He needs to trust her & her upbringing. He DOESN'T NEED TO be in the gynecologist's examining room with her, making her real ashamed. He's damaging their relationship. Tiny needs to put a stop to it. It's NOT CUTE AT ALL!
Deyjha is very smart and she sees through her father’s bullshit. She knows Tip is a manipulator and that he does the things he does on purpose, and when he gets caught he tries to manipulate people into thinking he had good intentions. I hope she distances herself from him, because he’s overly possessive controlling and toxic
It’s so sad that he didn’t take her feelings into consideration before he went out and publicly embarrassed her in front of the world like that...nobody would want their father to do something like that
The crazy part is she seems like such a mature, smart and responsible girl. There’s no reason to treat your daughter this way, I feel bad that she has to deal with that bs coming from her father..who wouldn’t look at him differently. He’s gonna ruin their bond and relationship and push her away
She gone let her kid get fucked and trained🤦♂️ after this. Now everytime her kid asks to go out or be with a boy she gone automatically say yes bc of what happened ti her
thisis crybaby skooda. i have a comment. i think that the both tiny and ti. harris both raised her well. i think to be ti.'s more hands on. as a father BUT a spoken father.
@@tankwilliams317 I would have let her go through the motions while holding her. Damn that, we as black parents need to love OUR babies through it all right now! Damn letting her go thru the motions. That's me tho everyone is different obviously. 🤷
Chill it was all said and done for promoting the show and his podcast. Who bothered about TI's daughter before the show? You think all of this isnt scripted? You gotta be one gullible little thing to be blind to that.
Y'all tripping don't you understand this is silly and Petty I dad can do one little little thing y'all want to cry a river oh the pain y'all are sick you humans are sick
And then you name yourself boujee LOL SMH so what your boyfriend do didn't take out the trash and you had to go see a therapist you and you women in the comments are sick
Like most parents, T.I loves his boys and raise his girls. This is why girls deal with more depression and is easily lead out from under parental control. Parents push the girls away by oppressing them.
Every since I've noticed her on the show... I can see her depression at that time & her insecurity. She looked like an outcast for the longest on the show.
TI has serious respect and boundary issues. He admitted to being a narcissist but seriously seems to have zero interest in changing his behavior. I feel bad for Deyjah because she seems so reserved and when she does make statements on social media it sounds like she's crying for help. This child needs healing...like yesterday.
I truly disagree she does not have the right to be upset for a father taking care of his child and his responsibilities as a father everybody needs to mind there business
I think that comment about him playing the victim is gonna get her in trouble with him when he sees it. I hope not. 😔 She really needs a long cleansing restart break alone/ w besties and get control of her life and come back like the beautiful butterfly that she is and was meant to be 🦋✨🦋🌸🤗
@@keishaterrell1935 it's good she let it out. Hopefully she wins with that however it turns out for her. She was telling how she really felt. She grew up under him she knows what we never saw. "he always plays victim". At least she gave us a chance to know so with that quote he can be challenged. Like what did she mean you always play victim? She felt that for a reason.
This baby has a calling on her life. It’s written all over her ! and yes she is a lot different from her family Because she maybe the one to break generational curses in her family.. mark my words!! She is going to walk in her calling !
hope smith right !!!!!! The quiet ones are the truly anointed ones , it’s always the people that others least expect that God chooses. True anointing isn’t easy to come by but you know it when you see it!
@@Princess_spartan he said he did it because she snuck out the house one time to go see a boy. I understand that but he didn't have to tell the world he did it. He embarrassed the child all over again and this time the world is watching.
So, he made insensitive comments about his daughter on social media and she needs to come to him about how she feels about it? As the father he should of ran to her and asked her about her feelings.
He is disgusting. You can tell she has been through some things even when she was younger she always looked so sad to me. I hope she can work through this.
Tip with his "honey I'm home for a while". Until I heal from these STD OK ? Tiny is always reaching out to touch him, not Him touching her .HAVE anyone else notice?? Check out all of the episodes
@@jaywdf: Even worse; her value is determined via her vagina, in this case, given when he started that practice. I wonder, what happened in T.I.'s childhood, that made him think what he's doing to his daughter is acceptable? What he's doing is about him, not her.
@@Solutions3000 It may be more about what he does to women and so he is acting on his fear of not wanting what he does to happen to her. Not to say that his childhood doesn't play a role.
Tarik HHH he went on a podcast to say he takes her to an obgyn to check to see if she’s a virgin which isn’t even something you can check. How is that not embarrassing for millions of people to hear and blogs are eating it up.
@@Richiebitchiesexyshmexy it's fine to be a virgin but the fact that he made it clear to everyone that he takes his daughter to the gyno is horrific. It's already humiliating for your dad to do that mind you she's legally an adult and then he made jr clear to the world. That's disgusting
He's not using this for a storyline. They wanted us to see this instead of speculating. Dehjah wouldn't have filmed with the show if she didn't want us to see it... Tiny said they all wanted us to see how they dealt with this situation as a family.
Umm she is going to have sex eventually. He can't protect her forever. She is 18 years old. And he is ok with his sons having sex at a young age. Disgusting!!
@Derek Fisher That's not what I said. I said eventually it will happen because that's what most people do. He can't protect her from having sex forever. If she decides to give it up at 19 or 20 then what is he going to do?
This is a straight up sign that T.I. Is narcissistic. He doesn’t feel like she is her own person he believes his daughter is a direct extension of himself. He blatantly takes her privacy. It’s as if he is trying to give her the message that her body is NOT her body. It’s his.
Well, duh... Why would he want his daughter to end up with someone like him?? Is that what you all want for her or something?? She's a sweet girl and she deserves a good man.. not a man who will just use her for sex..
@@blacknmild The point is he was suppose to set the example of a good man, father, and husband. Not expect his daughter to right his wrongs through her life. She would make her own decisions that's best for her and if she has to learn let her learn on her own just like Reginae but don't embarrass the girl, worst yet for things she hasn't even done yet. This was so unnecessary and attention seeking of Tip
I'm gonna be honest right...SHE IS NOT gonna look at him the same, I'm sorry to say but he just ruined a perfectly loving relationship with his daughter cause trust me when I say dejha is gonna remember this and hold it agsints him dont believe me just watch.
Not making this a race issue, but it’s a common thing In [dysfunctional] black household for your family to “tell your business” it hurts&you feel betrayed. We’ve been so conditioned to love those who hurt us.... it’s sad to see her hurting Edit: I don’t think it’s weird he went with her to the gynecologist. I’m Sure Other Dads Have had to take their daughter to uncomfortable appts. She is WELL OVER AGE [patient/doctor confidentiality] and could tell him to leave IF SHE WANTED ..... the embarrassment came from him telling the ENTIRE WORLD on Social Media 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@@neshapruitt4756 The thing is...HE IS FORCING HER TO DO THESE THINGS AND FORCING TO HER TO GO TO THE GYNECOLOGIST. He was even in the room when she was under the procedure. That man is a narcissist and DOESENT deserve a daughter like her bro. Now I see why she feels like an outcast. And tiny with her Human doll built self is so STUPID. Taking this man's side. Your going to take someones side who said in a podcast to his millions of supporters that your "vagina" belongs to him and you cant stop him from having sex with you. THAT ENTIRE FAMILY IS CORRUPT.
Coz this is a scripted show. She got make up on and ur seeing her through the lens. You think TI isnt aware of what she's up to. TI promoted his daughter. It was all planned.
@Dats a paddlin I think that's also plays a part in his whole narcissistic aura. I'm pretty sure Deyjah mentioned something about being cut off. Basically, like 'fall in line, or get out' household. T.I. is seriously fucked in the head! POS father.
I think he's better than most black men out there. He has a long & happy marriage; he's a family man. Let this girl stop berating this man for a mistake. Everyone makes mistakes. She's lucky to have a father who's taking care of her. She has no idea what most of her peers have to go through just to survive.
Now that these allegations came out about her dad, I wonder if her situation is deeper than what she is speaking on. It seems as if something else went down by her emotions
Deyjah is/was very depressed, she talks about it it all the time on her Instagram and gives an in depth detail about her mental health. Even before the virginity incident she was depressed. I don't put nothing past TI, he is more evil and arrogant than he portrays. But when you have discernment you can see right through him.
Boys needs to whooped in the behind by real men!!! Maybe they b different! However I still love men!! There is someone for everyone u just need to wait!!!!
The child even said that she doesn't know why or how come the gynecologist let's him in , he was even so disrespectful 😠 to say she needed to come to him and say he did something wrong , a real father who actually cares about their child feelings would have pulled her aside and apologize because he humiliated her to the entire world , but I guess he is too much of an asshole or a narcissist sociopath to do so they always right regardless if others are hurt by their actions
She made me cry cause I have a teenager daughter an when her dad treat me bad she don't like it an she feels different about him now. So I understand her feeling sum kind of way now about her Dad.
She is such a sweet girl. When she said she couldn't say no that hurt. Imagine how this could translate into her romantic relationship. Beautiful daughter, narcissistic dad!
"He'll play the victim" That hit home for me because my father gaslit me like this throughout my childhood too!! He leaned on me in ways a 10/11-year-old shouldn't have because of his alcoholism causing my parents to divorce. I became his rock and his sober companion before even hitting middle school throughout my parent's separation. I grew to become resentful of him and our relationship never fully recovered. I still can't speak to him for real about how he impacted my early life without him giving himself a pity party! I pray she can heal because I know from experience it is not easy.
They didn’t hug her, because it would have drawn attraction and she would have been in a position where she would have been forced to explain to her father her issue with him. She needed a moment of space to just talk about the issue who could understand. My heart truly goes out to her
I'm not saying what he is doing to her is right, but don't get it twisted 9 times out of 10 when a female gets pregnant she ends up being the primary care taker for that child if the couple splits. In this situation T.I. will be taking care of both her and the baby. That's why the situation is a little different then the boys IMO.
that's the whole problem the female is the primary caretaker of the baby. We live in a society where it's okay for a male to abandon his responsibility as long as he pays child support. Men (not all) raise their sons to be irresponsible when it comes to having sex.
Exactly I already been looking at T.I. talking ass a little different before he this too his daughter but now since he did that I don't have no respect for him. Seems bizzare to be putting her business out like that and give that girl some privacy if she wanted to have sex that's what she's going to do and he can't do a dam thing about it. Tiny and T. I. sit up there and king do what he wanna do but have the gall to be doing Deyjah like that then tiny short talking i'm just the step mama. I have step kids too but they know I don't play and I love them dearly but I will never put their business out there
She's seems like a beautiful soul, who's sensitive and gentle. Like she's has to constantly push down her feelings with no one there to turn to. And the cousins may mean well, but they seem to be off in their ability to truly comfort and love her. They seem like they're meddling. TI seems out of touch with handling women issues. Either way, who goes to the gyno with their dad? Why couldn't Mom go or an Aunt or Grandma? It seems like there's more going on here, than meets the eye. I wish she'd tell her story, it seems like she's been thru some things.
Daisy Jones She didn’t deserve to be embarrassed by her father like that, what the person said was not jealousy, being toxic, or disgusting all she said was that Deyjah deserves an unproblematic/ drama free life
Bnisha 04 I feel like as a father he was only trying to protect her. Maybe he could have gone about it a different way, but I don’t think his intention was to hurt her ....
This situation shows that she’s scarred by the actions of her father and it’s so sad that her narcissistic father can’t see how his actions has severely impacted deyjah and his family.
I went to the gynecologist for the first right before I went to college when I was 18. I can’t imagine going before the age of 18. Wow! I’m glad Deyjah is being supported by the women around her.🙏💙
I have a dad exactly like TI and I completely understand where Deyjahs coming from when she expresses that it’s hard to relay emotions to him. Narcissistic parents- cause that’s exactly what he is- ALWAYS think their feelings and opinions are the most important feelings and opinions above anyone else’s. They never want to admit when they’re wrong and eventually you learn that in order to keep the peace with them it’s better to keep your hurt and negative emotions to yourself in order to keep up the false allusion of positivity. Dad’s like this are especially harder on their daughters because they attribute being a protector and a provider for their child as being synonymous with possessiveness and control. It truly is a very thin line with them. And unfortunately it doesn’t really get easier to talk to them as you get older.
Have you ever felt like he was having sexual thoughts about u and him? No disrespect intended, just don't understand what makes a father want to see his daughter legs open on a table.
Peaceful Beginnings No, never that. The protective/possessive part is more so like Mama bear mode on x100 To them everything outside of their teachings and their parenting feels like a threat to your safety. These are the type of dads who would 100% wrap you in bubblewrap and keep you in a protective hamster ball if they could as long as it means you’re safe. It may seem nice and caring to an outsider, but ultimately the manipulation and refusal to let you experience ANYTHING hinders your growth and you end up missing out on vital developmental experiences. While I definitely don’t think MY dad would have gone that far, mainly because he’s never been the type to discuss those sort of things with me, I do understand TI’s strange reasoning as to why he thought it was ok. He thinks that this is what an active parent does. And no one has ever provided that boundary for him. He’s equated his daughter’s virginity with him being a good father. For him: Virginity= great dad No virginity= Failure
M. J.P. I do honestly believe they can if they want to, but first they have to work on letting go of control. Because often times they feel like they never had control of their own lives growing up, so they feel like control is the only way to love someone.
I'm 31 yrs old and started crying when she did. My dad isnt as bad as T.I. n never crossed those boundaries but he def had T.I. tendencies. When she talked about how their relationship would change n all that. I felt that!!! Dads don't understand their position in their daughter's lives all the time.
Poor Deyjah. She's quiet & thoughtful but still gets picked apart for no reason. Seems she just wants peaceful & private, surroundings, which isn't much. ❤️😔
I understand that’s her Dad but he should’ve thought before opening his mouth. Honestly, I pray that it doesn’t put a strain on their relationship because that would be messed up completely
Well I think it depends on their already existent relationship. If it was toxic thsn it will already be strained, if it was good then their will be some distance now. It will never be the same. I.m.o
i really am rooting for her. she’s such a gorgeous, mature, and level headed girl. i see so much of myself in her. i pray she continues to use her voice to shed light on depression and her struggles. 💕💕💕 God loves you girl.
This is disgusting disrespectful and borderline perverted. As a man to go and be in the room with your daughter at an intimate appointment is another level. She has a mum, a step mum and sisters. And to joke about your under age son doing sexual things and applauding it is also inappropriate and disgusting.
Deyjah expressed her feelings & it's what I've thought all along, she's always in the background & feels like because she's not going after anything in the entertainment industry that she's a wallflower. Watching 1st couple of seasons, you can see this. I'm so glad she's starting to use her voice. T.I. is a bully parent who is so closed minded, has his beliefs only & that will push the kids away that he bullies. Proud of her finally expressing herself.
The concept of protecting your family's personal business and disregarding those values ( because you felted like you're entitled too?) is pure narcissism. No wonder king doesn't respect his own father.
It's kinda weird that the gynecologist doctor let T.I go in the room during her appointments etc ( because I know after a certain age the doctors asks the parents to step out of the room to asks questions etc) plus shouldn't her mom be the one to go with her 🤔 This whole situation is embarrassing to be honest.
@@thatsjamiee yes he worried about her being with a man like him. He arrogant he is disrespect his own wife and he dont listen to women not even his mother!!! He is a asshole.... He a cheater and he manipulative.
I was raised by my dad!! But he wouldn’t have said that about me!! He was very over protective!!! But as a Jamaican he don’t even talk like that!! I hurt for her😒
She seems like such a wonderful young lady... my heart hurts for her and what she's been through (this situation and life in general). I hope she can heal from her father's wrong doings.
As a woman that can relate to her. Being the quiet one, always dealing with issues that nobody seem to noticed, I feel her. Not only is it embarrassing for it to be in the family, but also to millions of people.......... It should just be a mom and daughter thing PRIVATELY
Lol poor dayjay i hope things get better for her and ti need to sit tf down somewhere and stop telling all is daughter business i wonder how he'll feel if dayjay told his business
The fact that he doesn’t see or understand why she’s upset even on this trip let’s you know that he doesn’t care about anyone but himself. My heart breaks for her.. you can tell she’s holding in a lot.
This the same young lady tiny was coming at over social media? She seems so sweet. How you gonna defend this man's role as a father, he couldn't even uphold his role as a husband. Smh!!!!!
I have never heard Tiny come at her. In fact when Tip and Tiny broke up she was on Instagram praising her relationship with Tiny. I have never heard Tiny ever say anything bad about any of their kids. In fact she is a little over supportive sometimes
Was he at the head or the foot of this examination? If he actually looked up there, that's even more traumatizing for this young woman. Why couldn't a woman be there with her?
I know this situation is old now. But I hope he saw how he made his daughter feel. This was heartbreaking and she clearly has feelings she was never able to address with him. I hope for her sake she can heal from all her trauma and move on and not let those scars affect her adult life. Life is too short as it is.
She’s such a sweet young lady. T.I really violated her on this issue, let her Mom deal with this topic. Then, to speak publicly about your daughter’s business!!!
From her pranks to cute moments with her siblings, relive Deyjah’s best moments on The Family Hustle: th-cam.com/video/MCRZf1xTacw/w-d-xo.html
Yea
That’s not her best moments. All that were seeing is ti harassing and making his daughter uncomfortable
Omg he really broke her heart... smh
@@trgilchrist5110ä878 !u]to
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She’s so beautiful.
When your own daughter says you play victim a lot, that’s sad.
He needs to trust her & her upbringing. He DOESN'T NEED TO be in the gynecologist's examining room with her, making her real ashamed. He's damaging their relationship. Tiny needs to put a stop to it. It's NOT CUTE AT ALL!
Omg i said that to my dad and he denied and, once again, played victim. It really is sad
That's the same with my dad sadly
Deyjha is very smart and she sees through her father’s bullshit. She knows Tip is a manipulator and that he does the things he does on purpose, and when he gets caught he tries to manipulate people into thinking he had good intentions. I hope she distances herself from him, because he’s overly possessive controlling and toxic
Narcissists always plays victims
It’s so sad that he didn’t take her feelings into consideration before he went out and publicly embarrassed her in front of the world like that...nobody would want their father to do something like that
What happened
Exactly, I wonder how he treats her when the cameras are off?
mrttamara WHAT HAPPEND
Za’maria World i think they’re talking abt when he said the stuff about her gynecologist but ifk
Chelle I’m a child idk what dat mean LMAOOO
The crazy part is she seems like such a mature, smart and responsible girl. There’s no reason to treat your daughter this way, I feel bad that she has to deal with that bs coming from her father..who wouldn’t look at him differently. He’s gonna ruin their bond and relationship and push her away
She is, that's his first child to seriously go to college and isnt crazy. Her and NiqNiq are so mature and chilled. Them boys tho 😂
@@daniellesibiya9826 yes the boys seem wilder.
Giselle Lozoya m.th-cam.com/video/ss6hGMDxviU/w-d-xo.html
Off topic @ Giselle Lozoya your profile pic is really pretty..lol
What happened
When she said "I'll be a better parent" 🥺🥺
She is one more beautiful young lady
She gone let her kid get fucked and trained🤦♂️ after this. Now everytime her kid asks to go out or be with a boy she gone automatically say yes bc of what happened ti her
Wowww!! Exactly
I have to say Dayjah’s mother did well raising her!! She is well spoken and very well articulate!
I agree. Keep in mind she goes to private school that TI pays
Ti raised her too
The same mom that didn’t let her daughter have a choice in disclosing virginity checks? The same one that let her become damaged like this?
thisis crybaby skooda. i have a comment. i think that the both tiny and ti. harris both raised her well. i think to be ti.'s more hands on. as a father BUT a spoken father.
Tiny is her stepmom. She has a different biological mother.
When she was crying I wanted to hug her so bad! Why didn't they hug her dang? Poor baby
Had to let her go
Thru the motion first let her release it all first
@@tankwilliams317 I would have let her go through the motions while holding her. Damn that, we as black parents need to love OUR babies through it all right now! Damn letting her go thru the motions. That's me tho everyone is different obviously. 🤷
@@marcelsmith3510 i agree💙
@Marcel Smith I agree with you, seriously. I just wanted to hug her while watching this ❤️‼️
They probably hugged her but they just didn't show it
One day she’s going to write a book about her dad. MARK MY WORDS!!!
And I’m gon read tf outta it
Tenisa White me too 😂😂😂 I am so nosey 😂
@@babedavis1263 me too. No lie 😭😭😭
Yep! And I’m going to read every page. He worries her. Something is off between him and her. She’s not with his BS! She’s deep and he’s not!
MsSocial Armstrong yes something is very off
The guy who says he tries so hard to protect her is also the guy behind her pain. Ain't that somethin?
@Brittany Jacqueline you better say that
Hit the nail right on the head
Chill it was all said and done for promoting the show and his podcast. Who bothered about TI's daughter before the show? You think all of this isnt scripted? You gotta be one gullible little thing to be blind to that.
Y'all tripping don't you understand this is silly and Petty I dad can do one little little thing y'all want to cry a river oh the pain y'all are sick you humans are sick
And then you name yourself boujee LOL SMH so what your boyfriend do didn't take out the trash and you had to go see a therapist you and you women in the comments are sick
The misogyny runs deep in this family...
Hey lennon the bunny ❤ was not expecting to see you here.
God ain't put me here first for you.
@@ryeanneewing1620 loooolz me too
@@arylykos5148 ???
@@chrisjones1032 u sound insecure mate
Like most parents, T.I loves his boys and raise his girls. This is why girls deal with more depression and is easily lead out from under parental control. Parents push the girls away by oppressing them.
Is this acceptable, though?
Mann and they just never see the pain they cause
@@kingmacio absolutely not
I highly doubt girls deal with depression more
@@Memphis_ritz why do you doubt that?
T.I thinks he’s smarter then he really is.
Best comment ever! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Thank you
This! And a lot of his fans are fooled too. He has a lack of respect for the women in his life.
Girl and ppl are so fooled!! He is not smart at all. He doesn’t even use the “big words” he knows in the right context.
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He shouldn’t have done this. This is honestly disrespectful. Deyjah has a history of dealing with depression, imagine how this impacted her. Smh
Every since I've noticed her on the show... I can see her depression at that time & her insecurity. She looked like an outcast for the longest on the show.
TI has serious respect and boundary issues. He admitted to being a narcissist but seriously seems to have zero interest in changing his behavior.
I feel bad for Deyjah because she seems so reserved and when she does make statements on social media it sounds like she's crying for help.
This child needs healing...like yesterday.
@@indiamodest3275 because of what happened to her at a young age.... social media is going to go crazy and drag TI even more if the truth come out
I truly disagree she does not have the right to be upset for a father taking care of his child and his responsibilities as a father everybody needs to mind there business
Kelby Johnson T.i should’ve not put that type of business out there.
"He always plays the victim." It's so traumatizing to have a narcissistic parent who continuously disregard your feelings.
Yes.....my father is very narcissistic and I haven't spoken to him in years
@@taylordowning2533 sadly I have the same situation...smh
TI is Raising King to be exactly like him and he doesn't even know it
I think that comment about him playing the victim is gonna get her in trouble with him when he sees it. I hope not. 😔 She really needs a long cleansing restart break alone/ w besties and get control of her life and come back like the beautiful butterfly that she is and was meant to be 🦋✨🦋🌸🤗
@@keishaterrell1935 it's good she let it out. Hopefully she wins with that however it turns out for her. She was telling how she really felt. She grew up under him she knows what we never saw. "he always plays victim". At least she gave us a chance to know so with that quote he can be challenged. Like what did she mean you always play victim? She felt that for a reason.
This baby has a calling on her life. It’s written all over her ! and yes she is a lot different from her family Because she maybe the one to break generational curses in her family.. mark my words!! She is going to walk in her calling !
Shuntae Baker ❤️❤️❤️❤️I totally agree.
We all have a calling in life!! We all are going to make mistakes from time to time bc we NOT perfect only Jesus is perfect!!!!!
I see it to and it's STRONG. Don't under estimate her because she quite.
hope smith right !!!!!! The quiet ones are the truly anointed ones , it’s always the people that others least expect that God chooses. True anointing isn’t easy to come by but you know it when you see it!
hope smith u believe that she is prophetic , I believe that I see the prophetic gifting in her !
When she was tryna keep everything together and she broke down crying I teared up :(
I’m irritated that they didn’t console her.
@@PinkDesires1 she could be one of the type of people that don’t like physical contact when emotional
@@Lovebug-nz8keshe probably is that way
She's so pretty. He hurt her feelings so bad...smh sigh
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It’s crazy he should be doing that to king n zonnique kus this girl she’s mature asf she’s respectful n bout her stuff she ain’t bout nun bad.
@@Princess_spartan he said he did it because she snuck out the house one time to go see a boy. I understand that but he didn't have to tell the world he did it. He embarrassed the child all over again and this time the world is watching.
nicky rosey what happened??
@@brat1738 he told the world he took her to the gynaecologist to check her hymen was still intact. The conversation went viral few months ago
So, he made insensitive comments about his daughter on social media and she needs to come to him about how she feels about it? As the father he should of ran to her and asked her about her feelings.
Then he tried to act like he didn’t know she was upset. He plays dumb.
Grace Turner exactly
Sometimes you cant because parents push how u feel off on everything else
Jada Amarye Exactly.
Right
He is disgusting. You can tell she has been through some things even when she was younger she always looked so sad to me. I hope she can work through this.
Yup notice her cryouts on Twitter. This baby needs some therapy.
😢
Yes, I noticed that too, she always seemed kinda distant from everyone else.
Me too, she always had the look of being sad and lonely. SO pretty to be so sad! She always tried to stay in the back ground
Tip with his "honey I'm home for a while". Until I heal from these STD OK ?
Tiny is always reaching out to touch him, not Him touching her .HAVE anyone else notice?? Check out all of the episodes
He setting her up to be a docile woman to a abusive man. He ia going to push her to the very person he doesnt want in her life.
THANK YOU! somebody said it, hes teaching her that shes some type of "possession" and that her worth is put down to her sex life.
@@jaywdf: Even worse; her value is determined via her vagina, in this case, given when he started that practice. I wonder, what happened in T.I.'s childhood, that made him think what he's doing to his daughter is acceptable? What he's doing is about him, not her.
@@Solutions3000 It may be more about what he does to women and so he is acting on his fear of not wanting what he does to happen to her. Not to say that his childhood doesn't play a role.
@@suras8984 Good point.
She said, "its okay to cry! You are human! We care about you. We love you"
Everybody needs a cousin like that, period! 💙
She needed a long hug on that beach. Maybe it wasn’t shown..
Seriously I wanted to jump up and reach through the screen and hugged her. That’s a very traumatizing experience to go through in FRONT OF THE WORLD
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that's what I was thinking I felt so bad :(
Yesss!
EXACTLY !
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i feel so bad for this girl, this is honestly humiliating
How is being a virgin "humiliating" ?
Right
Putting her damn Personal Business
Out
SMH🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾
Black N Mild girl putting your daughters business out there on the internet is “humiliating”
Me too
Black N Mild i never said there’s anything wrong with that. regardless if she is or isn’t a virgin, that’s none of our damn business.
A parent would act like this and wonder why when the child is grown they never come around no more
She’s such a humble nice girl you can tell she respects herself. Even by her tone and how soft she is
T.I. embarrassed the F out of her. And he's so disrespectful to Tiny also. Disgusting towards females. No longer a fan.
Exactly,
It’s embarrassing to be a virgin?
Tarik HHH he went on a podcast to say he takes her to an obgyn to check to see if she’s a virgin which isn’t even something you can check. How is that not embarrassing for millions of people to hear and blogs are eating it up.
@@Richiebitchiesexyshmexy it's fine to be a virgin but the fact that he made it clear to everyone that he takes his daughter to the gyno is horrific. It's already humiliating for your dad to do that mind you she's legally an adult and then he made jr clear to the world. That's disgusting
@@Richiebitchiesexyshmexy You're an idiot. Typical male missing the point and trying to make excuses for other misogynistic men.
Wow TI is trash to use this for a storyline, and joking about your male kid becoming a baby daddy..how much more toxic can it get
He's not using this for a storyline. They wanted us to see this instead of speculating. Dehjah wouldn't have filmed with the show if she didn't want us to see it... Tiny said they all wanted us to see how they dealt with this situation as a family.
I think it was a story line from the beginning...he did on purpose for ratings...Smh
@@mykb8069 preach
Idk how old I am, if my daddy makes me uncomfortable I’m leaving.
No family is perfect. Evidently the daughter wanted this in the show.
Umm she is going to have sex eventually. He can't protect her forever. She is 18 years old. And he is ok with his sons having sex at a young age. Disgusting!!
I felt love be but he was in love differently u should made ur family was the truth
@Derek Fisher That's not what I said. I said eventually it will happen because that's what most people do. He can't protect her from having sex forever. If she decides to give it up at 19 or 20 then what is he going to do?
@Derek Fisher you're literally the typical male. Just mixed the hell out of her words
Derek Fisher she is grown she can do what she wants
She’s 19 now
This is a straight up sign that T.I. Is narcissistic. He doesn’t feel like she is her own person he believes his daughter is a direct extension of himself. He blatantly takes her privacy. It’s as if he is trying to give her the message that her body is NOT her body. It’s his.
this girl is like 19 and still is being bossed around by her dad, WHAT
She doesn't know differently; this has always been her life.
It seems like he causes most of her anxiety and depression smh..she needs to cry to release...
It’s so sad because she seems to be such an awesome girl but he is a narcissist
He’s the typical manipulative male narcissist! He’s just afraid that she’ll meet someone like him! 🤷🏾♀️
Facts!!!!!
Well, duh... Why would he want his daughter to end up with someone like him?? Is that what you all want for her or something?? She's a sweet girl and she deserves a good man.. not a man who will just use her for sex..
@@blacknmild The point is he was suppose to set the example of a good man, father, and husband. Not expect his daughter to right his wrongs through her life. She would make her own decisions that's best for her and if she has to learn let her learn on her own just like Reginae but don't embarrass the girl, worst yet for things she hasn't even done yet. This was so unnecessary and attention seeking of Tip
Boom
Yas💯🤭👍
I'm gonna be honest right...SHE IS NOT gonna look at him the same, I'm sorry to say but he just ruined a perfectly loving relationship with his daughter cause trust me when I say dejha is gonna remember this and hold it agsints him dont believe me just watch.
If there ever was a relationship.
Are you God? Relax
@@jadoresophya Right! Throughout the episode she was dropping hints that this isn't his first time causing her emotional pain.
Not making this a race issue, but it’s a common thing In [dysfunctional] black household for your family to “tell your business” it hurts&you feel betrayed. We’ve been so conditioned to love those who hurt us.... it’s sad to see her hurting
Edit: I don’t think it’s weird he went with her to the gynecologist. I’m Sure Other Dads Have had to take their daughter to uncomfortable appts. She is WELL OVER AGE [patient/doctor confidentiality] and could tell him to leave IF SHE WANTED ..... the embarrassment came from him telling the ENTIRE WORLD on Social Media 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@@neshapruitt4756 The thing is...HE IS FORCING HER TO DO THESE THINGS AND FORCING TO HER TO GO TO THE GYNECOLOGIST. He was even in the room when she was under the procedure. That man is a narcissist and DOESENT deserve a daughter like her bro. Now I see why she feels like an outcast. And tiny with her Human doll built self is so STUPID. Taking this man's side. Your going to take someones side who said in a podcast to his millions of supporters that your "vagina" belongs to him and you cant stop him from having sex with you. THAT ENTIRE FAMILY IS CORRUPT.
she looked like she was in so much pain when she started crying😭 she only deserves peace and happiness from now on
"Peace and happiness from now on" are guaranteed, despite us thinking whether we or someone deserves it. Oh, how I wish that wasn't the case.
Why does she still look beautiful when she’s cry but when I cry I look ugly 😂😭😂😭
@Sapphire Cotton ONG
Coz this is a scripted show. She got make up on and ur seeing her through the lens. You think TI isnt aware of what she's up to. TI promoted his daughter. It was all planned.
Because you and I don't travel with camera crew and makeup artists.
Ikr
She's so beautiful very educated
dayjay is gorgeous with her lil red ass❤
His own mom is sick of him, I feel bad for every woman in his life.
Yep he’s a Narcissist for sure
😂😂😂😂
@Dats a paddlin I think that's also plays a part in his whole narcissistic aura. I'm pretty sure Deyjah mentioned something about being cut off. Basically, like 'fall in line, or get out' household. T.I. is seriously fucked in the head! POS father.
😂😂
I think he's better than most black men out there. He has a long & happy marriage; he's a family man. Let this girl stop berating this man for a mistake. Everyone makes mistakes. She's lucky to have a father who's taking care of her. She has no idea what most of her peers have to go through just to survive.
Our generation is learning from how our parents treat us & we'll definitely have a different parenting style than our parents
I agree sis! We got raised by old school parents
And what's the difference?
@@unknownunknown9296 emotional availability for one
I have I'm sick of it.
Most definitely sis
Now that these allegations came out about her dad, I wonder if her situation is deeper than what she is speaking on. It seems as if something else went down by her emotions
Yep, i said the same thing. Something aint quite right!
Hmmm🤔
Deyjah is/was very depressed, she talks about it it all the time on her Instagram and gives an in depth detail about her mental health. Even before the virginity incident she was depressed. I don't put nothing past TI, he is more evil and arrogant than he portrays. But when you have discernment you can see right through him.
He makes me sick, and he honestly thinks that he didn’t do anything wrong. Smh men..
Boys needs to whooped in the behind by real men!!! Maybe they b different! However I still love men!! There is someone for everyone u just need to wait!!!!
Facts !!
Wow so he basically lied and said he wasn’t in the room but 2:30 proves that he was indeed in the room ... that’s creepy
So gross!
I was thinking tge same thing..
I agree
The child even said that she doesn't know why or how come the gynecologist let's him in , he was even so disrespectful 😠 to say she needed to come to him and say he did something wrong , a real father who actually cares about their child feelings would have pulled her aside and apologize because he humiliated her to the entire world , but I guess he is too much of an asshole or a narcissist sociopath to do so they always right regardless if others are hurt by their actions
Creepy as heellllllllll
this really broke my heart, especially when she broke into tears.
She made me cry cause I have a teenager daughter an when her dad treat me bad she don't like it an she feels different about him now. So I understand her feeling sum kind of way now about her Dad.
She is such a sweet girl. When she said she couldn't say no that hurt. Imagine how this could translate into her romantic relationship. Beautiful daughter, narcissistic dad!
"He'll play the victim" That hit home for me because my father gaslit me like this throughout my childhood too!! He leaned on me in ways a 10/11-year-old shouldn't have because of his alcoholism causing my parents to divorce. I became his rock and his sober companion before even hitting middle school throughout my parent's separation. I grew to become resentful of him and our relationship never fully recovered. I still can't speak to him for real about how he impacted my early life without him giving himself a pity party! I pray she can heal because I know from experience it is not easy.
They didn’t hug her, because it would have drawn attraction and she would have been in a position where she would have been forced to explain to her father her issue with him. She needed a moment of space to just talk about the issue who could understand. My heart truly goes out to her
Agreed 💯
She is so nice she said “I don’t really care to be around him”
I feel so bad for her, it doesn't matter if Tip is her dad this was straight up disrespectful. He has humiliated this young woman, so sorry Deyjah..
Back to this video after the TI & Tiny allegations....
Me to honey
He made this poor baby a target with weirdos in regards to doing this and the fact that he sees nothing wrong with it is disgusting
Deyja is so intelligent, so well spoken, and you can just see the purity in her eyes.
I don’t get it if a boy can bring a baby into this world catch diseases just how a girl can why is it different
Hes extremely controlling of his daughters because he knows exactly who he is.. hell it's how he talks to his sons and raises them to be
@@jelemil Well said!
I'm not saying what he is doing to her is right, but don't get it twisted 9 times out of 10 when a female gets pregnant she ends up being the primary care taker for that child if the couple splits. In this situation T.I. will be taking care of both her and the baby. That's why the situation is a little different then the boys IMO.
@@johnnyd28101 so he's counting on his sons to not financially provide for their children or be present fathers 🤔 it just gets better (worse..)
that's the whole problem the female is the primary caretaker of the baby. We live in a society where it's okay for a male to abandon his responsibility as long as he pays child support. Men (not all) raise their sons to be irresponsible when it comes to having sex.
He could have kept that to himself. But at the same time don't be all in that girl private part like that but your boys do what they wanna do SMH
Exactly I already been looking at T.I. talking ass a little different before he this too his daughter but now since he did that I don't have no respect for him. Seems bizzare to be putting her business out like that and give that girl some privacy if she wanted to have sex that's what she's going to do and he can't do a dam thing about it. Tiny and T. I. sit up there and king do what he wanna do but have the gall to be doing Deyjah like that then tiny short talking i'm just the step mama. I have step kids too but they know I don't play and I love them dearly but I will never put their business out there
Misogyny
i’ve been holding back tears the WHOLE VIDEO.
She's seems like a beautiful soul, who's sensitive and gentle. Like she's has to constantly push down her feelings with no one there to turn to. And the cousins may mean well, but they seem to be off in their ability to truly comfort and love her. They seem like they're meddling. TI seems out of touch with handling women issues. Either way, who goes to the gyno with their dad? Why couldn't Mom go or an Aunt or Grandma? It seems like there's more going on here, than meets the eye. I wish she'd tell her story, it seems like she's been thru some things.
Deyjah you're just trying to live a drama free, unproblematic life and that's what you deserve.
you’re toxic and disgusting look at you no wonder you’re so jealous because you’ve had it hard please
Daisy Jones what’s the point of this comment ???
@@daisyjones9107 where'd this come from? It doesn't at all relate to the original
Daisy Jones She didn’t deserve to be embarrassed by her father like that, what the person said was not jealousy, being toxic, or disgusting all she said was that Deyjah deserves an unproblematic/ drama free life
Tip should be embarrassed as a parent! She's gonna have trust issues because of her own dad
Exactly
So like you like the same sex. Any real man would be in favor of what tip is doing in order to protect his daughter.
Sounds like you like the same sex
@@dallasmccall7941
Sounds like your trash
@@dallasmccall7941 : "What Tip is doing in order to protect his daughter" will NOT protect his daughter.
Damn tip give your daughter the respect she deserves..just sayin 😞
I'm completely disgusted with TI this is definitely a form of abuse and the doctor should have been able to recognize that
Absolutely is a form of abuse.
I cried when she said it was traumatic. She hold so much in so I know that was difficult 💔
I absolutely hate how Deyjah had to internalize all of this 😔 baby needs a therapist to undo years trauma.
Move far far away from him , don't even go on vacations with him, he over stepped his boundaries as a father.
Damn it is her dad. And he probably felt he was protecting her. I’m sure he learned his lesson and hope the mom did too.
I argee with that
When she found it out they were on vacation...
@@SSSS-wq4vn that's not protection when you tell your business out there
Bnisha 04 I feel like as a father he was only trying to protect her. Maybe he could have gone about it a different way, but I don’t think his intention was to hurt her ....
This situation shows that she’s scarred by the actions of her father and it’s so sad that her narcissistic father can’t see how his actions has severely impacted deyjah and his family.
He probably doesn't even care honestly. This is so heartbreaking
I went to the gynecologist for the first right before I went to college when I was 18. I can’t imagine going before the age of 18. Wow! I’m glad Deyjah is being supported by the women around her.🙏💙
I have a dad exactly like TI and I completely understand where Deyjahs coming from when she expresses that it’s hard to relay emotions to him.
Narcissistic parents- cause that’s exactly what he is- ALWAYS think their feelings and opinions are the most important feelings and opinions above anyone else’s. They never want to admit when they’re wrong and eventually you learn that in order to keep the peace with them it’s better to keep your hurt and negative emotions to yourself in order to keep up the false allusion of positivity.
Dad’s like this are especially harder on their daughters because they attribute being a protector and a provider for their child as being synonymous with possessiveness and control. It truly is a very thin line with them. And unfortunately it doesn’t really get easier to talk to them as you get older.
Have you ever felt like he was having sexual thoughts about u and him? No disrespect intended, just don't understand what makes a father want to see his daughter legs open on a table.
Peaceful Beginnings No, never that. The protective/possessive part is more so like Mama bear mode on x100
To them everything outside of their teachings and their parenting feels like a threat to your safety. These are the type of dads who would 100% wrap you in bubblewrap and keep you in a protective hamster ball if they could as long as it means you’re safe. It may seem nice and caring to an outsider, but ultimately the manipulation and refusal to let you experience ANYTHING hinders your growth and you end up missing out on vital developmental experiences.
While I definitely don’t think MY dad would have gone that far, mainly because he’s never been the type to discuss those sort of things with me, I do understand TI’s strange reasoning as to why he thought it was ok. He thinks that this is what an active parent does. And no one has ever provided that boundary for him. He’s equated his daughter’s virginity with him being a good father.
For him:
Virginity= great dad
No virginity= Failure
M. J.P. I do honestly believe they can if they want to, but first they have to work on letting go of control. Because often times they feel like they never had control of their own lives growing up, so they feel like control is the only way to love someone.
@@TheAndiechris thanks for the reply be blessed
I'm 31 yrs old and started crying when she did. My dad isnt as bad as T.I. n never crossed those boundaries but he def had T.I. tendencies. When she talked about how their relationship would change n all that. I felt that!!! Dads don't understand their position in their daughter's lives all the time.
Poor Deyjah. She's quiet & thoughtful but still gets picked apart for no reason. Seems she just wants peaceful & private, surroundings, which isn't much. ❤️😔
When she broke down in her silent cry. .......... I wish I could hug her.
I feel so bad for her when she cried I teared up.
Why aren’t they embracing her! I wanna hug her so tightly. I feel her pain on so many levels 😥💔
Yes I felt the same thing.. it’s like he paid for them all to go to Mexico and they didn’t want to speak out
Because they are out of ear shot but no out of view. If they hug her it might bring more attention
I rolled my eyes when they said we your cousins and we love you like … no you don’t
I understand that’s her Dad but he should’ve thought before opening his mouth. Honestly, I pray that it doesn’t put a strain on their relationship because that would be messed up completely
He shouldn't be doing it at all
Well I think it depends on their already existent relationship. If it was toxic thsn it will already be strained, if it was good then their will be some distance now. It will never be the same. I.m.o
She's such a sweetheart
She really is I feel so bad for her 😢💕
i really am rooting for her. she’s such a gorgeous, mature, and level headed girl. i see so much of myself in her. i pray she continues to use her voice to shed light on depression and her struggles. 💕💕💕 God loves you girl.
This is disgusting disrespectful and borderline perverted. As a man to go and be in the room with your daughter at an intimate appointment is another level. She has a mum, a step mum and sisters. And to joke about your under age son doing sexual things and applauding it is also inappropriate and disgusting.
Deyjah expressed her feelings & it's what I've thought all along, she's always in the background & feels like because she's not going after anything in the entertainment industry that she's a wallflower. Watching 1st couple of seasons, you can see this. I'm so glad she's starting to use her voice. T.I. is a bully parent who is so closed minded, has his beliefs only & that will push the kids away that he bullies. Proud of her finally expressing herself.
Whew when she started crying my eyes watered I felt her pain man tip took it too far with this 1
I feel bad for Deyjah she looks and seems more mature than her dad and T.I. knows better.
The concept of protecting your family's personal business and disregarding those values ( because you felted like you're entitled too?) is pure narcissism. No wonder king doesn't respect his own father.
It's kinda weird that the gynecologist doctor let T.I go in the room during her appointments etc ( because I know after a certain age the doctors asks the parents to step out of the room to asks questions etc) plus shouldn't her mom be the one to go with her 🤔 This whole situation is embarrassing to be honest.
Agreed
Seems like she has/had no choice if you listen closely it sounds like she said he'd disown her or cut her off. The man has serious issues.
@@iNesi954 like I understand as a parent you want to protect your kids etc but this is very obsessive.
@@thatsjamiee yes he worried about her being with a man like him. He arrogant he is disrespect his own wife and he dont listen to women not even his mother!!! He is a asshole.... He a cheater and he manipulative.
Did he go in during the procedure or did he come in after for the results?? Probably after for the results.
Awwww She seems so sweeet ...she's so pretty! And I just saw she has a TH-cam channel💜
That just literally broke my heart and totally makes me look at him Differently!! I'm sorry it just does
I was raised by my dad!! But he wouldn’t have said that about me!! He was very over protective!!! But as a Jamaican he don’t even talk like that!! I hurt for her😒
Awww she made me cry she's so adorable ❤❤
Deyjah: He’s been going with me since I was 14/15
Ti: I was lying what I said was false
Make it make sense tip?!🤨
She seems like such a wonderful young lady... my heart hurts for her and what she's been through (this situation and life in general). I hope she can heal from her father's wrong doings.
When she started crying my heart broke for her 🥺💔
As a woman that can relate to her. Being the quiet one, always dealing with issues that nobody seem to noticed, I feel her. Not only is it embarrassing for it to be in the family, but also to millions of people.......... It should just be a mom and daughter thing PRIVATELY
She is soo sweet and bright shes going to touch people minds and heart
She So Needed A Hug I Was Hoping That 1 Of Them Got Up And Hugged Her
Lol poor dayjay i hope things get better for her and ti need to sit tf down somewhere and stop telling all is daughter business i wonder how he'll feel if dayjay told his business
Yeah she did
@Kewana Nedd do you know who are the ladies she's on the beach with?
@Kewana Nedd right and they are also her family as well and they just sat there watching her cry
Ikr why they sitting there getting her to spill her beans can’t even console the child
You didn’t deserve this Deyjah. T.I.P was wrong for doing that. He needs to apologize to you.
That’s me. I got so accustomed to pushing stuff away that now I’m dealing with so much anxiety and depression.
Her daughter is so beautiful and she has an angelic way about herself . She is very well spoken and she was raised right
The fact that he doesn’t see or understand why she’s upset even on this trip let’s you know that he doesn’t care about anyone but himself. My heart breaks for her.. you can tell she’s holding in a lot.
This the same young lady tiny was coming at over social media? She seems so sweet. How you gonna defend this man's role as a father, he couldn't even uphold his role as a husband. Smh!!!!!
She was coming at her.. when was this ? And why?
I have never heard Tiny come at her. In fact when Tip and Tiny broke up she was on Instagram praising her relationship with Tiny. I have never heard Tiny ever say anything bad about any of their kids. In fact she is a little over supportive sometimes
Tiny never came for her .. 🤦🏽♀️🙄 she loves this child as if she was her own. She actually still has a strong relationship with tiny as for her dad
I pray this young lady finds her voice before she falls in love with a man who silences her the same way her father does! 🤐
I want give her big hug. T. I need treat his kids same way. Poor baby girl dont cry.
Was he at the head or the foot of this examination? If he actually looked up there, that's even more traumatizing for this young woman. Why couldn't a woman be there with her?
Right I was thinking the same thing.... and why would any doctor allow that
Fact he was actually in the room is a red flag.
No doctor should be doing this. It's a total violation of her body. It's uneccessarily, invasive, and disgusting!
I know this situation is old now. But I hope he saw how he made his daughter feel. This was heartbreaking and she clearly has feelings she was never able to address with him. I hope for her sake she can heal from all her trauma and move on and not let those scars affect her adult life. Life is too short as it is.
it’s about HER so HER feelings should matter‼️‼️‼️‼️
She’s such a sweet young lady. T.I really violated her on this issue, let her Mom deal with this topic. Then, to speak publicly about your daughter’s business!!!