I feel you but I'm a UK university applicant so it's either Oxbridge or Imperial for me (rejected from Cambridge but offer from Imperial so we get a massive dub). My parents were shocked to find out you couldn't apply to both Oxford and Cambridge.
There's a rumour that your favourite youtuber will pin u if u say his name 3 times:
Muttu Muttu Muttu
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"The acceptance rate for these schools is ridiculous"(Harvard , the hardest to get into has 3.2%)
Meanwhile IITs in India having 1% acceptance rate, and the only way to get into them is by giving the second hardest exam in the world, the JEE which is like a million times harder than SAT , that too with 10 million students giving the exam every year💀