The devil absolutely sends counterfeits that look a lot like what you prayed for. But if you are staying in communion with God, He will enable you to discern the truth beyond the surface of this person.
Part I don’t get why are women praying for men God knows who and what we need women should be praying up and getting themselves together for the husband God sends
Ladies, ask God for a man that loves God with all of his soul, all of his heart, and all of his mind. Because many can go to church, & not love God fully! 🤔 Find God's advice in your relationship with Him, in prayer! 🙏
My problem is...I thought I had that Godly man until he became so rekigous, he became Moses and forgot about me. Literally....he stop talking to me and didn't want marriage anymore, but still married to the church. I didn't get it....we we're engaged about to get married. I'm so hurt and disappointed 😔
So true. I was sent a counterfeit relationship by satan just after I got saved. This man tried to convince me fornication is not a sin if two people love one another. I knew right away...He was sent by satan. The devil is a liar! My father would not send me a man who tries to talk me into committing sexual sin.
I agree, once I shut it down and started working on myself... dem ex's come back like the walking dead. I just talked to them, preyed and waited... soon they vanish. I think I'm close . Thx family!
just finished having a closure conversation with my ex. sat down nd asked the lord to give me a video/message on youtube to give me peace about the situation. my flesh reminded me of the good times, the lord reminded me of my major compromises. i became aware i was fighting for a relationship that was never blessed by the Lord to begin with. and i was really fighting for it alone. nothing against the brother, he is my friend, if he chooses to participate, but non the less a counterfeit.
The most high showed me in dreams more than once but I still ignored it. Because the counterfeit had all the preferences I was looking for. His ugly side kept leaking out until I couldn't take it anymore. That is so true what the pastor said in this video, they will talk godly, look godly, seem godly. But time reveals their true colors. Wolves can't hide too long, especially when you are filled with the spirit of the most high. Whatever is in darkness will be exposed, because of the light within you.
Oh my word ! Yes! Same thing happened to me! I kept ignoring the dreams , until it was blatantly obvious he was not in Jesus’s Lordship. He wanted to mess around and had the audacity to say it was middle school stuff and nothing wrong with it. 🤯 Holy Spirit told me to RUN!
Yep... My experience was with someone who prayed in the spirit (I thought) was into the deep things of the word and warfare. But he was very mean and critical inside towards God's people. Very tormented as well. Cruel. Ended up trying to pull me from church. He came 3 years after I'd been single and praying for my husband. He tried to destroy my life, my friendships, my relationships- and the devil would speak right through his mouth to try to tell me I was who I used to be. That's a lie. God has delivered and changed me and I am NEW in Christ!
After learning 2 things in life , 1satan can also sit in a church.2 God can convert ANYONE. After witnessing ungodly Christian's and atheists transformed into Christian and getting married with another Christian. Truly all I ask God is for a genuine man after his own heart. We cannot say or limit what God can and cannot do. The Bible says do not be unequally yolked (believers married with unbelievers) but since I know everything is for God's glory God also can have a way with someones heart in the friendship process. I would rather be with a man who is GENUINELY after God's heart and I know God is working on, than to be with a ungodly Christian in my church 👏🙅🏽♀️
Nunya biz exactly my point. A lot of men are on their journey back to the heart of God. If a lady meets them in that process, he won’t look exactly like they should. Sometimes God’s perfect will involves the two people meeting at that time of the process. I keep asking myself if every man should be at that perfect place with God before stepping into marriage but the truth is God is God. He can’t be limited. It’s well.
Being patient isn’t just about the waiting, being patient is about what YOU DO IN the waiting.. be content in your singleness, and when you’re content with a relationship only consisting you and Jesus, that desire for a partner disappears. Jesus wants us to be focused on HIM, He wants us to really build that solid foundation on HIM, He wants us to be reliant on HIM, He wants us to only want and need HIM and not another man/woman. He wants us to build a beautiful strong relationship with Him first (To the point where you don’t even seek for a partner because you’re greatly satisfied with just Jesus) before He’ll put you into a relationship with your future spouse! BE CONTENT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH CHRIST ❤️
This message needs to be heard everywhere and everyone that claims to be a believer . But in the end we have to be not only hearers or the word but doers . God requires obedience more than sacrifice. Everybody putting up a holy front but run away from the truth ! He who has ears to hear let him hear ! Amen
It's so common to know the word and not do it. It is saddening and disappointing when you care for someone who is short- changing themselves by not having a desire to honor and please God, but they serve in the church and know bible.
Sometimes I feel if God really wants to give me his best, then why am I still single after over 10 years faithfully waiting and being rejected? I know God has great plans for me and is protecting me, but sometimes the wait and the rejection gets weary to bear and is discouraging.
From my experience, God makes us wait for our promises from him because we need to seek him and enjoy his presence in our lives. He is the first and the best. Once we realize that no person can fulfill you, that they are not supposed to, that will help us focus on God and his will. Then he will bring us who we need to partner with so we can do God's work together. Our perspective needs to change from an earthly one to a heavenly one. Enjoy your single time, you'll miss it once you are yoked together. Learn to enjoy and be content now so God can bless us more Amen.
I'm in an (emotionally) difficult marriage but one thing I can say is that it's trials and tribulations have made me draw closer to God! I have grown in my relationship with God by choosing to remain in this marriage. I guess God uses different situations to train us up. It has not been easy, but I don't have any regrets. I am hoping for contentment and happiness in the future.
I love the facial expressions you give when you’re saying “at least he ain’t, she ain’t it.”😆 Such a beautiful ministry marriage. Exactly how it should be. Marriage is not for self, but for holiness. God truly continue blessing you!
I wss the counterfeit because as we dated he started sliding back but I thought we were growing closer to God because we worshipped Him and prayed together and fasted for Him
God is so awesome. I met a guy recently that was Christian and seemed to be what a wanted, but I prayed and God said he was not the one. I still struggled with it and this video helped me realize I made the right decision. Obedience is better than sacrifice. Thank God for you two.
It feels wrong to watch one of these videos and not hear the ending "this is redefined tv where we're redefining relationships...righteously". Lol. That being said, you guys rock.
These videos have been so helpful in keeping me focused and expectant but patient in waitinh for my husband and preparing to be a kingdom wife. I appreciate and am thankful for your guys ministry.
This was needed. Much needed. I've been talking to a man who's an Elder at a Primitive Baptist Church for 5 months. We've talked and texted everyday for these months. We live in the same city but don't see each other much because we're both busy. No dates other than lunch. We've hugged but nothing else. This is SLOW for me. But I know it's best for me considering my past relationships. They didn't last. He tells me to be patient and not to move so fast. He's still getting to me. I wanna scream sometimes but it's helping me to know myself and pray to God more. At times I don't trust him due to his past. He hasn't always been an Elder, but I trust God won't stray from me. For now we're good friends. I want more LOL! Oh yeah he's also 9 years older than me. I'm 44. He's 53. I hope this turns out to be what we both want it to be.
So I just recently found and started watching your videos. But it's funny how it wasn't until after I just ended a relationship by mutual decision with my ex that I saw this. She was a believer. But we still were unequally yoked. We both wanted to be with each other but that was our will and not God's will. And it was more fleshy than Spiritual. God kept sending us red flags in the Spirit until finally he sent physical attention to get my attention. He had already sent her physical signs. When we called it off, He healed our bodies.
I pray God's blessings, favor and wisdom over you both continually. Your impact is immeasurable. I thank Jesus for you both and the platform that He's given you
After asking God(in prayer) if he wants me to leave my boyfriend, and if it's his will for my life than to show me let me know ..this video y'all posted speaks to me
Y’all are beautiful. Thank you for your insight!!! Pray for my spouse! I’m recently separated... my husband was caught flirting and constantly justifying having females on his social media. I am ok with whatever God has for me but my deepest desire here is to be a wife and have a God fearing family.
Wow. All I can say is wow. This was on time & I thank y’all for this. When I watched this I started off thinking that I didn’t have to do what y’all mentioned. I thought I didn’t have to compromise, but I did. Thank you both. I’m young, I have time. I’m gonna wait. Thank you. God spoke to me through THIS specific video & thank y’all a MILLION times.
Godbless you guys and thank you for letting the Lord 🙏 use you I love what y'all doing as a young couple keeping it real and please keep bringing more insight 🙏 I love it Godbless
Amen!!! I totally agree with the both of you!!! I pray to God all the time to help me make the right decision!!! God is glory and holy!!! I'm so thankful to find the both of you!! God Bless the both of you always!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇😇💥💥💥💥💥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🌷🌷🌷
counterfeit; looked like what God was sending but NOT I AM waiting. Looked Godly, talked Godly but wasn't totally walking Godly Was trying to vet him out but missed some things in the 1st 3 months
At least he ain’t....then your gonna get the least.. 🙂that was good. You two have been blessing me, It’s as though you are helping keep straight. thank you so very much for your ministry, truly. God bless your ministry, union, and your Family. Amen🙏🏽love from Hemet, Ca.
"You can both be believers and still unequally yoked. Purposes and assignments have to compliment..." Yeassssss!!! THIS!!!!
That is very very true. Amen.
I want to double tap this. 😂
Ooooohweeeeee THISSSSSSSSSS!!!!!😭🤍🔥🙏☝️🙌🙌🙌🙌🔥🔥🔥
The devil absolutely sends counterfeits that look a lot like what you prayed for. But if you are staying in communion with God, He will enable you to discern the truth beyond the surface of this person.
Amen !
Part I don’t get why are women praying for men God knows who and what we need women should be praying up and getting themselves together for the husband God sends
Exactly like what would be for you...down to y'all being complementary in life goals. Mannn no
I met the Counterfeit so now I’m getting ready for the GodSent, Amen!
Yeeeees!!!! Glory!
Me too in Jesus name Amen i believe
Jesus !
Yessss me too!
Did it ever come?
"One way to discern if it's God is that it will always be about God's glory & not your happiness." That'll preach!!
Singles Walking in Purpose Correct
SAY THAT!!!!! ✋✋✋✋🖐🖐🖐
Ladies, ask God for a man that loves God with all of his soul, all of his heart, and all of his mind. Because many can go to church, & not love God fully! 🤔
Find God's advice in your relationship with Him, in prayer! 🙏
So true
My problem is...I thought I had that Godly man until he became so rekigous, he became Moses and forgot about me. Literally....he stop talking to me and didn't want marriage anymore, but still married to the church. I didn't get it....we we're engaged about to get married. I'm so hurt and disappointed 😔
@@LisalovesMichael I'm sorry Lisa.😔
So true. I was sent a counterfeit relationship by satan just after I got saved. This man tried to convince me fornication is not a sin if two people love one another. I knew right away...He was sent by satan. The devil is a liar! My father would not send me a man who tries to talk me into committing sexual sin.
Cindy L same for me
Same here. Mine tried to convince me fornication is not about sex, but idolatry.
Cindy L Amen!
Amen 🙌🏼🙌🏼. God is Holy, so He wants us Holy.
Wow same here and I knew it wasn’t right and left him alone!
I agree, once I shut it down and started working on myself... dem ex's come back like the walking dead. I just talked to them, preyed and waited... soon they vanish. I think I'm close . Thx family!
Justin Williams PREACH!!!!
Justin Williams #BUT GOD
Justin Williams like the walking dead 😂
😂😂like the walking dead
They sure do, but I stay prayed up and ask God to take all that isn't of Him
Too late. Married, pro created and divorced the enemy. Still being haunted down by this enemy 21 years later. May the Lord have mercy on my soul.
just finished having a closure conversation with my ex. sat down nd asked the lord to give me a video/message on youtube to give me peace about the situation. my flesh reminded me of the good times, the lord reminded me of my major compromises. i became aware i was fighting for a relationship that was never blessed by the Lord to begin with. and i was really fighting for it alone. nothing against the brother, he is my friend, if he chooses to participate, but non the less a counterfeit.
avill012 sis! Same here.
Blessings.
Me too
Girl I just broke up I thought I was gonna married Him... But I did a list of the negativo thing of Him.... I felt better.
The most high showed me in dreams more than once but I still ignored it. Because the counterfeit had all the preferences I was looking for. His ugly side kept leaking out until I couldn't take it anymore. That is so true what the pastor said in this video, they will talk godly, look godly, seem godly. But time reveals their true colors. Wolves can't hide too long, especially when you are filled with the spirit of the most high. Whatever is in darkness will be exposed, because of the light within you.
Zarasha1 Amen 🙌🏼🙌🏼
The same here I had dreams and ignored. It more like I didn’t trust the dreams by thinking I was overthinking.
Oh my word ! Yes! Same thing happened to me! I kept ignoring the dreams , until it was blatantly obvious he was not in Jesus’s Lordship. He wanted to mess around and had the audacity to say it was middle school stuff and nothing wrong with it. 🤯 Holy Spirit told me to RUN!
Yep... My experience was with someone who prayed in the spirit (I thought) was into the deep things of the word and warfare. But he was very mean and critical inside towards God's people. Very tormented as well. Cruel. Ended up trying to pull me from church. He came 3 years after I'd been single and praying for my husband. He tried to destroy my life, my friendships, my relationships- and the devil would speak right through his mouth to try to tell me I was who I used to be. That's a lie. God has delivered and changed me and I am NEW in Christ!
After learning 2 things in life , 1satan can also sit in a church.2 God can convert ANYONE. After witnessing ungodly Christian's and atheists transformed into Christian and getting married with another Christian. Truly all I ask God is for a genuine man after his own heart. We cannot say or limit what God can and cannot do. The Bible says do not be unequally yolked (believers married with unbelievers) but since I know everything is for God's glory God also can have a way with someones heart in the friendship process.
I would rather be with a man who is GENUINELY after God's heart and I know God is working on, than to be with a ungodly Christian in my church 👏🙅🏽♀️
Nunya biz exactly my point. A lot of men are on their journey back to the heart of God. If a lady meets them in that process, he won’t look exactly like they should. Sometimes God’s perfect will involves the two people meeting at that time of the process. I keep asking myself if every man should be at that perfect place with God before stepping into marriage but the truth is God is God. He can’t be limited. It’s well.
" Kingdom Advancers " that's right!
Yup... Time will reveal I saw all the red Flags I still wanted to make things work... It took me 3 years to let it go...
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the FIRST time... Dr. Maya Angelou.
The enemy sent a counterfeit and we only lasted 4 1/2 months before god shoed me who he really was. This is so true
Mine is only lasting a week and I’ve figured him out already... this is crazyyy 😭 Amen!
Same 4 and a half months until yesterday
Maaannnn..... I wish I would’ve heard this message a few years ago!!! It would have saved me some heartache but better late than never
Being patient isn’t just about the waiting, being patient is about what YOU DO IN the waiting.. be content in your singleness, and when you’re content with a relationship only consisting you and Jesus, that desire for a partner disappears. Jesus wants us to be focused on HIM, He wants us to really build that solid foundation on HIM, He wants us to be reliant on HIM, He wants us to only want and need HIM and not another man/woman. He wants us to build a beautiful strong relationship with Him first (To the point where you don’t even seek for a partner because you’re greatly satisfied with just Jesus) before He’ll put you into a relationship with your future spouse! BE CONTENT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH CHRIST ❤️
This message needs to be heard everywhere and everyone that claims to be a believer . But in the end we have to be not only hearers or the word but doers . God requires obedience more than sacrifice. Everybody putting up a holy front but run away from the truth ! He who has ears to hear let him hear ! Amen
It's so common to know the word and not do it. It is saddening and disappointing when you care for someone who is short- changing themselves by not having a desire to honor and please God, but they serve in the church and know bible.
Sometimes I feel if God really wants to give me his best, then why am I still single after over 10 years faithfully waiting and being rejected? I know God has great plans for me and is protecting me, but sometimes the wait and the rejection gets weary to bear and is discouraging.
Lillian Loves the Beach!
Single and waiting over 10 years Sis - trying daily not to jump ship and turn reprobate😳!... Pray for me as I pray for u 🙏🏾
I’m n the same boat ....
From my experience, God makes us wait for our promises from him because we need to seek him and enjoy his presence in our lives. He is the first and the best. Once we realize that no person can fulfill you, that they are not supposed to, that will help us focus on God and his will. Then he will bring us who we need to partner with so we can do God's work together. Our perspective needs to change from an earthly one to a heavenly one. Enjoy your single time, you'll miss it once you are yoked together. Learn to enjoy and be content now so God can bless us more Amen.
Lillian Loves the Beach! You have to become what you want
May you please update. Has God come through for you now seeing a year has already past.
This is good !! I am so sick of counterfeit
I'm in an (emotionally) difficult marriage but one thing I can say is that it's trials and tribulations have made me draw closer to God! I have grown in my relationship with God by choosing to remain in this marriage. I guess God uses different situations to train us up. It has not been easy, but I don't have any regrets. I am hoping for contentment and happiness in the future.
I love the facial expressions you give when you’re saying “at least he ain’t, she ain’t it.”😆
Such a beautiful ministry marriage. Exactly how it should be. Marriage is not for self, but for holiness. God truly continue blessing you!
I wss the counterfeit because as we dated he started sliding back but I thought we were growing closer to God because we worshipped Him and prayed together and fasted for Him
I will wait for God and will stop leaning on my own understanding
God is so awesome. I met a guy recently that was Christian and seemed to be what a wanted, but I prayed and God said he was not the one. I still struggled with it and this video helped me realize I made the right decision. Obedience is better than sacrifice. Thank God for you two.
Deep! Deep! Deep!
I wanted it so bad even though God said he isn't the one let him go I said to myself what if he gets saved then he could be the one
I married
My counterfeit! Oyyy!! It’s by the grace of God I survived! I have healed so much and I love these videos!!
It feels wrong to watch one of these videos and not hear the ending "this is redefined tv where we're redefining relationships...righteously". Lol. That being said, you guys rock.
Powerful, Right @the end, less fleshy and more spiritual & he said, just bc you both are saved doesn't mean you're equally yoked!.... so good
This webisode IS it!!!! 💯👏👏👏
I dont want anything God doesnt want for me. Amen God Bless
Amen! I thank God everyday for the man God blessed me with. He serves God with me.
Kingdom Marriage for me
Well said , Times exposes everything...
Jesus gave me my calling because I'm saved and have no kids
Amen. Amen. Speak the truth!!.
yes, in Jesus name Amen i believe
God said trust no Man & said he will give you your Heart desire and be Equal yoke.. And from that you Would know him ..
These videos have been so helpful in keeping me focused and expectant but patient in waitinh for my husband and preparing to be a kingdom wife. I appreciate and am thankful for your guys ministry.
Thank y'all for all your God advised for Kingdom relationship!
Woww, It's all making sense..
5:30 till the end, aye 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Mind = Blown
I want His best
THANK you God for confirmation!
I appreciate these videos. They are feeding my soul.
This was needed. Much needed. I've been talking to a man who's an Elder at a Primitive Baptist Church for 5 months. We've talked and texted everyday for these months. We live in the same city but don't see each other much because we're both busy. No dates other than lunch. We've hugged but nothing else. This is SLOW for me. But I know it's best for me considering my past relationships. They didn't last. He tells me to be patient and not to move so fast. He's still getting to me. I wanna scream sometimes but it's helping me to know myself and pray to God more. At times I don't trust him due to his past. He hasn't always been an Elder, but I trust God won't stray from me. For now we're good friends. I want more LOL! Oh yeah he's also 9 years older than me. I'm 44. He's 53. I hope this turns out to be what we both want it to be.
Yup
At least equals to getting least....Wow that's good!! Truth....God bless you both😇
So I just recently found and started watching your videos. But it's funny how it wasn't until after I just ended a relationship by mutual decision with my ex that I saw this. She was a believer. But we still were unequally yoked. We both wanted to be with each other but that was our will and not God's will. And it was more fleshy than Spiritual. God kept sending us red flags in the Spirit until finally he sent physical attention to get my attention. He had already sent her physical signs. When we called it off, He healed our bodies.
Same here
what kind of physical signs?
Amen preach it
Wow
It’s going to have little to do with you and everything with His glory!
Good words! We never realise as long as we are with them or we compromise even after we notice these little things .
Amen. Thank you.
Can the devil try to bring confusion and division when it IS God's will?
Yes
I'm going through this right now.
This video came at the right time wow. I believe it is the confirmation of God for the prayer I had. Thank you so Much
Ps I'm a prayer warrior.
I pray God's blessings, favor and wisdom over you both continually. Your impact is immeasurable. I thank Jesus for you both and the platform that He's given you
GOD BLESS Y'ALL THAT'S WHAT I SAID
Lawd have mercy! I just keep replaying this over and over again!
Thank you for conformation.
I am going to stay true to the convictions I have in Gods Word.
This is definitely on time word and I needed it thank you so much for speaking to my spirit
True
Thank you jesus! You guys have saved my life in many videos by keeping me in God. Amen! ❤👆🙌 yess less fleshy and more spiritual twiting that. Lol
You are on point. Thank you for being obedient young people and letting God use you!
After asking God(in prayer) if he wants me to leave my boyfriend, and if it's his will for my life than to show me let me know ..this video y'all posted speaks to me
what wonderfull family!! i,am so happy that i find this channel.THis couple is a role model!This is the result when we follow God,s principles.
Amen to that!!
This message was right on TIME!
Wow...I’ve had nothing but counterfeits
AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Y’all are beautiful. Thank you for your insight!!! Pray for my spouse! I’m recently separated... my husband was caught flirting and constantly justifying having females on his social media. I am ok with whatever God has for me but my deepest desire here is to be a wife and have a God fearing family.
Andrea Mclean I'm praying for you and your husband and family.
I will pray for your spouse and marriage also.
Wow. All I can say is wow. This was on time & I thank y’all for this. When I watched this I started off thinking that I didn’t have to do what y’all mentioned. I thought I didn’t have to compromise, but I did. Thank you both. I’m young, I have time. I’m gonna wait. Thank you. God spoke to me through THIS specific video & thank y’all a MILLION times.
Can you do a part 2 to this?
This was so awesome
Beautiful couple thank you for your guidance🙏🏽🙌🏽
Yesssssss
This is for me
Good Word....🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Got it 👂🏻
THANK YOU BOTH FOR BEING GOD'S STAGE!!!
This is good!!!! Thank you father for this word
Jesus! 👏👏👏
Getting healing I wish my ex the best🙌🏽
💯
Godbless you guys and thank you for letting the Lord 🙏 use you I love what y'all doing as a young couple keeping it real and please keep bringing more insight 🙏 I love it Godbless
Very good. Amen. Good stuff.
Thank you
🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿x infinity
Deep. 100. 🤯
Thank you so much.. I really need this right now. Thanks God!
Amen!!! I totally agree with the both of you!!! I pray to God all the time to help me make the right decision!!! God is glory and holy!!! I'm so thankful to find the both of you!! God Bless the both of you always!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇😇💥💥💥💥💥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🌷🌷🌷
Love this advice 🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾
counterfeit; looked like what God was sending but NOT
I AM waiting.
Looked Godly, talked Godly but wasn't totally walking Godly
Was trying to vet him out but missed some things in the 1st 3 months
I listened to this and what I heard was “how to know if she’s the one or not”
This was for me, Thanks love you guys 😍 and your channel. God bless 🙏 ☀️
Deeeeepppp!! This is so good!!
At least he ain’t....then your gonna get the least.. 🙂that was good. You two have been blessing me, It’s as though you are helping keep straight. thank you so very much for your ministry, truly. God bless your ministry, union, and your Family. Amen🙏🏽love from Hemet, Ca.
Marriage is a ministry