Being in a relationship is HARD?!!

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  • @cariciaangela3052
    @cariciaangela3052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +688

    I like the way y'all brought " normal" life back to us, in a world where pretense dominates. Sitting there with the pan in his lap and being who he is, timeless!👍🏻

    • @lobayusuf6956
      @lobayusuf6956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yea, u are right. Pretense everywhere. Love ur comment❤️

    • @Oklaby167
      @Oklaby167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Spot on Caricia.

    • @ukeb6682
      @ukeb6682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You finish talk here. #Nigerianpigin

    • @LingandLamb
      @LingandLamb  3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      ♥️♥️

    • @EAAmin
      @EAAmin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true!👍🏻

  • @coyii6170
    @coyii6170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +379

    Ling is gonna live for long at the rate at which she laughs. Laughter is medicine to the soul!

  • @inhouse_grace7118
    @inhouse_grace7118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +669

    15 years married and I actually still get excited when I see him 🤗 that's amazing to me ❤️🥰

    • @jephthahessilfie4069
      @jephthahessilfie4069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      good for you, God bless your marriage

    • @r.r911
      @r.r911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That's beautiful. God bless your marriage

    • @imaAYOOLUWA
      @imaAYOOLUWA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Congrats dear

    • @great-full3612
      @great-full3612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You married the rt person and so did he congratulations 🍾

    • @coyii6170
      @coyii6170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      omigosh wow, ive never heard anything like that before, thats amazing. Would love it if you could do a video on the keys to having a long lasting marriage! God bless you xxx

  • @sharita7270
    @sharita7270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    “There’s no perfect marriage because there’s NO perfect anything!” Ling you said THAT 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 RIGHT!!!

  • @montgomeryjones4598
    @montgomeryjones4598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +386

    You guys are such a nice couple I pray that the Peace of Jesus and the love of God will continue to grow in your marriage in Jesus name.

  • @sshh356
    @sshh356 3 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    I love how she understands him and let's him be him while having a laugh.

    • @goldensunshine8693
      @goldensunshine8693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They living life......

    • @jennytshibola9266
      @jennytshibola9266 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You wrote 2 weeks ago, I just commented and said the same.

    • @yvonnewilliams4711
      @yvonnewilliams4711 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please stop fatting up your wife with Nigerian food. The rate you two are eating, you will need to go to the gym 💪😅 expecially pounded 🍠
      You will have to get some big rapper from Nigeria 🇳🇬

    • @noskyimo319
      @noskyimo319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A wife that don't understand her man is that one a wife?

    • @_trust9994
      @_trust9994 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yvonnewilliams4711 so the husband cooks all the time? Never seen her cooking

  • @uchennaokoroafor5814
    @uchennaokoroafor5814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    So you guys are "just" 2 years in marriage yes (don't worry, that's what some people are probably saying behind the screen)...let me share something...so barely a year into my marriage i already knew how it would be for me...many people i spoke with were like "you just marry you never even reach 1 year, no worry e go shock you"...and then i hit 1 year...boom...the story changed...
    Then it became "don't worry, 2-3 years you will see that bla bla bla...then it came and iby then had a daughter already in pre-school...
    The it turned to the 5-years window...and guess what, my lovely wife and I marked 5 years last month...in fact, I specifically told my wife to meet her boss that said all this young love will not even reach 5 years so she can get her a gift...bottom line is its 5 years and counting...this marriage thing no too hard...once you can sacrifice and decide to love without restrictions...finally and most importantly, its been God for us all the way!... Just continue in this your way and i can bet anyone that we would be watching you guys as a happy couple in your old age on whatever media platform will be available in 30-40+ years to come!

    • @mildredkoosimile3315
      @mildredkoosimile3315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💖💖💖💖💖🥺favourite comment yet

    • @chidinmajudith608
      @chidinmajudith608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for sharing. God bless you

    • @nnennaudeh9536
      @nnennaudeh9536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oga Uche! God bless you for this. May God continually bless your union. Amen.

    • @ulomaokafor9327
      @ulomaokafor9327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true.

    • @fab_floo6737
      @fab_floo6737 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Marvelous ❤️

  • @lisagab
    @lisagab 3 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    Marriage is easy...ppl are difficult. It's person ways that determine where or not a Marriage will last.

  • @dr.elitemd8267
    @dr.elitemd8267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    The contagious lough on this channel makes me call my girlfriend and we lough with Lamb and Ling. Long lasting life guaranteed. Thank you Lamb and Ling for saving our relationship.

    • @LingandLamb
      @LingandLamb  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Aww. Thank you for being a part of the fam. So happy to hear this!!!💥🙌🏻❤️

  • @ThePaneerman
    @ThePaneerman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Dude is mad humble and doesn't waste food. He understands what it is to not have. Blessings to both.

  • @decemberakins3683
    @decemberakins3683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Not even finished watching the video, but this dude here is the realest n coolest guy . You guyz have so many wonderful years ahead of you if you carry on this way

  • @SpeedSyko
    @SpeedSyko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    He’s so silly! Like a big happy child! Yes marriage is work. Even if you have a happy one. But if your marriage is miserable it’s horrible. Love you guys!

  • @Collins01
    @Collins01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    Eating from the bottom of the pot tastes better, the ingredients settle down.

  • @chyannmead5183
    @chyannmead5183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I would think the hardest part of being married to Lamb is getting him to share his food when he finds a new food he likes!! 😂😂

  • @JayJay-wu1qy
    @JayJay-wu1qy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Marriage can be hard at times, but such is life. You have to not only LOVE YOUR SPOUSE YOU HAVE TO LIKE THEM. They have to be your friend not just your lover. Affection, humor, understanding, compromising honesty. Love is a verb. I wish you both everything good in this world. Thank you for sharing.💞🙏🧡❤💛💜💚💙🧸

  • @houyhns
    @houyhns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This video makes me feel like we all are sitting across from each other in your living room. So homey, comfy and welcoming!

  • @kathleengreen9660
    @kathleengreen9660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    My husband and I just celebrated our 47th year married. You have to give and take. Like Ling said there is no perfect life or marriage. A wise woman (my mother) once told me that you have pick your battles.

    • @hazelmyles4391
      @hazelmyles4391 ปีที่แล้ว

      1 question were does he put all that food 😂😂😂thanks for the laughs

  • @hchuck7886
    @hchuck7886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Marriage is all about communication, trust, commitment😊 and love💕. Without these it would be difficult

    • @mykeakyn1503
      @mykeakyn1503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @nellymungu5501
    @nellymungu5501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Lamb said this is the situation of the pot lol.This guy is a whole vibe

  • @MissAllyjandra
    @MissAllyjandra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    My fiancé and I are getting married in about 5 weeks! I’m excited to listen and watch this video and learn.
    Blessings 💞💞

    • @mercy615
      @mercy615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Blessings to you 🥰

    • @annetteburke6664
      @annetteburke6664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congrats,God richest blessings upon your marriage

    • @masolawmedia5224
      @masolawmedia5224 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      that so nice

    • @djohn515
      @djohn515 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congrats god bless

    • @Expensive-op6pn
      @Expensive-op6pn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congrats girl!

  • @jessd9841
    @jessd9841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I think marriage is not hard but when kids start coming in..... It becomes a lil bit challenging. But it's still fun when you both have a common ground and keep the love alive! ❤

  • @ienobik4414
    @ienobik4414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Being comfortable in your own skin is such a beautiful thing.

  • @ehis6078
    @ehis6078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Dont sweat the small things. Give your partner some space and dont take things too seriously. Getting to understand who your partner goes a long way to building a great relationship

  • @3arthAngel333
    @3arthAngel333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I love the chemistry you two have🥺🥺♥️ You give me hope, that anything is possible for my long distance relationship and I'm praying I get to see my boyfriend soon. So we can start our futures together. 🥺🥰 I'm African-American, my boyfriend is Nigerian and I love him very much. I'm trusting the process ♥️
    I love you guys! You two are a beautiful couple and your videos are AMAZING! Thank You for the wonderful content 🥰🤩♥️✨

  • @sheilascoyne861
    @sheilascoyne861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Lol, life is so wonderful when you get tears from laughter. Ling, he can't be that annoying when your laughing that hard. Lol 🤣🤣🤣 just adorable you both are❤❤🙏

    • @masolawmedia5224
      @masolawmedia5224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that is very true

    • @michelledouglas4953
      @michelledouglas4953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Sheila Scoyne a hope it's an American expression of saying I am jerked but not hurt. Cause the rate at which she is laughing tells that her husband is annoyingly funny as she laughs at him without him putting out much effort to be funny. That is cool though

  • @NnalueIfeoma
    @NnalueIfeoma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I love lamb's response "it depends on who you married" personally, I know I married my best friend

    • @chrismekasino3087
      @chrismekasino3087 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nnalue gooday plse i really need someone dat can put me true on how to prepare dat egwusi soup dey are eating ryt now it has long i eat d soup n it my favorite i cant find it around me n i cant prepare it but i hand ingredients plse can you put me true on how to prepare it myself plse

    • @NnalueIfeoma
      @NnalueIfeoma 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chrismekasino3087 sure

    • @pearlsof5534
      @pearlsof5534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lucky you. I married a Gemini ♊️

  • @Mugiwara-0
    @Mugiwara-0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I think you should try doing one of these sit downs live! it'll be a great way to have a direct conversation/ Q&A with the community.

    • @amandavil
      @amandavil 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree

  • @desertcruiser19
    @desertcruiser19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ling my girl, saying where you are going is good because sometimes things happen and you can never know where to start but already having said where you were going makes the partner be able to know the starting point... I ain't wishing anything bad at all coz I love you...

  • @nwasokwuokechukwu6612
    @nwasokwuokechukwu6612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Tolerance is the watch word. It brings about love, which is the ability to overlook your partners shortcomings.

  • @nigelleeakamoneybanklocks8903
    @nigelleeakamoneybanklocks8903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    I SWEAR, no matter how my day is crap, I can watch your videos and it all goes away. You two are a treasure. The chemistry that you have, the love that you have for each other and the JOY that you exude, is just an absolute gift. You bring such realness in a world of pretence, and that is so appreciated. I've laughed so many times at your videos, this one included, that I have lost count. THANK YOU FOR ONCE AGAIN MAKING ME SMILE AND LAUGH. THAT IS THE GREATEST COMPLIMENT I CAN GIVE.👏👏👏

    • @debrar2148
      @debrar2148 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love the fact the both accept and repect each other for who they are.

  • @danielfransix
    @danielfransix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    "She's giving me steady"
    We all know what you mean boss 😂

  • @michellebatzel5809
    @michellebatzel5809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Marriage is easy if your with the right person. You don’t have to “work” at it. If your a selfish person marriage isn’t for you.

    • @thoseabsarenotmine1002
      @thoseabsarenotmine1002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      How do you know the right person even without dating, or do you have to keep dating till you meet the right person?

    • @orukperuth6396
      @orukperuth6396 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are right

    • @masolawmedia5224
      @masolawmedia5224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that is very true

    • @sandyosa3175
      @sandyosa3175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I plead to disagree. Every relationship u encounter in life will require some LEVEL of work. The key here is the LEVEL of work u have to put in. With you close friends u will notice that u easily & willingly will do things for each other without being asked to. But still u are putting in work knowingly & unknowingly. In the same way, we ought to approach marriage with our partners as we approach our relationship with close friends

    • @oliverjoel5901
      @oliverjoel5901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@thoseabsarenotmine1002 You will know the right person when you go to the producer which is God almighty by repentance and prayers not by dating or sleeping around with girls or boys thanks.

  • @janettecw9934
    @janettecw9934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I been married for almost 6 months and I find it so enjoyable!!! i have the best life partner and i couldnt imagine doing life without him! I literally am married to my best friend.

    • @empress2642
      @empress2642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What it should be...you got your own...kudos

  • @originalwoman
    @originalwoman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love your relationship. You two need to teach other people on how to be married. Looking at you two makes me at peace. Have a bless and beautiful life guys.

  • @_prosperchimah_
    @_prosperchimah_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lesson I got “Marrying the right person,and also knowing what both parties are fond of keeps marriages going” #lingandlamb #couplesweetness #sakpase #muchlove

  • @oneofakind711
    @oneofakind711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Being raised by a great Nigerian father, I swear I enjoy watching you all. Brings back memories of my mom and dad enjoying life and loving every bit. But most importantly that fufu and soup OMG. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 African dishes are like southern "granny's" cooking... it's GREAT🥰

  • @ginaparker211
    @ginaparker211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Yes Lamb, from a Haitian girl, eating out of the pot is everything. That and eating with your hands, for some reason food taste extra delicious.

  • @cchisolm92cc
    @cchisolm92cc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You guys are making me feel better about "getting back into dating" again. Lately, I've been about knowing who I am, finding new interests & hobbies, and working a lot. I work out everyday and I chat with a couple of women but I do not feel like I'm ready for anything serious again. But watching you two, makes me hope and pray for the right person that God has for me. God bless you two.

    • @semarmatiwos3065
      @semarmatiwos3065 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here I said no at all but sudden happened start following them I just got hope

  • @bukolaarikawe6769
    @bukolaarikawe6769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Who else noticed that Lamb now says "wow" just like Ling😁🤣

    • @tayyibodewumi1587
      @tayyibodewumi1587 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's getting contagious

    • @chrismekasino3087
      @chrismekasino3087 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      bukola bankole i just checked on Africa nigeria lady in particular bcs i knew dey could be d one to help so i decide to come into yur reply box plse I am talking d egwusi soup dey are eating I am not in Nigeria n i hv been tasty of dat particular egwusi soup but i cznt get it anywhere around n i cannot prepare it so i need someone to put me true i have d ingredients to prepare it but i dont know how to prepare it plse can you help ?

    • @bukolaarikawe6769
      @bukolaarikawe6769 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chrismekasino3087 yes I can help but I'll rather link you to this TH-cam food channel "sisiyemmie". Visit her page and learn how to cook as many types of Nigerian cuisines as possible.
      Don't forget to thank me later😆🤣😁

    • @andilengubane5178
      @andilengubane5178 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeeees OMG 😳

  • @denisebrinson3105
    @denisebrinson3105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Marriage is easy when you really love each other like I love my husband unconditionally 💕

    • @masolawmedia5224
      @masolawmedia5224 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank is very true

    • @f.-j.j.5738
      @f.-j.j.5738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's funny because my marriage is easy because I love my husband conditionally, and he knows that. I love him on the condition that he is faithful, I love him on the condition that he upholds his vows, I love him on the condition that he is a good protecter and provider of me, I love him on the condition that he is a good father to our (future) children. If these conditions are not satisfied, he knows that he will lose me, just as I expect to lose him if I don't fulfill my obligations as a wife.

    • @Nacole_Lashoun
      @Nacole_Lashoun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@f.-j.j.5738 Amen! Matured response from someone who understands boundaries. Loving unconditionally is NOT going to create a good marriage. Most newly weds haven’t discovered this yet. Length of marriage is NOT equivalent to a good marriage. 💕♥️😉

    • @segunagaba8805
      @segunagaba8805 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Nacole_Lashoun Well it can if you are married to a good person...

  • @nfj0108
    @nfj0108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't think marriage is difficult. I do believe you have to take care of your marriage, compromise at times, and respect one another. I love being married. We laugh a lot, we're sometimes silly, and we know when to give each other space. We have a rule to not talk to each other any kind of way. We go on retreats and spend lots of time talking and just reconnecting with each other. We feel that is important, at least for us in our marriage. My Nyga man loves peace and I'm so grateful for that. Cheers to a long and happy marriage Ling and Lamb. You have the right ingredients.🥰

  • @josepholuwakayode7707
    @josepholuwakayode7707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Kai, I must not marry wrong, my prayers everyday, I love to playyyy, if I marry person wey too serious, I'm in trouble. I ❤ ling and Lamb

  • @alextouthang7
    @alextouthang7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You guys are having a genuine conversation on camera and that's what I love about you guys... Not scripted... (Or atleast that's what I think 😉)... I don't usually watch this kind of video... But hey, it's Ling and Lamb... 🔥

  • @beatrixames1197
    @beatrixames1197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how you both keep it so real . No pretentiousness. Ling you are so chill. Lamb , just hilarious. God bless you both🙂🙂

  • @femifasusi453
    @femifasusi453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    OMG 😆. I love the way you bring being real to play in your relationship and interactions. Sitting there on the floor with that pan of Egusi soup reminds me of childhood days….lots of fun.

  • @TheRedbone0165
    @TheRedbone0165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Marriage isn’t hard, when you’re married to the right person. My husband and I have been married for 33 years. Has it always been easy, no, but when you’re willing to work through the rough patches, it gets better. Too many times when the going gets tough, ppl are QUICK to throw in the towel. Learn to say I’m sorry, EVEN if, you’re right when in an argument. Learn to FORGIVE and watch it prosper!

  • @slamdunk2570
    @slamdunk2570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    OooooOOOOOOOOh my people you are the most examples of any marriage I ever see, the happiest couples, the best friends ever, and the good lovers ever. And I like the way you are eating, it's Africans system, or Africans way of eating. Your life is an example to anybody. I wish to live like you if I merry. Simple and easy with the lots of fun. Understanding and respect and love. God bless you. BIG LOVE to you guys...

  • @cherylfenton5390
    @cherylfenton5390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I just love you guys....you make me laugh out all the time😂.
    I'm dying every time Lamb says "is this marriage hard!" 😆❤❤
    Have a great week you two!

  • @nyabokesarrie
    @nyabokesarrie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like how Ling says , "why r you like this".. she just loves him dearly and he loves her so much too . I just love them too much too much😘😘😘

  • @sharity3289
    @sharity3289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just went to the Kroger in my small town of Maysville, KY, bumping Lamboginny's "Sak Pase" in the car, and then was singing it in the aisles. It's stuck in my head! Lamb is really talented!

  • @maryhsaunders8666
    @maryhsaunders8666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Marriage can be what you make it marriage can be what you make it but if you the type that everything has to go your way then you need to stay single if you decide you want to make it in marriage you have to be able to communicate your feelings your wants your desires what are your growth patterns and what you want to achieve in this relationship we have been married for 48 years and we are still learning each other. A marriage you have to be able to give and take you have to find the best way to fight your battles some battles aren't worth fighting like if she does something that's very small and you don't like it you or he does something that gets on your nerves you have to communicate and say something and sometime you just walk away and just go look at the birds look at the park or do something to cool down until you can communicate with a cool head and think things through.

    • @yvonnewalker9153
      @yvonnewalker9153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      All married couples needs to see this comment you posted. They also need to know that there is three people in the marriage.
      You your spouse and GOD.
      Also don't allow everyone to speak in your marriage. You only took vows with one person. Learn to forgive 🙏 remember that the battle is not against flesh and blood so your spouse is not your enemy. Be each other biggest cheerleader 💓 💖 💗 💛

    • @maryhsaunders8666
      @maryhsaunders8666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@yvonnewalker9153 Keep your marriage problems to yourself don't tell you mother father girlfriend or anyone else. Learn to be quiet unless there is abuse.

  • @hchuck7886
    @hchuck7886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    God bless anyone watching who is married😊👍and God bless u all that are not, from 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

  • @expatbiker6598
    @expatbiker6598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Biggest challenge in marriage is immaturity and age is no factor.

  • @jasonhamilios5460
    @jasonhamilios5460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Marriage is all about respect, tolerance and acceptance, to have love and to be loved is one of life's natural wonders and is a beautiful thing. Everything makes sense and the world is a better place. Learn to love, appreciate everything and be the best person that you are capable of being. You can only do as much as is within your capacity and capability. Be thankful in good times and in bad... it builds strength and character.. Sometimes we consume ourselves with what we don't have and what we can't do and we forget about all the good things we do have and can do... I would lile to say that you are a wonderful couple and I wish you all the best in life.. you are a great example of what life companions should be.. Lots of love, from the UK.. take care..

  • @borllarayodeji5471
    @borllarayodeji5471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I just love these two😂😂😂😂😂😂”is this marriage haaard”? This Marriage is soft like Eko😆😆😆😆

  • @aramidesuiters1669
    @aramidesuiters1669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    MY FAVE COUPLE ON YOU TUBE,NO STAGING,GENUINE !!👍🏽
    NEVER A DULL MOMENT,😉
    Pls keep up the positive and good vibes🙌🏼

    • @jacquelinepayne4737
      @jacquelinepayne4737 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love how they are true to each other and their families. With GOD being the center of it all.

  • @gloriajoseph8221
    @gloriajoseph8221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Marriage is what the individuals involved make it to be. What works for one couple may not work for others. It should be noted that marriage has stages and couples have to adjust to these changes. One party not adjusting to these stages can lead to problems in the marriage.

    • @masolawmedia5224
      @masolawmedia5224 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you for this

    • @ngreat4390
      @ngreat4390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honesty is the best policy. If you can be vulnerable with each other by always forgiving and communicating then the good times will be very good and the bad times will be opportunities to learn...
      Jesus said for marriage work, both parties must be teachable.

  • @edzenheitxerxes535
    @edzenheitxerxes535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    H3333, Lamb, you are natural. I know people who are intimidated by the beauty of their spouse and always want to portray their cosmetic nature.
    You can go far with this attitude, and marriage becomes so easy.
    Seriously, I must say, ling is the perfect one for you. Beautiful both in and out.

  • @marychristina3413
    @marychristina3413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Lol so Lamb has finally admitted that most Nigerian men aren’t this free with their wives.

  • @bentil8631
    @bentil8631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    oh my God I love you guys, you guys are so free in everything you do
    Look at the way lamb is eating from the pot

  • @Towoawawabo8
    @Towoawawabo8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Man this dude is as Authentic as it can gets✊🏿🙌🏿😁😁😁

  • @innocent1401
    @innocent1401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    lol😂 I love that Haitian music you made, can’t stop dancing while listening to it!!!

  • @hikoncept1
    @hikoncept1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Your laughter is damn contagious!
    Ling keeps saying "you're so annoying" in a funny way😡😂

  • @stephenakpobome2426
    @stephenakpobome2426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You guys are so realistic and true. Marriage is all about sacrifice and respect mixed with laughters, disagreements to agree. Lamb, with that pot of Egusi soup, is a true typical Nigerian.

  • @heydinny9934
    @heydinny9934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I am not married but u guys make me happy ooo
    Love from SA 🥰🥰❤💯

  • @empire_o6299
    @empire_o6299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lord bless your marriage. Sincerely, I pray I find a man who is God-fearing. This is great!

  • @arynnwoody7906
    @arynnwoody7906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I never been married but my mom always tells me marriage isn’t hard if you’re with who God wants you to be with, but it is a job. Everyday you have to work at it. People change everyday, so it’s like getting know someone on a daily basis.

  • @emmanuelkelechi1601
    @emmanuelkelechi1601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Me I like it too o... Let her keep mimicking, and when shes finally learned it make una come naija come make even if na one video... Love you guys I'm a big fan

  • @agnescoulter7555
    @agnescoulter7555 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    marriage is work and as long as you both communicate bad good and ugly … you will survive it

  • @waynemartin5934
    @waynemartin5934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys stay married, don't let anything come between you, no money, fame, or anything. I have been married for 26 yrs, and Jesus Christ is the foundation of my marriage, put him in the mids of yours...

  • @coollikedat
    @coollikedat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You need the right person and you need to be the right person too. You can't give what you don't have.

  • @amobibello8029
    @amobibello8029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I always appreciate the way ling dresses , keep it up .
    Back to lamb , marriage is sweet when you are with the right person .

  • @dmclives
    @dmclives 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Does marriage take work? Yes! Is it hard? Define hard. It requires hard work to maintain good communication and lay aside selfish desires for the sake of the other person. But the good fruit that is born from doing the work...sooooooo good and worth it!

  • @apdapd7568
    @apdapd7568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank God both of u didn't miss your destinies in marriage. Being able to laugh uncontrollably and being yourself in marriage is priceless.

  • @emmacosoo5836
    @emmacosoo5836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    When ure done eating pls dont lay down untill after 30 minutes.. it helps ur kidney to stay healthy pls guys..

    • @1handsmoke565
      @1handsmoke565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💨💨Yes Sir.... My guy is eating straight out of a pot. Ling keep him please😹

    • @nolanmckain2061
      @nolanmckain2061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @emmaco how about eating while sleeping 😀? People’s metabolisms are different so their marriage

    • @masolawmedia5224
      @masolawmedia5224 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you for that

    • @Wisdomshots9
      @Wisdomshots9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I lie down after 2 mins tops!!!

    • @mrs.elizabethdarcyladyofpe1288
      @mrs.elizabethdarcyladyofpe1288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I always lay down after eating.. sometimes I’m laying down AS I’m eating.. 🤔

  • @clear8532
    @clear8532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Classic INTROVERT & EXTROVERT couple. My husband I are like this. I'm the INTEOVERT like Ling. The extrovert keeps us going ❤

  • @richardgarcia8475
    @richardgarcia8475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Marriage isn't hard. It's a challenge I'll give you that but, I'm a firm believer that laughter is one of marriages best antidotes. The old cliche is laughter is the best medicine. Keep laughing and smiling... You guys are beautiful with your natural impromptu answers... 😅🥰🙏😇

  • @nadoucetv1291
    @nadoucetv1291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm not married yet, and don't have any boyfriend, every time I was your videos I just feel in love with your friendship and simplicity. Big 💓 to you both

  • @FShexa
    @FShexa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love how Ling is so at peace with Labo. Love to see it.

  • @bimpe4397
    @bimpe4397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Marrying the right person is key!

  • @michellec9871
    @michellec9871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    SAK PASE in the background!!!!! Ayyyyyye!!!!! Yes 🙌🏼

  • @jennytshibola9266
    @jennytshibola9266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ling is loving, caring and just let her husband be; on the other side Lam is doing the same. Also the chemistry between them wow! They talk, they communicate. I just love you guys.

  • @Aced_Dreamer
    @Aced_Dreamer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The way Lamb said "this is the last egusi in this house!" brought back memories for me. I miss home 😅😅

  • @soanalatumaxwell4821
    @soanalatumaxwell4821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Okay, so I found my dream guy...and it was modelled by watching you two xx

    • @LingandLamb
      @LingandLamb  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Awww we love to hear it!💗

    • @lovegoddess1667
      @lovegoddess1667 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

    • @imaniscript6323
      @imaniscript6323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I feel like watching their videos is helping me manifest my dream guy even faster. And boy is hilarious 🤣🤣

    • @charmyni8847
      @charmyni8847 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤩

    • @RoseMakeUpArtist
      @RoseMakeUpArtist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's great hearing this testimony. 💕💕💕 Congratulations
      I am working on manifesting the exact thing after so many years of Chronic singlehood. Let's go 2022 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @nolanmckain2061
    @nolanmckain2061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Marriage is never hard but what is HARD is a number of obstacles you have to deal with. What are obstacles or what do you have to deal? FINANCES( Money management); IN-LAWS( Your relationship with your in-laws); BEDROOM ( sex of course) and FEELING ( what you do when you are Happy or Angry). Those 4 things will make your marriage easier or harder depending on how you manage each of them. Again, Marriage is good and fun but the bad management one of those obstacles( or many) will make you feel like you are in JAIL and the only way out is DIVORCE ( we see that all the time but you are still not able to manage those things you will have the 1st , 2nd…marriage).

    • @NumexP
      @NumexP 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      👊🏾

  • @attahketo8671
    @attahketo8671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ohhhhhhhh so beautiful. I pray I find a spouse that will make me this happy. The good thing is they admitted marriage isn't perfect but you can see that 99% of the time, they are happy. Skimpy skimpy 😂😂😂😂

  • @CookingwithMs.D
    @CookingwithMs.D 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Marriage is a lot of hard work and understanding each other personality is very important as well. The love that each of you have for one another is centered around respect boundaries, loyalty. trust, and communication. Marriage is truly a beautiful thing. Just know that you can overcome any obstacles if you truly believe in the foundation and all that it encompasses.

  • @claudiavpalomeque48
    @claudiavpalomeque48 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Enjoyed this talk so much. You both make marriage seem easy but mostly fun and enjoyable. I agree with you both

  • @christianagulueokoye7847
    @christianagulueokoye7847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    May God bless your union. You guys are keeping it real.

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You hit the nail on the head . Be happy yourself !!! This is how she mimicked me one day she will wake up speaking pidgin ! You dey crack me up here ! Funny man 😔😔

  • @shadrackmuindi8417
    @shadrackmuindi8417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Learning how to adjust to any difficult situation in your marriage makes it easy.

    • @PeopleTheseDays373
      @PeopleTheseDays373 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And why this comment doesn't have more thumbs up🤷🏿

  • @rosemariejackson9428
    @rosemariejackson9428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Many many more years to your union guys...you are a true definition of a beautiful marriage" God bless you both
    💖💝💕💯🙏🙏

  • @loisegitau4897
    @loisegitau4897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    To me marriage is good when you have peace of mind and happiness.

  • @sowlbrown
    @sowlbrown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Omg, 10:57 where Ling mimicks Lamb's 'no pancake' accent literally made me spill my drink 😂😂😂

  • @knifychris139
    @knifychris139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When u love naturally n no material things attached to it but pure undiluted matured love it sustains the longevity of the union forever mostly with the right person with the right mind set

  • @adegboyegafemi5341
    @adegboyegafemi5341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't care about the title, I love Ling's smile, energy and everything.....

  • @maomao2733
    @maomao2733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lol, "eating out of the pot", luckily you are already married, the elders say it will rain when on your wedding day.
    Love they way you are so comfortable with each other..

  • @ronaldwrencher6879
    @ronaldwrencher6879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Lamb eating out of the pot is the story of my single life 🤣😂🤙

    • @bobbyfrank6192
      @bobbyfrank6192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi i love watching you guys so much i checked my TH-cam every day, for me to see if you guys have posted a new video...

  • @christineharmon2766
    @christineharmon2766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    HAPPY! HAPPY! HAPPY! A new Ling and Lamb video!!!!😁😁😁😁

  • @fgouzaye
    @fgouzaye 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I firmly believe that marriage is about communicating, supporting each other when things go south. There is no perfect marriage. Every couple is different depending on circumstances. But the bottom line is that you can't just do whatever you want as if you were still single. It takes too hands to forge an iron. Forgiveness and a better communication are some of the key factors to a successful marriage.