Thanks for sharing your story. It's a life lesson and it's a story of old folks story that happened long ago. It's about human life if how the rich treat the poor.... love each that is what matters at the end.
I'm honestly suprise there are hmong mecca in this day and age that still practice, the it's ok to married your own cousins as long as their last name is different.
Yes. I know at least 3 couples that are first Cousins. Not even distant cousins, real first cousins that are married. And a few of their kids looks weird.
Yog lawm, kuv txiv ib txwm qhia peb los ntawm kev sib yuav txheeb txheeb ze ze li no vim kuv txiv ib txwm nrog ngab laj ngob tej teeb meem no lawv paub zoo, vim li ntawv peb cov nus muag coob coob los yeej tsis muaj ib tug yuav mus yuav phauj los sis dab laug tej tub tej ntxhais
Nyob zoo os niam laus kv nyiam mloog kj cov neej neeg kawg kv mloog txhuas txoj tab yog vim li ca ib ziag no es kj cov neej neeg kj muab xa xo ntau2 ua rau yu laj2 tod mloog li
Who teaches their son that women's thing is valuable? This can cause some men to go cray cray for a women. Men just need to learned how to lived and be happy without a women's blossom. Go lived life! Be happy, go hunting, fishing, hiking, find a hobby etc..! 😄
Ca yuav muaj tej zaj neej neeg txawv txawv txaus ntshais kawg laiv ua neej laus li no thawj thawj zaug hauv kuv lub neej kuv hnov mas ua rau kuv xav tsi thoob thiab tsi to taub li
Vim hais tias kuv twb paub txog 5 kwv tij koom ib tug tug poj niam es twb yug mi nyuam zoo zoo thiab ntse ntse kawg es. Tij zaum yog los ntawm caj ces xwb os
Qhov no muaj tseeb nawb kuv muaj ib tug niam lau mu yuav tau tu txiv lau nkawv cov me nyuam yug lo ntse txhua tu ho nkawv tu tij lau es niam thiab txiv coj mu yuav kiag niam pog tu nu tu ntxhai lo nkawv cov me nyuam ce ruam thiab mu tsi tau kev li kw kho mob yeej hai tia vim cov roj ntsha sib thooj heev xwb no
It’s genetic not a curse. Ppl just want a reason to point fingers or use it to control others. Man or woman! I guess it would be fair to say Hmong don’t have a country because Hmong man marries more than one wife. Curse! Lol😅
It’s genetic. Every person is a carrier of 1-5 diseases. It possible that the brothers & wife are a same carrier of a disease therefore have a high chance of pasting it to the kids.
Hmong have a long history of incest. First cousin marrying has been completely ok even up to now. It's possible that your grandmother and grandfather were very close related.
Cousin marriages is not incest. Incest is closer than that, it's between siblings or a parent and child. The 3 adults in this story most likely carried a recessive genetic marker for physical and/or mental disabilities. I put money on the two brothers. As the woman had children from a previous marriage and there was no talk about them not being 100%. This genetic trait passed on to the man who wrote in the story, his father. His father had 3 disabled and 3 normal children. The one normal sister had one child that's disabled. It's not a cursed or two brothers doing wrong by sharing one woman.
Why I lay my hen next to my champ and he top her then 2 min later I lay my hen next to my Champs brother and he also top her. Why the baby come out Hella smart and sin 🤷♂️
A lot of the comments mention genetics and how stupid the Grandpa is for thinking that it’s cause of kev npam but remember, this is back in Laos. Many people did not have proper education 🙄🙄
Lol, sad you had to know this story about your elders. But dang your grandma was just having a blast.....now u have to ask your self which one is your true grandpa?
Cov niag hmoob ruam taub haus loj! Tsis yog kev npam os. Roj ntshav zoo sib xws dhau lawm xwb na. Nasty! I can't ever picture my kids marrying my sisters kids. Just bc they have different last names doesn't mean they have different blood, different DNA. 🤮
It’s only a curse because your grandmother had two husbands, I doubt it’s that!!!! Your family just have bad genes! Please don’t blame on women wanting 2 men at the same time, it’s normal for men!!
Men get the more credit... Or win win...Does not matter how many women they cheated and slept with. We women slept / cheated with one or two, considered curse more than genetics! WHT BOO!!
Tus phem ib txwm xub yeej ua ntej tus zoo lawm ib ncuas xwb. Tab sis thaum tus zoo ho tig tau caij nyoog los yeej tus phem no ces nws txoj kev yeej kav nws nyob tag mis ib sim.
Since I have been followed May 4 a long time this was my 2 story that brothers share 1 wife the first one I hear was about 3 Hmong Chinese brothers married to a Hmong Chinese lady
Wow tus txiv tsev muab hais los mas koj pog yog neeg tsis leem cai, thiab xav tau ntau es nws thiaj yuav nkawv ob leeg. Tej zaum lub ntuj rau txim rau nkawv xwb os.
omg ya act like he never heard of genetic issues. its at the end of his speech n story. he acknowledges the medical side of that already we don't need everyone lecturing
If Grandma's other kids that went back to live with their relatives are okay with no disabilities than maybe it's in the Grandpa's genes. But if those other kids also have disabilities or children with disabilities, than it's Grandma's genes.
Kuv nyiam noog koj tham kaws li
Txoj neej neeg no tu siab kawg li os
Thanks for sharing your story. It's a life lesson and it's a story of old folks story that happened long ago. It's about human life if how the rich treat the poor.... love each that is what matters at the end.
tus me txiv tsev ua kj tsaug rau koj zaj neej neeg ua ib qho kev kawm rau peb
😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
Hmong loves the word NPAM. Tej menyuam with disabilities is npam, accidents are npam, bad health is npam. Hmoob lub siab npam
Hmoob=npam
😃
Everything bad in life that happens is npam. So stupid.
Common sense, hard work, responsibility and accountability - yah those things don’t matter 😂
It's not a cursed. It's just genetic folks.
Pog ib leeg Kam ob kwv tij huv si Mas pog zoo siab tshaj li lUj tau tshaj tawj heev
I'm honestly suprise there are hmong mecca in this day and age that still practice, the it's ok to married your own cousins as long as their last name is different.
Yes. I know at least 3 couples that are first Cousins. Not even distant cousins, real first cousins that are married. And a few of their kids looks weird.
Yog lawm, kuv txiv ib txwm qhia peb los ntawm kev sib yuav txheeb txheeb ze ze li no vim kuv txiv ib txwm nrog ngab laj ngob tej teeb meem no lawv paub zoo, vim li ntawv peb cov nus muag coob coob los yeej tsis muaj ib tug yuav mus yuav phauj los sis dab laug tej tub tej ntxhais
Yes true. Women make the world go around.
Nyob zoo os niam laus kv nyiam mloog kj cov neej neeg kawg kv mloog txhuas txoj tab yog vim li ca ib ziag no es kj cov neej neeg kj muab xa xo ntau2 ua rau yu laj2 tod mloog li
Who teaches their son that women's thing is valuable? This can cause some men to go cray cray for a women. Men just need to learned how to lived and be happy without a women's blossom. Go lived life! Be happy, go hunting, fishing, hiking, find a hobby etc..! 😄
Hi nyob zoo o
Hmoob ces txhua yam yog npam xwb las as. Tsis raws siab xav es tsis kam hloov ces liam rau npam, no xwb tiag. Npam yog hmoob kev khiav nkaum ib txheej rau ib txheej ib phaum dhau ib phaum ne.
also hmong ppl logic: you can't marry strangers with same last name, but you can with first cousins with different last name.
Right?crazy and backward logic
Yup
Thov kom txhua yam tsi zoo yav tag los txhob tshwm sim rau hauv nej lub neej, e tau txai roj kev kaj siab xwb
koj pog ,koj yawg tiam mas ua xu Siab thiab qias neeg tiag tiag.
Nyob zos niam laus koj hai zoo heev os
F in the middle!!!
Ca yuav muaj tej zaj neej neeg txawv txawv txaus ntshais kawg laiv ua neej laus li no thawj thawj zaug hauv kuv lub neej kuv hnov mas ua rau kuv xav tsi thoob thiab tsi to taub li
So sad 😭😭vim peb hmoob Tsi txawj hlub cov me nyuam ntsuag xwb Tsi yuav poj yuav sev rau lawv xwb os😥😥
Vim hais tias kuv twb paub txog 5 kwv tij koom ib tug tug poj niam es twb yug mi nyuam zoo zoo thiab ntse ntse kawg es. Tij zaum yog los ntawm caj ces xwb os
Qhov no muaj tseeb nawb kuv muaj ib tug niam lau mu yuav tau tu txiv lau nkawv cov me nyuam yug lo ntse txhua tu ho nkawv tu tij lau es niam thiab txiv coj mu yuav kiag niam pog tu nu tu ntxhai lo nkawv cov me nyuam ce ruam thiab mu tsi tau kev li kw kho mob yeej hai tia vim cov roj ntsha sib thooj heev xwb no
For centuries Hmong men have niam hlob niam yau..nothing wrong with women having txiv hlob txiv yau..lol
Koj txawj hai npaum koj koj pua tau nyiag siab dua ib zaug koj hau pua tau dej
it’s just genetic. it has nothing to do with her having two brothers.
Agreed! Hmong people are so superstitious.
Totally agree! Definitely not a curse, but genetic.
Twb yog vim muam phauj thiab dab laug pheej yuam me nyuam sib yuav ua ntu zus los ces thiaj txhaum roj ntsha li no los mas.
It’s genetic not a curse. Ppl just want a reason to point fingers or use it to control others. Man or woman! I guess it would be fair to say Hmong don’t have a country because Hmong man marries more than one wife. Curse! Lol😅
yog lawm vim neeg mab nplog luag tsis xaiv xeem sib yuav tsi lawv xaiv lawv cov nroj ntsha nu muag cov mi nyuam luag yeej tsi sib yuav
Cas yog niam tij txis kwv ces ham tsis zoo ib thiab kuj tsis txhob muab niam tij txis rau kwv llawm laiv
The title should be named “Poj Niam Muaj Khoom Muaj Nuj Nqi”.
It’s genetic. Every person is a carrier of 1-5 diseases. It possible that the brothers & wife are a same carrier of a disease therefore have a high chance of pasting it to the kids.
🤣🤣 “pog kaj siab” of course 2x the action.
she was a team player.
Li ntawm lo yog lawv cov laus xwb ho cas koj yuav musb xav ntaus uas luaj lo ho
Hmong have a long history of incest. First cousin marrying has been completely ok even up to now. It's possible that your grandmother and grandfather were very close related.
Cousin marriages is not incest. Incest is closer than that, it's between siblings or a parent and child.
The 3 adults in this story most likely carried a recessive genetic marker for physical and/or mental disabilities. I put money on the two brothers. As the woman had children from a previous marriage and there was no talk about them not being 100%.
This genetic trait passed on to the man who wrote in the story, his father. His father had 3 disabled and 3 normal children. The one normal sister had one child that's disabled. It's not a cursed or two brothers doing wrong by sharing one woman.
to pog kaj2 siab lo pog twb tau txiv hlob txiv yua lawm ne ce pog kuj kaj siab xwb lua mua
Muaj tiag vim kuv tus niam txawm yog dab laug ntxhai kuv tus kwv yog muam tub sib yuav yug tau ib cos me nyuam ruam xwb tiag
One woman can destroy everything 😂
Why I lay my hen next to my champ and he top her then 2 min later I lay my hen next to my Champs brother and he also top her. Why the baby come out Hella smart and sin 🤷♂️
Great story.
A lot of the comments mention genetics and how stupid the Grandpa is for thinking that it’s cause of kev npam but remember, this is back in Laos. Many people did not have proper education 🙄🙄
Lol, sad you had to know this story about your elders. But dang your grandma was just having a blast.....now u have to ask your self which one is your true grandpa?
I agree! Now who is your real grandpa? It might not be the one you think. 🤷♀️
It’s so good for your Grandma, but it’s so proud of your Grandpa. This story it’s a story only don’t do that no more.
Cov niag hmoob ruam taub haus loj! Tsis yog kev npam os. Roj ntshav zoo sib xws dhau lawm xwb na. Nasty! I can't ever picture my kids marrying my sisters kids. Just bc they have different last names doesn't mean they have different blood, different DNA. 🤮
It’s only a curse because your grandmother had two husbands, I doubt it’s that!!!! Your family just have bad genes! Please don’t blame on women wanting 2 men at the same time, it’s normal for men!!
Right? When a woman has two men it’s a curse, but when a man has multiple wives it’s okay.
Gotta have something to blame, that’s all.
Tu Siab Tias CAS koj yawg thiab koj yawg Tus kwv tseem CIA li Tau los ua Txiv Hlob Txiv yau Lawm tiag os mi Txiv ntxawm aw ❤️
Wow hnov dua nus muag npaws menyuam tsis txwm pua, tabsis paub txog 2 kwvtij kom 1 tug pojniam menyuam tsis txw pua thiab.
Men get the more credit... Or win win...Does not matter how many women they cheated and slept with. We women slept / cheated with one or two, considered curse more than genetics! WHT BOO!!
Tus phem ib txwm xub yeej ua ntej tus zoo lawm ib ncuas xwb. Tab sis thaum tus zoo ho tig tau caij nyoog los yeej tus phem no ces nws txoj kev yeej kav nws nyob tag mis ib sim.
It’s not because of something els..it runs in the family😁😁
Nej yeej muaj cov blood li ntawv xwb, tsis yog kev npam los ntawm nej pog thiab yawg.
Hahaha….yuav tsum hlub hlub cov niam nawb!
Seems to be genetic. Maybe consider genetic screening for you and your family.
Zaj no thaw this this li k Myriam Moog
tim hlob niag hlob ntas siab phem khuv tau yam twg log muab txeeb tas tej me nyuam kom yuav muaj lub neej li cag tau
Its possible a cure, but it genetic either it is your grandma or grandpa who has that genetic that why every child is like that.
Lol bad genes only. If two siblings sleep together then yes it can cause mutations. But two men share a women won’t cause it lol.
OMG I never heard a story like this, it's my first time of hearing two brothers sharing one wife. I felt sad for those kids.
Since I have been followed May 4 a long time this was my 2 story that brothers share 1 wife the first one I hear was about 3 Hmong Chinese brothers married to a Hmong Chinese lady
🤮
It’s pretty much the same practice of how a nyab is passed down to the brother of her husband after her husband dies.
Nnnnnnj
What a good story.
This story makes me wanna puck...
Wow tus txiv tsev muab hais los mas koj pog yog neeg tsis leem cai, thiab xav tau ntau es nws thiaj yuav nkawv ob leeg. Tej zaum lub ntuj rau txim rau nkawv xwb os.
txhob tias npam no mog..yog genetic xwb..nej yeej muaj genetic tsis puv pua os...nej qhov keeb kwm ces yeej yog tim nej cov genes xwb nawb.
Qhov ko tej zaum tsis true
? MMMm
omg ya act like he never heard of genetic issues. its at the end of his speech n story. he acknowledges the medical side of that already we don't need everyone lecturing
How do you know which kids is yours biological?
Please stop with the ads in the middle of a story
If Grandma's other kids that went back to live with their relatives are okay with no disabilities than maybe it's in the Grandpa's genes. But if those other kids also have disabilities or children with disabilities, than it's Grandma's genes.
Zaj dab neeg no ruam dhau I can't listen to something stupid like thie