What understanding, hate is hate, period! As much as each to their own and their own personal decisions, empathy is important . Lack emotional intelligence .
Hatukatai lkn ameenda sana, hiyo time ni gani anasema ati mtoi atolewe na ndege nanyuki mpaka nai ati na arudi every day, tulisema zote hivo c Dunia itaisha tu juu watu hawatakuwa wakizaana?
He doesnt hate kids. He has a conscience. He wont sire a kid and watch him suffer, abandon or make him a bastard. He is a man of substance unlike so many men walking the streets with kids they've never even seen. If we had more like him we'd have less single parents less fatherless kids less households headed by women❤❤❤❤️
I understand him, there are some things one goes through when growing up or while raising kids I.e. from pregnancy, giving birth and raising them, you would not wish someone else would go through. I am a victim, nilipata moja nanikatosheka. Sasa nikiona a woman who is pregnant naskia thithi
Then why wouldn’t he be a that “Man“ and make a difference?!He drunk from that cup so he knows the taste. Step in and offer those kids that what he feels they need and what he lacked as a kid? He either needs help or he is seeking for attention💥
I understand this guy fully cz I went through the same things and I protect my family because what I went through I don't want my kids to go through the same.
Steve ako so real.... He is sayingthe truth,most people get their kids when they have not prepared na inabidi tu wawepende.... Lets stop being hypocrites ...
I understand Steve vizuri tena sana 💯💯 I don't understand why people don't gerrit 😂 anyway not everyone will understand you in this journey called life ... thanks Steve for being you , you're rare 👏🏿.
Great show Jeff as always❤..Mimi I support honesty..Steve aliongea what's in his heart..and people got shocked coz they know it's true..we have some husbands who cannot even take care of their own kids wanaona daily..forget wale Wa huko outside ... sio fees , sio chakula, sio nguo Na mtu anataka kuitwa "baba nani😅😢 ...Wacha watu waseme ukweli ...he spoke the things some men think & display everyday...so it's nothing new...hizo massage bado tunapangia kuenda..nothing has changed...I support!Lekshara kabisa in giving his honest opinion !!
But Steve anaongea ukweli ni sisi hatunwelewi,kama ningipatana na yeye kabla nilae singepata watoto 😢😢vile nimeteseka na wao, but na hope siku moja Mungu atanikubuka juu siwezi warundisha kwa tumbo😢😢😢😢, Steve I love you so much ❤❤
Jeremiah 1:5 God says, “Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you; before you were born, I sanctified you; and I ordained you a prophet to the nations.
As a psychologist I can tell u this guy doesn't hate kids. He went through trauma so the sight of a child triggers unhealed wounds. He is insisting on unkept kids ;because it reminds him of his tattered clothes when he was young.The list is endless but I can assure u he can't harm a child but he can find help for the child at a distance. That's my analysis.
I understand Steve ,I love kids but I hate when they cry...I have a daughter n I really want a second born but I'm not ready to hear him or her crying I can't withstand..I'm traumatized...whenever a baby cries I get triggered
He never wore tattered clothes he says he was a smart kid, BT he was hated by extended family and used to receive bad beatings from his mum.He must have felt unwanted
I agree with him when it comes to having kids when you are mentally and financially stable;Bringing kids in this world just for the sake of it/or the society expects you to have kids isn’t ok;plus get kids that you can afford to give a decent life
Oh I got your points Steve 😢.I'm single mum of 3 boys....but I have not yet given up of getting real man who will love my handsome boys..Nothing hard for my God. That what I believe 🙏
Then they should get out of the world . Unafueahia wanaje juu ulizaliwa. Si watu wakatae kuzaa tuone utafuata wanawake wagani. Devils excuses. You are not Gkd the giver of life. Dont thjnk it is everyone who is able to sire. Your statements actually tells you are a lier that you love children. You even compare a child na muguruki?. Riu ona niurarumana. So selfish. Mungu tu owe ungigucenjia iF you can protect a child, start helping the orphans.
Dear Steve, why are you explaining yourself? It is your decision not to want kids, let it remain as it is. I support you, I detest people who can't respect other people's decisions or points of view. Tusisumbuane. Why do we have street kids if every child "has their own bowl"? Steve , don't sire if you can't raise. Stick to that, I'm proud of you.
I'm listening to this guy for the first time ever; he's so mature. People should respect his very mature stand about children. Kids are a huge responsibility. Parenthood is the only career that one can't retire from. Once a parent, forever one!
I think after listening to Steve now for the second time I understand him .....but I hope that he'll fully heal.....out of all the hardship while growing up he can make a good dad
1 most of first borns can relate 2 i also don't have goosebumps when i see kids 3 most men don't actually love kids 4 the decision of finding money before kids sounds funny the wealth can varnish in blink of an eye 5 When you get loved and love genuinely somethings are Soo natural
Point of correction steve: A baby starts from conception, not embryo. Please stick to massage otherwise stages of child development hushikanishi. Hate is a strong word to use on children considering wewe ni mtoi wa your mum🥺
I was shocked to realize I had been dating a man who hates children with passion.He was extremely good until that time I sired a kid.He has never talked to me nor seen his own kid.ti kwega ground nî tofauti
I can't judge this guy 😢 Most single mothers and fathers their children goes a lot and they make children have trauma from childhood. 2nd how he's saying he don't love kids, ithink people they misunderstood him. If people say the truth maybe wale wana judge Steve wengi wao wametoa mimba bcoz hawakua wame plan kupata mimba
Am a mother and I also hate a child crying mimi ata siezi kaa na mtoi wa mtu i got mine when i was still a baby too she cry i cry Me for now i don't know how i can handle a child I support steve❤
Steve does not hate children, Steve hates the idea of children and children suffering. He suffered and he doesn't wish the same for his children. And on that i support him. Because we went through hell we don't have to take children through the same.
I dislike people who make kids without planning. Chokoraas in the town belongs to someone. If I'll make a kid, it's after I've figured out my life but I'll never bring another human to the world to suffer with me. People needs to understand the current world isn't the same as the one that our grandparents had where only food, clothing & shelter were a requirement. Life is tough.
He spoke about Room for Change.But you cannot Curse your future and Expect it to be blessed.I mean you cannot have your cake and eat it.I have seen many ladies who saif they would not want to get Married until reality hits them and they see the real deal.And they end up regretting their actions or words they did in Ignorance.
No Wanda most of us hua tunaelezea vile tulikua tunachapwa tukiwa watoto na kulala njaa kama nikitu normal juu wazazi hawakua prepared kutupata...look at them now with our kids hadi ukiwashoutia hua wanareact
If someone don't like kids , then they should never gat em!! Dude is right on the money! He don't have to like em kids jo!! Atleast Hana watoi anatesa!!
I hope when he does 123 he's always careful not to bring an innocent kid against his will....Steve still has pain...but again I can understand his point....am struggling with my four kids but I don't regret...my era thought if you have kids you are healthy in fertility 😅😅😅😅but lol
Fact is, you can’t offer what you don’t have. Likewise a mango seed can’t bear apples. You must not like kids to end up having them, we also like characters in movies etc not to end up marrying them 😅. God is Love! Love is a command not a request in the Bible just incase you are a true believer. These are decisions made dependent on his experiences. What he needs is help tho I wouldn’t be surprised to hear him say he doesn’t need any.
Are you ok with your sister having a baby Steve? Do you sometimes disapprove of the way she brings up her child? Key questions. Another question; might you be hating back at your biological father for abandoning you. Are you hating back at your mother for getting married and victimizing you? You need to heal.
This man is speaking sense ,I think our understandings ndo mbayaa
This is it,,,,,, Period
No sense, bro, he lacks emotional intelligence
What understanding, hate is hate, period! As much as each to their own and their own personal decisions, empathy is important . Lack emotional intelligence .
Help me understand.
Hatukatai lkn ameenda sana, hiyo time ni gani anasema ati mtoi atolewe na ndege nanyuki mpaka nai ati na arudi every day, tulisema zote hivo c Dunia itaisha tu juu watu hawatakuwa wakizaana?
He doesnt hate kids. He has a conscience. He wont sire a kid and watch him suffer, abandon or make him a bastard. He is a man of substance unlike so many men walking the streets with kids they've never even seen. If we had more like him we'd have less single parents less fatherless kids less households headed by women❤❤❤❤️
Pls whatever ideas you may raise or advise I think it's too late you could have come earlier before the so called mess
I understand him, there are some things one goes through when growing up or while raising kids I.e. from pregnancy, giving birth and raising them, you would not wish someone else would go through. I am a victim, nilipata moja nanikatosheka. Sasa nikiona a woman who is pregnant naskia thithi
Then why wouldn’t he be a that “Man“ and make a difference?!He drunk from that cup so he knows the taste. Step in and offer those kids that what he feels they need and what he lacked as a kid?
He either needs help or he is seeking for attention💥
He fears responsibility of children.
We all wish our family or our kids to be better than ourselves.... Steve is very right 👍
I understand this guy fully cz I went through the same things and I protect my family because what I went through I don't want my kids to go through the same.
Steve i support you 100% being real ndio fom
Steve ako so real....
He is sayingthe truth,most people get their kids when they have not prepared na inabidi tu wawepende....
Lets stop being hypocrites ...
I understand Steve vizuri tena sana 💯💯 I don't understand why people don't gerrit 😂 anyway not everyone will understand you in this journey called life ... thanks Steve for being you , you're rare 👏🏿.
Childhood trauma
Ûramuelewa tondû wîna tûindo twaku; ithuî athîni nî ithuî tûtanyitaga.😊
@@waridim9249nii uyu dingimuelewa, mudu uthuire ciana mwitigire todu no orage mwana wa mudu.
Great show Jeff as always❤..Mimi I support honesty..Steve aliongea what's in his heart..and people got shocked coz they know it's true..we have some husbands who cannot even take care of their own kids wanaona daily..forget wale Wa huko outside ... sio fees , sio chakula, sio nguo Na mtu anataka kuitwa "baba nani😅😢 ...Wacha watu waseme ukweli ...he spoke the things some men think & display everyday...so it's nothing new...hizo massage bado tunapangia kuenda..nothing has changed...I support!Lekshara kabisa in giving his honest opinion !!
Not everyone should have kids, He is speaking his mind and should be allowed to do so freely. His opinion should be respected.
But Steve anaongea ukweli ni sisi hatunwelewi,kama ningipatana na yeye kabla nilae singepata watoto 😢😢vile nimeteseka na wao, but na hope siku moja Mungu atanikubuka juu siwezi warundisha kwa tumbo😢😢😢😢, Steve I love you so much ❤❤
tuko kimoja sis sioni makosa yake kama wangu naweza wameza saa ii wangekua kwa tumbo
Jeremiah 1:5 God says, “Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you; before you were born, I sanctified you; and I ordained you a prophet to the nations.
As a psychologist I can tell u this guy doesn't hate kids. He went through trauma so the sight of a child triggers unhealed wounds. He is insisting on unkept kids ;because it reminds him of his tattered clothes when he was young.The list is endless but I can assure u he can't harm a child but he can find help for the child at a distance. That's my analysis.
Thanks for that analysis
I understand Steve ,I love kids but I hate when they cry...I have a daughter n I really want a second born but I'm not ready to hear him or her crying I can't withstand..I'm traumatized...whenever a baby cries I get triggered
He never wore tattered clothes he says he was a smart kid, BT he was hated by extended family and used to receive bad beatings from his mum.He must have felt unwanted
I agree with you, he has unresolved issues from his childhood
The word hate has defined who he really is.very proud He also a narcist
Steve you have explained well akili kichwani mwaoo❤❤❤❤
yes
Like father like son
I agree with him when it comes to having kids when you are mentally and financially stable;Bringing kids in this world just for the sake of it/or the society expects you to have kids isn’t ok;plus get kids that you can afford to give a decent life
When you think you are standing, check the ground. When you think you are stable, things can happen.
Waooh you are talking so much sense. Thx no Ngai ni Ngai maùndu ini mothe.
No, you can't hate and be compassionate to children at the same time. The guy sounds so painfully wounded.
Heal Steve, heal Baba.
Wewe heal kwanza😂😂
Labda ni shoga, with those studs
Siwez choka kusikiza steve ❤❤❤❤❤❤coz hakuna kuboeka he is a vibe
Noo Jeff.. Your kids should never suffer since u suffered... For this reason am in Qatar to give them the very best
❤️❤️❤️ Thecha njaaaa I love you keep it up. From south Sudan juba 🙏
This man is real pia mimi spendi watoto that is why nasemanga nkijipata na mimba ya pili natoa coz i have the ability to raise only one kid
Some amount of egocentrism but the day you get your child. ..you will love with passion
People pretend sana, I think people should learn how to mind their own business, better a real person than a hypocrite who laughs with you
Be strong kahii we love ❤️ you
Pure truth......demure for demure's✌🏿
Oh I got your points Steve 😢.I'm single mum of 3 boys....but I have not yet given up of getting real man who will love my handsome boys..Nothing hard for my God. That what I believe 🙏
Steve is real, and has explained his stand, get kids when you can be able to provide for them, ata Mimi mtoto mchafu is a no no no sishiki ng’o.
weeee sawa
I totally understand this guy. I prefer people to stay away from parentalhood than sire kids to despise.
Then they should get out of the world . Unafueahia wanaje juu ulizaliwa. Si watu wakatae kuzaa tuone utafuata wanawake wagani. Devils excuses. You are not Gkd the giver of life. Dont thjnk it is everyone who is able to sire. Your statements actually tells you are a lier that you love children. You even compare a child na muguruki?. Riu ona niurarumana. So selfish. Mungu tu owe ungigucenjia iF you can protect a child, start helping the orphans.
Onaugie standards, nouri bataatara andu. Acio maragutongia niaria maciaritwo na maraciarwo .
Dear Steve, why are you explaining yourself? It is your decision not to want kids, let it remain as it is. I support you, I detest people who can't respect other people's decisions or points of view. Tusisumbuane. Why do we have street kids if every child "has their own bowl"? Steve , don't sire if you can't raise. Stick to that, I'm proud of you.
He is just real
Ata mseme aje...steve to me is talking sense and i can never judge him at all at all.
Kuna vitu i relate but all in all God is still God
TY
God,,give your son wisdom,and may your endless love reach out and open his eyes.
I now fully understand Steve.. He don't hate kids... He hates to bring kids on earth to suffer...
Jeff i like your professionalism and Steve is a vibe thank you beautiful people,👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Steve is so real, far much better kuliko hawa deadbeats wamejaa huku, if you are not ready for kids, don't have them. Simple!
Sawa sawa
This guy is nice I can listen to him for hours
I'm listening to this guy for the first time ever; he's so mature. People should respect his very mature stand about children. Kids are a huge responsibility. Parenthood is the only career that one can't retire from. Once a parent, forever one!
True not fair bringing a kid in this world,whom you cannot takea.
Na akikuja bahati mbaya utamtupa
This guy is so real
Kudos Jeff! Solomonic wisdom with a very sober information 🙏🙏
sawa
I think after listening to Steve now for the second time I understand him .....but I hope that he'll fully heal.....out of all the hardship while growing up he can make a good dad
1 most of first borns can relate
2 i also don't have goosebumps when i see kids
3 most men don't actually love kids
4 the decision of finding money before kids sounds funny the wealth can varnish in blink of an eye
5 When you get loved and love genuinely somethings are Soo natural
It's not true, men love children more than anything..
They don't love kids yet they were/are kids😅
Good Steve I support you on bring children when ready so abstain....
sawa
Thank you Jeff for bringing this guy again, atleast ame fanya tumuelewe vizuri, he's so real and sincere ❤
Point of correction steve: A baby starts from conception, not embryo. Please stick to massage otherwise stages of child development hushikanishi. Hate is a strong word to use on children considering wewe ni mtoi wa your mum🥺
Honest, no hypocrisy true to himself..let’s learn to respect different views of lifestyle. Better than irresponsible parenting!!!
If you listen to this guy keenly,, you will understand him. He is being honest.
I need stone's for foundation but i support this Man 💯.let learn to respect other people's decisions 😊
I relate to Steve 💯 I am recovering from trauma. Cucu witu erirwo atherukie anyue thufu ,,,,Ngai no mwega!
May God heal your heart. Kuaria ma Ngai no we gutire ungi. May God be forever praise and may those who spoke these words be put to shame.
Steve huongea ukweri ata Mimi na m support 😊💯
hii interview imekua fupi aje😅 i agree with steve 100% i wish people would be real and stop being hypocritical hypocrites
I agree with Steve,watu ndio wanaunderstand differently.Haja gani kuleta watoto duniani wateseke.
Onani ndingienda kagio riu kia mùndù....I want to live my life now...period ☹️
We should reflect where we've been in order to perfect where we are going 🙏🙏
True kabisa. Gd discussion.
Steve is very honest,
I was shocked to realize I had been dating a man who hates children with passion.He was extremely good until that time I sired a kid.He has never talked to me nor seen his own kid.ti kwega ground nî tofauti
Mimi sioni haja yakusikiliza huyu jamaa 🙆 rekei theshe jaa 💃
@@Israelremnantno pride is there he is expressing himself
Mmm atazeeka tumuone@@PurityNyakio-l4v
Sawa theca out basi 😂😂😂
@@veronicawanjiru6258 theshire jaa tene tene💃
I don't support him.
It's good to be real.💯 Understanding you well njamba ya Wamûyû.
Gwîtîya equals to "respect oneself."
Big up man!
Big up
Steve is suffering from OCD.He has fear of contamination and dirt.This is a symptom of OCD.
I can't judge this guy 😢 Most single mothers and fathers their children goes a lot and they make children have trauma from childhood. 2nd how he's saying he don't love kids, ithink people they misunderstood him. If people say the truth maybe wale wana judge Steve wengi wao wametoa mimba bcoz hawakua wame plan kupata mimba
Poor boy😢😢😢😢.i now understand him.He doesn't hate kids but kid's suffering 😢😢
Am a mother and I also hate a child crying mimi ata siezi kaa na mtoi wa mtu i got mine when i was still a baby too she cry i cry
Me for now i don't know how i can handle a child
I support steve❤
I love Steve because he is real and he talks sense
I understand Steve and his stand . One needs to listen to him without this African and religious mentality and you will get him .
I love the courage....manzeee the standard iko safi
He is just real. So many people out there lie alot how they love children but they are deadbeats.
Sawa
Steve does not hate children, Steve hates the idea of children and children suffering. He suffered and he doesn't wish the same for his children.
And on that i support him. Because we went through hell we don't have to take children through the same.
Steve you are so real.
sawa sawa
I live in Europe and many people don't kids for they say they won't be able to to take for the kid fully
Steve is an honest man, he is wounded and in the process of healing, time is the best physician.
The context is clear. You are right. Who likes dirty kids, hungry kids, suffering kids? No one.
I support you.
Huyu kijana ajielewi mara anasema,"Ndingienda mwana wakwa akigerera maria ndagereire"meaning wakati ukifika atapata watoto
Steve i like your standards ... i understand childhood trauma
I support your words,,✔️✔️✔️❤
Let's call the truth truth,he's real
Plz Jeff, I wish do a platical thing to we get him Well.
I dislike people who make kids without planning.
Chokoraas in the town belongs to someone.
If I'll make a kid, it's after I've figured out my life but I'll never bring another human to the world to suffer with me.
People needs to understand the current world isn't the same as the one that our grandparents had where only food, clothing & shelter were a requirement.
Life is tough.
He spoke about Room for Change.But you cannot Curse your future and Expect it to be blessed.I mean you cannot have your cake and eat it.I have seen many ladies who saif they would not want to get Married until reality hits them and they see the real deal.And they end up regretting their actions or words they did in Ignorance.
Yes
Steve you have a point i stand with you
From what Steve Is saying I totally agree with him koz me too sipendi watoi wachafu na wako na makamasi,but napenda watoi
Wakaniaru is just perfect…I hope he has read UNPLUGGED…1,2,3….I just wish he reads them kama bado
I just like the way u talk direct n ur not changing ur story 🧐
I support him kuliko uzae alafu utese mtoi ama uanze kuachia watu wenu majukumu yako ...
Steve bringing a conversation that African society is not ready for..
I support you Steve💯 keep it up bro❤
Kabisa monicah una msikiza with a positive mind see it in a different way
Truth be told many dead beats fathers hate their kids and Steve was just bold enough to speak himself out
No Wanda most of us hua tunaelezea vile tulikua tunachapwa tukiwa watoto na kulala njaa kama nikitu normal juu wazazi hawakua prepared kutupata...look at them now with our kids hadi ukiwashoutia hua wanareact
Me and Steve same WhatsApp group 😊 I love this conversation
👍👍Mimi pia we are 3 now
🤣🤣🤣🤣
If someone don't like kids , then they should never gat em!! Dude is right on the money! He don't have to like em kids jo!! Atleast Hana watoi anatesa!!
I hope when he does 123 he's always careful not to bring an innocent kid against his will....Steve still has pain...but again I can understand his point....am struggling with my four kids but I don't regret...my era thought if you have kids you are healthy in fertility 😅😅😅😅but lol
this man is very right 💯i agree
Really support this guy he is honest
Stephen has a point, watu ndio hawamuelewi.
Then he has childhood trauma
Fact is, you can’t offer what you don’t have. Likewise a mango seed can’t bear apples. You must not like kids to end up having them, we also like characters in movies etc not to end up marrying them 😅.
God is Love! Love is a command not a request in the Bible just incase you are a true believer.
These are decisions made dependent on his experiences. What he needs is help tho I wouldn’t be surprised to hear him say he doesn’t need any.
Let people be
Anything conceivable is too old to die,so life start at conception
Are you ok with your sister having a baby Steve? Do you sometimes disapprove of the way she brings up her child? Key questions.
Another question; might you be hating back at your biological father for abandoning you. Are you hating back at your mother for getting married and victimizing you? You need to heal.
I support Steve 💯
He's not afraid to talk what most fear
I love this guy ❤.
Nice conversation.