@@Infantrymarine0311 Coach Greg only gives Abs the edge when its about one bodypart only. I think he will agree that shoulders with flat stomach are much better than sixpack with narrow shoulders.
@@Infantrymarine0311 yes. Shoulders really contribute to width and roundness of your physique. It takes character to build up delts; it's a manly muscle if you will. Abs are mostly just a matter of getting lean enough. Even Greg doesn't train them directly.
@jesse I definitely agree that you should train shoulders waaaay more than abs, considering many people don’t have to train abs, just like you said. I meant if a guy shows up to a date, would the girl rather him have abs or him doing the dirty bulk with big shoulders. 🤣
lol yeah the first date I ever went on was to the movies when I was in middle school. Worst place ever. The only time we talked was during the 5 minutes of getting popcorn and during the whole movie I was super nervous in my head thinking about what I was gonna talk about when the movie was over. We didn’t talk much lol. The whole experience was just awkward. One of those memories you look back and laugh on though.
@@jackthomson4043 Depends on the girl. There are a thousand things women look for in a guy and a thousand women will give you a thousand different answers to what they look for and you guys have zeroed in on this one thing like whatever you say, man.
When I was a kid my go to place for a ‘first date’ was walking around this small national park area that had plenty of beautiful trails. If I liked the girl enough there was a cabin that served drinks/coffee where we could go for a little while longer and it was always fairly quiet and the walk gave me more conversational flow at the beginning so in the cabin it was easier to connect more intimately face to face. This was also handy as I wasn’t old enough to drive (uk resident)
I want to take this girl out to do hiking bc I know she likes it but I'm worried girls won't want to do a hiking first date with a guy bc he could be a creepy mofo who wants to get her alone
@@guybien4621 if you know she likes hiking there must be some trails she’s already explored. Tell her you would love to go on one of her favourites and hopefully she gets the hint and offers to take you, that way you’ve circumvented the possible creepy feeling as she will be somewhere she knows well and it almost comes across as her idea. Failing that perhaps offer to go to a public park area first, somewhere you know dog walkers will be, if there’s people around it will probably comfort her to a degree, then if all is going great in the middle of the date tell her you want to go hiking with her as public parks just don’t quite cut it. Hope this gave you some ideas.
I got lucky on my first date, which happened to be at the movies. Got to about half way through Avatar sat at the back row, she spilled some popcorn over between my legs, and sweet jesus, she didn't even come up for air, paranoid at first that someone would see what was going on but got to the point of no return where you don't give f#!k. Bloody good film that Avatar 😉👍🏼
It's annoying how alcohol is the "social drink", as a uni student I feel like my dislike of getting wasted and destroying my liver sometimes holds me back in social settings 😂
I never went through a "chasing girls" stage. I feel like I am the odd man out on that one, or maybe I just figured it out sooner than most. I will have to give credit to a restaurant owner I met when I was like 14, so right before you would be wanting to "chase chicks" or "cold approach" or whatever... This is what he told me... "You know Jonathan, I found something out a long time ago that made me change how I approach the girl situation. I discovered that, if you want a certain kind of chick, just work on being the absolute best version of yourself, and the kind of girls you want, will show up and maybe even approach you!" I took that to heart and have never really had an issue. #my2cents
I worked on myself hard and attracted a lot of women, my dream girls and girls I would’ve never imagined being attracted to me. Although I was attractive I had zero game and zero confidence to approach a girl. I was super nervous to talk to them despite them clearly giving me heavy signs. I don’t think men should obsess over dating but flirting with girls and working on game is very important.
Super solid advice. I wish I'd heard more of this in my teens before turning into a cringey weirdo after ten years of avoiding female interaction and letting all of my social skills die. Beta to the max..
I talk to girls like i'd do with any cool guy i meet at a party or whatever, with a few advances here and there thrown in because its a girl. While that might not cause the biggest romantic or sexual interest in her towards me, it definetely makes her feel comfortable in my presence and she'll have a good time. And if shes attracted to me physically then thats all i need honestly. I use that as a basis and adjust from there
Thanks Derek. Last year or so I remember I asked this girl out at work, she said yeah and we went to the movies. I reached for her hand casually which killed the mood cause like you said the communication barrier wasn't broken down at that point, not sure what I was thinking but after your advice it helps me put what I did wrong into perspective. oddly enough her sister wanted me but she wasnt what I was looking for at the time. I think coffee is easy and casual.
100% agree. Something like just driving around & grabbing coffees & just talking is a great "first date". Simple & effective. That or maybe going into somewhere more peaceful or quiet like a coffee shop or a quieter bar/lounge area (like he says here). I usually do one or the other and works great!
I recently had a good first date at Starbucks, no alcohol as she was 19, spent like $10 and got over an hour of good convo. There was some genuine back and forth, but there were luls where I did have open ended questions to spice it back up like ‘what’d you do if you won 500 Million?’ I save movie for 2nd or 3rd date if i really like them
You should review German soccer player Leon Goretzka. He seemingly gained 20lbs on muscle in 5 months. His transformation is seemingly too good. Might be an interesting video. He plays for Bayern Munich and has gone through quite the change.
Every time I get a notification bell from MPMD, im stoked. Thanks for the consistently great content and for keeping ur word on wanting to go back to how ur content started, with a broad approach to self improvement. Much love.
In my experiences taking a nice stroll downtown, talking/cracking some witty jokes, and visiting some nice locales works great for a first meet up. You break the ice and get a real feel for each other. (I've really never explicitly call them "dates")
Great advice bro! I always had a feeling the movie is bad idea I was like how the hell are you going to communicate with the girl and build a foundation same goes for clubs or bars with loud music.
high school gym teacher taught us in class as part of his curriculum to always take them bowling. Forces conversation unlike a movie, but it's not static and awkward like a dinner or lunch can be because you have something to do and laugh about **Edit** : You have to already be confident and smooth and not fucking retarded to make this work lmao. You have to already be able to lead a chick and lead a conversation and be gregarious enough so it doesn't induce suicide after you crash and burn
Solid advice. Been gaming for some years now. My thing is what on earth are guy's doing now during social distancing. I'm over the dating apps. Been trying to game again daily but a lot of women have masks on. Making approaching and conversation very difficult. Im out in NYC, so it's definitely a different vibe here. Still gonna find a way to overcome this obstacle, but it definitely ain't easy.
I’d rather get how a girl acts at the movies out of the way first thing. If she looks at her phone, talks, chews loud, etc. it’s just not gonna work out.
Only time that shit happened to me was when my fiancee and I went to see The Hateful Eight (the Quentin Tarantino movie), she used her phone on and off all movie, which pissed me off, as I've never done that in the theater. Her defense was that she didn't want to see it to begin with and was bored. That was the only time she did that though (and we were already engaged at this time, so I wasn't going to leave her over it)
Hey Derrick great vid, when you were talking about injectable L Carnitine and you said it's much more bio available than oral because oral comes in lower dosages, I was wondering since I saw 500mg tables of L carnitine on myprotein, would they have the same effect as injecting 500mg into your glute?
My favorite pre covoid date was playing 9 ball pool, it's like showing a girl how to play golf, worked 10/10 times when I was 17 (I turned 18 at the start of covoid)
So I’m a 16 year old bodybuilder and it sucks for me because I get called disgusting by many women for “changing my body at such a young age” so I stopped talking to women for a while and now no girl wants me :(
How huge are you bro? Most women want somebody who takes care of them self. If you’re huge you may just need a woman who really appreciates physical fitness and understands the commitment. At 16 though I can’t imagine you being that hulkish but I could be wrong. Every woman is different, maybe just work on having other things they can relate to. Good luck man.
don't listen to them fit version of you will always be better than fat version of you. I had girl i was dating me at the time tell me she doesn't care about muscle but at the same time she was running her hand up and down my arm. best piece of advice I've ever got was to never listen to what a woman says but to pay attention to what she does.
Dude solid advice in this vid. One thing that helped me get out of interview mode was slowing my speech and movements way down like slow mo, and making statements. It’d be like statement, statement, question format. It could be anything said with conviction. “Ah that bar is really cool right there, has a great beer selection. Yeah...I love this part of town... very seedy, everyone has tattoos and gets a little wild. (Eye her up and down) do you have any tattoos by the way? (;< [wry smile]” you get the idea
Hey Derek. The other day (Monday) I was at the gym and this bad chick was there. I went up to her introduce my self. Has a smooth conversation. So before I left I asked her “Lemme get your #”. She said you can have my IG. I said “Nah I don’t use IG to much” so she gave me her #. I texted her the next day “ Hey this is so and so, I’m training chest on Thursday. Come with me if you’re free, it’s gonna be hella fun and painful”. She replied saying “ I’m down what time you planning to be there”. I told her the time and she said “sounds good”. I didn’t text her after that The Whole day. Next day she texted me me saying “Hey I won’t be able to workout with you Thursday, sorry” i texted her saying “Alright, all good let me know when your availability opens up”. #1 I didn’t exchange # and got her ( my mistake) Why did she cancel on me. Where did I mess up?
You had no chance with her, she wanted to give you her insta just to gain one more follower. She gave you her number because she didn't have the guts to say "no" and responded you back just to be "polite" She had no interest at all in meeting you again.
Pre COVID: Tbh what I used to do is pick a very bad movie and it didn’t just came out. And the theater would be empty or with just like 2 people. And in their we could make fun of how bad the movie is and also have some good conversations. I promise that makes a more memorable time
And the bad movie can help restart the conversation when u run out of things to talk about. And remember that if she like u she will also make the conversation go good
Hey Derek, do u do video/phone Consultations to interpret bloodwork for people that are on PEDs? I'd be happy to pay whatever is required for the service
I used to think movie dates were good when I was in high school and just after because it was like exposure therapy. I could sit next to the girl for 2 hours and finally calm my nerves down and then after I could be like "oh what did you think of the plot of that movie?" because I was that much of a shit conversationalist. Like Derek says I treated it like an interview instead of convo with a friend. When I finally started relaxing and just trying to have a fun convo it just clicked
So many things in life just boil down to "throw yourself in the fire, it's the only way you're gonna grow"...If I ever have a kid I'll make sure those are his first words. You can't go wrong if you do that...unless you take it too literally
The biggest mistake on a first date is not having death star delts.
That too
Coach Greg says abs are most important aesthetically, would you say shoulders are more important overall?
@@Infantrymarine0311 Coach Greg only gives Abs the edge when its about one bodypart only. I think he will agree that shoulders with flat stomach are much better than sixpack with narrow shoulders.
@@Infantrymarine0311 yes. Shoulders really contribute to width and roundness of your physique. It takes character to build up delts; it's a manly muscle if you will. Abs are mostly just a matter of getting lean enough. Even Greg doesn't train them directly.
@jesse I definitely agree that you should train shoulders waaaay more than abs, considering many people don’t have to train abs, just like you said. I meant if a guy shows up to a date, would the girl rather him have abs or him doing the dirty bulk with big shoulders. 🤣
Imagine having derek as your older brother
Life with Derek!
Underrated comment. 👍
He kind of is
He is very down to earth unlike other "red pilled" dudes, I like him
He is an older brother figure
Derek's attitude towards getting chicks is somewhere between a side-gig and planning a heist.
Hahahahaha true 😂
Derek plays chess in his mind when he is in the club.
Thats cause he’s a nerd. I mean that in a good way
How will she see my muscle definition in such bad lighting.
lmao
lol I have thought of this aswell
how will she see my muscle definition when i don’t have any
@@logogaming7112 low fat percentage is the answer.
mistake number 1: you're a a beta male who doesn't have deltoids that look like boulders. Keep up the good work bro love ur vids
That's the dream
Mistake number 1: you're unattractive. Lol
Crazy thing is I’m taking a girl to the beach for free following your tips already 😂
You're a beta male if you need roids to get big
@@basicbodybuilding You do need roids to get that big...
From gear talk to men talk what doesn't this guy know
I'm not a good elevator mechanic
@@MorePlatesMoreDates shit I was about to hit you up for my elevator
@@MorePlatesMoreDates Yeah but ive watched enough videos to know that you know a guy who is and isn't motivated to start his own business.
More Plates More Dates *unsubbed.*
More Plates More Dates a comedian as well apparently!! This guy knows it all
If the girl messes with the algorithm, drop her
Derek, you are like the older brother who is 5-6 years older and full of worldly wisdom that i never had
Wait it's all delts???
Always has been
Hello yellow dog !
Lol watching a lot of PewDiePie I reckon
Yeah I got that WAP
Winstrol
Anavar
Primobolan
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lol yeah the first date I ever went on was to the movies when I was in middle school. Worst place ever. The only time we talked was during the 5 minutes of getting popcorn and during the whole movie I was super nervous in my head thinking about what I was gonna talk about when the movie was over. We didn’t talk much lol. The whole experience was just awkward. One of those memories you look back and laugh on though.
Man says "having a relationship and having them in my rotation" 😂😂
🤣yeah
29-1
More plates = more dates, its that simple.
It‘s like the laws of thermodynamics
When I hear the channel name I always picture dinner plates and actual dates lmaooo
Really sad that some men actually think that's true. Reminds me of how insecure anorexic girls think.
@@theangrycheeto it’s true to a extent if you’re a semi muscular guy who’s lean you pull more girls simple as that😂
@@jackthomson4043 Depends on the girl. There are a thousand things women look for in a guy and a thousand women will give you a thousand different answers to what they look for and you guys have zeroed in on this one thing like whatever you say, man.
But what if we're watching an adult movie? 😁
that's some taxi driver shit right there
Netflix & chill though
@@greveeen Yeah Buddy!
@@glennicholas3265 ain't nothing but a peanut
Watch the movie Taxi Driver and see how effective going to an adult movie would be. 😂
The algorithm never had a chance
Derek the best elder brother I never had! Also an alpha alpha Chad.
this channel is covering all the topics (cheers from Brasil Derek)
Im in a year and half long relationship and still watching this video
Death star delt squad
I'm in a 3 year long relationship and looking for the door
When I was a kid my go to place for a ‘first date’ was walking around this small national park area that had plenty of beautiful trails. If I liked the girl enough there was a cabin that served drinks/coffee where we could go for a little while longer and it was always fairly quiet and the walk gave me more conversational flow at the beginning so in the cabin it was easier to connect more intimately face to face. This was also handy as I wasn’t old enough to drive (uk resident)
I want to take this girl out to do hiking bc I know she likes it but I'm worried girls won't want to do a hiking first date with a guy bc he could be a creepy mofo who wants to get her alone
@@guybien4621 if you know she likes hiking there must be some trails she’s already explored. Tell her you would love to go on one of her favourites and hopefully she gets the hint and offers to take you, that way you’ve circumvented the possible creepy feeling as she will be somewhere she knows well and it almost comes across as her idea. Failing that perhaps offer to go to a public park area first, somewhere you know dog walkers will be, if there’s people around it will probably comfort her to a degree, then if all is going great in the middle of the date tell her you want to go hiking with her as public parks just don’t quite cut it. Hope this gave you some ideas.
After the Adama Traore analysis to this. Dude tou are becoming one of my fav youtubers. Keep sharing your knowledge bro.
I got lucky on my first date, which happened to be at the movies. Got to about half way through Avatar sat at the back row, she spilled some popcorn over between my legs, and sweet jesus, she didn't even come up for air, paranoid at first that someone would see what was going on but got to the point of no return where you don't give f#!k. Bloody good film that Avatar 😉👍🏼
OMFG never have I laughed so hard over a TH-cam comment 😂😂😂
100% something that didn’t happen lol
LOL my man
Nice LARP
Lol
It's annoying how alcohol is the "social drink", as a uni student I feel like my dislike of getting wasted and destroying my liver sometimes holds me back in social settings 😂
@hufta that's actually really interesting thanks man!
@hufta I love you
Dude people get drunk every week for years and are fine. I do get it if you don't want to get hang overs tho
Getting drunk EVER isnt fine. Stop promoting this stupid shit to younger dudes.
@@fotisnikolaidis2313 true man im 21 and never had a beer in my life
this is facts, i remember my first girlfriend and I went to the movies on one of our first dates, It was awkward af
I actually think a movie first date is fine if you get dinner or lunch before or after the movie
How tf did I just find out you're Canadian
My favorite first date is to go to couples counseling and see how long it takes then to realize we don’t know each other
We need more red pilled content bro!
I take plates to the same restaurant. I tip the same server every time. He acts extremely cordial and he knows what I am doing. We both benefit.
Is he red?
Check out patrice o neal for red pill content dude was ahead of his time
hh aa facts. Rest in peace
How is this considered REDPILLED? Not that it's bad tho
Just asked a girl out yesterday thanks for the advice mate 🤙🏻
how'd it go?
Alt Title: “How to add more girls to your regular rotation”
loving the more dates part of your channel rn
Arrive at the movies and be like: DID YOU SEE THE FIGHT OUTSIDE?
Hahahahaha
or take her to the movie that Matador was in
we all saw that video
Hey derek, i was wondering if you were planning on making new gorilla mind products, such as protein powder, multivitamins, clothes, etc.
Lots of new products in the works my man.
I never went through a "chasing girls" stage. I feel like I am the odd man out on that one, or maybe I just figured it out sooner than most. I will have to give credit to a restaurant owner I met when I was like 14, so right before you would be wanting to "chase chicks" or "cold approach" or whatever... This is what he told me...
"You know Jonathan, I found something out a long time ago that made me change how I approach the girl situation. I discovered that, if you want a certain kind of chick, just work on being the absolute best version of yourself, and the kind of girls you want, will show up and maybe even approach you!"
I took that to heart and have never really had an issue. #my2cents
That's dope and true!
Mike Thurston's cousin?
I worked on myself hard and attracted a lot of women, my dream girls and girls I would’ve never imagined being attracted to me. Although I was attractive I had zero game and zero confidence to approach a girl. I was super nervous to talk to them despite them clearly giving me heavy signs. I don’t think men should obsess over dating but flirting with girls and working on game is very important.
This shit works for sales as well. These are helping me get over the anxiety of cold calling.
Super solid advice. I wish I'd heard more of this in my teens before turning into a cringey weirdo after ten years of avoiding female interaction and letting all of my social skills die. Beta to the max..
Don‘t be so hard on yourself man
Definitely one of my favourite channels, tons of valuable information covering various different topics. Good shit Derek!
More dating stuff Derek
Dude deserves to have a huge channel lets go alg
I talk to girls like i'd do with any cool guy i meet at a party or whatever, with a few advances here and there thrown in because its a girl. While that might not cause the biggest romantic or sexual interest in her towards me, it definetely makes her feel comfortable in my presence and she'll have a good time. And if shes attracted to me physically then thats all i need honestly. I use that as a basis and adjust from there
If you live near a beach then beach dates where you just walk around talking is always a good idea in my opinion
Thanks Derek. Last year or so I remember I asked this girl out at work, she said yeah and we went to the movies. I reached for her hand casually which killed the mood cause like you said the communication barrier wasn't broken down at that point, not sure what I was thinking but after your advice it helps me put what I did wrong into perspective. oddly enough her sister wanted me but she wasnt what I was looking for at the time. I think coffee is easy and casual.
Do a video on pickup in COVID-era pls, i.e where everyone is wearing masks and told by the gov to stay 6 feet away from others
100% agree. Something like just driving around & grabbing coffees & just talking is a great "first date". Simple & effective. That or maybe going into somewhere more peaceful or quiet like a coffee shop or a quieter bar/lounge area (like he says here). I usually do one or the other and works great!
I recently had a good first date at Starbucks, no alcohol as she was 19, spent like $10 and got over an hour of good convo. There was some genuine back and forth, but there were luls where I did have open ended questions to spice it back up like ‘what’d you do if you won 500 Million?’
I save movie for 2nd or 3rd date if i really like them
Derek next big dating coach who actually lifts brah
lol literally did this for a first date when I was 17....wish I knew about you five years ago.
i am 17 and have done this last week lmao first ever date too
You should review German soccer player Leon Goretzka. He seemingly gained 20lbs on muscle in 5 months. His transformation is seemingly too good. Might be an interesting video. He plays for Bayern Munich and has gone through quite the change.
nearly a year old comment but still, he also seems to have less hair now and he's only 25-26 years old
Never understood people who like going to the movies as a first date,i guess this makes sense
Is Starbucks a bad idea? If she gets up and leave then I'll have more options there!
Every time I get a notification bell from MPMD, im stoked. Thanks for the consistently great content and for keeping ur word on wanting to go back to how ur content started, with a broad approach to self improvement. Much love.
Movies was my go to as a teenager. Always worked out fine for me. My first job was at the movies so free dates...but no free plates.
Absolutely love the balance between plates and dates 💪
In my experiences taking a nice stroll downtown, talking/cracking some witty jokes, and visiting some nice locales works great for a first meet up. You break the ice and get a real feel for each other. (I've really never explicitly call them "dates")
Great advice bro! I always had a feeling the movie is bad idea I was like how the hell are you going to communicate with the girl and build a foundation same goes for clubs or bars with loud music.
high school gym teacher taught us in class as part of his curriculum to always take them bowling. Forces conversation unlike a movie, but it's not static and awkward like a dinner or lunch can be because you have something to do and laugh about
**Edit** : You have to already be confident and smooth and not fucking retarded to make this work lmao. You have to already be able to lead a chick and lead a conversation and be gregarious enough so it doesn't induce suicide after you crash and burn
hey i didnt think of bowling haha this is good advice!! anything else? I dont like drinking :( so something social like bowling would be cool!
I took the girl I’m talking to golfing it was fun as hell and the golf cart was a huge bonus
Leaving a comment for our boy god send derrick
I like to imagine Derek is my father and he's giving me advice on how fitness and girls.
The big brother we all wish we have.
Awwwww shit girl!! You’re at the mall buying Greek yogurt too?!?
Best channel hands down on YT. All the advice a man needs!
Solid advice. Been gaming for some years now. My thing is what on earth are guy's doing now during social distancing. I'm over the dating apps. Been trying to game again daily but a lot of women have masks on. Making approaching and conversation very difficult. Im out in NYC, so it's definitely a different vibe here. Still gonna find a way to overcome this obstacle, but it definitely ain't easy.
Get Death Star delts to make chicks hearts’ melt 🥰🤠
Yo Dereck, not to be annoying but when can we expect to see Gorilla Mind inventory restocked?
+1 ive been checking the past 4 weeks. Always out of stock. Help a bruddah out bra
I’d rather get how a girl acts at the movies out of the way first thing. If she looks at her phone, talks, chews loud, etc. it’s just not gonna work out.
Only time that shit happened to me was when my fiancee and I went to see The Hateful Eight (the Quentin Tarantino movie), she used her phone on and off all movie, which pissed me off, as I've never done that in the theater. Her defense was that she didn't want to see it to begin with and was bored. That was the only time she did that though (and we were already engaged at this time, so I wasn't going to leave her over it)
Can’t talk in a movie bad first date solid date if you’ve been with the girl awhile. MPMD💪
Why is good advice always the hardest to take.
Hey Derek , this was great. Can you make more of these kinds of videos (dating, "pick-up", relationships, etc.) Gracias.
Hey Derrick great vid, when you were talking about injectable L Carnitine and you said it's much more bio available than oral because oral comes in lower dosages, I was wondering since I saw 500mg tables of L carnitine on myprotein, would they have the same effect as injecting 500mg into your glute?
If you ingested 4000 mg of it orally then ya, but then you also deal with all the TMAO.
@@MorePlatesMoreDates so 4000mg orally is the equivalent to 500mg injected??
@@yetispaghetti8235 Ball park.
Okay thanks a lot I appreciate you taking the time to reply, keep up the good stuff
Derek I love your channel because of how much you cover. It really keeps your videos fresh because I don't know what to expect.
The legend have spoken again!
First mistake is not using the word supraphysiological in your cold approach / DM.
I like this kind of Derek
Make this into a series
Derek bro this video was both very practical and very entertaining I genuinely laughed out loud at parts, keep up the great content !
My favorite pre covoid date was playing 9 ball pool, it's like showing a girl how to play golf, worked 10/10 times when I was 17 (I turned 18 at the start of covoid)
Works best when you win and then show them how to play and loose kinda on purpose
Thank you Derek. Please post more related to dating.🙏
MPMD is outstanding, best topics/knowledge on TH-cam
This vid made me have flashbacks of my cringe dating lifestyle at 19 hahaha
Honestly im just happy i can enjoy your content ... its so informative in every way thanks 4 posting
I always use the ole "want some popcorn trick" during movie dates.
Derek, you’re an absolute tank thanks so much for the advise
He was so stuck on the fact that you can't order alcohol if you're in Highschool in the States...
Does he know what coffee is? Loll
Here to smash the algorithm
So I’m a 16 year old bodybuilder and it sucks for me because I get called disgusting by many women for “changing my body at such a young age” so I stopped talking to women for a while and now no girl wants me :(
Damn that sucks, well I hope you fight the right coconut someday.
Man don’t feel bad, same to me but keep your head up bro and one day you’ll meet a girl that likes you just the way you are.
How huge are you bro? Most women want somebody who takes care of them self. If you’re huge you may just need a woman who really appreciates physical fitness and understands the commitment. At 16 though I can’t imagine you being that hulkish but I could be wrong. Every woman is different, maybe just work on having other things they can relate to. Good luck man.
Think of it this way. It's good that those girls are not attracted to you cause they don't sound very nice.
don't listen to them fit version of you will always be better than fat version of you. I had girl i was dating me at the time tell me she doesn't care about muscle but at the same time she was running her hand up and down my arm. best piece of advice I've ever got was to never listen to what a woman says but to pay attention to what she does.
Dude solid advice in this vid. One thing that helped me get out of interview mode was slowing my speech and movements way down like slow mo, and making statements. It’d be like statement, statement, question format. It could be anything said with conviction. “Ah that bar is really cool right there, has a great beer selection. Yeah...I love this part of town... very seedy, everyone has tattoos and gets a little wild. (Eye her up and down) do you have any tattoos by the way? (;< [wry smile]” you get the idea
More plates more bubble tea’s 😂
Thanks mang. Need to start this phase of life. Really needed this vid
More content like this would be GAS
Video on how to actually get the number? when to ask for it etc.
Hey Derek. The other day (Monday) I was at the gym and this bad chick was there. I went up to her introduce my self. Has a smooth conversation. So before I left I asked her “Lemme get your #”. She said you can have my IG. I said “Nah I don’t use IG to much” so she gave me her #. I texted her the next day “ Hey this is so and so, I’m training chest on Thursday. Come with me if you’re free, it’s gonna be hella fun and painful”. She replied saying “ I’m down what time you planning to be there”. I told her the time and she said “sounds good”. I didn’t text her after that The Whole day. Next day she texted me me saying “Hey I won’t be able to workout with you Thursday, sorry” i texted her saying “Alright, all good let me know when your availability opens up”.
#1 I didn’t exchange # and got her ( my mistake)
Why did she cancel on me. Where did I mess up?
You had no chance with her, she wanted to give you her insta just to gain one more follower. She gave you her number because she didn't have the guts to say "no" and responded you back just to be "polite"
She had no interest at all in meeting you again.
i think you were too forward by calling her the very next day makes you seem thirsty. you did the right thing by asking for no. instead of her insta.
Pre COVID: Tbh what I used to do is pick a very bad movie and it didn’t just came out. And the theater would be empty or with just like 2 people. And in their we could make fun of how bad the movie is and also have some good conversations. I promise that makes a more memorable time
And the bad movie can help restart the conversation when u run out of things to talk about. And remember that if she like u she will also make the conversation go good
Hey Derek, do u do video/phone Consultations to interpret bloodwork for people that are on PEDs? I'd be happy to pay whatever is required for the service
I think he does consultations
Love your videos big guy, but anyone that tells you that shirt is ok is not your friend.
I'll tell Guzman
God that "interview mode" is so freaking true. And then I wondered why I ran out of things to say, sheeesh.
I used to think movie dates were good when I was in high school and just after because it was like exposure therapy. I could sit next to the girl for 2 hours and finally calm my nerves down and then after I could be like "oh what did you think of the plot of that movie?" because I was that much of a shit conversationalist. Like Derek says I treated it like an interview instead of convo with a friend. When I finally started relaxing and just trying to have a fun convo it just clicked
Derek we love you bruhhh but you gotta give your little sister her shirt back 😂😂😂
Huge introvert here, thanks
I think a concert or music event is a good one for me.
So many things in life just boil down to "throw yourself in the fire, it's the only way you're gonna grow"...If I ever have a kid I'll make sure those are his first words. You can't go wrong if you do that...unless you take it too literally
What's another viable option right now to cold approaching? because no one is out on the streets these days