I know I have commented a lot on this, but honestly Shamsa this video made me very emotional, especially when you were speaking about your children. I had no idea about Taibah, may Allah make it easy for her. You truly are a beautiful soul and may Allah forever protect you, your husband and children from harm, may His light of mercy forever be shining over you all. You are the most down to earth person I have ever come across online. You truly are human medicine in this crazy world and for that you will be continuously rewarded. 🫶🏻♥️💕🥰🤲🏻😘. Love you always xxx.
Salams sis I have to say this is one of the best q&as I’ve ever watched on TH-cam. So real, relevant & insightful. I actually came away feeling so motivated to be more patient with my children and not dwell on little insignificant things like you said we are so blessed and should appreciate what we have. May Allah swt make your difficulties easy & make your children and all Muslim children healthy, pious and successful in this world and the hereafter. As parents may He make our tests easy for us. May He take away the pain and suffering of Muslims in Palestine Lebanon, Syria, Yemen and all over the world. Ameen.
Ameen sis to your beautiful dua ❤️ I'm so glad that the video led to something positive, that's al I want inshaAllah ❤️ lots of love to you and yours 💕🥰💕
Watching this made me very emotional. Like I always say you're an amazing mother and now knowing more about your struggles has really shown me how courageous you are. You are an inspiration to all of us mothers. Look after yourself. Watching you whilst cleaning and will definitely look into meal prepping. Lots of love to your dear children and yourself. You deserve an accolade
I work with special needs since around 15 years now, love spending time with them. Hats off to you well done for doing so well with all your children. You sound like a Wonder Woman. Alhumdulillah. Get your daughter to spend as much time with other people and learn life skills it’s the best thing to do
Don't blame yourself. Like you said we all have moments we feel we have failed. But that's normal. Each child has a parent with different circumstances xxx
I watch your videos all the time and have been doing so for years now. I really admire you and think you are lovely but finding out you have a daughter with autism has made me admire you even more. I myself have an autistic son aged 7 and know how difficult that is. You are a wonderful person and a brilliant mum and just want you to know that you inspire many women like me. Thankyou for your videos x May God bless you and your family x
@@officiallyshamsa sis when we write In Sha Allah, we should write it in 3 separate words, I believe it changes the meaning otherwise. Just correcting my fellow sister 😊 May Allah, give you the best of health, wealth and success.
Been subscribed to you for years but havent come across any of your videos for a long while and it is so refreshing and wholesome to see and hear you again ❤ may Allah bless u and ur family always ameen x
This vlog really brought your character out...I didn't know about your daughter..May Allah swt make it easy for you. I think your pretty and your nose suits your face...Allah made you perfect. Very caring and dedicated mum. Well done you 😊
I am the baby of 13, and I am 61yrs old, there's only 2 of us now, teach your children to care for each other is the best thing yoo can do for them. I tell you kides to be nice to each other, I am getting old and one day you will want the the other one to take care of me 😂😂😂, blessings to you and yours ❤❤❤❤
I also have a special needs daughter. Allah has blessed us with these beautiful children to grant us a higher status in Jannah. This is our major test in this world. Allah will help us through it. He doesn't burden us more than we can bear. Love you sis
Being watching you for years and years and I always remember you and come back to watch all your videos mashallah your such an amazing person inshallah o hope one day we cross paths and I get to meet you :)
@@officiallyshamsa That was SO good 🥰 Thank you for being so candid sis. I was in awe at your strength, you have so much going on with your daughter yet you always smile so brightly for us and motivate us all to be more productive and positive mothers, daughters etc. You are an amazing force of good, never give up please. May Allah bless you in all of your pursuits and make them good for you. I had to laugh at your story of the man who had a nose fetish although in reality it sounds creepy!! May Allah protect you and your loved ones from all harm. Jazakillah khayran for sharing tips and positivity. ❤Maybe we can accidentally meet one day ahaha I live not too far from you
I really enjoy watching her videos..very family based , motherhood at its best and one of the Muslim vloggers in the West who put on a proper hijab. kudos to that!
Salam Sister..Always look forward to your videos. I reverted last year and I'm the only Muslim where I live, i live on a mountain in Italy...nearest masjid is 40 mins away. So I always enjoy watching your videos. I have been watching you for years. May Allah bless you and your family.
Salaam Sis. I had no idea about your daughter. may Allah swt make it easy for you all. Please talk a bit more about SEN and if you have any ideas about EHCP, please. You are truly an inspiration to me, masha Allah. 😘
You might be eligible for care hours outside of school for your girl. Get in touch with local services and see what is available. In luton we have this and we have respite care the children can attend
I really enjoyed your Q&A you are really genuine and down to earth.May Allah swt bless your home with peace health and happiness and bless Tayyba with a life of health and prosperity Ameen 🤲❤️
Salam sis. Love your positive outlook on life and simplicity. Had no idea about your struggles with Thaiba. My admiration for you has upped a notch just knowing that. May Allah make it easy for you. I never comment but wanted to take the time to show you some appreciation. I agree with you that growing up was spending time with siblings rather than parents and I don't look back and have any regrets.
Asalamualaikum sister. Hope you and your family are well. I just wanted to say how refreshing it was to watch your video. You are so humble Mashallah. May Allah tala ease any struggles for you (ameen). You sound like a kind, caring and lovely woman. May you and your children succeed in all your ventures (ameen). ❤
You are amazing And i had no idea and Taiba. May Allah make it easy for you and give her a healthy happy life ahead. I feel the same Shamsa, when you think you are not doing enough as a mum especially when you see things on social media and feel so intimidated by it all. We are all doing amazing as mums and doing what's in our capacity. Allah give us all strength and good health to carry on doing what we can. ❤
Its nice to have a catchup from time to time and just sit down and reflect on life. Im new subscriber shamsa sister and i look forward to watching more of your videos x
Asc sis Shamsa this video was lovely video to watch. I myself have two autistic boys a 12 years old and my 4 years old that has been diagnosed this month and it’s not easy at all but Alhamdulillah Allah doesn’t burden us with nothing we can’t handle may Allah swt bless and protect your family and my Allah make it easy for all of us that have beautiful souls ❤❤❤
Shamsa I have been watching your channel for a while and I had no idea that you had a child with autism.my oldest son has autism and I agree with everything you said.
Shamsa, you are such a wonderful person in and out, you radiate Noor. Know this, that your amazing daughter Tayyabba will surely be your family's route to heaven. Parents of special needs children are made of something else entirely and I think they are chosen from Allah SWT. You and brother Akeel are amazing, insha'Allah you will be rewarded for your hardships and you will forever be in my duas, may Allah SWT answer every single dua of yours and fulfil all your hearts desires, may he reward your family with health, wealth and deen. Stay blessed. ❤
Salaam.sis mashallah such a beautiful video u should do more like this. Ur not old sis u look good for your age. Ur vlogs are always good keep it up ur doing amazing 😊 Allah is the best planners sis may Allah keep u happy make u successful Ameen.
I am having three kids 2 boys And one daughter my only Daughter is Autistic it is challenging but it is so Allah know i can broughtup her so she is my darling❤❤❤
Salam sis really enjoyed your vlog today with Q&A i had no idea you had daughter with autism i have nephew who has same condition i know how hard it is, you are amazing person inside & out thank you for sharing ❤
Lovely video, very down to earth and love what you said about each child having different gifts/talents and parents not taking too much credit for one. What's your second son hoping to study at uni?
@ I feel like I’m so late to the party shamsa! I’ve been meaning to do it for years but had multiple things stopping me! Now I feel like I’m playing catchup! Thank you for your supportive words! I hope I can keep momentum- you’re a real inspiration I’ve watched you for years!
Loved the video! Just wanted to ask some advice how you deal with comments from people who talk about the amount of kids you have etc? I have 3 and had my third baby 14 months ago after a large age gap between my first 2. I have my older daughter who is 9 and my son who is 7 and I had a baby girl 14 months ago. We always planned to have 3 kids when we first got married regardless of gender but even though we had a girl and a boy it got to the point of my youngest being 6 and I still wanted another one so we decided to try for our 3rd and last before it was to much of an age gap between our older 2 kids. I’ve suffered with really bad postpartum depression this time and last month my mother in law( who has 3 kids 🙄 a girl a boy then another boy) and she actually turned around to me and said “ your family and life was perfect before you planned another one you had a girl and a boy you had the perfect family” I ignored her but did tell my husband because I was already going through a bad period off extreme anxiety and stress and she actually went on the following day to say it to me again “ your life and family was perfect before you planned another one”. It’s hard to deal with a comment like this especially when you are still suffering with post partum depression it puts all sorts of things into my mind. I am definitely done now and I won’t be having anymore as our family is complete but the comments really hurt me.
It's the most pointless comment to make...why tell you that your life was perfect before having your 3rd child...it's not like you cam go back in time lol. Ignore if you can because it's just an ignorant comment, and if you can't ignore it ask your husband to hint to his mum that her comment is hurtful to you. Maybe she doesn't realise it affects you. Children are a gift from Allah swt and they are meant to be here so anyone who thinks otherwise is abit silly 😆
Assalamualaikum sister❤alhamdulilla for everything, you have a strong taqwa, I really felt overwhelmed by how you handle everything. May Allah give us sabr! Inshaallah, I feel Allah gives everyone a chance to go to jannah, and to you it is through taiba, may Allah make it easy for you sister 😊ameen
So lovely that you shared some things about your family ❤less and less genuine lifestyle and videos people make- just to make money and to be famous and thats what worrying because this generation believes what they see 😔. Love your videos, blessing to your family ❤
Asalam Aliikum sis my son has autism he is 20yrs old. I know how hard it is. I hope you are having some respite in terms of a social package which your social worker should have mentioned to you. Here for any advice x
Hi lovies can anyone remind of the Netflix series she said she recently watched and liked? Don’t know if she mentioned it in this video or a other recent one. Thank u in advance
Kids are in bed, I will watch all now. After watching most of this, I feel like crying. You're such an inspiration. I love you for the sake of Allah ❤😢. The boys reciting the Quran MashAllah, it touched my heart . I try to recite Mufti Menk morning dua when I clean the dishes as well 😅 until the kids interrupt me. I start all over again ❤😂 Growing up in a large family as well, we did things together which was so nice cook, eat, play watch tv together that's the life. You are so beautiful big nose, small nose who cares. It's your beautiful face and personality that attracted me to your channel ❤😂 you always make me smile and laugh. xxx
Aww Allah swt bless you sis, I appreciate you taking the time to watch the video, sharing in emotions and your kind words. Lots of love and duas and keep reciting duas while washing dishes, those little boys are my role model lol 🥰💕🥰
I have 2 kids with sen and one of them also has complex medical needs. It's great to hear that you are familiar with my world. I would wish for you to be a voice for us sen children mums. I can hope that we can share our experiences with you so that you can share with your viewers what it's like raising special needs children in the hope to be better supported by our communities. I have had negative experiences from others where they have made silly remarks like Allah tests you through your children meaning that having kids with needs is a punishment from Allah! Our beautiful special needs kids are our ticket to heaven if only they knew and not left us alone to be "punished"
Asalam aliykum sister, Ma shaa Allah Allah huma barak, may Allah bless you, you trust in Allah, Allah doesn't give us more than we can cope with, and Ma shaa Allah Allah huma barak ,your a good mother, may Allah bless you all, and at the end all turns out we'll, with Allah's blessings....❤❤
Parents: by age two years old children should be speaking 3 word sentences, e.g. ‘I want Apple’ ‘a blue car’. If you call their name repeatedly and they do not respond, ignore you, this could be a problem. If their speech is delayed, and they have other behaviours that you are worried about, such as hand-flapping,spinning, walking on tip toes, take them to the GP. It could be autism.
Assalaamu alaikum Shamsa, I really love you, I wish we could be friends. If not in this life then in The Hereafter you are a rare gem, real and joyful may Allah bless you and your family 😘
I know I have commented a lot on this, but honestly Shamsa this video made me very emotional, especially when you were speaking about your children. I had no idea about Taibah, may Allah make it easy for her. You truly are a beautiful soul and may Allah forever protect you, your husband and children from harm, may His light of mercy forever be shining over you all. You are the most down to earth person I have ever come across online. You truly are human medicine in this crazy world and for that you will be continuously rewarded. 🫶🏻♥️💕🥰🤲🏻😘. Love you always xxx.
Ameen ❤️ jazakAllah khair for your beautiful heartfelt comment sis, I really appreciate the kind words and duas xxx
May Allah protect you and your family, you are one of the few genuine TH-camrs who I really look forward to watching. Keep up the great work!
Ameen ❤️ jazakAllah khair sis, I really appreciate your kind words xxx
Been watching you from the very begining and i must say not changed at all. Still beautiful inside out ❤
Aww you've always been so supportive sis 🩷 jazakAllah khair for watching and sticking around xxx 🥰
Salams sis I have to say this is one of the best q&as I’ve ever watched on TH-cam. So real, relevant & insightful. I actually came away feeling so motivated to be more patient with my children and not dwell on little insignificant things like you said we are so blessed and should appreciate what we have. May Allah swt make your difficulties easy & make your children and all Muslim children healthy, pious and successful in this world and the hereafter. As parents may He make our tests easy for us. May He take away the pain and suffering of Muslims in Palestine Lebanon, Syria, Yemen and all over the world. Ameen.
❤ it really is .
Ameen sis to your beautiful dua ❤️ I'm so glad that the video led to something positive, that's al I want inshaAllah ❤️ lots of love to you and yours 💕🥰💕
Watching this made me very emotional. Like I always say you're an amazing mother and now knowing more about your struggles has really shown me how courageous you are. You are an inspiration to all of us mothers. Look after yourself. Watching you whilst cleaning and will definitely look into meal prepping. Lots of love to your dear children and yourself. You deserve an accolade
Love the way you make things easy and the way you explain ❤ good luck for everything and i hope your daughter gets better InSha’Allah.
Thank you so much for your kind words my lovely 💕
I work with special needs since around 15 years now, love spending time with them. Hats off to you well done for doing so well with all your children. You sound like a Wonder Woman. Alhumdulillah. Get your daughter to spend as much time with other people and learn life skills it’s the best thing to do
Aww people who work with special needs children are the best ❤️ thanks for the advice 🥰❤️
Don't blame yourself. Like you said we all have moments we feel we have failed. But that's normal. Each child has a parent with different circumstances xxx
This was a lovely video to watch. ❤ It’s been lovely getting to know you more.
Pray Allah blesses you abundantly. 🤲
Ameen 💕 thank you so much 💕🥰
Love your videos such a down to earth caring person may allah always keep you and your family safe ❤
Ameen ❤️ jazakAllah khair sis 🩷🥰🩷
I watch your videos all the time and have been doing so for years now. I really admire you and think you are lovely but finding out you have a daughter with autism has made me admire you even more. I myself have an autistic son aged 7 and know how difficult that is. You are a wonderful person and a brilliant mum and just want you to know that you inspire many women like me. Thankyou for your videos x May God bless you and your family x
You are so sweet sis, thank you so much 💕❤️💕 may Allah swt make it easy for you with your beloved son 🥰
I don’t live far from your home town, would love to bump into you one day shamsa. Your the only TH-camr I would actually approach and say hello to ❤
Aww that's very sweet, definitely do say hello and inshaAllah we meet one day 🥰
@@officiallyshamsa sis when we write In Sha Allah, we should write it in 3 separate words, I believe it changes the meaning otherwise. Just correcting my fellow sister 😊 May Allah, give you the best of health, wealth and success.
Mashallah nusayba is adorable! Really enjoyed your Q&A ❤
JazakAllah khair sis! 🥰💕
Shamsa my respect for you has shot through the roof ❤ May Allah SWT reward you. May he make things easy for you.
Been subscribed to you for years but havent come across any of your videos for a long while and it is so refreshing and wholesome to see and hear you again ❤ may Allah bless u and ur family always ameen x
Ameen ❤️ aww thanks for watching, appreciate you, and for your kind words 🥰
This vlog really brought your character out...I didn't know about your daughter..May Allah swt make it easy for you.
I think your pretty and your nose suits your face...Allah made you perfect. Very caring and dedicated mum. Well done you 😊
Salam sis don't mind me asking what happened to shamsa daughter I haven't been watching few of her vlogs,
@akhtar4867
Her elder daughter who is 18 has autism
This vlog was good.
Salaam alaykum sis, I don’t usually comment on TH-camr videos but enjoy watching your channel! Keep them coming 💜
Wa alaikum salaam sis! Aww I am honoured, thank you so much for commenting and watching ❤️🩷❤️
Sister, I really admire you MashaAllah. I make Dua Allah brings you and your family ease in all your affairs Ameen💖
Ameen ❤️ I really appreciate your duas sis xxx
Knowing that u have a sen child, grew even more respect in my heart for u than I already have. SubhanAllah
I have 2 SEN children alhamdulillah.
May Allah reward you ameen
Ameen ❤️ may Allah swt make it easy for you lovely and reward you too 💕 you must have your work cut out, but inshaAllah you've got this!!!
So relatable. May Allah make our motherhood journey easy. Love u Somali sis ❤
I am the baby of 13, and I am 61yrs old, there's only 2 of us now, teach your children to care for each other is the best thing yoo can do for them. I tell you kides to be nice to each other, I am getting old and one day you will want the the other one to take care of me 😂😂😂, blessings to you and yours ❤❤❤❤
Beautiful advice 💕 praying you live a long and healthy life still xxx ❤️
@officiallyshamsa thank you my dear
I also have a special needs daughter. Allah has blessed us with these beautiful children to grant us a higher status in Jannah. This is our major test in this world. Allah will help us through it. He doesn't burden us more than we can bear. Love you sis
U are so sweet shamsa
Thank you for answering my question ❤
Aww thank you for asking your question sis 🩷🥰
Loved this q&a Ma Shaa Allah ❤️ May Allah swt bless you and your family Ameen 🤲❤️
Being watching you for years and years and I always remember you and come back to watch all your videos mashallah your such an amazing person inshallah o hope one day we cross paths and I get to meet you :)
Aww such a lovely comment ❤️ thank you for coming back to watch 🥰
I’m excited to watch this one ❤ jazakillah khayran sis
Aww hope you enjoy sis 🥰🩷
@ I will when I get home insha Allah- rn I’m on the tram to mediacityuk ;.)
Ooh have fun and safe travels 🚎
@@officiallyshamsa That was SO good 🥰 Thank you for being so candid sis. I was in awe at your strength, you have so much going on with your daughter yet you always smile so brightly for us and motivate us all to be more productive and positive mothers, daughters etc. You are an amazing force of good, never give up please. May Allah bless you in all of your pursuits and make them good for you.
I had to laugh at your story of the man who had a nose fetish although in reality it sounds creepy!! May Allah protect you and your loved ones from all harm.
Jazakillah khayran for sharing tips and positivity. ❤Maybe we can accidentally meet one day ahaha I live not too far from you
I really enjoy watching her videos..very family based , motherhood at its best and one of the Muslim vloggers in the West who put on a proper hijab. kudos to that!
Salam Sister..Always look forward to your videos. I reverted last year and I'm the only Muslim where I live, i live on a mountain in Italy...nearest masjid is 40 mins away. So I always enjoy watching your videos. I have been watching you for years. May Allah bless you and your family.
Subhanallah you are doing amazing ❤ may Allah ease things for you and grant you the opportunity to live in a Muslim community one day
Welcome back my sister nice see you
Thank you my lovely xxx ❤️
Salaam Sis.
I had no idea about your daughter. may Allah swt make it easy for you all.
Please talk a bit more about SEN and if you have any ideas about EHCP, please.
You are truly an inspiration to me, masha Allah.
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Wa alaikum salaam lovely, ameen ❤️ jazakAllah khair for your kind words. InshaaAllah I will do xxx 💕🥰
You might be eligible for care hours outside of school for your girl. Get in touch with local services and see what is available. In luton we have this and we have respite care the children can attend
I didn’t know about your daughter. May Allah make it easy for you and her ❤
I really enjoyed your Q&A you are really genuine and down to earth.May Allah swt bless your home with peace health and happiness and bless Tayyba with a life of health and prosperity Ameen 🤲❤️
Salam sis. Love your positive outlook on life and simplicity. Had no idea about your struggles with Thaiba. My admiration for you has upped a notch just knowing that. May Allah make it easy for you. I never comment but wanted to take the time to show you some appreciation. I agree with you that growing up was spending time with siblings rather than parents and I don't look back and have any regrets.
Wa alaikum salaam sis! JazakAllah khair for taking time out to comment ❤️ ameen to your kind duas xxx 🥰
Asalamualaikum sister. Hope you and your family are well.
I just wanted to say how refreshing it was to watch your video. You are so humble Mashallah. May Allah tala ease any struggles for you (ameen). You sound like a kind, caring and lovely woman. May you and your children succeed in all your ventures (ameen). ❤
You are amazing And i had no idea and Taiba. May Allah make it easy for you and give her a healthy happy life ahead. I feel the same Shamsa, when you think you are not doing enough as a mum especially when you see things on social media and feel so intimidated by it all. We are all doing amazing as mums and doing what's in our capacity. Allah give us all strength and good health to carry on doing what we can. ❤
Ameen
Its nice to have a catchup from time to time and just sit down and reflect on life. Im new subscriber shamsa sister and i look forward to watching more of your videos x
Aww thank you so much for being here 🩷
Asc sis Shamsa this video was lovely video to watch. I myself have two autistic boys a 12 years old and my 4 years old that has been diagnosed this month and it’s not easy at all but Alhamdulillah Allah doesn’t burden us with nothing we can’t handle may Allah swt bless and protect your family and my Allah make it easy for all of us that have beautiful souls ❤❤❤
Lovely your calming videos sis. ❤
Thank you so much sis 🥰
I look forward to your videos you are a inspiration xx
Shamsa I have been watching your channel for a while and I had no idea that you had a child with autism.my oldest son has autism and I agree with everything you said.
Hi lovely, it's something I never mentioned really. Sending you lots of love and best wishes, it's definitely an interesting journey ❤️
Shamsa, you are such a wonderful person in and out, you radiate Noor. Know this, that your amazing daughter Tayyabba will surely be your family's route to heaven. Parents of special needs children are made of something else entirely and I think they are chosen from Allah SWT.
You and brother Akeel are amazing, insha'Allah you will be rewarded for your hardships and you will forever be in my duas, may Allah SWT answer every single dua of yours and fulfil all your hearts desires, may he reward your family with health, wealth and deen. Stay blessed. ❤
May Allah reward them and all special needs parents. They truly are special ❤
Shamsa please can you do vlogs in Ramadan😊 I love that so so mutch. Insha Allah dear.
InshaAllah will try my best xxx
Salaam.sis mashallah such a beautiful video u should do more like this.
Ur not old sis u look good for your age.
Ur vlogs are always good keep it up ur doing amazing 😊
Allah is the best planners sis may Allah keep u happy make u successful Ameen.
Thanks for sharing this video with us. I know many of the women with children will benefit from your advice.
I am having three kids 2 boys And one daughter my only Daughter is Autistic it is challenging but it is so Allah know i can broughtup her so she is my darling❤❤❤
Loved the video sister ❤️
Salam sis really enjoyed your vlog today with Q&A i had no idea you had daughter with autism i have nephew who has same condition i know how hard it is, you are amazing person inside & out thank you for sharing ❤
Watching you from Preston mashallah keep us in your duaas X
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Lovely video, very down to earth and love what you said about each child having different gifts/talents and parents not taking too much credit for one. What's your second son hoping to study at uni?
Thank you so much sis! Chemical engineering inshaAllah 💕
@officiallyshamsa amazing congratulations sister
Yahoo, you answered my question. Thank you. I was so excited to see my name/question 😊
Lol thanks for your question sis ❤️💕❤️
Shamsa what camera do you use to do your vlogs? Started my Chanel and would love to know! Thank you! ❤
I use the Canon V10 it's small and perfect for vlogging. Wishing you all the best with your channel lovely xxx
@ I feel like I’m so late to the party shamsa! I’ve been meaning to do it for years but had multiple things stopping me! Now I feel like I’m playing catchup! Thank you for your supportive words! I hope I can keep momentum- you’re a real inspiration I’ve watched you for years!
Your daughter is beautiful mashAllah and you seen a very nice person i love watching all your videos been watching u for a few months now
Omg Ma sha Allah your children are absolutely beautiful sis 😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️. I love you and your family ❤️❤️❤️. May Allah always keep you happy my love. Xxx
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Love you Shamsa! Watched since 2021
Ameen ❤️ jazakAllah khair sis ❤️💕❤️
Dropping kids like no tomorrow. Must show that having so many children won't solve the problem. Even though you have no siblings. ❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉🎉1
اسلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
I really enjoy listening to you. It is so inspiring and relatable. May Allah grant us all aafiyah
Amazing video mashaAllah as always ❤❤❤
Lol, kids washing dishes whilst reciting!
That cracked me up 😅.
MashAllah ❤❤
Right! Talk about putting us all to shame 😂 Allahuma bark they're v cute
Loved the video! Just wanted to ask some advice how you deal with comments from people who talk about the amount of kids you have etc? I have 3 and had my third baby 14 months ago after a large age gap between my first 2. I have my older daughter who is 9 and my son who is 7 and I had a baby girl 14 months ago. We always planned to have 3 kids when we first got married regardless of gender but even though we had a girl and a boy it got to the point of my youngest being 6 and I still wanted another one so we decided to try for our 3rd and last before it was to much of an age gap between our older 2 kids. I’ve suffered with really bad postpartum depression this time and last month my mother in law( who has 3 kids 🙄 a girl a boy then another boy) and she actually turned around to me and said “ your family and life was perfect before you planned another one you had a girl and a boy you had the perfect family” I ignored her but did tell my husband because I was already going through a bad period off extreme anxiety and stress and she actually went on the following day to say it to me again “ your life and family was perfect before you planned another one”. It’s hard to deal with a comment like this especially when you are still suffering with post partum depression it puts all sorts of things into my mind. I am definitely done now and I won’t be having anymore as our family is complete but the comments really hurt me.
It's the most pointless comment to make...why tell you that your life was perfect before having your 3rd child...it's not like you cam go back in time lol. Ignore if you can because it's just an ignorant comment, and if you can't ignore it ask your husband to hint to his mum that her comment is hurtful to you. Maybe she doesn't realise it affects you. Children are a gift from Allah swt and they are meant to be here so anyone who thinks otherwise is abit silly 😆
I'm so happy to watch a long video from you, my beautiful Shamsa 🫶🏻♥️🥰😍🫶🏻💕.
You're too sweet sis! 🥰🩷🥰
Love hearing what you get up to 😊
Assalamualaikum sister❤alhamdulilla for everything, you have a strong taqwa, I really felt overwhelmed by how you handle everything. May Allah give us sabr! Inshaallah, I feel Allah gives everyone a chance to go to jannah, and to you it is through taiba, may Allah make it easy for you sister 😊ameen
So lovely that you shared some things about your family ❤less and less genuine lifestyle and videos people make- just to make money and to be famous and thats what worrying because this generation believes what they see 😔. Love your videos, blessing to your family ❤
may Allah ease your pain, ameen ❤❤❤
Asalam Aliikum sis my son has autism he is 20yrs old. I know how hard it is. I hope you are having some respite in terms of a social package which your social worker should have mentioned to you. Here for any advice x
Wa alaikum salaam sis, I appreciate that ❤️ we don't actually have a social worker, but have soke options if we need a break I think. Lots of love xxx
Hi lovies can anyone remind of the Netflix series she said she recently watched and liked? Don’t know if she mentioned it in this video or a other recent one. Thank u in advance
It's called The Night Agent sis😊
Ma sha Allah ❤️ Allah huma barik ❤❤❤❤❤
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Masha Allah beautiful vlogs
Kids are in bed, I will watch all now. After watching most of this, I feel like crying. You're such an inspiration. I love you for the sake of Allah ❤😢. The boys reciting the Quran MashAllah, it touched my heart . I try to recite Mufti Menk morning dua when I clean the dishes as well 😅 until the kids interrupt me. I start all over again ❤😂
Growing up in a large family as well, we did things together which was so nice cook, eat, play watch tv together that's the life.
You are so beautiful big nose, small nose who cares. It's your beautiful face and personality that attracted me to your channel ❤😂 you always make me smile and laugh. xxx
Aww Allah swt bless you sis, I appreciate you taking the time to watch the video, sharing in emotions and your kind words. Lots of love and duas and keep reciting duas while washing dishes, those little boys are my role model lol 🥰💕🥰
Mashaa allah , allah protect you sister
I have 2 kids with sen and one of them also has complex medical needs. It's great to hear that you are familiar with my world. I would wish for you to be a voice for us sen children mums. I can hope that we can share our experiences with you so that you can share with your viewers what it's like raising special needs children in the hope to be better supported by our communities. I have had negative experiences from others where they have made silly remarks like Allah tests you through your children meaning that having kids with needs is a punishment from Allah! Our beautiful special needs kids are our ticket to heaven if only they knew and not left us alone to be "punished"
Well said shamsa❤interesting painting behind u….can u describe
Thank you sis ❤️🩷❤️
How do U deal with teenagers how's Ur journey been?
M’Allah the Quran recitation was ra treat and what good boys for helping with the chores!
Asalam aliykum sister, Ma shaa Allah Allah huma barak, may Allah bless you, you trust in Allah, Allah doesn't give us more than we can cope with, and Ma shaa Allah Allah huma barak ,your a good mother, may Allah bless you all, and at the end all turns out we'll, with Allah's blessings....❤❤
My Allah- bless. Your family you are a true mother .. love ❤️ your channel it’s all about your raising your kids . D : USA .
Still watching your vlog lol
Parents: by age two years old children should be speaking 3 word sentences, e.g. ‘I want Apple’ ‘a blue car’. If you call their name repeatedly and they do not respond, ignore you, this could be a problem. If their speech is delayed, and they have other behaviours that you are worried about, such as hand-flapping,spinning, walking on tip toes, take them to the GP. It could be autism.
Alhamduillah
MashAllah Shamsa, I'm so happy I discovered your channel. Firstly, I love how you are close to Allah in the way you carry yourself. ❤
JazakAllah khair beautiful ❤️🥰❤️
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iv visited familyin zambia is that far from angolia???
I've just checked a map and it looks like Zambia is next to Angola!
mashallah neibours become good friends
Assalaamu alaikum Shamsa, I really love you, I wish we could be friends. If not in this life then in The Hereafter you are a rare gem, real and joyful may Allah bless you and your family 😘
I saw that video tooooo 😂😂 of the two kids
free palestine! thankyou xx
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When's the last time you went Pakistan and would you ever go back?
Salam shamsa hope you are okay love ur videos
I work for avon would you be interested in purchasing anything from avon im based in Leeds UK x
I grabbed my pizza 🍕😋❤
Ooh enjoy!
Am a special need child so and I know it’s hard
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How many kids you have 6or7
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Please take care of your health
How old are you sis x
42 sis xxx
can I ask sister How old r you.
She mentions it in the video, watch it it's really good 😊
I also have chicken pox now
Aww get well soon inshaAllah ❤️
@officiallyshamsa Asalaam mu alakum. I was just watching your video
Sister how many boys u have
5 mashaAllah
What happen to your health...