Thank You for posting this. Not only did I listen once through... I listened a second time through as there is so much information to absorb. So much struck a cord within me, that yes, I will listen to this a few times more. We are only the best versions of ourself when we are completely *honest* with ourselves... warts/flaws and all. Thank You for what you do, which is trying to keep many of us on the sane side, with the tools we need to self correct our course. Remember to be kind to yourself, your pets and each other. ❤
its uncanny how you often post something that helps me exactly when i need it XD thank you for all of your hard work and for speaking up and about these kind of things
Thank you, Anna. I just finished the first part. That's my situation right now (I'm anxious, he's dismissive). Based on what I learned, when it comes to dismissive person, giving ultimatum is a big no-no. I'd love to hear more of your stories about dismissive avoidant. Because the anxious person, like me, sometimes we don't realize how fast we are to be attached to someone. It's like forcing a flower to bloom before its time.
Thank you for watching. If you'd like to share your story and ask Anna a question, feel free to write an "Ask the Fairy" letter. You can do it from here: bit.ly/CCF_Letters Nika@TeamFairy
I am so glad I am hearing this in my 20s and I am so positive that this will never be my entire life’s identity. I can’t wait to heal ❤and have better relationships
I understand Ashley 100%. I'm 29 yrs old man. Yes I'm handsome and open minded and different. But i had big CPTSD and i'm trapped and always fall in with wrong woman sadly. I'm so alone and work in different city than my hometown so i don't see family or friends. I'm alone with CPTSD, social anxiety and anxious attachment style. But i started now to understand anxious attachment and i'm trying to learn how to move on and be happy and love myself and find love of my life somewhere along the road.
Explaining emotional flash backs was incredibly helpful Anna. Reflecting back, this explains a lot. Thank-you for all the effort you put into helping those of us with childhood trauma.
Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for 11 year old Ella in massive car accident did craniotomy surgery draining brain swelling 4 fracures 4 titanium pins from generations 2434 brother Pete Garcia daughter she desperately needs your prayers please pray for her and family God bless you all
Prayers also sent as a Traumatic Brain Injury -( TBI ) survivor.... Praying this young lady can get through the long and hard road to recovery ahead...
I resonate with Katie so much. But my guy says he is depressed and I make every thing about me and our relationship. So, I am always stressed because I dont want to pressure him and suppress my emotions.
I was a very sheltered kid who at 20 didn't even know what emotional availability was lol All i knew is that i really loved my ex and was there through thick and thin and.... i was not given the same energy Just a lot of love bombing and a lot of unsafe sex Then they were emotionally unavailable for those things too 7 years 😅 oops
Where do we ask to address a question? I’m wondering about getting over Limerence with my child’s father. Always obsessing over why I wasn’t good enough and obsessing about the women he is entertaining.
You can write to Anna here: bit.ly/CCF_Letters Unfortunately, Anna isn't able to respond to all the letters she receives on her channel, but we would love to hear from you :) -Calista@TeamFairy
Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for all those affected families children animals massive wildfires in new Mexico Arizona Colorado Florida California they desperately need your prayers please pray for them God bless you all
You know what people need even more than prayers?... ACTION. People need donations. Shelter, food, money, even blood donations for those injured ... basic necessities do more for real people and animals than thoughts and prayers.
Hmmm….not sure this is exactly CPTSD. This woman’s letter, heartfelt, seems like it’s more than CPTSD issues. Your opening however IS! Always learn something.
Jesus Christ died for our Sins according to the scriptures and that he was Buried and he rose Again the third day praise God praying for everyone everyday God bless you all....
Oh great... now we have the cult moving in. Please go away, peddling religion is not ok and it's all BS as far as I'm concerned. I'm not tolerant of these lies... ffs !!! I thought this channel was a safe space... !? 😡🤮
Whats with the religious messages bombarding your channel? If you believe in jesus so much go to church to solve your problems. Use your prayers. Don't listen to expertts on TH-cam.
Thank You for posting this. Not only did I listen once through... I listened a second time through as there is so much information to absorb.
So much struck a cord within me, that yes, I will listen to this a few times more.
We are only the best versions of ourself when we are completely *honest* with ourselves... warts/flaws and all.
Thank You for what you do, which is trying to keep many of us on the sane side, with the tools we need to self correct our course.
Remember to be kind to yourself, your pets and each other. ❤
I'm so glad the video was helpful! Thank you for sharing this :) -Calista@TeamFairy
I am happy enough just finding people that share my hobbies of model car building and collecting vintage Hot Wheels and Matchbox cars....
I just purchased both of Pete Walker’s books.
its uncanny how you often post something that helps me exactly when i need it XD thank you for all of your hard work and for speaking up and about these kind of things
she is anointed and graced to do this !
Glad Anna's videos help you!
Nika@TeamFairy
Thank you, Anna. I just finished the first part. That's my situation right now (I'm anxious, he's dismissive). Based on what I learned, when it comes to dismissive person, giving ultimatum is a big no-no.
I'd love to hear more of your stories about dismissive avoidant. Because the anxious person, like me, sometimes we don't realize how fast we are to be attached to someone. It's like forcing a flower to bloom before its time.
Thank you for watching. If you'd like to share your story and ask Anna a question, feel free to write an "Ask the Fairy" letter. You can do it from here: bit.ly/CCF_Letters
Nika@TeamFairy
I am so glad I am hearing this in my 20s and I am so positive that this will never be my entire life’s identity. I can’t wait to heal ❤and have better relationships
We're all rooting for you! -Calista@TeamFairy
I just avoid relationships.. problem solved!!
YEP
Best advice
Thank you Mrs.Runkle ❤️
I understand Ashley 100%.
I'm 29 yrs old man. Yes I'm handsome and open minded and different. But i had big CPTSD and i'm trapped and always fall in with wrong woman sadly.
I'm so alone and work in different city than my hometown so i don't see family or friends. I'm alone with CPTSD, social anxiety and anxious attachment style. But i started now to understand anxious attachment and i'm trying to learn how to move on and be happy and love myself and find love of my life somewhere along the road.
You are in the right place. Good luck in your healing journey!
Nika@TeamFairy
Explaining emotional flash backs was incredibly helpful Anna. Reflecting back, this explains a lot. Thank-you for all the effort you put into helping those of us with childhood trauma.
Thank you for watching and taking the time to comment! We're glad you are here!
Nika@TeamFairy
Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for 11 year old Ella in massive car accident did craniotomy surgery draining brain swelling 4 fracures 4 titanium pins from generations 2434 brother Pete Garcia daughter she desperately needs your prayers please pray for her and family God bless you all
Praying
In my prayers
Prayers sent
Prayers also sent as a Traumatic Brain Injury -( TBI ) survivor.... Praying this young lady can get through the long and hard road to recovery ahead...
"Steve Guti" is a for profit bot, not a human. Good prayer requests but don't comment or like
Thanks Anna
I resonate with Katie so much. But my guy says he is depressed and I make every thing about me and our relationship. So, I am always stressed because I dont want to pressure him and suppress my emotions.
Sounds shit
Thanks Ana
Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment! -Calista@TeamFairy
I was a very sheltered kid who at 20 didn't even know what emotional availability was lol
All i knew is that i really loved my ex and was there through thick and thin and.... i was not given the same energy
Just a lot of love bombing and a lot of unsafe sex
Then they were emotionally unavailable for those things too
7 years 😅 oops
Where do we ask to address a question? I’m wondering about getting over Limerence with my child’s father. Always obsessing over why I wasn’t good enough and obsessing about the women he is entertaining.
You can write to Anna here: bit.ly/CCF_Letters
Unfortunately, Anna isn't able to respond to all the letters she receives on her channel, but we would love to hear from you :) -Calista@TeamFairy
34:00 emotional flashbacks
In hindsight; the shorter time frame is always the worst.
Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for all those affected families children animals massive wildfires in new Mexico Arizona Colorado Florida California they desperately need your prayers please pray for them God bless you all
You know what people need even more than prayers?... ACTION. People need donations. Shelter, food, money, even blood donations for those injured ... basic necessities do more for real people and animals than thoughts and prayers.
Hmmm….not sure this is exactly CPTSD. This woman’s letter, heartfelt, seems like it’s more than CPTSD issues. Your opening however IS! Always learn something.
Jesus Christ died for our Sins according to the scriptures and that he was Buried and he rose Again the third day praise God praying for everyone everyday God bless you all....
This is not a channel about that. Please respect the topic of this channel and do not bother others with your religious believes.
@elcuencodelafelicidad Agreed, I've yet to see prayer solve anything save a person feeling better about themselves for doing the bare minimum.
Oh great... now we have the cult moving in. Please go away, peddling religion is not ok and it's all BS as far as I'm concerned. I'm not tolerant of these lies... ffs !!! I thought this channel was a safe space... !? 😡🤮
Hi I'm struggling with life. I was hoping to talk about it before I give up. I know this chanel can help. Please help 🙏
Some of the most toxic people can be the most religious, so I agree comments like this don’t belong.
Whats with the religious messages bombarding your channel? If you believe in jesus so much go to church to solve your problems. Use your prayers. Don't listen to expertts on TH-cam.
Sinful nature is a violation of the creation ordinance. Not to be condemned but not ok .