YEAH EXACTLY SEEING FUXKING VIDS SAYING ETHAN BULLIED TRISHA BOTHERS ME SO FKNG MUCH HE WAS SOOOOO GOD DAMN PATIENT HES SINGLE HANDEDLY.PROVEN WHY TO SET BOUNDARIES WITH TRISHA IMMEDIATELY ...... OR SHE MIGHT FUCKING MARRY YOUR GFS BROTHER TO THE POI T SHE BRAINWASHES HIM HE WONT TALK TO ANY OF HIS FAMILY ANYMORE 3:33 LMAO WHETHER THEY KNOOOOWWWWW I FORGOT THAT ONCE MATTERED YEAH HE DISOWNED THE FUXKING FAMILY AND HILA LOST HER BEST FUXKING FRIEND AND THEYRE KIDS NOW.HAVE A FUXKING ESTRANGED COUSIN THIS IS A WEIRD ASS SENTENCE BUT I PRAY FOR MAILBU BARB........ FUCKING PLZ GET ADOPTED HERS OR IDFK FUXCCCKKKKKKK 4:09 NO SHE 100 FETISHIZES OF COURSE SHE FUXKING DIDNT YOU KNOW HOW MUCH IT ACTUALLY TAKES NOT TO PAY A RABBI TO CONVERT and dude wtf.....Ethan doesn't know English he's bad at it.... Big deal Trisha thinks everyone 24 7....wants to be her or in her.....WHAT DOES SHE THINK OF HER KID WOW WHAT A WORLD
I'm from h3fam not Trisha I honestly had a harredddd time it took me a long time to watch those eps cuz she just TALKS. TO GD FAST. LIKE PAUSE FOR A SECOND AND HAVE A THOUGHT DONT JUST SPRAY WORDS! haha sry againnnn❤😅pc and lv
im still extremely upset people ador her after all the fake mental disorder videos she did (such as saying she has D.I.D.) which affected so many people. they normalize her actions just because shes “iconic” in media.. (even comments on this video are trying to give her praise??)
Same! This was very insightful (and hilarious) as I just became obsessed with the Just Trish pod. Still love her. Some people are just so misunderstood!
Some people in the comments seem confused, Trisha is not actually this dumb, she is acting. She just never breaks. If it wasn't so problematic it would be hysterical imo. The Hamilton comment killed me.
@@psychedelicgazelle1588 He was a legendary irl troll/actor from back in the 70s(iirc). He seemed like a genuinely nice dude tho. So for her to compare herself to him is insulting lol.
Extra tea: Moses never actually applied for the Bach3lorette, he only said he would. Trisha was upset about him not applying, as she had expected him to, because Ethan and Hila had told her he was interested. Trisha and Moses met in the dms, and started a relationship out of spite. Also, Moses had already been married twice before getting engaged to Trisha. When he said he had been alone/single for over a decade he was lying. The real reason Hila cut Moses out of her life is because Moses predated upon young female fans of h3, and has been accused of stealthing 2 of them. The communication completely broke down when Ethan and Hila caught Trisha and Moses recording them in secret.
hiii, big h3 fan here but never learned about moses' previous marriages or the "recording them in secret" part -- could you elaborate & possibly share some sources?? thanks :)
@@jessicawynkoop7149ethan covers it in his trisha clapback/mask off rant that i think was removed from the podcast. But you can probably find it on yt somewhere
@@georgiaoddieOn one episode of Off the Rails, Ethan shared that he invited Trisha to do one final episode after their big blowout, she agreed and they actually did do a episode, but Ethan said it did not go well and he had decided not to post it. After the episode, he found out that Moses/Trisha actually secretly recorded the episode without telling Ethan as their excuse was ‘just in case Ethan manipulated the footage, etc.’ Later, Trisha kept blackmailing through her videos I believe, saying to Ethan that she would release the footage and ‘expose’ them. I’m pretty sure that’s what happened, if I’m wrong sorry!!
Trisha pretending she thinks gravity is fake is one of my favorite moments ever I love doing it when I’m talking to an annoying man like she ate with that
I think that Trisha is the perfect example of why just saying sorry for past wrongdoings isnt the point of apologising, its about the commitment to change to be a better person. She can talk up and down about how much shes changed, but what direct action has she put into making up for harming people?
change is slow honestly. i’m not gonna use her mental health as an excuse but shes going to have to almost fully recover before she can truly offer any sort of meaningful amends. she seems to be doing better than she used to but it’ll take a long time. it might not even happen. but regardless of all that people are right to feel like she is untrustworthy and to not forgive her
Maybe yall should realize that the point of change isn't to make amends. Sometimes it's keep moving forward but in a different direction. You can't put the shit back in the horse. She has no obligation either to make amends. It's called radical acceptance. It will never be resolved and that's okay. Move on. That is literally what we are taught to do in recovery for that specific disorder. NOT go back and try to mend anything, because the rumination is a trigger. But to just let it all go and choose differently in the future. You all should get some therapy too if you think you are entitled to anything just because someone offended you
@@painoftheheart12 you kind of are twisting my words here. My issue with Trisha is that she repeatedly 'takes accountability' and apologises for things, but then she does something equally as horrid or venomous, proving that her apology was just words and not a commitment to change. If she was to change without apologising, that still wouldn't be great, but ultimately that's not my problem with her now. I've been through DBT. I know about radical acceptance. What you've defined as radical acceptance was not how I was taught about it in my course, it was more about accepting your whole self, negative parts included, and being able to move past the desire to procrastinate or shove down negative throughs and instead let them be a part of you. It's not about not apologising to people. I honestly don't know where you got that idea. Its also important to point out that influencer apologies are not like personal apologies in your relationships. They work in a different way.
@notlurking2128 I'm saying this at the front because your lack of being taught real radical acceptance just because you had a therapist who taught you their version of it needs to be addressed before everything else. DBT was made FOR BPD. Specifically. Which is why it is IMPERATIVE that radical acceptance extends BEYOND THE SELF. And COMPLETE radical acceptance has a focus on ACCEPTING A LACK OF CLOSURE congrats you identified the mental illness. That's what a personality disorder is. People are going to do awful things if they think it was a good idea. And you even pointed out, Trusha does something ELSE. So you can't claim that she doesn't mean her apologies. She tries not to make the same exact mistake twice. And that is the mental illness. And radical acceptance has many many layers to it in therapy. Accepting yourself and where you are, and accepting what's happened. Just move on. It is necessary to just leave the broom even though you haven't finished sweeping. That is the anecdote the creator of radical acceptance gave to the reasoning behind the creation of acceptance in DBT. Just stop what you are doing whether it is resolved or not. Radical acceptance in DBT IS NOT just some body positivity style self love. It's way way more than that. And if that wasn't how you were taught it, then you weren't taught the entirety of it. Nothing Trisha has done has ever been on par with people like James Charles, Shane Dawson or Colleen. She's said things that were not okay, or just blatantly ignorant and made herself look as stupid as possible with some shitty take. But never has anyone walked away being harmed by anything Trisha has done. No one's Trans journey was hindered because Trisha identified as a Chicken Nugget. No one was quoting Trisha on alt right TH-cam as some kind of authority on fascism when she word vomited about Obama. Okay? She hasn't done anything really at all that bad to the people of the internet. She has absolutely done some horrible things in her private life like hitting her husband in a fit of rage. But that's not anything TH-cam deserves an apology for. She's doing a good job in this video. You can actively see her talking herself through DBT lessons. Distancing from the situation, not letting herself get too overwhelmed with ruminating. She's doing good. You don't have to like her. She's not asking you to. But not letting someone be allowed to move on because you think they shouldn't be allowed to show change rather than claim change is an interesting one.
Trisha is a lot less innocent than she is presented by Frenemies and in H3. She has a long, screwed up history of abusing people and disturbing problematic behaviour. If anyone wants to learn more I would watch Mysterious’s series on her.
@@t0jil_art She also beat Moses until he had a fat bruise on his arm and she definitely abuses him to this day but at the same time Moses is a fellow POS, he has stealthing allegations and talked shit behind Ethan and Hila’s back. I stg he’s also with Trish because he wants her money and to spite his family because he’s said as much but I still have empathy for anyone who has been / is being abused in such a way. He’s trash for supporting Trisha, a woman who dressed up as a murdered toddler and re-enacted her assault and murder.
She also is well known for trolling, and 95% of her problematic behavior was just that. She is far more intelligent and calculating that she gets credit for.
@@thesovgc Yeah I completely agree with you and I think she is very smart and is talented comedically. It’s just a shame that she doesn’t use it for good because I feel like she could if she actually wanted to, I think because of her upbringing and stuff she’s a bit lazy and self indulgent as well as having lots of emotional issues which leads her to abusing the people around her.
That was my favorite podcast of all time, the energy was amazing. But I can admit it's very sad how much it affected Ethan and his family, especially with Hila being pregnant at the time.
Ive never seen Frenemies but it genuinely is wild how now Ethan and his wife are stuck with Trisha in their family. I can only imagine how family gatherings/holidays are 😬
That's the issue. There is no family events where they're all together. Ethan recently came out and said that they have to plan family events around seeing each other because Trisha and Moses refuse to be in the same room as Ethan and Hila. It sounds really difficult and heartbreaking.
@@shutup5258 it's because hila and ethan constantly acted like moses was only dating trisha as a joke and tried to push her away and they got cut off. moses had been fighting with their dad years before this and felt like hila always sided with their traditional family.
while trisha is very problematic for many reasons, you do have to admire her dedication to the bit. so many memes came out of these podcasts and they're all trisha saying dumb shit. love it.
Thing is if you never see her break character then it's hard what is a joke and what is just her being dumb, like with nikocado, if I never saw him break character during an interview I would've continued believing he was genuinely a moron, like he's still stupid but now I'm sure that his every action had actual thought put into it
i love this channel so much because the range is unmatched. like you could talk about the entirety of world history and i’d be sat. thank you for your service for providing me with entertaining videos to watch while i eat like an ipad baby at my big age.
I loved how you recapped this; everyone else only focuses on the drama that happened at the end but you really captured what made the podcast special. I was in the same boat as you where I had never heard of Ethan before and only kinda knew of Trisha but Frenemies somehow sucked me in with their chemistry. It was kind of crazy experiencing all this in real time and you recapped it so well
"trisha bought ethan a ps5 and then at the end of the episode Trisha literally pissed herself". Oh god all these quotes/clips are bringing everything back 😂. I still feel for everyone at h3 but especially Ethan because you can tell that he really cared for Trisha.
You probably got comments already, but Trisha knew what the holocaust was. YEARS ago, she said her favorite thing was watching movies and reading books about the holocaust. Even if that was a lie, she knew what it was. She is actually very, smart. She's a computer programmer. She plays up the dumb blonde thing as an act that works very, very well for her.
Agreed. Trisha Paytas is genuinely smart. She has gamed the internet and is rich because of it. She's playing a character and has been for 15+ years. I remember her from 2011-12 still on youtube where she had a popular video claiming she was voting for Mitt Romney because he is hot or something. She knows how to get clicks!
The one good thing to come out of frenemies was all of Ethan’s new fans. I started watching because of Trisha’s clout but stayed for Ethan’s personality, and I think a lot of other fans did the same.
i’ve been a fan of h3 since 2016 and been watching the podcast since it’s inception and it’s been so wonderful seeing all the new fans! welcome to the family!
yeah i only found out abt frenemies a year ago and that’s when i started watching h3. i don’t really like zach but ethan, hila and the crew are very entertaining 😭
I was an h3 fan long before the og podcast, so frenemies never appealed to me bc i had this feeling that the moment i got into it everything would go wrong. I finally had a night where I had to kill time while they were going live. shrug. why not. let's give it a shot. that was the last episode
I started watching H3 because of frenemies but one thing I can tell you that I do differently is that every single episode of frenemies I never watched live, I had to read comments to prepare myself to watch the cringe of what Trisha would say. Now with just the H3 crew I’m so happy to catch it live.
Trisha was a huge fangirl of Jacksfilms, people in H3 subreddit find several comments of her on Jack's tweets. Then Jack do impressions of youtubers, there 2 videos, and in one of them was Trisha's impression, but it's unknown what was her reaction on that. But for sure her hatred to him started after some award, where Jack win yutuber of the year. He didn't talk with everyone, including her, and it offended Trisha. That's what I understand, but I agree, this is so funny 😅
As someone who has kept up with Ethan since forever, I’m so sad Frenemies ended: Completely understand why but damn I wish they both could have found a good balance/common ground bc it legitimately was one of the best podcasts out when it was around
It’s like actually physically painful watching anything Trisha does. Whether it’s an act or if she’s genuinely this bad of a person. It hurts my brain that people like this walk the earth
i had to stop watching the podcast bc everything that came out of her mouth made me so uncomfortable lmao like it’s impossible for me to understand not only her complete inability to give a fuck about how she comes across
@@potatoes422 The thing is though, why would someone act like this? You have to have some sort of issues to actively behave this anti-social for clout/attention. Who in the right mind genuinely wants to pretend like they had no idea what the holocaust was whilst being over 30 years of age? Anyways at the end of the day it doesn't really matter whether it's an act or not. The only thing that is factual here is that she is detached from reality. The problem with stating it's 'just an act' is that it allows for someone to disregard responsibility for actions, in the same vein as "it's just a prank bro".
Funny thing is, Trisha has always known what the holocaust was. In her early videos she talked about her interest in the holocaust. She read multiple books about it and watched many movies about it. Don't get me wrong, she is stupid, but not that stupid. it's just an act
i need you to make an unhinged recap of all the vlog squad drama detailing into all the members and their current positions on where they stand with david. (especially carly and erin, those 2 deserve so much better)
For anyone interested, AB and Lena from H3 did a video recently about how they met on his channel. Its so cute and a nice pallet cleanser after being reminded that Trisha and Moses do exist as a couple lol. Families was honestly my fav. Frenimies was funny, but so chaotic. I miss Families with Ethans mom so much lol.
it so nostalgic to see how the culture of the show became to be. frenemies is honestly a gem, and i think it was a great thing for a lot of people who probably needed it, at that difficult time
I've wanted to rewatch Frenamies but I didn't want to sift through all the nonsense and old news. Thank you for making such a well put together video recap. I will be watching this when I want my Frenamies fix.
Thank you, I forgot the good segments of frenemies after all the dark that came from it. I hope off camera they will have a better relationship. Even now, Ethan does support and worry about Trisha with the ongoing Colleen allegations. If Trisha really wishes to get back into the podcast genre, I hope she can surround herself with solid folk on the level of Ethan and can withstand the chaos of Trisha.
I know I shouldn't be laughing but when Trisha compared the pink upside down triangle to symbolize homosexuality during the Holocaust to Tinky Winky's antenna from the Teletubbies I absolutely lost it
god, once frenimies ended, i hopped off the youtube drama train but kept up with JUST Trisha. They are just, WOW. They've grown and shrunk SO MANY TIMES there is no keeping track, and they themselves are in and make so much drama even when they are just sitting there crying on the kitchen floor, that i dont need or want any other drama. I miss Frenimies so much, because it gave me the "gift" of Trisha. A truly chaotic person, that i cant stop watching and judging and just really asking, "how is this an actual person in the world" 😂
7:00 Ethan has dyslexia Come on now, just because you majored in English doesn’t mean it cancels ur dyslexia. He is very well spoken and can read out loud at a good pace. He’s a smart guy with a disability. Let’s give him a lil slack
This is a very interesting video to watch as someone who's watched pretty much all the H3 Podcast episodes but has never seen Frenemies 💀 You not knowing Ethan before starting Frenemies is wild to me, I'd like to experience that LOL I can only imagine
fun fact about trisha before this podcast she had an old video where she said she likes books and movies about the holocaust and even references a book in which the main character gets tricked into the shower. she only said she didn't know what it was. so people would believe her when she said she wasn't anti semetic
Just wanna say, I've watched a handful of your videos so far and this is the one that got me to subscribe. You have a naturally wonderful story-telling ability. Like I bet you could make reading a dictionary interesting. Excellent content I'm excited to be officially on the train
Okay but to be fair to ethan English as a major is more like having a literature major. Like you are reading books and learning the history of creative writing in english/english speaking cultures not necessarily grammar which more likely would be linguistics major (and only if they specialize in grammar/semantics). He prolly had to take a few random linguistics classes but you are not taught grammar in university like literally we are taught grammar in elementary school (hence the questions aimed at 5th graders being grammar ones). We are taught it at the beginning bc it's a basic aspect of writing and it's meant to be up kept by our constant use of it as we go through school but most ppl are not required to do any form of long form writing beyond school so it makes sense that ppl lose their knowledge of it esp someone as old (42) as ethan
Thanks so much for making this recap! I always wanted to watch something like this since I hadn’t kept up with the podcast but wanted to know what happened!
fun fact: the confused math woman meme is a brazillian actress named renata sorrah and she recently came out as bissexual at the age of 76!
Good for her
Thanks for that information!
Yeah and then she took it back, can't have anything in this goddamn country
@@luiza.limaneves ....oh
@@megshep Claire Danes is a completely different person from a different country and not the one from the math lady meme
After seeing the Colleen situation go down, it's so obvious that Ethan was the only genuine industry friend that Trish has ever had.
THIS. 👏
Ethan is an absolute role model of a human being. Papa Bless with ✌🏼&❤.
YEAH
EXACTLY
SEEING FUXKING VIDS SAYING ETHAN BULLIED TRISHA BOTHERS ME SO FKNG MUCH HE WAS SOOOOO GOD DAMN PATIENT HES SINGLE HANDEDLY.PROVEN WHY TO SET BOUNDARIES WITH TRISHA IMMEDIATELY ......
OR SHE MIGHT FUCKING MARRY YOUR GFS BROTHER TO THE POI T SHE BRAINWASHES HIM HE WONT TALK TO ANY OF HIS FAMILY ANYMORE 3:33 LMAO WHETHER THEY KNOOOOWWWWW I FORGOT THAT ONCE MATTERED YEAH HE DISOWNED THE FUXKING FAMILY AND HILA LOST HER BEST FUXKING FRIEND
AND THEYRE KIDS NOW.HAVE A FUXKING ESTRANGED COUSIN
THIS IS A WEIRD ASS SENTENCE BUT I PRAY FOR MAILBU BARB........ FUCKING PLZ GET ADOPTED HERS OR IDFK FUXCCCKKKKKKK
4:09 NO SHE 100 FETISHIZES OF COURSE SHE FUXKING DIDNT YOU KNOW HOW MUCH IT ACTUALLY TAKES NOT TO PAY A RABBI TO CONVERT
and dude wtf.....Ethan doesn't know English he's bad at it....
Big deal Trisha thinks everyone 24 7....wants to be her or in her.....WHAT DOES SHE THINK OF HER KID WOW WHAT A WORLD
Oh come on sorry I totally went off there😅 haha swear I'm not unhinged😂lolol
I'm from h3fam not Trisha I honestly had a harredddd time it took me a long time to watch those eps cuz she just TALKS. TO GD FAST. LIKE PAUSE FOR A SECOND AND HAVE A THOUGHT DONT JUST SPRAY WORDS!
haha sry againnnn❤😅pc and lv
the fact that trisha's kid will grow up and see all this unhinged behavior is sending me 💀💀
ESPECIALLY the racism from the earlier years
im still extremely upset people ador her after all the fake mental disorder videos she did (such as saying she has D.I.D.) which affected so many people. they normalize her actions just because shes “iconic” in media.. (even comments on this video are trying to give her praise??)
The name is sending me even more
@@thatdrawingguydanny u think her baby being raised by her and moses is somehow not gonna be okay with their weird behaviour lol im confused......
@@thatdrawingguydannyand the video where she pretended to be JonBenet Ramsey
as someone who is completely out of the loop with youtube drama, i would love a thousand more recaps like this
I highly recommend the channels "uncle herman" and "primink". The latter doesn't post anymore, but they both have fantastic content about TH-cam drama
Seconding the recommendation for uncle Herman
Fr lol
I’d recommend GEM reloaded/ formally known as frenemies reloaded. She’s really funny and goes over everything
Same! This was very insightful (and hilarious) as I just became obsessed with the Just Trish pod. Still love her. Some people are just so misunderstood!
Some people in the comments seem confused, Trisha is not actually this dumb, she is acting. She just never breaks. If it wasn't so problematic it would be hysterical imo. The Hamilton comment killed me.
Her talking about how milk comes from cows and Ethan asking her to explain what made her say that actually makes me laugh out loud every time
She even has "I'm Andy Kaufman" in her bio 🙄 The audacity to compare herself to him lmao. She's causing actual real world trauma for clout & money.
@@JaseekaRawr Idk anything about Andy Kaufman, can you explain why that's such a big deal?
@@psychedelicgazelle1588 He was a legendary irl troll/actor from back in the 70s(iirc). He seemed like a genuinely nice dude tho. So for her to compare herself to him is insulting lol.
WAIRT REALLY?
The way that Mac DeMarco knows who Trisha is first hand is probably one of my favorite things that came from the podcast.
Extra tea: Moses never actually applied for the Bach3lorette, he only said he would. Trisha was upset about him not applying, as she had expected him to, because Ethan and Hila had told her he was interested. Trisha and Moses met in the dms, and started a relationship out of spite.
Also, Moses had already been married twice before getting engaged to Trisha. When he said he had been alone/single for over a decade he was lying.
The real reason Hila cut Moses out of her life is because Moses predated upon young female fans of h3, and has been accused of stealthing 2 of them. The communication completely broke down when Ethan and Hila caught Trisha and Moses recording them in secret.
hiii, big h3 fan here but never learned about moses' previous marriages or the "recording them in secret" part -- could you elaborate & possibly share some sources?? thanks :)
recording them in secret??
@@jessicawynkoop7149see the comment above for context
@@jessicawynkoop7149ethan covers it in his trisha clapback/mask off rant that i think was removed from the podcast. But you can probably find it on yt somewhere
@@georgiaoddieOn one episode of Off the Rails, Ethan shared that he invited Trisha to do one final episode after their big blowout, she agreed and they actually did do a episode, but Ethan said it did not go well and he had decided not to post it. After the episode, he found out that Moses/Trisha actually secretly recorded the episode without telling Ethan as their excuse was ‘just in case Ethan manipulated the footage, etc.’ Later, Trisha kept blackmailing through her videos I believe, saying to Ethan that she would release the footage and ‘expose’ them. I’m pretty sure that’s what happened, if I’m wrong sorry!!
Trisha pretending she thinks gravity is fake is one of my favorite moments ever I love doing it when I’m talking to an annoying man like she ate with that
I think that Trisha is the perfect example of why just saying sorry for past wrongdoings isnt the point of apologising, its about the commitment to change to be a better person. She can talk up and down about how much shes changed, but what direct action has she put into making up for harming people?
change is slow honestly. i’m not gonna use her mental health as an excuse but shes going to have to almost fully recover before she can truly offer any sort of meaningful amends. she seems to be doing better than she used to but it’ll take a long time. it might not even happen. but regardless of all that people are right to feel like she is untrustworthy and to not forgive her
Maybe yall should realize that the point of change isn't to make amends. Sometimes it's keep moving forward but in a different direction. You can't put the shit back in the horse. She has no obligation either to make amends. It's called radical acceptance. It will never be resolved and that's okay. Move on. That is literally what we are taught to do in recovery for that specific disorder. NOT go back and try to mend anything, because the rumination is a trigger. But to just let it all go and choose differently in the future. You all should get some therapy too if you think you are entitled to anything just because someone offended you
@@painoftheheart12 you kind of are twisting my words here.
My issue with Trisha is that she repeatedly 'takes accountability' and apologises for things, but then she does something equally as horrid or venomous, proving that her apology was just words and not a commitment to change. If she was to change without apologising, that still wouldn't be great, but ultimately that's not my problem with her now.
I've been through DBT. I know about radical acceptance. What you've defined as radical acceptance was not how I was taught about it in my course, it was more about accepting your whole self, negative parts included, and being able to move past the desire to procrastinate or shove down negative throughs and instead let them be a part of you.
It's not about not apologising to people. I honestly don't know where you got that idea.
Its also important to point out that influencer apologies are not like personal apologies in your relationships. They work in a different way.
@notlurking2128 I'm saying this at the front because your lack of being taught real radical acceptance just because you had a therapist who taught you their version of it needs to be addressed before everything else. DBT was made FOR BPD. Specifically. Which is why it is IMPERATIVE that radical acceptance extends BEYOND THE SELF. And COMPLETE radical acceptance has a focus on ACCEPTING A LACK OF CLOSURE
congrats you identified the mental illness. That's what a personality disorder is. People are going to do awful things if they think it was a good idea. And you even pointed out, Trusha does something ELSE. So you can't claim that she doesn't mean her apologies. She tries not to make the same exact mistake twice. And that is the mental illness.
And radical acceptance has many many layers to it in therapy. Accepting yourself and where you are, and accepting what's happened. Just move on. It is necessary to just leave the broom even though you haven't finished sweeping. That is the anecdote the creator of radical acceptance gave to the reasoning behind the creation of acceptance in DBT. Just stop what you are doing whether it is resolved or not. Radical acceptance in DBT IS NOT just some body positivity style self love. It's way way more than that. And if that wasn't how you were taught it, then you weren't taught the entirety of it.
Nothing Trisha has done has ever been on par with people like James Charles, Shane Dawson or Colleen. She's said things that were not okay, or just blatantly ignorant and made herself look as stupid as possible with some shitty take. But never has anyone walked away being harmed by anything Trisha has done. No one's Trans journey was hindered because Trisha identified as a Chicken Nugget. No one was quoting Trisha on alt right TH-cam as some kind of authority on fascism when she word vomited about Obama. Okay? She hasn't done anything really at all that bad to the people of the internet. She has absolutely done some horrible things in her private life like hitting her husband in a fit of rage. But that's not anything TH-cam deserves an apology for.
She's doing a good job in this video. You can actively see her talking herself through DBT lessons. Distancing from the situation, not letting herself get too overwhelmed with ruminating. She's doing good. You don't have to like her. She's not asking you to. But not letting someone be allowed to move on because you think they shouldn't be allowed to show change rather than claim change is an interesting one.
"Trisha, you can't just scream Jew"
Trisha is a lot less innocent than she is presented by Frenemies and in H3. She has a long, screwed up history of abusing people and disturbing problematic behaviour. If anyone wants to learn more I would watch Mysterious’s series on her.
As Phillip DeFranco once said, Frenemies was "The Trisha Paytas Image Rehabilitation Show"
yeah she's literally on the bimbo to nazi apologist pipeline i didnt know even existed lol
@@t0jil_art She also beat Moses until he had a fat bruise on his arm and she definitely abuses him to this day but at the same time Moses is a fellow POS, he has stealthing allegations and talked shit behind Ethan and Hila’s back. I stg he’s also with Trish because he wants her money and to spite his family because he’s said as much but I still have empathy for anyone who has been / is being abused in such a way. He’s trash for supporting Trisha, a woman who dressed up as a murdered toddler and re-enacted her assault and murder.
She also is well known for trolling, and 95% of her problematic behavior was just that. She is far more intelligent and calculating that she gets credit for.
@@thesovgc Yeah I completely agree with you and I think she is very smart and is talented comedically. It’s just a shame that she doesn’t use it for good because I feel like she could if she actually wanted to, I think because of her upbringing and stuff she’s a bit lazy and self indulgent as well as having lots of emotional issues which leads her to abusing the people around her.
That was my favorite podcast of all time, the energy was amazing. But I can admit it's very sad how much it affected Ethan and his family, especially with Hila being pregnant at the time.
Fun fact, Trisha CANNOT speak Korean
it's the way she just counted badly 😭😭😭
i was gonna say… i can’t speak korean either but i have working ears and it did not sound like any korean i’ve heard before
I always suspected, but never knew.
Ive never seen Frenemies but it genuinely is wild how now Ethan and his wife are stuck with Trisha in their family. I can only imagine how family gatherings/holidays are 😬
it’s sad since I believe they’re no contact and the family is split up
Easy, there are not
They don't talk to her or Moses.
That's the issue. There is no family events where they're all together. Ethan recently came out and said that they have to plan family events around seeing each other because Trisha and Moses refuse to be in the same room as Ethan and Hila. It sounds really difficult and heartbreaking.
@@shutup5258 it's because hila and ethan constantly acted like moses was only dating trisha as a joke and tried to push her away and they got cut off. moses had been fighting with their dad years before this and felt like hila always sided with their traditional family.
while trisha is very problematic for many reasons, you do have to admire her dedication to the bit. so many memes came out of these podcasts and they're all trisha saying dumb shit. love it.
She’s iconic in the worst possible way
Thank you for breaking down this chaotic tale
He is actually 42. Its a rookie's mistake, the google is wrong. Also, I really like your videos. I really like the topics you choose to talk about.
I just hear the little birthday song they play during the 42 bit in my head reading this lmaoo
I was about to comment this, it is imperative that all fans know about the classic age debacle
Yes he's 42 it's a conspiracy that he's 38
He’s actually 43 now🥳
It’s wild to see videos where people genuinely think Trisha is as dumb as she presents herself, im so convinced she’s hamming it up
100% she just doesn't rlly break character so it looks somewhat convincing
Thing is if you never see her break character then it's hard what is a joke and what is just her being dumb, like with nikocado, if I never saw him break character during an interview I would've continued believing he was genuinely a moron, like he's still stupid but now I'm sure that his every action had actual thought put into it
She's occasionally air-headed, but 90% of the time she's playing it up
i love this channel so much because the range is unmatched. like you could talk about the entirety of world history and i’d be sat. thank you for your service for providing me with entertaining videos to watch while i eat like an ipad baby at my big age.
Trisha is a ...... person for sure
Are we actually sure tho?? I'm not convinced
one of the people of all time
Are you sure? I thought Trisha was A chicken nugget
I loved how you recapped this; everyone else only focuses on the drama that happened at the end but you really captured what made the podcast special. I was in the same boat as you where I had never heard of Ethan before and only kinda knew of Trisha but Frenemies somehow sucked me in with their chemistry. It was kind of crazy experiencing all this in real time and you recapped it so well
"trisha bought ethan a ps5 and then at the end of the episode Trisha literally pissed herself".
Oh god all these quotes/clips are bringing everything back 😂.
I still feel for everyone at h3 but especially Ethan because you can tell that he really cared for Trisha.
You probably got comments already, but Trisha knew what the holocaust was. YEARS ago, she said her favorite thing was watching movies and reading books about the holocaust. Even if that was a lie, she knew what it was. She is actually very, smart. She's a computer programmer. She plays up the dumb blonde thing as an act that works very, very well for her.
Agreed. Trisha Paytas is genuinely smart. She has gamed the internet and is rich because of it. She's playing a character and has been for 15+ years. I remember her from 2011-12 still on youtube where she had a popular video claiming she was voting for Mitt Romney because he is hot or something. She knows how to get clicks!
The one good thing to come out of frenemies was all of Ethan’s new fans. I started watching because of Trisha’s clout but stayed for Ethan’s personality, and I think a lot of other fans did the same.
i’ve been a fan of h3 since 2016 and been watching the podcast since it’s inception and it’s been so wonderful seeing all the new fans! welcome to the family!
yeah i only found out abt frenemies a year ago and that’s when i started watching h3. i don’t really like zach but ethan, hila and the crew are very entertaining 😭
Stayed for Ethan, doubled down for Olivia
I was an h3 fan long before the og podcast, so frenemies never appealed to me bc i had this feeling that the moment i got into it everything would go wrong. I finally had a night where I had to kill time while they were going live. shrug. why not. let's give it a shot.
that was the last episode
Ive never seen this podcast but this video made it seem so interesting 😭
This podcast was wild😂
It's still good. Fun to watch.
Just a lil sad to know the friendship broke down
i would give anything to be able to watch this podcast again for the first time it’s just so funny
Tbh the podcast was hilarious and a great time until everything broke down.
I started watching H3 because of frenemies but one thing I can tell you that I do differently is that every single episode of frenemies I never watched live, I had to read comments to prepare myself to watch the cringe of what Trisha would say. Now with just the H3 crew I’m so happy to catch it live.
I sat and watched this with no breaks. it’s insane how frenemies short lived life is still so iconic you can make video essays
This is exactly how I started watching H3… from knowing who Trisha was. Now a loyal Ethan watcher.
Can someone explain why Trish hates Jacks Films so much? Her randomly throwing him into arguments was so funny to me.
Trisha was a huge fangirl of Jacksfilms, people in H3 subreddit find several comments of her on Jack's tweets. Then Jack do impressions of youtubers, there 2 videos, and in one of them was Trisha's impression, but it's unknown what was her reaction on that. But for sure her hatred to him started after some award, where Jack win yutuber of the year. He didn't talk with everyone, including her, and it offended Trisha. That's what I understand, but I agree, this is so funny 😅
As someone who has kept up with Ethan since forever, I’m so sad Frenemies ended: Completely understand why but damn I wish they both could have found a good balance/common ground bc it legitimately was one of the best podcasts out when it was around
i agree and when they would call someone out everyone knew and they would basically take them down they kinda ruled youtube
The fact that anyone was on Trisha’s side during this drama was insane to me
Majority of people were not
They're all on r/frenemies3 now - 'tis a scary place
@@captain_britain had to mute it because every time it got recommended for me I felt I got dumber.
Of course - everything is an echo chamber for you 13 year olds.
I'm sure they're like 10-13
God I really took for granted the comedic relief that came from Frenemies
It’s like actually physically painful watching anything Trisha does. Whether it’s an act or if she’s genuinely this bad of a person. It hurts my brain that people like this walk the earth
Its an act
i had to stop watching the podcast bc everything that came out of her mouth made me so uncomfortable lmao like it’s impossible for me to understand not only her complete inability to give a fuck about how she comes across
It's literally the oldest routine in comedy. Eccentric person and the straight man
@@potatoes422 The thing is though, why would someone act like this? You have to have some sort of issues to actively behave this anti-social for clout/attention. Who in the right mind genuinely wants to pretend like they had no idea what the holocaust was whilst being over 30 years of age? Anyways at the end of the day it doesn't really matter whether it's an act or not. The only thing that is factual here is that she is detached from reality. The problem with stating it's 'just an act' is that it allows for someone to disregard responsibility for actions, in the same vein as "it's just a prank bro".
watching the podcast as it was happening is and forever will be a moment on youtube. the content gold🙏🏼
Funny thing is, Trisha has always known what the holocaust was. In her early videos she talked about her interest in the holocaust. She read multiple books about it and watched many movies about it. Don't get me wrong, she is stupid, but not that stupid. it's just an act
The whole podcast was an act. I mean come on, they kept making “jokes” about how it would end.
Trisha giving her self a point for answering “the thinnest layer of the earth” 😂😂😂😂
AB telling the story of how some of his friends died but trying to keep it Low key and not bring down the mood was amazing I remember that
Ive seen the “I know my cousin f****d his sister” clip 100s of times and it makes me laugh EVERY SINGLE TIME
I love your recap videos because you can tell you're deeply interested in the topic, no matter how bat shit crazy it is
i need you to make an unhinged recap of all the vlog squad drama detailing into all the members and their current positions on where they stand with david. (especially carly and erin, those 2 deserve so much better)
Imagine trying to start beef with Hank Green, of all people
For anyone interested, AB and Lena from H3 did a video recently about how they met on his channel. Its so cute and a nice pallet cleanser after being reminded that Trisha and Moses do exist as a couple lol. Families was honestly my fav. Frenimies was funny, but so chaotic. I miss Families with Ethans mom so much lol.
it so nostalgic to see how the culture of the show became to be. frenemies is honestly a gem, and i think it was a great thing for a lot of people who probably needed it, at that difficult time
Just when I think Trisha and I had nothing in common, she goes and tells the world she loves Bernard the Elf.
You know, Trisha fetishizing jewish men and their love of Bernard the Elf makes a LOT of sense 🙄
i was just realising it's because of her adam Sandler obsession but ohmygod we were blind to the signs
Can you explain
@@user-ge7ok3cf5h Bernard the elf is considered widely to be a jew-coded character, also the actor who played him, David Krumholtz, is Jewish
oh my god never knew it needed this covered. this is essential viewing
Even after how everything went down, I still really miss Frenemies.
I've wanted to rewatch Frenamies but I didn't want to sift through all the nonsense and old news. Thank you for making such a well put together video recap. I will be watching this when I want my Frenamies fix.
Hila saying Moses' fav thing about himself is his hair, Moses cuts his hair short... psychological warfare
And I quote "a fat piggy bitch" SENT ME im HOLLERING In the office omfg
Let’s not leave out Trisha constantly hitting on, touching, and generally flirting with Ethan throughout the run of the podcast
Him calling her fat during the celestial body part was problematic but a funny delivery of the horrible insult
“The thinnest layer of the earth?”
“Correct”
“Oh thank you I got a point 😌✨”
“SoRRY?”
This will never stop being funny 😹😹😹😹
the fact that she dressed up as an IOF soldier is rlly weird… someone needs to tell her cosplaying as colonizers is not cute
She’s a chronic race cosplayer it’s not new lmao
shut it white girl
Thank you, I forgot the good segments of frenemies after all the dark that came from it. I hope off camera they will have a better relationship. Even now, Ethan does support and worry about Trisha with the ongoing Colleen allegations. If Trisha really wishes to get back into the podcast genre, I hope she can surround herself with solid folk on the level of Ethan and can withstand the chaos of Trisha.
the trivia episode is literally so iconic. i didn’t listen/watch the podcast but i think i’ve animal seen that one in full
I know I shouldn't be laughing but when Trisha compared the pink upside down triangle to symbolize homosexuality during the Holocaust to Tinky Winky's antenna from the Teletubbies I absolutely lost it
Not a good day to forget that cancer is a zodiac sign
always so happy when i see you upload!
The best part of this podcast was Ethan’s brain breaking at the batshit things Trisha would say!! 🤣🤣🤣 “I know my cousin fucked his sister.” “👁️👄👁️”
Why do I actually miss them together like they were just too hilarious I can’t.
the funny thing about frenemies (in my case) is that I genuinely dislike trisha and ethan but together they were my favorite pair ever...
The most chaotic podcast of all time! Thanks for bringing me back
Girl this is such a turn from your usual cartoon content 😭 And I love it
it is extremely funny to me that you didn't know Ethan was the Vape Nation guy until the 27th episode lmao
god, once frenimies ended, i hopped off the youtube drama train but kept up with JUST Trisha. They are just, WOW. They've grown and shrunk SO MANY TIMES there is no keeping track, and they themselves are in and make so much drama even when they are just sitting there crying on the kitchen floor, that i dont need or want any other drama. I miss Frenimies so much, because it gave me the "gift" of Trisha.
A truly chaotic person, that i cant stop watching and judging and just really asking, "how is this an actual person in the world" 😂
35:26 , I sorry for this guys loss, but the way he said that was hilarious
The “mmm?” Clip still sends me
7:00 Ethan has dyslexia
Come on now, just because you majored in English doesn’t mean it cancels ur dyslexia. He is very well spoken and can read out loud at a good pace. He’s a smart guy with a disability. Let’s give him a lil slack
Honestly, I knew of both Trisha and Ethan but never looked at their content. I love Trisha’s chaotic energy. Why is she so funny?
The best uno reverse card being the Myka Adoption is so wrong and so fucking hilarious 😭😭😭😭
This is a very interesting video to watch as someone who's watched pretty much all the H3 Podcast episodes but has never seen Frenemies 💀 You not knowing Ethan before starting Frenemies is wild to me, I'd like to experience that LOL I can only imagine
I can’t imagine what content you had to be consuming back then to be more aware of Trisha than Ethan
This is the one and only true unhinged recap of frenemies ❤
You timed this perfectly with H3’s break, thank u goddess
Gonna pull out an Ouija board and summon Robin Williams because I desperately need to know if him and Trisha doing the deed is true
I wish we lived in the timeline where this show could still exist 😭😭😭
0:30
I was focused on the hair but nice necklace😂
Frenemies was literally the most iconic duo in both the best and worst way possible
Always love when you upload
fun fact about trisha before this podcast she had an old video where she said she likes books and movies about the holocaust and even references a book in which the main character gets tricked into the shower. she only said she didn't know what it was. so people would believe her when she said she wasn't anti semetic
Best podcast everrrr idcccc
I needed this recap. I've been wanting to watch the episodes again but i cant stomach trisha anymore. this was satisfying
thank you queen for this
Frenemies was my covid lockdown guilty pleasure.. it will be missed😭
This is so off-topic but your hair looks SO GOOD I JUST NEED YOU TO KNOW THAT
I have been WAITING for a breakdown of this. Thank you!!
Just wanna say, I've watched a handful of your videos so far and this is the one that got me to subscribe. You have a naturally wonderful story-telling ability. Like I bet you could make reading a dictionary interesting. Excellent content I'm excited to be officially on the train
the are you smarter than a fifth grader episode is SO funny
i would buy one of those frenemies hoodies in a heartbeat if i could 😭
It’s so fun to see wtf this podcast is about coming from a h3 leftovers fan lmso
Ive just been rewatching the entire frenemies series 👀 its been a lot of fun. Was funny to see this video pop up all of a sudden
Amanda side note, you look gorgeous! That top suits you so much!!!
“So tell me about why you said that” 😂😂😂
*begins to count in Korean*
“If ya know ya know” 😎
your channel is geared towards me
I’ve never been so glad I stayed up late 💅
Okay but to be fair to ethan English as a major is more like having a literature major. Like you are reading books and learning the history of creative writing in english/english speaking cultures not necessarily grammar which more likely would be linguistics major (and only if they specialize in grammar/semantics). He prolly had to take a few random linguistics classes but you are not taught grammar in university like literally we are taught grammar in elementary school (hence the questions aimed at 5th graders being grammar ones). We are taught it at the beginning bc it's a basic aspect of writing and it's meant to be up kept by our constant use of it as we go through school but most ppl are not required to do any form of long form writing beyond school so it makes sense that ppl lose their knowledge of it esp someone as old (42) as ethan
Thanks so much for making this recap! I always wanted to watch something like this since I hadn’t kept up with the podcast but wanted to know what happened!
girl!! you look so good in this!! love that neckline!