Nope- both matter- words or intensions expressed followed up by the actual action validate his integrity. Spent way too much time with a guy that showed so many “meaningful actions” leaving me to interpret things, but when asked to use words and state what intentions he had- words did not match - AT ALL!! words and actions interpret integrity!
Casey Lin Ah got it! I like what you are pointing to - i have found the more widespread issue people listening to words and missing actions hence why I focus there - and I get the importance of what you are saying
So wonderful that I stumbled onto your channel. I am 71. I still want love, companionship, hugs, kisses, lovemaking and all that. I have been married, had kids and have been in several relationships. I have never really felt loved or wanted by my partner. This I know is partly due to my own personal issues. At this late age, I have met a man who I think is perfect for me. I am scared. Your videos are so on point. I hope to learn and let my personal walls fall and accept this wonderful man into my life. Thank you.
Love hearing that you've met a man you think is good for you! It's okay to be scared and to take your time to lower your walls. Perhaps just include that sometime so he knows what's going on for you. Wishing you well with it!
It's sad that most of us women waste so much of our precious time in these men, who don't make any effort! Been there and it's horrible.... We need to wake up and move on ❤️ Thank you Jack Butler
I'm not sure what the experience is of other women but the more self aware I become the more 'weeding' of men I'm doing. I'll keep doing the weeding because in my evolved self I'm now more afraid of being in another wrong relationship than being single. That in itself is a victory for me.
Well said! Yeah and i think you only end up resenting the person in the long run if a guy doesn't want u it's okkkkkkk you'll feel bad at 1st but it's better to hurt in the earlies than when u are years later invested!
@@thejackbutler met a guy, he saw me he approached me, we spoke for a little while he offered me his number, he called later that evening and three to two times a day after that, we are both in our early 70's but he explained his passion for cricket and how he travels a lot, we have yet to go on a date his quality time is spent working 7 days a week, I did ask where do I fit in, to date he has not made any attempt to get to know me/know each other, his calls consist of good morning, good afternoon, and good night pleasant dreams, so far I hear nothing about going out to dinner or something, its always how tired he is I feel This guy enjoys teaching this cricket, he's 70 I asked, do you play the game as well as train others, he said yes, I'm sorry I don't think I'll ever be a priority, he's to busy and to tired and travels, I feel like I'm in a relationship with the phone, he maybe in a relationship but I'm not. I feel I should move on, he's just to busy. What is your take on this?
Jacquie Williams He probably wants a companion not a partner. Think you want the latter. Probably not your guy. Stop the contact and if he wants contact, he can meet up with you.
@@thejackbutler i have started not answering his calls the first was last night and will continue not answering. P.S. just started watching your video I got a lot from it. Thank you
Watching this again. Broke up w a guy I was on/off with for months. He chases only when I’ve walked away; this is such clear reasoning on observing whether a man is truly available vs not available for a relationship. Just look for the evidence.
Listening to this AGAIN.... We are older...65 widow & 69 divorcee...no expectations, just HOPE and having lots of fun, no definate commitment or future plans, we talk almost every day and make plans for being together regularly...but OMG! He IS making this happen!!! It,s been 18 months and clearly, we do have a silent, completement of a relationship. I,m good, not going to question this again.
Jack, Wow, you just did this video for me! A huge thank you! I needed to stop responding so quickly to this email I have received today. I have been involved with this man for 4 years, hot and cold and warm. He is in China now. I need to face reality and get sober. He is just my friend, not my partner! He was the first guy that helped me with my business. He shared lots of great insights about business and life lessons. He has a good heart. But he has fear of commitment. Maybe he is good as a friend who is willing to do the inner work with me. But I need to move on and make space for new relationship. You are awesome Jack! Keep inspiring us to be more confident in relationships and achieve what our heart desires.
I love this!! This is probably the best video on TH-cam that completely covers this topic. And you did it in just one line. I love your style. You don't waste time with 10-20 minutes long intro, you simply call it as it is. Simplicity is beautiful, isn't it? 🙏🏻🙌
Thank you! This is so clear! Another relationship coach on TH-cam, Susan Winter, recommended that when you're ready, ask the guy something like, "I like you. I'd like to explore where this can go. Are you open to the possibility of a relationship?", and let him respond. Someone can be open "in general" to the possibility of a relationship, without making a full commitment to say, "...with you!:. But, when a man is not even open to a "possibility", then, honey, you're SOL! Sorry, but the truth may hurt, but the truth upfront is far, far preferable to wasting your time and emotional investment. Sometimes, it takes some courage. Beautiful location to video, by the way. Love the sound of water.
Jack, you are always so spot on. I really needed to hear this today: "He'll make it happen." ♥️ Thank you for filming at Boulder Creek on such a beautiful day, too~this felt like a free meditation. 🧘♀️
The truth about scams will help many to avoid them from now on . Publishers Clearing House is one of those bad scams I found out the hard way about these things and have been sending alert messages since then .
You must've had a fair bit of heartache in your life Jack to beable to share so much wisdom and healing with others. Great nature setting for your talk. Sending you a pat on the back. 😇
i really needed to hear this today . I havent a clue how to step back without slipping into that same old pattern and do absolutely everything in all my friendships & relationships.. being too independent has its downfalls for sure ....its exhausting. This reminder is really helpful. You explain it all so well ! 😊 thank you Jack !
I guess i need to face the facts. Time to let go. Ive invested 3 1/2 years with him. Its 😢 and hard but i know i must be strong. Makes sense what u said. T.Y. 💔
you are right. and so are you, Joannie. I have been married for 30 years. A man doesn't talk to a woman or interact with her unless he really wants to. A man will be annoying to try to make a connection happen with a woman when really interested. MM all rights reserved
Love, love , love the background scenery!! Water rustling over rocks is my most relaxing pleasure! Great video, you are always spot on with your thoughts on getting the love you want! I recently came to this conclusion with someone. Hot and cold, feverish then nothing, it was exhausting! As always, thanks for your super insightful advice!!!
It happened to me how struck i am to from our LDR from Nov 3 he flew to Manila on Dec 28 2019 , we spent my 53rd birthday together . He came back Valentines Day and we talked every night initiating everything he said He saw something special between US . He asked me last week if I am ready for us to be a couple. What a man , I always cry how he makes me feel everyday. Thanks for your video this answers all.
Ive just found your blogs and want to say thank you. Ive been talking to a guy i met just before lockdown. Now we are finally able to meet so many things have been coming up for him to prevent him from meeting me. He will loosely make arrangements and then something will come up. He has been saying all tje right things with no actions. Ive told him actions speak louder than words. Ive tried to make things happen. Ive decided ive been being breadcrumbed from watching your vids... I do need to come more into my feminine zone like you say allowing the man to make it happen. I do make excuses for him. I have sent him the saying you used in one of your breadcrumbing blog this morning which says i need something different. Thank you!
Your video just killed me. Lol. Actually you opened up my eyes, which makes sense. I listened three times already to this video. Lord knows, I don't even know why I'm so stuck on him. I need to let this go.
You just described most of society as a whole. Most people now don't invest in others regardless due to many factors. Stopped looking, and no longer interested. I was looking for new information but what you said made logical sense. Thanks for sharing!
Love your ‘straight between the eyes’ approach Jack. Bang on, as always! I’ve learned so much about myself as a result of your videos. I’m drawing the line in the sand with guys pretty quickly now. Clarity and sobriety ... that’s the key. Thank you!
Jack thank you for bringing sobriety to this topic about relationships and sharing your wisdom about men with this community of women! Yes, you’ll know that the man wants to be Your Guy! ❤️
Dang. We overcomplicate things. People put action towards what they want. Thanks Jack😊🧡(ps I used to live in Denver but moved to Phoenix to be close to aging Mom)😘👩👧🏜🏞
You hit the nail on the head on this one brother.. It's what I've thought, forever. When we add women just allow a man to be a man and roll out the line of space to which they as men can either take more of or less than... this is the clue to how much they want you into their space..
I just Iet go of a man J was seeing for just under a month your video helped me sort him out I gave him 5 opportunities to meet me up, I went on 3 dates he invited me on , he refused all my offers .. found out he had just ended a relationship 3 months prior , So I messaged him I release you good bye he texted same to you. He just wasn’t ready even though I liked him Thanks !
Yess, I needed to hear this. Take a step back. Let it go and see if it happens on his End. Cause I always make it happen. . Give him a chance to make it Work. .
Wow! Really perfectly said. I think women know this but hearing it in your words gives a huge boost of much needed confidence. A lot of videos but none so far actually made me feel good so thank you!
Thank you Jack for another wonderful video with an amazing view and peaceful sounds of the water 🌼 I have my first meet-up tomorrow since my last relationship. I feel uneasy. I went in my room after kissing my daughter goodnight and balled. He seems nice over text but I found myself feeling avoidant. I remember you told another person that it is common for the pendulum to swing as I am generally anxious. I get scared that I will not be interested in the “nice guy”. I truly desire deep connection in combination with a guy who wants the job. Thanks for listening. ☺️🌻
Glad you liked the nature! That all sounds pretty natural to me. In authenticity, it's ok to feel uneasy. Keep trusting yourself - you'll know if you want to connect more with him. And it's fine to decide not to - at any point. Wishing you well! :)
I needed this video. This helps so much and was an extra push to help me move forward. Many of the things you said in fact made me open my eyes. Very thankful. Please don't stop what you do 🙏
Amazing video!!! Thank you 🙏 This is like sobriety course. Reality check. Get real quick and get living and enjoying life. I enjoy your perspective on things.
Great words Jack :) Its taken me a long time to realise this. The man needs to make the move and I believe men want to pursue by nature so all this makes sense to me x
I needed to hear this! 🙉 I've been seeing and loving a husband that was never who I really thought he was....I am very independent, I never needed him. Maybe someday I will find or the man I am supposed to be with will find me. I don't keep any male friend sooo maybe there is hope 💗in the future
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@@thejackbutler Hi Jack, is there a replay of this webinar somewhere?
Hi Jack. Do you have anything specifically on long distance relationships? I have a very complicated story.
@@laabsenceofcol8079 Yes google jack butler long distance relationship - I have 1 if not 2 videos on TH-cam
Ladies I swear that when a man wants you, YOU don’t have to do ONE thing!
Brenda BaBoom 🙏
Did he say to delete our exes from social media?
Deysi DMZ If you need to move on, it can often help
Jack Butler thank you for replying I clear out my social media. It hurts but I also see they don’t care they never did.
Ms_D Life Research Vlogs 👍
Right on, Jack! Look at what he DOES, not at what he SAYS. Words are just noise but actions are real.
Yep, that's why they call them action heroes not word heroes ;)
Nope- both matter- words or intensions expressed followed up by the actual action validate his integrity. Spent way too much time with a guy that showed so many “meaningful actions” leaving me to interpret things, but when asked to use words and state what intentions he had- words did not match - AT ALL!! words and actions interpret integrity!
Casey Lin What do you mean leaving you to interrupt things?
Jack Butler lol - should read “interpret” After phone auto spells I should proofread !!! Thx for pointing that out!
Casey Lin Ah got it! I like what you are pointing to - i have found the more widespread issue people listening to words and missing actions hence why I focus there - and I get the importance of what you are saying
My mother always said, "if a man wants you he will come and get you." bye bye to this man that I have been putting with!
u cant stop a man if he is into u
I am single ❤❤😍😍🌷🌷
Boom! Listen to this man.
Ha thanks!
Your friendship❤
Nongcebo Dladla ☺️
Clayton...you are AMAZING too! Thanks for all your advice. There’s a couple you recently posted that really got me to personally. All the best! 😘
MARILYNN U I appreciate that! Happy the new ones are landing with you.
Yes! It’s not our job to heal him, mother him.. be sober minded.. go and live your life..❤️❤️❤️
Jennifer Godwin Yes yes yes! 🙏
Hi how are you baby ❤❤??
Exactly. It's his responsibility to heal himself.
So wonderful that I stumbled onto your channel. I am 71. I still want love, companionship, hugs, kisses, lovemaking and all that. I have been married, had kids and have been in several relationships. I have never really felt loved or wanted by my partner. This I know is partly due to my own personal issues. At this late age, I have met a man who I think is perfect for me. I am scared. Your videos are so on point. I hope to learn and let my personal walls fall and accept this wonderful man into my life. Thank you.
give it a try. he loves you
Love hearing that you've met a man you think is good for you! It's okay to be scared and to take your time to lower your walls. Perhaps just include that sometime so he knows what's going on for you. Wishing you well with it!
How wonderful! Just give it a try - it's could be the time for you
Yea!
@@DorothySmith-deesmith :)
Amen, Jack. The right guy will show up, make plans, be reliable and DO things for you. It should be easy and you can't mess up the right thing.
Great summary! Thank you! 🙏
False, you can mess up the right thing.
nofy bn What’s your experience?
I love ❤❤ you ..
I like 😍😍 you ..
I need 💑💑 you
I am single 🌷🌷
It's sad that most of us women waste so much of our precious time in these men, who don't make any effort! Been there and it's horrible.... We need to wake up and move on ❤️ Thank you Jack Butler
I'm not sure what the experience is of other women but the more self aware I become the more 'weeding' of men I'm doing. I'll keep doing the weeding because in my evolved self I'm now more afraid of being in another wrong relationship than being single. That in itself is a victory for me.
it will all work out
the unversie works great
wonderfully said
This rings true, confirms what I've been thinking----he knows what he wants, he knows what to do, he will make it happen if he wants it.
Hey Brenda! Glad it rings true 🙏
My man has consistently done this for a year! Thank you Jack for helping me to keep the right man! You are such a blessing Jack!
Congrats! That's really cool to hear! And thank you :)
Your ability to keep Hitting Home is Impressively Enlightening
Well said! Yeah and i think you only end up resenting the person in the long run if a guy doesn't want u it's okkkkkkk you'll feel bad at 1st but it's better to hurt in the earlies than when u are years later invested!
Yes yes yes!! Well said :)
Yes show up or go away....Thats it!!!!
Stop and be clear, what is being put before me? Exactly, let go, and see what comes.
Well said and well said!! :)
@@thejackbutler met a guy, he saw me he approached me, we spoke for a little while he offered me his number, he called later that evening and three to two times a day after that, we are both in our early 70's but he explained his passion for cricket and how he travels a lot, we have yet to go on a date his quality time is spent working 7 days a week, I did ask where do I fit in, to date he has not made any attempt to get to know me/know each other, his calls consist of good morning, good afternoon, and good night pleasant dreams, so far I hear nothing about going out to dinner or something, its always how tired he is I feel This guy enjoys teaching this cricket, he's 70 I asked, do you play the game as well as train others, he said yes, I'm sorry I don't think I'll ever be a priority, he's to busy and to tired and travels, I feel like I'm in a relationship with the phone, he maybe in a relationship but I'm not. I feel I should move on, he's just to busy. What is your take on this?
Jacquie Williams He probably wants a companion not a partner. Think you want the latter. Probably not your guy. Stop the contact and if he wants contact, he can meet up with you.
@@thejackbutler i have started not answering his calls the first was last night and will continue not answering. P.S. just started watching your video I got a lot from it. Thank you
@@jacquiewilliams6699 Awesome that you got a lot from it - you're welcome - good luck
You're absolutely right somebody wants you they'll do what they have to do to be with you
Right?
No more trying hard to make things happen. Thanks Jack! ❤️
Relaxing into that! :)
Watching this again. Broke up w a guy I was on/off with for months. He chases only when I’ve walked away; this is such clear reasoning on observing whether a man is truly available vs not available for a relationship. Just look for the evidence.
Glad this was clear reasoning
Listening to this AGAIN.... We are older...65 widow & 69 divorcee...no expectations, just HOPE and having lots of fun, no definate commitment or future plans, we talk almost every day and make plans for being together regularly...but OMG! He IS making this happen!!! It,s been 18 months and clearly, we do have a silent, completement of a relationship. I,m good, not going to question this again.
Jack,
Wow, you just did this video for me! A huge thank you! I needed to stop responding so quickly to this email I have received today.
I have been involved with this man for 4 years, hot and cold and warm. He is in China now. I need to face reality and get sober. He is just my friend, not my partner! He was the first guy that helped me with my business. He shared lots of great insights about business and life lessons. He has a good heart. But he has fear of commitment. Maybe he is good as a friend who is willing to do the inner work with me. But I need to move on and make space for new relationship.
You are awesome Jack! Keep inspiring us to be more confident in relationships and achieve what our heart desires.
Trusting him in silence....Ty.😊
I love this!! This is probably the best video on TH-cam that completely covers this topic. And you did it in just one line. I love your style. You don't waste time with 10-20 minutes long intro, you simply call it as it is. Simplicity is beautiful, isn't it? 🙏🏻🙌
Thank you! This is so clear! Another relationship coach on TH-cam, Susan Winter, recommended that when you're ready, ask the guy something like, "I like you. I'd like to explore where this can go. Are you open to the possibility of a relationship?", and let him respond. Someone can be open "in general" to the possibility of a relationship, without making a full commitment to say, "...with you!:. But, when a man is not even open to a "possibility", then, honey, you're SOL! Sorry, but the truth may hurt, but the truth upfront is far, far preferable to wasting your time and emotional investment. Sometimes, it takes some courage.
Beautiful location to video, by the way. Love the sound of water.
Game Over Glad you like the location and the clarity! I like all you are pointing to here - I know of Susan without knowing her work well 🙏
Day Andrew Thank you 🙏
Jack, you are always so spot on. I really needed to hear this today: "He'll make it happen." ♥️ Thank you for filming at Boulder Creek on such a beautiful day, too~this felt like a free meditation. 🧘♀️
Thank you! Glad this was right on time for you - yeah, I felt pretty lucky to be working at Boulder Creek today! :)
Such a smart guy, as usual Jack! 🥂
Leslie Sedberry ☺️🙏
Action is what I need, words can be said by anyone too easily. Make it happen. Show some interest, initiative, put in some work!
Thank you Jack...we need reminders to stop doing too much to make things happen.
Nicky Smith Right on 🙏
You are absolutely right
4 years with a guy never took me out
Yes, that's a very long time to wait. Hopefully gives you powerful discernment going forward
The truth about scams will help many to avoid them from now on .
Publishers Clearing House is one of those bad scams I found out the hard way about these things and have been sending alert messages since then .
Its such a hard truth to hear. But its so necessary. And so true and so needed x
Happy this felt needed 🙏
Excellent. ‘Courting you remotely for 15 years’ hilarious.
Ha! Thanks!
You always" hit the nail on the head". Women need to listen and apply!!!!
Ha! Should have been a carpenter :)
Yes “he makes it happen “ but mine gave up after 8 years cause I will not let it happen and I stand firm
You must've had a fair bit of heartache in your life Jack to beable to share so much wisdom and healing with others. Great nature setting for your talk. Sending you a pat on the back. 😇
Rebecca S Thanks! Yeah, I have - and even heartache that I didn’t realize til later. Glad you like the nature and thanks for the back pat!
@@thejackbutler I can so relate
Suzette Malcolm 🙏
i really needed to hear this today . I havent a clue how to step back without slipping into that same old pattern and do absolutely everything in all my friendships & relationships.. being too independent has its downfalls for sure ....its exhausting. This reminder is really helpful. You explain it all so well ! 😊 thank you Jack !
no idea how many times I've watched this video...it's excellent !!!!
Appreciate all the re-watches!
Jack you are so on point! Thank you! If you need to figure him out then he is definitely not making it happen. 🌻
I guess i need to face the facts. Time to let go. Ive invested 3 1/2 years with him. Its 😢 and hard but i know i must be strong. Makes sense what u said. T.Y. 💔
There's such a power in facing the facts, even if you do it at a gentle pace. Glad this made sense to you :)
I love u forever
I like u really
I make u so so happy also i am alone
Single ❤❤😍😍💑💑🌷🌷
you are right. and so are you, Joannie. I have been married for 30 years. A man doesn't talk to a woman or interact with her unless he really wants to. A man will be annoying to try to make a connection happen with a woman when really interested. MM all rights reserved
MM 🙏
Love, love , love the background scenery!! Water rustling over rocks is my most relaxing pleasure! Great video, you are always spot on with your thoughts on getting the love you want! I recently came to this conclusion with someone. Hot and cold, feverish then nothing, it was exhausting! As always, thanks for your super insightful advice!!!
Yes me too! Yep, hold and cold can be exhausting. Keep that for your morning shower! :) You're welcome!
Consistency is the key.
And the truth shall set you free! Thank you!
Sobriety!!! That's it. Once you drop your expectations, hopes and projections... All that is left are FACTS!
It happened to me how struck i am to from our LDR from Nov 3 he flew to Manila on Dec 28 2019 , we spent my 53rd birthday together . He came back Valentines Day and we talked every night initiating everything he said He saw something special between US . He asked me last week if I am ready for us to be a couple. What a man , I always cry how he makes me feel everyday. Thanks for your video this answers all.
Thanks. You helped me understand I don't have nothing. He may like me or care for me deeply, but to have more will never be.
Carmen Hayes Glad to have helped! 🙏
Ive just found your blogs and want to say thank you. Ive been talking to a guy i met just before lockdown. Now we are finally able to meet so many things have been coming up for him to prevent him from meeting me. He will loosely make arrangements and then something will come up. He has been saying all tje right things with no actions. Ive told him actions speak louder than words. Ive tried to make things happen. Ive decided ive been being breadcrumbed from watching your vids... I do need to come more into my feminine zone like you say allowing the man to make it happen. I do make excuses for him. I have sent him the saying you used in one of your breadcrumbing blog this morning which says i need something different. Thank you!
Thanks for this Jack. I really enjoyed your podcast with Jonathan Aslay.
Right on, thanks for tuning in
Your video just killed me. Lol. Actually you opened up my eyes, which makes sense. I listened three times already to this video. Lord knows, I don't even know why I'm so stuck on him. I need to let this go.
You just described most of society as a whole. Most people now don't invest in others regardless due to many factors. Stopped looking, and no longer interested. I was looking for new information but what you said made logical sense. Thanks for sharing!
Love your ‘straight between the eyes’ approach Jack. Bang on, as always! I’ve learned so much about myself as a result of your videos. I’m drawing the line in the sand with guys pretty quickly now. Clarity and sobriety ... that’s the key. Thank you!
Clarity and sobriety! Love that. Would probably be the name of my TV show ha! ;)
This helped me soooo much 😊 thanks again Jack!
Right on - you're welcome!
Exactly they can be the wrong guy.
Values emotional maturity and lifestyle equals compatibility. Also disposition and character.
👍
I love how you speak about sobriety and staying in the present. 💯
Valuable content my friend ... Thank you.
Right on - thank you :)
Jack thank you for bringing sobriety to this topic about relationships and sharing your wisdom about men with this community of women!
Yes, you’ll know that the man wants to be Your Guy! ❤️
You are welcome for the sobriety! :)
The best straight, honest and clear tip ever! Can sound cruel but is reality!!
Nice job!
Dang. We overcomplicate things. People put action towards what they want. Thanks Jack😊🧡(ps I used to live in Denver but moved to Phoenix to be close to aging Mom)😘👩👧🏜🏞
Yeah, it's often because our feelings, hopes and attachment systems get involved. Hope you're enjoying AZ!
@@thejackbutler So true. Your wording makes things so clear 😉. Yes I do like AZ thanks...much better than Denver💚!!
I love your teaching on sobriety. It is what I need to work on more than anything and I'm getting better at it! :)
You hit the nail on the head on this one brother..
It's what I've thought, forever.
When we add women just allow a man to be a man and roll out the line of space to which they as men can either take more of or less than... this is the clue to how much they want you into their space..
As not add. When we as women.. sorry
Im liking your insight!!
Thank you!
Simple and perfect 👍🏼 thank you. Great location too.
Thanks 😊
I just Iet go of a man J was seeing for just under a month your video helped me sort him out I gave him 5 opportunities to meet me up, I went on 3 dates he invited me on , he refused all my offers .. found out he had just ended a relationship 3 months prior , So I messaged him I release you good bye he texted same to you. He just wasn’t ready even though I liked him Thanks !
Yess, I needed to hear this. Take a step back. Let it go and see if it happens on his End. Cause I always make it happen. . Give him a chance to make it Work. .
We all have both feminine and masculine energy and yes! Balancing them is key. I loved this. It’s so real and just TRUE!
I dont care about what he wants anymore. I am happy being single. So many losers out there
Like that you're happy with your singleness. Just make sure you're not detaching from your heart coz that hurts you in future relationships.
@@thejackbutler There won't be future relationships.
Wow! Really perfectly said. I think women know this but hearing it in your words gives a huge boost of much needed confidence. A lot of videos but none so far actually made me feel good so thank you!
Thank you! Glad it supports confidence - yeah, sometimes we just need that external nudge to listen to that inner working! :)
True Talk! .... Thoughts change moment to moment. Life is SO unpredictable. JUST BE HAPPY AND MOVE ON .😉🙏🌺🙏
Glad you experienced some truth here! :)
@@thejackbutler Thank you! yes indeed I love to hear you always speak words of wisdom thank you and appreciate you!❤JOY ❤
Kiran Sharma Aww thank you! 😊
Where have you been before now. Spot on thank you so much God Bless ❤
I'm a female
Second time watching. Forgot just how good it is. Thanks Jack!
Jack this video was everything!! I really enjoy that you're straight to the point with no chaser!!
Thank you Jack for another wonderful video with an amazing view and peaceful sounds of the water 🌼 I have my first meet-up tomorrow since my last relationship. I feel uneasy. I went in my room after kissing my daughter goodnight and balled. He seems nice over text but I found myself feeling avoidant. I remember you told another person that it is common for the pendulum to swing as I am generally anxious. I get scared that I will not be interested in the “nice guy”. I truly desire deep connection in combination with a guy who wants the job. Thanks for listening. ☺️🌻
Glad you liked the nature! That all sounds pretty natural to me. In authenticity, it's ok to feel uneasy. Keep trusting yourself - you'll know if you want to connect more with him. And it's fine to decide not to - at any point. Wishing you well! :)
Thank you for this.. it’s been a year, he’s not the right guy. Hard to accept? Yes! But you made this so clear for me. ❤️
I needed this video. This helps so much and was an extra push to help me move forward. Many of the things you said in fact made me open my eyes. Very thankful. Please don't stop what you do 🙏
Wow this is one of ur best videos ever! Thanks
Amazing - love hearing that!
Hey Jack, This message was really awsome!!! 👏
You've given some really valuable tips which ill definately store in the back of my mind.
Happy you got value here 🙏
Thanks Jack. Great advice. I have made it clear that I am interested. Now it’s his turn to show if he’s interested.
DTO Ortiz Right on - wishing you easy clarity ⭐️
@@thejackbutler Thank you Jack.🙏
Easy clarity⭐️
Really needed this video today, thanks Jack 🙏😇❤️🩹
Happy it was needed 🙏
Amazing video!!! Thank you 🙏
This is like sobriety course. Reality check. Get real quick and get living and enjoying life. I enjoy your perspective on things.
Thanks Claudia! "A Course In Sobriety" :)
Thank you. I needed to hear that reminder.
Happy it was a good reminder!
I loved this so much! Thank you! If only I had known this these past ten years of heartache
Amazing how you cover every angle.
Thanks! Doing my best :)
Straight forward!!! Love it!
Thanks!
Thank you, Jack. How I wish I heard these kind of things from my father or male relatives. Your videos are much appreciated ❤️
Happy you're getting value from the messages here 🙏
Another brilliant content Sir. Packed with so much wisdom! I need to rewatch it more than once to process it. Love the background! 😊 🙏
Why thank you! Happy you'll be rewatching! Yes one of my fav spots! :)
Thank you for the great advice. Also, the creek, snow, and blue sky is a beautiful backdrop for your video😊
You're welcome - glad you experienced the beauty in the setting 🙏
Well said Jack !
Thank you!
Great words Jack :) Its taken me a long time to realise this. The man needs to make the move and I believe men want to pursue by nature so all this makes sense to me x
Jack,
Thank You for the CLARIFICATION 💎👍🏼
Thanks for being you, Jack. Wise words
Nicky Ranking It’s not always easy but doing my best 🙏
Couldn't agree more , thank you so much 🙏 I really needed to hear that ❤
Awesome, you're welcome and awesome! :)
Thank you Jack!Best relationship and dating advice on TH-cam.
Aww thank you! 🙏
The most realistic, not sugar coated and clear advice I have heard online so far....great job love it
Jack, I can't thank you enough for the video! It opened my eyes on the whole situation with my crush...👍
Tania Berlin Hey Tania! You’re welcome - thanks for being open to it 🙏
Thank you, Jack! Just thank you so much for reminding me that! That's so on time and so very true 👏
Morning Jack.
Yep. Simple.
But true.
Morning! Right on!
Thank you Jack for this reading 👌
This was so insightful thank you for posting it just made my vision so clearer that I can move on.
Beautifully clear. Thank you
This video is absolutely beautiful 😍💗👍🏻
Aww thanks Lisa!
Me love u 😍😍❤❤🌷
Who wants a guy not pursuing you? Great talk, Jack Butler.
I needed to hear this! 🙉 I've been seeing and loving a husband that was never who I really thought he was....I am very independent, I never needed him. Maybe someday I will find or the man I am supposed to be with will find me. I don't keep any male friend sooo maybe there is hope 💗in the future
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Love u u u u forever really i like you
Well you merry me i am single meet me now 🌷🌷🌷🌷💑💑💑😍😍😍😍❤❤❤❤