I feel. I hate the 'all the emotional and possibly physical abuse I put you through before should be forgiven bc I love you now so you should forget about it' thinking. The girl always suffers 90% through the series but it's fine bc hE'LL cHaNGe. It's a bad message and a bad "love" story. Some of these are straight up horror imo.
Agreed I couldn’t finish the other drama the actor for the ML was in bc it was literally like he played the same character. It was so bad in the other one that a year apart did nothing for character development dude really showed up and was like ‘what did I to to you, you hate me for no reason’ like sir what
The disrespect of this husband for his wife is too much. Ithard for some wives to continue asking because he will only lie and make excuses even if he was the one who set the rules. The yelling part and the shame she suffered in front of colleagues and the pathetic ex is enough to cause trauma if she is not stronger. But she continued to follow their agreement. There is a limit to her patience.
@@BlissfulBluebell Estoy plenamente de acuerdo, es un sutil mensaje que justifica el abuso emocional doméstico; total, después va cambiar por ella. Y así las mujeres se quedan en una relación tóxica esperando el cambio hasta que se dan cuenta que han envejecido esperando.
Young man you said women are strange 🤔 but when you're meeting your ex-girlfriend she's not going to be happy about it, if she's wasn't there 😉 that want be no problem
This has got to be one of the most tiring dramas to get through.. the number of misunderstandings they have..it’s beyond endurance - and all of them could have been avoided if they just talked to each other… seriously - don’t waste your time on this - the name is TOTALLY misleading - there nothing cute about this show
People can and do change. He owns up to his very serious mistakes. On top of that, not his parents, not his best friend, not his employees agree with his behavior--none. This is a very realistic drama on the subject of owning up to your bad behavior and changing step by step. She loves him and chooses to forgive him. She too does not communicate. She loves him dearly yet allows him to believe that he slept with LiMan than tell him the truth, he made love to her, his wife, when he asks her.
Agreed. The onus is on him to explain because he was the one who violated the rules. Why does the wife need to ask all the time when he only gives excuses. That can be tiring.
To anyone who got this far if u want to watch this drama no judgement but I hope you will watch it with a alert brain cause here’s why the main reason I don’t like this drama is because it romanticizes manipulation, gaslighting, and mental abuse. I know there will probably be some that don’t agree with me so I came with scenes that are exactly what I just said After they got married there are multiple times where he gaslights her into thinking that she isn’t a good person and she should do what he says because he knows what’s best so much so to the point where she is just a husk and can’t do anything on her own. After he finds out where she is after she left him do u know what he did? He buys the apartment above her own and does everything he can to cross her boundaries so that HE can talk to her about HIS guilt and regret. One point he was so annoyed at her for not responding to his text messages that he took a basketball and started pounding it on his floor which was her ceiling so that she would be annoyed. Then when he discovered that she is working at a place where he is also working he constantly forces her into corners and attacks verbally and physically at one point he even bit her hand literally WTF! I honestly don’t know how anyone could see this show being romantic there is also fault in both couples as they don’t communicate or share their feelings but I am really freaked out by the fact that again this drama romanticizes abuse or at the very least very toxic relationships this is the main reason why I avoid modern dramas like this I prefer historical because I find that there is less toxic relationships like this. I know that some people just watch to have fun and again no judgment I just am hoping that you will understand that this is not a good drama for anyone who has triggers for this type of behavior and no one should use this as a source for wanting a relationship
Estoy completamente de acuerdo contigo si no vez estas series con mente crítica y analítica sino por mero entretenimiento, estás recibiendo un mensaje nocivo, "normalizando el abuso psicológico y emocional", tan destructivo para psiquis de una mujer término medio
@@juanaabanvelasquez6091 absolutely it honestly makes me very worried for women from these countries and other younger people in general who might watch this and think this is how a relationship should be.
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I THINK. oh my goshhhh. like you don't understand how furious i was with this dude. I had to drop it because i couldn't stand it. He was gaslighting her so much and victimizing himself. It was becoming ridiculous. He's so immature I wonder how he became a ceo. And why is it that most of the dramas he acts in have him act like trash?? There was this other drama "you are my destiny". Tell me why his character is exactly like this one??! That one really was the worst.
@@seokxjinnie_5013 there’s another drama where it’s the same FL and ML hoo it’s worse than this one if you can believe that at one point he’s like I’ll divorce u if you pleasure me so the FL stupidly does and he refuses to divorce her and that was when I stopped watching any and all clips associated with their dramas I literally felt sick and then they brushed it off like a comedy!!!! So yeah ur not alone it’s honestly disturbing how much these drama do this and I am genuinely worried about china women in general especially young women I genuinely hope they won’t think these types of relationships r ok
I started watching this drama months ago but I never continue to watch it because I don't like male lead's character he looks so childish and their relationships are very different from the other, it's hard to watch them.
She saw lipstick on his shirt and he’s seeing his ex which means he most likely would be cheating (although I don’t think that’s the case) wouldn’t you think the same or at least get a little suspicious, she has a right to. And no one directly ask if someone is cheating on them
Cute programmer is the title But i say its now definitely to watch the men was very childish character kinda annoying to watch many miscommunications of the two every episodes.
My problem with the male lead is she always misunderstood everything. When she did catch the girl together she never stayed long enough to hear or see him push or tell that chick off. It was really annoying with the lack of communication on her end. Yes he had faults too but damn this chick was getting on my nerves with her misunderstandings.
He was such an idiot! Why wouldn't your wife have issues when the ex is clearly trying to win you back. He never thinks how he'd feel if the shoe was on the other foot and he had to watch his wife's ex constantly in the picture. As a whole communication was a huge issue for these two and I found the male lead so immature.
Honestly, he could not even tolerate some of his male colleagues being friendly with her and he expects her to be okay with his ex-girlfriend's regular attempts to win his affection while attacking her on a personal as well as professional level.
Guessing only in Asian cultures where the person keeping running to assist their first love or can’t break completely from them. Usually in relationships, you are not completely finished until you destroy each other. 🤔🤔🤔
I’m very confused with all the clips featured in TH-cam. They’re all about CEO’s and Cinderellas. You’d think they’re from 1 drama! What’s this Chinese obsession with CEOs and Cinderellas?
Debió pedir disculpas por incumplimiento su promesa de llevarla a las reuniones con Li Man, ella no quiso escucharlo porque pensó que quería decirle que ha vuelto con Leman, ella lis vio, pero ese era el momento para que explique y aclarar que es un relación terminada y que ha quedado en el pasado, actualmente su trato es meramente comercial y por qué no la llevó a ella a esa reunión de negocios Luli es una mujer inteligente, hubiera comprendido. Pero él cree que no tiene por qué dar explicaciones de su vida personal. Y su silencio cuanto daño le hace a ella, cómo no se da cuenta de su dolor? Si él la ha visto tan distraída
Thank you for understanding the situation he put her through. Of course I respect the opinion of others that she should have told him but I agree with you. The onus is on him to explain, not for her to ask all the time because he only gives excuses. It can be tiring after a while. He is the one who broke their agreement. "We agreed not to meddle in each other's private life" is his go to argument that she can never win.
Exacto, la verdad fue un completo taradúpido, por querer manejarlo de esa manera y trajo como consecuencia el no darse cuenta de lo que tenía hasta que lo perdió por culpa de su ex. Si será bestia de plano
He promised his wife to not meet his ex without her being present but he still did. He's disrespecting his wife and then is surprised that she's not that happy about it?!
The best character in this drama is dad Jiang. The way he treats mommy Jiang is just amazing.
Siii, es un encanto. Su mujer y él una pareja de cuento!!
Name of the series please
@@lekhavardhini1881 I believe the title is Cute Programmer
He's handsome also. I love this beard look.
Yeah
Drama name : cute programmer, my fvrt one ❤️,must watch 👍🏻
This was one of the few dramas I still think the ML didn't deserve the FL and the ML barely had any character development.
I feel. I hate the 'all the emotional and possibly physical abuse I put you through before should be forgiven bc I love you now so you should forget about it' thinking. The girl always suffers 90% through the series but it's fine bc hE'LL cHaNGe. It's a bad message and a bad "love" story. Some of these are straight up horror imo.
Agreed I couldn’t finish the other drama the actor for the ML was in bc it was literally like he played the same character. It was so bad in the other one that a year apart did nothing for character development dude really showed up and was like ‘what did I to to you, you hate me for no reason’ like sir what
The disrespect of this husband for his wife is too much. Ithard for some wives to continue asking because he will only lie and make excuses even if he was the one who set the rules. The yelling part and the shame she suffered in front of colleagues and the pathetic ex is enough to cause trauma if she is not stronger. But she continued to follow their agreement. There is a limit to her patience.
@@BlissfulBluebell
Estoy plenamente de acuerdo, es un sutil mensaje que justifica el abuso emocional doméstico; total, después va cambiar por ella. Y así las mujeres se quedan en una relación tóxica esperando el cambio hasta que se dan cuenta que han envejecido esperando.
La falta de comunicación crea malos entendidos y lo malo es que al no aclararlos se rompe la relacion
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Young man you said women are strange 🤔 but when you're meeting your ex-girlfriend she's not going to be happy about it, if she's wasn't there 😉 that want be no problem
This has got to be one of the most tiring dramas to get through.. the number of misunderstandings they have..it’s beyond endurance - and all of them could have been avoided if they just talked to each other… seriously - don’t waste your time on this - the name is TOTALLY misleading - there nothing cute about this show
Totally agree only watch the clips for dialogue of a terrible ML 🤣
Thanks cause I was gonna watch this. I'm glad that I didn't waste my time.
Thanks for this review
People can and do change. He owns up to his very serious mistakes. On top of that, not his parents, not his best friend, not his employees agree with his behavior--none. This is a very realistic drama on the subject of owning up to your bad behavior and changing step by step. She loves him and chooses to forgive him. She too does not communicate. She loves him dearly yet allows him to believe that he slept with LiMan than tell him the truth, he made love to her, his wife, when he asks her.
@@3275naomi that's only one view. Many of thought this drama was adorable and enjoyed this drama.
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مبرمج لطيف 😎
He is so stupid. Did not realize the wife is jealous of his meeting the ex girlfriend. So many misunderstandings between this two.
Is it stupidity or lingering lust? I wonder 🤔
Es un continúo malentendido. El parece estar en la luna.
That's cause he only was career oriented at first...wanted to make his dad proud. She was also young and immature too both
Drama : cute programmer
El le falló tantas veces que creerle algo cuesta y él sigue. Una mujer se puede llegar a artar después de un tiempo la misma situacion
como se llama?
Agreed. The onus is on him to explain because he was the one who violated the rules. Why does the wife need to ask all the time when he only gives excuses. That can be tiring.
It has no sense to ask if you hear only the same old excuses or see him lash out on you
0:46 **grabs shoe**
Mind your words lol ☺️💜
اسم المسلسل؟
One thing I noticed about Yicheng, the whole drama he's being childish.
I wonder if it’s because he’s in the gaming business?
@@meimei1919 not really. He just love whining here and there.
@amaiaindy1 gamers pay serious attention to everything but his attention is always with the needs of the ex.
i love Lu li's acting on Miss the Dragon
Drama: programadora bonita 💕💕💕
Programadora bonita
No. The drama name is cute programmer
@@mamtaram3712 para a tradução dos fansubs e afins, a tradução fica como programadora bonitinha ou bonita
مكن اسم المسلسل
Favoritechonise drama
The girl is so pretty...
To anyone who got this far if u want to watch this drama no judgement but I hope you will watch it with a alert brain cause here’s why the main reason I don’t like this drama is because it romanticizes manipulation, gaslighting, and mental abuse. I know there will probably be some that don’t agree with me so I came with scenes that are exactly what I just said
After they got married there are multiple times where he gaslights her into thinking that she isn’t a good person and she should do what he says because he knows what’s best so much so to the point where she is just a husk and can’t do anything on her own. After he finds out where she is after she left him do u know what he did? He buys the apartment above her own and does everything he can to cross her boundaries so that HE can talk to her about HIS guilt and regret. One point he was so annoyed at her for not responding to his text messages that he took a basketball and started pounding it on his floor which was her ceiling so that she would be annoyed. Then when he discovered that she is working at a place where he is also working he constantly forces her into corners and attacks verbally and physically at one point he even bit her hand literally WTF! I honestly don’t know how anyone could see this show being romantic there is also fault in both couples as they don’t communicate or share their feelings but I am really freaked out by the fact that again this drama romanticizes abuse or at the very least very toxic relationships this is the main reason why I avoid modern dramas like this I prefer historical because I find that there is less toxic relationships like this.
I know that some people just watch to have fun and again no judgment I just am hoping that you will understand that this is not a good drama for anyone who has triggers for this type of behavior and no one should use this as a source for wanting a relationship
Estoy completamente de acuerdo contigo si no vez estas series con mente crítica y analítica sino por mero entretenimiento, estás recibiendo un mensaje nocivo, "normalizando el abuso psicológico y emocional", tan destructivo para psiquis de una mujer término medio
@@juanaabanvelasquez6091 absolutely it honestly makes me very worried for women from these countries and other younger people in general who might watch this and think this is how a relationship should be.
@@OceanSongBird6355 please the title of it
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I THINK. oh my goshhhh. like you don't understand how furious i was with this dude. I had to drop it because i couldn't stand it. He was gaslighting her so much and victimizing himself. It was becoming ridiculous. He's so immature I wonder how he became a ceo. And why is it that most of the dramas he acts in have him act like trash?? There was this other drama "you are my destiny". Tell me why his character is exactly like this one??! That one really was the worst.
@@seokxjinnie_5013 there’s another drama where it’s the same FL and ML hoo it’s worse than this one if you can believe that at one point he’s like I’ll divorce u if you pleasure me so the FL stupidly does and he refuses to divorce her and that was when I stopped watching any and all clips associated with their dramas I literally felt sick and then they brushed it off like a comedy!!!! So yeah ur not alone it’s honestly disturbing how much these drama do this and I am genuinely worried about china women in general especially young women I genuinely hope they won’t think these types of relationships r ok
Nice to see again my idol characters ...
what episode?
Please mentioned the drama name in your videos
drama di wetv yg berulang-ulang q tonton
Por onde posso assistir esse dorama com tantas traduções em um título?
Can you see it here in TH-cam, it is available, and its name is a nice programmer 🙂
@@RLL-k2r i thought it was "cute programmer " ?
no weTV
It's name is cute programmer u can watch it on we tv or at dramacool website.
Vc acha ele no cine vision tbm, o nome é programador
This definitely one of the actor better shows along with the eternal love series.
I liked him with BaiLu in Lucky's first love
I started watching this drama months ago but I never continue to watch it because I don't like male lead's character he looks so childish and their relationships are very different from the other, it's hard to watch them.
اسم المسلسل؟
add name?
مبرمج لطيف موجود بسينمانا
Assisti por completo e amei
Nome por favor em português kkk
O nome desse drama é Um bom programador ou Um programador fofo? Na tradução dos comentários só vi assim
programadora bonitinha
@@leticiacanuto2894 Esse eu encontrei, e assistir , mais fiquei na dúvida se é o mesmo
برنامه نویس بامزه❤️❤️❤️
I don't understand... Is it the different actress who play as his wife?
حلقة كم
drama name please 🥺🙏
Cute programmer
ما إسم المسلسل با العربي بليز شكرا
مبرمج لطيف
♥️♥️
which episode is this?
Assuming gets you nowhere
If she wanted to know if he'd cheated she should ask
You can't unlearn something once you know it
She saw lipstick on his shirt and he’s seeing his ex which means he most likely would be cheating (although I don’t think that’s the case) wouldn’t you think the same or at least get a little suspicious, she has a right to. And no one directly ask if someone is cheating on them
Do most people tell the truth when they cheat?
@@dianericci8369 🥇🏆🎖👍🏻😂😂 but I’d still ask and observe his body language.
Movies name please?
Please the name of drama
Cute programmer
Mom's so cute🥰🥰🥰🥰
Please put subtitles 🥺
This is a very beautiful drama..that have a lots of lessons to learned
Drama name
Cute Programmer...
Thank you🌹🌹
I am currently watching this drama and i loved it
Thank you for your answer
اسمه.. مسلسل مبرمج لطيف 🙂👍🏻
What is the title? Please & Thank you
Cute programer
Cute programmer is the title
But i say its now definitely to watch the men was very childish character kinda annoying to watch many miscommunications of the two every episodes.
Por favor qual nome do dorama
The name is : cute programmer
شنو اسم المسلسل
مبرمج لطيف موجود بسينمانا
What’s this drama called?
The title pls
Name of drama please
Cute programmer
Can someone tell me the title of this drama thanks 💞 😊 🙂
Cute programer
My problem with the male lead is she always misunderstood everything. When she did catch the girl together she never stayed long enough to hear or see him push or tell that chick off. It was really annoying with the lack of communication on her end. Yes he had faults too but damn this chick was getting on my nerves with her misunderstandings.
ok❤❤❤
Episode no.?
What’s the name of this movie?
Many different opinions. Both leads are childish in their relationship.
اسم المسلسل
مبرمج لطيف
ad cho m hỏi tên phim là gì vậy ạ
Muy bonita pero you tube solo pasa 3vcapitulos en español los demas aparecen sin subtitulos y son puros clips
Drama name?????
Cute programmer in TH-cam
Wow
como se llama el drama?
He was such an idiot! Why wouldn't your wife have issues when the ex is clearly trying to win you back. He never thinks how he'd feel if the shoe was on the other foot and he had to watch his wife's ex constantly in the picture. As a whole communication was a huge issue for these two and I found the male lead so immature.
Honestly, he could not even tolerate some of his male colleagues being friendly with her and he expects her to be okay with his ex-girlfriend's regular attempts to win his affection while attacking her on a personal as well as professional level.
Es final feliz me la recomiendan??
مبرمج لطيف مسلسل روعة ونهاية سعيدة
@@زوزوالدنف-م1ك ممكن اسم المسلسل
@@marammaram9497 مبرمج لطيف
@@marammaram9497 شقد الحلقة
What is the Title of the movie
which ep is this
إسم المسلسل بلعربي
Guessing only in Asian cultures where the person keeping running to assist their first love or can’t break completely from them. Usually in relationships, you are not completely finished until you destroy each other. 🤔🤔🤔
Quiero saber el nombre de las series
اسم المسلسل مبرمج لطيف
Es cute programer
Programadora tan adorable
Lindo programador
@@زيادسرحان-ح5و تعرف كم هذي الحلقه
Title please
Cute programmer
@@buhlentsabo Oi onde vejo.
@@elizeteoliveira727 in you tube
Xin tên phim ạ
Nombre del kdrama?
es programadora tan adorable o cute programmer
No es k drama es 🇨🇳 drama .
اسم المسلسل مبرمج لطيف
What is title?
Somebody plz just tell me the name plz
Cute programmer
Judul.nya apa kak
什麼片名
Por favor como sé llama el drama en español
adorable programadora .... under programer
Ahora entiendo por que los hijos de esta pareja son tan caprichosos ,si la madre que tendria que dar ejemplo no lo hace pobre marido
title pls? thanks
Cute programmer
اسم المسلسل ايه؟
Cute programmer
مبرمج لطيف
name flim
The name of the serial please
Cute programmer
اسم المسلسل بالعربي ورابط بالحلقات مترجمة
اسم المسلسل مبرمج لطيف
Traduzir em portugues
I’m very confused with all the clips featured in TH-cam. They’re all about CEO’s and Cinderellas. You’d think they’re from 1 drama! What’s this Chinese obsession with CEOs and Cinderellas?
I know right...I had the same confusion in the beginning too but now I know that they use it for all ceo based stories 😂😂😂
@@twinkles5114 😂🤣😂🤣
Sometime they use such titles for some shows that don't even have such genre or context😑
I mean like why is it always Cinderella.....Cinderella character depicts that's she is from poor house hold getting a rich ass husband
@@twinkles5114 I think that’s what happens. She gets the CEO, usually a rich one!
Drama Name
Cute programmer
شو اسم المسلسل بالعربي
What is the name??
Cute programmer
Çok güzel bir dizi keşke Türkiye'de yayınlansa
Evet
Dizinin adı ne acaba
@@gizemkeles1854it is called " cute programmer"
So very sad
الترجمة سالفه ثانيه
The title?
مبرمج لطيف موجود بسينمانا
Debió pedir disculpas por incumplimiento su promesa de llevarla a las reuniones con Li Man, ella no quiso escucharlo porque pensó que quería decirle que ha vuelto con Leman, ella lis vio, pero ese era el momento para que explique y aclarar que es un relación terminada y que ha quedado en el pasado, actualmente su trato es meramente comercial y por qué no la llevó a ella a esa reunión de negocios Luli es una mujer inteligente, hubiera comprendido. Pero él cree que no tiene por qué dar explicaciones de su vida personal. Y su silencio cuanto daño le hace a ella, cómo no se da cuenta de su dolor? Si él la ha visto tan distraída
Thank you for understanding the situation he put her through. Of course I respect the opinion of others that she should have told him but I agree with you. The onus is on him to explain, not for her to ask all the time because he only gives excuses. It can be tiring after a while. He is the one who broke their agreement. "We agreed not to meddle in each other's private life" is his go to argument that she can never win.
Exacto, la verdad fue un completo taradúpido, por querer manejarlo de esa manera y trajo como consecuencia el no darse cuenta de lo que tenía hasta que lo perdió por culpa de su ex. Si será bestia de plano
Como se llama el drama?
@@elizabethmedina4920 Programadora linda, creo
هو ب يخونها بجد😭و النبي أنا عيذا اعرف😇
First of all he didn't cheat it was a set up ok watch and you will understand
He promised his wife to not meet his ex without her being present but he still did. He's disrespecting his wife and then is surprised that she's not that happy about it?!
Name please
Cute programmer
@@mamtaram3712 thanks
creo que ahi Lu Li ya estaba embarazada
se fosse cmg era ele que ia dormir no chão kk
Que o nome desse? Tem na Netflix?
Drama name plzzz
Cute programmer
Ep
What is the name of this sirie
Dream name please
Cute programmer