for all you who dont understand chinese, the title “add oil” is a direct translation from “加油” which means “you can do it” or “fighting!”(for all those koreaboos)
I read your comment about half way through the video and I was like “oh I’m not gonna cry it’s not that bad haha” ..... and guess who’s bawling their eyes out now
I'll tell my mom that I love her today.But I know my mom will say that :are you crazy??Why are we Asians... don’t know how to express love for own family.
Sometimes, when I'm at my lowest from the feeling of being left out by my family, I'd tell myself that I can be at somewhere worse than where I am right now. I live under a roof, I have a bed in my own room, I have clothes to keep me warm,I have food, more than enough for me and clean water to drink. If you keep on searching for happiness in the things you don't have, then you will never find true happiness.
Me: grandma your baking and cooking is really great. Grandma: come here to eat more often. Me: mom, i like the cooking Mom: i'm going to cook more tommorow then. Me: Dad, i... i... i don't know what to say about your cooking, you never cook. Dad: you know me, why don't we just order some.
This is somehow so close to me. Im also the 5th children and love to draw but my mom didnt let me futher study in art. I cried so bad watching this, exactly what i felt back then 😢
I cried and I went to my mom, she asked me why I was crying. She questioned if I was hurt but I told her it was a really meaningful and emotional video, then she said I was having problems and she was going to take my phone.
Growing up in a family of 5 siblings, I never felt that my mom loved me, I was there to mind my siblings, take care of them etc while my mom was overwhelmed with the children, a husband who drank & she was in a country with no friends or family, much later in life I realized just how much she loves me & both my parents did the best they could
I was always jealous of my brothers they were smart played instruments and sports and I was none of that and every time my parents speak with friends they brag about my brothers and never about me they would say what college my oldest brother is in and that he plays 6 instruments and is sooo smart and he will be a dentist and my other brother that he is strong and smart and plays 2 sports and nothing about me. I told them that I wanted to be a kpop idol and they didn't think I could even do it my mom would tell me that I can't even sing good or dance good. And my oldest brother actually wanted to be a kpop idol once so he learned Korean started playing all these instruments and started to learn how to dance when he was younger and my dad would always yell at me when I complain about playing piano and he would yell if you want to be a kpop idol you have to learn an instrument and have to be like your brother and all of that stuff I would feel even more sad and think in the future that I will be living in the streets homeless jobless and one of my brothers said that I will beg him for money when we are older. Just thinking of that makes me sad I'm Korean but I'm not even fluent I never played any instruments or sports or had good grades. I would practice singing and dancing but I would always be to scared to show them because they would probably laugh at me. But later on my dad went to Korea and payed 200 dollars to a fortune teller asking my brothers future and telling them how good they are and all of that stuff but not about me but the fortune teller asked my dad don't you have a daughter and my dad said yes and he told him I will be more successful than two boys I was happy to hear that but sad that he wouldn't even talk about me. That's why I would always be so insecure I always tried to look prettier always try to make my skin look better buy clothes and everything but I go to school and see people make fun of my eyes or what I'm wearing it makes me feel the same way at home I never had good friends I am to scared of my friends to tell them this they are harsh possessive and when they get mad at me I wouldn't yell back because I would be to scared and everytime they would make fun of me and than aks me If I was mad I would smile and tell them I was okay but I was never okay cause of them or my family...
Amy Kim I'm an indian. you are seeking for the love, right? let me tell you have beautiful heart. this world is disaster. I am a Christian..I used to watch hanamun church testimony from Korea. if people love your beauty and body it means you will get hurt more ....if you choose the real love from your soul ...if you're ambition helps other people by Love. in return you get love. if you wanna be Singer make your own song that motivate you and someone like you . but being a pop idol is the worst choice...it all about marketing gambling by money industries... you won't get what you pay... being a kpop idol is like being a prostitutor. see what happens to Taylor Swift....kinda like situation much bad in Korea itself...you loveable always...you can become a Singer by your own...make your song .. write song for your mom...sing it. she'll impress inside...the beauty comes from the character of yours ,not from structure of eyes.... eyes speak inner beauty so be peace, calm, kind...you eyes become beautiful
Amy Kim you know you should be an idol your pretty I know it i was hard on myself too no friends new but if something happen a girl asked me to play with her now me and her and best friends she is kind and sweet and best choice I made if you need a friend then let's be friends 💜 ( the girls name ( Isabelle)
Chinese mom always say that, I literally left for camp for 1 week and I actually gained weight after coming back and the first thing she said was that, it's just their way of showing love and care. Chinese people don't usually outright say "I love you" or other stuff like that.
Omg I started crying when I saw this because I always thought my mom didn’t really actually care for me but I was wrong I love this film.Lol I’m still crying more like sobbing when my mom saw me she started laughing 😭😭😭😭this is so meaningfully.
for all you who dont understand chinese,
the title “add oil” is a direct translation from “加油” which means “you can do it” or “fighting!”(for all those koreaboos)
Koreaboos? Maybe some people don't have to know this word :)
Lol i love kpop and korean
Gacha Rainbow hUh
I just noticed that lol
I thought it was a pun
ㅋㅋㅋ
She: I am not good at studies
Also her: I got a scholarship to study abroad
wong LookAss she probably worked hard and improved her studies overtime.
Maybe she got a scholarship for something else
She was really god at art
She probably meant compared to her siblings she wasn't good
Merrill George 🙏🏻😂😂😂😂😂 Thank you for that m8
Asian logic.
The drawing seems so cute
@IM A MULTIFAN hey yo!!
Army
cause it is
有爸妈孝顺是人生最幸福的事!🙏👴👵💖
被泰國廣告洗腦
加油的那一刻還以為是賣食用油的廣告
心涼了一下~~
你是什么意思洗脑
這就是啊 😂😂
@@void-lc4wu 意思就是被传染了
这这这。。。万标油,不是台湾的吗?
@@kevinlu8487 刀标油
同样的身为大家庭的我,真的深同感受,看片的同时,我哭到啜泣。
很好的作品,加油。
half lemon vicki 我和你-样,我第一可是我和小美-样,我也是在大家庭😢
Phim Séc
我单亲家庭。。。同样感同身受
我也是大家庭 感同深受
I cried so hard after this
看了这个时候我哭得好惨。
same
真的
雖然我不是大家庭的人
但我真的很愛我的媽媽
我也是
I read your comment about half way through the video and I was like “oh I’m not gonna cry it’s not that bad haha” ..... and guess who’s bawling their eyes out now
媽媽的愛、家人的愛原來一直都在
哭到心坎裡
雖然手心手背都是肉,但是五個手指是不一樣長的,總會有不被關心的那一個
Lampard?你是chelsea的fan? 我是Man u的fan
媽媽很忙 一次只能做一件事情
能有空說話不錯了
太多小孩又要工作
這樣的家庭必須提早自我成熟
每個人都會被遺忘的時候
可是要記住不要往缺點去想要想想優點不能總是把缺點放大放大。
其實我也是做外公了 我是覺得如果今天過份關心 兒女反而會嫌囉嗦 通常比較不讓父母喜愛 大概是講不聽又不順從 把我的話當放屁 將心比心我做父親的養你那麼大 多少也尊敬一點吧 雖說長輩思想不一定正確 但是做晚輩應該試著溝通 而不是據理力爭 所以現在我們都學習到如果意見不合時 彼此趕快離開 因為不沉澱一下 父子一定沒好話 鬧僵了對家庭及個人都是一件無法禰補的事
五個手指長度不一,但放在嘴咬下去一樣痛
why we Asians... actually we would like to say "mum, I love you" but instead say "mum, I love your cooking"
I'll tell my mom that I love her today.But I know my mom will say that :are you crazy??Why are we Asians... don’t know how to express love for own family.
张世豪 i am so jealous about my friend cuz they can say i love u to their parents when i try to say, it's not i love u, i only say thank you.
I’m Asian but I don’t speak this language (━┳━ _ ━┳━)
I speak Vietnamese UwU
I’m always jealous when my friends end their phone calls with their parents with a “I love you” I wish i could do that....
Some Asians actually love their parents more than some westerners do though
哭了就点这个
∨
我好喜欢这个广告,哭了很多次,也很喜欢这首歌曲~
广告歌曲是什么名字
我也喜欢
Sometimes, when I'm at my lowest from the feeling of being left out by my family, I'd tell myself that I can be at somewhere worse than where I am right now. I live under a roof, I have a bed in my own room, I have clothes to keep me warm,I have food, more than enough for me and clean water to drink. If you keep on searching for happiness in the things you don't have, then you will never find true happiness.
妈妈的爱,一直都在。。。感人!
杨燕燕真的是我心目中的演技女神,看一次感动一次。。。👍👍👍
Someone help! Im drowning in my own tears!
i understand you we may recover in a year😭😭😭😭😭
Koala Marian maybe even two...
@@beeinnit5458 no 3
Bts fans be like:
Namjoon stob cutting onions in this room
Nah
Lol
Army. Squad
YEA STOB CUBBING ONIONS
True
You still can hear your mom voice... my mom passedaway when i was a litle.... you should be grateful.... i miss my mom alot... 😔
Me: grandma your baking and cooking is really great.
Grandma: come here to eat more often.
Me: mom, i like the cooking
Mom: i'm going to cook more tommorow then.
Me: Dad, i... i... i don't know what to say about your cooking, you never cook.
Dad: you know me, why don't we just order some.
lmao same
For me, my father cooks better than my mother 🤣
@@user-hw7dz7mg5n Me too! My mum still learning to cook from my father!
这位导演, 編剧与演员超高水准, 又一马来西亚人材, 放在外国一定发光的🤔🙏
一個非常感動❤️愛的故事!多謝編劇及導演和演員的精彩演出
我在婴孩7个月时, 亲生母亲去世了, 我感受不到什么是母爱, 即使爸娶了个新妈妈回来, 我仍然感受不到爱, 照顾我是有的, 但与她自己的3个女儿相比之下, 付出的爱有没有?小时候的记忆难以下咽, 曾记得有次肚子饿了的时候看见正在煮泡面的妈妈, 我说自己也想吃, 可不可以也煮给我吃?她只回应我 :这是煮给哥哥吃的(我有个同父同母的哥哥*), 哥哥有为家里贡献, 帮粑粑做工, 你要吃就自己煮。现在回想起来, 我小学中学直到我离开家里, 妈妈都没准备早餐给我带去学校, 都是爸给我的零用钱买食物吃。现在妈妈却给她自己的女儿带去上班的爱心早餐, 我该讽刺还是接受自己是不相对待的?我不爱回家, 也不喜欢回家, 回家待久了会不自在, 想法谈吐也不同...现在她的孩子也出社会工作了, 依然在家里得到最好的保护。而我在另一个远离家乡的城市继续过活, 我的另一半很疼我, 是不是我也该谢谢当初爸对他的一番嘱咐说 :我们没能力照顾好她, 你帮我照顾她。
我现在已是33岁了, 时间它过得好快, 过不去的心坎怎么还尚在?
内在的创伤还没疗愈,所以心坎还是在的。
@@elisechow7305 嗯, 我很感谢自己的人生经历和遇到了引导和开导我的人, 我现在过得很好, 依然是开心的。也谢谢你~祝你新的一年, 顺心如意。
@@aiyayakitchen2858 谢谢你的回复。是的,过去的一切体验都是来造就今天强大的自己。也沒有好坏对错,最重要的是自己可以走出来,可以放过自己,和自己和解。外在的一切都会越来越好。谢谢你的祝福。也祝福内在越来越丰盛,生活轻松愉悦。
@@elisechow7305 😃
This is somehow so close to me. Im also the 5th children and love to draw but my mom didnt let me futher study in art. I cried so bad watching this, exactly what i felt back then 😢
現實生活中,很多家中都有這樣的事情發生,都是表達的愛方式不一樣,都對對方有所期待,各自想要的愛方法,不一定是對方收得到的愛,很適合近期母親節,在拿出來回味~~拍的很棒喔!!!
For some reason this made me appreciate my mother more and what she does for me.
当然永远都在!无论多少个孩子,妈妈对每个孩子都爱都是一样的
all the short films like this , in the end they realized that there moms loves them , but for me i don't think that day will ever come.
比多數的連續劇還好看、感人,比多數的知名演員演技還好。
真的好感人啊
I cried and I went to my mom, she asked me why I was crying. She questioned if I was hurt but I told her it was a really meaningful and emotional video, then she said I was having problems and she was going to take my phone.
me as a mom:
To cut your hair means that your starting anew. Like a fresh start or a change for the better. I like that little detail!
在国外的我看了这短片哭的
一踏糊涂
Haha I love the Chinese pun..... 'jia yo" can mean "add oil" or to keep on going.
It's jia you haha
加油💪
Growing up in a family of 5 siblings, I never felt that my mom loved me, I was there to mind my siblings, take care of them etc while my mom was overwhelmed with the children, a husband who drank & she was in a country with no friends or family, much later in life I realized just how much she loves me & both my parents did the best they could
Nice touching video..make me cry..
Happy Mother's Day
真好 我哭了 虽然我也不是什么大家庭可是你至少还有妈妈啊
This is indeed a very touching video. I couldnt help tear so much when watching. Thumbs up!
真是一部很动人的短片,感恩全部演员和赞助商刀标油!
I was always jealous of my brothers they were smart played instruments and sports and I was none of that and every time my parents speak with friends they brag about my brothers and never about me they would say what college my oldest brother is in and that he plays 6 instruments and is sooo smart and he will be a dentist and my other brother that he is strong and smart and plays 2 sports and nothing about me. I told them that I wanted to be a kpop idol and they didn't think I could even do it my mom would tell me that I can't even sing good or dance good. And my oldest brother actually wanted to be a kpop idol once so he learned Korean started playing all these instruments and started to learn how to dance when he was younger and my dad would always yell at me when I complain about playing piano and he would yell if you want to be a kpop idol you have to learn an instrument and have to be like your brother and all of that stuff I would feel even more sad and think in the future that I will be living in the streets homeless jobless and one of my brothers said that I will beg him for money when we are older. Just thinking of that makes me sad I'm Korean but I'm not even fluent I never played any instruments or sports or had good grades. I would practice singing and dancing but I would always be to scared to show them because they would probably laugh at me. But later on my dad went to Korea and payed 200 dollars to a fortune teller asking my brothers future and telling them how good they are and all of that stuff but not about me but the fortune teller asked my dad don't you have a daughter and my dad said yes and he told him I will be more successful than two boys I was happy to hear that but sad that he wouldn't even talk about me. That's why I would always be so insecure I always tried to look prettier always try to make my skin look better buy clothes and everything but I go to school and see people make fun of my eyes or what I'm wearing it makes me feel the same way at home I never had good friends I am to scared of my friends to tell them this they are harsh possessive and when they get mad at me I wouldn't yell back because I would be to scared and everytime they would make fun of me and than aks me If I was mad I would smile and tell them I was okay but I was never okay cause of them or my family...
Amy Kim I'm an indian. you are seeking for the love, right? let me tell you have beautiful heart. this world is disaster. I am a Christian..I used to watch hanamun church testimony from Korea. if people love your beauty and body it means you will get hurt more ....if you choose the real love from your soul ...if you're ambition helps other people by Love. in return you get love. if you wanna be Singer make your own song that motivate you and someone like you . but being a pop idol is the worst choice...it all about marketing gambling by money industries... you won't get what you pay... being a kpop idol is like being a prostitutor. see what happens to Taylor Swift....kinda like situation much bad in Korea itself...you loveable always...you can become a Singer by your own...make your song .. write song for your mom...sing it. she'll impress inside...the beauty comes from the character of yours ,not from structure of eyes.... eyes speak inner beauty so be peace, calm, kind...you eyes become beautiful
god loves you..win the heart of god . he'll give you a life of crown 👑
Amy Kim, hope you do well ☺️
Amy Kim you know you should be an idol your pretty I know it i was hard on myself too no friends new but if something happen a girl asked me to play with her now me and her and best friends she is kind and sweet and best choice I made if you need a friend then let's be friends 💜 ( the girls name ( Isabelle)
I spent more time reading this than my reading book
看到結局的時候
我自己突然喊了一句話"good"!
好樣的!
我的天,她的感受和我小時候一模一樣,看的我好心酸
BTS Big Fans super army 真的🤥😔😔😔
I hate BTS
She shouldn't feel bad about herself, she is beautiful and precious, she is just as amazing as everyone else
感谢歌手,作曲,作词人
父母心妳不會懂
直到妳為人母的時候妳才會懂!但是父母那時已經不在了!為人子女要懂得獨立自主。
这广告比电视剧都吸引人,太棒了!
It doesn’t matter that this is a commercial it is so damn touching
Who is cutting onions
👇make this blue
I think my mom is cutting onions
Lol my mum is
My mom isn’t cutting onions. I got salty water from the ocean and put it under my eye.....
@@apotato5757 same here Mr.Potato
Fuck no I don't want to
But it always happens
看了好多遍了 (我指隔了好幾個月再看)眼淚還是滴下來 本來想說
看了至少有3遍以上了 應該不會哭
結果還是哭了!!
是不是你的内在也有过创伤,但还没疗愈好,所以不管你看多少次也还会哭的。
I love this video, really touched me, make me sad, cherish him before we regret after him there on the side of us, happy mother's day. ..
I'm not crying!!!
It's the onions!!! >~
怎麼每次不管看什麼感人的畫面,眼淚總是在眼眶( ・᷄ὢ・᷅ )
很感人
This reminds me of my Mum!
Mum I miss you so much...
I just gotta say:
*THOSE BABY TURTLES ARE ADORABLE*
@XIAO RUOCHENG MGPS OH SHI-
Sometimes you can't change how your parent treats you but you can change your response
爸媽常常忽略自己的孩子,一旦過久了,孩子會認為爸媽在他們心裡沒有屬於自己的愛,但是因為爸媽沒有表達出來所以沒辦法讓孩子知道
所以父母对儿女的爱要说岀来。
I did not cry until like the very end, the very end got me so bad idk why
9年前会让人感怀落泪的叙事,如今看起来已经陈旧不堪,在这个母女和解的叙事里,父亲是缺位的,他明明共同承担家长的责任,却在叙事中仅存一个侧影。女儿对家庭关注的期待,被缩化为对母亲一个人的期待,在简中社交平台上,父亲似有实无的出现,被定义为母亲一个人的「丧偶式育儿」。另外,如果这是独女的三口之家,尚且还能说多年不回家是对母亲的失望,但一个拥有 6 个小孩的八口之家,家庭的关注不止出于一个人身上,其他家人比如父亲给不了女主关注吗?无疑可以视为母亲一个人的态度足以影响甚至决定家人对女主的关注,换言之,这是个极其不健康的家庭,也是我们常在东亚教育中常见的状态。我也不想说东亚家长通常不会搞什么深情包容等你回头看,处于视频中母亲的生活状态,妥帖照顾全家人的身心健康是极耗费精力的事--甚至在白天劳作完还要为全家人叠衣服,这种明显需要子女自己处理的小事用来表现母亲的忙碌,我感到的是荒谬。时代在进步,如此再看这部短片,每个试图让人落泪的情节都让我如鲠在喉,谁能想到呢?在9 年前,我们争取的只是「父母原来不会表达爱」这个认同,9 年后,我们要得更多了,以至于我们认为成为一个合格的家长,绝不只是让小孩吃饱穿暖能上学的事了。
for those who don't understand, Add oil in chinese sounds similair to don't give up! or keep going, basically encouraging words.
看著看著 眼眶就濕了...很棒的短片
親情是血濃於水,無法抹煞的,記得妳永遠是家裡的一分子,再忙也記得回家看看父母哦!
How does the mum know she has become skinnier when she hasn’t seen her that long😄
Chinese mom always say that, I literally left for camp for 1 week and I actually gained weight after coming back and the first thing she said was that, it's just their way of showing love and care. Chinese people don't usually outright say "I love you" or other stuff like that.
thatasiangirl 0_0 actually that is SO CUTE
That is every Asian mom's signature thing to say... When they see their kids after a long time.😅
Have you seen her cut-out picture? You can use that for comparison
Why u tryna find logic? Watch video cry then watch another
其实小美做的事 妈妈都有放在心里
只是真的是太忙了
我同意。
不善于表达,所以女儿误解了。
如果總是期待別人能放下手邊忙碌為你駐足,才是關愛。表示你欠缺體諒和包容別人的溫暖,這也會讓你常常覺得自己不受人重視,而反覆失落。畢竟每個家人表逹愛與關心的方式不可能都是為自己量身訂做,唯有學會體諒才能體會愛無所不在。
有孩子的妈妈爸爸,无论你的孩子好不好看,都要请用爱心去对待耐心对待,别问为什么,问为什么的,你就白看这视频了
I told my mom I loved her cooking before and she said “it’s because you’re lazy.”
前言,感同身受
它使我想起了很多年前。
It just rekindled the dormant love for my family
I cried, this is touching.
As
妈妈真的为我们劳心劳累,所以我要对妈妈说:“我爱妳”!
好催淚!
哥哥好帅:)
I Give This A 10/10 Because This Almost made me Cry its so Touching Give God A Nice 👍🏻 Life Because He Died for us
congrats crews&actors!mum loved neve end
At the end, I couldn't hold my tears, I usually don't cry easily...
I cried so hard after this
竟然从泰国看到了马来西亚 🤣 终于可以“停止”主动播放了 😂
j effybb
John
The english comment you are looking for😹😹💆
Ada I have 1,000£
Finally
Hi 😂
not really there are loads of other comments u ain't special
jungkook yea I was about to comment that
Omg I started crying when I saw this because I always thought my mom didn’t really actually care for me but I was wrong I love this film.Lol I’m still crying more like sobbing when my mom saw me she started laughing 😭😭😭😭this is so meaningfully.
每次看一次,哭一次。明明知道以前哭过,这次还是哭了
Never fails to make me cry 🥺
或許我到這麼大了.也是這樣場景吧
真期待
一回到家聽到的是
我們林家的長子回來了
幸福的人一生都在被童年治愈,
不幸的人却要用一生治愈童年。
This is a very touching story i loved it so much
小烏龜好可愛😍
これは実際に私を泣かせました
is it just me or did the mom end up looking more youthful in the end....
im not crying you are!
好感动👍😢😢
I am not crying... I am just sweating.
This is just what happens to me when I was younger it was a tough life but in the end it’s a pretty good life
*I Might Not Be Able To Smile After This..*
影片不錯,至少最後回溫家裡。
不過前面讓我覺得很像我家,只是我試圖回家後卻跟影片不同,而我家依然充滿較勁,回到家...想要很美...現實沒那麼美...
我哭了!好喜欢!
Helen小海 一样
Very sweet
Nakakaiyak naman to😓😓😓😓😓😋😋
Finally this is one of the nice ad
很棒喔,拍的真好
*When you can’t see the subtitles through the tears*