I was blaming the man all the while but them i asked my mom amd she said the girl the fl is the fool You married someone and u are being maltreated why didn't you tell the person if he doesn't believe you should record for evidence or something. The fl is the stupid one she just let herself be bullied and not tell the man. And the man is stupid for not checking facts and not knowing wats going on under his roof😢
@@Dosirosyto be fair, we haven’t seen in interact with his child at all for 90% of the drama, we know he never took care of his daughter in any significant way or else he would have found the evidence of her ongoing chronic abuse by his mother long before now. And even when he does find out the truth he does absolutely nothing to his spiteful vicious harpy of a mother. He hasn’t really acted like a father should. He doesn’t really even deserve the title of uncle. Also, her mother told her she would find her a new daddy when she gets remarried to comfort her from having a completely neglectful father now.
I have to give them credit for their laundry service because the wife wore the same dress 15 years ago when she saved his life. And it still looks brand new. Amazing
What is the use of reborn if the FL goes back to her spineless ex? His whole family, including hers, abuses her child and she takes him back?? Where's the respect. If there is a rebirth, run away with your child and live a better life. You're not divorced, so he can't marry anyone. You have that over his head. As for money, you are talented, you can do it alone. As for a relationship, you're a beautiful person, other men will not look down on you and would want 😊you.
Wow, what a spineless man, he would wrong his own daughter for his male ego and the worse part is the FL goes back to him. I would never go back to such a man. She is teaching her daughter it is ok to be mistreated and disrespected. As parent they should do better.
Who could honestly love someone who ignored you for 6-7 years, didn’t listen to you, took everyone else’s word for everything, let a snake of a “sister” try to get married to you while still already married and was super obvious about it? Also when he found out about the abuse his daughter got he didn’t get retribution? But then again he didn’t give a shit about the kid anyway.
Yeah. The fact that he NEVER cared about his daughter from start to finish was very upsetting to me. What mother would go back to a man who neglected and emotionally abused his daughter and who allowed his own mother to get away with almost killing her?! M I choose to believe the drama ended with her flying away and he’s only imagining that she came back to him. Otherwise it isn’t a ridiculous lazy, unearned false “happy ending”.
The moral of this story is: no matter how stupid, immoral or abusive a man is, he should be forgiven all his sins by a meek, mindless woman with no dignity or self respect.
@@sitinurbayya1371the only people who want this fake happy ending are abusers who normalize getting away with their abuse and still getting to have the woman and child. O one with a brain or a heart would think her getting back with him after everything she and her daughter suffered is “happy”.
in the comments they said husband is spineless, he is not he is just as evil as the villains, perhaps he is the main villain, he is engaged to the greentea while still married to FL,and ofc the greentea is living in their house, ew, but i love how she abused all the villains😂
He’s just more passively evil than the others. He doesn’t care even a tiny bit about his daughter, never noticed her abuse and never pursued punishment of his mother and the evil mistress who tried to kill her.
Even if we removed all the misdeeds and neglect. The ML still considered himself engaged to his wife’s sister while married to his wife who had his child…. No respect nor dignity was given aka no forgiveness
I was blaming the man all the while but them i asked my mom amd she said the girl the fl is the fool You married someone and u are being maltreated why didn't you tell the person if he doesn't believe you should record for evidence or something. The fl is the stupid one she just let herself be bullied and not tell the man. And the man is stupid for not checking facts and not knowing wats going on under his roof😢
@@zeïnamboupI was blaming the man all the while but them i asked my mom amd she said the girl the fl is the fool You married someone and u are being maltreated why didn't you tell the person if he doesn't believe you should record for evidence or something. The fl is the stupid one she just let herself be bullied and not tell the man. And the man is stupid for not checking facts and not knowing wats going on under his roof😢
Blame the FL too. She allowed her sister and father to abuse her child. Don’t tell me that she didn’t know. If she had been bathing and taking care of her child she would have known. The person who allows the abuse is just as bad as the abuser. Thus, her and the husband deserve each other. I am sorry that the child doesn’t have anyone else to live with besides her biological family on both sides. Her family and parents don’t deserve her.
This is a pass. The ML was a push by over by mom and allowed the bullying to happen. Idk why they think apologizing is a resolution to trying to kill someone. She took him back in the end. Pass.
This ML is a nope. He allowed abuse of both his wife and daughter by believing a liar. His stupidity doesn't make it okay that because of him, his child was abused for years. Child, of course, convince FL to forgive anyways.
Maybe the child has brain damage from the abuse? 🤷🏻♀️ That’s the only reason I can imagine that she would want to go back to such a horrible father and grandmother.
This is a typical "clueless guy" drama. How he can run the family business successfully with such a small brain is beyond me! I'm absolutely loving the female lead fighting back, especially trashing the nasty mother in law and bitchy sister. Hilarious!
Too bad in the end she did not continue to be strong and fight back and instead took back this worthless man who allowed her and their daughter to be abused. She was doing so well up until then!
The issue isn't forgiveness itself, it's the writers insinuating that "forgiveness = staying/taking them back" and that's not true. Forgiveness is a form of healing(and takes time, depending on how deep the wound is[psychologically/emotionally]), you're forgiving that person for you, not for them. You can tell when a person has truly forgiven someone bc they’re at peace... they don't murmur & complain, slander or get upset at the thought of that person or by hearing their name and they don't bring up what happened in the past(out of spite). It's like you become unbothered, but in a good way... you're no longer dwelling on the past and you're at peace with yourself(emotionally, mentally & spiritually). It's a great feeling and that's what these writers need to be promoting, instead of having the FL go back to the one who abused them bc they forgave them. Then the whole "knife of forgiveness" mess... Yes, she can be grateful/thankful to them for saving her life or someone close to her, but that doesn't mean she should go back to him bc she’s “obligated” to and bc she feels like she "owes" him. Another issue is the FLs don't give themselves enough time and space away from the ML once they leave them, they never fully separate/detach themselves and still manages to get involved in their affairs(like pretending to be together for their grandparents). They're still in contact with the ML/never deletes his contact info, they even still live in close proximity to him and most of all... they still harbor feelings for him(despite leaving, taking revenge and claiming they don't love him). That's one of the ultimate reasons why they always go back and this FL is a great example. Once she starts hesitating, second guessing herself or starts reminiscing about the past when the ML was good to her... she's most likely going back(even the kids can see it). She should've bought that plane ticket in the beginning and left his narcissistic butt, "..I knew you can't bear to leave me," that's just another form of control & manipulation. He's basically saying "you'll never leave me, no matter what bc I’m ALWAYS in your heart" (as if it’s impossible for one to fall out of love)😮💨🤦♀
@@paulinesteele6624 Thank you🙏🏽🙂 I get that there are some cultural aspects to these dramas(that’s heavily rooted), but we’re not living in the past anymore and you have younger people(esp girls) who watch these and think it’s okay/normal. Romanticizing these toxic relationships😮💨
Excellent point! She should forgive him for her own soul but not get back with this man. He doesn’t deserve it and she definitely deserves better than a man who allowed her abuse, disrespected her throughout their marriage, and allow the daughter to suffer horribly. Even if he believed some lies he showed his true colors deep down and they are ugly.
@@stephanien6237 Yesss! Most definitely bc to him, it was the truth and if that’s the way he would have treated her… imagine if everything really was true. It’s his actions/behavior that’s the problem bc he didn’t have to do all of that, there are better ways he could’ve handled that situation, but like always, these MLs choose the extreme route. It’s our actions/choices that show who we really are, not our abilities💯
Ridiculous. The child was abused horribly and even if this FL (as is typical of these misogynistic Chinese dramas) is willing to forgive her own abuse, I can’t see any mother forgiving the abuse her child suffered. The male lead and his vicious spiteful mother should wallow in regret for the rest of their lives and try to atone for being such horrible people.
I was blaming the man all the while but them i asked my mom amd she said the girl the fl is the fool You married someone and u are being maltreated why didn't you tell the person if he doesn't believe you should record for evidence or something. The fl is the stupid one she just let herself be bullied and not tell the man. And the man is stupid for not checking facts and not knowing wats going on under his roof😢
@@stephanien6237I was blaming the man all the while but them i asked my mom amd she said the girl the fl is the fool You married someone and u are being maltreated why didn't you tell the person if he doesn't believe you should record for evidence or something. The fl is the stupid one she just let herself be bullied and not tell the man. And the man is stupid for not checking facts and not knowing wats going on under his roof😢
Maybe you should leave "Fog city" after divorce. If you'd become rich after, there's no reason to stay in the same city and be entangled with people who usually abused your child
Hogwash I would have left that jerk a long time ago. Not only putting up with all that abuse from him and his mother and his girlfriend, but putting up with a slander and everything. And furthermore, his own kid was telling him that his girlfriend and his mother was trying to kill her and he didn't believe her. Then top it all off, even though he doesn't like the girlfriend anymore and loves his wife, he's still going to marry the bad girl. Give him up and get something better!!
Rebirth is a waste if they go back to their ex and his family especially since they all abused her daughter, that child should be taken from her seeing as she cannot keep her child away from its abusers. ML is vile, he says nothing when his mum openly admits to abusing his child. Don’t worry another leech mistress will appear eventually saying she saved him once and he’ll go back to abusing his wife and child. I don’t get all this if you save someone you have to marry them even if you’re already married if this was the case doctors would get married 100’s of times. He was going to marry her sister 🤮talk about keep it in the family and also she didn’t climb into his bed he burst into her room and raped her.
What's even more pathetic he had to have his mom tell him to go after her and get them back before he even thought about them. Just does wjat his mom tells him to do. He's too pathetic! Horrible father & husband. Talk about keeping it in the family, what is it about always trying to marry the sister of your wife. I would never want a man who thought of marrying my sister or slept with her, gross!
This is a disturbing drama. FL is beautiful, but this is the most useless rebirth story ever. Not only was she abused but her child too for over seven years (and killed!!!), the guy who was supposed to be a father did not care at all for the kid's existence if she was dead or alive, he would even be happy if she were dead. Mother-in-law abuses and IS AWARE the other girl is trying to kill her own granddaughter and agrees with all that. ML is disgusting, he raped her then ignored and mistreated her. He never recognized his daughter except when he wanted FL then magically he becomes a father, what a joke. If you are that curious jump to the end the story is not worth it. In the end, I felt like Fl was the one proving herself worthy of him, not the other way around like oh she saved me in the past now I can allow her to be by my side even though I ignored people trying to kill her and her daughter (not his, that can't be, he was just a sperm donor I refuse to believe that is a father).
Better if 1. If she reborn it will be better if her child was in age she wasnt abussed 2. She will end with someone less stupid and abusive (not care what happening with wife and child is also abuse) 3. ML will not change. He will meet next SFL or manipulative people and will back to bad habit. 4. I do not see love in this relation.
He is not just spineless he is actively neglectful and disrespectful and allowed his child to be abused. Horrible father and useless husband. The perfect ending would have been her leaving him forever.
This guy never bothered to look into what happened between him and the FL twice. Once when she saved his life and a second time when he was dr*gged and ended up going to HER room (and then pretty much assaulting her, resulting in their daughter). The best part is when she literally shows him the deposits she was getting every month was like 300 dollars and the SFL walks in with a random reciept and is like 'oh yeah this is the proof of money she spends.' Doesn't even LOOK at these receipts but just...stands there confused. His own daughter tells him the SFL attempted to kill her and he was legit about to marry her the next day. Please stop writing these idiot CEOs cause there is zero chance a person this dim can run a lemonaide stand let alone a billion dollar company. This ending sucks cause she just shows up on the road instead of on the plane she was meant to get on to leave him forever. Why??? She'd of had no idea that he'd be there.
I just Crack up over the idea of being infertile due to an injury from pulling him out of the road. Like how fragile is her uterus that falling will harm her like that?
*_what kinda RUBBISH is this? the ML keeps on allowing his mom and his 2FL, to abuse even his own child..while the fL ,in her previous life still trusts her sister and father, though the child has bruises--what kinda mother is that???any mother, while giving a bath or changing dresses or uniforms, will be able to see bruises on hands/legs.also why didn't the fl record her MIL giving bruises to her daughter? and why wouldn't she raise these issues with the ML, is even more bewildering? why did she even choose to stay with the ML, when her child was also getting abused and she was just a maid in that family..why did she let themselves go to such a length, that the child was thrown from the terrace..why NOT give a divorce and move on? And what is the use of rebirth--if the fL still got abused at a party, was forced to leave house, her MIL still plans against her with the 2FL and everyday is hell living in that house and exposing the child..why is the assistant asking the FL, to go to the wedding and expose things at the wedding?wasn't it the ML's role to PROVE things to his wife?why divorce and accept his mom's talk of remarrying and then make it as if the FL didn't want to leave without revenge and so stopped the 2FL and the ML's wedding..this doesn't make sense at all..skip it, as the kid/FL don't have any sense and the ML keeps blabbering that he will prove his worth but till the end doesn't keep his word_* 😡😠😭😈☠
This kind of unbelievable violence toward women and children is common in Chinese dramas. It represents the Chinese culture as being backward, sexist, and brutal. If the actors would just boycott these sick dramas and refuse to be part of normalizing domestic violence, bullying, adultery, and torture, maybe the Chinese film industry would enter the 21st century and respect human rights.
I know exactly how you feel . I have nearly punched my iPad on several occasions before reminding myself that this fiction and written probably by men with SERIOUS inadequacy issues , low pay and working for the needs the of a domestic audience where domestic violence may be more acceptable ( not saying that Chinese people condone this type of violence) . I think aswell that there are time and budget constraints so maybe they can’t include the type of retribution we would,like to see . Some of the dramas do now have endings where the FL walk away so I think the film- makers have taken on board the sensibilities of the international audience. Then again it would be boring if everyone was perfect . Fellow🤬🤬🤬😡 but still watch these addictive dramas . 💪🏼
She watched her child get hit, pinched, called names etc.etc. right in front of her (see the flasbacks), even when she was present at the abuse, she did nothing: worst mother ever! Usually when women cannot stand up for themselves they usually find the courage to defend and fight for their children. (If not, they do not deserve the title of 'mother')
She clearly IS traumatized and delusional. No other explanation for why at the end she suddenly wants to get her mother back together with the man who neglected and emotionally abused them for years. A man who allowed his mother to abuse them and who excused her trying to kill his daughter. I have no other explanation for this sudden change at the end other than the little girl having serious trauma and mental health issues.
the fact that her husband was the root cause of all her sufferings and even the death of their child, if he only showed care for them, they wouldn't be bullied to death... so what's the point of being reborn if you have to choose to stay with a spineless and stupid man again.... if other people can find and know the truth, how much more with him as her husband... it just shows that he didn't care for her and their daughter,
Don't bother watching if you don't like those abusive dramas with a ridiculous lovey dovey ML/FL happy ending. I fast forwarded just to check. I want my five minutes back!☹
When there's no trust in a marriage, it's finished. If the man or woman trusts another person instead of each other, it's finished. Full trust will never return.
The ml he really want to marry the mistress and can't even stand up to defend his family. He has no balls. The fl teaches her child that its okay to be a second option. If everything not cleared up he literally choose the mistress. Yes he cheated though not physically or emotionally the fact that they are engage even though his married shows his character as a person. He can say his married and he will compensate her another way without compromising his family. But he still choose to not to protect even his own child. He is irresponsible father and husband. He choose his priority and fl has no dignity still going back easily to him.
Did the fl just left alone her daughter with the aunt who killed her in previous born and had many attempts to kill her recently.... Writers what are you thinking???😊
tbh i enjoyed it it didn't bother me that the fl got back to her ex it was funny , interactive and more not like other drama's i had much fun watching this i hope more drama's like this will be made....
Because this is NOT love. Their idea of love here is completely transactional. She saved me so I must love her-that’s what small children and Chinese drama writers seem to think. 😂 He also never showed that he loved his daughter. He even excused all of the abuse his mother did to her and his wife and she got no punishment.
1:41:35 mother in law says “I shouldn’t have abused my daughter in law and granddaughter” only because she now knows that the daughter in law (FL) saved her son’s life?! Because otherwise her abusing her own granddaughter would have been ok?! This is a typical and disgusting trope in Chinese dramas where people are immoral and disgusting. I laughed 1:40:27 watching this evil spiteful woman pretend to have remorse. A person who relentlessly abuses their granddaughter is not capable of remorse! She is just embarrassed that she was shamed in public. I guess we can see where the male lead gets his attitude.😂 We spend a whole drama knowing that he has neglected his daughter *for years*, doesn’t notice when she is being abused, and then 1:23:47 he asks if she misses daddy? 😂😂😂 she has barely interacted with him. Why would she miss him? The story summary is: Rich man is drunk and vomiting on the side of the road, almost gets hit by a car, and is saved by a mysterious woman (the female lead, but he mistakenly thinks it’s her sister). he spends five years preparing to marry her sister (because apparently her saving him that one time is the basis for marriage?). This evil woman decides to drug him to get him to sleep with her, but like an idiot, she leaves him alone so that he enters the wrong room and ends up, sleeping with the female lead. She gets pregnant, he marries her, although never treats their marriage With any sort of respect. he then ignores, neglect, and disrespects her and his own daughter for five years. Then, when his wife suddenly starts standing up for herself, he suddenly out of the blue decides that he loves her and needs to control her and needs to sleep with her. there was never a part of the story where it explained when he supposedly fell in love with her. Also, There is ZERO explanation for why the female lead would have ever fallen in love with HIm. After she saved his life years ago he never recognized it as her so she wouldn’t have had a chance to get to know him. Then, he gets drugged and breaks into her hotel room and sleeps with her (doubtful of any consent there), he marries her (in a small ceremony without family or friends, and no public announcement), he keeps their marriage a secret for years, ignores his wife and his daughter for years, allows them to be bullied by his mother for years, denies it when his wife says his mother was abusing her. But suddenly we are supposed to believe she loves him?! Why? Meanwhile his mother, who honestly acts like an evil psychopath, has been working to harm both the female lead and her own biological granddaughter. Where exactly is the love in this story. I think the writers completely forgot!
The screenwriter of this play must’ve been very busy: he cooked for the crew, he was the makeup artist, he moved the lights and so on. That will be the only reason for such a bad movie.
Disgusting ending, After Rebirth, how can FL be so dumb to chose ML who cheated her, abuse his own daughter, abuse FL. Let his Mother to torture FL. Complete waste of time.
I 've watched a while ago this ml in the new drama if zhai yiying and wang....they are both doctors here..and zhai yiying still in the. Internship.......this drama is soo nice to watch....good drama to be watched......try it..... Thanks..
Again....who wrote this??? I can't mention which scene is the most concerning... a mother who hits, slams, and punches an old maid like a punching back in front of her daughter. A man who is willing to leave his daughter and wife just because of his "promise" (if you have to marry someone, don't get married). And again.... in the end, this idiotic FL comes back with her husband, who tortured her for years
I almost thought the ending was pleasing, but she didn't really leave him. What a waste for reborn. Being reborn is for you to change the past for a better life, not to be stuck on the same page.
I was blaming the man all the while but them i asked my mom amd she said the girl the fl is the fool You married someone and u are being maltreated why didn't you tell the person if he doesn't believe you should record for evidence or something. The fl is the stupid one she just let herself be bullied and not tell the man. And the man is stupid for not checking facts and not knowing wats going on under his roof😢
No matter who saves you before marriage, you should love your wife after marriage… not abuse her. There is another option besides marrying the one who saved you. Give her the money and the matter is over and if she doesn't want the money then that's her problem, it has nothing to do with you
This is the most ridiculous one I’ve seen yet. OMG, she stumbles into a hotel room and gets knocked up by a guy she barely knows, then is forced to marry him cause she’s pregnant, gets abused by him, his mother and her own sister and father. Her daughter now 6yrs old gets abused by the MIL, grandfather and aunt, while the husband refuses to believe her for years. Her daughter gets pushed off a balcony, she gets murdered, get reborn, has half ass revenge and then forgives the POS in the end….utter nonsense. I get it’s a drama, but let’s at least make it believable. Only watch this if you want a good laugh.
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When ur own child calls u 'uncle' to your face instead of 'dad' then u know u r a waste... 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was blaming the man all the while but them i asked my mom amd she said the girl the fl is the fool
You married someone and u are being maltreated why didn't you tell the person if he doesn't believe you should record for evidence or something. The fl is the stupid one she just let herself be bullied and not tell the man. And the man is stupid for not checking facts and not knowing wats going on under his roof😢
It's the mom who told her to do that😢
Lmao 😂😂
From the very start of the drama I wondered if she was his daughter or not because he never once acted like he noticed her, much less loved her.
@@Dosirosyto be fair, we haven’t seen in interact with his child at all for 90% of the drama, we know he never took care of his daughter in any significant way or else he would have found the evidence of her ongoing chronic abuse by his mother long before now. And even when he does find out the truth he does absolutely nothing to his spiteful vicious harpy of a mother. He hasn’t really acted like a father should. He doesn’t really even deserve the title of uncle.
Also, her mother told her she would find her a new daddy when she gets remarried to comfort her from having a completely neglectful father now.
I have to give them credit for their laundry service because the wife wore the same dress 15 years ago when she saved his life. And it still looks brand new. Amazing
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We have to ask them what kind of washing powder 🤣😂
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What is the use of reborn if the FL goes back to her spineless ex? His whole family, including hers, abuses her child and she takes him back?? Where's the respect. If there is a rebirth, run away with your child and live a better life. You're not divorced, so he can't marry anyone. You have that over his head. As for money, you are talented, you can do it alone. As for a relationship, you're a beautiful person, other men will not look down on you and would want 😊you.
Wow, what a spineless man, he would wrong his own daughter for his male ego and the worse part is the FL goes back to him. I would never go back to such a man. She is teaching her daughter it is ok to be mistreated and disrespected. As parent they should do better.
So very true.
Because tthey are the same :both spineless
It she does that the movie will end up and there won't be any continuation...she has to do so for the movie to continue
Right 👍, I'm so disappointed 😞☹️
Who could honestly love someone who ignored you for 6-7 years, didn’t listen to you, took everyone else’s word for everything, let a snake of a “sister” try to get married to you while still already married and was super obvious about it? Also when he found out about the abuse his daughter got he didn’t get retribution? But then again he didn’t give a shit about the kid anyway.
Yeah. The fact that he NEVER cared about his daughter from start to finish was very upsetting to me. What mother would go back to a man who neglected and emotionally abused his daughter and who allowed his own mother to get away with almost killing her?! M
I choose to believe the drama ended with her flying away and he’s only imagining that she came back to him. Otherwise it isn’t a ridiculous lazy, unearned false “happy ending”.
The moral of this story is: no matter how stupid, immoral or abusive a man is, he should be forgiven all his sins by a meek, mindless woman with no dignity or self respect.
This!
@jlhenderson2 It would seem to be so.
The ‘happy ending’ that nobody wants…
@@sitinurbayya1371the only people who want this fake happy ending are abusers who normalize getting away with their abuse and still getting to have the woman and child. O one with a brain or a heart would think her getting back with him after everything she and her daughter suffered is “happy”.
Preach
What a despicable monster in law. She abuse her grand child. She should fight back and report to the police for child abuse.
in the comments they said husband is spineless, he is not he is just as evil as the villains, perhaps he is the main villain, he is engaged to the greentea while still married to FL,and ofc the greentea is living in their house, ew, but i love how she abused all the villains😂
He’s just more passively evil than the others. He doesn’t care even a tiny bit about his daughter, never noticed her abuse and never pursued punishment of his mother and the evil mistress who tried to kill her.
@@stephanien6237passive evil is the most evil. Being able to watch people do bad and choosing not to say anything can never be better.
M too😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅
I swear 😂😂
Even if we removed all the misdeeds and neglect. The ML still considered himself engaged to his wife’s sister while married to his wife who had his child…. No respect nor dignity was given aka no forgiveness
Even if we ignore ALL of his neglect and disrespect of the female lead (you know his wife !) his treatment of his innocent daughter is unforgivable!
@@stephanien6237 Exactly!! He had a daughter! He did not care about her existence at all!
Dad-Miaomiao don't talk nonsense I am your dad
Miaomiao- You are past tense 😂😂😂😂😂
She forgives him after the horrendous abuse her daughter suffered? No thanks.
Strange😂
I was blaming the man all the while but them i asked my mom amd she said the girl the fl is the fool
You married someone and u are being maltreated why didn't you tell the person if he doesn't believe you should record for evidence or something. The fl is the stupid one she just let herself be bullied and not tell the man. And the man is stupid for not checking facts and not knowing wats going on under his roof😢
@@zeïnamboupI was blaming the man all the while but them i asked my mom amd she said the girl the fl is the fool
You married someone and u are being maltreated why didn't you tell the person if he doesn't believe you should record for evidence or something. The fl is the stupid one she just let herself be bullied and not tell the man. And the man is stupid for not checking facts and not knowing wats going on under his roof😢
She is the one that let her daughter and herself suffer for long
Blame the FL too. She allowed her sister and father to abuse her child. Don’t tell me that she didn’t know. If she had been bathing and taking care of her child she would have known. The person who allows the abuse is just as bad as the abuser. Thus, her and the husband deserve each other. I am sorry that the child doesn’t have anyone else to live with besides her biological family on both sides. Her family and parents don’t deserve her.
This is a pass. The ML was a push by over by mom and allowed the bullying to happen. Idk why they think apologizing is a resolution to trying to kill someone. She took him back in the end. Pass.
Finally. The revenge where the person doesn’t just take hits, but hits back harder. I love it.
I loved the part when the child tell her father that he was “past tensed “
Male lead is a perfect example of momma boy.
Can we have another version where the female lead did not take back her abusive husband
10:53 is absolutely great -- FL points to ML's lower body and says "That aspect is not good either." hahahaaaa
I won't accept a guy who almost marry other girl😅
Too right! I won't either.
@@katherinefnathaniel8543 yeah like srlsy he wanted it to its not like someone pointed a gun t him hs a mamas boy
He almost marry another girl why cone back to him? You were reborn change your man😅
@@imeejavier3366 my thoughts.... exactly
Not just any girl, but her sister!
This ML is a nope. He allowed abuse of both his wife and daughter by believing a liar. His stupidity doesn't make it okay that because of him, his child was abused for years.
Child, of course, convince FL to forgive anyways.
Another stupid FL..she knows how he is why still want forgive and accept him back..
Maybe the child has brain damage from the abuse? 🤷🏻♀️ That’s the only reason I can imagine that she would want to go back to such a horrible father and grandmother.
@@stephanien6237 I think it's more the writers' imaginations than what any sane child would do.
This is a typical "clueless guy" drama. How he can run the family business successfully with such a small brain is beyond me! I'm absolutely loving the female lead fighting back, especially trashing the nasty mother in law and bitchy sister. Hilarious!
Too bad in the end she did not continue to be strong and fight back and instead took back this worthless man who allowed her and their daughter to be abused. She was doing so well up until then!
The issue isn't forgiveness itself, it's the writers insinuating that "forgiveness = staying/taking them back" and that's not true. Forgiveness is a form of healing(and takes time, depending on how deep the wound is[psychologically/emotionally]), you're forgiving that person for you, not for them. You can tell when a person has truly forgiven someone bc they’re at peace... they don't murmur & complain, slander or get upset at the thought of that person or by hearing their name and they don't bring up what happened in the past(out of spite). It's like you become unbothered, but in a good way... you're no longer dwelling on the past and you're at peace with yourself(emotionally, mentally & spiritually). It's a great feeling and that's what these writers need to be promoting, instead of having the FL go back to the one who abused them bc they forgave them. Then the whole "knife of forgiveness" mess... Yes, she can be grateful/thankful to them for saving her life or someone close to her, but that doesn't mean she should go back to him bc she’s “obligated” to and bc she feels like she "owes" him.
Another issue is the FLs don't give themselves enough time and space away from the ML once they leave them, they never fully separate/detach themselves and still manages to get involved in their affairs(like pretending to be together for their grandparents). They're still in contact with the ML/never deletes his contact info, they even still live in close proximity to him and most of all... they still harbor feelings for him(despite leaving, taking revenge and claiming they don't love him). That's one of the ultimate reasons why they always go back and this FL is a great example. Once she starts hesitating, second guessing herself or starts reminiscing about the past when the ML was good to her... she's most likely going back(even the kids can see it). She should've bought that plane ticket in the beginning and left his narcissistic butt, "..I knew you can't bear to leave me," that's just another form of control & manipulation. He's basically saying "you'll never leave me, no matter what bc I’m ALWAYS in your heart" (as if it’s impossible for one to fall out of love)😮💨🤦♀
@@Bionca1214 Well Said!!!
@@paulinesteele6624 Thank you🙏🏽🙂 I get that there are some cultural aspects to these dramas(that’s heavily rooted), but we’re not living in the past anymore and you have younger people(esp girls) who watch these and think it’s okay/normal. Romanticizing these toxic relationships😮💨
Excellent point! She should forgive him for her own soul but not get back with this man. He doesn’t deserve it and she definitely deserves better than a man who allowed her abuse, disrespected her throughout their marriage, and allow the daughter to suffer horribly. Even if he believed some lies he showed his true colors deep down and they are ugly.
@@stephanien6237 Yesss! Most definitely bc to him, it was the truth and if that’s the way he would have treated her… imagine if everything really was true. It’s his actions/behavior that’s the problem bc he didn’t have to do all of that, there are better ways he could’ve handled that situation, but like always, these MLs choose the extreme route. It’s our actions/choices that show who we really are, not our abilities💯
AMEN!❤
Bad ending. Her rebirth is useless, this man is not worthy at all
Rebirth story totally wasted if you are going back to the person who always want to divorce such a wasted and abusive family
Even if it was all misunderstanding, I will never reconciled with those family if I were reborned 🐸
The abuse was not a misunderstanding.
Just before boarding plane leaving for good, her child suddenly changed side and cooperated with director and forced a happy ending 🙄🙄
Ridiculous. The child was abused horribly and even if this FL (as is typical of these misogynistic Chinese dramas) is willing to forgive her own abuse, I can’t see any mother forgiving the abuse her child suffered. The male lead and his vicious spiteful mother should wallow in regret for the rest of their lives and try to atone for being such horrible people.
I was blaming the man all the while but them i asked my mom amd she said the girl the fl is the fool
You married someone and u are being maltreated why didn't you tell the person if he doesn't believe you should record for evidence or something. The fl is the stupid one she just let herself be bullied and not tell the man. And the man is stupid for not checking facts and not knowing wats going on under his roof😢
@@stephanien6237I was blaming the man all the while but them i asked my mom amd she said the girl the fl is the fool
You married someone and u are being maltreated why didn't you tell the person if he doesn't believe you should record for evidence or something. The fl is the stupid one she just let herself be bullied and not tell the man. And the man is stupid for not checking facts and not knowing wats going on under his roof😢
Maybe you should leave "Fog city" after divorce. If you'd become rich after, there's no reason to stay in the same city and be entangled with people who usually abused your child
Hogwash I would have left that jerk a long time ago. Not only putting up with all that abuse from him and his mother and his girlfriend, but putting up with a slander and everything. And furthermore, his own kid was telling him that his girlfriend and his mother was trying to kill her and he didn't believe her.
Then top it all off, even though he doesn't like the girlfriend anymore and loves his wife, he's still going to marry the bad girl.
Give him up and get something better!!
There is no excuse in abusing anyone period 🙄
The female lead is stunningly beautiful
Rebirth is a waste if they go back to their ex and his family especially since they all abused her daughter, that child should be taken from her seeing as she cannot keep her child away from its abusers. ML is vile, he says nothing when his mum openly admits to abusing his child. Don’t worry another leech mistress will appear eventually saying she saved him once and he’ll go back to abusing his wife and child. I don’t get all this if you save someone you have to marry them even if you’re already married if this was the case doctors would get married 100’s of times. He was going to marry her sister 🤮talk about keep it in the family and also she didn’t climb into his bed he burst into her room and raped her.
Now, that was a STUPID move to leave the daughter with the aunt! Come on, Mr Writer.
Same old thing , at the end , everyone forget everything and just be like , let’s be together though you abused me and killed my child … clap! 😒😒
What's even more pathetic he had to have his mom tell him to go after her and get them back before he even thought about them. Just does wjat his mom tells him to do. He's too pathetic! Horrible father & husband. Talk about keeping it in the family, what is it about always trying to marry the sister of your wife. I would never want a man who thought of marrying my sister or slept with her, gross!
This is a disturbing drama. FL is beautiful, but this is the most useless rebirth story ever. Not only was she abused but her child too for over seven years (and killed!!!), the guy who was supposed to be a father did not care at all for the kid's existence if she was dead or alive, he would even be happy if she were dead. Mother-in-law abuses and IS AWARE the other girl is trying to kill her own granddaughter and agrees with all that. ML is disgusting, he raped her then ignored and mistreated her. He never recognized his daughter except when he wanted FL then magically he becomes a father, what a joke. If you are that curious jump to the end the story is not worth it. In the end, I felt like Fl was the one proving herself worthy of him, not the other way around like oh she saved me in the past now I can allow her to be by my side even though I ignored people trying to kill her and her daughter (not his, that can't be, he was just a sperm donor I refuse to believe that is a father).
honestly a clean divorce was needed in this movie
Better if
1. If she reborn it will be better if her child was in age she wasnt abussed
2. She will end with someone less stupid and abusive (not care what happening with wife and child is also abuse)
3. ML will not change. He will meet next SFL or manipulative people and will back to bad habit.
4. I do not see love in this relation.
The male lead should be forced to marry the evil mistress and they can wallow in their own evil along with the spiteful mother in law!
the title suggested "he fell in love again" when in the opening he pretty much declared he hadnt loved her at all.
And his actions showed that he never loved her (or his daughter)
what a spineless husband!!
係冇骨氣的女子呀
He is not just spineless he is actively neglectful and disrespectful and allowed his child to be abused. Horrible father and useless husband. The perfect ending would have been her leaving him forever.
@@stephanien6237yes all true! still only a drama😂😂
I would love if this drama, she found another man. He has been neglecting her for so many years until both her and her kid died.
This guy never bothered to look into what happened between him and the FL twice. Once when she saved his life and a second time when he was dr*gged and ended up going to HER room (and then pretty much assaulting her, resulting in their daughter). The best part is when she literally shows him the deposits she was getting every month was like 300 dollars and the SFL walks in with a random reciept and is like 'oh yeah this is the proof of money she spends.' Doesn't even LOOK at these receipts but just...stands there confused. His own daughter tells him the SFL attempted to kill her and he was legit about to marry her the next day. Please stop writing these idiot CEOs cause there is zero chance a person this dim can run a lemonaide stand let alone a billion dollar company.
This ending sucks cause she just shows up on the road instead of on the plane she was meant to get on to leave him forever. Why??? She'd of had no idea that he'd be there.
She should give him little more suffer for his stupidity,why accept him easily after all bad things he gave? So silly!
Because the writers are super lazy and misogynistic. They can’t be bothered to write any redemption arc or atonement for him.
I love to have a daughter-in-law like her she is so brave ,fearless to revenge her mother-in-law and she is very funny😂😂
Mrs. Qin is very aggressive, brave and pretty this how every mother should do❤❤❤
i was ok with everything the FL did until she was stupid enough to leave her daughter in the ward alone with her aunt....damn that was just brainless
No. They keep doing this. The FL almost kicks them to the curb, but then falls short and back into that toxic situation. No.
This would have been perfect if she just left him and he regretted it forever. Ugh.
Who told this writers and director that abuser partner/husband can be have a happy ending in the future. Sick of this kind of story!
I just Crack up over the idea of being infertile due to an injury from pulling him out of the road. Like how fragile is her uterus that falling will harm her like that?
*_what kinda RUBBISH is this? the ML keeps on allowing his mom and his 2FL, to abuse even his own child..while the fL ,in her previous life still trusts her sister and father, though the child has bruises--what kinda mother is that???any mother, while giving a bath or changing dresses or uniforms, will be able to see bruises on hands/legs.also why didn't the fl record her MIL giving bruises to her daughter? and why wouldn't she raise these issues with the ML, is even more bewildering? why did she even choose to stay with the ML, when her child was also getting abused and she was just a maid in that family..why did she let themselves go to such a length, that the child was thrown from the terrace..why NOT give a divorce and move on? And what is the use of rebirth--if the fL still got abused at a party, was forced to leave house, her MIL still plans against her with the 2FL and everyday is hell living in that house and exposing the child..why is the assistant asking the FL, to go to the wedding and expose things at the wedding?wasn't it the ML's role to PROVE things to his wife?why divorce and accept his mom's talk of remarrying and then make it as if the FL didn't want to leave without revenge and so stopped the 2FL and the ML's wedding..this doesn't make sense at all..skip it, as the kid/FL don't have any sense and the ML keeps blabbering that he will prove his worth but till the end doesn't keep his word_* 😡😠😭😈☠
This kind of unbelievable violence toward women and children is common in Chinese dramas. It represents the Chinese culture as being backward, sexist, and brutal. If the actors would just boycott these sick dramas and refuse to be part of normalizing domestic violence, bullying, adultery, and torture, maybe the Chinese film industry would enter the 21st century and respect human rights.
I know exactly how you feel . I have nearly punched my iPad on several occasions before reminding myself that this fiction and written probably by men with SERIOUS inadequacy issues , low pay and working for the needs the of a domestic audience where domestic violence may be more acceptable ( not saying that Chinese people condone this type of violence) . I think aswell that there are time and budget constraints so maybe they can’t include the type of retribution we would,like to see . Some of the dramas do now have endings where the FL walk away so I think the film- makers have taken on board the sensibilities of the international audience. Then again it would be boring if everyone was perfect . Fellow🤬🤬🤬😡 but still watch these addictive dramas . 💪🏼
From my understanding, the ML didn't believe her when she told him about the abuse.
She watched her child get hit, pinched, called names etc.etc. right in front of her (see the flasbacks), even when she was present at the abuse, she did nothing: worst mother ever! Usually when women cannot stand up for themselves they usually find the courage to defend and fight for their children. (If not, they do not deserve the title of 'mother')
there is again fucking forgiveness.
Stop at exactly 20 seconds before it ends and it will be a perfect ending.
The part when the he runs after the flying plane and calling his wife's name😂🤣😂🤦🏽♀️
Wife gave him a chance the child is at least 5 How many chances does he NEED
Mr Writer, you wrong...even the daughter is laughing about the maid's whuppin'😊😂😂
Nope, he did not deserve a 2nd chance
Female lead become the Indian manzolika😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ even ML got scared 😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂
It's a wonder that poor child isn't traumatized by all of the violence perpetrated on her and her mother, as well as that all around her.
She clearly IS traumatized and delusional. No other explanation for why at the end she suddenly wants to get her mother back together with the man who neglected and emotionally abused them for years. A man who allowed his mother to abuse them and who excused her trying to kill his daughter. I have no other explanation for this sudden change at the end other than the little girl having serious trauma and mental health issues.
Wtf how can she forgive him after all she went through because of him I don't think she knows that there is something called self respect 😂
the fact that her husband was the root cause of all her sufferings and even the death of their child, if he only showed care for them, they wouldn't be bullied to death... so what's the point of being reborn if you have to choose to stay with a spineless and stupid man again.... if other people can find and know the truth, how much more with him as her husband... it just shows that he didn't care for her and their daughter,
Not worth watching. After everything, she forgives the ML. This wouldve been better if she just left the country as she originally planned.
The worst things she back to him 🙄👎
Don't bother watching if you don't like those abusive dramas with a ridiculous lovey dovey ML/FL happy ending. I fast forwarded just to check. I want my five minutes back!☹
Thanks for the feedback … I’ll skip this one and save myself the trouble 😅
#1. Can we just accept a man is blind and dump him? 2. Why don't we just leave him? And finally i refuse to make up with him or forgive his mom.
When there's no trust in a marriage, it's finished. If the man or woman trusts another person instead of each other, it's finished. Full trust will never return.
The mistress have not change her outfit since the beginning of the drama.😂😂😂
She can’t afford extra ones 😂🤣
The ml he really want to marry the mistress and can't even stand up to defend his family. He has no balls.
The fl teaches her child that its okay to be a second option.
If everything not cleared up he literally choose the mistress.
Yes he cheated though not physically or emotionally the fact that they are engage even though his married shows his character as a person.
He can say his married and he will compensate her another way without compromising his family. But he still choose to not to protect even his own child. He is irresponsible father and husband.
He choose his priority and fl has no dignity still going back easily to him.
Did the fl just left alone her daughter with the aunt who killed her in previous born and had many attempts to kill her recently.... Writers what are you thinking???😊
tbh i enjoyed it it didn't bother me that the fl got back to her ex it was funny , interactive and more not like other drama's i had much fun watching this i hope more drama's like this will be made....
What is the use of rebirth
"Goodbye ex husband" 😂😂😂
Not satisfied with the end...she should left him...how come.love depend whose saving life...
Because this is NOT love. Their idea of love here is completely transactional. She saved me so I must love her-that’s what small children and Chinese drama writers seem to think. 😂
He also never showed that he loved his daughter. He even excused all of the abuse his mother did to her and his wife and she got no punishment.
1:41:35 mother in law says “I shouldn’t have abused my daughter in law and granddaughter” only because she now knows that the daughter in law (FL) saved her son’s life?! Because otherwise her abusing her own granddaughter would have been ok?! This is a typical and disgusting trope in Chinese dramas where people are immoral and disgusting. I laughed 1:40:27 watching this evil spiteful woman pretend to have remorse. A person who relentlessly abuses their granddaughter is not capable of remorse! She is just embarrassed that she was shamed in public.
I guess we can see where the male lead gets his attitude.😂
We spend a whole drama knowing that he has neglected his daughter *for years*, doesn’t notice when she is being abused, and then 1:23:47 he asks if she misses daddy? 😂😂😂 she has barely interacted with him. Why would she miss him?
The story summary is:
Rich man is drunk and vomiting on the side of the road, almost gets hit by a car, and is saved by a mysterious woman (the female lead, but he mistakenly thinks it’s her sister). he spends five years preparing to marry her sister (because apparently her saving him that one time is the basis for marriage?). This evil woman decides to drug him to get him to sleep with her, but like an idiot, she leaves him alone so that he enters the wrong room and ends up, sleeping with the female lead. She gets pregnant, he marries her, although never treats their marriage With any sort of respect. he then ignores, neglect, and disrespects her and his own daughter for five years. Then, when his wife suddenly starts standing up for herself, he suddenly out of the blue decides that he loves her and needs to control her and needs to sleep with her. there was never a part of the story where it explained when he supposedly fell in love with her.
Also, There is ZERO explanation for why the female lead would have ever fallen in love with HIm. After she saved his life years ago he never recognized it as her so she wouldn’t have had a chance to get to know him. Then, he gets drugged and breaks into her hotel room and sleeps with her (doubtful of any consent there), he marries her (in a small ceremony without family or friends, and no public announcement), he keeps their marriage a secret for years, ignores his wife and his daughter for years, allows them to be bullied by his mother for years, denies it when his wife says his mother was abusing her. But suddenly we are supposed to believe she loves him?! Why?
Meanwhile his mother, who honestly acts like an evil psychopath, has been working to harm both the female lead and her own biological granddaughter.
Where exactly is the love in this story. I think the writers completely forgot!
The screenwriter of this play must’ve been very busy: he cooked for the crew, he was the makeup artist, he moved the lights and so on. That will be the only reason for such a bad movie.
That or intentional misogynistic propaganda.
I quite enjoyed watching this. Love both the fl & ml.. the cast is good. Fl is very strong and showed the bully in-laws and the lot how it’s done! ❤
Disgusting ending,
After Rebirth, how can FL be so dumb to chose ML who cheated her, abuse his own daughter, abuse FL. Let his Mother to torture FL. Complete waste of time.
Best episode ever 😂❤ I like it how the main actress act like she does not care and not afraid of threat ❤❤
She punched him in the eye 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
I like dramas that Fl retaliate n teaches them to respect others.
It is really frustrating how she ends up with a man who wanted (so badly) for her to be the bad guy. I hate these types of endings!
I agree with the wife. Since he likes to fall for the lies he can divorce her and live with the liers
There was conveniently a random brick lying about😅
This drama would have been a great version, if it didn' t have the usual lack of judgement by the female lead.
That family dog with glasses 😂😂😂 love this drama i want more dramas like this ❤❤❤
someone saved you does that mean you have to marry her where is the logic man🤔🤷
Love this ❤
Last ending🤡 seriously if she leave him forever I m happy but 😤
Omg me too😠
Trash!,why she forgive him easily?!🤔😠
Just ignored the last minute of the drama and assume it’s his wishful thinking. Much better ending!
The happy ending that no one wants 🤣, the stupidity of FL forgiving her ex-husband, waste time to be reborn😮💨
I don’t understand why she couldn’t just leave the ridiculous ml and mother in law behind and live elsewhere.
I 've watched a while ago this ml in the new drama if zhai yiying and wang....they are both doctors here..and zhai yiying still in the. Internship.......this drama is soo nice to watch....good drama to be watched......try it.....
Thanks..
Again....who wrote this???
I can't mention which scene is the most concerning... a mother who hits, slams, and punches an old maid like a punching back in front of her daughter. A man who is willing to leave his daughter and wife just because of his "promise" (if you have to marry someone, don't get married).
And again.... in the end, this idiotic FL comes back with her husband, who tortured her for years
Yep I agree 👍
I really love the little girl's acting😂😂
I almost thought the ending was pleasing, but she didn't really leave him. What a waste for reborn. Being reborn is for you to change the past for a better life, not to be stuck on the same page.
I was blaming the man all the while but them i asked my mom amd she said the girl the fl is the fool
You married someone and u are being maltreated why didn't you tell the person if he doesn't believe you should record for evidence or something. The fl is the stupid one she just let herself be bullied and not tell the man. And the man is stupid for not checking facts and not knowing wats going on under his roof😢
My favorite are the angles of the "video proof"😂😂😂😂
The endings always disappoint
The FL is great..😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂cant stop 😅😅😅
No matter who saves you before marriage, you should love your wife after marriage… not abuse her. There is another option besides marrying the one who saved you. Give her the money and the matter is over and if she doesn't want the money then that's her problem, it has nothing to do with you
What if a man had saved him… would he be forced to marry him? 😂😂😂
45:55 was hilarious😂
The ending is UGLY! HE DOESNT DESERVE FORGIVENESS
I love the new version of female lead and it's so funny to watch her take revenge😂
This is the most ridiculous one I’ve seen yet. OMG, she stumbles into a hotel room and gets knocked up by a guy she barely knows, then is forced to marry him cause she’s pregnant, gets abused by him, his mother and her own sister and father. Her daughter now 6yrs old gets abused by the MIL, grandfather and aunt, while the husband refuses to believe her for years. Her daughter gets pushed off a balcony, she gets murdered, get reborn, has half ass revenge and then forgives the POS in the end….utter nonsense. I get it’s a drama, but let’s at least make it believable. Only watch this if you want a good laugh.
I do a lot of embroidery and have a lot of scissors but if I am going to a party I never carry one in my purse😂😂
Hhh you are so funny