Kudos to Elleno for expressing her perspective on the situation so clearly, especially given that she has experienced a similar situation to Cylia. Personally, I believe Cylia hasn't fully healed yet; she still needs time and space to process her emotions and come to terms with the feeling that she failed her daughter when she was 3. However, the fact that she acknowledges her mistakes and feels remorse shows she's on the right path. With the right support, she'll be able to heal.
for me sisters was sad because she wanted a platform to promote her book, she did not have the courage to ask beforehand and was disappointed when the session ended before she could promote the book
I listened to Celia this morning and her complaint is valid Madam Speaker. I do think if you respected her, you would have held back publishing it until your issue with her is resolved. Perhaps you would discuss at the right time and she would even be able to tell you if there is something she is not comfortable with in the recording as the matter involves a child. What you have done shows the highest level of disregard for her and privacy of a child in question. You didn’t act as a mother. If there is still a mother within you, considering that you are dealing with a person in pain, you would take the recording down for now, have a discussion with her and at a later stage and perhaps there is something she wants edited out, you can do it correct at that time. You have handled the matter insensitively, and highly so. Posting shade towards this woman is below the belt, it’s bad. Take a short course in psychology or something to prepare you for dealing with these people and their issues. Show sympathy and emphathy. Retaliation is not it.
@@unicamogudi5241 until you have been in Celia’s shoes and experienced what she has experienced, you can’t call her childish. This is the exact point I am driving that when you choose to create a platform to deal with people who are broken, you should equally be equipped to handle them with short courses or something. Retaliation and all I see Madam doing tells me that she is not prepared nor equipped to handle her community. She should take a lesson from this and take the video down. If it’s not for Celia then for the child involved. You don’t have to win everything and every fight, there is a child here whom we should all be protecting. If the mother wants to edit something let that be.
@@On_PointwithN I disagree my dear, the reason she wants the video to be taken down it's not because of the child I thing you misunderstood her, it's because Madam Speaker did not check up on her or send her link and how she handled the situation. She's not regretting sharing the story, why now it's about the child
I hope you see this comment, I think it was wrong for you to do interviews when you were mentally exhausted because you can't work with such vulnerable people and respond in a manner that comes across as insensitive. Your initial apology seemed really sincere, but to go on and post the video against her will without at least trying to reach a compromise with her was very insensitive in my view. My advise is to not take interviews when you feel emotionally exhausted. These people need your compassion especially after the interview, the change from a friendly person to an emotionally checked out person was not fair on her. Unfortunately, your business comes with a lot more responsibilities.
Absolutely 💯. Like I said in the voicenotes, that’s how we do things. Unfortunately on that day he wasn’t done because my team was closed and I was alone. Hence the apology. I’m still apologizing even now 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
You're Kind-hearted, You're beautiful, You're an Inspiration, You're warm and that's all i observe on both occasions i got to be in your presence....You have arrived mama and you're still going to trend.... its challenges to tarnish your brand so don't be shaken woman of God. i"ll just leave it at that.
Her ex husband, the church and the government are to blame. I said this on another channel. Idk if you can have an attorney draft you a contract detailing how you engage with your guests and they must sign before agreeing to come on?
Keep up the good job madam. You won't please everybody. Your podcast, your rules. And you apologised and voiced your view as well. You can't allow yourself to be bullied just because some guest's expectation wasn't met. Intuitively, that woman had an agenda and thought you'll be part of her circle of friends. She wanted to grow her channel through bashing you!! No way. Love and light girl ❤
Unspoken expectations are the main problem about the trending issue. Madam Speaker continue with your calling, it is well❤
Thank you 🙏🏿
God bless you madam speaker
U are doing God s work
And we thank God for you❤❤❤❤❤❤
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Kudos to Elleno for expressing her perspective on the situation so clearly, especially given that she has experienced a similar situation to Cylia. Personally, I believe Cylia hasn't fully healed yet; she still needs time and space to process her emotions and come to terms with the feeling that she failed her daughter when she was 3. However, the fact that she acknowledges her mistakes and feels remorse shows she's on the right path. With the right support, she'll be able to heal.
This is a spiritual attack my sister
When God elevates you the devil does not like it
We continue praying more
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Amen 🙏🏿 thank you
for me sisters was sad because she wanted a platform to promote her book, she did not have the courage to ask beforehand and was disappointed when the session ended before she could promote the book
I love u my sister.i want to prepare to come to u guys .from BOTSWANA to south Africa.i love u.u ar healing me
Thank you so much sis. I look forward to hosting you ❤❤❤
I listened to Celia this morning and her complaint is valid Madam
Speaker. I do think if you respected her, you would have held back publishing it until your issue with her is resolved. Perhaps you would discuss at the right time and she would even be able to tell you if there is something she is not comfortable with in the recording as the matter involves a child. What you have done shows the highest level of disregard for her and privacy of a child in question. You didn’t act as a mother. If there is still a mother within you, considering that you are dealing with a person in pain, you would take the recording down for now, have a discussion with her and at a later stage and perhaps there is something she wants edited out, you can do it correct at that time. You have handled the matter insensitively, and highly so. Posting shade towards this woman is below the belt, it’s bad. Take a short course in psychology or something to prepare you for dealing with these people and their issues. Show sympathy and emphathy. Retaliation is not it.
She came as attaching... instructing... no need. She was supposed to humble herself n ask her politely. She attacked Madam.. very childish.
@@unicamogudi5241 until you have been in Celia’s shoes and experienced what she has experienced, you can’t call her childish. This is the exact point I am driving that when you choose to create a platform to deal with people who are broken, you should equally be equipped to handle them with short courses or something. Retaliation and all I see Madam doing tells me that she is not prepared nor equipped to handle her community. She should take a lesson from this and take the video down. If it’s not for Celia then for the child involved. You don’t have to win everything and every fight, there is a child here whom we should all be protecting. If the mother wants to edit something let that be.
I hear you and i disagree 💁🏿♀️
I agree with you 💯
@@On_PointwithN I disagree my dear, the reason she wants the video to be taken down it's not because of the child I thing you misunderstood her, it's because Madam Speaker did not check up on her or send her link and how she handled the situation. She's not regretting sharing the story, why now it's about the child
Much love from Kenya...can you adopt a 30yr old😂😂😂love you so much
Oooh I love Kenya❤❤❤❤. lol you’re adopted
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I stand with you, MS. From Botswana
I hope you see this comment, I think it was wrong for you to do interviews when you were mentally exhausted because you can't work with such vulnerable people and respond in a manner that comes across as insensitive. Your initial apology seemed really sincere, but to go on and post the video against her will without at least trying to reach a compromise with her was very insensitive in my view.
My advise is to not take interviews when you feel emotionally exhausted. These people need your compassion especially after the interview, the change from a friendly person to an emotionally checked out person was not fair on her. Unfortunately, your business comes with a lot more responsibilities.
I hear you and I will not be taking your advice. But thanks
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@@madams___speaker,I love you for this😘
I must say i follow your podcast and much love from Kenya❤❤❤
Nwana wa ko kgae ❤ ❤❤ nobody will make me hate you madam speaker 😊
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Uncommunicated expectations yes... Lesson and way forward... My sister, please do a courtesy call after the interview or before uploading the video.
Absolutely 💯. Like I said in the voicenotes, that’s how we do things. Unfortunately on that day he wasn’t done because my team was closed and I was alone. Hence the apology. I’m still apologizing even now 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Keep doing good work My sister 🥰
God bless you more.
Thank you so much 🤗 this year my wish is to meet you. I see you everyday and I appreciate you 🤍🙏🏿
That's my wish 🤗@@madams___speaker
You're Kind-hearted, You're beautiful, You're an Inspiration, You're warm and that's all i observe on both occasions i got to be in your presence....You have arrived mama and you're still going to trend.... its challenges to tarnish your brand so don't be shaken woman of God. i"ll just leave it at that.
Ooh sisi 🥺🥺🥺💓💓💓 thank you so much sthandwa
Her ex husband, the church and the government are to blame. I said this on another channel. Idk if you can have an attorney draft you a contract detailing how you engage with your guests and they must sign before agreeing to come on?
Keep up the good job madam. You won't please everybody. Your podcast, your rules. And you apologised and voiced your view as well. You can't allow yourself to be bullied just because some guest's expectation wasn't met. Intuitively, that woman had an agenda and thought you'll be part of her circle of friends. She wanted to grow her channel through bashing you!! No way. Love and light girl ❤
I agree hey. It looks like she was expecting more than what she got. Like a friendship with Madam and a boost to her own channel growth.
Persie I think Elleno will be a best /good mediator for you and Celia
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❤We love wena.. Madam... we move...forward.. Silly ppl shall be strong.
13:09 Continue being a blessing
Thank you
Who we talking about I'm lost
She apologized.. she is not her friend hle...
Morning Mzalwane
Hello mzakes wam
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The decision not to delete the video, is it about money? How much will you accept so that you can delete and not feel like you are being compromised?
Why is Celia the only one who complains? You've interviewed so many women😮. What could be wrong here?
Who is Celia?
She's the only one who complains because she's the only one who can feel what SHE experienced. An experience is personal.
Celia needs a therapist not MS to be her friend.
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