Our children are a reflection of who we are as parents. We are to be parents to our children and not their best friend. If you as parents don't set boundaries and rules for your children when they are young then you can't expect your children to be disciplined as young adults. You have to discipline and coach them at a young age. Best of luck to you and your family.
Tus viv ncaus aw txhob zov lawv cov menyuam kiag lawv xa ntau tuaj ces hu police tuaj coj mus kiag xwb koj pab lawv npaum li ces lawv ntxub koj npaum li ntawv tag mas
May God be with you, lady. I hope that you will soon have the courage to forgive yourself and start a new life, in this lifetime. Everyone deserves a second chance. However, we must re-evaluate ourselves from time to time, because we (sometimes) might be the issue to the problem. I too have been guilty of many mistakes and poor choices which I cannot blame anyone but myself. However, we must forgive, embrace, and move forward each day. Good luck in the future.
Mommy es. Go on vacation. Take your money & spend it on yourself. Leave those ungrateful children & cheating husband to suffer. Buy a ticket to a far away island & just go!
txhob tu siab xab maim no yus yuav hlub yus tus kheej xwb os..txhob tos peb tus txiv hlub peb..txhob tos peb cov menyuam hlub peb...lawv tsis yuav yus los yus khwv yus noj...thaum ua tsis tau noj lawm ces kawg mus nyob tsev laus xwb..cov menyuam no lawv tsuas hlub yus thaum lawv me me es lawv need yus ua m ov rau lawv noj thiab muab nyiaj lawv siv xwb..hlub koj tus kheej nawv viv ncaus...
To this sister: Know the difference between kindness and weakness. Be kind but DON’T be weak! Stand up for yourself! Don’t let your loser ex treat you like that! And definitely stand up to your kids! Let them learn the hard way! And most important of all, be kind to yourself. Love yourself. Be good to yourself.
Kuv xav ib yam li koj zaj neej neeg no thiab ostxoj kev me nyuas tsi mloog lus mas nyuaj siab kawg ua rau yus mob kiag los yeej hais tsi tau me nyuam kuv tus txij nkawm hlub kuv heev tiam sis kuv muaj ib tug me nyuam ua rau kuv mob yuav tuag li thiab mas nyuaj siab kawg nkaus
Tus txiv tsev no ruam tshaj plaws. Mi nyuam tsis hmloo lus thiab tsis tsim txiaj twb yog vim leej txiv yog tus thawj laib laus. Yus yog leej txiv es yus twb tsis txawj coj tsis qhuab qhia mi nyuam es mi nyuam yuav ua cas hmloo lus. Pom xeeb yog txiv tsev tiam sis niaj hnub tham hluas nkauj thiab ua phem rau leej niam ces kawg mi nyuam yeej tsis ntshai thiab hwm leej niam. Qhov mi nyuam yuav respect niam thiab txiv mam yuav tsum yog tus niam thiab tus txiv yeej respect ib leeg ib tug ua ntej rau mi nyuam pom thiab kawm.
Tus me niam laus nrog koj tu siab heev li os vim koj mus yuav tau tus neeg phem los ua koj tus txiv lawm thov kom tom ntej no koj mus tau ib tug txiv hlub 2 koj nawb mog
Lol 😂 your husband says you’re the “Liam” when he’s the one that’s cheating!! You’re too nice towards him... and you have no self love. Love yourself and learn to stand up for yourself... let him go and if your kids are losers like him...learn to let them be too. Let them suffer and learn their own mistakes and let karma teach them a few lessons. I wish you the best sister. 🙏🙏
Tus me niam tais aw txhob tu siab os mog ntshe tiam thaum ub koj tshuav lawv nqi es koj tseem them tsis tau tas es tiam no koj thiaj raug lawv tsim os mog.
tug mes viv ncaus aw cas kuv tsis tau hnov dua ib zaj neej neeg yuav phem npaum li koj zaj no thiab laiv. mloog luag lwm zaj mas txiv tsis hlub yus los tej mes nyuam hlub2 leej niam li hos. Koj Cov mes nyuam no yog ib Pab mes nyuam ua phem kawg nkau li nawb. yeej nrog Koj tu siab kawg li thiab os. thaum hluag koj tsis mloog Koj niam lawv hais thiab ne. tej laus lawv qhia yus ces yeej yog qhov zoo ntau dua xwb ov.
Me viv ncaus ua cas peb los ua lub neej rau tiam no es peb txoj kev nyuaj siab yuav zoo tib yam koj li txawv tsis ntau peb li txawv tsis tau koj xwb tej me nyuam no ces nyim yus lub zog yug lawv xwb os
Niam ntsuab teev thov koj pab muab kuv cov lus no xa mus rau tus niam tsev zaj neej neeg no tias txiv neej siab zoo tseem muaj yog nws tsis tau yuav txiv no seb puas kam qhib siab txais tos tus txiv neej zoo li kuv
Lady, open your eyes. Your whole family fell apart. It is time to see the fault that you play in the destruction of your family. It is sad for the mothers that has the victim mentality. If all your kids turn out bad, it means you fail at parenting.
That's what I'm saying. She is the problem to her failing kids and husband. Moms are god to their kids. If ALL her kids hate her then that means she's at fault but she's only here to act like she's the victim.
kisses Xiong that might be the answer to why all her kids fail her. She never cares to take responsibility for her wrongs - yet expect her kids to magically LEARN to accept theirs wrongs to her. Some parent are too overly entitle, they forget a parent’s duty is to love and guide their children, not so much as to seek for the reward that may or may not come from parenting.
I see as all of you, too, at the moment that she starts to curses her children and grandchildren, that is when I know for sure she was and is still at fault, but I guest she will never learn to take responsibility for her own actions, and plays the "blame game".
Yov puas yog li koj hais thiab puas muaj tseeb lli koj zaj neej neeg no yog muaj li koj haus mas Koj yog ib tug poj niam mas nruam tahaj plaws li os viv ncaus aw. Nrog kon tus siab viv koj nruam heev.
Tus niam tsev awww....peb cov pojniam Hmoob lub neej ces tsis txawv deb koj li os. Yus tej menyuam es yus nim ntshai ntshai tsam txom nyem li yus los lawv yeej tsis ntshai thiab tsis pab lawv tus kheej kiag li. Koj niag txiv tsim koj ua rau koj lwj siab npaum ko ces kawg nyias nyob nyias es tso nws mus li ko. Hos hais txog koj pheej tseem pab lawv ces tsis yog koj npam os, yog koj siab zoo dhau lawm xwb. Tiam sis ua qhov zoo yeej zoo tshaj koj ua qhov phem os. Yog li pab li koj pab tau. Txoj kev zoo kev phem uas peb ua hauv ntiaj teb no ces nyias ua nyias yeej yuav ris nyias tiag tiag nawb. Thov Vajtswv foom hmoov zoo rau koj txoj kev zoo. Zam txim rau tej menyuam thiab koj txiv es ua siab loj....move on.
Tus siab ua luaj niam laus es. Koj siab zoo dhau lawm os. Cas lawv ua phem ua luaj li no rau koj es koj tsis tsim kiag mus nyob lwm lub zoj nas los mus nyob txawv laj nas es txhob ntau xov qhia koj tes me nyuam no lawm mas kom koj tus qub txiv niab tsov tom liam ntawv ho nrhiav kom txhob tau koj lawm mas lod... Koj siab zoo tiag tiag li os, siab zoo los ruam dhau lawm ua tseem kam zog lawv tes niab kaas raum thiab laud. Pab nrog koj npau tawv los nrog koj tus siab thiab os nawb.
Muab xav mas tsis tsim nyog hlub li Tab sis muaj ib hnub lawv yuav tau ua niam ua txiv thiab mas viv ncaus txhob tu siab os mog cov tsis tau txoj kev no ces yog cov tsis muaj ib tug me nyuam hlo li xwb os mog
It’s okay nam tas.... from this life experience, I hope you learn to love yourself and give yourself the best... you can’t start all over but you certainly can make life changes and never look back
I feel so bad for this lady ☹ all them kids are so disrespectful . Please dont give up on life and dont ever giveup trying. The right person will come in to your life and love you. Everyone in this world have there own stress and hurt pain but that dont mean to give up on life. Take care sister may you find Straight and courage. Im will be praying for you 🙏🙏🥰
Ua cas cov txiv neej no twb yog nws cov niag noob tsis zoo Los cas nws pheej cem cov neej tsa es yog nws cov yawm yij ho cem nws no ho xav li cas Na hmoob aw thov tseg lo lus no thiab lau! Luag twb tsis cem kj kwv kj tij thiab kj tej nkauj tej muam thiab kj niam kj txiv ne!!!
Peb poj niam txhua tus yog paub tias lub neej yav pem suav yuav tsis zoo ces yeej yuav tsi yug menyuam coob thiab los ua ib leej niam zoo. Vim tsi paub es yus thiaj li los ua neej tu tub tu kiv tsi nco qab txhawj tias tsam yus tus txiv tsi hlub yus.
Zaj neej neeg no ua rau peb cov mloog muaj ntshav siab. Tus poj niam no tos nws tau kev txom nyem los vim nws tus kheej, txhob liam rau lwm leej. Tus txiv twb nrauj lawm los tseem pheej niaj hnub "koj txiv, koj txiv. Yawg Thaub, yawg thaub." Tseem yuav zov me nyuam rau thiab. Tus txiv thiab cov me nyuam zoo li nws pab no muab tso pov tseg es mus nrhiav lub neej tshiab, ua cas ho tsis ua? Rooj teb no txoj cai twb pab yus ne? 911 yog dab tsi? "Restrain order" yog dab tsi? Ruam tsis tshaj no lawm os mog. OMG!
Kuv pab hlub tus Niam tsev no heev tiamsi Kuv ho tsis hlub thiab vim mloog mas zoo li nws ib sab ntaw nyob nrawv ib sab nyob hauv . Yog phem npaum li Koj tus txiv no yog Kuv nrauj lawm Kuv tsis keke cia nws lub tsejmuag lwj lo kuv lub tsev, es tseem tias zov niamyau thiab tus txiv cov me nyuam thiab os ntuj aws. tus me niamtsev tsis paub yuav hais li cas rau koj li lawm es yog li koj hais koj yog tus npam. thov vajtswv pab kom koj txojhauv kev kom koj tsib kev kajsiab kajplawv.
🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ I don't feel sorry for this lady. Who the hell still watches their ex husband's kids with another lady?! like really?! I would of done did call the cops on them kids after he tried and kill me by hurting my car. You haven't got enough yet lady.
Es ntshe tus viv ncaus no tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws ib qho li os. Yuav tsis muaj npaum li hais pob yog tseem nrog tau tus qub txiv txuas lus thiab zov tau tus qub txiv cov menyuam naj. Thiab cov menyuam yuav tsis phem tas tus li kaj. Tsis txaus ntseeg li os
Mas yov tsum yog txhob nqa paj ntaub thiab rab koob nrog yus los ces kuj caiv tau li koj hais laud.thaum peb tseem yau tsis tau xib sab nkauj nraug mas hnov tej hlob piav txog poj niam txiv neej mas yus twb xob plaub hau, thiab xu siab tiag2 cas tij laug thiab niam tij nkawv yov tham tej lus ntawd no lau. Ua rau yus twb tsis xav zaum ze nkawv li ces yus maj mam mus ua ntej mus zaum kom deb zog.thiab ho muaj tej tug mas ho qhia tias txhob yuav poj niam zoo dua thiaj tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab. Tab sis thaum yus ho loj tuaj lawm ces yus niag lau qaib pib txawj qua lawm ces hloov siab yuj lais rau tej mi paj taum mog tawg liab vog , Cesnplooj niag siab ntawd nws txawj2 hnov nws ntxhiab li lawm tiag. ces luag tej tsis mus los yus yov mus yus,tej kev yov txaus ntshai npaum cas los yus cia li pheej hmoo mus li lawm xwb.es yov ua cas nyob tau ib leeg li thaum yus tseem me na.
Tus niam tsev nrog koj nyuaj siab tab sis twb nyob America teb no lawm mloog mas cas zoo li koj tus txiv ua npaum li ntawv Los ua cas nej hais tsis tau li, ntshai koj tsis muaj cov neej TSA khov pob
Chao Moua that’s because of our traditional Hmong upbringing and beliefs placing favoritism on their sons and raising sons to have power and raising daughters to have no power.
Yog hais txog minyuam ces tsawm leej twg tus los yeej zoo ib yam li os tus niam hlaus es tsawm loj los yog tsawm me los yeej tawv ncauj ib yam nkaus li os tus niam hlaus
There's two sides to the story.... This is only her side. Seems like no one have any respect for this lady. She's probably one of them ladies that are just overly protective and super strict with her kids that they end up rebelled against her. I've known plenty of nasty old ladies that thinks they're always in the right, and they're never wrong.
If all her kids hate her and her life is miserable she is the problem. Listening to her story she's only telling her good side. She sounds like those mean nasty old ladies.
Seem like ur a mother that doesn't like anything phem but ur family does , just like their father that's y u guys r not on the same page . They hate u for it cause ur too strick on them . But what they don't understand is that ur trying to do the best for their future . Yus tsis nrog lawv ua neej , cia lawv ma paub lawv . Let them all learn the hard way , don't help them .
That is why, don't love them with all of your love, people!!! Lady, because you let them walk all over you. Don't take care of their children! Move away from there without letting them where you!! You have to love, respect and take care of yourself first before others will. You let them do that to you, lady. Don't care about them like they do it to you, if love yourself!!!
tsis muaj kev npam...tab sis vim koj yeej nyiam li ntawm ko xwb.... u have many choice but you choose the life you choosed... no wonder your kids don't love u, u always choose the bad words to use, like foom your kids.. u just said "your kids will be bad to you guys". I hate people who thinks this way, so i do agreed that you are the bad example.... so, take a look at yourself and make better decision. good luck.
Ab ya nyias hlub nyias tus kheej xwb os cia nyias mus muaj nyias kev nyuaj siab txhob nyuaj 2 siab rau lawd os hlub yus tus kheej zoo dua txhob hlub leej twg hlub yus tus kheej xwb os vim yus txoj sia muaj nqi dua tej me nyuam thiab niag txiv siab2 phem li no txhob k lawd koj thiaj muaj sia ntev nyob xwb os
Ua cov me nyuab tiam 21 no tsis txawj hlub leej niam li lawv tsis nco wan lawm tias leej niam mas muab siav Cush pauv siav tuag thiaj ntsub tau lawv tawm los ua neeg nyob lub ntiaj teb no xwb lawv txiv tsis hlub yus los tshuav lawv hlub yus xwb yus twb zoo siab lawm Tab sis yog vim fab tsi lawv ho ua siab phem rau yus thiab no
Wow how sad.what a waste of kids. So evil and heartless. Yog koj tseem tsis tau laus heev ces ua siab ntev mus nrhiav tus tshiab. Tsis txhob ntshai koj tus qub txiv. Muaj tub ceev xwm, muab nws kaw kiag kom txhob muaj neej ua.
Tus me niam tsev pab koj tus siab kawg yeej yog li koj hais. Tab si txhob tag kev cias siab mog yus yog tus neeg zoo neeg ntiaj teb tsi pom Los lub ntuj yeej pom koj txoj kev ua zoo thiab pom koj lub kua muag poob lawm mog tus niam tsev.
cas txoj kev nyuaj siab yuav Saul rau koj ib leeg niam tsev aws. thov kom vajtswv pom fwm koj rau2 yav laus os
Our children are a reflection of who we are as parents. We are to be parents to our children and not their best friend. If you as parents don't set boundaries and rules for your children when they are young then you can't expect your children to be disciplined as young adults. You have to discipline and coach them at a young age. Best of luck to you and your family.
Txhob tu siab rau leej twg. Tu siab rau yus kheej vim yus yog tus xaiv
Tiam no yuav tau ua kom zoo2 heev lwm tiam thiaj tau li💚💚💚💚💚💐💐💐🌷🌷🌷🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏
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Nrog kj nyuaj siab rau kj cov me nyuam thb kj tus txiv o niam lau aw
Sometimes sister, you just got to let everybody go and let everyone make their own mistake. You did your job already now take care of yourself.
Nrog koj tu siab os tus muam txiv neeg yeej muaj li koj hais tab si yeej muaj cov zoo thiab nawb .
niam ua laib tub ntxhais ua laib yog vim niam lub hom phiaj uas niam ua dlau los lawm, kuv pob niam los yeej zoo li koj thiab
Tiam neej no koj tshuav nqi tiag tiag li lauj yom pab koj tu siab kawg
Tus viv ncaus aw txhob zov lawv cov menyuam kiag lawv xa ntau tuaj ces hu police tuaj coj mus kiag xwb koj pab lawv npaum li ces lawv ntxub koj npaum li ntawv tag mas
May God be with you, lady. I hope that you will soon have the courage to forgive yourself and start a new life, in this lifetime. Everyone deserves a second chance. However, we must re-evaluate ourselves from time to time, because we (sometimes) might be the issue to the problem. I too have been guilty of many mistakes and poor choices which I cannot blame anyone but myself. However, we must forgive, embrace, and move forward each day. Good luck in the future.
Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj os me viv ncaus aw yog lwm tiam tseem muaj tiag ua zoo mus thov ntaub thov ntawv dua kom tau tus hlub2 koj os
Mommy es. Go on vacation. Take your money & spend it on yourself. Leave those ungrateful children & cheating husband to suffer. Buy a ticket to a far away island & just go!
Me nyuam zoo li leej txiv ntag mas
txhob tu siab xab maim no yus yuav hlub yus tus kheej xwb os..txhob tos peb tus txiv hlub peb..txhob tos peb cov menyuam hlub peb...lawv tsis yuav yus los yus khwv yus noj...thaum ua tsis tau noj lawm ces kawg mus nyob tsev laus xwb..cov menyuam no lawv tsuas hlub yus thaum lawv me me es lawv need yus ua m ov rau lawv noj thiab muab nyiaj lawv siv xwb..hlub koj tus kheej nawv viv ncaus...
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Niam laus Ca koj zaj no e ca yawv mob hlwb ua luaj li os tu siab heev li os
To this sister: Know the difference between kindness and weakness. Be kind but DON’T be weak! Stand up for yourself! Don’t let your loser ex treat you like that! And definitely stand up to your kids! Let them learn the hard way! And most important of all, be kind to yourself. Love yourself. Be good to yourself.
Kuv xav ib yam li koj zaj neej neeg no thiab ostxoj kev me nyuas tsi mloog lus mas nyuaj siab kawg ua rau yus mob kiag los yeej hais tsi tau me nyuam kuv tus txij nkawm hlub kuv heev tiam sis kuv muaj ib tug me nyuam ua rau kuv mob yuav tuag li thiab mas nyuaj siab kawg nkaus
Tus txiv tsev no ruam tshaj plaws. Mi nyuam tsis hmloo lus thiab tsis tsim txiaj twb yog vim leej txiv yog tus thawj laib laus. Yus yog leej txiv es yus twb tsis txawj coj tsis qhuab qhia mi nyuam es mi nyuam yuav ua cas hmloo lus. Pom xeeb yog txiv tsev tiam sis niaj hnub tham hluas nkauj thiab ua phem rau leej niam ces kawg mi nyuam yeej tsis ntshai thiab hwm leej niam. Qhov mi nyuam yuav respect niam thiab txiv mam yuav tsum yog tus niam thiab tus txiv yeej respect ib leeg ib tug ua ntej rau mi nyuam pom thiab kawm.
Tus me niam laus nrog koj tu siab heev li os vim koj mus yuav tau tus neeg phem los ua koj tus txiv lawm thov kom tom ntej no koj mus tau ib tug txiv hlub 2 koj nawb mog
You are in control of your life. Remember that
Cas pab hlub tus niam tsev no ua luaj li os. Txhob xav ntau2 tsam muaj mob os mog.
😔😔😔😔 mob siab tshaj li os
You need to move to a different state far away
Move to California
Lol 😂 your husband says you’re the “Liam” when he’s the one that’s cheating!! You’re too nice towards him... and you have no self love.
Love yourself and learn to stand up for yourself... let him go and if your kids are losers like him...learn to let them be too.
Let them suffer and learn their own mistakes and let karma teach them a few lessons.
I wish you the best sister. 🙏🙏
👍👍👍👍well said!
Pab koj tu siab kawg tus mi viv ncaus thov kom lwm tiam koj muaj hmoo tshaj tiam no os mog.
Run far away! Be smarter
Niam tsev aw koj txwv yuav kev lawm os mog yus me nyuam yus yeej hlub thiab mob siab heev li tab sis yog txwv heev li koj txwv ces me nyuam haj yam phem rau yus xwb 😕
I feel so bad for you lady. Don’t worry about your kids and your husband. Live for you😊 enjoy your life.
Ruam ua luaj nyob ib leeg kaj siab dua yog tau lub neej zoo li no
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Niam ntsuab teev xav 2 mloog koj hais, es lam mloog xwb tej zaj no tsis tshua txaug ntseeg na.
Tus me niam tais aw txhob tu siab os mog ntshe tiam thaum ub koj tshuav lawv nqi es koj tseem them tsis tau tas es tiam no koj thiaj raug lawv tsim os mog.
Niam lo lus foom tsim nyog lawm
Siab phem npaum ntawv ces kav tsij mus ua ntawv tis thaiv pem tub ceev xwm os. Neeg phem ces yeej tsis tso siab li nawb. Yus hlub yus tus kheej nawb mog. Luag txawm ua li rau yus lawm los, yus tsis txhob saib yus tus kheej tsis muaj nuj nqis es kav tsij tshem tawm tej neeg phem neeg tsis zoo tawm hauv yus lub neej mus. Txhob xav tias yus tws kev. Kev loj kev dav ntshe yus lub siab tawv tsis txaus xwb. Yeej muaj ntau kev tau ntau kev khiav dim. Yeej muaj ntau kev pab os. Yeej meem tawm mus nrhiav es tsis txhob ntshai os.
yim mloog mas yim npau taws rau niag tswv neej neeg no xwb os.
tug mes viv ncaus aw cas kuv tsis tau hnov dua ib zaj neej neeg yuav phem npaum li koj zaj no thiab laiv. mloog luag lwm zaj mas txiv tsis hlub yus los tej mes nyuam hlub2 leej niam li hos. Koj Cov mes nyuam no yog ib Pab mes nyuam ua phem kawg nkau li nawb. yeej nrog Koj tu siab kawg li thiab os. thaum hluag koj tsis mloog Koj niam lawv hais thiab ne. tej laus lawv qhia yus ces yeej yog qhov zoo ntau dua xwb ov.
Me viv ncaus ua cas peb los ua lub neej rau tiam no es peb txoj kev nyuaj siab yuav zoo tib yam koj li txawv tsis ntau peb li txawv tsis tau koj xwb tej me nyuam no ces nyim yus lub zog yug lawv xwb os
Niam ntsuab teev thov koj pab muab kuv cov lus no xa mus rau tus niam tsev zaj neej neeg no tias txiv neej siab zoo tseem muaj yog nws tsis tau yuav txiv no seb puas kam qhib siab txais tos tus txiv neej zoo li kuv
Kav tsij mu pib dua koj lub neej tshiab es thiaj paub tia lub neej tshiab ho zoo li ca mog
Wow! So sorry sis, may you find some love in this lifetime. 💕
Hai tau zoo heev li muam
koj niam aw yog muaj tseeb li koj hais koj tiag ces tso pluav lawv pov tseg tawm plawv mus yus nyob yus xwb mas
Lady, open your eyes. Your whole family fell apart. It is time to see the fault that you play in the destruction of your family. It is sad for the mothers that has the victim mentality. If all your kids turn out bad, it means you fail at parenting.
That's what I'm saying. She is the problem to her failing kids and husband. Moms are god to their kids. If ALL her kids hate her then that means she's at fault but she's only here to act like she's the victim.
kisses Xiong that might be the answer to why all her kids fail her. She never cares to take responsibility for her wrongs - yet expect her kids to magically LEARN to accept theirs wrongs to her. Some parent are too overly entitle, they forget a parent’s duty is to love and guide their children, not so much as to seek for the reward that may or may not come from parenting.
I see as all of you, too, at the moment that she starts to curses her children and grandchildren, that is when I know for sure she was and is still at fault, but I guest she will never learn to take responsibility for her own actions, and plays the "blame game".
Zoo li twb hnov koj hai lawm ne lo
Yov puas yog li koj hais thiab puas muaj tseeb lli koj zaj neej neeg no yog muaj li koj haus mas Koj yog ib tug poj niam mas nruam tahaj plaws li os viv ncaus aw. Nrog kon tus siab viv koj nruam heev.
Hmong women, remember that if you don’t respect yourself, then your husband n kids will not respect you.
Tus niam tsev awww....peb cov pojniam Hmoob lub neej ces tsis txawv deb koj li os. Yus tej menyuam es yus nim ntshai ntshai tsam txom nyem li yus los lawv yeej tsis ntshai thiab tsis pab lawv tus kheej kiag li. Koj niag txiv tsim koj ua rau koj lwj siab npaum ko ces kawg nyias nyob nyias es tso nws mus li ko. Hos hais txog koj pheej tseem pab lawv ces tsis yog koj npam os, yog koj siab zoo dhau lawm xwb. Tiam sis ua qhov zoo yeej zoo tshaj koj ua qhov phem os. Yog li pab li koj pab tau. Txoj kev zoo kev phem uas peb ua hauv ntiaj teb no ces nyias ua nyias yeej yuav ris nyias tiag tiag nawb. Thov Vajtswv foom hmoov zoo rau koj txoj kev zoo. Zam txim rau tej menyuam thiab koj txiv es ua siab loj....move on.
Lawv.aw thov kom.lwm tiam txhobntsib lawm mog
Me niam tsev es yog vim koj siab zoo dhau lawm xwb os. Kuv yog koj ces koj tu ntxhais cov thiab koj tu txiv cov me nyuam yog kuv ces kuv yeej tsis zov. Tsiv tsev tsis txhob qhia rau leej twg nyob kaj siab hlo. Yog vim koj siab muag thiab siab tsis tawv es koj thiaj nyob nrog kev nyuam siab ntshij plawv. Yu tsis pab yu tu kheej yeej tsis muaj neeg pab li. Yu tsis hlub yu tu kheej yeej tsis muaj neeg hlub yu os. Good luck.
Tus siab ua luaj niam laus es. Koj siab zoo dhau lawm os. Cas lawv ua phem ua luaj li no rau koj es koj tsis tsim kiag mus nyob lwm lub zoj nas los mus nyob txawv laj nas es txhob ntau xov qhia koj tes me nyuam no lawm mas kom koj tus qub txiv niab tsov tom liam ntawv ho nrhiav kom txhob tau koj lawm mas lod... Koj siab zoo tiag tiag li os, siab zoo los ruam dhau lawm ua tseem kam zog lawv tes niab kaas raum thiab laud. Pab nrog koj npau tawv los nrog koj tus siab thiab os nawb.
Muab xav mas tsis tsim nyog hlub li Tab sis muaj ib hnub lawv yuav tau ua niam ua txiv thiab mas viv ncaus txhob tu siab os mog cov tsis tau txoj kev no ces yog cov tsis muaj ib tug me nyuam hlo li xwb os mog
It’s okay nam tas.... from this life experience, I hope you learn to love yourself and give yourself the best... you can’t start all over but you certainly can make life changes and never look back
Wow your story mad me cry. So So sorry about what you have been through. Hopefully life goes well. So So true.
I feel so bad for this lady ☹ all them kids are so disrespectful . Please dont give up on life and dont ever giveup trying. The right person will come in to your life and love you. Everyone in this world have there own stress and hurt pain but that dont mean to give up on life. Take care sister may you find Straight and courage. Im will be praying for you 🙏🙏🥰
Pa hlub koj ua lua li o😭😭😭😭😭
Ua cas cov txiv neej no twb yog nws cov niag noob tsis zoo Los cas nws pheej cem cov neej tsa es yog nws cov yawm yij ho cem nws no ho xav li cas Na hmoob aw thov tseg lo lus no thiab lau! Luag twb tsis cem kj kwv kj tij thiab kj tej nkauj tej muam thiab kj niam kj txiv ne!!!
nrog koj tus saib os
Ntxim li tseem mag txim txom tsis tau txaus thiaj tseem nyob
Peb poj niam txhua tus yog paub tias lub neej yav pem suav yuav tsis zoo ces yeej yuav tsi yug menyuam coob thiab los ua ib leej niam zoo. Vim tsi paub es yus thiaj li los ua neej tu tub tu kiv tsi nco qab txhawj tias tsam yus tus txiv tsi hlub yus.
Zaj neej neeg no ua rau peb cov mloog muaj ntshav siab. Tus poj niam no tos nws tau kev txom nyem los vim nws tus kheej, txhob liam rau lwm leej. Tus txiv twb nrauj lawm los tseem pheej niaj hnub "koj txiv, koj txiv. Yawg Thaub, yawg thaub." Tseem yuav zov me nyuam rau thiab. Tus txiv thiab cov me nyuam zoo li nws pab no muab tso pov tseg es mus nrhiav lub neej tshiab, ua cas ho tsis ua? Rooj teb no txoj cai twb pab yus ne? 911 yog dab tsi? "Restrain order" yog dab tsi? Ruam tsis tshaj no lawm os mog. OMG!
Kuv pab hlub tus Niam tsev no heev tiamsi Kuv ho tsis hlub thiab vim mloog mas zoo li nws ib sab ntaw nyob nrawv ib sab nyob hauv . Yog phem npaum li Koj tus txiv no yog Kuv nrauj lawm Kuv tsis keke cia nws lub tsejmuag lwj lo kuv lub tsev, es tseem tias zov niamyau thiab tus txiv cov me nyuam thiab os ntuj aws. tus me niamtsev tsis paub yuav hais li cas rau koj li lawm es yog li koj hais koj yog tus npam. thov vajtswv pab kom koj txojhauv kev kom koj tsib kev kajsiab kajplawv.
Us zoo tauzoo, uaphem ces yuav tauphem ntag.
🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ I don't feel sorry for this lady. Who the hell still watches their ex husband's kids with another lady?! like really?! I would of done did call the cops on them kids after he tried and kill me by hurting my car. You haven't got enough yet lady.
Only in our younger generation going forward that most of us will not take this kind of shit. That was a different time. Live and learn.
Get restraining order and forget the kids
txhob tuag rau ib tug txiv neej.thaum nws tsis hlub koj pab koj,koj xav tias nws yog hmoob xwb twb tsis txheeb ze koj nws thiaj tsis hlub koj. menyuam peb yog niam yug peb yeej hlub tshaj.menyuam hais li peb hais tau xwb ua ntau tshaj qhov no ces peb yuav tuag sawv ntsug rau cov menyuam no.xab maim no menyuam lawv coj cai mes kas lawm xwb lawv tsis hwm yus tsis pab yus...tsuas yog yus yug tau lawv es yus hlub lawv xwb...hais li koj hais tau xwb yog n ws tsis mloog cia nws txom nyem nws mam qhia nws tus kheej xwb
Es ntshe tus viv ncaus no tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws ib qho li os. Yuav tsis muaj npaum li hais pob yog tseem nrog tau tus qub txiv txuas lus thiab zov tau tus qub txiv cov menyuam naj. Thiab cov menyuam yuav tsis phem tas tus li kaj. Tsis txaus ntseeg li os
Mas yov tsum yog txhob nqa paj ntaub thiab rab koob nrog yus los ces kuj caiv tau li koj hais laud.thaum peb tseem yau tsis tau xib sab nkauj nraug mas hnov tej hlob piav txog poj niam txiv neej mas yus twb xob plaub hau, thiab xu siab tiag2 cas tij laug thiab niam tij nkawv yov tham tej lus ntawd no lau. Ua rau yus twb tsis xav zaum ze nkawv li ces yus maj mam mus ua ntej mus zaum kom deb zog.thiab ho muaj tej tug mas ho qhia tias txhob yuav poj niam zoo dua thiaj tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab. Tab sis thaum yus ho loj tuaj lawm ces yus niag lau qaib pib txawj qua lawm ces hloov siab yuj lais rau tej mi paj taum mog tawg liab vog , Cesnplooj niag siab ntawd nws txawj2 hnov nws ntxhiab li lawm tiag. ces luag tej tsis mus los yus yov mus yus,tej kev yov txaus ntshai npaum cas los yus cia li pheej hmoo mus li lawm xwb.es yov ua cas nyob tau ib leeg li thaum yus tseem me na.
Pretty sad and depressing... Saddest part is that this is a fairly common theme these days.
Ua poj nrauj thiaj tau noj ntau lo ma cas koj hlwb tshawg ua luaj naw...
She is stupid for letting all this happen to her! She could move away!
Tus niam tsev nrog koj nyuaj siab tab sis twb nyob America teb no lawm mloog mas cas zoo li koj tus txiv ua npaum li ntawv Los ua cas nej hais tsis tau li, ntshai koj tsis muaj cov neej TSA khov pob
Yog kuv es heev li ko lawm ces kuv twb khiav mus lwm lub nroog tsi qhia nws paub lawm os.
Omg Vim koj tsis hlub koj tus kheej xwb...tsi yog tim Lawv. Tim koj tsis kho thiab lub siab tsi tawv txaus hlub koj.
Old one
Need training kid how life FUTURE...it hard..it about money. Love...it hurt..
Tos tej me nyuam liam los leej txiv yog neeg liam los mas tus me niam laus aw...
Koj hnov nws sab xwb yog tag nhro nws cov menyuam twb ntxub nws ces yeej vim nws tsis yog ib tug niam zoo. Yog menyuam phem ces yeej phem 1-2 tug xwb tabsis yog phem tag nhro ces ypg tim nws lawm. Txhob ntseeg zaj no.
Vim koj twb xub tawv ntawm koj niam koj txiv lawm.
Our Hmong women are the most not so smart people! No one doing this to you, you are doing this to yourself, you let it happen.
Chao Moua that’s because of our traditional Hmong upbringing and beliefs placing favoritism on their sons and raising sons to have power and raising daughters to have no power.
Yog hais txog minyuam ces tsawm leej twg tus los yeej zoo ib yam li os tus niam hlaus es tsawm loj los yog tsawm me los yeej tawv ncauj ib yam nkaus li os tus niam hlaus
There's two sides to the story.... This is only her side. Seems like no one have any respect for this lady. She's probably one of them ladies that are just overly protective and super strict with her kids that they end up rebelled against her. I've known plenty of nasty old ladies that thinks they're always in the right, and they're never wrong.
If all her kids hate her and her life is miserable she is the problem. Listening to her story she's only telling her good side. She sounds like those mean nasty old ladies.
Ca tu siab ua luaj li o
Ruam ruam ces kavtsij nyob ua neeg npam li ko xwb mas.
Seem like ur a mother that doesn't like anything phem but ur family does , just like their father that's y u guys r not on the same page . They hate u for it cause ur too strick on them . But what they don't understand is that ur trying to do the best for their future . Yus tsis nrog lawv ua neej , cia lawv ma paub lawv . Let them all learn the hard way , don't help them .
Hmloog Zaj no ce kuv twb mob hlwb tuag lawm os
Tus muam koj twb xub tsis mloog niam txiv tej lus qhuab qhia ua ntej lawm koj ntsib kev kub ntxhov 6 koj lub neej koj niam koj txiv lawv nyuaj siab tu siab npaum li cas 6 koj ces koj thiaj tau taug kiag lawv tus neev taw kev npam yeej muaj tiag raug lawm thiaj paub
Zoo heev li ua tsaug
That is why, don't love them with all of your love, people!!! Lady, because you let them walk all over you. Don't take care of their children! Move away from there without letting them where you!! You have to love, respect and take care of yourself first before others will. You let them do that to you, lady. Don't care about them like they do it to you, if love yourself!!!
Zaj mas yog kuv ntag os
tsis muaj kev npam...tab sis vim koj yeej nyiam li ntawm ko xwb.... u have many choice but you choose the life you choosed... no wonder your kids don't love u, u always choose the bad words to use, like foom your kids.. u just said "your kids will be bad to you guys". I hate people who thinks this way, so i do agreed that you are the bad example.... so, take a look at yourself and make better decision. good luck.
Ab ya nyias hlub nyias tus kheej xwb os cia nyias mus muaj nyias kev nyuaj siab txhob nyuaj 2 siab rau lawd os hlub yus tus kheej zoo dua txhob hlub leej twg hlub yus tus kheej xwb os vim yus txoj sia muaj nqi dua tej me nyuam thiab niag txiv siab2 phem li no txhob k lawd koj thiaj muaj sia ntev nyob xwb os
Ua cov me nyuab tiam 21 no tsis txawj hlub leej niam li lawv tsis nco wan lawm tias leej niam mas muab siav Cush pauv siav tuag thiaj ntsub tau lawv tawm los ua neeg nyob lub ntiaj teb no xwb lawv txiv tsis hlub yus los tshuav lawv hlub yus xwb yus twb zoo siab lawm Tab sis yog vim fab tsi lawv ho ua siab phem rau yus thiab no
Wow how sad.what a waste of kids. So evil and heartless. Yog koj tseem tsis tau laus heev ces ua siab ntev mus nrhiav tus tshiab. Tsis txhob ntshai koj tus qub txiv. Muaj tub ceev xwm, muab nws kaw kiag kom txhob muaj neej ua.
Yos os niam laus a
Tus me niam tsev pab koj tus siab kawg yeej yog li koj hais. Tab si txhob tag kev cias siab mog yus yog tus neeg zoo neeg ntiaj teb tsi pom Los lub ntuj yeej pom koj txoj kev ua zoo thiab pom koj lub kua muag poob lawm mog tus niam tsev.
She must spoiled her kids to the point where they don’t listen to her anymore. This is sad story after all.
Cas yuav ruam txog qhov tsis paub nte koj tus txiv ces tsis paub pab koj tiag os
Tsis tas zov nws tej me nyuam li os zov zov lawv loj lawv yeej tsis hlub koj li tiab os
Kuv mloog mas koj tsuas piav koj qhov zoo hos luag qhov phem xwb. Raws kuv xav mas txog txij koj tug txiv thiab cov menyuam tsis tuaj koj tog thiab tsis yuav koj lawm ces koj yeej phem koj thiab os..
Tus muam cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj, tsis txhob ntshaw2 qau, nws ua neeg phem rau yus ua ib siab, tsis khes txog koj cov menyuam, yus khes yus tus kheej xwb, muaj qab kav tsij noj, muaj tshiab kav tsij hnav,muaj nyiaj kav tsij noj, kav tsij nyiaj yuav tshiab hnav. Ua neej nyob, txhob nrhiav kev nyuaj siab rau yus tus kheej
Nej cov poj niam twb muaj2 xiv ne, yus kuj mus nyob yus ib lub tsev moj.
Koj mas ruam tiag tiag cas tseem ua zoo rau koj zoo rau thiab tsi thab li os