BM on Fandom Slang & Fan Culture | GET REAL S3 Ep. #33

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  • @shaz_melody
    @shaz_melody ปีที่แล้ว +971

    Peniel didn't forget to mention "of BTOB" even when Ashley introduce herself as Peniel..aaa my melody heart🥺

    • @letter131
      @letter131 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I would die to see fans on the show, like that actually sounds so fun.

  • @tins_melo
    @tins_melo ปีที่แล้ว +321

    9:52 Ashley to Peniel : Give me your best Gangster line
    Peniel : "SAY HELLO TO MY LITTLE FRIEND"🤣

    • @presty17
      @presty17 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      THAT MADE ME START CRYING 😭

    • @user-bk4ci8kv6b
      @user-bk4ci8kv6b 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That little friend is def bangchann😭

  • @frhyh0321
    @frhyh0321 ปีที่แล้ว +576

    Shout out to Melody, Hidden Kard and Lavely.. lets be the best, non toxic fandom to our fav 💙

    • @LifeisMelody342
      @LifeisMelody342 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I love being a Lavely I’ll make sure we’ll be there to support Melodys and Hiddens because we don’t really have that many mutual fandom friends (at least in the public spectrum)

    • @levanterly
      @levanterly ปีที่แล้ว +9

      YES!! A Melody here 🎉I love so many artists and groups and glad that we’re not toxic ❤

    • @tatianawilliams
      @tatianawilliams ปีที่แล้ว +11

      As a Hidden, yes ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 never had many occasions to interact with Melody and Lavely, but we're all pretty chill fandoms and that's getting rare in the kpop-sphere sadly

    • @LifeisMelody342
      @LifeisMelody342 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@tatianawilliams if you ever want to talk to us Lavely I’m always around to answer questions and stuff

    • @lilsistha25
      @lilsistha25 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! I love being an hidden Kard

  • @tins_melo
    @tins_melo ปีที่แล้ว +160

    27:34 What is POB in fandom slang ?
    Peniel : Pre order because I'm busy on the release date
    🤣🤣🤣

  • @lunes5tar
    @lunes5tar ปีที่แล้ว +362

    i'm so happy they at least acknowledged not all of us are toxic! also just a reminder: you're a fan of your faves no matter what anyone else says. you don't need to own certain things to be considered a fan, the duration of how long you've been supporting doesn't matter, and you're allowed to worry about other things other than your faves! just have fun and appreciate the music

    • @preciouslyunhinged
      @preciouslyunhinged ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This 👏👏👏👏👏

    • @odrism.8507
      @odrism.8507 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow this comment is ✨🫶💜😘

    • @CarsonGiology4155
      @CarsonGiology4155 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm a kpop fan, but I also respect their privacy. "Being real can heal, being fake is a mistake" - Me

    • @lunes5tar
      @lunes5tar ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@CarsonGiology4155 likewise! we don’t need to know every single detail about them nor have the right to invade their privacy, simply bc we’re fans. at the end of the day, i’m convinced they’d appreciate being treated like any other person, with respect 🤍 it makes me happy to know there are fans out there who respect idols and give them their space. unfortunately, there’s a handful who don’t understand boundaries :/

    • @lunes5tar
      @lunes5tar ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@odrism.8507 i’m so happy many agree!

  • @sammygurl637
    @sammygurl637 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    "Penelope, Big Matilda and Ashley" lol 😂.. I love it ❤

  • @raquia5821
    @raquia5821 ปีที่แล้ว +575

    BM asking fans on twt about slang was a field day fr

  • @rkhandle
    @rkhandle ปีที่แล้ว +308

    Intro - 1:20
    BM taking Acting Classes - 1:44
    Peniel's Natural Aegyo - 6:04
    BM's Take on Good Acting - 15:30
    Fan-Culture and Slangs - 21:27
    Fandom language Quiz - 22:23
    Funniest fandom slangs - 28:01
    Do the hosts consider themselves in any fandoms? - 29:19
    Early fandoms / "Reply 1997" - 31:24
    Photocard Re-sales - 31:52
    Kpop Concert experience - 33:27
    Pokemon Obsession - 36:39
    Fandom Names - 39:33
    Kpop fan toxicity - 40:40
    Competition/cult/fanwars (Being #1, Streaming culture, losing sleep) - 42:26
    "Oppar!" Ashley - 43:46
    Hate commenters/keyboard warriors - 45:32
    Meeting/interacting with fans in person - 46:29
    Communicating with fans thru social media/SNS - 50:26
    Cancel Culture - 53:34
    Last words to fans - 55:30
    KARD and BtoB's Comeback - 59:52
    BM's shoutout to that one guy in Los Angeles - 1:00:54
    You're welcome! ;)

  • @purplequokka
    @purplequokka ปีที่แล้ว +173

    The way none of them even bothers to change clothes anymore, even Ashley 😂 i havent finished this ep yet but thanks for the 1 hour episode!!!

  • @UptodateNetizen
    @UptodateNetizen ปีที่แล้ว +326

    Ngl they are one of the most outstanding trio out there love their chemistry ❤ welcome back BM! we missed you🖐

  • @Melohana-kb5dc
    @Melohana-kb5dc ปีที่แล้ว +203

    Peniel shows his love for melodies through action he is not much of a word guy but he always try to include us in many things especially for international melodies he always interprete what he is saying in two d/t language and he always give us reassurance when something happens....... From what i've seen BM genuinely loves his fans....And ashley my love,words can't express how much melodies love you we ride at dawn for you ashley

  • @vanadu238
    @vanadu238 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    Peniel was so cute saying "we are the Pokemon?" 😂

    • @erikac2720
      @erikac2720 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      btob member hyunsik is the rare water Pokemon, so yes, you are pokemons 🤭

  • @Innocentsnow86
    @Innocentsnow86 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    So real for talking about the toxic fans, i hate seeing fans go against each other. When I think of toxic, it makes me think of the fans that swarm the airports... like can we just let our artist breath?

  • @jasminebranch3007
    @jasminebranch3007 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    ‘Constructive criticism culture’. Some people are so imaginative in their communication like Peniel.
    BM is so kind.
    I love seeing Ashley happy on her TH-cam channel.

  • @kungfuken432
    @kungfuken432 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    This is such an important episode. Three very experienced kpop musicians that are also multicultural dropping great insight.

  • @emcandi
    @emcandi ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I’m laughing at Ashley’s interpretation of OOMF🤣🤣

    • @preciouslyunhinged
      @preciouslyunhinged ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I thought its "oh..oh my freaking gosh "😂😂😂😂😂

  • @BBubblegum-ou5wq
    @BBubblegum-ou5wq ปีที่แล้ว +29

    40:44 kinda ironic that BTOB and KARD are known for having some of the chillest fans. I’m a proud melody and hidden kard haha

  • @saranghaja7995
    @saranghaja7995 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Peniel teasing Ashley by bringing up the ninja thing 🤣

  • @ginaverso
    @ginaverso ปีที่แล้ว +148

    When you mentioned the lightsticks, I remembered another kpop slang: black ocean. It's one of the saddest, I think. A black ocean happens when a fandom turns off their lightsticks collectively to "hurt" a group they don't like while the group is on stage performing. I think it has happened mostly at award ceremonies/concerts, because many fandoms gather there. Overall, black oceans are a sign of disrespect that we despise, because all artists deserve to see an audience with lights on for them.
    And the reason some fandoms have done it comes from fanwars (another slang xd). Fans not necessarily hate the artists, probably don't even know their music, but if the fandoms become "rivals", they might do black oceans to the other just to prove that "my faves have more fans than yours" kinda thing.
    Edit: faves is another word we use a lot, but it's not specifically kpop slang, I think.

    • @jrmnrm915
      @jrmnrm915 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wtfffff

    • @letter131
      @letter131 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bruh wat I didn't even know that was a thing

    • @ginaverso
      @ginaverso ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh yeah, it is! Something sad and disrespectful, most of the times :(

    • @Justamob_
      @Justamob_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah I saw videos of that

    • @--butterfingers--8578
      @--butterfingers--8578 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah for real.. Its really a heartbreaking moment for the artist who have experienced that. I recently saw some videos of Black pink Jennie getting a black ocean while the group performed in Indonesia. Getting hate from their own fandom is quite depressing. As a blink, Indonesian fans shouldn't have treated her like that . I hope she get lots of support from her other fans and blinks

  • @HeavenAngel3999
    @HeavenAngel3999 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    this is definitely one of the REALEST EPISODES OF GET REAL. I've wanted to hear them talk about fan culture and the good/bad side on it. I love that Ashley was speaking up loudly about this!! Much love to you all Peniel, BM, and Ashley!

  • @cyannaashanti182
    @cyannaashanti182 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I agree with BM. Having fans on GET REAL would be so tight.

  • @Mars127
    @Mars127 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    32:28 😭 BM I have sold one of your cards before (and other members) but only cause I had 2 copies. I ordered 4 albums to get each members Makestar POB from KARD's last comeback and also ended up winning a solo call with J.Seph so as a winner I got a second set of the same cards on top of the set that already came with 😅 but I also safely resold the extra albums with everything they came with so people who didn't have the album already could get it. Nothing got carelessly thrown away everything has a home 🥺 not all of us resellers are bad

  • @ilyysj505
    @ilyysj505 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I just loved the way they talked about fan culture. It's so true and the way Ashley and BM said MELODY's are so strong and healthy fandom 🥺 i felt so proud of my Fam 🫶💙❤️ and Peniel saying they take after their idols 😌 that's my best boy 💙❤️🫶

  • @sab15915
    @sab15915 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Shout out to those well mannered fans whatever fandom you belong. 🙌👏❤

  • @curiositykilledthekat
    @curiositykilledthekat ปีที่แล้ว +21

    as a hidden kard, i started watching the podcast to support bm and have been so blessed to meet many incredible people, and it's because of this show that i started listening to a lot of amazing artists (such as ph-1 and junny! who literally dominate my spotify fr) but above all getting to know ladies code and btob, especially once kingdom started. i started watching ashley and joan's youtube. it all became such a safe space for me. thank YOU for all your hard work, dedication, and above all the honesty.

  • @thereadingmd6857
    @thereadingmd6857 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I pray for the good health and blessing for BTOB, KARD and Ladies Code and each of our fandom as well as the Dive Studios fam. Thank you for this show ❤

  • @junkyuseum
    @junkyuseum ปีที่แล้ว +145

    BTOB members always bringing their group's name in their individual projects 💕

    • @wedyan_iol
      @wedyan_iol ปีที่แล้ว

      Which Korean actor was bm talking about?

    • @wedyan_iol
      @wedyan_iol ปีที่แล้ว

      Seon sok goo

  • @curiositykilledthekat
    @curiositykilledthekat ปีที่แล้ว +24

    peniel and ashley working hard on that bm/katie loveline, i appreciate the hustle

  • @SuperLulaby
    @SuperLulaby ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I'll never get tired of listening to this trio. It's so chill. They were my happy pill during pandemic lockdown. It's thanks to them that I was able to keep my sanity intact during those trying times. Thanks guys. ❤❤❤

  • @bleust
    @bleust ปีที่แล้ว +17

    im so glad ashley mentioned abt the toxicity bcs it needs to be said! and peniel making sure to add btob at first was so cute

  • @vitorbaggio7622
    @vitorbaggio7622 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Thanks for those Harry and BM's episodes! I'm feeling spoiled

  • @lizavetatyo
    @lizavetatyo ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Fan wars were a thing even 10 years ago. The only difference that before the vibe in general was nice because kpop wasn’t that huge back in the day and people tried to find some friends in that small community. Sometimes it wasn’t that easy because it wasn’t cool to be a kpop fan. Nowadays when kpop gets bigger there are so many toxic fans who disrespect previous generations and act like their idols are the only ones who make kpop globally famous. Shame on them.

    • @rkhandle
      @rkhandle ปีที่แล้ว +8

      fan wars were a thing 25 years ago. they used to be pretty intense too from what I hear.

    • @edwardac3440
      @edwardac3440 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@rkhandle actual fighting occured

    • @rkhandle
      @rkhandle ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@edwardac3440 lol. imagine them ajumas now reminiscing about their fights way back in the days. pretty sure they must be around 35-43 year old range.

    • @janvdb9258
      @janvdb9258 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah..if you ain't know who TVXQ are give respect...you have no clue

    • @Novadestin
      @Novadestin ปีที่แล้ว

      The "vibe" in the past might have been nice for foreign fans, but it most certainly wasn't for Korean fans. The fanwars of 1st and 2nd gen groups are legendary. Straight up brawls, property damage, physical injury, even rape allegations were not out of the question. And that's just what fans did to each other, what some did to the idols they didn't like or even their favs was worse. The only good thing now is that it's mostly moved online as that largely removes the physicality of it, but that also in no way lessens it - in fact, it only makes it easier.

  • @cyannaashanti182
    @cyannaashanti182 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Get Real's fandom's name should be "The Realest"

    • @curiositykilledthekat
      @curiositykilledthekat ปีที่แล้ว +4

      oooh i love it!

    • @bubbles8270
      @bubbles8270 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Or “The Truth” 😂

    • @Justamob_
      @Justamob_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bubbles8270 that would be so funny
      I am truth

    • @Woahae127teen
      @Woahae127teen 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can we please make it a thing

  • @hannahg2945
    @hannahg2945 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    i think definitely the industry pumps this idea to fans head if they dont stream their idols are gonna fall out of popularity and disband, so in the end the company profits bc of this and eventually their are those people that get overly obsessed with streaming and can become aggressive/toxic to other fans or fandoms for not streaming. its super sad what the greed of capitalism can do to people.

  • @isra_arsi
    @isra_arsi ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I love how ashley keeps on changing her clothes even when they film these on the same day 😭( I know she just added a jacket this time but she usually changes her clothes and well adding a jacket is still something ) I appreciate her efforts
    peniel also did a change and took off his hat 😭❤

  • @risithabellignur4406
    @risithabellignur4406 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    so excited for bm to be back for this ep! missed him

  • @L-Puffin
    @L-Puffin ปีที่แล้ว +44

    BM back again! Always so so happy to see him on Get Real again! I can't wait for the new KARD comeback 💙

  • @irunclasseu
    @irunclasseu ปีที่แล้ว +16

    So proud to be a Melody 💙 most precious fanmily that hits closest to my heart and to BTOB as my home 🏠💙💙 Good to see you three together again! Stay healthy with all these schedules coming up! Always supporting you guyssss 😉

  • @monkeyfacex3
    @monkeyfacex3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    37:45
    'are you saying we are the pokemon?'
    'if we are, ima blastoise'
    i think i just fell in love

  • @liezlevidallon8378
    @liezlevidallon8378 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Peniel " of BTOB" as always 🤍💙😉

  • @blue__belief
    @blue__belief ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I appreciate Ashley so much at 44:41 for saying this because it needed to be said. I feel so acknowledged to hear them say this isn't it and that's not what they want. The fact that this came from artists themselves, not wishing this kind of pressure upon their fans. I hope some of the extreme fans out there know this is not the kind of culture artists want you to enforce on fellow fans or potential fans. Don't be so superficial! Artists make art, and art is art before any awards. Just enjoy it for what it is.

  • @purplequokka
    @purplequokka ปีที่แล้ว +12

    speaking of the Aussie boys, skz is having a comeback soon too! pls invite them to get real! in the past 2 years, chan has been going on live every weekend and talks to stays about the realest and most random shit about life so i believe he’s the best guy to guest on the show. looking forward to this!! 🥺🙏

  • @anyoneelsekitten
    @anyoneelsekitten ปีที่แล้ว +13

    this came at a perfect time for me, I have always been all about the music first and have pulled back from a lot of fandoms because they make everyone miserable. I hope more people get to find their healthy balance. I agree 100% agree that "toxic fans" scare away people who could really get into the music and artists. Happy and healthy truly is all that matters in life!!

    • @paridhikag5440
      @paridhikag5440 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah exactly. I accidently stumbled on twt and there I saw where fans were like if you want our artist at top or want this award then stream like a crazy fan and buy album in bulk and vote from diff accounts...
      And I was like.... What ?????
      .
      And also I saw some toxic fans comments and I Explored more ( you know curiosity 😂). I was shocked and couldn't believe that those comments were real and I immediately closed twt for my mental peace 😂😂😂
      I was just happy when they discussed about this topic which is considered very sensitive topic for idols to discuss..

    • @anyoneelsekitten
      @anyoneelsekitten ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@paridhikag5440 I agree! its almost surreal to hear them address it so directly and candidly but its such a welcome change and people REALLY need to hear it. Toxic "fans" are incredibly selfish and dont think about how their behavior impacts everyone else. Whether they are hurting real fans, scaring away potential fans, amplifying other toxic fans because they feel validated or hurting the artists who seem to only want to spread love and their music. I dont think a single artist would ever condone their behaviors 🥲 hopefully someday they will become even less common.

    • @paridhikag5440
      @paridhikag5440 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@anyoneelsekitten Yeah. I agree with you. I too hope someday non kpop fans won't see kpop as a toxic place.
      .
      I am a kpop fan for more than 7 years now. I am a fan of 2 kpop groups and for others I am a casual listener means I just listen music and that's it. For those 2 groups I just listen music or watch content if I like and leave a positive comment. And I never compare 2 diff artist and also members from same group. The thing is when you can be a good person and spread positivity then why to chose a negative path. That's it.

    • @anyoneelsekitten
      @anyoneelsekitten ปีที่แล้ว

      @paridhi_2517 100% agree again. I've been a fan since 2019 but have loved music my entire life and when ever possible in any music space I do my best to take care of it and always leave it better than how I found it. There is never a reason to spread hate, cut others down, be rude or inconsiderate. At the end of the day you never really regret being a positive person and that's just how I choose to live as well🥰

    • @paridhikag5440
      @paridhikag5440 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@anyoneelsekitten Yeah. You are right we can never regret for being a positive person.. See there are sometimes when we didn't get connect or like some music or content or it can be anything. So then the best we can do is don't listen and watch that content or music. But nowadays some people chose to take some time and write hateful comments and compare with other artist and then they name it as " opinion ". Hateful comment can never be an opinion.
      Personally when I didn't like something or it is not of my taste I just don't watch or listen to it. That's it. Why I will waste time to write harsh comments and then replying them..
      When we write something good then others do reply with good words. So we like that kind of conversation.
      Just like ours we liked each others choice of words and thoughts.

  • @esthervang86
    @esthervang86 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Lmao when Peniel was talking about the crying

  • @ehengm
    @ehengm ปีที่แล้ว +10

    nothing makes my day as Get Real episodes, especially with my most loved trio❤ thank you Dive Studios, Ashley, Matthew and Peniel!!!💚💚💚💚

  • @exomazingbabies
    @exomazingbabies ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I may be an EXO-L, but my Melody heart will always stay around. BtoB brought me to kpop. I will forever be grateful for that. I will always support every member and the whole group. Thank you also for bringing amazing music to this world.

  • @ikow9
    @ikow9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Always love "BFF vibe" they have. Having lots of special guest is great, but chilling with your bff will always be my fav.
    Peniel line "say hello to my little friend" really cracks me up and the highlight if this episode is BM's wink+lip biting face 🤣

  • @mmyyanina
    @mmyyanina ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hidden Kard here!! 💖
    Waiting for the comeback! 2023.04.10 👏

  • @멜로-v7p3b
    @멜로-v7p3b ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The first thing I come up with POB is the "Piece of BTOB" project in 2017 LOL
    Just me being Melody😌💙

  • @kingnamsuxx
    @kingnamsuxx ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Good on BM for being so strong, sending so much light and love to his family since his mom is battle breast cancer!

  • @SnarkyNakji
    @SnarkyNakji ปีที่แล้ว +12

    If there's a Welcome to Waikiki 3 or So Not Worth It 2...They should cast the whole Dive Studio Crew.

  • @akumarina_
    @akumarina_ ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I'm a simple person. I hear "Stray Kids", I leave a comment
    Still waiting for Bangchan and Felix to appear on get real 🙏

  • @veem4059
    @veem4059 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m glad you guys are having an open and honest conversation about fan culture, highlighting the good and bad. We definitely need more of this, maybe even dedicated episodes to different aspects of fan culture if possible. And since this industry thrives on parasocial relationships, I would really love to hear your stances on this part of the k-pop industry and fans. Going in detail on the way idols interact with fans, the fan service, the things fans expect from idols (standards of being an idol) and the different ways fan view/interpret their relationship with idols. Also the stalker ‘fans’/sasaengs and how that affects the k-pop experience for both idols and other fans.
    Great video as always❤

  • @babyblair6
    @babyblair6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love this trio so much, makes me feel like i'm hanging out with friends 💕

  • @_depaulakim
    @_depaulakim ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is the most important episode of GR. Cuz we all, as fans, know how these things happen in a daily basis, and it's not pretty! Having idols talking about these issues is so important, maybe some fans can really get real and stop some of those bul**t. Hopefully they will.

  • @arins5537
    @arins5537 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is a holy trio and I’m really proud to be their fan!

  • @fatimachbati3
    @fatimachbati3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm glad Ashley mentioned the people who pretend to be their fans to gain some clout over the accident bcus not gonna lie, the amount of people I fought for this exact reason. Ladies code is more than that, their music before and after is so good and deserves much more appreciation

  • @SikfanKitchen
    @SikfanKitchen ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love junny and ph1 but there’s something about you three (the original hosts) that hits differently. It’s so nice to see you all together again! I hope BM comes on more often 😊

  • @aldanagimenez222
    @aldanagimenez222 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really liked the whole interview. I love kard too much, I have been hidden kard for 5 years and they are so important to me. It is true that they made me happy millions of times. I met them at a difficult time and they made me smile, that's why I love them with all my heart and am so grateful.
    I'm glad to know that matt receives all that love from hidden kard, we appreciate their music and we want the best for them

  • @bleust
    @bleust ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i agree about the cancel culture thingy too bcs some people doing that on social media are really just doing that as some kind of performative activism i feel like? its like not even a constructive criticism and its always out of hate instead of care about the actual issue too so its just honestly frustrating to see. like there are actual serious and worse things going on in the world and like ashley said, they're all humans soo yup.

  • @Yookiebebe
    @Yookiebebe ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Let's go, Get Real Fam!

  • @natyazefannya6956
    @natyazefannya6956 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    BM's voice when he speaks English is just so handsome 😭

  • @annhampton7871
    @annhampton7871 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Going from CC to CCC: Cancel Culture --> Constructive Criticism Culture with the Dive crew... always keeping it real.

  • @Sam-rf3rx
    @Sam-rf3rx ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m so busy I can’t watch this until I get some free time but i wanna say I’ve been waiting for BM to back im sure this ep will be interesting can’t wait to watch it

  • @imgris
    @imgris ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My discovery road:
    -Became a Melody about 2 years ago, got curious about Peniel's character and Discovered that he was part of a podcast...the Get Real Podcast!
    -Peniel then has been my Ult Bias (see what I did there? lol)
    -Fell in love with BM's energy, love for life and positivity, then ultimately became a HK! And thanks to that I attended my first ever K-pop Concert when KARD came to the states!!
    -Ashley is like the bff I would love to have in my life! She is so real, relatable and has this energy that has no time for BS (neither do I). I had no idea she is a former Idol or that her group has two forever group members ('til like a week ago).
    -So it has been about two years and I am total DIVEr!
    -Thanks to DIVE STUDIOS I am able to be further exposed to amazing human beings like Eric Nam, Epik High, Alexa, Junny, Harry + more!!
    - This is a short summary of my journey as a DIVEr, HK and Melody (I am also a Shawol but that is for another day lol), but in another words I just want to express my gratitude, because y'll have unknowingly been there for me--and many others I am sure - So thank you from the bottom of my heart for doing all that you do.
    And I do agree 100% with Peniel 56:33 that I too, do my best to reflect my "idols", as you are my inspiration to take care of myself Mentally andPhysically, and to always give it my all and my best in what ever I am doing.
    - K Im done -
    ---- Sorry not Sorry but the long azz post, but I just somehow felt compelled to write this essay lol!! --

  • @francheskahum
    @francheskahum ปีที่แล้ว +10

    damn i haven’t been in the fandom culture in a long time and idek they created their own slang. that so crazy.

  • @filmaddict143
    @filmaddict143 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    im honestly really glad you guys discussed the extreme toxicity of these fandoms (while also acknowledging that its not everyone) but it really is crazy and kinda gets to dangerous points for the singers as well. also all these few loud toxic fans or antis are just horrible and clearly need help lol like who takes their time out to create multiple accounts and harassing ppl constantly daily?? thats just literally… seek help man😭
    but yeah overall im happy y’all were full honest about ur thoughts on it especially that its coming from singers, we can hear your end of your feelings about these crazy situations and hopefully those ppl will learn that y’all see the garbage they throw and that its actually affecting ppl cause yeah you’re entertainers but that title shouldn’t mean that you’re stripped from being human cause y’all are still human at the end of the day.

  • @levanterly
    @levanterly ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I loved this episode ❤ especially talking about how serious and toxic fandoms can get. I’ve definitely been a fan of many various artists and have been intimidated by some fandoms because of the standards that are built up. Just like how y’all mentioned some people purchasing so many album copies, streaming, and researching everything about their idols can seem a bit over the top. I definitely am trying to not get influenced by that and just enjoy the artists’ music and what they do rather than going overboard. A melody here ✨💘🤟🏼 (I’ll look forward to a BTOB comeback!! It’s been awhile!)

  • @prabhapatel167
    @prabhapatel167 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The OGs are back Penelope, Big Matilda and Ashley let's goooo !!!

  • @windireska9532
    @windireska9532 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They really give siblings energy ❤ peniel and bm took care of Ashley when she was talking about her fans, they were quick at expressing the concern and peniel already ask for tissue ❤

  • @lindango6678
    @lindango6678 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was a GREAT great episode. All episodes of Get Real are great but I loved the conversation about toxic kpop fandom behavior (40:42) and especially Ashley saying that doing things like mass streaming to the point where it interferes with your daily life isn't what they as idols/artists want from their fans- being a fan should be enjoyable for everyone. Artists/groups really don't address the issue enough, which is too bad but it's nice to hear those toxic fans being called out for what they are 👏 HEALTHY FAN CULTURE, everyone.

  • @geekdiggy
    @geekdiggy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i'm glad they have a place to address toxic fan culture. only the most brave veteran artists even mention it on any kind of broadcast, and those that do are either called heroes or get backlash.

  • @mramisuzuki6962
    @mramisuzuki6962 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The old teen magazines used to have photocards for "idols" in the 50-early 00s, but death of print media + importing Asian fan culture kind of killed it. Now its kind of back. FYI I feel old knowing about Tiffany and New Kids on the Block fan groups that only existed through mail. Kind of romantic now, like seeing post cards.

  • @erikac2720
    @erikac2720 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this podcast, I came here first bcs of Peniel, bcs I love his group, but ended up being a big fan of all the hosts and happy to get to know the guests here.
    I wish I can meet you guys in real life someday, but I can't promise I won't be nervous.

  • @liezlevidallon8378
    @liezlevidallon8378 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    hope BM stay as co- host and not just a guest co-host .. original hosts still the best 💙

  • @Jbug87
    @Jbug87 ปีที่แล้ว

    GET REAL honestly.... this is my favorite episodes of get real. you touched on so many actual issues. thank you for all you guys do!

  • @Lord_Fenrir
    @Lord_Fenrir ปีที่แล้ว +3

    59:58 Peniel start giving a side look checking the sheet "when is this getting released?" for the BtoB comeback announced😂😂😂

  • @bonnielee6083
    @bonnielee6083 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    As an Aussie, I feel accurately represented 😂

  • @07prv
    @07prv ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have been so busy lately...this is my first ep of season 3 that i watched. I really love Get real and this is fave trio ❣ I'm always thankful to this podcast as it keeps me going 😭.I'll try to be more active.

  • @apolo1317
    @apolo1317 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    Please have Bang Chan and Felix on the show 🙏 😭 😔 😊

    • @minhtutran8264
      @minhtutran8264 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      that would be hard cuz skz schedule is hella insane but let''s just hope for one day 🙏

    • @jasminebranch3007
      @jasminebranch3007 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      They were on the Daebak show.

    • @yulia1519
      @yulia1519 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jasminebranch3007 and?

    • @gandalfthegrey
      @gandalfthegrey ปีที่แล้ว +8

      we want them on both

    • @harlee2191
      @harlee2191 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They're on tour, so it won't happen no time soon...

  • @trifinyallen7755
    @trifinyallen7755 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Always proud to be a melody 💙
    Hidden kard and lavely are fandoms that we can trust and be friends with.
    Get real listeners let's make our hosts proud of us too like their group fandoms! 💪

  • @SisciSeo
    @SisciSeo ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love to see the three of you together once again!!!! Thanks, Peniel Ashley and BM 💙💙💙. You are the reason I'm here watching this channel 😊😊
    I love to hear your thoughts about the Fandom and thankful for the comments about Melody 💙
    Yes if this wouldn't be a nice, well-mannered Fandom, I've probably wouldn't be here 😅
    May you stay healthy and that we may see you together again soon 🙏

  • @wxy7119
    @wxy7119 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    45:20 OMG DIVE STUDIOS PLEASE DO THIS it would be so interesting for the artists and fans to sit down and have a conversation about kpop and music and fan-idol relationships!

  • @chosen558
    @chosen558 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    love seeing you three together !! and i hope to see BM in movies and series sooon 🎉

  • @stellashla4387
    @stellashla4387 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fav podcast while doing dishes😌. I am laughing like a crazy person (my family looking at me weird)🤣

  • @IndigoDetry
    @IndigoDetry ปีที่แล้ว

    43:00 I agree with ashley so much. when people are like “stream this song at this time for this amount of times so it can chart” i’ve never listened to music like that. If a song is really good I’m obviously gonna fucking listen to it and it’ll naturally be on a loop for me.

  • @loanairis204
    @loanairis204 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    And who dares to said that Peniel is not funny. I keep laughing at all his jokes

  • @OriginAlan
    @OriginAlan ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Let’s go!! King BM is back again again! Oooh it’s about to Get Real

  • @sedie94
    @sedie94 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really enjoyed this episode so much! I'm a Lavely and Hidden Kard, myself. I appreciate y'alls view on fandom because as much as I love kpop I know sometimes people are going to view the fandom negatively. I feel like i support kpop in a reasonable capacity (for kpop standards lol) as much as I support non kpop artists that I love. But for some reason I'm only looked at differently for being a kpop fan. No one ever judges me for liking Sza or Megan Thee Stallion but If I tell them I'm a kpop fan, I'm treated a bit differently. It's nice to know y'all think about the fans this genuinely.
    I haven't listened to much of BTOB but I'm a Peniel fan too lol because of this show and a bit of kingdom. I've been a Lavely longer than a Hidden Kard and it makes me so happy to see Ashley laughing with friends and giving her opinion, etc! And BM the new music was fire!!! I went to the Dallas concert, it was so good!
    -Sorry for the super long comment lol

  • @exaus_tai
    @exaus_tai ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm always watching snippets from the pod on my instagram fyp (and already follow dive over there) but never had the chance to watch/listen the full content and wow... I'm sad it took me so long. You guys are so chill and funny. I'm really happy to give it a try!!! ❤

  • @princedo1439
    @princedo1439 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This trio is growing on me, and Im loving it! I love the Dive Studios family!

  • @whtsxz
    @whtsxz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ashley speaking up about those so called lavely only if it is about the "accident" is something that really need to be said!

  • @pihusharma3882
    @pihusharma3882 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I did not know I missed this trio so much

  • @cindhytheresia1275
    @cindhytheresia1275 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always love this og trio because they’re more than just a podcast dj, they are family.
    WE LOVE YOU PENI, ASHLEY, & BM.

  • @yueliangmei12
    @yueliangmei12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I started being a kpop fan like 2 yrs ago, I can finally say that I am part of a fandom haha I do listen and like kpop songs before but I am not the type to stan until SKZ found me. So when I entered twitter I was so shocked with all the post about streaming, voting, albums, photo cards 😂 I’m actually older than other fans so this kpop slang was so weird to me hhaha I do know some of the words that you mentioned but I still learned a lot by watching this episode hahha I’m also the type of fan who supports idols for their music and love hearing how are they doing and just wish them to be happy. I hope some fans just stop fighting one another and just keep supporting their faves without bringing other artists down.
    Anyway, I agree that melody is one of the less problematic fandom, during kingdom, I think melodies are the only fandom who didn’t bad mouth skz that time, they even defended us to other weird fans, so a lot of stays and melodies became friends, a lot of melodies became fans of skz and a lot of stays became fans Btob. It’s a win win hahahha thank you also btob for taking care of kids that time, you are such a good senior, it meant a lot to us ❤

  • @bamsdandelion6272
    @bamsdandelion6272 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    hadnt realized how much i miss matthew on these podcasts until todayyyy😭

  • @mbot565
    @mbot565 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hope we will finally have BTOB as Get Real guest for this comeback! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @ashleymel2
    @ashleymel2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This episode was so real and sweet, Happy 11th anniversary to BTOB, & Ladies code I got into so many groups in 2013 and Ladies code was one of them and they always had great concepts and great songs, I started getting into K-pop in 2010 and I would write down all my favorite aong titles from all the groups I would stan, K.a.r.d have the most iconic choreography and all songs are bops, a whole different style ❤ Thank you for the laughs I had with this episode, Peniel & Ashley are just so equally funny and glad BM joined in the get real episode 😊

  • @paulamusik2509
    @paulamusik2509 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was such a serious and interesting episode! If you ever need someone to interview: I would consider myself a healthy non toxic fan! 😂❤️ And I would love to just chill and chat with you! To all the fans of all fandoms out there: please support your idols not just as artists but also as human beings. Respect their boundaries and spread love and good vibes. To them, to the other people in your fandom and also to the people of other fandoms ❤️

  • @ceciliasdf
    @ceciliasdf ปีที่แล้ว

    melody here!! shout out to get real og cast! keep going on with that cool vibe of yours, as we try to be as healthy as possible online and offline