@@michellecollins4301 We also need to understand that your OWN flesh likes you unhealed. When they were talking about your relationships pushing you back towards what's familiar I was like wow. With me it's not even my relationships. It's just me lol
I watched this because I wanted to hear Jackie Hill Perry speak because she brings such depth to a subject matter. However, for the first time, I realized, while listening to the other women, and waiting for Jackie to chime in with something else salient, I discovered how much I need the broader perspective of women. I struggle in women circles and therefore don’t prefer them or attending women’s conferences. Nevertheless, in this moment, my soul realizes that it’s missing something. I need to find my tribe that can stretch me, sharpen me and help me to connect to with what’s real about me.
I've been using food as comfort to self soothe. Wow. I needed this. The last 4 years have been extremely hard. I've leaned into God but not enough to pull me from the food idol. This was so needed.
@@watermelonlover745 I understand a bit about betrayal I lost what I thought were 3 people very close to me at the same time, I swear I went thru the death bereavement process , it hurt so much. Years later I realize that God, in his infinite wisdom , was removing idols and dead weight out of my life. Don’t give up. Pour your heart to the Lord. Jesus will give u strength and peace to get thru it, I promise ❤️
This is right on time!! I have been doing this all week because I had to let go of someone who meant so much to me. I told God I didn’t want to grieve this pain anymore so I started to bury it with watching TikTok videos, mind you I didn’t even have it on my phone I downloaded after a year of getting off. I wanted to laugh so that I wouldn’t have to cry. I didn’t want to be vulnerable anymore because I felt like I’ve been vulnerable this entire time only to be heartbroken. The Lord showed me that I needed to let go of this person but I know that He is going to do something big in my life through healing, wholeness, and total restoration.
Hi Sarah, I just wanted to encourage you. I also went through/am going through something similar rn. Sometimes I still miss that person, so I've been trying to remind myself that if I don't have God, I have nothing. Thank you for reminding me of the goodness of God ♡
Be deliberate and intentional with our time with God. One of the issues I had was setting boundaries (this is my time with God) and learned the Power of No
The Sabbath that was instituted before the fall was given to us as a blessing to reflect on the very things these ladies are speaking us, as well us rest in the Creator that didn’t just speak the existence of our planet in 6 days, but can speak what we need in our lives. The 7th day Sabbath where he rested, blessed and made holy at creation gives us an uninterrupted 24hrs when we don’t have a job we need to go to, to reflect on that. What a blessing!
Same story Jesus told. Building a house on sand vs building on the Rock. Anyone or anything, whether good or bad, is building on sand if it's not built on Him. Problem is, we LOVE sand castles.
This is good! I was literally reading Isaiah and when God was discussing idols. I immediately knew what my idol was-busy and men validation as a result of feeling uncertain/out of control and when I am feeling undervalue. I realized I was spiraling after a conversation with my biological father (who I do not have a close relationship with). I thank God for revealing the idol and the cause for it. It is very freeing and I feel empowered. I noticed I was spiraling since it happened on Friday and now, it is Tuesday.
This was on time I literally prayed and ask God to remove distraction away from my life so I can sit in His presence this literally an answer prayer 🤎🙏
Love this ❤️🙏🏾 I think we get so frustrated with the unknown so we turn back to what is familiar (idols). Thank you for the confirmation that one needs to rest in God.
Yes! Food can be a sneaky distraction. Often used for boredom, reward, company, even sensual pleasure. We need to gather up our God given self- discipline and learn to eat in a healthier manner. ♥️
This is sooooooo good! Absolutely wonderful! I am on sabbatical (not for travel but for the silo). It has been LIFE CHANGING & has truly helped me be alone with God, myself, and come face to face with all the things the Lord is/has brought up for me to grow, heal, rest, etc. I bless God for this word and ministry. 🙌🏽🙏🏽
Since early childhood we (most, if not all) have been conditioned by adults, cartoons, movies, books, etc. to seek comfort in things such as teddy bears, dolls, "security" blankets, food/candy and so on 😕 Fast forward to adulthood, most of the "comfort items" being pushed/glorified have the potential to become an unhealthy coping mechanism if one doesn't recognize the correlation. I'm so glad more and more people are snapping out of the world's "mental manipulation trance" and seeking Christ Jesus and therapy.
Truth on the dance analogy. Many of my sins are instrumental in keeping an unhealthy calm. Following Christ is going to require the end of people pleasing behaviors .
"I justify myself by doing". This is revelatory for me. I realize God has been working this out in me but this statement made it make sense. There is a pride here, a stroke to the ego and that's sin. Trust God and do good. Powerful!
I said to God today that I need help to trust in His sovereignty because when I feel things are out of my control (vulnerable) I lean to my own understanding to bring comfort. I know that God is Sovereign. I have trusted in the idol of "control" to make me feel comfortable.
Wow this is beautiful & I know everyone has gone through this at some point. I remember the times I’d be watching anime & other things going through my parents divorced but realizes that no matter how much I leaned to it, I was never healed. I had to deal with my pain still & it didn’t go away through it & give it to God as a preteen & going to teens at that time. It sure wasn’t easy but it really taught me to give God my brokenness & knowing he is more than enough & ONLY He can truly save. God really saved my life & it is a gift to still be alive today. As a young woman I know other things are trying to get my attention & it is a battle every day. When there the things are not appearing as harmful at first.
I love Jackie so much God blessed her with the gift of speaking and explaining things in a way that’s so brilliant but yet relatable and understandable ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wow! I NEEDED this. Bc I like to distract myself bc I don't want to handle the pain & hurt. I have struggled with going to therapy. Jen! U nailed it! Just had this conversation with 2 of my brothers! We're now people and the ones that know us don't like it! Ty JHP!
I have multiple crutches that she said that don’t seem in itself sinful. I don’t watch shows that may have problematic themes but I would watch sports content all day or scroll through my phone longer than I should because there are things in my life that I don’t want to deal with it. I should be reading my word and being more prayerful. I am absolutely stuck.
I genuinely felt like my life/current situation was being read like a book while these women of God were speaking. Everything that was said was absolutely powerful. Wow.
I love it!!! That topic is so relatable. When my head is spinning crazy, suddenly my phone would be a remedy when I rarely use it. Or it would be the coffee (very classic to me) that I buy to instantly soothe me. It's weird because sometimes i feel it is easier to go to God when all is fine than in crazy time
It's so hard for me to let go of those idols and truly trust in God. You tend to lean on what's familiar, but I'm learning to lean into God more and to get my rest! This video was for me! 🙏🏾❤️
Thank you so much for having this open form for us. God thank you for all these women ,please keep this going so we are able to grow,and run towards you. WE MUST depend on you for every situation. You are a God that will never fail. Even when we can not see the change, you are still God!!!!!
It gets you thinking...what are my idols? Why do I turn to them instead of turning to God? What comfort do they bring me that I can't trust God to give? My....I die daily!!
Love this & sharing to as many as possible! In this season, God is showing me how food has been an idol for me…He’s helping me change that; helping me remember to come to Him instead of self-medicating with food/junk… making progress daily by His grace 🙏🏼
God bless you Jackie, there's been so many times where God has put your videos in front of me when I'm dealing with exactly what I'm dealing with. All praise to Jesus for and your ministry.
Wow! Listening to Psalmist Raine: Morning Meets with God this morning, she definitely confirmed what God has been telling me and now here is Mrs. Perry doing the same. The word came from Col. 4:2
Temptation is intensified when God is refining us You want something to make u feel secure and comforted - do I got to my typical idols to make me feel safe? OR do I lean into what God is trying to TEACH me and let HIM be my CRUTCH? When we identify what the crutch is and Remove them … we have to face ourselves . So we must identify them to be made whole/refined/perfected 1 way to Trust God > over our Idols -what am I expecting of this idol -what is it that I want (comfort safety, a friend etc) Look to the scriptures and find that need that God can supply.i In that way God can exchange our weakness for his strength! POWER
I felt attacked when she said binge-watching and on your phone more lately. Whewww my God. I repent. I needed that knock on the head, to God be the Glory.
Exercise… trying to create something/ a businesss etc.. so I’ve had to do nothing and sometimes I feel bad. My idols seem good…. So waiting or not doing feels boring I. My sis has a career, boyfriend, home, travel and I want to have a life of my own againzzzz
My husband liked me more when I was unhealed with him. I am not sorry that I believe God is the way, the truth, and the light! The one thing I cant say to him is "well you need to catch up," because my husband needs to choose God for himself like I did. This is my long suffering, but my patience is with the Lord; not that thought that one day my husband will change. I I wait on that, I will surely be bitter. I choose God, my joy and peace.
"Some people like you unhealed." That statement is so true. We must beware of those people. This was powerful. Thank you.
Yes it is !
@@michellecollins4301 We also need to understand that your OWN flesh likes you unhealed. When they were talking about your relationships pushing you back towards what's familiar I was like wow. With me it's not even my relationships. It's just me lol
Ouu that's so true
Yep! And sometimes it subconscious
This is one of the biggest revelations I’ve ever had over the past few months. ❤
WOW “temptation is intensified when God is refining us” so GOOD!!! I needed that word ❤
I watched this because I wanted to hear Jackie Hill Perry speak because she brings such depth to a subject matter. However, for the first time, I realized, while listening to the other women, and waiting for Jackie to chime in with something else salient, I discovered how much I need the broader perspective of women. I struggle in women circles and therefore don’t prefer them or attending women’s conferences. Nevertheless, in this moment, my soul realizes that it’s missing something. I need to find my tribe that can stretch me, sharpen me and help me to connect to with what’s real about me.
Me too! I'd love to connect
I've been using food as comfort to self soothe. Wow. I needed this. The last 4 years have been extremely hard. I've leaned into God but not enough to pull me from the food idol. This was so needed.
Me too! That, meaningless shopping and even sleeping if I wake up troubled. We r all needing to lean in and listen to Holy Spirit ❤
Yess! Me too.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Me too. I just want to leave earth. I am trying to get over a recent betrayal. I feel like I am drowning.
@@watermelonlover745 I understand a bit about betrayal I lost what I thought were 3 people very close to me at the same time, I swear I went thru the death bereavement process , it hurt so much. Years later I realize that God, in his infinite wisdom , was removing idols and dead weight out of my life. Don’t give up. Pour your heart to the Lord. Jesus will give u strength and peace to get thru it, I promise ❤️
@@heather7119 my church threw out my family. It doesn't get darker than that
"Rest is not accommdation for human weakness, it was a part of God's design." Preach!!!
This is right on time!! I have been doing this all week because I had to let go of someone who meant so much to me. I told God I didn’t want to grieve this pain anymore so I started to bury it with watching TikTok videos, mind you I didn’t even have it on my phone I downloaded after a year of getting off. I wanted to laugh so that I wouldn’t have to cry. I didn’t want to be vulnerable anymore because I felt like I’ve been vulnerable this entire time only to be heartbroken. The Lord showed me that I needed to let go of this person but I know that He is going to do something big in my life through healing, wholeness, and total restoration.
I also just deleted tiktok. I was using it to search for answers instead of turning to God. May God help us , and strengthen us.
th-cam.com/users/shortsykJaYageG4M?feature=share
Proud of you,
I know thats a very hard thing to do but it totally shows your love and trust in the Lord 💛
@@by.danadora Thank You💜
Hi Sarah, I just wanted to encourage you. I also went through/am going through something similar rn. Sometimes I still miss that person, so I've been trying to remind myself that if I don't have God, I have nothing. Thank you for reminding me of the goodness of God ♡
Be deliberate and intentional with our time with God. One of the issues I had was setting boundaries (this is my time with God) and learned the Power of No
Powerful ❤❤❤
This ❤❤❤
th-cam.com/users/shortsykJaYageG4M?feature=share
OOOO she said "SOME PEOPLE LIKE YOU UNHEALED" A WORD! 8:49 That deserved a moment of silence
YES!💯👏 That one hit me hard too🥊
💯%! Smh...That’s Deep.
Mine is food, stress gummies, melatonin, and sleep. I’m always alone no matter how many people are around. I stay in my own head 24/7
Temptation is intensified when God is refining us....... I needed to hear this Lord, thank you
“It could be binge watching Netflix” wow that could not ever be more specific to me God is good!
The Sabbath that was instituted before the fall was given to us as a blessing to reflect on the very things these ladies are speaking us, as well us rest in the Creator that didn’t just speak the existence of our planet in 6 days, but can speak what we need in our lives. The 7th day Sabbath where he rested, blessed and made holy at creation gives us an uninterrupted 24hrs when we don’t have a job we need to go to, to reflect on that. What a blessing!
“When I’m quiet fear and din will bubble to the surface…” Oh my goodness that’s me. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
When we build a home in others, we become homeless when they're no longer available to us. Build your home in God, you'll never be homeless❤
Same story Jesus told. Building a house on sand vs building on the Rock. Anyone or anything, whether good or bad, is building on sand if it's not built on Him. Problem is, we LOVE sand castles.
💯%!
🌟✨LEARN TO TRUST GOD, FOR HE NEVER FAILS 🌟✨
“Temptation intensify when God is refining us” 😭😩 now it makes sense.
Jackie is such a beautiful blessing in this generation. Argh 😍
This session was beautiful. Rest, Therapy, Reflelct, and being honest with the Lord, Trust and lean on the Lord.❤
LOVE Miss Jackie👏❤️ Everything she says is so on point🎯💯 This girl has the Holy ghost in her 🕊🙌🔥
I'm fighting the good fight against cancer and The Joy of the LORD is my strength
Glory be to God. He will see you through. Continue to trust in the Lord with all your heart!❤
Praying for your healing in the powerful name of Jesus!
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This whole conversation was fully loaded!!! Whew! Praise God. May He walk with us all thru our struggles. ❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽✨✨✨
This is good! I was literally reading Isaiah and when God was discussing idols. I immediately knew what my idol was-busy and men validation as a result of feeling uncertain/out of control and when I am feeling undervalue. I realized I was spiraling after a conversation with my biological father (who I do not have a close relationship with). I thank God for revealing the idol and the cause for it. It is very freeing and I feel empowered. I noticed I was spiraling since it happened on Friday and now, it is Tuesday.
This was on time I literally prayed and ask God to remove distraction away from my life so I can sit in His presence this literally an answer prayer 🤎🙏
Love this ❤️🙏🏾 I think we get so frustrated with the unknown so we turn back to what is familiar (idols). Thank you for the confirmation that one needs to rest in God.
This vulnerability is touching my heart right now. You ladies sharing about your weakness is about to SAVE LIVES.
This is good!!! Lets not forget food. It’s a tough one to admit.🙏🏽
Yes! Food can be a sneaky distraction. Often used for boredom, reward, company, even sensual pleasure. We need to gather up our God given self- discipline and learn to eat in a healthier manner. ♥️
This is sooooooo good! Absolutely wonderful! I am on sabbatical (not for travel but for the silo). It has been LIFE CHANGING & has truly helped me be alone with God, myself, and come face to face with all the things the Lord is/has brought up for me to grow, heal, rest, etc. I bless God for this word and ministry. 🙌🏽🙏🏽
Since early childhood we (most, if not all) have been conditioned by adults, cartoons, movies, books, etc. to seek comfort in things such as teddy bears, dolls, "security" blankets, food/candy and so on 😕
Fast forward to adulthood, most of the "comfort items" being pushed/glorified have the potential to become an unhealthy coping mechanism if one doesn't recognize the correlation.
I'm so glad more and more people are snapping out of the world's "mental manipulation trance" and seeking Christ Jesus and therapy.
I absolutely love how JHP is authentically herself in all situations 💕
ALL situations….so true
Truth on the dance analogy. Many of my sins are instrumental in keeping an unhealthy calm. Following Christ is going to require the end of people pleasing behaviors .
Lisa’s explanation of changing the dance up makes so much sense
“Some people like you unhealed.” 😢🎯🎯
Thank you!!! Discipline yourself to lean in and trust God. It's not a quick fix.
I thank God for all these women. I have a family and community in them. Very relatable and i bless God for them. ❤️❤️❤️
"I justify myself by doing". This is revelatory for me. I realize God has been working this out in me but this statement made it make sense. There is a pride here, a stroke to the ego and that's sin. Trust God and do good. Powerful!
She said I justify myself but doing that blessed me, and that helped me in my personal life
I love this women’s voice J H P and the other one with orange top they healing to my soul ThankGod for all of them ❤
Such a great message about idolatry.
I said to God today that I need help to trust in His sovereignty because when I feel things are out of my control (vulnerable) I lean to my own understanding to bring comfort. I know that God is Sovereign. I have trusted in the idol of "control" to make me feel comfortable.
Wow this is beautiful & I know everyone has gone through this at some point. I remember the times I’d be watching anime & other things going through my parents divorced but realizes that no matter how much I leaned to it, I was never healed. I had to deal with my pain still & it didn’t go away through it & give it to God as a preteen & going to teens at that time. It sure wasn’t easy but it really taught me to give God my brokenness & knowing he is more than enough & ONLY He can truly save. God really saved my life & it is a gift to still be alive today. As a young woman I know other things are trying to get my attention & it is a battle every day. When there the things are not appearing as harmful at first.
So nice seeing Jackie here!🤗
Amen!
I love Jackie so much God blessed her with the gift of speaking and explaining things in a way that’s so brilliant but yet relatable and understandable ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wow! I NEEDED this. Bc I like to distract myself bc I don't want to handle the pain & hurt. I have struggled with going to therapy. Jen! U nailed it! Just had this conversation with 2 of my brothers! We're now people and the ones that know us don't like it! Ty JHP!
This is exactly what I have been working on, being healed and totally Trusting God. This blessed me!!
I have multiple crutches that she said that don’t seem in itself sinful. I don’t watch shows that may have problematic themes but I would watch sports content all day or scroll through my phone longer than I should because there are things in my life that I don’t want to deal with it. I should be reading my word and being more prayerful. I am absolutely stuck.
I so needed this message. I think God for you ladies.
So much wisdom in this!!!May God continue using these women to deliver more seemingly simple but powerful teachings to us.
I genuinely felt like my life/current situation was being read like a book while these women of God were speaking. Everything that was said was absolutely powerful. Wow.
This hit directly to me.
I love it!!! That topic is so relatable. When my head is spinning crazy, suddenly my phone would be a remedy when I rarely use it. Or it would be the coffee (very classic to me) that I buy to instantly soothe me. It's weird because sometimes i feel it is easier to go to God when all is fine than in crazy time
This was really good and a side note is I love the unique voice of Ms. Lisa. Your voice is a gift 🤗
It's so hard for me to let go of those idols and truly trust in God. You tend to lean on what's familiar, but I'm learning to lean into God more and to get my rest! This video was for me! 🙏🏾❤️
All up in my business! Mercy! This is SO needed. 🙏🏾🔥❤️
Mine is social media. Thank you Jackie.
I did that today i was thinking i want God to destroy my enemies but then i thought, what I truly want is justice.
Me finding this on a hard day, and finna watch a TH-cam video to distract .Thank you Jesus for this reminder 🥰🥰
Wow!!! So so timely, every word was speaking to me!!!! Wow! Thank you for this recognition in me
Thank you so much for having this open form for us. God thank you for all these women ,please keep this going so we are able to grow,and run towards you. WE MUST depend on you for every situation. You are a God that will never fail. Even when we can not see the change, you are still God!!!!!
It gets you thinking...what are my idols? Why do I turn to them instead of turning to God? What comfort do they bring me that I can't trust God to give? My....I die daily!!
Love this & sharing to as many as possible!
In this season, God is showing me how food has been an idol for me…He’s helping me change that; helping me remember to come to Him instead of self-medicating with food/junk… making progress daily by His grace 🙏🏼
why is Jackie so good.
I know. So wise and deep
AMEN I LOVE YOU AND WE ALL LOVE YOU LORD AND JESUS CHRIST AMEN🤍🙏🏾.
It is more easier to default to what is familiar than what is healthy even when it's harmful
Thank you ladies for sharing this powerful discussion. Spoke to me in a deep way
I just want to thank you ladies for all the positive, powerful messages that you all speak about so uplifting, inspiring and encouraging.
God bless you Jackie, there's been so many times where God has put your videos in front of me when I'm dealing with exactly what I'm dealing with. All praise to Jesus for and your ministry.
This message is so powerful 🙌🏾
God i need you in my life ❤️
Wow. Very timely in my season right now.
Some people like you unhealed‼️ Mercy Lord.
Wow there was so much wisdom, loved this conversation, is there a full/ longer video? This felt so short. Definitely sharing❤
This is *good* stuff, ladies! Thank you.
This is was absolutely wonderful. I had to save this episode and write everything down. God bless you all.
Love love love this. REAL.
This is soooo good , my goodness
this spoke to my heart big time 🥲
needed to hear this 😢
Wow! Listening to Psalmist Raine: Morning Meets with God this morning, she definitely confirmed what God has been telling me and now here is Mrs. Perry doing the same.
The word came from Col. 4:2
This is for me. Thank you ladies
I love these women, such a great take
This is an entire word!
This was so good and just what I needed to hear thank you
So grateful for JHP
I been saying that I need tools , resources and help
Temptation is intensified when God is refining us
You want something to make u feel secure and comforted
- do I got to my typical idols to make me feel safe?
OR do I lean into what God is trying to TEACH me and let HIM be my CRUTCH?
When we identify what the crutch is and Remove them … we have to face ourselves . So we must identify them to be made whole/refined/perfected
1 way to Trust God > over our Idols
-what am I expecting of this idol -what is it that I want (comfort safety, a friend etc)
Look to the scriptures and find that need that God can supply.i
In that way God can exchange our weakness for his strength!
POWER
This was sooo good!!! 🙏🙌🏻❤️
I felt attacked when she said binge-watching and on your phone more lately. Whewww my God. I repent. I needed that knock on the head, to God be the Glory.
I needed this )) thank you so much, you are a blessing))
I needed this 🙌
Beautiful conversation
What a great conversation! So many gems 💎
This is so good 🙏🏽
4:41 wow….
This is so so good!
Exercise… trying to create something/ a businesss etc.. so I’ve had to do nothing and sometimes I feel bad. My idols seem good…. So waiting or not doing feels boring I. My sis has a career, boyfriend, home, travel and I want to have a life of my own againzzzz
This was exactly what I needed
My husband liked me more when I was unhealed with him. I am not sorry that I believe God is the way, the truth, and the light! The one thing I cant say to him is "well you need to catch up," because my husband needs to choose God for himself like I did. This is my long suffering, but my patience is with the Lord; not that thought that one day my husband will change. I I wait on that, I will surely be bitter. I choose God, my joy and peace.
Please pray for me. Thank you,
It’s easier to default to what is familiar over what’s healthy 😮FACTS 8:10
this is wonderful thank you so much!!
This video came exactly the time i need this :(
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