In this episode of Poke and Friends Podcast, Melvin makes another guest appearance, Stryxo goes through the pros and cons of a 4d movie, and the memes are actually funny. #3
4:45 Literally everyone in my family will always claim that any memory I bring up didn't happen even if THEY had a recording of it on THEIR devices or if they were the ones to bring up that memory first. I had to go to therapy because people thought I was a pathological liar but turns out that my family were just brain dead and never actually remember anything because they did the same to the therapist the second he asked about something they mentioned when we walked in. Edit: in case any of you wonder what the therapist asked about. My parents said that if I behave they will buy me ice-cream. I was never a rude child and didn't even like ice-cream but the therapist said he'll tell the parents I deserve some anyways. When he then told them that, they looked confused and angry saying they never made such claim at which point the therapist let out a desperate sigh as the next 4 months were full of nothing but re-psychological evaluations for 8 people.
my uncle used to show me actual animal abuse videos to try to stop me from eating fast food. but it made me not wanna talk to him once I became an adult.
My mother inflicted so much emotional trauma on me im spending thousands on therapy and meds. Not a single one of those memories i have she recalls. The tree remembers, the axe forgets.
17:25 mmm yes i love it when im trying see my youtuber’s reaction to the funny weed shampoo video and they start talking over it and complaining about bro’s choice of hygiene products instead of listening to the insane shit that guy was saying
4:40 no this happens all the time when I try to, as part of my healing, make my mother acknowledge or apologise for the abuse she's done to me. It's either an "the axe forgets but the tree remembers" thing or her simply trying to worm her way out of it and gaslight me into thinking my trauma around the specific things she did just sprung out of nowhere. And if something *just* happened and i ask for an apology, she'll bring out the "you're being so cruel to me it makes me want to kill myself" line. Meanwhile, she'll invent stories out of thin air to slander me to her friends. Hell, she even did it during a group therapy session. Like, I was sitting across from her.
Examples of things she's done and refuses to acknowledge: - threatened to put down my childhood dog very often as a way to control me (eg "if you dont pause your game and do the dishes right this instant, I'll be putting down the dog since clearly you're not responsible enough for one") despite knowing, or perhaps because she knew from me telling her that that dog was the only thing keeping me alive through high school. - got so angry after I corrected her misgendering someone once that she threatened to crash the car we were in and kill both of us, and even started swerving in traffic. Like 6 years later i still have nightmares about it - multiple times she'd threaten to dump me in the middle of nowhere with nothing but the clothes on my back if I talked back (i am disabled, this happened when I was a child and would have probably died without a carer) - multiple threats to either take all my stuff away or kick me out of home over small things like chores being a little late - forced me to pay 150 dollars a week to rent my own childhood bedroom when i was still a minor (disability pension, i got like 400-ish a fortnight at the time). Turns out thats not normal, and I only found that out when i brought it up to people and they looked at me with horror on their faces - she would vent about shit for like a whole hour's drive, including saying basically the same thing over and over again and then yell at me for being too talkative if I even *mentioned* one of my special interests (I'd be silent an entire car ride then go "y'know, I'm kinda excited because a new pokemon game is coming out soon and-" and she'd loudly groan and then tell me off for talking too much 💀) - it was still considered normal at the time, so I dont entirely fault her for it, but she did physically hit me as a punishment when I was young- remember this. - screamed at me and did the whole 'im gonna kill your dog' schtick for not taking out the trash when I was recovering from surgery, loopy from pain meds and specifically told by the doctor not to do unnecessary exercise until the stitches could be taken out. When I asked for an apology for that, she yelled at me again and said she'd kill herself and it would be my fault, then claimed that because I'm mentally disabled I don't have empathy, which is a really specific thing to say because: - my therapist would report things to my parents, and one of the things we tried to do was talk about what good there is about myself and between the two of us the only things we could come up with and agree on was that I'm very empathetic and that my hair's nice. My mother, being herself, used that information to destroy what little remained of my self-esteem in her little rants at me. Anyway, the list could go on, but the point is that she refuses to acknowledge that she's done any of those things. But of course, she realised that since people trust adults to tell the truth more than teenagers, she started lying about me and would kinda do that whole "its your word against mine" shit. But not harmless things, no. She would claim that I would hit her and make her fear for her life. I've literally never even threatened her. She claims, as a sob story to anyone that'll listen, that she was forced to evict her dear beloved son for her own physical safety, when what really happened was I was told by my therapist to write a letter to my mother pursuing an apology for one of those earlier incidents that had contributed to my C-PTSD, and she was so offended she screamed at me for 2 hours straight then stormed out of the apartment telling me that she was off to kill herself and that it would be my fault (note: despite her threats she had never even self-harmed in her life, unlike both her children). I had had enough so called up a guy I knew for help and the rest is history. Luckily for me, I'm living like a king (paycheck to paycheck lol) in a rental now. So things did get better.
Oh man i just noticed how long that second comment is, sorry for trauma-dumping y'all. I do find it easier to deal with if I talk about it though, so don't worry about me. I'mma get back to watching silly guys react to silly memes now
This is literally my experience too.. she's so controlling of everything in my life, lying about things and never taking responsibility for anything, even now that I'm an adult but thanks to therapy and taking time off from her and most other family members I've gotten better. I'm sorry you too bad the same experiences :(
@@shugarshack8536 it seems like a pretty common thing unfortunately. Mine generally pretends to be nice in public though, but that almost made it worse since very few people believed me when I said how nasty she could be. Does your do that too? As an example, in public she'll say stuff like "people with autism are just as capable as the rest of us with a little support!" because she knows thats what she's supposed to say, but in private she'll show her true feelings, saying slurs (including the n word of course) and truly out of pocket things like expressing that she thinks I shouldnt be allowed to vote because of my disability 💀 I hope your life gets even better as you spend more time away from her. And i really hope your other family members and found family support you with whatever you decide to do.
I still absolutely despise the slang words "blud" and "finna". I just makes you sound like you have a speech impediment. It doesn't make it easier to say or expand the meaning, in fact it "blud" is harder to say than "bud".
… you’re really gonna make me talk politics in a Pokay comment section, aren’t you? The N word is a complicated word with a long and in depth history. Im sure you know where the word originated, it was a term used by slave masters to dehumanize black slaves during the early years of the united states. After the civil rights movement, the rise of black empowerment began and usage of the N word by black people with a less antagonistic/racist tone. Then as race relations became a more popular discussion with films like “Do the right thing”, and the rise of hip hop and the formation of N.W.A, the black community began to slowly but surely change how the word was used in popular culture. They reclaimed the word, changed it from a word used by the oppressor to demean to one used by the oppressed to identify with one another and remove the power the word’s old definition had over them. White people, and those of other races in general, were generally not a part of the process of deradicalizing the word, and thus when someone who isnt black says the word, especially with a hard r, it doesn’t have that history of deradicalization and desensitization to it that the black community developed. Now, I have my own views on its uses, and hope that somehow we all can come together in the far future and not have a need to make certain words mean different things depending on whose saying it, but thats not the world we live in.
That one clip is NOT a "You" thing. That's a real thing that happens with control freak mothers who cannot handle being wrong about things.
In this episode of Poke and Friends Podcast, Melvin makes another guest appearance, Stryxo goes through the pros and cons of a 4d movie, and the memes are actually funny.
#3
Guest Appearance? Melvin is a main character...
@@hexxibojexxi I will fix this mistake for futrue Melvin appearances
I read this like a top gear intro
Holograms are just bad representations of 4d screens, so each pixel of a 4d movie would be 3d? Except it would depict 4d imagery? How would that work?
4:45 Literally everyone in my family will always claim that any memory I bring up didn't happen even if THEY had a recording of it on THEIR devices or if they were the ones to bring up that memory first.
I had to go to therapy because people thought I was a pathological liar but turns out that my family were just brain dead and never actually remember anything because they did the same to the therapist the second he asked about something they mentioned when we walked in.
Edit: in case any of you wonder what the therapist asked about.
My parents said that if I behave they will buy me ice-cream.
I was never a rude child and didn't even like ice-cream but the therapist said he'll tell the parents I deserve some anyways.
When he then told them that, they looked confused and angry saying they never made such claim at which point the therapist let out a desperate sigh as the next 4 months were full of nothing but re-psychological evaluations for 8 people.
Y u p
bro. it's the same thing but with my uncle, he gotten so confused as to why I don't like him in particular
4:35 you must have had some decent parents then 😭 my mom gaslights me about my childhood all the time
my uncle used to show me actual animal abuse videos to try to stop me from eating fast food. but it made me not wanna talk to him once I became an adult.
parents when they inflict trauma on their kids:
My mother inflicted so much emotional trauma on me im spending thousands on therapy and meds. Not a single one of those memories i have she recalls. The tree remembers, the axe forgets.
17:25 mmm yes i love it when im trying see my youtuber’s reaction to the funny weed shampoo video and they start talking over it and complaining about bro’s choice of hygiene products instead of listening to the insane shit that guy was saying
This is why i dislike them
4:40 no this happens all the time when I try to, as part of my healing, make my mother acknowledge or apologise for the abuse she's done to me. It's either an "the axe forgets but the tree remembers" thing or her simply trying to worm her way out of it and gaslight me into thinking my trauma around the specific things she did just sprung out of nowhere.
And if something *just* happened and i ask for an apology, she'll bring out the "you're being so cruel to me it makes me want to kill myself" line.
Meanwhile, she'll invent stories out of thin air to slander me to her friends. Hell, she even did it during a group therapy session. Like, I was sitting across from her.
Examples of things she's done and refuses to acknowledge:
- threatened to put down my childhood dog very often as a way to control me (eg "if you dont pause your game and do the dishes right this instant, I'll be putting down the dog since clearly you're not responsible enough for one") despite knowing, or perhaps because she knew from me telling her that that dog was the only thing keeping me alive through high school.
- got so angry after I corrected her misgendering someone once that she threatened to crash the car we were in and kill both of us, and even started swerving in traffic. Like 6 years later i still have nightmares about it
- multiple times she'd threaten to dump me in the middle of nowhere with nothing but the clothes on my back if I talked back (i am disabled, this happened when I was a child and would have probably died without a carer)
- multiple threats to either take all my stuff away or kick me out of home over small things like chores being a little late
- forced me to pay 150 dollars a week to rent my own childhood bedroom when i was still a minor (disability pension, i got like 400-ish a fortnight at the time). Turns out thats not normal, and I only found that out when i brought it up to people and they looked at me with horror on their faces
- she would vent about shit for like a whole hour's drive, including saying basically the same thing over and over again and then yell at me for being too talkative if I even *mentioned* one of my special interests (I'd be silent an entire car ride then go "y'know, I'm kinda excited because a new pokemon game is coming out soon and-" and she'd loudly groan and then tell me off for talking too much 💀)
- it was still considered normal at the time, so I dont entirely fault her for it, but she did physically hit me as a punishment when I was young- remember this.
- screamed at me and did the whole 'im gonna kill your dog' schtick for not taking out the trash when I was recovering from surgery, loopy from pain meds and specifically told by the doctor not to do unnecessary exercise until the stitches could be taken out. When I asked for an apology for that, she yelled at me again and said she'd kill herself and it would be my fault, then claimed that because I'm mentally disabled I don't have empathy, which is a really specific thing to say because:
- my therapist would report things to my parents, and one of the things we tried to do was talk about what good there is about myself and between the two of us the only things we could come up with and agree on was that I'm very empathetic and that my hair's nice. My mother, being herself, used that information to destroy what little remained of my self-esteem in her little rants at me.
Anyway, the list could go on, but the point is that she refuses to acknowledge that she's done any of those things. But of course, she realised that since people trust adults to tell the truth more than teenagers, she started lying about me and would kinda do that whole "its your word against mine" shit. But not harmless things, no. She would claim that I would hit her and make her fear for her life. I've literally never even threatened her. She claims, as a sob story to anyone that'll listen, that she was forced to evict her dear beloved son for her own physical safety, when what really happened was I was told by my therapist to write a letter to my mother pursuing an apology for one of those earlier incidents that had contributed to my C-PTSD, and she was so offended she screamed at me for 2 hours straight then stormed out of the apartment telling me that she was off to kill herself and that it would be my fault (note: despite her threats she had never even self-harmed in her life, unlike both her children). I had had enough so called up a guy I knew for help and the rest is history.
Luckily for me, I'm living like a king (paycheck to paycheck lol) in a rental now. So things did get better.
Oh man i just noticed how long that second comment is, sorry for trauma-dumping y'all. I do find it easier to deal with if I talk about it though, so don't worry about me. I'mma get back to watching silly guys react to silly memes now
This is literally my experience too.. she's so controlling of everything in my life, lying about things and never taking responsibility for anything, even now that I'm an adult but thanks to therapy and taking time off from her and most other family members I've gotten better.
I'm sorry you too bad the same experiences :(
@@shugarshack8536 it seems like a pretty common thing unfortunately. Mine generally pretends to be nice in public though, but that almost made it worse since very few people believed me when I said how nasty she could be. Does your do that too?
As an example, in public she'll say stuff like "people with autism are just as capable as the rest of us with a little support!" because she knows thats what she's supposed to say, but in private she'll show her true feelings, saying slurs (including the n word of course) and truly out of pocket things like expressing that she thinks I shouldnt be allowed to vote because of my disability 💀
I hope your life gets even better as you spend more time away from her. And i really hope your other family members and found family support you with whatever you decide to do.
@regulargoat7259 she does pretend and lie a lot in public (especially about me) too but not that horribly, I'm sorry that yours does :(
4:10 ' Remember, licking doorknobs is illegal on other planets '.
0:28 HE TOOK BOTH OF THEM HAHAHA
0:57 fyk this was the Boss Baby show
4:55 the realization of the fact that the people i watch are the same age as me is not a good one. it hits hard for some reason
5:12 it's incredible how French and Spanish are so similar that I managed to translate what it means despite not knowing any of these words
3:08 IS THAT SADDAM HUSSEIN!?!?
Goated comment
you deserve hell
is this how long it takes for a "new" meme to go into the pokaylive gutters
im a weirdo, what the hell am i doing here?
clonk
Neither of us belong here so it works out
Hi a weirdo I'm dad
Welcome Brother
man, this really radio's my head
4:35 yeah no that's real as hell
memes that make you a creep
memes that make you a weirdo
memes that ask you what you're doing here
Memes that say you don't belong here
Peepers 🤜 🤛
Eepers 🛌
4:20 I hope this is how the zombie apocalypse starts
IM SO SIGMA
9:30 if memory serves right, yeah, he got a healthy coat
3:07 saddam hussein
Dashie could have teched the pow block
A creep? Even a Weirdo? What the hell am I doing here
I don't belong here
Oooh ooooh
I was today years old when I found out I'm 3 years older than stryxo
10:23 where I left off
pokaymon... i miss him
Omg like Raidohead
Omg!!!! Poke!!!!
Poke don't look behind you >:3
Hi pokey hiiiiiiiii
i liek cares :)
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500 views in 15 min? Fell off…
First time I'm this early
I still absolutely despise the slang words "blud" and "finna". I just makes you sound like you have a speech impediment. It doesn't make it easier to say or expand the meaning, in fact it "blud" is harder to say than "bud".
i'm finally early :)
But I’m a weirdo
16:37 but really tho. The word is a slur so why is it being said by anybody like it's not? It doesn't stop being a slur if someone else says it.
… you’re really gonna make me talk politics in a Pokay comment section, aren’t you?
The N word is a complicated word with a long and in depth history. Im sure you know where the word originated, it was a term used by slave masters to dehumanize black slaves during the early years of the united states.
After the civil rights movement, the rise of black empowerment began and usage of the N word by black people with a less antagonistic/racist tone. Then as race relations became a more popular discussion with films like “Do the right thing”, and the rise of hip hop and the formation of N.W.A, the black community began to slowly but surely change how the word was used in popular culture. They reclaimed the word, changed it from a word used by the oppressor to demean to one used by the oppressed to identify with one another and remove the power the word’s old definition had over them.
White people, and those of other races in general, were generally not a part of the process of deradicalizing the word, and thus when someone who isnt black says the word, especially with a hard r, it doesn’t have that history of deradicalization and desensitization to it that the black community developed.
Now, I have my own views on its uses, and hope that somehow we all can come together in the far future and not have a need to make certain words mean different things depending on whose saying it, but thats not the world we live in.
@@greenshyguyfrommario erm, what the sigma
@@sundown6806 … thank you, I needed that
@@greenshyguyfrommario honestly thanks for the explanation.
Someone learning something in the TH-cam comment section, I've seen it all now
Woof
Im early