Hai brother, you are really improving my life by adding so many such invaluable information to my thought process. It's really a value addition to myself to be a better version of me ,for which my thrive is perennial. I also consider as if I have been listening to my big brother who is teaching me all the life lessons gradually. My heartfelt thanks to you ❤. Please keep it up and educating many like me. 👍all the very best for your future projects 👏
Hello Shridhar, pls make a video to help a (recently married,8 months) woman convince her husband who's a devotee of his parents to move in a nuclear family.
Hey Shridhar.. Pls make a video about how stop ur life becoming hell when u r hanging between ur family n ur husband.. as both the parties dnt like each other at all.. n ur parents expect u to fight wth ur spouse n may b to leave him also.. It would b so generous if u can through some light on this matter
Unfortunately that's the case irrespective of gender in almost 90% marriages today... Yeah hope he makes a video with practical solutions to this problem ..
I really like ur videos n they've really helped me to, I won't say completely change myself but definitely reflect on my actions and understand others' perspective. But I tried to show them to my husband but he thinks they're utterly, "bakwas". Please do make a video that'd help me convince him move out separately with me. His prioritising and comparing his parents and with me is constantly creating a rift between us to a level where he's thinking of separation. I don't want to leave him. I love him. But I can't live under his parents' control.
Hi Shridhar, First of all, thank you for this very generic video. I hope some people may have benefitted from this generic, non-research based content. I hope you had fun too. I have specific concerns with the language you have used across the video and the kind of message you are giving to users/audience who come from various backgrounds. Who defined “stupidity” as being out of touch with reality? Where have you studied that? Who taught you that? Which book defines it? [Maybe you could make your next video on how psychotic people tell others they are stupid) And given that, it IS being out of touch with reality, being a “counseling psychologist” as you are, how do you get the heart to put it in a box and define it in such a degrading manner? You are not just giving out an incorrect definition, you are essentially feeding into the stigma of labelling. (???????????) Secondly, it is interesting how you went from having a definitive approach to stupidity to actually approaching the solution in a “probabilistic” manner. First of all, how do we give someone a remark if we are still in the “probabilistic” phase. And secondly, the example you used to demonstrate that made jackshit sense to me. Literally WHY WOULD I NOT JUST OPENLY ASK MY FRIEND TO JUST TAKE IT SLOW WITH THE SPEED IF HE IS LITERALLY GONNA KILL US? How does that stand on the brim of probability at all? This is a very black-and-white situation. I can’t be looking at my friend smoking and just saying “Oh, smoking is injurious to health. (janhit me jaari). Your example cannot be applied in real life, if I were to apply it at all (hopefully I never will). You also made a comment about stupid people having no idea about what’s going on in people’s minds or knowing the consequences of things. Umm, I think you are too narrow minded to put the label of “Stupid”, instead of actually understanding that it could merely be a lack of social cognition. Have you even done your research? Have you quoted ANY researches at all? How do you get to demean someone based on their lack of social cognition. Bro, NO ONE KNOWS WHAT’S GOING ON IN OTHER PEOPLE’S MINDS. How do you get to decide what’s stupid? You should have also mentioned how stupidity is defined very subjectively. Pardon my frustration but like honestly, it is very frustrating and disheartening to see a “Psychology graduate” (???) like yourselfś make such content and further advance the stigma that is the fundamental problem of our society. Imagine how many people you are going to be impacting through this but too bad, it’s the wrong kind of impact, so god help them.
Hai brother, you are really improving my life by adding so many such invaluable information to my thought process. It's really a value addition to myself to be a better version of me ,for which my thrive is perennial. I also consider as if I have been listening to my big brother who is teaching me all the life lessons gradually. My heartfelt thanks to you ❤. Please keep it up and educating many like me. 👍all the very best for your future projects 👏
Everytime I get something new to be better version.... Good job 💯👍
Sometimes you just need to hit 'em with a bucket of cold water...
So precise and on point..this was very helpful.
Good lessons! Thanks, Sridhar.
I like it Shridhar, Palika pazar, mere maa-baap link.... superb
Great👍👏
I must tell you that you are doing such a wonderful work. Very inspiring. Keep it up. 👍👍
It's Really helpful , thanks bro.
...extremely enlightening
How to deal with breakups and mind chatter after that.. make a video on that sir
Hello Shridhar, pls make a video to help a (recently married,8 months) woman convince her husband who's a devotee of his parents to move in a nuclear family.
Such a good work
#saveshwetabhgangwar
Hey Shridhar.. Pls make a video about how stop ur life becoming hell when u r hanging between ur family n ur husband.. as both the parties dnt like each other at all.. n ur parents expect u to fight wth ur spouse n may b to leave him also.. It would b so generous if u can through some light on this matter
Unfortunately that's the case irrespective of gender in almost 90% marriages today... Yeah hope he makes a video with practical solutions to this problem ..
2 gud keep it up 💟👏
#SaveShwetabhGangwar
I really like ur videos n they've really helped me to, I won't say completely change myself but definitely reflect on my actions and understand others' perspective. But I tried to show them to my husband but he thinks they're utterly, "bakwas". Please do make a video that'd help me convince him move out separately with me. His prioritising and comparing his parents and with me is constantly creating a rift between us to a level where he's thinking of separation. I don't want to leave him. I love him. But I can't live under his parents' control.
URFI Javed wants to be a joker..
Hi Shridhar,
First of all, thank you for this very generic video. I hope some people may have benefitted from this generic, non-research based content. I hope you had fun too. I have specific concerns with the language you have used across the video and the kind of message you are giving to users/audience who come from various backgrounds.
Who defined “stupidity” as being out of touch with reality? Where have you studied that? Who taught you that? Which book defines it?
[Maybe you could make your next video on how psychotic people tell others they are stupid) And given that, it IS being out of touch with reality, being a “counseling psychologist” as you are, how do you get the heart to put it in a box and define it in such a degrading manner? You are not just giving out an incorrect definition, you are essentially feeding into the stigma of labelling. (???????????)
Secondly, it is interesting how you went from having a definitive approach to stupidity to actually approaching the solution in a “probabilistic” manner. First of all, how do we give someone a remark if we are still in the “probabilistic” phase. And secondly, the example you used to demonstrate that made jackshit sense to me. Literally WHY WOULD I NOT JUST OPENLY ASK MY FRIEND TO JUST TAKE IT SLOW WITH THE SPEED IF HE IS LITERALLY GONNA KILL US? How does that stand on the brim of probability at all? This is a very black-and-white situation. I can’t be looking at my friend smoking and just saying “Oh, smoking is injurious to health. (janhit me jaari). Your example cannot be applied in real life, if I were to apply it at all (hopefully I never will).
You also made a comment about stupid people having no idea about what’s going on in people’s minds or knowing the consequences of things. Umm, I think you are too narrow minded to put the label of “Stupid”, instead of actually understanding that it could merely be a lack of social cognition. Have you even done your research? Have you quoted ANY researches at all? How do you get to demean someone based on their lack of social cognition. Bro, NO ONE KNOWS WHAT’S GOING ON IN OTHER PEOPLE’S MINDS. How do you get to decide what’s stupid? You should have also mentioned how stupidity is defined very subjectively.
Pardon my frustration but like honestly, it is very frustrating and disheartening to see a “Psychology graduate” (???) like yourselfś make such content and further advance the stigma that is the fundamental problem of our society. Imagine how many people you are going to be impacting through this but too bad, it’s the wrong kind of impact, so god help them.
U talk so fast sridhar.. Please slow down. V take time to process your words.