EP 37 | If Men Could *Pause* ft. Mazi | Set The Record Straight Podcast
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Not two baby daddies taking about women taking accountability for choosing the wrong men… so y’all were the wrong men. Got it 👌🏾
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Girl, it's all over the internet.
WHOLE baby daddies complaing about women being single mothers while also talking about how much black fathers are given a bad rep and nobody let's them see their children, yet screaming that they are good fathers😂😂😂😂
Women have 100% decision on whose born men have 0 say so if the baby is born y’all are accountable for kids guys just subscribe
@@robbenfielder2517 Sir, yall judge women for having the baby, yall judge women for aborting the baby.
Men need to start telling unmarried men to keep their penis in their pants as much as yall tell unmarried women to keep their legs closed. Problem solved.
@@robbenfielder2517 So again, we’re discussing them being the “wrong men” that we’re supposed to be avoiding. So you agree that the baby daddies shouldn’t have been chosen?
@@Ms.Me_witdaBS y’all should avoid but y’all don’t let’s talk about reality not what ifs cause reality is there’s more wrong women then right men just base off the population so y’all know what to do y’all just don’t that’s a choice made by women that men subscribe to we cant have sex wit y’all unless y’all give the ok that’s another choice y’all make that we subscribe to if a man says we’re not ready for the kid yet you still have them whose choice is it to have the kid
The problem is mazi and von are comparing themselves to WOMEN. Men have their own role.
Bc these new men wanna be women and are jealous of women.
Can’t you tell by now that black men are the most feminine group of men on earth. Why do you think of the racial groups of men can come into their country and dominate them?
Facts
Constantly
This!!!
Big sexy is wayyyy too smart for this podcast. They dont even know what a "burden" is 😂. Communication is key and its clear those two don't even have a high enough vocab to even have an adult conversation. IMO. Problem #1 lol
most bm are barely literate. everyone knows this.
Big sexy was in the wrong circle. These other two dudes sad
no dead ass 💯😂
The light skin one is a child. Everything with him is waiting to respond. He doesn’t listen. He blames a woman “for letting him hit when he ain’t shit” NO ACCOUNTABILITY! He could have said you know I shouldn’t have done that but let me stand on it now. Instead what he say “iTs tHe wOmAn fAuLt” he a child.
Yes he is
Definition of a narcissist. They believe you deserve to be taken advantage of because ur naive nd stupid.
Yep that’s many of these men in the dating pool today!
Big sexy has true revelation and understanding of women. He humanizes us. Thanks bro.
That’s why I love him
For real
❤❤❤
Yessss
It’s very weird when I hear blk men who were born in the late 80s and early 90s;speaking of government assistance taking blk men out the home. Yet in the same sentence admit their own fathers were absent while their mothers worked to provide. I’m glad big sexy is there to balance the conversation.
Thats the crack epidemic the war on black communities nun of our fathers mothers cousins nun of them was there this guy is just speaking feeling do you know black history
OWN FATHERS ABSENT & THEY STILL STR*!!! LOL!!!! but thas another convo!!!!
@@MEvans-tt1ri Elaborate or please write a full sentence
@So-what692 homie the middle grew up by a single mother and Str8....
Just like many lgbt folks man or woman grow up with a single parent or like myself in a 2 parent household‼️‼️
@@MEvans-tt1ri 🥴 Then clearly my comment was not referring to people who grew up in a two parent home nor relating that back to their sexuality. See this is what happens when you comment just because you can lacking comprehension skills and not understanding context
He was holding the black men accountable ❤❤❤❤
He always does love it 💞
to the fullest, I had to come see who he is from FB❤
Mazi be so focused on money... everything is brings up is always financially based, never emotional..thats a trauma response to lack, get the money but understand yourself and your woman in the midst...like Sexy said MEN NEVER WANT TO EXPLORE A WOMANS DEPTHS! And Von is idiotic to think women dont try to dig deep within a man to get to know him. Thats actually the problem, we dig and dig, get led on and fcked. Then when we leave get blamed for requiring too much. MEN SIMPLY DONT LIKE TO GET THEIR HANDS DIRTY !! A quote from Kevin Samuels ‼️ a woman will lose herself trying to prove to a man shes worth it all while seeing his potential. Yet theyll see your potential but still go out and cheat, then expect you not to change your mindset about them. And require better.
Men like Von and Mazi show me everyday that women are simply MORE ELITE! We can multitask God, your shit, our shit, the kids, our own money, our families, our households and men like these two will downplay the hell outta you for requiring LOYALTY, PROTECTION, STABILITY, LOVE, COMPASSION.... its just sickening. But theyre so caught up in WHO LOOKS THE BEST and WHO SEXUALLY FEELS THE BEST.. they can only prioritize that, impressing their homeboys, and making money/and or using a woman for hers.
Omg!! You said a fucking wordddd when he tried to say women don’t try to explore the depths of men that’s where I just stopped watching the shit was just too ignorant atp.
As a Young Black Educated Women age 26.. thank you Big Sexy for stand and speaking for
us
Wait , so when I’m in a relationship I gotta still rely on my daddy? Then WTF I need a man for?
😂😂😂Right
All I heard was the mindset of guys that want the perks of being " the leader, or head of the household," until it's time to take full responsibility. Wanting the title and the woman's submission w/o the responsibility.
Facts
This conversation is so funny to me knowing that Black women are now the most educated demographic😂
Not even tryna be funny but where is this statistic?
@@valenciaashley1098It doesn’t exist lol. We were enrolling in two year colleges at record rates but def not the most educated it’s just been regurgitated online so much everyone believes it.
they are actually the most educated in the community i.e. more than black men
Your the most enrolled not the most educated most don't even finish witch is why you hold the most debt
This just showed that no matter how you say it men don’t want to be accountable
Big Sexy ATE them tf up this ENTIRE interview 😂
Von done expose himself and then want everybody to think like him to save face 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He think if you don’t agree you don’t agree understand nahhh you wrong
@@jalamahoganieexactly
Von have some growing up to do.
Yesss
and the scary thing is, he’s engaged.
@@samanthamatthews3157 im shocked
Von be saying weird shit sometime 😂
ALWAYS. He doesn't seem old enough for these conversations. He just bitter to the max
All the time like wtf is he saying I need my daddy when I have a man/husband tf 😂😂😂
Baby there aint no lights on in Von's head
The men’s complaints come off as “I wish I had it like women do” 😭🤷🏾♂️💯
Big sexy said it perfectly “you want a submissive boss that pay for and do everything”
Lol I love how women say this but the gay guy is literally doing the same thing
@@robbenfielder2517how so?
I love how Big Sexy holds them accountable and doesn’t back down 😂
Big Sexy PERFECTLY spoke for many black women, for sure me if no one else 😂. Thank you for understanding and many blessings to you, Big Sexy 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Mazi is open to learning Von isn’t he rather drown in ignorance it’s like put me on one of these podcast caz not once did yall prove Big Sexy wrong
Von doesn’t want listen to understand nor comprehend
Key points: The mommy and daddy issues is still stemming from the absence of a Father. When speaking on resources for women they also exist for men, comparing side hustles such as lashes and hair salons. There are plumbers, electricians and mechanics that is also being offered which is at an all the me low. It boils down to choices and most times women make the choice to seek assistance and better options for careers because they have ni choice because of dependents.
First time ever watching this podcast and Big Sexy should have his own stand alone show. Von is immature and unaccountable. Mazi is growing, but connection to someone like Von is a setback.
Von talking about if men moved like women, but baby who's yelling about being leaders? Not Black women. We are the leaders because we have NO CHOICE.
“Putting yourself first” doesn’t equal cheating. The fact that’s the first thing they thought of says a lot about them. 🤡
If you want to put yourself first then be single.
This man said " I'm changing tires and fixing the car, thats what ur daddy should be doing". Mf what?!😳😳
Right!!! Like tf?! 😂
Dumbest shit I ever heard
lol no grown ass man I’m married to will EVA push their own limits and deficiencies on my 60+ year old daddy! My daddy is not here to take care of me AND a grown man!
Y’all need to have a woman in this conversation too
Not necessarily it was a conversation for men Women don’t have to be in every space like flies Just a busybody
Women don’t need to be in that. Men need to hold other men accountable just like they’re doing.
Nobody "took" BM out of no where, they WILLINGLY left these homes.
So glad big sexy is on here to speak for us women he really gets it!
BIG SEXXYYYYY EATS DOWNN FOR THE GWORLS EVERY EPISODE! 🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️
Combating women being on govt assistance because men not being around with "cuz they found a nigga that would leave them" is weird when you have 4 children and aint with nan bm but I guess chile
Thank you!!!!
And then saying "we aint want to marry them" but then complaining abt the woman doing wht needs to be done while raising the kid u as a man left her with. Is pathetic ...
Once you marry a woman that's definitely not her daddy's job. The father gives the daughter to the man at the wedding as a sign of surrendering the responsibility of taking care of her to this "man".
Some men definitely are trauma dumpers and love pity parties. I’ve learned my lesson from feeling more sorry for a man than he does.
A curious mind is something else😂 Von curious and Mazi funny AF😂
the comment I was looking for 😆😆
Big Sexy ! GET YO OWN PODCAST! You are carrying these men. The jokes, the energy. They just not giving what Big Sexy be giving.
29:11 y’all need to watch princella to learn the biology of a male. Men know they be on bs but can’t help it the blame the women for choosing herself and leaving. Von is so misogynistic it don’t make sense. Once t stand watching the podcast when Von is there and be there every episode 💆🏾♀️😂
Homeboy is immature and bitter
I will say these straight men are not mature enough or have the emotional intelligence to have a conversation about being self-accountable for themselves as men and what they contribute to relationships.
They keep saying it’s “teamwork” but they can’t explain what that even means.
Every time Big Sexy holds men accountable, they respond with:
“balance”,
“teamwork”,
“it goes both ways”
“we shouldn’t blame each other”
When Big Sexy said men dump their trauma on women, they respond with they don’t want to listen to their girl talk about hair, nag, gossip, “shit that don’t matter.” In no way are these two the same subject matters or level of seriousness.
Von seems to only be concerned if he has more money than the next man.
Big Sexy: Do y’all as men hold each other accountable?
Von: I ain’t their daddy
Mazi: Women don’t hold each other accountable
And Mazi says women are making more money and in the same breath complain they’re “gifted” food stamps and $2 rent?? Seriously???
So he has a problem with women making more money and the women who are getting government assistance to take care of the household and the children??
Von: It’s a woman fault for not choosing a better man
Also Von: I ain’t never wanted marry them (his two baby mamas)
Von and Mazi did a whole marathon running from accountability through this whole conversation. 😂😂
To be honest this conversation is surface and unrealistic. Von and many of his colleagues speak about materialistic and superficial women that run around “groupie” circles. They never talk about real traditional women. Also, there is a lot of assumptions being thrown around not reality.
THIS….there are a lot of good women around. They don’t give those good women a chance. A lot of assumptions and generalizations happening.
Let's be honest those traditional women who have their own wouldn't look at either one of these men. Multiple BM ain't nothing to be proud of.
Big Sexy was EATING! yesss! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 this goes to show it’s not that men don’t get it… they don’t WANT TO get it. all this “what about this… & what about that?” but yall providers & men right. okay.
He proudly stated “ I didn’t want to marry them “ to why lay down and have kids with her .. dumb .. even in that circumstance YOU DONT have to be together to create a good home with balance he could’ve still been very present and in tune with what’s going on and be there .. smh making decisions and aren’t ready or emotionally invested is ridiculous
So doing maintenance to homes, cars, and or assembling / moving furniture or just building things in general never came to mind as a side hustles. Just cutting hair or selling drugs. Got it. #YallCanHaveTheseType
I’m saying tho 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Don’t act like you wasn’t staying with the girl who was paying the $2.00 a month. And while you were there with her you should’ve been paying attention instead of eating ALL the snacks 🤨🙄
Then he gon say I didn’t wanna marry either one.”leaders” with nothing but excuses. I am DONE.
@@Ms.Me_witdaBS you wanted the bad boys instead of the 9 to 5 brothas somebody who knows what a 401k is
@@lavores who is “you”? 🤨
@@Ms.Me_witdaBS somebody with common sense
DOWNNNNNN!!! Thank You SEXY FOR ALWAYS SUPPORTING US WOMEN 🥰🥰🥰
Get an emotional support dog! Sad people have to coddle black women like you’re a newborn! Other women don’t require a crutch.
@@Masikabarbie Do you say the same thing to black men?
@@tatianadaniel3569 I said exactly what I said who are you a soldier in the army of the mad ho broke busted and disgusted cult?
Tbh if a man doesn’t value family he can’t value women beyond the physical. A woman is there to nurture, organize and direct on the daily task that ultimately leads to the man’s vision for the family. But if you see no value in family you can’t understand that.
Facts
I only watch this for BIG SEXY ! Von is lame to me 😂 and his girl a goofy for staying with him after this podcast 😂
Can’t even get into the convo cuz theses guys besides big sexy are just their mindset and ideology is complete trash 🚮 didn’t even think I would agree with BS but he’s the only MAN one making sense
I love big sexyy ❤❤❤❤ he trying to teach them but I don't think the men are listening
The ebook should involve big sexy. We watch because of
him and his perspective because he speakers the truth and not afraid to tell y’all when y’all sound crazy. He hates pussy but giving y’all all the tips to get some how ironic. No disrespect to Von but some his takes be making me wonder how some guys think. If he ran this on his own it would be like those group of dudes who just sit and say whatever. All takes about superficial women but yet throw women in one category.
Girl he be doing too much and half the time he is wrong
@@culturevultureztv be clear on who you taking about
You didn't want to marry your baby mama but you had a child with her😒like wtf is wrong with this world
Why is EVERYTHING about money? The financial conversation is getting old. It's normally the men who don't have the capability to fully take care of their family who say that women want money.
It’s crazy that men like Von, think they shouldn’t be telling or holding men accountable. While at the same time believing he should be telling women what to do and how to behave 🤔. Either mind your business like you do when your homeboy is cheating on his wife or stfu trying to tell women what it’s like to be with a heterosexual man.
The light skin dude keep saying Chrisean didn’t know who her baby father was. It was never a question for her. He failed to recognize that Blueface denied the child to hurt, irritate and embarrass Chrisean. Another example of man tryna break a woman. Toxic
37:21 Does Von read the comments? So broken promises a man gives is the women’s fault. You know what it is WOMEN CHOSE YOURSELF WHEN DEALING WITH A MALE THAT THINKS LIKE VON
Von is an idiot
This! I feel bad for his fiancé
I love how Big sexy step for women!!! I don’t watch this podcast often but it’s so good…per usual Von be lost!! He’s not taking accountability for not making a house a home with his children mothers and he brags on how she should have known he wasn’t shit at the end of the day it’s your offspring that will suffer as result of both parents not doing their due diligence. This is a repeated cycle in our community the problem with most men is they never seen a man be a man and marry the woman he had children with and make that work! Most of us were raised by our mothers so when you don’t it it’s hard to be what you didn’t see!!!! We have to stop point the finger cause we are all a product of our environment. Let’s do better!!
I wish I could call in on this conversation about women cause i got something to say !!!! 😆 🤣 😂
Hello
“Oh so you like you a lil piece of youtube rapper” 😂😂
What's missing from the discussion is GRACE. We gotta be on the same side to create healthy families and a healthy community. If the issue is toxicity, a lot of us (men and women), are just doing our best but if we love each other, we have to be willing to listen and try to understand where the other person is coming from. It's not about being on bullshit and pointing the finger saying but you're on bullshit too. That's a loser mentality and we can't win or move as a unit like that.
I find when it comes to speaking on men, grace goes out the window, so hurt people hurt people.
@@jupiterbullish2520men get grace from everybody.
a woman has to get grace from other women because men definitely won't extend it our way.
@tatianadaniel3569 no women are always giving grace, if men were giving grace, they wouldn't be afraid of accountability
@@jupiterbullish2520 Bro what? There are two nonmarried fathers on the panel talking about baby mamas.
Women are expected to be more sexually disciplined than men.
We're expected to be better parent than men.
We're expected to never get angry while men get to have that emotion.
We're expected to put our dreams and ambitions on the back burner and support the man's dreams.
We're wrong if we file for divorce whereas men make excuses for men who file for divorce and DONT blame him, just the wife.
Men only take accountability when they're caught.
Women are always at fault for everything wrong in society according to men (and it always been like that) even though yall claim to be the "leaders".
@tatianadaniel3569 women aren't any where near any of those things and nobody cares women will have they're way at the end of the day, the blame will always be put onto the man as he is supposed to be the leader, you can't stop a woman from giving a homeless man money or her body, do you expect bums to stop accepting free gifts or should women stop giving it to them, wich is easier?
“Why do I have to find what I want and then give them everything I got”~Mazi…okay…if what you don’t want is to give everything to the girl YOU choose than don’t. Nobody is forcing you to give EVERYTHING you got. The woman you chose had to had came to an agreement with you that she’s okay with and expecting you not to give her everything. Don’t act like we FORCE y’all to do ANYTHING for us when in fact we know we got ourselves. If u not gonna get it done, we will period, however we will not decline y’all help, thank you. Moral of the story…it goes both ways.
They should be single if they can’t sufficiently give to their partners.
Where’s these men that they keep speaking of with all this money and paying bills tho
EXACTLY!!!
🗣🗣"WHERE. ARE. THEY?!?!?!"
I’m looking for em too! 😂👀
Sexy: so if you find out your homeboy cheating on his wife what you doing?
Von: that ain’t got shit to do wimme
Sexy: so that’s what I mean
You ran into that one Von 😂 love this duo lol ❤
Von doesn’t want to hear it, if you’re not agreeing with him. He definitely wasn’t listening to understand just to respond. Worst type of person to have a podcast
Who tf hurt von
His mom
Von is not an open minded man , this podcast was wild.
I can’t believe the two speakers to the left being in successful long term relationships the way they can’t comprehend. Especially the one to the far left in my personal opinion. The speaker to the right speaks in general for both sides of women the speaker to the far left still speaking on ONE specific type of female group an hour later never really answering the question .😒🤦♀️ I would be so embarrassed continuously to interrupt the speaker to the right and being with him period. The one in the middle how’s a little more maturity when speaking but…. I did like to hear how all think and feel. The speaker to the right you could hold a very successful podcast on your own just how you can hold a conversation and questions you ask and respond.
It’s the vulnerability without accountability for me. Like please please please understand while you’re hurting there are still things you need to be accountable for.
Von has a wife? And you mean to tell me you can’t speak from a better perspective being as tho clearly a woman did something that made you wanna marry her outside of materialistic surface level shit
Thank you Big Sexy because he says what we have been trying to say but he's able to get his point across to these men because he's just as big of not bigger and his voice is loud and he talks fast but he understands the struggle of black women and when we tell dudes the same stuff they call us bitter or shit down but with Sexy he holds them accountable gay or not he still is a man and he has a way of making them listen ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
1:01:38 wait Big Sexy said something directly to Mazi and he went straight to attacking women 😒😒like I'm confused what did sexy say have to do with women getting government assistance. And don't get it confused a lot of dudes on government assistance stop lying to yourselves.
right
1:24:55 big sexy be eating von up🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. DOWNNNNNNN!!
I’m over the Black Man vs Black Woman conversations. They’re tiring and it furthers the “agenda”!!!!!
So am I hun😞 so am I… being a good woman seems to be so pointless.. I’m actually considering being a hoe n not wanting marriage… I have such tiny faith in bm getting it together
@@katrinaperry5821😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I’ve never seen one of these podcast but after seeing a clip I ran over to watch!! BIG SEXY WAS SPEAKING FACTS💯 Von & Mazi sounded crazy, now Mazi would step in and make a couple valid points but VON!! OMG 🤦🏽♀️ yea I could see why he said he’d do all that ish to himself, that nigga just sounded SLOW!! Thx Big Sexy for speaking truth 😊💯
32:05 Males left the home on their own or disrupted the home or was touching on the kids. Men think if you don’t agree you don’t understand their point no VON your just WRONG😂 his mindset is such in the lower nature of a male. If Males wanted to be in the family’s life and was working so hard why are they so against child support that’s less than the bare minimum.
I hate when people want to leave money out of relationships so badly, look love, grace, romance,etc is great and all but money plays a big part in your everyday life. Why do y'all think just cause you in a relationship it doesn't play a part anymore, I'm literally confused. Bills need to be paid, clothes need to be on your back and food on the table.
People deny uncomfortable truths, money is a big part of a relationship.
Yep Von is weird WTH
Oo sexy I really want to be your co-pilot to help Von specifically. Because he said women should choose better men but then turn around and said why can’t men have grace. PEOPLE should have grace! Because if that’s the case he was a poor choice as a father of his children and their mothers should’ve chose better and his mother should’ve chose better than too huh. I acknowledge that we both have things to work towards on both ends. We have to re-evaluate how we do things to be better an a UNIT. But as we grow, black men NEED to relinquish the need to be seen as the “leader” and grow to be the best unit. Because there was kings and queens TOGETHER.
And we also have to start to look at our current issues as the results and not the issue to remove the thought of personal blame unless we are perpetuating the same issue.
I also really like Mazi!!
Love u sexy but gah damn von can u take control of the conversation, this man done took over and went left. I wanted to see yall interview Mazi.
Facts
Von…you’re spending too much time on the Internet! Look around at the women in your reality, the small subsection of women he keeps citing is so small! Most women don’t just want a man’s money and so many women are constantly improving themselves around the board! Every example he brought up is negative reflections of women that tend to be pushed to the forefront! How is he in a relationship with a woman based on this logic?? Wonder how his girl feel about these comments! 🧐
The two other guys are so defensive like wtf they’re just listening to respond
you dont need grace light skin. You not in the home. A full time parent is A LOT of work
Immaturity isn't minute at a certain age and stage in the relationship. She's likely already been mature and she's been hoping and waiting for him to get to her level.
Y’all want the perks of being a leader but don’t want to put in the work of a leader
Everytime he mentioned men wanting women to just take what they dish out I heard crickets. Not one denied it.. I just heard “buts”
Can't cook CAUSE WE'RE BRINGING THE STEAKS! But GO-OFF VON!!!! 😂
right because can they build a house or a school.
Von said ur daddy supposed to fix ur car childish he gots to go he will be by himself in old age
Frightening as it is he is engaged
Big sexy spoke facts💯💯💯
I wish they listened to big sexy to understand instead of to respond
I’m so happy Mazi & Amy back together
They not
Mazi was right… I don’t care what angle we take we can’t get past blaming each other. When my brother died from overdose, in that moment I realize what grace really was and why we need it more than ever. It’s so many factors that play into our demise that truly aren’t our fault but society is program to blame the affect and not deal with the cause and so we constantly fighting in circles and not solving one problem😢
real 💯
We have given men grace and now they have been coddled.
Men can pick jobs and finance themselves without having to do illegal activities. Make better decisions and choose to stay with your families.
Men definitely nag like … and we all have the same problems and we both (men & women) want to talk about it, we’re human.
idk the big cute one name but I loveee him!!! he read them for FILTH! he truly knows women and I love to see a man not make excuses for nonsense. thank you for speaking up for us and really saying everything I was saying while watching this! im def a fan of his
Women often do express what they want but they aren't able to get it because the person they are with isn't willing to give it. And it's not always about physical things. It's the changes she want in him that he overlooks that she keeps trying to explain or express to him. But men often don't see anything wrong with themselves therefore see no reason to change.
What it really boils down to in regards to what they were talking about before the man and women coming together. Discourse is at the end of the day. A lot of black men unfortunately have taken advantage of the black women "ride or die" dynamic. You have too many women that have given a man they're all and have done on everything for a man to try to build him up because that was the propaganda that was pushed on them that they had to be the ride or die for black men and those men take advantage of that dynamic. Use these women and left them in horrible situations. And then you have a society that turned around and blamed a woman and told her she should have chose better as opposed to holding the men accountable in any way. So now in 2023 women and black women especially are rejecting that dynamic altogether because black men haven't made it a safe one to trust historically. So now because of that and the fact of women raising their standards having resulted in a loneliness epidemic of men. You do have a lot of men genuinely out here just looking for equal partnership and looking to build but you still have women that still don't feel safe in that dynamic.
SHOUT OUT TO BIG SEXYYYY !!! I couldn't have said it better 💙 .. Von & Mazi sound way more sassier then big sexy . Everything von & mazi saying just contradicting everything they saying lol & big sexy on they AZZ about it 👏🤣 . Like big sexy SAID 🗣️ it's a lot of GREAT women out here that dgaf about your money and will build with you but men chose to go women that want .75 of yo 1.50 then say all women the same... Von & mazi over here talking about they raised by single women & they always made it happen! But it's the women fault for being single Mama's (not taking NO accountability that the men not around) out the SAME mouth von gone say: "it's because I didn't want to marry neither one of my bm's) but didn't you & mazi said y'all have trauma do to the fact the father's wasn't around 🤔 .. then have the NERVE to say big sexy will never understand the other side of a man problems 🤣🤣 .. this whole show just gave me a headache ,. But I'm here for big sexy otc 🤣 I seen a reel on fb of this post cast and had to come watch it .
Is it me or they never really answered any of big sexy questions they only want woman to take accountability not them and they need to take money out of it just based off men behavior towards a woman should she stay if the man isn’t treating her right they ask why woman only seem to care about is money but they think the same way everything about money to they can’t even have an argument with out saying a guy with more money are you holding your friends accountable that’s what big sexy asked in all aspects not just to you personally but if your boy a married man or he got a good girl at home and you see him about to do so dumb shit is you not holding your friend accountable
Anytime they got a man on here von be tryna have them validate his BS pov and opinions. I can not
Girl yes he be waiting to be validated they misogynistic asf, they listen to listen instead of understanding
Mazi said you to busy try take your ribs out 😂😂😂😂