I don’t know what it is, but I really feel like you’ve found yourself in terms of ASMR during this lockdown. Your content was good before, but post-lockdown it’s just exquisite.
You’ve got 70.3k follows, who like you for your personality (and mad ASMR skills) so have some confidence!! Don’t feel embarrassed by things you like, link your instagram, talk about beekeeping/honey making!! Be unapologetically you ☺️
Helpful hints: You have a couple of photos where you are not the center, granted it's good to have photos where you're with friends, if you're on the far side of the photo people will presume you're one of your friends. Change your main photo you have on Tinder to one that is of you alone, you're far more attractive in your thumbnails and in your videos than in some of these group photos. Love your ASMR and by no means did I say this as an insult.
The word Microcosm is such an underused word. I had a mad anxiety attack at like the early hours of the morning. This real helped to distract me and calm me back down. Thank you x
When people have more than one person in their first picture I actually think it does the opposite of what you're hoping: many probably see that and swipe no
Group photos almost always backfire, especially if you arent the focus. Also some photos of everyday clothes are good too. For the profile be honest and dont put what you think people want you to put. Confidence is #1. Good asmr tho 🔥
From a female perspective your pictures are driving me crazy! Pictures with other people and mirror selfies are like the biggest no-no’s haha. You must have so many other lovely photos you could use and I’m sure you’d get loads of matches 😊
- do a (solo) photo-shotting, even if it takes you 6h to do, it will be worth it in the end (trust me) - at least tell you have a youtube channel t_t That's like your biggest argument - put ' (bee-keeping) ' or something like that after skiing, should do the trick - Maybe less jokes (not what you should aim for in every convo) ; Could suggest more actions since you live nearby? At least it's more efficient GL to guys checking comments, i don't do this kind of stuff but i guess i might enlighten somes (i hope !!!)
I'm like 99% sure group photos on dating apps is dating suicide? Or at least lead with a solo photo and put the group ones after? (I'm saying this out of love because I only want the best for you haha)
Personally - if a dude have mates as their first photo I’m gonna swipe left, i can’t be bothered/don’t want to compare you to your friends straight away. If you have a cute/lovely (non-posey) photo of yourself and then your mates 👌🏻 but like other ppl might be different. Love the meme 😂
I hate it when people over think a tinder profile. Surely if you care so much you would look though the profile. Literally. Don't judge a book by its cover. Don't judge a profile by its first pic xD
Wait what your from carilse I am from longtown 5 mins from carilse I never new you were from carilse wached you for 2 years now and fort you were from London or some it wtf lol that’s mad 😂👍🏻
That stache would be a huge turn off for me but you do you, kind of gives you character. And your profile pic does not serve you you look much better irl
Ben doesn’t need to say a word to the ladies, the ‘stache does all the talking for him 😏
Facts
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I don’t know what it is, but I really feel like you’ve found yourself in terms of ASMR during this lockdown. Your content was good before, but post-lockdown it’s just exquisite.
Eyyy thanks man!!
Agreed
You’ve got 70.3k follows, who like you for your personality (and mad ASMR skills) so have some confidence!! Don’t feel embarrassed by things you like, link your instagram, talk about beekeeping/honey making!! Be unapologetically you ☺️
Thanks Lucy!!
Who wouldn’t swipe right on Ben? Fools, that’s who!
Helpful hints: You have a couple of photos where you are not the center, granted it's good to have photos where you're with friends, if you're on the far side of the photo people will presume you're one of your friends. Change your main photo you have on Tinder to one that is of you alone, you're far more attractive in your thumbnails and in your videos than in some of these group photos. Love your ASMR and by no means did I say this as an insult.
I'm taking a dump while watching this video ;P
isn't the #1 Tinder rule to not have a group shot as your first pic? whenever I see that I just swipe no
Me too! 😭
The word Microcosm is such an underused word. I had a mad anxiety attack at like the early hours of the morning. This real helped to distract me and calm me back down. Thank you x
When we started doing the eye catching thing with the camera that deserves to be a video in itself
When people have more than one person in their first picture I actually think it does the opposite of what you're hoping: many probably see that and swipe no
30seconds and already know it’s gonna be a banger from Ben
Saw the title, Instantly clicked out of curiosity lmao
I think a honey-themed line would be a good way to implement beekeeping in your bio.
Group photos almost always backfire, especially if you arent the focus. Also some photos of everyday clothes are good too. For the profile be honest and dont put what you think people want you to put. Confidence is #1. Good asmr tho 🔥
From a female perspective your pictures are driving me crazy! Pictures with other people and mirror selfies are like the biggest no-no’s haha. You must have so many other lovely photos you could use and I’m sure you’d get loads of matches 😊
Mirror selfies are fine as long as they’re not with a toilet seat in the background.
Take the Michael Scott approach, change your name to "Little Kid Lover"
- do a (solo) photo-shotting, even if it takes you 6h to do, it will be worth it in the end (trust me)
- at least tell you have a youtube channel t_t That's like your biggest argument
- put ' (bee-keeping) ' or something like that after skiing, should do the trick
- Maybe less jokes (not what you should aim for in every convo) ; Could suggest more actions since you live nearby? At least it's more efficient
GL to guys checking comments, i don't do this kind of stuff but i guess i might enlighten somes (i hope !!!)
Yes to this type of content.
I'm like 99% sure group photos on dating apps is dating suicide? Or at least lead with a solo photo and put the group ones after? (I'm saying this out of love because I only want the best for you haha)
It is, I don't usually swipe ppl that have loads of group photos 😂😭
You’re the cutest thing ever 🥺
Lmao, you’re so cute! 😂 you def should post stuff about bee keeping!!
ive never enjoyed a asmr more nice and relaxed with a couple laughs
He is simply a rare person,
So normal also so mysterious
🍦🍦🍦🍦🍦🍦🍦🍦🍦🍦🍦🍦🍦
Definitely on Grinder though judging by that mustache
I wish 😂
The Bee keeping makes me think of that one Rick and Morty bit 😂😂😂
22:12 didn’t know I was watching Netflix
Ben's future kids are going to love this video...😂
It’s the mustache for me
ASMR Partridge has directly quoted Partridge
I feel like most matches I’ve had on Tinder have been weirdos 😂.... it’s rare when someone on there isn’t there there to bust cheeks 😂🤣
Where did you get your phone case?
He’s like the Max Fosh of ASMR
Another brilliant video mate!! Keep up the good work 👏
Thanks Luke! Haha
Yoo i mentioned this in the Q&A and you came thru ✊😂 . Good looks Ben!
Was wondering if you’d played Red Dead 2 yet. Would love to see a video on that.
How much did going to japan cost you, and for how long did you go?
your TH-cam profile pic would be a great pic to have up too ben as your main pic on tinder or whatever the one people see when they are swiping
you're so funny ben thanks for this video lol, feeling entertained AND relaxed x
Ben is an ABSOLUTE CHAD.
Still coming back for the old vids on non Wednesdays and sundays
My guy!
My holiday in Pooley Bridge is good, apart from the Storms. You heard em mate, it’s maaad 😂
if you don't match when you swipe right they might just have not seen your profile yet!
Ben: Carlisle is the largest city in England by land mass.
Me: Mmm, tell me more 😏
Ben you can’t put your profile picture of you and your mates you should gave it as just you
Cockapoos’ are the superior breed of dog
I love how you say ameriacarono
oooh Ben 😄
I decided to start using Tinder then the quarantine lockdown hit 😅
yes to the alan partridge reference haha!
Ahaaaaaa
Your great as always 👌
I love me some relaxotainment!
I can confidently say that 11:00am ASMR videos hit different
Madness of Crowds by Douglas Murray... Ben has been red pilled. Nice ;)
Currently listening to the audiobook!
That bio was quite possibly the worst thing I've ever seen🤣
Wait we haven’t gotten the AshoeMR 2 >:( plz gimme
It has been uploaded for 2 months
i would swipe right 🏃♀️🏃♀️
Beer ramble soon? Missing those fuzzy sounds
Long time no see cup asmr ⛾
Personally - if a dude have mates as their first photo I’m gonna swipe left, i can’t be bothered/don’t want to compare you to your friends straight away. If you have a cute/lovely (non-posey) photo of yourself and then your mates 👌🏻 but like other ppl might be different. Love the meme 😂
I hate the people who only have photos with their mates so you’re there asking which one they are 😂
I hate it when people over think a tinder profile. Surely if you care so much you would look though the profile. Literally. Don't judge a book by its cover.
Don't judge a profile by its first pic xD
Banging anthem like
your a good lookin lad ben you'll find the one don't worry :)
I have 840 matches and I'm still single lmao
You need to put only a picture of yourself . It’s weird that you would have your friends on there
Bro’s come first.
he knows what the people want
Yes Haileeee 👌🏼
Can’t stop laughing lol
You were a cutie when you were younger but look better as you have aged :)
That is hot!
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(the decaf amerricarno, as usual)
It sucks being banned on tinder for life ;(
Damn bro what’d you do lol
You similar 🐧
Aw what is he haha you da man bro
I'd definitely swipe right on you 💯
What is he? 😂
Just up your location to Newcastle and age to 27 and I’ll be waiting 😂🤷🏻♀️
Wait what your from carilse I am from longtown 5 mins from carilse I never new you were from carilse wached you for 2 years now and fort you were from London or some it wtf lol that’s mad 😂👍🏻
Small world bro! Hha
*Interesting video! Good sound))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))*
I had 900 odd matches & my account got banned I still don’t know why maybe it was because I didn’t confirm my email address
I would swipe 💚 on you. Oh gosh does that sound 🌽 y? Hope not. Just being honest. 😊
Not the time nor place for this
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Who asked champ
What you ona boutttt
That stache would be a huge turn off for me but you do you, kind of gives you character. And your profile pic does not serve you you look much better irl
I like it, but I agree I think he looks much better irl
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