permissible as far as being an expat is concerned. Good Luck!
The Philando Castille verdict was the last straw for me. I have a wife and four sons so I have to think about their safety and what's best for them. We are moving to Mexico in November for about six months and then we are heading to Medellin. From there we will travel around South America and just enjoy life. I'm pretty sure I'm not coming back anytime in the foreseeable future.
Safe travels man. I'm not the most militant brother around. But when it's clear and blatant, there's nothing to do but leave if you have the means. We've been given all the information we'll ever need to know the US isn't for us. Let me know if yall need any help. I'll actually be down there on assignments from December to February. 15 countries
Gordon Simon how has that worked out?
Is there a safety related issue in Mexico? Or is there an undertow of insurrection or instability?.
Gordon how is it going? Updates?
Gordon Simon I knew him. Omg
I thank you for your honesty. No one really wants to throw themselves in harm's way. I live in Baltimore. I'm a Black man who has never been arrested, I don't sell drugs, I work and take care of my family. America doesn't care. They see my Black skin and they see a treat. I FEAR dying by the hands of the police. I've been pulled over, roughed up by the police. I feel like anytime I see their lights I could die. Am I being paranoid? You tell me? It happens to good Black men far too often. Police in the city where I'm from plant drugs on people and write false police reports and STILL nothing changes. They don't care that I am a college graduate, work for the government, or that I just want to make it home to my wife and kids. Just because I am Black I can die any day by the hands of the police and I KNOW not a damn thing would change.
Paranoia is defined as follows: mental condition characterized by delusions of persecution, unwarranted jealousy, or exaggerated self-importance, typically elaborated into an organized system. It may be an aspect of chronic personality disorder, of drug abuse, or of a serious condition such as schizophrenia in which the person loses touch with reality.
You aren't paranoid because a fear of police and violence isn't a delusion. It's an easily verifiable FACT that black men are disproportionately killed and harassed by police officers in the US. It's ridiculous that people even argue with us at this point. It's fact.
Stay safe over there man. As I said, I'm not going back if I have the choice.
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This video sums up EXACTLY how I feel. Just two months ago, my (14 yr old) and I took a month to travel around Europe and I have to say, even though we were only over there for a month, I noticed the differences between being in the US vs Europe. We both felt so comfortable over there. I noticed the minute we came back, all those frustrations of living in the US came back and I knew that my goal would be to figure out how my daughter and I could travel for life. Thanks for the video. A lot of people I speak to try to make me feel like I don't know what I am talking about, but like you said, leaving the States and seeing it, is the only way you will know.
THANK YOU so much for exposing your daughter to that. I actually make these videos for them. To inspire young people to just GO. Get out and explore. And it's so rare that parents take their children outside of the US to experience the world. Where are you thinking of going?
I am not sure where we are going next. I am thinking Italy, Spain and Greece. The last trip we visited 7 different countries. It was fun but a lot of train rides. I bought her a scratch off map and my goal is to have her scratch off as many countries tries as she can before leaving for college.
+Bella1dona2 yooooo. My friend just bought me one of those maps as a joke because I'm always gone. Lol. Italy and Spain can easily be done together. Excellent low cost flights between the two. Let me know if you need help planning.
Okay. Thanks!
AMEN!!! I am feeling it too... the pull, elsewhere...
As a man of color living in nyc, i completely agree with everything you said about NYC. Its not a healthy place to live long term. Everyday i see memtally ill ppl on the trains on the streets. Every morning i go to work in the morning, everyone looks complete drained and miserable. Im definitely looking to find a new city or country to live.
+aLDonPhoto yeah man. I couldn’t do it personally. My mental health is too important.
Living in NYC, I feel the same way.
Sukhmeet Dhingra Hell yeah! It’s packed as fuck! They taxed the shit outta you. It’s Hella expensive. They have the best of everything, but you
gotta deal with all the bullshit of a major city.
I hear you. I was born and raised Brooklyn for 30 years. Been living in London last 25 years and will probably die here. I don't miss USA that much, besides the food and baseball. Last visit to New York 5 years ago, and couldn't wait to leave. I love America and being American with my time in Navy. But it's a good part of my history. Travel and see this world while it's still here.
story i've heard many times my friend.
I know exactly what you mean...I retired from the Army in 2005, however, I spent 21 years living in Germany and two year living in korea as a soldier or DA Civilian. Over the 26 years of my service, I traveled extensively throughout Europe and Asia. As you said, it opened my eyes to a much different perspective of the world. In addition to as you stated providing me a new self-awareness. I didn't miss the US as all. In fact, I dread returning. I've decided to retire in another five years to Panama City Panama or back to Florida (Miami) which is my home state. There are a few more places that I would love to visit that remain on my bucket list. For me, I felt a deep connection to Korea and Spain, tow polar opposites, but I could easily assimilate to either. Unfortunately, I'm back in the US in a state that I hate, due to my Government job. So, I'm looking forward to retirement again, and traveling again to far off locations, that I loved or always wanted to visit. I suppose that wondering spirite in apart of who I am. There's so many beautiful places to see and experience in this world, its too bad that many Black Americans never get the change to experience in their life. Like you, the military gave me that. I like Thialand too, along with Singapore and Jakarta. But Seoul Korea and Spain (the southern coast, tenerife, Madrid etc.) have my heart. So enjoy your youth, and pride a good example for our black race whereever you go. Because the white man has done a great job or stero-typing who we are as a people. I like to dispell those prejudices around the globe or wherever i travel. Peace, RGEE
Korea was the first place I truly loved. Maybe Turkey. But my time stationed in Korea was life changing. I believe in the saying, "When you know better, you do better." Soooooo many of us just don't know better. And once you've seen what the world has to offer, there's no way in hell you'll feel ok with the crap happening back home. Just no way to go backwards. I think many AAs are waking up. As long as people want to keep seeing my stuff, i'll keep producing it.
where did you retire to?
I had a stroke last month...and I'm only 43. A large part of that has to do with EVERYTHING you mentioned in this video. I've grown to HATE being in America--for all the reasons you gave. I'm ALWAYS on edge; I'm ALWAYS divulged with negativity and hatred; I'm ALWAYS stoked in racism and apathy. And then Trump. It all culminated into a poltergeist of stress and misery that haunts me constantly. The only time I remember truly being happy is when I traveled. Because of this I've been everywhere from Milan to Minsk. When I try to tell my friends and family that a black person CAN BE and DESERVES to be happy--we just have to leave--I get scoffed at! We've been so brainwashed. I think I'm ready to take my own advice. I've been considering Thailand forever. I think 2018 will be it for me. Thank you for this video.
Living abroad as a black man gives of the freedom to exist. I tell brothers all the time, the level of stress and fear we deal with in the US is not healthy and contributes not only to health issues but the destruction of self esteem within our community. I can't tell you how many brothers have met me in Thailand and you can see the stress fade away and the fear in their eyes when it's time to go back. I hope you do come out here man. More of us need to.
Did I leave where?
I believe this is one of the most relevant and accurate videos I've seen in a very long while. It Was
✨James Baldwin who said: “To be black and conscious in America is to be in a constant state of rage.”
That quote Really sums it up.
I'm from New York City ,I've lived in London for a couple of months every few yrs with my family.. I spent a very short time traveling around Asia ,Im Home now and I can see the dysfunction around me ; like it's moving at the speed of light and I'm moving in slow motion.. don't get me wrong I love New York, I love the Bronx I love Harlem but.. do I want to live here for the rest of my days? absolutely not, my eyes have been opened and there's a better way to live.
As I've gotten older I realize the most important thing's. to me Are *Health and *Quality of life.
One person at a time. I'm glad you enjoyed this. I didn't want it to come off as America-hating. I love our country. But like you, I see the flaws. And traveling magnifies it. At this point, I'm about quality of life and showing as many people as possible they can live a great life if they want.
I agree with your point. Found the quote: "To be a Negro in this country and to be relatively conscious is to be in a rage almost all of the time."
James Baldwin! That brother was so deep it's frightening. He knew that most blacks in America were living in the Matrix.
Yes agree, , you may be borderline insane if you seen the world and how it's benefits may help you mentally and spiritualy
Definitely valid. I grew up in Brooklyn, NY and the reality is you don't go outside on a hot summer day without a purpose (i.e. work, school etc) You have a certain type of awareness living in New York City that makes you look over protective anywhere else.
Great video that speaks the truth. People who have never left USA are the most negative and afraid ones. Traveling abroad is one of the best things an African America can to gain a new perspective on life.
+paul brown totally agree. Just trying to show people what's out here. One country at a time. Appreciate the support and comment.
Thanks for this video. I live in Newark, NJ, but I have had the opportunity to travel to 10 countries so far. The first thing I noticed was how safe places were and how I was unnecessarily on edge in places like Milan and Naples. Even a place like Naples where people told me to be careful because it can be dangerous, but compared to Newark it was so nice to be able to walk around at night, get food and not worry about violence. I have created a plan to become an expat and look forward to it.
I've laughed at the places people call "rough" in other countries. I'm like ya'll would be eaten alive where I'm from. hahahaahah. Let me know if you need any help on an exit strategy.
Erik man listen we know each other from BKK--I've been back home in NYC after 3 years and you are absolutely correct! I've been highly aggravated since I've been here it's horrible and the mental illness is RAMPANT
white girl here! Thank you for your astute observations. I wish we had as part of our high school curriculum, not only mandatory travel abroad, but into each others communities, schools, synagogues in the US as well. We fear each other because it is being fueled by those in control, magnifying our own natural fight or flight responses to things we don't understand. I am absolutely amazed at not only the negativity here but how much we tolerate absolute dysfunction. But I know many must feel like I do-where to begin. And although I haven't made the move, I have done a lot of research on ex-pats and have several friends proudly claiming that status. Keep on saying what you say-maybe a few will hear, and it will have a domino effect.
I think you start with yourself. And looking at expat options is a great place to begin. I was just commenting on the Justin Timberlake super bowl show and the hate he's getting for it. I said to my friend, imagine how fucked up your life has to be where you spend hours online complaining about a pop singer........singing. lol. Life is too short for that stuff.
You are the first person who went straight to the subject matter. Keep this up and always stay on point!
that's one thing you can always count on from my uploads.
I just want you to know how much I am enjoying your presentation. You are straight forward, succinct, articulate and engaging. And you speak the truth. Well done and worth the observers time.
Appreciate the compliment
I needed to hear this. "So many people are professional complainers." That is so real. The little bit of travel that I have done has definitely revealed a different feeling of appreciation. I have to fight not to be sucked back in.
I dodge that foolishness like rain. All it does is get you wet and miserable. lol
Awesome vid and I totally agree with you...especially about the negativity back at home...just calling my family who are still in the states, just constantly hearing the strain in their voices and anytime I ask a friend or fam how are things, it's always bad news, all the time and that could be just because pll tend to easily focus on the negative but from a mental health and spiritual health standpoint, living abroad has been much healthier for me...Traveling didn't necessarily introduce me to all these new ideas and perspectives that I never knew of but it did confirm to me what I already felt and was never fully able to express and nurture...
ohhhhhh you would have gone crazy around the stuff I was around back home knowing about you what I do. My words just don't do it justice. It's painful to feel and even more so to know is happening when we leave.
Yeah I bet and I get what you mean...talking to my fam friends back at home, again it's always just bad news or just constant complaining and I feel kind of helpless...I can give words of encouragement, beg them to just leave but they refuse and keep just doing the same old things...I do want to go back now and again but glad to be an expat for sure.
unfortunately I've had to stop talking to some family members. I can't take it. I've "trained" others over the years. They know not to come at me with that foolishness because the response might not be so kind. lol. There comes a point when the excuses have to stop and the action needs to begin.
Totally agree.. you can only show people the way.. but they have to let their actions speak louder than their words, otherwise you're just wasting my time.
LiveLoveLifeandTravel Unfortunately, that is the very definition of insanity, if they are expecting different results. It's sad, as my family is largely the same way. I'm in the US, now, but I feel so disconnected from it all.
Wow I agree with EVERTHING you said. I have been living abroad for 3 years now, I am currently in Lisbon Portugal. Being outside of the U.S. allowed me a chance to do true self inspection and help me to realized all of the trauma I was exposed to in America. The mental health situation is something that has become very clear after spending so much time abroad. I watch American news now and get frightened of even the thought of visiting there. I no longer have to walk around as an "angry black man". I feel more open to life, and generally just more positive. Generally people are very friendly towards me and my American passport seems to come with a few perks. I hope we cross paths on our journey, seems we would have one hell of a conversation.
I was showing another brother around Bangkok. And he said the exact same thing. We have "permission" to be whomever we chose because we are now free to make these choices. Devoid of antiquated thinking and judgement. It's an amazing feeling. I think most brothers that move abroad wouldnt go home if given the choice.
Exactly, At one point I said I would consider going back for the right amount of money, but now that is not an option at all. America will always be home and hold a special place in my heart but the grass is so much greener on the other side. I dont wanna trade in my peace for chaos. Sad thing is I never knew I was living in Chaos.
People like you are so important for people like myself who are putting in work to move out of the country and start a new chapter. I know I will be an ex-pat for the rest of my life, and I am fully okay with that. I can always visit my family but I feel I have plateau in all facets while living in the U.S. Thank you for this channel.
+Frank S glad to help man. I’m here if you need any advice. All the best. It’s a fun journey
expat life is the way - the truth - the light. u on point as usual. my pops was military, so I grew up moving every 5 years or so, til my senior year in high school. travel is in my blood now. after a few years of college, I lived in canada & jamaica for 10 years, just because I wanted to. did well enough in those two completely different environments to realize that I can duplicate my success anywhere, based on my intelligence, will power & confidence. you definitely know wussup & are an inspiration bruh. hopefully, your important journey of self actualization, liberation, positivity & your keen insights, will encourage as many ppl as possible to break out of the box, especially black americans. the daily impact of all the negativity & stress in the US, definitely takes its toll on our physical & mental health. we have alternatives & opportunities around the world that we are sadly overlooking & missing out on. thnx & keep up the great WORK. guidance - protection - more blessings.
+SILVABAK X thanks for the comment. Glad you’re enjoying what I’m trying to do. Means a lot.
Dude, you are seriously on point on every level from start to finish in this video. Continue to deliver consciousness.
Maximum respect.
+Bangkok Baby thanks for the comment. Appreciate it.
Minority Nomad, I used to be a frequent visitor to Thailand (2 or 3 times a year for almost 10 years, as an independent fashion buyer). I hadn't been there in several years and just returned to London two days ago (21/7/17) after a month out that way - Vietnam and Laos - but most of my time was spent in Khon Kaen where my daughter lives with her mother, and Bangkok where I reestablished a few old business links. I found that Bangkok, in fact Thailand has changed somewhat, but for the better - though I can't say I dig the fact that the present government has a clear agenda to prevent a lot of poor people from plying their street food trade.
I love Thailand and through your videos you convey a great deal of the passion I feel each and every time I land in that country. I'm sure many people feel that vibe, too. Without going into too much of where I'm coming from I can tell you that I positively concur with your perspectives regarding home experiences in relation to those around the world. Carry on the enlightenment, my friend 😉😎
+Bangkok Baby greatly appreciate your insight and comment. Y'all keep watching and I'll keep posting. Thanks my friend.
I can relate to your feelings of being back in the US. I have so much trouble being able to express it to tother people who don not have the same feeling livnign in other parts of the world. I appreciate your video so much! I can relate to NYC and feeling depressing. I feel like since I have been back in the USA, I have been yearning to live abroad where I feel i can be 'myself' like you said. I loved this video! I'm subscribed! Keep traveling
it's a VERY hard thing to explain to people that haven't experienced life abroad. Glad the video helped/ Appreciate you taking the time to watch and comment.
Thanks man! love this video! I just moved to Asia few months ago and loving every minute of it. This video hit the spot for many Americans who choose to live abroad now.
It's another world out here. Sooooo many people dont understand why we stay gone. Just trying to show the other side.
Bro, thank you so much for sharing and being positive and articulate. I'm about to venture into the expat world and globe trot different countries. I just visited the Philippines for my 50th BD and I agree with you completely! That 1 trip changed my whole view of the world and I'm just beginning! Keep up the great work!
Glad to hear it. Amazing what travel can do to a brothers psyche
Just Found Your Channel.
I left the military in 1980 and in 1983 - 1987 I lived in Germany & w/o having the Internet, I did not see myself as a EX PAT...
Your Experience & Views Are Spot-On Point. This coming from a 61 year old Black Man, Ex Navy traveling to Far East & Europe.
Keep doing what you are doing!
thanks for the comment. sorry for the late reply.
One word ... freedom. You sound like a free man brother🙋♂️! It really feels like you took best decision and glad it works for you👍!
Made me cry ... blessings from Romania!
Yup. I'm still plug in a bit but consider myself extremely free.
This is the first time I have watched your videos (the title got my attention)! I too am a military vet and the opportunity to travel outside the US. Has really helped to open my eyes and being from the west side of Chicago. I am always depressed when I hear about my city. Which I always loved growing up but will never live in again. I do plan to retire in a country outside of the US (have not decided which yet). But you are speaking the truth about America. Thank you for sharing!
my pleasure and thanks for commenting. I love me some Chicago. Supposed to go back and speak in November. It feels like another home next to Cleveland. Breaks my heart.
You're speaking the real stuff...I've only spent about six months of the past six years in the U.S., and I have no plan whatever to live there again...mostly in the Caribbean and Central America, I've found a who new way of appreciating myself and the world....I live in peace and am soon taking permanent residence in Panama...I'm a long-time veteran also, and I don't bash the U.S., it's just that life is short, we only get one, and as long as I can have it my way, I'll remain happy doing so.
I hear that brother. All the best on your journey. I love seeing messages like this. Appreciate you taking the time to share your experience.
Thank you for sharing this video! I've been in South Korea for 3 months, and this is the first time I've lived outside of the US...outside of the South actually lol. I want to explore more after Korea and not go back to the US right away. So to hear your advice & your experience about living a year or more in multiple places really speaks to me. Just as you mentioned, I really feel like I have a clean slate & can accomplish things, & develop in ways I couldn't back home. I know everyone's experience is unique, but I look forward to learning more from your stories. Thanks!
+Jasmine T TV heyyyyyyy. It feels like South Korea is the first stop of international living for a lot of sisters lately. That's what's up. Korea was one of the first places I was stationed outside the US. When I fell in love with Asia. Bulgogi is my dish. Not to mention Soju. Woooooo.
Let me know what your next stop is going to be if you need any advice.
Minority Nomad Okay great, thanks! Yeah I heard a lot of positive things about living here (safety, etc) and Korea is one of the highest paying countries for little to no teaching experience sooo that's why I chose it really. Maybe some choose Korea because of Kpop & Kdramas. 😂🤷🏽♀️
KPop is the truth. Love their hip hop scene. Cats can dance out there and definitely appreciate the culture. How much longer you there?
Minority Nomad I have 9 months left in my contract, which I've been told can fly by. So I feel like it's never too early to start making a list of countries and seeing what their visa requirements & employment options are. I don't want to teach forever lol, I would prefer to work on my own stuff and/or do work from my computer. Teaching seemed like the only option for me to obtain a visa in Korea.
Your right, when you say that we are blessed as a country when it comes to personal freedoms. When I come home to the US, I feel like I go into survival mode, versus when I'm abroad I feel like I'm living. The relationships that I build with people outside of my country is on a different level. I'm building more lasting relationships abroad. But when your in survival mode in the US, it's like every man for himself. Thank you for sharing!!!
It's a terrifying reality about being a person of color in the US.
I am in Austin, Tx watching your video and it sounds like I’m listening to myself. Im just starting my transition into becoming a Digital Nomad. Thank for this video!
oh my home. good luck on the transition. can be tough but worth it in the long run. reach out anytime.
Excellent perspective that you gave. I have begun traveling abroad this year I am going to travel to Lima, Peru for about a week. I am actively trying to engineer a way to become an expat and earn a good living. I am content with what I have established here in the US, however I am finding it difficult to duplicate that abroad. I am confident that I will figure it out though.
Thank you for sharing your perspective and experience. You said a LOT of what I've experienced, thought, considered, etc.. I've subscribed and I'm looking forward to watching more of your videos. Fran
Glad to have you. Thanks for the love.
Great video, your points are valid! Off subject, what kind of camera are you using? Your lighting is awesome!
I can't take credit for the lighting. That space has amazing lighting. I use the Sony A7S.
So on point! Thanx for your candor and affirmation. Bon voyages!
+Nina Damiati appreciate it. Thanks for watching and commenting.
I appreciate the complete background you give and not just making it about dating.
Need to start doing more videos like this. Seems a LOT of brothers need this information. Seems many of the new cats are just focusing on women. To each their own. I'll always focus on the overall experience.
Glad I stumbled onto your video while researching ex-pats. So many great and valid points!
As am I. Hope it helped.
You're videos are an inspiration you really do not know how motivating they are for me, I remember when you barely had a 1000 subs now you halfway to 10K, you on your way brother, we need more life night footage though lol
see Solo, you always trying to get me in trouble man. lol. There's a video coming down the line I think you might enjoy on that front. lol
This is everything in my heart right now. Just quit my job today because there has to be more to life than this. Buckling down to figure out how to fund my desire for change.
Well welcome to the jungle. Lol. Remember, ideas mean very little. Effort and execution are the keys. I’m excited for you. New journey.
hey, I can relate to everything your saying. We do live in a negative bubble. I had the same experiences after returning home from abroad. And my skin color has NEVER been an issue for me while traveling, and I have been doing some extensive travelling since I was 25 years old.
It really is something else out here. I do see a lot of POCs that carry that negativity abroad with them. Sad to watch.
Eric, thanks for your videos; they have been so enlightening! Take care, bro. Also, planning to visit HK in Aug, take care...
My pleasure
Yes preach brother you are doing a wonderful job May the most high continue to keep blessing you to do these videos educate the people let them know that there is truly life outside of America we are on our way
Glad you like them. Appreciate the support
I'm a new ex pat (currently living in Bali since January 2017). Your videos have been quite interesting to watch. Thank you for your thoughts and the different interviews/conversations you share on your channel. Bali has been great, but I know this isn't where I want to live next year. I believe Thailand will be more my speed (I'm a New York Transplant from the SF Bay). I've always been a traveler and honestly never seriously considered living outside of the states until my sister invited me. Now, I have no desire to go back. I'm just trying to find my perfect fit. I'm going to take a look at more of your videos, but I might have some questions about living in Bangkok in the future. Thanks again for what you do!
+Glampowered no problem. Feel free to reach out anytime.
Emotional stability is everything! I really feel it drives a person's whole life...
Emotional stability and self-awareness are like finding rare diamonds to me. So few people even realize they are emotionally unstable or traumatized. Post-traumatic stress disorder isn't only seen in soldiers. From parents passing away to gang violence. It all can be tracked and yes, treated in some way. We just have to be self-aware enough to realize we need help or to change.
100% true! And we all bump into things in life where we need to reach out and get help whether it is therapy, friends, nature, prayer, meditation... So many people don't even know they are suffering....
Well, I haven't seen all your videos, but I have seen a few and this is the best and right on point, IMAO. I've been an expat for many years now and will probably never live in the U.S. again. I too love my country of birth and the ideals and promise upon which it was founded.
The energetic field of negativity when visiting the States is so very apparent; and like you said, Erick, it drains your spiritual and physical energy. I could go over many of the points you make, perhaps we can discuss them some time in BKK.
In closing, I will mention just one more point--education. I was lucky to go to public schools that had some excellent teachers. Two things we were taught that do not seem to be taught anymore were critical thinking and critical reading. I also devoured history (which is almost nonexistent in U.S. public education anymore). Your proposed update of educational policy and curricula would be fabulous; however, I don't think that there is any political will or desire to implement that. Just look at our current Secretary of Education. CU around!
Yeah man, i left a few years ago and now live in a sunny mediterranean nation. I could NEVER move back. The US is a soulless, racist, overpriced, impoverished, dog eat dog place. My only regret is that i didn't leave sooner. Thankfully I am still young. My dating and love life soared the day i left.
lol. Like leaving the Matrix.
where share the happeness
I enjoyed this throughly ---- thank you! I've subscribe and look forward to more.
Thank you for commenting and watching
Good for you... Thank you for your service.
Always a pleasure listening to your prospectives.
Stay safe, Eric
Donna Whittermore Farris
Saugus, Massachusetts USA
Thanks for sharing this Eric. You've given me a new found motivation for becoming a digital nomad/expat as there are too many countries around the world that are more suited for us as black american men. Wishing you much success throughout your journey bro!
glad to hear it. let me know if you need any help or advice.
Minority Nomad In fact, I have a very specific question to ask you concerning my situation, but it's very personal. Is there an email I can reach you at or send you a message on facebook to ask my question? Thanks bro!!!
Sending you a message on Facebook now
hit me at theminoritynomad@gmail.com
Thank you for your perspective on these vital issues. Respect
+Winston Gardner thanks for the comment.
Yessss! You have spoken the truth about the US. As a black female, I am preparing to move abroad. Thank you for sharing your experiences.
Glad to hear. Where you thinking?
Some really great thoughts and I agree so much about how people are programmed in the states. Thanks for sharing!
9:33 It makes total sense that you didn't feel comfortable in the US anymore. I have felt like that since my first time to DR back in 2004. After coming back I felt out of place. I knew I didn't belong in this country. I felt more comfortable outside of the US. So I went back two more times in 2005. May for two weeks and then I studied abroad there for 4 months (August-Dec.) I felt more at home there. Then after that I started hopping around the globe; Mexico, Colombia, Turkey, Spain, Morocco. All of these trips reinforced the feeling that I didn't feel completely at home in the US. I found people to be more authentic and wherever I went they welcomed me with opened arms as if I were a native. I've had a lot of beautiful experiences in my travels. I've met a lot of intelligent and like minded people. I met a guy from England, who I became very good friends with, in Spain and he said the same thing about England. He felt better outside of England.
everyone has to find the place they belong. sadly many don't venture away from their comfort zones to truly find happiness.
I love this...Thanks for sharing.. You are correct. In America people are programmed as well.
Yup. Tough cycle to break for many
Another great video, witch make me glad that I found your Chanel ! I like the way you thinking. I'm also what you call "Ex Pat" , but in and from Europe. Definitely was a good experience and make me see life, from another perspective. Still bring me new lessons , every day. Be well, safe and have fun out there !
Appreciate the comment man. You as well. Living outside one's home country is a daily lesson in life.
just saw your video on being a proud american expat. Your Right on! I'm a 63 year old single white male and have travel overseas for the last ten years. It is a wonderful eye opener. I only wish I had started at your young age. Safe travels.
Bless you
Thanks for taking the time to comment. We all start too late. Lol
Beautiful points being shared. Creating your own narrative with a blank slate.
Best way to do it.
I am so blessed to have found your channel and you are so right. As a black female I agree with everything you have said about programming etc. Wow! So true. I am definitely subscribing to your channel. Great video!
welcome to the family.
Real talk, brother..Thank you! I served overseas in the US military as well, but it's not the same as being a civilian.
thanks for watching.
Absolutely spot on....education and travel can change the world for all of us....for the better. What struck me about this video, and this gives me hope for the future, is this....I’m white and grew up in rural Canada, which is to say I grew up in a white world ( over 97% white in my province, but let me stress, NOT a racist society...we aren’t perfect but I hope that Canada is viewed overall as an open, accepting, and diverse society). You, however, grew up a person of colour in an urban setting, disadvantaged due to race in a country with serious social disfunction, and on top of all that, you spent years being indoctrinated by the US military. Yet, here we are, diametrically opposite upbringings, with very similar world views and very similar perspectives on a wide range of social issues. Why?......travel and education
appreciate the comment. apologies for the late reply. wasn't getting comment notifications.
Erick, your blog is spot on correct. My first Army duty station was Bad Kissingen GE when I discovered as I walked back to the Barracks at 2-3 am without worrying about any form of danger.
My situational awareness was thrown for a loop, because of growing up in the city of St. Louis were shootings and death was a daily occurrence. On my return two years later, my mind and body were shocked with so much city background noise my mind and body had to become re-accustomed to again.
Sadly as an opinionated writer for several sites, I have decided not to complain but give solutions, that no one is concern about, but at least the answers have been given.
I have two or three more years in the US before I take my travels to the rest of the world and I feel I will not return unless it is for the death of a family member. I'm considering expat communities in Costa-Rica, Southeast Aisa, and Mexico. You travel safe, and our paths will cross soon. Take care. :-)
EXACTLY!!!! The noise is shocking. We have similar backgrounds as STL isn't too different than Cleveland in that respect. My first overseas station was Rhein Main Germany. And coming back was insane. I don't think I actually went back to Cleveland the last few years of service.
Those are all great ex-pat choices. I'm partial to SEA because of the bigger cities though. I got bored in Costa Rica. Love Mexico City.
It's a beautiful thing seeing other black expats abroad in Asia! Big ups! Love the content!
Big world out here. A few of us exploring it. Much love.
I just moved to Bangkok from Houston ! Thanks for putting yourself out there bro
Welcome to Bangkok. H-Townnnnn. Hit me on IG if you need anything
@@Minoritynomad Thanks for reaching out and I definitely will after Quarantine
He is telling the truth about holiday weekends and death especially if you are Black or a Person of Color in the U.S.A. It really is that bad in a lot of places here
and extremely frustrating. from a African American and human perspective.
Yes it's true about the holiday weekends for black people in cities in America. But it's not white people killing black people it's black people killing black people.
Just saying that if you are going to lump people into races then it can't be "black people are victims" if it's also not "black people are perpetrators", you can't pick and choose.
Crime in the black community is bad which leads to stereo types which leads to racism which leads to things like cops being more jumpy with the gun when dealing with black suspects or white ladies holding their purses tight if a black man walks by.
Not saying it's right just saying that's the way it is.
Thanks for your video. I'm a minority expat myself (but not a nomad) in Hamburg. Here for 5 years. Grew up very close to EWR and I totally second the fact about fear when being home. I have this anxiety/ fear of police violence when I get back. I'll be staying in Germany as long as they keep giving me visas. :) Keep up the great work!
my pleasure. thanks for watching and commenting. I say it all the time, if it's in my hands then i'll NEVER return to the US. No way.
You hit the nail on the head with this! Being in the USA has been soooooooo exhausting listening and watching everyone complain about the most trivial things and feeding into all of the baity negativity portrayed day after day. After participating in a travel study program abroad, it made me addicted to traveling and obtaining new perspectives and cultures around the world. People think I'm leaving bc I hate America. While I have strong opinions about it, I think going abroad allows you use your American privileges to the fullest, and it allows you to come up with ways that could make the country better when you adopt new perspectives and values from other cultures. This video was pretty much validated many of my many reasons for taking this job opportunity in Taiwan. I leave next week. I'm so hype lol!
Side note: what's Turkmenistan like? I never really hear much about the 'stans other than Afghanistan and Pakistan.
Nicole C That's so awesome. I love Taiwan, the people there are so nice. 💕💕
Exhausting is an excellent way to describe that reverse culture shock feeling for people of color returning "home". Congrats on the job. So damn proud to hear that. Although I'm a bit jealous you'll be so close to the amazing Shilin Market. FOOOOOOOOODDDDDD.
I need to get back to Turkmenistan. I went while in the military so my experience was colored by that. People were kind and the food was mehhhh. Lots more Soviet influence than I ever knew existed.
And food deliciousssssss.
Minority Nomad Thank you so much! And interesting. I haven't been to any of the former Soviet nations yet. I'll look up some more info on it.
marie cowell Thank you! That's great to hear :)
Great video! I'm moving to Medellin in three weeks && really feel what you're talking about. Great articulation. Subscribed.
Awwwww snaps. Medellin is my spot. Fall in love every time I show up. Lol
Hey Eric, I just returned from a month at home in Chicago. I was nervous the whole time. I could not help but to think about what I would do if I were pulled over by the police. It made me sad to constantly see black men pulled over and detained by the police. It made me even sadder that two of my close girlfriends reported being arrested for resisting arrest just for questioning the police. I was sad to leave, because I miss my family. But I could not wait to be in a place where fear and anxiety was not so present in my everyday existence. Back to one of my happy places, Vietnam.
Oh I bet it's nuts going back to Chicago. It's amazing how we can feel more comfortable on the other side of the planet right?
Straight knowledge man! Appreciate the insight
Thank you for your honesty, and maybe I could start prepping to live a better life, I just wasn't in the service.
Military service isn't a requirement to a better life. Nothing more than a stepping stone to where I am now. Quite a few of us have used the military to propel ourselves to something else but, it's not even close to being the only avenue to self-improvement. Find something you love and you're passionate about and do that.
Omg that part about America not being safe is so true!! I try to explain this to my friends and family in the US all the time. I feel so much safer when im outside the states.
people that havent traveled abroad a lot can't really understand. lol
I love America too, but I've experienced that exact same feeling you mentioned as soon as I get back to the states.
Everybody is walking around depressed, argumentative or afraid 24/7 and political views aside, it reminds you that you're back in the US when you're surrounded by people who take their own country & standards of living for granted. Safe travels Bro & Thanks for sharing! 💯💪🏾
Man I'm dreading going back for 2 weeks. Its baffling to me how people can live that way. Negativity has become as natural as breathing. Heartbreaking
Minority Nomad I know what you mean. I've only been away for 9 days & I feel it, so I can only imagine how you could feel after experiencing all of the other countries you've experienced for an even longer amount of time.
But I'll never complain man. I have ultimate freedom while people are stuck at home. Jetlag and last minute cancellations are something I'm cool with having to deal with. Long game. Lol
You are so right about European education. I am a college professor in the USA. I am appalled by how the educational system has cheated our students, and by the time they get to college they are lost.
Its discouraging. And so many people look at me crazy when I bring this up. These kids aren't ready. And their going to get SMASHED by these kids from overseas. Its terrifying thinking 20 years down the road.
Very interesting topic this gives me a lot of research and thought about traveling....
I grew up Miami, FL. Getting shot on 4th of July and New Years is a painful reality. My mother didn't allow us to attend events because it was a well known risk that we could get shot. New Years, we spent at church and 4th of July, we stayed in the house. My white husband had a very different experience growing up. His family celebrated both holidays every year. He grew up in the country (far cry from my city life).
It's something we seriously need to acknowledge. I've had so many people calling me out for that comment. If it wasn't happening then it wouldn't be a concern for so many and a running joke. Crazy.
Good depth and insight! Judah!
Not an ex-pat but I hope to be in the near future.
Thanks for offering your perspective. I often have to make a concerted effort to avoid the news. It's good to be informed but too much negativity is not good for one's well-being.
On another note: I'm heading to Thailand in January (first time in any Asian country). Your videos have been extremely helpful in planning my trip.
I've been blessed to find news sources I like and trust that offer a balance. Check out Monocle 24. Online and print magazine with a wonderful radio station.
Glad my Thailand content is helping. Let me know if you need any more advice. I'll be working in South America then or I would show you around.
Thank you for the reference.
I did want to get a couple of suits made (I work in an office). Do you recommend anyone in Bangkok or Chiang Mai?
Also: Although the comments on the video describing your experience with nationalism turned into somewhat of a sh*tshow, I wanted to let you know that you actually convinced me to give Poland a try!
NO. Not Warsaw...lol. But I'd written off the country as a whole until I heard you describe the cities in Poland that you did enjoy visiting and why. It may not be next on my list, but it's back on the list.
glad to hear you'll give Poland a shot. It's frustrating people thought I was attacking Poland as a whole when I was doing the opposite. Pointing out a flaw that would keep travelers of color and progressives away. I love Poland and always have. But that experience sucked.
Shoot me an email about the suit recommendations. theminoritynomad@gmail.com
The Negativity in the US is unreal. I appreciate you shedding light on that issue. Thank you for sharing your experiences on traveling and how living in other places outside the US is always an option and possible.
Thanks for watching and commenting
You're right on point! Keep telling it like it is!
Only way I know how. 😎
Fantastic video bro this video made me a subscriber
Thanks for checking it out.
Great video bro! you spoke exactly how i feel..very inspiring..thank you.
glad to hear it
i agree with you. I have been back in the USA for 22 months and I am ready to leave again.
where were you before returning?
Minority Nomad Madrid
Fantastic topic and insight (as always) xoxo - Lynn
It is very interesting to hear an american speak about something I've noticed since I moved to the USA from Panama 12 years ago.
People always complaining about something, and really things here a pretty good compared to other parts of the world.
I live in Austin, BTW.
All the best on your travels.
+La Negra Bella I actually stayed in casco viejo in Panama City for about a month. Travel really helps you to see the best of what you have. Especially when you've lived or traveled in Central America, Eastern Europe, or Southeast Asia.
Minority Nomad I Agree. I have been blessed with parents who always encouraged me to travel as well as friends who also enjoy traveling.
Traveling opens your eyes to a vast world, helps you learn about and understand other cultures. It humbles us and helps us appreciate what one has.
I love to go to Casco Viejo. Hope you enjoyed your stay.
Expat here. Totally agree with your views on why we must travel.
I'm black from Chicago. I just got back from Colombia. coming back has been miserable. I got back july 3rd the next day over 100 ppl shot. Ex Pat here i come. I've always heard the two really good places to live is Thailand or Colombia. thoughts?
Both are great options. I'm a big fan of both countries but I chose Thailand because it has far more to offer. Since I'm a travel journalist I need to get around Asia and Europe quickly and cheaply. I can get to Europe direct for around $250 and 11 hours if needed. Anywhere in Asia is a few hours max and around $100. Sometimes $20. Bangkok is an amazing international city. Colombia just doesn't compare. For me, Colombia is where I go to vacation and party. Cost of living are pretty close in the big cities. Bangkok vs Medellin is a good comparison to look into if thats your speed.
I don't know about Thailand but what I do know about Colombia from having Colombian friends, people that traveled to Colombia and speaking with Colombian Women. Medellin is probably the safest bet but the crime rates are still higher than avg compared to other countries. Spanish is a must and you should speak Spanish at a conversational level to integrate with the people in the country. I heard Bogota has higher crime rates than Medellin, and Cartegena has a cancun vibe. I heard Bucaramanga is a pretty safe city in Colombia. But from people that traveled to Colombia they really loved Medellin's nightlife.
I totally agree with everything you said in this video. I'm 23 years old studying to be a physical therapist and the main thing I want to do with my degree is become a travel pt. So many black people are scared to travel or live outside the US but when you really think about, what do you have to lose considering that the US has showed many times that it doesn't care about us? I feel that I might as well see what else is out there. Like you said, no where in the world will ever be perfect, but I'm not looking for perfection, just something better than what the US is dishing out.
+erica acire and there are quite a few places dishing out a lot better quality of lives. Lol. Glad to see a young sister with the fire.
My Brotha i hear ya. I've traveled to 26 countries to date. I'm from the hood of Baltimore city and I've never understood why some people can't see beyond their surroundings. I'd die if I couldn't travel somewhere, and it blows my mind that others can't even see past their state's. I currently live in Vancouver, Canada because my ex-wife is Canadian and I wanted to be here for my children. I've been to Thailand and around southeast Asia many times and can see why you love it there like you do. One day I hope to either live there or Vietnam. I'll be back to both in august.
trying to get more of us out here man. I think it's a simple matter of representation. people just don't see enough of us. And those they do see are "balling". So it seems unattainable. Small steps my brother. We'll get there
@@Minoritynomad Man I feel ya. Life is short and it's a shame some people don't want to live life to the fullest. They don't even realize that the food from the county of origin is far more superior than It's counterparts in the west, and that's a damn shame.
Hey bro. Would be interested in seeing your story about what you did to set yourself up financially to become an expat. Could you link me to your video if you've already covered this topic?
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it's a bit more than this. I personally invested my money in people, companies, and places I felt it would grow. So that gave me a good jumping off point. I've never been a "baller" kind of cat. Prefer to invest.
Appreciate it!
The DSLR Chronicles I would like to know also how you set yourself up to be a Expat. I'm very interested in leaving the STATES, and would like to start preparing myself right now, I would like more information on how to go about it and good places to live that's free of Chemtrails.
Great question... I am feeling this pull too... sigh...
Are you or have you ever been an ex-pat? What was your experience? Have you ever experienced reverse culture shock?
Yes: I went to Germany in April of 2001, married a German national and didn't return to the USA until Feb. of 2005. Reverse culture shock? You bet! I couldn't speak German in 2001 which was terrible because it made me totally dependent on my spouse (who, incidentally, refused to speak German WITH me). An intensive course in the language helped tremendously and made me feel more a part of the society there. Coming back here was/is tough because no one around me could fully appreciate how much my ex-pat experience had changed me. Was able to make a good, long trip back to Europe in 2016, and as much as I felt "back home" there, I had to come back; family responsibilities with aging parents; I look forward to going back to Europe, possibly, to live, someday. Really enjoy all of your posts and updates as I vicariously travel with you!
I totally understand that. Same happened to me when I was stationed in Germany and then went back to the states. It wasnt as bad then but still noticeable. Appreciate you commenting and sharing your experience.
I used to live in a city with a population of around 1 and a half million people and more than 1100 homicides per year. Everybody was robbed and threatened by gun or knives more than once there...let's add to it economic crisis (where the average wage is around USD500, with the same living costs average of the rest of the world, except for the cars, far away expensives)... So, a great struggle to survive in a place that don`t taught me to love it besides the problems, unfortunatelly. So in may 2016 me and my wife decided to sell all the few things we had and start over abroad. I`m 39, she is 28, I`m still learning to speak English, working as cleaner and getting housekeeping jobs while I improving my language... and lovin` it! That is because i`m not afraid to walk on streets anymore, and I can do so many things with the money I earn with these jobs compared to my past routine... Maybe I can`t live here forever but certainly I`ll stay away from the country I was born in (I don`t think home country is an accurate term). I'm a Brazilian living currently in Ireland.
good for you. not many are brave enough to bet on themselves and take the leap. it's a tough thing but necessary for many.
Yes I was an expat in China for two years. Now back in Canada but I’m ready to go back on the road again. But I want to go live in South America. May I ask why you said you can’t live in the US?
I grew up in Cleveland too, as well as in Illinois. I've been in 4th of July situations where you had to suss out fireworks from the gunshots used as fireworks to the gunshots used to shoot at people.
Nerve-wracking.
Never again man. I'm done with that shit.
Australian Expat currently living back in australia for the short term while i fix up my finances. Back from 1 year in thailand and 2 years in vietnam. " Living in _________ is pretty damn good but it doesn't fit me right now or maybe ever again." That quote is exactly how i feel now. Not travelling but actually living a minimalist lifestyle amongst people from a different culture with different beliefs really opened my eyes to what life can and is about.
Just like in your video you were talking about growing up and being programmed to have specific type of beliefs and needs, I feel i was too, but i think that comes with growing up in a western country. Theres nothing wrong with that but my experiences living abroad have shown me the total opposite. For example, whatever i thought i needed was just stuff to make me feel accepted in society. It's true being an expat allows you to be who you want to be and through this i have not only learnt a lot about myself but about what i want in life by being allowed to stay true to myself in a non judgmental environment.
Now that i've returned home? i can't wait to leave again. Finding that life back in australia seems to easily complicate itself for no reason compared to the 2 countries i lived in, and that's probably the reason i can't see myself ever living here again.
The other main reason is the quality of life, not only by living in a cheaper country and being able to afford life's little comforts but by the type of people you meet. I always seem to meet people from all walks of life from all different ages from every part of the world and its always great learning about how people view the world. Theres a huge difference in opinion between someone on holidays and expats. Great video and will definitely subscribe and check out your channel.!
Appreciate you sharing your thoughts and experiences. Interesting how some perspectives on life and travel are universal.
Great video! But what you failed to mention is that senseless shootings are not only in the hood. There was a road rage shooting in PA an 18 yr old black girl who was due to be in college this month was shot by a 28 yr old white guy. This was in the suburbs. The highways can be just as dangerous as the hood because of the stress.
oh I know. gun violence overall is a problem. I'm just focusing on the hood because that's where I'm from. Where my family is. Where my thoughts consistently turn. And unfortunately, where most of those 100 people shot are from.
Man, this video was great for me to watch! I grew up in a small town in Kentucky, before moving to California and then going abroad. My view of Kentucky is like Minority Nomad's perspective on the USA at-large; now that I've been away, I see the state's incredible beauty, but I also see what is so wrong, so backward, so messed up about that state. Kentuckians are INCREDIBLY defensive about their state (I think more so than even Texans!), even when you're not really criticizing it. That realization, combined with a terrible job market and a social dynamic in which I never entirely fit in, helped me realize it was time to leave.
As for California, I loved living in the state (well, loved LA and SF, hated San Diego); I met some great people, ate some of the best cuisine in the world, and landed some high-paying jobs relative to my profession. However, the work environment in my profession is incredibly toxic in California, and my colleagues, friends and I were switching jobs an average of once a year (and my workplaces had as low as 30% and as high as 80% turnover annually). I watched the most dedicated, competent employees imaginable get fired or pushed out, left and right, for reasons shady, subjective and arbitrary--and sometimes illegal. Thankfully, I jumped ships before I ever suffered such fates. Rampant workplace toxicity, as well as my disgust with California's grossly incompetent governance, helped me realize it was time to leave.
I'm bouncing back and forth between Australia and New Zealand right now on visas that allow me to work temporarily in either country, while being open to securing a longer-term job in my field in either country. I haven't cared much for Sydney and Auckland, but I could easily live in Christchurch, Hobart, Brisbane, etc. I'm also open to Singapore, UAE, Hong Kong, maybe even Oman or Japan... Or, maybe back to the USA, in a lower-cost, lower-stress, low-humidity state like Utah or New Mexico (both of which I love)... Who knows?! I'm treating this phase of my life right now as an adventure with no serious agenda, and using it as an opportunity to better gain intellectual and psychological perspective on my beloved, wonderful USA by being away from it!
I'm so damn proud and excited to read this. See this is what I'm talking about. Seeing a shit situation and adjusting. Making moves to better your life. And heading abroad. Taking advantage of the opportunities there. I'm telling you this my friend, no way I voluntarily go back to the U.S. It's just toxic and I can't have that poison in my heart. Safe travels.
Minority Nomad Thanks. Yeah, I'll always love the South, but the South is hopelessly backward. Many Southerners are also obviously fake-friendly, and even dumb. (I like Texas a lot, though, even if it really isn't "Southern." Florida is just...weird.) I'll always love California, but the whole holier-than-thou attitude of some people living in west LA, central SD, Santa Barbara, SF, and Berkeley, toward the rest of their state and nation, is just disgusting. I plan to keep my voting registration there long enough to vote in favor of Calexit, then bounce for good. (If they want to leave the union so bad, I say let 'em leave!)
The Midwest is too depressing and "weird" for my taste (except Chicago, that's actually a cool city). For example, Iowans, Hoosiers, and Minnesotans are nice enough, but kind of standoffish and distrusting. The Northeast is intriguing, but, for me, it's too fast-paced in the cities and too "rust-beltish" in the rural areas. Hawaii is gorgeous and great to visit, but it somewhat reminds me of a tropical San Diego, and, again, I didn't like living in SD.
I feel like the inland West is the part of America that I'd live in when/if I come back for good. Even so, New Zealand and Australia are generally less toxic culturally than the States generally are. I'm apologize if I, myself, seem too negative. I guess being an American is like being a Brit, Frenchie, South African, etc., etc. in that you'll always love your country, but can't ignore its flaws.
I am a born, raised and practicing Buddhist from California. Growing up I always said I was a Global Citizen. Last year I embarked on my childhood dream of living abroad six months out of the year! I knew that embarking on this journey, one of two things would happen. I would run back to America with my pants on fire, with this renewed appreciation for being born “American” OR I would find that I was told, sold and bought a bill of goods that a woman like me, with my built-in-tan could live somewhere else and have a safe, loving and healthy existence. I found out and experienced the latter!! Upon returning I immediately was ready to leave for my next country! Going forward I am visiting each country with a profound understanding and intention to find my place on the planet. Right now out of the countries I have visited, NZ is at the top of my list!! On my list to visit and research is Sweden, Uruguay and Ireland.
I am grateful to have found your channel! To your continued HEALTH, LOVE, Laughter, Joy, PEACE and Prosperity, NOW and always!
To think is to create!!! WE are born with everything we need to live extraordinary lives, that we are not is merely a CHOICE! Decide to live a life of abundance and gratefulness! It’s Key!
Wow. Thanks so much for the beautiful message and insight into your life. New Zealand is on track to being my 100th country visited. I'm extremely excited. I definitely understand where you're coming from. It's a heavy thing. Coming home after so much time abroad and finding the veil being lifted from your eyes. I'm so glad the pull of living as a global citizen is tugging at you. Hope to hear more of your travels and exploration. All the best.
Aloha and Mahalo kindred traveler!
wow-so well said! Gracias.
I went to Montreal and I loved it. It was very cheap compared to many places in the US. The french people there were very nice. Im going to travel to find the right place for me to live. Either Latin America or Eastern Europe
+slidejones don’t sleep on Asia. You never know