My thoughts exactly 💯. How else did he move on so quickly from an eight year marriage? 🤔 He was also cheating, that's why he was so hellbent on covering for his sister's tracks. He was scared that someone would expose him too. He probably already wanted to divorce, just didn't want to be the one to initiate it.
He was cheating to its clear. Oh you think you always know whats best (about the cheating). I think he left her because he was worried she would catch on with him
You were 100% in the right for telling Mike. ANYONE that disagrees is showing you their true colors. You and Mike are in the same position, so it's Mike family, therefore you were loyal, or are you not family and none with Tom's ancestry should tell you anything? The distortion of morals is pure corruption.
Honestly, if Tom thought that "family" didn't include Mike, then what was stopping him from thinking the same about OP? Both OP and Mike were outsiders who married someone from their family.
Cheaters cover for cheaters. Two years and already married again? His now wife was already in the picture when the whole thing took place, I am betting on it. And she just continued with what she and OPs ex were doing just with another dude. The exitement was too good to be let go...
I'm going to be perfectly honest I think the original posters ex-husband was cheating on her as well because there's no way anybody is going to justify the fact that their brother-in-law is being cheated on by their own sibling unless you're also a cheater too
Daaang that’s wild 😭 Still, a friend like her is a good one. She’s out here protecting people. It’s not like she was seeking out the drama, it was coincidence. As a reader, I understand what it’s like to see something interesting in the corner of your eye and automatically read. She didn’t mean any harm.
What is right is not always what is the wisest. She was absolutely right to tell her BIL, she was foolish not to involve her husband. Instead she allowed him to be completely blinded and to be given the news by his sister.
You know when op's decided to tell ex bil,she could've done less overtly,that way the crap wouldn't hit the fan back at op. But unfortunately or fortunately in this case,karma stroke back.
I thought it was my phone that made the narrator's voice go quiet and loud. It made me not want to continue to watch the video 😭. And this creator needs to go back to school because the amount of spelling errors that are in here like 7:27 it said s3x instead of six like it's not that hard to write 😭
it's not your fault it's your husband's fault because he took his sister's side over his wife and that's not right he should pay for her actions and go to hell for what he had done to her.
Damn karma is really...😂😂😂 My opinion, 1. BIL and sister are both family at that time, so have right to tell BIL. 2. Yes op did right thing, but it was non of her business. What happen in Ex life is not op business unless it will effect op. I think op should not be tell Ex and mind her own life business.
I agree with the first point. But the second, while I understand, I won't criticize OP for it. All it did was just show how kind she is. Tell me, how many people are willing to say something like that to the ex who hurt them? Sometimes, I wish kindness like that was more common. Before you say she was too kind, I'd like to think not, otherwise she'd accept her ex into her life, but she didn't. She did a kind act and set boundaries, something this word need. What we all need, form others and ourselves.
@@ammusfunworld1538 i understand op motive was out kindness. But I still it is not op business. Because risk was high. Op luck that ex believe her. There are chances where it could ruin op image like What if ex does not will op. and told everyone that op trying to ruin his marriage. Remember in 1st time friend was already divided and this could sign that op was overstep her boundaries. Any this did not happen, I op understand that every action have reaction. it could in your favour or against even if your intention are good.
To be honest they all suck except for the brother in law. Yes OP had her suspicions and that's fine,p but she does seem like a busybody that lives for the drama, because there were more subtle and ethical ways to hint it to the brother in law than going around snooping. She set that whole thing up. Who tf checks an email on someone else's laptop when there's a fricking super computer in her pocket? Her husband is sus aw well because his blind loyalty to his sister while she was definitely in the wrong, makes him look guilty at best, and complicit at worst. Of course the OP's sister in law is the biggest dingbat. She's having an affair but also mad at OP because she busted her twice? There'd be nothing to bust if she any self control. Poor brother in law. I hope things turn up soon after being in that crazy ass family.
I believe where OP went wrong at was not discussing it with her husband first. They are married they are one so that should’ve been communicated But She just did what she wanted to do. I feel that’s where she overstepped being that is his sister. Now her husband is blindsided and dealing with the fallout of his sisters hurt whether she calls it on herself or not. Was she wrong for telling him technically no but she could’ve handled that a completely different way. And truth be told you don’t interfere with somebody’s marriage. and it wasn’t any of her business to tell. I’m not a cheater nor do I condone cheating but I am a firm believer in minding your own business when it comes to someone’s marriage.
You are not a character in a novel. Mind your mf business girl! There’s no way you keep ending up in the middle of other peoples relationships and business this often.
Tom was cheating 1000% sure
Agree
My thoughts exactly 💯. How else did he move on so quickly from an eight year marriage? 🤔
He was also cheating, that's why he was so hellbent on covering for his sister's tracks. He was scared that someone would expose him too. He probably already wanted to divorce, just didn't want to be the one to initiate it.
@@cristinamifa6992 A cheater will support another cheater.
Agree
Yeeaap!!
Anyone who stands and defends a cheater shows their lack of moral compass and not worth keeping in your life.
He was cheating to its clear. Oh you think you always know whats best (about the cheating). I think he left her because he was worried she would catch on with him
You were 100% in the right for telling Mike. ANYONE that disagrees is showing you their true colors. You and Mike are in the same position, so it's Mike family, therefore you were loyal, or are you not family and none with Tom's ancestry should tell you anything? The distortion of morals is pure corruption.
Honestly, if Tom thought that "family" didn't include Mike, then what was stopping him from thinking the same about OP? Both OP and Mike were outsiders who married someone from their family.
Is’t Bill not family? Like WTF
This cuz whaaa?? He was saying family as in his sister, he’s a trash person
Cheaters cover for cheaters. Two years and already married again? His now wife was already in the picture when the whole thing took place, I am betting on it. And she just continued with what she and OPs ex were doing just with another dude. The exitement was too good to be let go...
Talk about karma being a bitch.
No way. Shes only a b to people who are a b. Do good things, you'll be OK, do bad things and don't expect to go Scot free
I'm going to be perfectly honest I think the original posters ex-husband was cheating on her as well because there's no way anybody is going to justify the fact that their brother-in-law is being cheated on by their own sibling unless you're also a cheater too
Daaang that’s wild 😭
Still, a friend like her is a good one. She’s out here protecting people. It’s not like she was seeking out the drama, it was coincidence.
As a reader, I understand what it’s like to see something interesting in the corner of your eye and automatically read. She didn’t mean any harm.
I would feel much more confident with someone if I knew they would out a cheater.
People who accuse you of interfering and telling you to mind you own business often are doing the same stuff they don't want you talking about.
What is right is not always what is the wisest. She was absolutely right to tell her BIL, she was foolish not to involve her husband. Instead she allowed him to be completely blinded and to be given the news by his sister.
Tom owes the same "family loyalty" to his BIL, Mike, as you owe to your SIL, Sarah.
When my wife defend a cheater , I divorce her too
10000% the husband cheat too
WASN'T BIL FAMILY?? OR JUST BROTHER AND SISTER?
I firmly believe Tom was cheating on OP. Especially with how fast he moved on… 😐
I want to stop listening because voice go quiet and back loud.
Thought my brain was glitching 😒
You know when op's decided to tell ex bil,she could've done less overtly,that way the crap wouldn't hit the fan back at op.
But unfortunately or fortunately in this case,karma stroke back.
Yes OP even acknowledged such that she could've gone down a more tactful path to spare her own marriage from the fallout.
For those who finished the short 0:56 for overlap 0:59 no overlap
Karma is a bitch
I thought it was my phone that made the narrator's voice go quiet and loud. It made me not want to continue to watch the video 😭.
And this creator needs to go back to school because the amount of spelling errors that are in here like 7:27 it said s3x instead of six like it's not that hard to write 😭
You may want to blame Reddit for that. It happens on practically all of these videos.
The fking voice
Six: ❌
Sex: ✅
U HEARD IT TOOOOUUAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAH 7:28
@@RandomCrazy1 sameeee
Bro I heard it to why is no one else talking about it
@@PIKAFACTOR only they wise noticed it
I was looking for a comment about this, how did almost no one notice?
If OP is considered family, then shouldn't Mike be also considered family too. Where is the loyalty to him.🤔
so tom doesnt think of mike as family, just some random person his sister is dating, op treated mike as family and she helped him.
if he was ok with her cheating he would be fine with cheating himself
That's wild
it's not your fault it's your husband's fault because he took his sister's side over his wife and that's not right he should pay for her actions and go to hell for what he had done to her.
Hes cheating, and when ever someone separate they simply put themselves in an echo chamber...
I'm only 2 minutes in and I could already tell you like Mike way better than your ex-husband.
Damn karma is really...😂😂😂
My opinion,
1. BIL and sister are both family at that time, so have right to tell BIL.
2. Yes op did right thing, but it was non of her business. What happen in Ex life is not op business unless it will effect op. I think op should not be tell Ex and mind her own life business.
I agree with the first point. But the second, while I understand, I won't criticize OP for it. All it did was just show how kind she is.
Tell me, how many people are willing to say something like that to the ex who hurt them? Sometimes, I wish kindness like that was more common. Before you say she was too kind, I'd like to think not, otherwise she'd accept her ex into her life, but she didn't. She did a kind act and set boundaries, something this word need. What we all need, form others and ourselves.
@@ammusfunworld1538 i understand op motive was out kindness. But I still it is not op business. Because risk was high. Op luck that ex believe her.
There are chances where it could ruin op image like
What if ex does not will op. and told everyone that op trying to ruin his marriage.
Remember in 1st time friend was already divided and this could sign that op was overstep her boundaries.
Any this did not happen, I op understand that every action have reaction. it could in your favour or against even if your intention are good.
Tom lost a good one
For people from the short 0:58
7:28 hehehehhehehehe HAHAHAHHAHAHA
I do hope the other videos will get this annoying audio fade-out bug fixed, always happens midway through and comes back.
These Minecraft courses are extremely distracting. They're also boring
Then don't watch.
Tom sound like he’s cheating why act so aggressive ?
To be honest they all suck except for the brother in law. Yes OP had her suspicions and that's fine,p but she does seem like a busybody that lives for the drama, because there were more subtle and ethical ways to hint it to the brother in law than going around snooping. She set that whole thing up. Who tf checks an email on someone else's laptop when there's a fricking super computer in her pocket?
Her husband is sus aw well because his blind loyalty to his sister while she was definitely in the wrong, makes him look guilty at best, and complicit at worst.
Of course the OP's sister in law is the biggest dingbat. She's having an affair but also mad at OP because she busted her twice? There'd be nothing to bust if she any self control.
Poor brother in law. I hope things turn up soon after being in that crazy ass family.
Your estranged husband new wife?
Hmmmm. Is this usual story are AI generated?
Do you mean ex husband? Even if English isn’t your first language, try to be correct.
Tom...she was great and you let her get away.
Yeah, I feel this wasn’t any of her business
I believe where OP went wrong at was not discussing it with her husband first. They are married they are one so that should’ve been communicated But She just did what she wanted to do. I feel that’s where she overstepped being that is his sister. Now her husband is blindsided and dealing with the fallout of his sisters hurt whether she calls it on herself or not. Was she wrong for telling him technically no but she could’ve handled that a completely different way. And truth be told you don’t interfere with somebody’s marriage. and it wasn’t any of her business to tell. I’m not a cheater nor do I condone cheating but I am a firm believer in minding your own business when it comes to someone’s marriage.
You are not a character in a novel. Mind your mf business girl! There’s no way you keep ending up in the middle of other peoples relationships and business this often.
I promise to never tell you when your SO cheats on you.
"Meddling where you don't technically have to is the essence of being a hero" - All Might, MHA.
I would have stayed out of it