This video is a projection of the unconscious, helping me fully assimilate and understanding this more concretely. This is quite literally the exact journey I have been on in discovering myself in therapy and doing inner child healing. Bloody hell this is it to a tee.
This was a great video! I am a 35-year-old male definitely had a devouring mother, dad was a therapist, but I think degree of enmeshment were very present. my question to you is is this something that can be worked through at any age? I feel pretty discouraged since it seems like such a deep part of who I am and I have been trying to wrestling with it for many many years without significant progress. Thanks and great video. Subscribed.
Most definitely!... I've helped many people, from their early 20s to their 50s, overcome this. The most important thing is focusing on individuating from the parents and creating your own life. If you'd like help my help DM or email me!
I disagree only about the part where you said that you aren't responsible in any way for your parents once you are adult, sure, you aren't responsible for what they do or believe, but once they grow very old and possibly sick what are u going to do, leave them in old people retirement prison? That's just cruel but that's what many are doing in the west. Same way they took care of you when u were small and unaware and sick, you owe them same thing when they get in similar state in their old age. It's a moral obligation, you can not do it and placate it to someone else but it's your mistake if u do so and ur moral hazard.
Sure, I agree with you. Some situations are more complex and in this case, we also have some responsibility. My main point was related to enmeshment, in the sense that we aren't responsible for making them happy, fulfilling their expectations, and giving them a sense of purpose.
@@therafaelkruger Sure thing, we are our own individuals with our own free will, but people tendentiously extend this to the point where they ostracize themselves completely from parents, especially if they make up some moral justification like they were toxic to me or they didn't pay for my school etc, that's just amoral.
Mindblowing😮👍
This video is a projection of the unconscious, helping me fully assimilate and understanding this more concretely. This is quite literally the exact journey I have been on in discovering myself in therapy and doing inner child healing. Bloody hell this is it to a tee.
lol, I'm glad it resonated so much!
And I hope it provided the necessary insight to deal with it :)
Damn you're good. Thank you. This video was hugely helpful for me.
I'm happy it was helpful :)
Awesome video, thank you for the clarity.
I'm glad you enjoyed it!
This was a great video! I am a 35-year-old male definitely had a devouring mother, dad was a therapist, but I think degree of enmeshment were very present. my question to you is is this something that can be worked through at any age? I feel pretty discouraged since it seems like such a deep part of who I am and I have been trying to wrestling with it for many many years without significant progress. Thanks and great video. Subscribed.
Most definitely!... I've helped many people, from their early 20s to their 50s, overcome this. The most important thing is focusing on individuating from the parents and creating your own life. If you'd like help my help DM or email me!
I disagree only about the part where you said that you aren't responsible in any way for your parents once you are adult, sure, you aren't responsible for what they do or believe, but once they grow very old and possibly sick what are u going to do, leave them in old people retirement prison? That's just cruel but that's what many are doing in the west.
Same way they took care of you when u were small and unaware and sick, you owe them same thing when they get in similar state in their old age.
It's a moral obligation, you can not do it and placate it to someone else but it's your mistake if u do so and ur moral hazard.
Sure, I agree with you. Some situations are more complex and in this case, we also have some responsibility. My main point was related to enmeshment, in the sense that we aren't responsible for making them happy, fulfilling their expectations, and giving them a sense of purpose.
@@therafaelkruger Sure thing, we are our own individuals with our own free will, but people tendentiously extend this to the point where they ostracize themselves completely from parents, especially if they make up some moral justification like they were toxic to me or they didn't pay for my school etc, that's just amoral.