To be honest sometimes that is what you do and theirs nothing wrong with that, if anything adults having big emotions too shows kids it’s okay to have big emotions and how you eventually regulate yourself is a great modeling opportunity to show your child what healthy emotional regulation looks like
Yeah that's valid 😂 had I been doing this parenting thing alone like some of these amazing people out here then I'd have just been crying constantly. Just no end to the tears.
These are the kids that grow up and expect you to take everything they throw at you. This seems nice now but when he's screaming at people in McDonald's because they messed up it won't be cute.
@@magorzatamargaret294 Oh please. She did a better job at handling this than most parents. He's not too small to feel the acknowledgement she gave him.
@@magorzatamargaret294 I've seen it with people around me when kids start acting out or crying real loud the parents getting annoyed and ignoring them. Some go as far as hitting them while asking them to stop crying. (Yes, it's sadly normal here) What she did was definitely a lot better than all the people I've seen dealing with kids.
@@WaterFountain get to know what is an OVERTON WINDOW....because nowadays it is used in many different areas of life to fool people...and what is more to change people thinking for the one that is enforced from the top down...and is not necessarily correct and good.
I made an experiment of doing so actually. So I speak to everyone who is upset with me or something else like she does with this child. Made MY life 100x easier! Would recommend, 10/10. So I guess we should all start at ourselves 😅
@jyotsnamuppala2888 when you hug the kid while throwing a tantrum you promote the tantrum. You need to stay calm and show him how to control big emotions, and when he manages to actually control them, when he laughs or stays calm and communicates then you hug him. You reward when the kid learns something new, cooperates and manages his emotions. The mom here does a great job, the kid will be more mature than other adults in his life.
Most of them wish to be but lack the resources and overall well-being to do so. The reality of most parents is sleep deprivation and constant financial stress. Hard to be this calm. Every day goes a bit differently.
That's an important point! I want to be like that all the time, but I just can't when I am stressed from all the things on my shoulders or sad because of marital problems. My tank is often empty and I just can't behave in the right way. I keep on giving my best and working on myself. I hope I can be always that calm and empathic, soon!
@@aliceignisu start to fill it up alittle bit by not blaming ur self.. u do the best u can & u appreciate urself for that & for the fact that u want improvement.. and if u could.. u would! That’s a good person right there.. Taking away the guilt, shame & harshness with self will give u plenty of fuel 💕✨💖
@@aliceignisI feel EXACTLY like that.... My husband doesn't give me any attention and so I've been depressed for past 4 months. We've had conversations on it but he hasn't changed much so I've stopped wanting or expecting..... My tank is very empty now.... 😔
@@zeekachu000honey, its time for the ultimatum. Tell him exactly what you need him to do, and how often, and that if he cant do that, then you cant stay with him. A relationship is supposed to support your mental health, not deteriorate it
@@zeekachu000You sound like a very loving and kind person and you deserve better than what you are being given it sounds like. I hope it's ok to say that.
So great that she turned his mood around before putting him to bed. So many parents don't know how to do this and put their kids to bed and let them cry themselves to sleep. This is so much healthier for both the child and the parent. Bravo and kudos.
Wystarczy przytulić,dziecko potrzebuje miłości matczynej. Nie umiałabym tak maleńkiego dziecka zostawić w łóżeczku z zadowalaczem w postaci smoczka. Oczywiście pięknie spokój mamy najważniejszy,gdybyśmy weszli w flustracje razem z dzueckiem to jestesmy na jego poziomie sami wtedy jesteśmy niedojrzałym dorosłym ale tutaj brawo spokoj i opanowanie ale ten dystans i tresura to nic dobrego one będą wszystko robić by zadowolić mamę i tak będą szły przez życie. Mało miłości w tym wszystkim.
So, it's really important for the parent to talk calmly to a toddler like this when they're crying like that, even if they're really loud before putting them to bed?
yes. 100%. THIS. it is SO important to not let your child cry themselves to sleep wondering what they ever did wrong. its important to comfort anf to understand, calm them down. it is a parents duty.
Acknowledging a child's emotions is so important. Lil guy needed help deciding to take a nap and his mom let him know that everything he needs, including her, were available. ❤
I'm glad I learned these methods in parenting at a young age. How to love and support your little, and adult children their whole life long. I'm 72, and now my children have grown children, and the love and peaceful discipline remain. I have amazing kids and 10 grandkids !!! Hopefully this compassionate way of discipline will continue for another 72 years.😅
First of all, that sweet boy is absolutely adorable. Secondly, momma you are killin it. You handled that so well. I admire your ability to stay so calm and soothing.
If only all kids were treated this way, they could have a lot more better relationship with their parents… And yes, the world would DEFINITELY be a better place
Currently 25 weeks pregnant with my first and it’s a boy!!! and watching these give me hope and this is teaching me a lot about validating my son’s feels and remaining calm. I needed to see this!
The way he looks up at his mama 😭❤️ I’ll be honest, I’ve never wanted kids, not because I don’t like them - I think they’re adorable - but just because I love just taking care of myself. Seeing this though, damn, that kind of love is so beautiful
Not every parent has the ability to turn a negative into a positive... but when dealing with innocent children it's so important as it's less about what the child does and more about whay you do in situations. Well done & keep up the positivity. 👍😊
yes they DO have the ability. but for so many its overlooked, diminished or even ignored Bcz abrasive, ugly and violent reactions are just far too common AND convenient
@@robyndismon394 I can understand why mohammed might say that, for example if the parent has had a bad day, it might not be easy for him or her to be calm and talk to their toddler in a calm manner like she's doing, but I think all parents need to make a big point in doing what you said and keeping calm so they can talk to their child calmly to make him feel better.
I suddenly want a nap so much that I started crying. That kid is such a sweetie - what a great way to help him with processing his emotions. Awesome job mom.
I love this ❤ it brought tears to my eyes because when i was a kid my brother and i used to get told off for showing emotions and we got punished. We would get told we cant have want we want/need and just have to suffer until we are allowed it because we were the child and they were the adults. Seeing parents like this teaching kids how to take care of their own needs and how to regulate is so beautiful 🥲 most people say this is what makes kids grow up to be snowflakes but actually it doesn't. we need more parents like this 🙏🏻💕
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I love how there she is for him. He can see and probably feel he has her full attention in a good way. Sometimes comfort is in tone and simple attention.
Mama understands that these big emotions come out due to physical needs. Being so calm and able to understand what her children need is such an amazing skill.❤
I don't have my own kids but I definitely love the way you raise your children. That's the way I would want to raise mine. If I ever have any thank you for the content because it does speak volumes
I never found the toddler years difficult. Routine, proper planning and understanding triggers made for a wonderful experience. The toddler years are actually my favorite.
I don't remember my daughter ever crying like this. 99% of my memories with her are smiles ,kisses, and fun. Our brains are amazing at selective amnesia!
I am sorry its off the topic but why people let babies overuse binkies, most toddlers i have seen on internet have an overbite why make their little life difficult . Maybe there is something that i dont know but we grew up without it and no one in ny family have any problems with bites or jaw formation
😂Watch out for "trigger words" though. I've known some little ones if you said "tired" or "take nap" would move from big emotions to hysteria because they recognized the trajectory towards going to bed and they hated to go to bed.🙄But Sweet Momma here, good job.🙂🙂
There are more acceptable emotions than just happy. What you are modeling says happy is the only emotion you can have. You can calm you tired baby with the appropriate emotional reaction, like empathy.
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This definitely confirmed I’m not ready to have kids cause I would’ve just cried with him 🤷🏽♀️
Nothing wrong with that
To be honest sometimes that is what you do and theirs nothing wrong with that, if anything adults having big emotions too shows kids it’s okay to have big emotions and how you eventually regulate yourself is a great modeling opportunity to show your child what healthy emotional regulation looks like
When they see you cry they stop and give you a hug. 😢 freaking angels
@@maryuhh89 those are the days you cherish because you know you’ve done something right
Yeah that's valid 😂 had I been doing this parenting thing alone like some of these amazing people out here then I'd have just been crying constantly. Just no end to the tears.
There would be no hate in this world if all parents treated their children this way. Thank you for giving me hope
These are the kids that grow up and expect you to take everything they throw at you. This seems nice now but when he's screaming at people in McDonald's because they messed up it won't be cute.
Facts. Their self esteem would be intact.
@@person6768
Then don't have them. Problem solved. 🤷
it involves people when they are SINGLE, working on their wounds before marrying. That's the way.
@@person6768 She is teaching him to recognize and communicate his needs to prevent big emotions from leading to negative actions.
That boy's smile represents the joy of being understood.....and loved.
This boy is too small to recognize this and HE needs first of all HUGS at that age. And his mother dont understand this basic rules...
@@magorzatamargaret294 Oh please. She did a better job at handling this than most parents. He's not too small to feel the acknowledgement she gave him.
@@magorzatamargaret294 I've seen it with people around me when kids start acting out or crying real loud the parents getting annoyed and ignoring them. Some go as far as hitting them while asking them to stop crying. (Yes, it's sadly normal here)
What she did was definitely a lot better than all the people I've seen dealing with kids.
@@WaterFountain get to know what is an OVERTON WINDOW....because nowadays it is used in many different areas of life to fool people...and what is more to change people thinking for the one that is enforced from the top down...and is not necessarily correct and good.
@@magorzatamargaret294That makes no sense. She handled it perfectly and with plenty of love. A whole lot of it.
Honestly, I wish us adults would speak to each other with this level of empathy and kindness.
Especially if we disagree politically
I made an experiment of doing so actually. So I speak to everyone who is upset with me or something else like she does with this child. Made MY life 100x easier! Would recommend, 10/10.
So I guess we should all start at ourselves 😅
*Hug*
Right💓
Here your blancket ❤😊
She is so soothing with her kids. She is very intuned with their feelings. It's nice to listen to her talk to them. ❤
🙏🏽❤️
They are either tired, hungry or want to Play,Bless the Family
First of all she should hug the child. The child wants mamas hug.
@@jyotsnamuppala2888She gave plenty of love and understanding.
@jyotsnamuppala2888 when you hug the kid while throwing a tantrum you promote the tantrum. You need to stay calm and show him how to control big emotions, and when he manages to actually control them, when he laughs or stays calm and communicates then you hug him. You reward when the kid learns something new, cooperates and manages his emotions. The mom here does a great job, the kid will be more mature than other adults in his life.
I think this whole world would change if all parents were calm like this.
🥹
I'm great with you
It'd be better if they just didn't have kids in the first place. 🤷
They never asked to be here.
💯💯
Most of them wish to be but lack the resources and overall well-being to do so. The reality of most parents is sleep deprivation and constant financial stress. Hard to be this calm. Every day goes a bit differently.
All I notice is how Mama's tank is full so she could help with such nurture. So inspiring.. thank you
That's an important point! I want to be like that all the time, but I just can't when I am stressed from all the things on my shoulders or sad because of marital problems. My tank is often empty and I just can't behave in the right way.
I keep on giving my best and working on myself. I hope I can be always that calm and empathic, soon!
@@aliceignisu start to fill it up alittle bit by not blaming ur self.. u do the best u can & u appreciate urself for that & for the fact that u want improvement.. and if u could.. u would!
That’s a good person right there..
Taking away the guilt, shame & harshness with self will give u plenty of fuel 💕✨💖
@@aliceignisI feel EXACTLY like that.... My husband doesn't give me any attention and so I've been depressed for past 4 months. We've had conversations on it but he hasn't changed much so I've stopped wanting or expecting.....
My tank is very empty now.... 😔
@@zeekachu000honey, its time for the ultimatum. Tell him exactly what you need him to do, and how often, and that if he cant do that, then you cant stay with him. A relationship is supposed to support your mental health, not deteriorate it
@@zeekachu000You sound like a very loving and kind person and you deserve better than what you are being given it sounds like. I hope it's ok to say that.
So great that she turned his mood around before putting him to bed. So many parents don't know how to do this and put their kids to bed and let them cry themselves to sleep. This is so much healthier for both the child and the parent. Bravo and kudos.
Wystarczy przytulić,dziecko potrzebuje miłości matczynej.
Nie umiałabym tak maleńkiego dziecka zostawić w łóżeczku z zadowalaczem w postaci smoczka.
Oczywiście pięknie spokój mamy najważniejszy,gdybyśmy weszli w flustracje razem z dzueckiem to jestesmy na jego poziomie sami wtedy jesteśmy niedojrzałym dorosłym ale tutaj brawo spokoj i opanowanie ale ten dystans i tresura to nic dobrego one będą wszystko robić by zadowolić mamę i tak będą szły przez życie.
Mało miłości w tym wszystkim.
what distance, she is literally holding him the whole time
So, it's really important for the parent to talk calmly to a toddler like this when they're crying like that, even if they're really loud before putting them to bed?
yes. 100%. THIS. it is SO important to not let your child cry themselves to sleep wondering what they ever did wrong. its important to comfort anf to understand, calm them down. it is a parents duty.
@@brynne77correct!!!!
Acknowledging a child's emotions is so important. Lil guy needed help deciding to take a nap and his mom let him know that everything he needs, including her, were available. ❤
Ok, but what if his binky wasn't available? What if it was lost?
I can confirm that this feeling never goes away when I’m tired
Where's our hugs and blanket... 😭
@@millie_n11
Aww, man... ain't *that* the truth...! 🤔😢
Every child should experience this kind of love and tenderness.❤
Lol! On occasion...
Times have changed, people divorced,& relationships failed
This interaction warms my heart! This is how healthy tiny humans should be supported. Well done mom!
Amen!!!‼️
I'm glad I learned these methods in parenting at a young age.
How to love and support your little, and adult children their whole life long.
I'm 72, and now my children have grown children, and the love and peaceful discipline remain. I have amazing kids and 10 grandkids !!!
Hopefully this compassionate way of discipline will continue for another 72 years.😅
First of all, that sweet boy is absolutely adorable. Secondly, momma you are killin it. You handled that so well. I admire your ability to stay so calm and soothing.
Would you expect her to lose her cool while being filmed for TikTok? It would spark outrage.
@MrCJ-qz9dl She isn't the type to lose her cool. She is consistently sweet and her baby feels safe with her
@@randomvintagefilm273 That's good to know.
@@MrCJ-qz9dlIt's pretty obvious she's not the type to lose her cool even off of tiktok or TH-cam.
@@shaylacrossland1475 Nothing is obvious if you don't know a person. Some people are smart enough to stage *anything* .
If only all kids were treated this way, they could have a lot more better relationship with their parents…
And yes, the world would DEFINITELY be a better place
Ramen to that, sadly that isn't always the case with most people
She is full of Grace with take care of her kids. They are so lucky.
Mom handled this perfectly.
I'd just take him to bed.
I loved his laugh and comfort he felt, because mummy realised wht he is going through❤❤
Every mother should be like this 😊.
Not every couple deserve kids but
All kids deserve good parents .
These young parents will give a positive future generations to this world because they know handling traumas is one of the most difficult thing ❤
Fingers crossed
Such kind and gentle mommy soothes her baby so fast! 💕 💕💕💕💕💕
Currently 25 weeks pregnant with my first and it’s a boy!!! and watching these give me hope and this is teaching me a lot about validating my son’s feels and remaining calm. I needed to see this!
Congratulations! :)
Im so happy about people like you. Slowly but steady the world will change into better
Im in week 38 with my first, its also a boy and I love to watch those Videos, its helping me to be a better mom
Congratulations! 🎉🎉🎉
Agreed and so did I :)
The way he looks up at his mama 😭❤️ I’ll be honest, I’ve never wanted kids, not because I don’t like them - I think they’re adorable - but just because I love just taking care of myself. Seeing this though, damn, that kind of love is so beautiful
Not every parent has the ability to turn a negative into a positive... but when dealing with innocent children it's so important as it's less about what the child does and more about whay you do in situations. Well done & keep up the positivity. 👍😊
yes they DO have the ability. but for so many its overlooked, diminished or even ignored Bcz abrasive, ugly and violent reactions are just far too common AND convenient
@@robyndismon394 I can understand why mohammed might say that, for example if the parent has had a bad day, it might not be easy for him or her to be calm and talk to their toddler in a calm manner like she's doing, but I think all parents need to make a big point in doing what you said and keeping calm so they can talk to their child calmly to make him feel better.
Even I felt soothed😂😂
Your method is great ; All parents should behave like you 🥺
you will know how hard it is to be calm in that situation when you become a parent.
She did it so great here
They get overwhelmed by the day just like we still do! And even as adults this is our heaven. Our bed and comfort.
Right!!😊😊😮
And also someone to give us a nice, big hug.
I love how you parent River so calmly. I wish all parents handled their children in this loving manner.❤❤
Remember this is TH-cam, you are only seeing the good outcomes only the best.
You are right. We do this with our toddler often. Works.
I suddenly want a nap so much that I started crying. That kid is such a sweetie - what a great way to help him with processing his emotions. Awesome job mom.
Nothing like a mothers love 💖 mothers heal , grow and nurture 🫶🏾💫
Well ... Some do .... 😮
I love this ❤ it brought tears to my eyes because when i was a kid my brother and i used to get told off for showing emotions and we got punished. We would get told we cant have want we want/need and just have to suffer until we are allowed it because we were the child and they were the adults. Seeing parents like this teaching kids how to take care of their own needs and how to regulate is so beautiful 🥲 most people say this is what makes kids grow up to be snowflakes but actually it doesn't. we need more parents like this 🙏🏻💕
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I love how there she is for him. He can see and probably feel he has her full attention in a good way. Sometimes comfort is in tone and simple attention.
So sweet when he smiles as you lay him down precious
I like this mom. ❤️
That look in his eyes as you lay him down 🥰. You mommy are the best thing in the word for him ❤️❤️🙏🏼
Lucky baby to have a patience and well prepared with strong positive reactions. Salute to mommy🫡. Tq for the tips❤.
Refreshing to see a video of a mother comforting her crying baby. Most just laugh because for some reason they think it's hilarious.Good job Mom
That was adorable. May God always protect him and the entire family. It made me cry.❤🙋♀️
Loving Mother with alot of patience and so much love. God Bless her
What a great mama It knows how to handle your child when he's really tired and cranky love her
Lovely caring momma and sweet cute boy. He understands telepathy of mommas not crying😮 by sweet communication. 😮
Good mom with listening skills!!! ❤
These are going to be the sweetest, most well-adjusted people. You're doing an amazing job, mom.
He’s so adorable and a good boy, tired boy !
The Big nod from him just got me!
Mom, very well done. All is well. ❤
Talking to him makes him laugh! 😊
Thank you for raising beautiful well mannered children ❤
His beautiful smile and giggles at the end when you are putting him to slepp are so adorable 🥺🤏🏻🥰
Amazing, as soon as she started talking happily to him, he calmed right down and started smiling and giggling!
You are a good mom I thought the little boy was so happy and cute to take a nap. You made the nap sound so cozy ❤️☺️❤️☺️
Yessssss validation is super important forr kids. It makes them feel safe and heard
She is giving positive emotions, that good
Mama understands that these big emotions come out due to physical needs. Being so calm and able to understand what her children need is such an amazing skill.❤
What a great mommy you are! ❤
I don't have my own kids but I definitely love the way you raise your children. That's the way I would want to raise mine. If I ever have any thank you for the content because it does speak volumes
Well done mom. The "eh?!" in the middle of your baby's crying was so sweet.❤❤❤❤
I love how you love him and are so patient.
This world is teeming with tiny angels, may Allah grant this baby a healthy and prosperous life, Ameen.
I love how she given to her baby what she promised to him 🙏🏼is a lesson for the baby too.❣️
These are future people who won't need therapy. Thank you Mom ❤
Oooh this baby will grow up to have such a healthy, secure attachment! 🤩 lucky him 🥹
The way he looks at her as she laid him down. Pure trust and the feeling of being loved 💛 Melted my heart 💛💫
Everyone needs this female angel as a mom❤
Such a loving Mom. God bless.
I love her calmness. The baby feels it!😊
guys she’s such a good mom ❤
She is so patient, great job Moms 👍👍
I wish that every baby would have such patient a loving mom. But many do not unfortunately.
He is so adorable and cute 🥰
Raise kids and put them on social media at all times! Great parenting 👌
That's a happy child growing up.We need more of them amd their loving parents
Beautiful to watch so much love and patience ❤
I never found the toddler years difficult. Routine, proper planning and understanding triggers made for a wonderful experience. The toddler years are actually my favorite.
I totally agree. Once you get in that routine, life is easy
To be a mother is a lifelong responsibility. It never ends ❤
oh that sweet baby… i’m so glad his mommy is patient and wonderful.
Not sure how I got this video in my feed but I’m so glad I did. I have a 1 and a 3 year old….and I need this! Thank you!!!❤
What a great example this mother is. Absolutely wonderful. God bless the family.
I don't remember my daughter ever crying like this. 99% of my memories with her are smiles ,kisses, and fun. Our brains are amazing at selective amnesia!
I wish when this kid grows up and looks at this clip he will know nobody loves him like his mom. Thanks Mom!
Hes a baby not a toddler!!!! Love your babies good grief
I am sorry its off the topic but why people let babies overuse binkies, most toddlers i have seen on internet have an overbite why make their little life difficult . Maybe there is something that i dont know but we grew up without it and no one in ny family have any problems with bites or jaw formation
Wow, it was a moment that needed to pass and she let him go through it!
Master level. Those kids gonna do really well in life! Great Mum! ❤
You are amazing
I needed you 32 years ago 😭😭😭😭😭
I needed her 62 years ago. What an amazing mother. Will use this video to mother my own inner child. Thank you.
This is a career mom. True nurturing. Real parenting. ❤️
As a full blown adult this mom calmed the shit outta me 🙂🥺✨🤌🏻
Please allow the feelings.
😂Watch out for "trigger words" though.
I've known some little ones if you said "tired" or "take nap" would move from big emotions to hysteria because they recognized the trajectory towards going to bed and they hated to go to bed.🙄But Sweet Momma here, good job.🙂🙂
The joy of being understood. Love it🥰
That look up from bed was the purest love I have ever seen from a pair of eyes! Wow!
There are more acceptable emotions than just happy. What you are modeling says happy is the only emotion you can have. You can calm you tired baby with the appropriate emotional reaction, like empathy.
Excellent mom....love everywhere !❤❤❤❤
Not all moms are this understanding, sweet and gentle ! 😢
Why no hug or physical affection. Mine used to calm down with a hug.
She did hug and kiss him
Mummy did a cuddle and a kiss after making sure he knew he was being heard and his needs understood.
She did, but even if she didn’t, he looks perfectly happy and loved.
@@emilynunyabusiness4568A hug definitely helps.
Did we watch the same video? she clearly gave physical affection plus we didn't see what happened between the kitchen and the bedroom.
This video is amazing
Kudos to this mom ! She is doing it all right . ❤
Aww they looked so happy going to bed! Great emotional validation and excited idea.