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  • @catherine9808
    @catherine9808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1588

    The way they spoke to that beautiful man who had been sexually abused was absolutely powerful to watch . I work as a clinical psychologist and I mean it with all my heart these men did more in that conversation than I ever could have done for him in my professional capacity ! Blew me away , Thankyou

    • @Sanka-ya-dead
      @Sanka-ya-dead 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      That little speech after escorting him out saying how they like him is a massive thing especially within the military environment. That in itself is enough to help people get through training.

    • @CJ-ft9yo
      @CJ-ft9yo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      That’s the most amazing part of the series. When they find negative traits and question them, the advice is very straightforward but it is about that person they’re watching. No fancy words, listening intently just tell it as it is - very powerful.

    • @sqnhunter
      @sqnhunter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      The purpose of taking a man who has hit rock bottom ...even driven to rock bottom, and then rebuilding him in the way he should be, in the way of the regiment, and in the way of a soldier of the regiment, is how they get their best men. You take a man with a predetermined disposition who cant be changed, and he is totally unacceptable from the start. If a man is failing, you drive him to utter despair...to rock bottom and then you can remodel him...this is what they do. They do it exceptionally well. One mans cast offs are an other mans treasure.

    • @matth6900
      @matth6900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That has got to be the absolute worst way to say how inept you are at your supposed "profession". You just gave yourself the worst Yelp review imaginable.

    • @AweSomeGamerzFTW
      @AweSomeGamerzFTW 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@matth6900 the environment they're in can be a lot more supportive than a doctor, doesn't say anything about the doctor, but that the person needs to be in an environment that they feel ready to talk in

  • @TheORIGINALIronGrace
    @TheORIGINALIronGrace ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I was also diagnosed with cancer. At age 48. I’m 53 now and cancer free. But damn…you do lose a PART OF YOU to this disease. No matter who you are. It takes a part of who you ARE with it…😔

  • @thebun2901
    @thebun2901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    You can tell the first man blames himself for his girlfriends death which is heartbreaking as its not his fault in any way 😔 hope he finds peace one day 😔

    • @sloht4061
      @sloht4061 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think it all comes down to needing to find a reason for their death and that it wasn't pointless with no answers. We, as a species, cannot understand the reality of death, the fact that one day someone is here and the next they are gone. Blaming himself is probably his means of coming to terms with that loss. I think everyone does that, even if someone dies of illness. "Could I have given them something before it got worse" or "Could I have spotted it before it got bad so they could get help earlier"

    • @joshuamoss9409
      @joshuamoss9409 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was gonna say the same it’s when he says she died on a scooter. The slight pause and then he says the one he brought the second he paused I knew he was gonna say something like that it is just tragic and I have nothing but feelings and sympathy for the guy hope he’s doing well

  • @al1356
    @al1356 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Please channel 4 keep this series alive for as long as possible. The positive influence it has is something that needs to be encouraged. Huge respect for all the staff and recruits who have appeared over the years.

    • @BG-ef8sk
      @BG-ef8sk 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They ruined it by going woke, Australia sas is the real deal now with Ant,staz, jay and Ollie fronting it

  • @Brad8261
    @Brad8261 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Had me in tears. Well done lads 💯

  • @rainbowrose9299
    @rainbowrose9299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Awww love those ones who always take the burden very strong people.

  • @MO-vn7kc
    @MO-vn7kc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I just wanna hug this guy.

  • @dantesparda4493
    @dantesparda4493 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Oh man... that last one broke me man... I've had guy friends who admitted to me years later they got victimized.

  • @10Cnote
    @10Cnote 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    “Men have it easy” I keep fucking hearing that and only Men get how hard it is just to stand up and walk forward after shit happens to us.

  • @paulhannah3117
    @paulhannah3117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Mad respect boys!!

  • @aquietgirlcalledsoph739
    @aquietgirlcalledsoph739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    That last one broke me. What an absolutely hideous thing to go through. Such an evil thing to happen to someone so young.
    God bless him, I hope he finds inner peace ❤️❤️❤️
    I hope his “coach” rots in prison for the trauma he placed on those boys he taught.

    • @TashaShaMus
      @TashaShaMus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I was molested when I was 6 and my nanny at the time stood by and watched it happen. I'm 36 now and it still affects me. I try not to think about it. That's how l cope.

    • @narstietokez3713
      @narstietokez3713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@TashaShaMus I hope you are doing well mate

    • @aquietgirlcalledsoph739
      @aquietgirlcalledsoph739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@TashaShaMus that’s awful. I am so incredibly sorry that that happened to you.
      People are so messed up in their head.

    • @tomatosoup6428
      @tomatosoup6428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The coach is probably in a lot of pain because child abusers/ rapists get beaten up in prison a lot so that’s good

    • @laineykahu7454
      @laineykahu7454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@tomatosoup6428 They’re killed once prisoners find out, especially Pedofiles.

  • @ganges6661
    @ganges6661 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And you can still help. You could save the next person. Good on you. Brave. F**king proud of you

  • @pollydickinson4789
    @pollydickinson4789 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What very brave men. Triumph over adversity!! That’s what I call a very brave man/ women indeed.😊

  • @mikeyu5004
    @mikeyu5004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Incredible stories by incredible men. Well done 👍

  • @scottkilner2116
    @scottkilner2116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    A always was brought up to be hard And tough as My grandad and uncles were former marines and a played Semi professional Rugby 🏉. So a never really cryed or got emotional Etc. But when My brother was found Dead in he's mate's flat a basically cryed for months on end and ended up with the likes of depression and anxiety Etc. A learnt that mental health isent a weakness is And asking for help is Also not a sign of weakness. My Mum got me help and a accepted it And it's because of that Am alive today and that's what My brother would have wanted

    • @happydays5507
      @happydays5507 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      GOOD ON YOU! KEEP GOING! YOUR AN INCREDIBLE PERSON AND AN INSPIRATION!

    • @cookieking1996
      @cookieking1996 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good for you, mate. Life is tough at times but you have to keep hope that eventually you’ll overcome the adversity

  • @michaelgarman5569
    @michaelgarman5569 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I never spoke out about my sexual abuse until someone else came forward. I felt embarrassed and worthless. I hope i can make a difference to somebody's life and let them know they are not alone.

  • @mac10ner
    @mac10ner ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Brave men telling their story

  • @johnrafaelestacio374
    @johnrafaelestacio374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wish I knew what happened to that vlogger Ms. Emily Hartridge that day. But They are nowhere near the London roads or the reactor room.

  • @Mistressofthegroove
    @Mistressofthegroove 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a legend that abused man is.. he'd already won in my book. Real life courage.

  • @heyitsjoe8446
    @heyitsjoe8446 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That last man is tough as hell, open up and do it in front of cameras. I wish I could find the courage to be honest and vulnerable like that and my shits not even close to as bad, but I’ll just keep bottling it up for now 😅

  • @ashscott6068
    @ashscott6068 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The moral of the story is: Don't even apply to go on the show, if you don't have a tragic back-story. It works out fine, but I hope nobody thinks that's the reason for it. It's just how "reality" TV is. Each season, you need more and more extreme "reality".

    • @lenapesoccer122
      @lenapesoccer122 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think in this instance, it's people with tragic pasts who want to test themselves and grow

  • @ianboyce8202
    @ianboyce8202 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The first man your a credit to your late girlfriend I’m sorry for your loss keep going mate 👍

  • @stub6378
    @stub6378 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sundeep is such a badass.

  • @YachtReport
    @YachtReport 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You don’t ‘sign up’ to the SAS you are selected.

    • @finlayfowler778
      @finlayfowler778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      This isn’t actual SAS training it’s just a taster. If it were actual SAS training they wouldn’t be able to show the recruits faces.

    • @YachtReport
      @YachtReport 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Referring to a comment in the video. I’m ex-military, how about the rest of you?

    • @xxwolfrocksxx1829
      @xxwolfrocksxx1829 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Since Finlay says that its a taster, perhaps they signed up for it and that's how they know to consider them?

    • @eliyahuohiyon7461
      @eliyahuohiyon7461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not true at all, you literally put in an application for selection.

  • @jaynejameson1607
    @jaynejameson1607 ปีที่แล้ว

    These guys are better than any counsellor 👌

  • @rogermoroney9868
    @rogermoroney9868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Preferred abseiling facing rockface than in this program, as I did in Outward Bound cours of 3 weeks.

  • @miroslavamm6912
    @miroslavamm6912 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    UNBELIEVABLE... THEY KNOW WHO YOU ARE. AND THEY STILL DID THATq!!! THAT!!!! IF YOU DONT OD THIS WE WILL NEVER RECOVER. YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO UNLOSE THIS WAR HENRY

  • @mattytown4579
    @mattytown4579 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the exact same story and everything he says is exaclty the same as what happend to me its truley horroble and i wouldnt wish it upon anyone 😓❤️🙏

  • @minigrande1939
    @minigrande1939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have a fear of natural heights yet love paragliding and have my monoplane and helicopter license. But standing at a great height looking down gives me fear. I hate I have a huge 😱 fear! . I mean Titanic! was a horror movie to me The Ocean.! surfing I don't like. The sea can eat you in a second. My friends all love surfing and water sports they think I'm nuts for loving sky'sports they think I'm mad for loving skysports

  • @JaimeClements-z4v
    @JaimeClements-z4v 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nothing to be embarrassed about hold your head high mate

  • @terrypoole7978
    @terrypoole7978 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When i said my mate's passed the Selection in Special Forces. ? It wasn't easy , they were professional Soldiers for Civilian2to go through Ants training takes some going and at least you tried. Be Proud of yourself.

  • @jaynejameson1607
    @jaynejameson1607 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your not a victim my friend your a survivor 🫶 you are such a brave man so don’t let the animal who did this win!!!

  • @MarcBirks
    @MarcBirks ปีที่แล้ว

    They didn't even show the most powerful one, the recruit that listened the his wife be murdered down the phone by a schizophrenic!!!!! I remember watching it live and itz haunted me ever since 😢

  • @ORDEROFTHEKNIGHTSTEMPLAR13
    @ORDEROFTHEKNIGHTSTEMPLAR13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's bad that they get these poor guys with troubled pasts which is only for TV ratings.But it's good in another way how they push these guys and talk about there problem's.Because it's a massive release and a burden to finally let it all out and get it off your chest ..

  • @RubyMarkLindMilly
    @RubyMarkLindMilly ปีที่แล้ว

    Is he talking about Barry benell the foirball scout at crewe?

  • @zombilicious
    @zombilicious 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In response to the disgusting comments. Toxic masculinity does not exist. Only hateful people who adhere to feminist (hateful) ideology believe this.
    To accused someone of this is bigotry. And to gaslight them and say its acceptable is evil.
    Toxic masculinity does not exist.

  • @rainbowrose9299
    @rainbowrose9299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    11.05 poor lad x what a liberty.

  • @carlosgerez4756
    @carlosgerez4756 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Estaría bueno que este en castellano. 10 puntos

  • @polski1986
    @polski1986 ปีที่แล้ว

    Except those are not sas recruits.. but a tv game version of it..

  • @terrypoole7978
    @terrypoole7978 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ant you done a good job.its. a shame you got sacked or retired.take car mate.

  • @philippawallacedunlop9393
    @philippawallacedunlop9393 ปีที่แล้ว

    I miss Ant

  • @alimoeed2577
    @alimoeed2577 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Without any Middleton this show is absolutely zero -1 not the same at all. Bring him back

    • @BG-ef8sk
      @BG-ef8sk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The show has gone woke and will never be worth watching, Ant was the main one and they got rid of him because of pc madness

    • @alimoeed2577
      @alimoeed2577 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@BG-ef8sk True said mate

  • @MarcusGlenister-qd3nn
    @MarcusGlenister-qd3nn ปีที่แล้ว

    Repelling like that takes practice any its fucking scary those who done that for the first time are not telling the truth i cacked it doing that and that was a lbig hight he was doing that on i

  • @hopeharley9734
    @hopeharley9734 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙏❤️

  • @travelingjack8240
    @travelingjack8240 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Holy f*ck, none of them should be on course let alone SAS. If you can't deal with the fcking pressure and have to see the doctor everything your stressed out then you shouldn't be in the military or trying out for SAS. I haven't watched this before so I'm unaware if this is actually a SAS selection course but holy fack they need to pack their kit up and go home. I'm still in the military till this day so far 5 yrs in and I thought Basic was going to be hard but after doing other sh*t it made Basic look f*cking easy. Everything you f*cking do from the beginning of your career in the military will get harder and it will challenge you. I've got to see and do a lot of sh*t in the military and it opened up doors for me like PMC work as well as being a First Respondsr in the Civi life. Your going to see and do some thing people would disagree with, I don't feel like these guys are cut out for this life especially SAS.

    • @masonj910
      @masonj910 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a bloody show they're not actually going to recruit people for the sas

    • @travelingjack8240
      @travelingjack8240 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@masonj910 If you read my comment you would see I was unsure about it because I don't watch TV.

    • @danieltubio-rey1984
      @danieltubio-rey1984 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@travelingjack8240 so you comment on something your unsure about... seems logical.

  • @TituslovesPop
    @TituslovesPop 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I want to train to be a killer and kill on order because I was bullied and my pet snail died in a traffic accident when I was 8

  • @JamesQuinn-yw1dn
    @JamesQuinn-yw1dn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Feeble army.😅

  • @patdennison4508
    @patdennison4508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ant, or what ever he's calling himself these days, is doing this for the Cammeras.
    Don't get me wrong, "Ant" is shit hot and he's right, but don't forget this is for the Cammera. Billy is easily the Highest rank, even experienced to the Highest Values of a Respected Opretive.
    Nevertheless, I've been in plenty of Positions like this. You have to basically accept the Job! You're going to die, but you'll beet the Clock and thus, in an Orderly Fasion.
    This is FACT!!

    • @randmdon
      @randmdon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      cameras* operative* beat* fashion*

    • @wedge5896
      @wedge5896 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why hasn't your comment got any likes

    • @patdennison4508
      @patdennison4508 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wedge5896 Not sure mate?

  • @deborahjaneapperley1004
    @deborahjaneapperley1004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Don’t be a victim of abuse be strong and stand up against it. Abusers are filthy cowards .

    • @stillirise9705
      @stillirise9705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      For some its easiser said than done

    • @AndJusticeForMe
      @AndJusticeForMe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      It’s very difficult for children to do so.

    • @celticcheetah6371
      @celticcheetah6371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I was abused when I was 5. I had no idea what was happening. What the fuck was I supposed to do to stop that? Think before you say stupid shit like this. It’s hurtful.

    • @KorovaMemeBar
      @KorovaMemeBar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@celticcheetah6371 i think they mean in the metaphorical sense, i doubt they would intend it to be directed in that manner because victim blaming is horrible and no one should feel like they are responsible for their own trauma

    • @thinkingofaname6233
      @thinkingofaname6233 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Celtic Cheetah
      Ok then, at 5? You wouldn't remember so much and what you would remember would be a weird memory. This whole stupid victim bs is idiotic, i cant remember wtf i was doing at 8 or 10,9,7,6,5 all the fuckin way to zero, cuz memories aren't that important as a child
      Grow up and move on.

  • @nazakraza2471
    @nazakraza2471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hahaha he got his poe pushed up . Lol score loads off goals in him

  • @emirates111
    @emirates111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    trying to make the show the xfactor and being overly inclusive is just plain cringe. Bunch of snow flakes, Ant Middleton never should have lost his job.

    • @finleythomas1717
      @finleythomas1717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Init it’s so annoying he made the show

    • @KorovaMemeBar
      @KorovaMemeBar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I think its plain cringe you dont care about mens mental health because its belittling comments like yours which creates the stigma where men want to bottle up everything in their life rather than being human beings

    • @emirates111
      @emirates111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KorovaMemeBar never said anything of the sort weirdo snowflake

    • @Jzaday
      @Jzaday 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Calls people a snowflake while getting angry at a video he chose to click on😂 ok mate

    • @KorovaMemeBar
      @KorovaMemeBar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@emirates111 "overly inclusive" insinuates and reinforces that it's not the norm for men to vocalise their struggles in life but I've already explained that and you didn't understand which for someone who repeatedly used the phrase 'snowflake' doesn't strike me as a surprise

  • @milksips3876
    @milksips3876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1340

    The way the guys use their masculinity to support these guys is the exact opposite of toxic masculinity. They really do this well, you can see if they totally lost it they would change the serious act but it helped these guys and I think that says a lot.

    • @DEUSVULTEAM
      @DEUSVULTEAM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Toxic masculinity does not exist .

    • @seancosgrove1378
      @seancosgrove1378 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@DEUSVULTEAM I mean it literally does you troglodyte

    • @milksips3876
      @milksips3876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@DEUSVULTEAM 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @DEUSVULTEAM
      @DEUSVULTEAM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@seancosgrove1378 trigger warning ⚠️

    • @kevinmccart1127
      @kevinmccart1127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@seancosgrove1378 you are bang on. It was like that when I joined but not once when anyone struggled they did not think they couldn't go to the instructor. They were tough when they needed to be and its what helps. Cos knowing you get encouragement from someone like that through a hard time will definitely push u on

  • @briggyb
    @briggyb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1216

    I just cried for 14 minutes straight. Often men don't realize there is strength in vulnerability. These are truly brave men.

    • @hamzamohamud1988
      @hamzamohamud1988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Key term : 'MEN'

    • @olliesanders4624
      @olliesanders4624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@hamzamohamud1988 what?

    • @finleythomas1717
      @finleythomas1717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@hamzamohamud1988 there are woman on this show you do realise that this is just because the men have the saddest story???

    • @jordanmathews3562
      @jordanmathews3562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@finleythomas1717 This video is about a man being vulnerable, why would we mention women when they’re not directly related to this at all?

    • @WorldEater-XII
      @WorldEater-XII 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's good that you cried. It's the realisation of making a step forward, a moment to grieve, or just having a hard life atm. Keep your head up, you'll make it through 💪😎

  • @mikecharlie794
    @mikecharlie794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    The last one made me cry. I get so angry and could probably end up in prison myself if I ever had children and found out someone did something like that to them!

  • @monkmell
    @monkmell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    Really, really brave souls. My heart goes out to every one of them. I hope they know just how brave they each are. Love, peace and respect to you all.

  • @williebauld1007
    @williebauld1007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +635

    I’d say the most heartbreaking one of all, they missed it out. The one where the guy had to listen on the phone to his wife being murdered
    Not that any of the clips were in absolutely no way trivial at all, very far from it, they are all harrowing

    • @MrLooperg
      @MrLooperg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yes that was very upsetting, don’t know why they left that one out.

    • @marcjohnson7734
      @marcjohnson7734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@MrLooperg it's on another segment I watched that before this ,so it's out there, that bloke is amazing like these lads

    • @jayph77
      @jayph77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He has a charity called strongmen. Amazing character

    • @williebauld1007
      @williebauld1007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jayph77 Has he? I’ll look into it and will definitely give a donation, his story was burned onto my psyche when I watched and saw the clip afterwards, absolutely harrowing and about the worst thing anyone could imagine

    • @CJ-ft9yo
      @CJ-ft9yo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That was so harrowing to watch, what an utterly horrific experience

  • @julianduquemin7701
    @julianduquemin7701 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    I know how number 6 feels. I lost my brother in a motorcycle accident back in 1989 and it still hurts to talk about it, even after all these years. He was the pillion on the back of my bike and we got hit by a car. One of THE hardest things I have ever had to deal with; survivor's guilt....

    • @ORDEROFTHEKNIGHTSTEMPLAR13
      @ORDEROFTHEKNIGHTSTEMPLAR13 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yeah I lost my sister to cancer and we we're 2 peas in a pod and she was always there for me whenever I needed her.And now there's a big hole there what she left and I've not talked about her to anyone about it and I sure do miss her..

    • @harrywitney3501
      @harrywitney3501 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      i'm so sorrry for your loss. It gets better

    • @dude9318
      @dude9318 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thats horrible
      I pray God helps you with this guilt

    • @dude9318
      @dude9318 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ORDEROFTHEKNIGHTSTEMPLAR13try to find someone
      If Believe in God i suggest prayer.
      It will help

  • @AncientMorbidity1991
    @AncientMorbidity1991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    I adore how they really show empathy for the recruits it is truly amazing. Thank you for your service.🇺🇸🇬🇧

  • @cdmanjak
    @cdmanjak 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Really goes to show you don't know what someone is battling behind closed doors are amazing guys

  • @guyva2350
    @guyva2350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    That last one is truly heartbreaking. Hes such a brave lad

  • @RIPjohnshelby
    @RIPjohnshelby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I was a victim of sexual assault for a while when I was 12 from my gym coach. It was terrible. I can understand what that man went through. Poor guy

    • @jimines6422
      @jimines6422 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      God bless you. I hope you've healed, or continue to heal as a person.

    • @LiamVidler-ib6tv
      @LiamVidler-ib6tv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You’re an incredible character, and one day you could help thousands bud keep going stay strong you’ve got this x

  • @jack1aug96
    @jack1aug96 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I truly feel for Jake (number 6). I used to watch Emily’s TH-cam videos back in the day. She was very funny and brought joy to so many people, so I was shocked and devastated when I found out about her death. I can’t begin to imagine what Jake was going through at the time and probably still is to this day.

    • @dude9318
      @dude9318 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did she have a TH-cam channel

  • @tomthumb3500
    @tomthumb3500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    This show is great it allows men tough hard men to speak about things bothering them.

  • @johnkennedy7368
    @johnkennedy7368 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Panic attacks can come even when your relaxed or in a good mood.
    No matter how many times you have them your often convinced your dying.

    • @liammcgrath2306
      @liammcgrath2306 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’ve had a panic attack, it’s the worst thing I’ve ever experienced. Never want one again

  • @dominicfarmer7234
    @dominicfarmer7234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Who dares wins ,but who tried my also triumph . Always stand astute ,it's not a game it's a choice off psychological solitude you never knew existed .Thanks guys for pushing yourself to show others that the hardest part is proving to yourself that "guess what you can ".50% off the battle is getting out the door .

  • @COYBIG1967
    @COYBIG1967 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The last hot was just too much for me, it broke me , it hurt that he actually felt guilty or that he wasn’t strong for not speaking of it before . The fact your still walking this earth and doing things like this tells me you every very strong.

  • @bananabuttons6637
    @bananabuttons6637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    If you are scared of heights perhaps not the best job for you.The poor guy though, losing his soul mate. And totally blames himself poor man. I hope the man recovers from cancer but he needs to share his burden. These stories break my heart.

    • @LeSnafu
      @LeSnafu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      7 months late answer, but you can overcome the fearness of heights. I am afraid of heights and i just took a skylift licence where the skylift can go up to 20 meters. 20 meters might not sound so high up but its quite high, specially when the basket kinda swings back and fourth. That puts fear in your mind. I am working on it and i get higher up each time i use the skylift. Fear is something you create in your mind. You picture things that can go wrong, equipment failure etc. trusting the equipment and small steps each time and soon enough you get up to those 20 meters :)

    • @bananabuttons6637
      @bananabuttons6637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LeSnafu also fear is your natural bodies defence telling you no. That might be don’t jump of a building or just don’t put your life at risk. You only get one chance and you don’t get another chance. You live your life like you can just get a pack to upgrade you.

  • @DianaKazimiera-
    @DianaKazimiera- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Great respect for gentlemans...great respect 🕊️ It's amazing how much a human can go through and how strong he becomes...Great respect from heroes...Great respect for a strong ,smart team 🤝 🕊️

  • @aiden5star5
    @aiden5star5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    as a 27/m who was sexually abused by my older step brother who kept it in for 21 years him talking kind of broke me, ive been going therapy for over a year. and its helped alittle but still feel trapped in that mental bubble where just gaining a few feet in last year to open up is my mountain to climb i dont think it will ever leave me but i wanna be able to do what this man has done and get up and do stuff like this.
    much respect and love.

    • @mdm3boi
      @mdm3boi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Best of luck to you mate, don't let it define you and you should be proud of yourself.

    • @TheKevgray1
      @TheKevgray1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      By your comment you've already hit the summit. From a fellow survivor; we are through it. It won't leave you, you leave it. Memories can't do any damage, they are just thoughts. Go well.

  • @shandywarhol4444
    @shandywarhol4444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Awwww ....poor guy. There's strength, right there. Kx

    • @Niko6767
      @Niko6767 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stop acting like you care 😒

  • @shannons7101
    @shannons7101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The strength of that last guy was fucking incredible.

    • @shannons7101
      @shannons7101 ปีที่แล้ว

      @breadandcircuses8127 I am so sorry that you live this way, good luck in life 🥰

  • @jamespatrick98
    @jamespatrick98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I had the same thing that happened to Amuz after he finished when I was in basic. Was the Flag/Guide-On bearer for the my flight in the AF. Was in formation one morning waiting to begin march and all of a sudden, I started shaking uncontrollably and struggling to breathe. Had several of my flight mates behind me start calling my name, telling me breathe and relax, to just try and calm down

  • @busydad4858
    @busydad4858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I remember the story from the brave man at the end when it was first on TV, myself and my wife were both reduced to absolute tears.

  • @stevengrewal9656
    @stevengrewal9656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    He's talking about famous TH-camr Emily Hartridge.

    • @ShaneeyLX
      @ShaneeyLX 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Such a horrible way she went too ..The back wheel came off escooter and she flew under a lorry and it rolled over her and crushed her to bits multiple traumatic injuries

    • @jamesjameson4566
      @jamesjameson4566 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ShaneeyLX and you had to write that did you?

  • @GrilledCheeseObamaSandwichMMMM
    @GrilledCheeseObamaSandwichMMMM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    “How’d a muppet like you pass selection?”

  • @ANONYMOUS--mu3vm
    @ANONYMOUS--mu3vm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I served royal regiment of scotland 2 tours of afgahn got out met my fiance iv known her before i joined and she passed away with QTS in her heart she was in a comer for 2 months and stayed with her by her side every day the consutant had shut down the staff room because i was hulcinating via no food water and sleep she passed away 2nd of june last year half 1 in the morning in my arms cuddling her and i dont cry but since then i cry every night and sleep with out her cuddling her green white polkadot shirt and pray to god to take my life instead and bring her back to her mum and sister but life dosnt go that way sadly

  • @knuckletherapyserveothersf6092
    @knuckletherapyserveothersf6092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow all you should be proud of yourself for working through everything you guys have gone through in your personal life and still have the courage to keep fighting no matter what. Courage isn't something everyone has . There are a lot of cowards that would have just quit .kudos to all you guys. Never give up

  • @johnsmith-sy7wz
    @johnsmith-sy7wz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    what I am seeing is cognitive spychology - drugs are not allways the answer - forcing the sufferer to iron out the kinks is correct and right. I am begining to see this is both physical and psychological preperation.
    What I had endure was more stick than carrot.

  • @zorleone
    @zorleone ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So much respect for these men.

  • @beastiebear7231
    @beastiebear7231 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I bet you'll be surprised how many SF members were abused (one way or another) the world over.

  • @markwatters6875
    @markwatters6875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    It is time that ALL pedophiles were put down (terminated) once proven guilty

    • @alexcapatina57
      @alexcapatina57 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      As someone who was abused from the age of 6 until 9 (funny right, 69 haha), nothing but forgivness will help someone get through. The longer one remains angry and seeks revenge, the more rotten their core becomes. It's okay, it happened. It doesn't need to define you. You still get to be a man, which is where I suffered most. Life can be beautiful beyond the dark veil we hide under.

    • @pgl79
      @pgl79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@alexcapatina57 I just wanted to acknowledge how important your reply was. Nothing to add - my opinion doesn't matter but you have my utmost respect

    • @Lungoose
      @Lungoose 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@alexcapatina57 hang them anyway for fun lol

    • @AhaskarDummy
      @AhaskarDummy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Lungoose 💯 true brother

    • @shubh131993
      @shubh131993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@alexcapatina57 Your strength and perspective are admirable. I hope to deal with adversity keeping this in mind. Vengeance or anger have and will always be negative emotions. Life moves on and we have to let time do its thing. Wounds heal but scars remain, but you said it really well that we cannot let the scars define us. Thank you for your comment, admitting, accepting, and moving on are admirable traits and you showed all of them. Its not easy opening up about such things be it on any platform, let alone moving on from them. I wish and hope the best for your future, and my gratitude towards you for being an inspiration to other people abused who are fortunate enough to read your comment and believe that they can also deal with it step by step.

  • @averagerow1029
    @averagerow1029 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These are amazing stories, but the one that sticks with me is the guy who's wife was murder by a very sick individual while she was on the phone to him. He had to hear his wife die over a phone call. That guy was so impressive during the training, honestly I don't know how he or any of these individuals did what they did but fair play to them all! Truly inspiring stories and encouraging to see men breaking down the stereotypes that men have to just be hard as nails all the time.

  • @davidfaulds2960
    @davidfaulds2960 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can relate to Amuz(I hope that's the correct spelling). I had a Cancer diagnoses in 2013 and I didn't think poor me I have cancer,my thought was "what if this kills me and I'm not here for my kids and wife" this destroyed me until I convinced myself that it would NOT beat me.

  • @garyjones9910
    @garyjones9910 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Isn't it awesome how tender and decent these sas guys r when those men told their stories. People who many would see as just cold hearted killers have the emotional maturity and the heart to empathise like this. Truly inspiring

    • @british35
      @british35 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Gotta be a soldier’s soldier, mate

    • @nifralo2752
      @nifralo2752 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Well it's SAS special air service not the SS Schutzstaffel

  • @operatorBrigham
    @operatorBrigham 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    YOUR NOT ALONE i my self know what it feels like and steal feel it every day

  • @reaper060670
    @reaper060670 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fackin' ell man, the stories on this are heart breaking to hear.. That guy who lost his missus, the guy with Cancer only a year previous and then the other lad who was abused as a young footballer.. Jesus H Christ!!! Forgive me Lord for taking ur name in vain but I wish all these guys the very best futures.

  • @PashaOCE
    @PashaOCE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    who are the 41 people who disliked the video?

  • @2spoons
    @2spoons 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Why does Ant always look like he doesn't give a shit about you.... I always feel great advice goes a long way, and if people are confronting fear work with them don't insult them... unless that's the SAS way?

  • @coreedawarrior2000
    @coreedawarrior2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    ❤️❤️

  • @olliecole7163
    @olliecole7163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    8:16 wow

  • @bigg7047
    @bigg7047 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well that brought a tear to my eye.

  • @Charishard
    @Charishard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That was hard to watch at 10am 💔

  • @Speysider1962
    @Speysider1962 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    RESPECT

  • @YoiAmGucci
    @YoiAmGucci 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Damn this got me in the feels. Powerful.

  • @gbone1812
    @gbone1812 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve had many dreams(while sleeping) of falling off a cliff like that. I’m afraid for these brave people

  • @christopherjames375
    @christopherjames375 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    he bottled that up for 25 years . their are still thousands of nonses . out there who have not been caught. also punished

  • @clairmcconchie7164
    @clairmcconchie7164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well you obviously can as you didn’t check his cv

  • @Vikingr4Jesus5919
    @Vikingr4Jesus5919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Came here at one of my own tough times.
    I may or may not ever get into such a training though I'd love to. But even just watching SAS: Who Dares Wins has been very helpful for me.

  • @theresajack6620
    @theresajack6620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of my main reasons for applying... But there's other ways to tellbypur story I guess.. A little clear up of situations would be good first so I dont get shit wrong but nobody wanna talk straight.. Still searching lol I gave up everything, especially thinking now ha

  • @mrssmith3872
    @mrssmith3872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Amuz...it can either own you, or you can own it. Let those around you help, you'll be surprised how much it will help you ♥️