I am a survivor too. I was very young, around 5 or 6 years old. I didn't know what a bad touch was at that time, but it happened to me. And it wasn't anyone else, it was my own uncle who did it. Even when I was 10 years old, whenever he got the chance, he would do it. It went so far that by the time I was 12 or 13 years old, I had begun to understand what was happening. That's when I told my mother, and even then, only when he was trying to do something to me again. I don't even know if something actually happened to me or not, but I couldn't breathe. I ran to my mother, crying, and told her everything. Now, I'm 18 years old, and I've suffered a lot. To all the girls who've gone through something like this, I just want to say one thing: don't stay silent about it. The more you hide it, the more power those monsters will have. If it's you today, it could be someone else tomorrow. No matter what happens, no matter how hard it is, SPEAK UPP NOW!
@mairanoman9129 I'm really glad to know that u spoke up for yourself. It is the only way to protect yourself. To all those people who are struggling with this matter, stay strong💗
Really gutsy n brave for bringing out such topic. Obviously don't delay n share with your parents, they're the go to among humans if you feel low n bad May ALLAH keep everyone safe from such relatives.
I agree with ure points I can’t believe how low people have gone it’s disgusting it’s terrifying how do relative s even get the guts to do this u won’t believe how disgusting my school is either thanku for talking about these stuff❤
It is a very disturbing incident that has happened to these two girls. But it's not their fault. So they shouldn't feel guilty. Their lives are precious . But should confide with their parents or someone whom they can trust. So buck up, girls . You are the only one who can help yourself.
I'm 15 year old girl thankfully my relatives never tried to do this but on road when I'm alone this happened a lot even once I got so scared that till that date I didn't went to that road again and I didn't said to anybody I don't know why even nowadays I can't go outside at night just because of this scare last night when I went out I wasn't willing but I went because my parents would ask why are not going is there any problem so when I went out few little girls were playing and they said to me that few minutes ago a man came and he was touching us in wrong places.me myself confused I just said that don't let anyone to touch you like this. I have on request from any boys or men who are present her please make other girls safe even is she is not your sister because if that thing is happening in front of you can with your own sister or mother. I'm Just thinking that now I'm only in school what will happen when I go out from for further studies. Whoever is reading please make feel everyone safe 🙏 it's my only regard from all of you who is reading 💗💗
I didn't know about good touch bad touch. My cousin kissed me that too French kiss I was 9 or 10 now I am 19. My brain forgot that memory being part of trauma as its how it works brain forgets painful memories in some cases like it happened in my case. I didn't know what happened to me. I realized after 4 to 5 years of that incident😢. But I moved on thank god 😊
woman naturally be possessive so first say to their wife if it doesn't work then say to your parents too, let all relationship go to hell you don't care don't think no one will believe you like drama, people will believe you; yourself give a sensible rule and demand it privacy and safety where everyone of your family agree because in islam many scholar say even covering of face is mandatory, there should be no interaction they should pass if emergency like they feel current when going near to them no chance of coming inside room and everyone should be concerned about each other relationship so when we have this much your parent can also implement some rule they can also become concious and concern about every two people for legal punishment of adultery or for punishment of making allegation both rely on witness so it is a different thing it is not needed now
Aur kisi aur ki waja sy agr ap suicide kr lein gi ..ap mar jain gi toh kya wo insan sudhr jaye ga?.... Ho skta kal ko ap ki jgha ap ka koi dusra pyara ho? Kya ap b ussy yehi suggest krein gy k ap suicide kr jain ?...nahi na ...so khud sy nfrt krny ki bjaye ... suicidal thoughts k jgha love yourself and do something to trap the other person aur kuch aisa k next time wo kisi aur k sth yeh sb na kry...
I can provide them free therapy I myself went through it then I stood, took action now Alhmdulillah am very happy in my life Guys just comment down below I will share my detail in order to consult me for free Any help advice regarding everything I am gonna provide I will be very happy to help u out Stay blessed
I have a question. Kab tak humm is tarha Rahe gay kabhi tho aysaa waqt ayee gaa ke ap group Mai nahi hogee .is chiz ke bare Mai hamee Kuch aysaa Karna chahiye jisse ladka ya ladkee wo safe feel kareee.
mein tau bachpan say ly kr ab tak sexual harassment ka shikaar hori hun، aur mera apna relative hi mujhay sexual harass kr raha hai، bar bar ۔ wo apnay aap ko satisfy krta hai۔ meray upper taik tak lga li aik din tau apnay private part pay haath rakha hua tha، aur mera khauf say bura haal tha
I am a survivor too. I was very young, around 5 or 6 years old. I didn't know what a bad touch was at that time, but it happened to me. And it wasn't anyone else, it was my own uncle who did it. Even when I was 10 years old, whenever he got the chance, he would do it. It went so far that by the time I was 12 or 13 years old, I had begun to understand what was happening. That's when I told my mother, and even then, only when he was trying to do something to me again. I don't even know if something actually happened to me or not, but I couldn't breathe. I ran to my mother, crying, and told her everything. Now, I'm 18 years old, and I've suffered a lot. To all the girls who've gone through something like this, I just want to say one thing: don't stay silent about it. The more you hide it, the more power those monsters will have. If it's you today, it could be someone else tomorrow. No matter what happens, no matter how hard it is, SPEAK UPP NOW!
@mairanoman9129 I'm really glad to know that u spoke up for yourself. It is the only way to protect yourself. To all those people who are struggling with this matter, stay strong💗
I appreciate your voice nd you're a great human
Thank God someone is making content worth of appreciation. Hatts off to you Rabia
very important issue to talk about it , culprit is the joint family system. So brave of you Rabia to start the conversation.
Really gutsy n brave for bringing out such topic.
Obviously don't delay n share with your parents, they're the go to among humans if you feel low n bad
May ALLAH keep everyone safe from such relatives.
Rabia you are so brave, keep it up Stay blessed Happy and healthy
You're so different & clean mindset may ALLAH give you shines in life🥰🤗♥️
This channel is so necessary. Definitely will end up veing an iconic channel of Pakistan for content and presentation.
Thank you for talking about this. And yes its about time we start addressing this issue.
I agree with ure points I can’t believe how low people have gone it’s disgusting it’s terrifying how do relative s even get the guts to do this u won’t believe how disgusting my school is either thanku for talking about these stuff❤
It is a very disturbing incident that has happened to these two girls. But it's not their fault. So they shouldn't feel guilty. Their lives are precious . But should confide with their parents or someone whom they can trust. So buck up, girls . You are the only one who can help yourself.
Solution ye hai k himmat paida karein or us admi ko zaleel karein
Thank you for talking about such issues❤❤❤❤❤
Create a safe environment for our children and parents has to be vigilant .
This is such a great topic for everyone nd it happens with every other person sadly
.....stay in groups....3 people or more...
School ...job...keep door open
I'm 15 year old girl thankfully my relatives never tried to do this but on road when I'm alone this happened a lot even once I got so scared that till that date I didn't went to that road again and I didn't said to anybody I don't know why even nowadays I can't go outside at night just because of this scare last night when I went out I wasn't willing but I went because my parents would ask why are not going is there any problem so when I went out few little girls were playing and they said to me that few minutes ago a man came and he was touching us in wrong places.me myself confused I just said that don't let anyone to touch you like this.
I have on request from any boys or men who are present her please make other girls safe even is she is not your sister because if that thing is happening in front of you can with your own sister or mother.
I'm Just thinking that now I'm only in school what will happen when I go out from for further studies.
Whoever is reading please make feel everyone safe 🙏 it's my only regard from all of you who is reading 💗💗
I didn't know about good touch bad touch. My cousin kissed me that too French kiss I was 9 or 10 now I am 19. My brain forgot that memory being part of trauma as its how it works brain forgets painful memories in some cases like it happened in my case. I didn't know what happened to me. I realized after 4 to 5 years of that incident😢. But I moved on thank god 😊
And please read Aks by Umerah Ahmed all the people who pass through this thing
woman naturally be possessive so first say to their wife if it doesn't work then say to your parents too, let all relationship go to hell you don't care
don't think no one will believe you like drama, people will believe you; yourself give a sensible rule and demand it privacy and safety where everyone of your family agree because in islam many scholar say even covering of face is mandatory, there should be no interaction they should pass if emergency like they feel current when going near to them no chance of coming inside room and everyone should be concerned about each other relationship so when we have this much your parent can also implement some rule they can also become concious and concern about every two people
for legal punishment of adultery or for punishment of making allegation both rely on witness so it is a different thing it is not needed now
Keep up the good work ma'am. Top notch.
Looking lovely MASHA ALLAH ma'am.
❤😊😊😊
Aur kisi aur ki waja sy agr ap suicide kr lein gi ..ap mar jain gi toh kya wo insan sudhr jaye ga?.... Ho skta kal ko ap ki jgha ap ka koi dusra pyara ho? Kya ap b ussy yehi suggest krein gy k ap suicide kr jain ?...nahi na ...so khud sy nfrt krny ki bjaye ... suicidal thoughts k jgha love yourself and do something to trap the other person aur kuch aisa k next time wo kisi aur k sth yeh sb na kry...
I can provide them free therapy I myself went through it then I stood, took action now Alhmdulillah am very happy in my life
Guys just comment down below I will share my detail in order to consult me for free
Any help advice regarding everything I am gonna provide I will be very happy to help u out
Stay blessed
Can u provide ur details?
.....group mein rahein ... school job... darwaza ...open...rakna chaiye
I have a question. Kab tak humm is tarha Rahe gay kabhi tho aysaa waqt ayee gaa ke ap group Mai nahi hogee .is chiz ke bare Mai hamee Kuch aysaa Karna chahiye jisse ladka ya ladkee wo safe feel kareee.
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mein tau bachpan say ly kr ab tak sexual harassment ka shikaar hori hun، aur mera apna relative hi mujhay sexual harass kr raha hai، bar bar ۔ wo apnay aap ko satisfy krta hai۔ meray upper taik tak lga li aik din tau apnay private part pay haath rakha hua tha، aur mera khauf say bura haal tha
why don't you discuss all this with your mother or sister..you should discuss
@snabbasi424 my mother knows everything، she herself is a victum
@@ujalajaved6103tell your father your mehrams
And keep your distance from your cousins and non mehrams
@@Bareerah-w3r dear we are Christian، there is no concept of mehram and non mehram، but yeah I keep some distance from some people